Directory
Discover new people, create new connections and make new friends
-
-
-
-
Listen up, Men! By Age 30 You Shouldd Be Smart Enough To Have Mastered These 12 Things Otherwise You’re Still Playing With Life
I’m not here to pet you. I’m here to wake you up. As a young man grinding through the mud of life, these are the raw, unfiltered truths no school, no pastor, no w00man, and no simp will ever tell you. If you don’t get this into your skull by 30, you’ll spend your life working for men who did.
1. Nobody Owes You Anything
Not your family. Not society. Not even the girl who says she loves you. If you don’t build, you’ll beg. And beggars don’t get to choose.
2. Your Looks Won’t Feed You
Only women can survive with beauty and body. As a man, your looks don’t matter — your money does. Chase value, not vanity.
3. Women Love Winners, Not Strugglers
Stop thinking love is enough. If you’re broke, she’ll leave. The streets are filled with exes who swore they’d never go. Succeed or bleed.
4. Emotion Is a Luxury You Can’t Afford
Be logical. Be tactical. Cry in silence if you must, but never lose your frame in public. The world eats soft men for breakfast.
5. Time Is Your Greatest Asset — Protect It
If your squad isn’t talking business, fitness, goals, and legacy, cut them off. You’re not a clown — stop dancing in circles with losers.
6. Avoid Long-Term Relationships Until You’re Built
Your focus will be hijacked. Build your empire first. When you’re up, you’ll attract the women they all chased in your absence.
7. Skills Over Degrees
In 2025, your ability to sell, code, trade, build, or market is more valuable than your paper certificate. Be a weapon, not a victim.
8. Silence Is Power
Move like a ghost. Work in silence. Announce only your results. The less they know, the more they fear.
9. Rejection Builds Muscle
Every “No” you face makes you sharper, tougher, better. Face it. Eat it. Use it. Weak men avoid rejection. Alphas devour it.
10. Stay Away From CCBs
High body count, masculine, rebellious, entitled w00men will ruin you. A good woman multiplies. A bad one extracts and destroys.
11. Learn to Be Alone Without Losing Your Mind
Solitude is the training ground of kings. If you can’t stand your own company, you’re not ready to lead anyone else.
12. Have a Code You Live By
Without principles, you’re a leaf in the wind. Discipline, focus, loyalty to your mission, and brutal honesty — that’s your masculine core.
Now read that again. And again. Until it burns into your DNA.
By 30, you’re either a man building his throne or a boy entertaining crumbs.
Choose your side.Listen up, Men! By Age 30 You Shouldd Be Smart Enough To Have Mastered These 12 Things Otherwise You’re Still Playing With Life I’m not here to pet you. I’m here to wake you up. As a young man grinding through the mud of life, these are the raw, unfiltered truths no school, no pastor, no w00man, and no simp will ever tell you. If you don’t get this into your skull by 30, you’ll spend your life working for men who did. 1. Nobody Owes You Anything Not your family. Not society. Not even the girl who says she loves you. If you don’t build, you’ll beg. And beggars don’t get to choose. 2. Your Looks Won’t Feed You Only women can survive with beauty and body. As a man, your looks don’t matter — your money does. Chase value, not vanity. 3. Women Love Winners, Not Strugglers Stop thinking love is enough. If you’re broke, she’ll leave. The streets are filled with exes who swore they’d never go. Succeed or bleed. 4. Emotion Is a Luxury You Can’t Afford Be logical. Be tactical. Cry in silence if you must, but never lose your frame in public. The world eats soft men for breakfast. 5. Time Is Your Greatest Asset — Protect It If your squad isn’t talking business, fitness, goals, and legacy, cut them off. You’re not a clown — stop dancing in circles with losers. 6. Avoid Long-Term Relationships Until You’re Built Your focus will be hijacked. Build your empire first. When you’re up, you’ll attract the women they all chased in your absence. 7. Skills Over Degrees In 2025, your ability to sell, code, trade, build, or market is more valuable than your paper certificate. Be a weapon, not a victim. 8. Silence Is Power Move like a ghost. Work in silence. Announce only your results. The less they know, the more they fear. 9. Rejection Builds Muscle Every “No” you face makes you sharper, tougher, better. Face it. Eat it. Use it. Weak men avoid rejection. Alphas devour it. 10. Stay Away From CCBs High body count, masculine, rebellious, entitled w00men will ruin you. A good woman multiplies. A bad one extracts and destroys. 11. Learn to Be Alone Without Losing Your Mind Solitude is the training ground of kings. If you can’t stand your own company, you’re not ready to lead anyone else. 12. Have a Code You Live By Without principles, you’re a leaf in the wind. Discipline, focus, loyalty to your mission, and brutal honesty — that’s your masculine core. Now read that again. And again. Until it burns into your DNA. By 30, you’re either a man building his throne or a boy entertaining crumbs. Choose your side.0 Comments 0 Shares 92 Views1
-
Becoming isn’t loud.
It’s not a grand announcement.
Not a polished version you finally arrive at.
Not something you need to prove.
True becoming is quieter than that.
It’s the moment you stop defending your boundaries.
The moment you stop apologizing for your peace.
The moment you stop trying to explain your healing to people who never understood your pain.
You’re not behind.
You’re not broken.
You’re simply becoming — steady, grounded, and fully at home inside yourself.
🩶 If this landed, save it.
🩶 If you know someone who needs this, share it.
🩶 And if you’re in this season too, stay here — we go deep here
Becoming isn’t loud. It’s not a grand announcement. Not a polished version you finally arrive at. Not something you need to prove. True becoming is quieter than that. It’s the moment you stop defending your boundaries. The moment you stop apologizing for your peace. The moment you stop trying to explain your healing to people who never understood your pain. You’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re simply becoming — steady, grounded, and fully at home inside yourself. 🌿 🩶 If this landed, save it. 🩶 If you know someone who needs this, share it. 🩶 And if you’re in this season too, stay here — we go deep here0 Comments 0 Shares 85 Views2
-
https://www.news18.com/politics/no-public-funeral-for-terrorists-how-centre-wants-to-disrupt-radicalisation-mass-mobilisation-in-jk-ws-l-9389227.html?utm_medium=social&utm_source=whatsapp&utm_campaign=regular-editorial0 Comments 0 Shares 87 Views2
-
https://www.news18.com/india/salute-you-forever-wife-bids-farewell-to-pilot-husband-killed-in-kedarnath-chopper-crash-9389539.html?utm_medium=social&utm_source=whatsapp&utm_campaign=regular-editorial0 Comments 0 Shares 87 Views1
-
15 SECRETS TO HAVING A STRONG RELATIONSHIP 🤷♀🤷♂
Everyone dreams of having the happiest marriage. You want someone who’s going to love you no matter what, you want a person to have fun with and most importantly, you want someone you can share a happy, fulfilling life with.
If you desire a loving and lasting relationship with your spouse, both of you need to adopt the following habits below:
1. INVEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE
Reading books on marriage, conflict resolution, and communication techniques will help your marriage. The more you invest in your marriage, the more valuable it becomes. Most importantly, Treat your spouse better than you treat anyone else.
2. COMMUNICATION
Believe it or not, communication is the key to a happy marriage. Never stop communicating. Stay on the same page. Make sure your spouse always knows how you feel. Keeping open communication is arguably the best thing you can do for your marriage.
Make sure that you always communicate clearly about what you want and expect. Remember that good communication is what makes a marriage successful.
3. DON'T GIVE UP:
On your wedding day, you make promises to love your sweetheart forever through the good and bad times. But sometimes the bad outweighs the good by a lot, and marriages end up falling apart. But there are things you can do to make your happy marriage last forever. Be committed to make your marriage work. Don't think the grass is always greener on the other side. Most people who leave their marriages for someone else find the same problems in the new relationship, and many regret not having worked things out in their first marriage. Any married person will tell you that marriages wax and wane. There are good times, bad times, and so-so times. A marriage is viable if the good outweighs the bad, even by a little bit. The more you appreciate the good and try to let the bad roll off, the easier it will get, and the more fondness and connection you will feel towards your spouse.
4. LEARN TO LISTEN
Speaking less and listening more is important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. It’s important you always pay close attention to what your partner has to say. Ask your partner how his/her day went and listen to him/her talk about their day.
5. KEEP YOUR PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE
When you put your relationship on social media, you invite the public to your relationship. Keep your private matters private. It’s a relationship between you and your partner and not between you, your partner and the public. You can share your fun dates with your partner or some nice photos together on your Facebook or Instagram app but make sure you draw the line where necessary.
6. KNOW WHEN TO LET THINGS SLIDE AND LEARN HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICTS
Finding ways to reduce the frequency of conflict in your relationship by letting go of the little things will help you build a strong relationship with your partner. Arguments are normal in a relationship but you should make sure you never insult your partner during an argument. Always listen to what your partner has to say during an argument.
7. COMMITMENT:
Commitment is very important if you desire to have a strong relationship with your partner. You have to decide to stick with your partner and make the relationship work irrespective of the flaws your partner might have. Couples who renew their commitments every day, in words and deed, are on their way to having a strong relationship.
8. MAKE TIME TO DATE
Spending quality time with your partner is important if you desire to build a strong relationship. Nothing substitutes for time together. No matter how busy you are, always create time to go out on dates with your partner.
9. BE TOTALLY TRANSPARENT
Partners in strong relationships have no secrets. If you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner, you have to be completely transparent with your partner. You don’t need privacy in your relationship if you want a strong relationship.
10. TRY NEW THINGS TOGETHER
Whether it be something as simple as watching a movie neither of you has seen, or something as extreme as skydiving, trying new things together as a couple is important if you want to have a strong relationship. Trying new things together keeps the excitement and passion going in your relationship.
11. COMPLIMENT YOUR PARTNER
You shouldn’t save the compliments for big events alone, make complimenting your partner a regular occurrence. You make your partner feel special and noticed when you compliment him/her and this helps build a strong relationship
12. NEVER PUT EACH OTHER DOWN IN PUBLIC
How you treat your partner in front of others matter if you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner. Never ever put each other down or say anything negative about your partner in public. Only say supportive and kind things to each other in public and save disagreements for when you both are alone.
13. NEVER GET TIRED OF SAYING “I LOVE YOU”
These three little words “I love you” are important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. No matter how long or hard your day is, always end your day by telling your partner how much you love him/her. End your day with the words “I love you”.
14. LEARN HOW TO COMPROMISE
You have to understand the value of compromise if you want to build a strong relationship. You may not always want to do what your partner wants but if it’s important to your partner, do it with a smile on your face.
Lastly..... ✍✍✍
15. Pray and Play Together:
Couples that pray and play together stay together. Hand in hand each morning before you face the vicissitude of life, read a devotional, and pray together.
Take turns to pray for your marriage, your challenges &your children. If its your turn to pray, lift your spouse's burdens to The Lord and thank God for the wonderful spouse He gave you.
Never miss an opportunity to celebrate life's milestones together. Celebrate anniversaries and birthdays. Make it simple and sweet. Play and laugh together. Be merry with the person you married and watch your love for each other grow from strength to strength.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name
Kindly share this message with your loved ones
0 Comments 0 Shares 69 Views
2
-
*SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, IS IT REALLY A THING?*
I know this is one topic many avoid, but it’s one we need to talk about.
Sex before marriage is becoming so common that it’s now seen as “normal.” Some even believe it’s how you prove love. But just because something is common doesn’t make it right.
Let me ask you:
Have you ever stopped to think about what sex really does?
It’s not just about the body. It connects your soul, your emotions, your heart. That’s why after sleeping with someone, it’s hard to just walk away.
Something deeper has been exchanged.
When you give your body before giving your commitment, things get complicated. Feelings get mixed. Expectations rise. Trust can break easily. And sometimes, heartbreak becomes the result.
Now, I’m not here to judge you. We all have a past, we've all made mistakes. But I’m here to remind you that waiting is not foolish. It’s wisdom. It’s protection. It’s saying, “I value you and I value us, enough to build a strong foundation first.”
If you’ve already had sex, listen, God is not done with you. You’re not damaged. You can start again. You can choose a fresh path. Purity is not about a perfect past; it’s about a decision you make today.
Love that waits is love that honors.
Love that respects boundaries is love that lasts.
You don’t need sex to prove love.
The right person will wait, and work on building a future with you, not using your body before making a commitment to your soul.
So yes, sex before marriage is really a thing. But you have a choice. A wise one.
Let’s build love the right way. Let’s do it God’s way. Let’s protect our hearts.
I love you enough to tell you the truth.*SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, IS IT REALLY A THING?* I know this is one topic many avoid, but it’s one we need to talk about. Sex before marriage is becoming so common that it’s now seen as “normal.” Some even believe it’s how you prove love. But just because something is common doesn’t make it right. Let me ask you: Have you ever stopped to think about what sex really does? It’s not just about the body. It connects your soul, your emotions, your heart. That’s why after sleeping with someone, it’s hard to just walk away. Something deeper has been exchanged. When you give your body before giving your commitment, things get complicated. Feelings get mixed. Expectations rise. Trust can break easily. And sometimes, heartbreak becomes the result. Now, I’m not here to judge you. We all have a past, we've all made mistakes. But I’m here to remind you that waiting is not foolish. It’s wisdom. It’s protection. It’s saying, “I value you and I value us, enough to build a strong foundation first.” If you’ve already had sex, listen, God is not done with you. You’re not damaged. You can start again. You can choose a fresh path. Purity is not about a perfect past; it’s about a decision you make today. Love that waits is love that honors. Love that respects boundaries is love that lasts. You don’t need sex to prove love. The right person will wait, and work on building a future with you, not using your body before making a commitment to your soul. So yes, sex before marriage is really a thing. But you have a choice. A wise one. Let’s build love the right way. Let’s do it God’s way. Let’s protect our hearts. I love you enough to tell you the truth.❤️0 Comments 1 Shares 199 Views1
-
Heavenly Father..
Thank You for this new day and the opportunities it brings.thank you for the gift of life and good health As we rise this Saturday morning, we ask for Your guidance and strength. Help me to approach today with a heart full of gratitude, a spirit of patience, and a mind that is focused on Your will.
Grant us the wisdom to make good choices, the courage to face challenges with faith, and the compassion to serve others in love. Let Your light shine through us in all that I do, and may we reflect Your goodness to those around us .
Lord, bless the work of our hands,our businesses and our jobs,bless our relationships, and our actions. Help us to walk in peace, trusting that You are with us every step of the way. We surrender all our worries and burdens to You, knowing that You are in control.
Thank You for Your endless love and grace. In Your name we pray and believe....
Amen!
Good morning everyone,
Have a blessed day and a great Weekend!🙏🏽Heavenly Father.. Thank You for this new day and the opportunities it brings.thank you for the gift of life and good health As we rise this Saturday morning, we ask for Your guidance and strength. Help me to approach today with a heart full of gratitude, a spirit of patience, and a mind that is focused on Your will. Grant us the wisdom to make good choices, the courage to face challenges with faith, and the compassion to serve others in love. Let Your light shine through us in all that I do, and may we reflect Your goodness to those around us . Lord, bless the work of our hands,our businesses and our jobs,bless our relationships, and our actions. Help us to walk in peace, trusting that You are with us every step of the way. We surrender all our worries and burdens to You, knowing that You are in control. Thank You for Your endless love and grace. In Your name we pray and believe.... Amen! Good morning everyone, Have a blessed day and a great Weekend!🙏🏽0 Comments 0 Shares 102 Views1
-
-
https://guardian.ng/politics/ekiti-2026-pdp-begins-mobilisation-vows-to-win-governorship-election/0 Comments 7 Shares 293 Views1
-
Barcelona have decided to activate the Nico Williams deal option after getting player’s total priority.
Barça will need more rounds of talks with his agent as they’d need to discuss terms of €58m release clause with Athletic.
Not advanced yet; but Barça are now trying.🚨🔵🔴 Barcelona have decided to activate the Nico Williams deal option after getting player’s total priority. Barça will need more rounds of talks with his agent as they’d need to discuss terms of €58m release clause with Athletic. Not advanced yet; but Barça are now trying.0 Comments 1 Shares 107 Views1
-
https://www.thip.media/diet-and-nutrition/can-vitamin-d-deficiency-lead-to-gum-problems/102253/?utm_source=wpchannel&utm_medium=Social&utm_campaign=diet0 Comments 0 Shares 100 Views
-
Iyabo Ojo's message to her lover Paulo on Father's Day spilled new details about their relationship, igniting speculations online. Full details in comments.
Credi: @iyaboojofespris/InstagramIyabo Ojo's message to her lover Paulo on Father's Day spilled new details about their relationship, igniting speculations online. Full details in comments. Credi: @iyaboojofespris/Instagram
0 Comments 0 Shares 90 Views -
0 Comments 0 Shares 96 Views
-
Breaking News
Tinubu Smiles as Nigeria emerges the 3rd country with the strongest military in 2025 .
Nigeria is currently the 3rd country with the strongest military force in Africa .
Our Question is , why haven’t they been able to combat the insecurity plaguing Nigeria ?
Moral lesson : Truth be told , insecurity in Nigeria is surely a political move .Breaking News 🚨🚨🚨 Tinubu Smiles as Nigeria emerges the 3rd country with the strongest military in 2025 . Nigeria is currently the 3rd country with the strongest military force in Africa . Our Question is , why haven’t they been able to combat the insecurity plaguing Nigeria ? Moral lesson : Truth be told , insecurity in Nigeria is surely a political move .0 Comments 0 Shares 90 Views
Arabic
French
Spanish
Portuguese
Deutsch
Turkish
Dutch
Italiano
Russian
Romaian
Portuguese (Brazil)
Greek