A SIMP IS LIKE A WALKING DEAD

13 Hard Truths About Why Women Use Weak Men (And How You’re Letting It Happen)
Read this twice if you’ve ever been ghosted, played, or heartbroken by a girl you “treated like a queen.”

Let’s be real:

Simping doesn’t make you loyal. It makes you ******.

Women don’t respect the guy who bends over backward. They use him.
They collect his time, his money, his energy—and when they’re done, they vanish without saying thank you.

Let’s break it down:

1. She’ll Act Single in Public, But Collect ‘Girlfriend Benefits’ in Private

You’re paying her bills, driving her around, doing boyfriend duties…
Meanwhile, she’s posting thirst traps and replying “lol” to other men’s DMs.
You’re loyal to her. She’s loyal to attention.

2. She’ll Use Your Kindness as Leverage

You think being sweet makes her love you.
No sir—it makes her comfortable. She’ll keep you in her life because you’re useful, not because she’s attracted.
You're not her dream guy—you're her safety net.

3. She’ll Make You Compete With Other Men (And Call It “Being Honest”)

She’ll say, “I’m just talking to people, nothing serious…”
Yet she expects exclusivity from you.
You’re playing by boyfriend rules in a situationship built to drain you.

4. She’ll Withhold Sex to Control You

Once she knows you’re desperate to keep her, intimacy becomes a weapon.
She’ll give you crumbs and say, “I’m not in the mood,” while giving another guy the full buffet.
You’ll wait months… someone else is getting it tonight.

5. She’ll Say You’re Too Nice—Then Run to a Man Who Treats Her Like an Option

Truth bomb: Nice doesn’t attract. Strength does.
You’re emotionally available. He’s emotionally scarce.
Guess who she’s obsessed with? Not the one texting her good morning.

6. She’ll Use You for Free Therapy and Dump Her Emotional Luggage on You

She’ll vent. Cry. Trauma dump.
You’ll spend hours listening, thinking you’re building connection.
Then she’ll feel “better” and go back to chasing the guy who gives her butterflies and stress.

7. She’ll Leave You When You Finally Set Boundaries

You’ll say, “I don’t like that you go clubbing every weekend.”
She’ll call you insecure and controlling.
Bro, she was never going to change. She was waiting for an excuse to bounce.

8. She’ll Borrow Money and Never Pay Back
She’ll cry about rent.

You’ll send 30k. She’ll post her nails the next day.
You won’t ask for it back, because “you don’t want her to feel bad.”
Now she knows you’re a cash machine with emotions.

9. She’ll Publicly Humiliate You—Then Say You’re Too Sensitive

She’ll talk down on you in front of friends. Joke about your hustle. Compare you to her ex.
And when you react, she’ll say, “I was just playing.”
That’s not love. That’s disrespect wrapped in sarcasm.

10. She’ll Make You Feel Lucky to Have Her—Even Though She Brings Nothing to the Table

You’re the one planning dates, paying bills, calling, texting, doing everything.
What does she bring? Just her looks.
And you feel “lucky” to have her? Wake up.

11. She’ll Leave You Emotionally Drained—Then Say She’s the Victim

You gave her your heart, your loyalty, your peace.
She left you anxious, confused, and depressed.
Then she’ll cry on Instagram and call all men “toxic.”
The manipulation is spiritual.

12. She’ll Come Back When Her ‘Alpha’ Broke Her Heart

After getting played by the guy she really wanted, she’ll return with fake remorse.
“I miss you.” “You were the good one.”
She doesn’t love you. She loves your stability. And she’s only here till she heals enough to leave again.

13. She’ll Move on Fast—Because She Never Really Cared Like You Did

While you’re crying over her old texts, she’s laughing at brunch, collecting validation.
You gave your all to someone who gave you half. And the worst part? She doesn’t even feel guilty.

FINAL TRUTH:
You’re not unlucky with women.
You’re just addicted to being used because it feels like love.

The solution?
Stop being the man who chases. Be the man who builds.
The man who sets standards. The man who makes women EARN his time.
The man who knows his worth.

Women don’t respect simps. They respect structure.

Let her chase. Or let her go.

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Episode 2: The Girl Who Didn’t Care About Money – Or So He Thought…

After three failed dates, Jonathan Okoy was beginning to lose hope.

Each night, he sat on his creaky mattress, staring at the wall, thinking:
“Maybe love without money doesn’t exist anymore.”

But he wasn’t ready to give up — not yet.

Norah arranged a few more blind dates. Some women didn’t even show up after hearing he had no car. Others came, ate, and never called back. One even asked him, mid-suya bite, if he had any “hidden assets” she could manage.

Jonathan was done pretending to smile. His heart was tired.

Until one quiet evening… he met Ada.

They met at a roadside café where akara sizzled in hot oil and children ran barefoot chasing each other. Ada arrived in a simple gown and sandals, holding a book in one hand and puff-puff in the other.

“Sorry I’m late,” she smiled, brushing her hair behind her ear.
“It’s okay,” Jonathan replied, surprised. “You brought puff-puff?”
“You looked like someone who might need a snack.”

She sat, didn’t complain, didn’t ask weird questions — and she actually ate the food. No phone. No fake laughs. No side-eyes.

They talked for hours.

Jonathan told her about doing odd jobs. She didn’t pity him. She just listened.

“Life is hard,” she said. “But people who keep going? That’s strength.”

For the first time in weeks, Jonathan laughed — a real laugh.
Ada laughed too. It felt… easy.

Before leaving, she handed him her number written on a torn page of her book.

“I don’t know your story,” she said. “But you seem like someone worth knowing.”

Jonathan watched her walk away — no heels, no pretense, no lies.

That night, he sat on his old mattress, holding the paper.
He didn’t sleep much. But he smiled a lot.

The next day, he called.

They started spending time together — not in malls or fancy restaurants — but walking through parks, sitting by the lagoon, eating roasted corn on sidewalks.

Jonathan found himself opening up. Not fully. But slowly.

Ada spoke of dreams — how she wanted to open a book café, how she taught children on weekends, how she loved honest people. Not rich people — real people.

Jonathan wanted to believe it.

Weeks passed.

Then one rainy afternoon, they sat under a bus shelter, sharing groundnuts and laughing at how wet they looked.

Ada turned to him, suddenly serious.

“Can I ask you something weird?”
“Of course.”
“If you had everything before — money, power — would you want it back?”
“Maybe,” Jonathan said carefully.
“Just don’t let it change you,” she said. “This you… I like this version.”

Jonathan’s heart almost stopped.

Could she be the one?

But just as he began to hope…

Norah called.

“Sir… there’s something you need to know about Ada.”
“What is it?” Jonathan asked, confused.
“I think… she knows who you really are.”

Happy Easter and happy weekend to everyone

How’s your weekend going

A father saw that his 11-year-old son was crying silently. He asked him.

"What's the matter, son?"

The young boy replied.
"My rich classmates mocked, called me son of a gardener. They said that my father lives only on the money he earns from watering and feeding plants for people"

The father paused for a moment, then said.

"Come with me son, let's plant some flowers. It might cheer you up"

He held his hand and walked him to the garden, then he took out some flower seeds, and said.

"Let's carry out an experiment. We will plant two flowers seperately. I will care for one, and you will care for the other. I will water mine with clean water from the lake but you will water yours with dirty water from the pond. We shall see the outcome in the weeks to come"

The son was delighted as he joined his father in planting the flowers. It took them some days to finally germinate the flower seeds. They cared for them respectively and watched them grow.

Later on, the father brought his son to the garden, and said to him.

"Look at the two flowers and tell me your observation"

The boy responded.
"My flower looks better and healthier than yours. How is that even possible when your water is cleaner?"

The father smiled, then said.

"That's because dirty water doesn't stop a plant from growing, rather it serves as organic fertilizer to help it flourish.
You see son, there are some people who put you down in life, mock your dreams, and throw dirt on you.
Always remember that there's nothing wrong with you, it is their ego they have to satisfy.

So, don't let the harsh words from people affect you, instead, let it encourage you into being a better person. And doing so, you will be like the plant and will flourish even in the midst of dirt like negativity and harsh words.
Do have a blessed weekend

happy weekend guy

Happy weekend to you my people

Happy Weekend My People,
You are Bless in JESUS Name Amen ,
If you Believe That You Are Bless,
Type A Big AMEN

Happy weekend to you my friend

Good morning My People,
I hope everyone slept well last night,
May your weekend be Bless in JESUS Name Amen
I Love you all

David Raya when asked his thoughts about Arsenal taking on PSG in the Champions League Semi Finals: “We beat them at home but I think PSG now are a different team. They look even better than what they looked back in the group stage and that’s credit to them. They haven’t had easy games either.

“I’m looking forward to it, but for now let’s focus on the present, focus on this weekend when we go to Ipswich and then we’ll see when it comes to PSG what happens.”