Oh, to be loved by a calm person — someone who communicates with care, listens without judgment, speaks in a gentle voice, and holds the kind of patience that makes you feel safe, seen and free to be your true self. 🖤

Value and love yourself

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Train up a child in the right way and when he grows he will not depart from it

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Modern Marriages Collapse Faster—Because They Come Late Written by Enety Tazvivinga Let’s talk about what nobody wants to admit: The later a woman marries, the harder she is to build with. Because while the world praises “maturity” and “independence,” real men know: You don’t marry potential at its expiration date. Let’s break it down: — 1. Youth Means Flexibility—Age Means Resistance A young woman comes into marriage fluid. She’s teachable. She’s open. She adapts. Not because she’s weak— But because she hasn’t been hardened by life yet. At 19, she learns through love. At 29, she only learns through trauma. By 30? She’s no longer learning. She’s negotiating. And now every instruction feels like control. Every correction sounds like oppression. Every standard gets labeled as “toxic.” You can’t lead someone who thinks they’ve already arrived. — 2. Early Marriage Protects Fertility—And Your Future Bloodline Science doesn’t lie. The earlier she conceives, the healthier her eggs. The lower the risk of miscarriage, ADHD, and birth complications. You don’t hear this in the media. But even sperm damage can be offset by young, healthy eggs. She’s not just your wife. She’s the gatekeeper of your legacy. And age is not kind to the gate. — 3. She’s Not Bringing a Clean Slate—She’s Bringing a Resume of Regret By 30, most modern women have: – 12+ exes – 5+ heartbreaks – 3 years of therapy – A list of emotional triggers – A soul tired of trusting men – A past funded by men better than you—and worse Now you walk in as the cleanup crew. You marry her leftovers. You inherit a wounded soul packaged in soft glam. And no matter how loving you are? She can’t bond with you. Because her heart is still haunted. — 4. She Wasn’t Picked—She Settled When a woman marries young, she does so at her peak. She was wanted. Chosen. Desirable. And she sacrificed from the top of her value. But when she marries late? It’s not out of abundance. It’s out of fatigue. She’s not submitting. She’s surrendering—because the streets stopped calling back. And now you, the “good man,” become her retirement plan. Not her reward. — 5. She’s Not Building With You—She’s Billing You From Day One She doesn’t know your story. Didn’t sacrifice in your grind. Doesn’t understand your foundation. But she demands protection… Provision… And prenup-free access to your life’s work. She’s not entering a partnership. She’s entering an inheritance. And if it collapses? She takes half—and posts about "reclaiming her peace." — 6. Her History Is a Mystery—And You Pay the Price Modern men are signing prenups not out of paranoia— But survival. You’re not marrying a blank page. You’re marrying a woman with: – Untold trauma – Invisible scars – High expectations – No endurance – And a legal system behind her You can’t vet 15 years of dating history. You’re walking into a maze with no map. And when she taps out? You get taxed for trusting too late. — 7. When a Woman Marries Too Late—She’s Already Emotionally Retired You can’t spark loyalty in someone who’s seen too much. You can’t teach femininity to a woman who wore masculinity for 12 years. You can’t start fresh with someone whose past is a landfill of emotional damage. Late marriage turns relationships into negotiations. Not commitment. Not sacrifice. Just trade-offs. She gives you what’s left. Then sets an exit strategy. And you? You’re just the landing pad. — Final Word: You Can’t Build a Kingdom on Expired Foundations This is not hate. It’s a warning. Marry early. Build while she's moldable. Invest in someone who grows with you—not someone who's tired of failing elsewhere. Because when you marry late? You're not starting life. You're inheriting her debt—emotional, financial, and spiritual. And when she finally leaves? She won’t feel guilt. She’ll feel justified. Because her happiness was always the goal. Not your legacy. ©️

Troops from the 22nd Armoured Brigade, stationed at the Forward Operating Base in Patigi, Kwara State, have arrested eight suspected kidnappers and rescued two victims during a significant operation. Lieutenant Stephen Nwankwo, Acting Assistant Director of Army Public Relations for the 22 Brigade in Ilorin, reported this in a statement on Sunday, June 22, 2025. He mentioned that the troops also seized two motorcycles and recovered two spent cartridges from the suspects, who are believed to be part of a kidnapping gang operating in the area. The coordinated operation was initiated based on credible intelligence. “In continuation of sustained efforts to rid Kwara State of criminal elements and ensure public safety, troops of 22 Armoured Brigade, deployed at Forward Operating Base (FOB) Patigi, have successfully conducted a coordinated raid on a suspected kidnappers’ enclave,” the statement read. "Acting on credible intelligence, the troops launched a tactical operation on Saturday, 21 June 2025, targeting a hideout on the outskirts of Latandaji Village in Patigi Local Government Area. "During the operation, the troops encountered mild resistance but swiftly overpowered the criminals with superior firepower. The raid resulted in the rescue of two kidnap victims, identified as Mr. Amos Moses and Mr. Philip Michael, and the arrest of eight suspected kidnappers. "However, one individual, Mr. Mohammed Mohammed, sustained gunshot wounds during the exchange of fire and was promptly evacuated to Bachita Teaching Hospital for medical attention. "A further search of the area led to the recovery of two motorcycles and two expended cartridge shells believed to have been used by the suspects. "All arrested individuals are currently in military custody undergoing preliminary investigation and will be handed over to the appropriate authorities for prosecution. "This operation stressed the Nigerian Army’s unwavering commitment to safeguarding lives and property across the country. Members of the public are encouraged to continue providing timely and actionable intelligence to security agencies as we collectively work to dismantle criminal networks.Travel packages “The Nigerian Army remains resolute in its mission to protect communities and restore lasting peace in all areas of deployment.”

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