7 THINGS THAT CAN MAKE YOU BROKE FASTER THAN VILLAGE PEOPLE

Forget jazz, forget enemies from the village—some of you are going broke at lightning speed, and it’s not because of witchcraft. Your own lifestyle is the real problem!

If you're always wondering "Who is eating my money?"—relax, Oga. The answer is you.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. CHASING EVERY WOMAN YOU SEE

You think you're James Bond, moving from one fine girl to another, sponsoring their hair, nails, and data? Brother, you are your own Yahoo boy.

One babe says “I need urgent 2K”—you send.

Another one says “My rent is due”—you pay.

Next thing, your account balance is calling for GoFundMe.

Meanwhile, the same girls are in group chats laughing at you: “This guy dey try sha.”

Solution: Stop being an ATM with no PIN code. Focus on one woman or yourself first.

2. LIVING LIKE A BIG BOY WHEN YOUR ACCOUNT BALANCE IS SHOUTING HELP

Your salary is 50K, but you're in clubs ordering Hennessy like Davido. You don’t even have a car, but you're buying drinks for strangers—WHO SENT YOU?

Rich men are saving, you are spraying money.

Dangote is investing, you are doing “Odogwu” at the bar.

Elon Musk is buying companies, you are buying bottles for slay queens who don’t know your surname.

When the landlord comes for rent, you’ll start saying “Boss, abeg, things hard.”

Solution: Cut down on fake luxury. Even Jeff Bezos wears simple T-shirts. Be wise.

3. SENDING MONEY TO FAMILY LIKE CBN

Your uncle calls: “We need money for burial.”
Your aunt calls: “No food in the house.”
Your younger brother: “School fees.”

Now your account is empty, but when you need help? Nobody picks your call.

Oga, you are not the Minister of Finance. Even government doesn’t share free money like you do!

Solution: Learn to say NO sometimes! Help when you can, but don’t let family turn you into their personal budget.

4. ALWAYS BUYING THE LATEST PHONE TO IMPRESS WHO?

Last month, you were using iPhone 12.
This month, you saw iPhone 15 Pro Max and sold your kidney to buy it.
Next month, iPhone 16 Ultra Mega Max will drop—what will you sell next? Your destiny?

Meanwhile, the person you’re trying to impress is using Tecno Pop 5 and doesn’t care.

Solution: If your current phone is working, rest. Your future is more important than “Dynamic Island.”

5. FALLING FOR EVERY FAKE INVESTMENT SCHEME

They told you "Invest 50K, get 500K in 2 days."

You ran like Bolt, deposited your money.

Now, they’ve blocked you, and you’re writing epistles on Facebook: “Dear Nigerians, beware of fraudsters!”

Oga, they didn’t scam you, you scammed yourself!

Any investment that sounds like magic money is a Ponzi scheme in disguise.

Solution: If you don’t understand the business, don’t put your money there. Learn to invest wisely!

6. GOING BROKE JUST TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA

Your house rent is due, but you're buying designer shoes to take pictures for Instagram. Who told you “likes and comments” can pay rent?

You posted “Soft life only.”

But in real life, you’re trekking and borrowing money for food.

If your phone falls, you’ll cry because you can’t afford to fix it.

Solution: Stop forming fake rich life. Invest first, flex later.

7. BEING TOO LAZY TO MAKE MORE MONEY

You sit at home, scrolling Facebook from morning till night, complaining: “No job, Nigeria is hard.”

Meanwhile, opportunities are passing you by! Are you expecting an angel to drop money from the sky?

People are making money online—you are watching TikTok videos all day.

People are learning skills—you are arguing about football.

People are opening businesses—you are waiting for your rich uncle to die so you can inherit land.

Solution: Get up and hustle! Even the Bible says “A lazy man shall not eat.”

BOTTOM LINE:

If you're always broke, stop blaming village people. Your habits are the real witchcraft!

Live within your means.

Invest before you flex.

Stop impressing people who don’t care.

Make smart financial decisions.

If this post hit you hard, don’t cry. Just change your ways!

Regina Daniels and Husband Ned Nwoko Taunt Critics As Billionaire Dresses Wife Up in Viral Video

Nigerian actress Regina Daniels showed off a heartwarming moment between herself and billionaire husband Ned Nwoko
This came days after the movie star was attacked online for her message to Priscillia Ojo and Juma Jux’s wedding
Following that, a video went viral online showcasing a heartwarming moment between the politician and his wife, which got many talking online
Nigerian politician Ned Nwoko has made his actress wife, Regina Daniels, the envy of all women by dressing her up.

Regina Daniels’ husband Ned Nwoko dresses her up in viral video.
Credit: @regina.danielsSource: Instagram
When he was done dressing his wife, he asked the people around if their husband treats them the way he did with Regina.
While at that, the caption of the video argued that every woman dreams of a love like the politician and the actress, but cannot have it.

“Every woman dreams, but only a few wake up to a love like this. Can your husband ever? @regina.daniels is the most blessed”.

Watch the video below:

TheTalk.NG reported that Nigerians stormed Regina Daniels Instagram post about Iyabo Ojo and her daughter Priscilla to take a swipe at her.

The mother of two had shared her good wishes to her senior colleague and her daughter after the lavish wedding the actress did for her daughter.

In the post, Daniels prayed that Priscilla’s home will be protected and blessed while also wishing her a lifetime of joy and laughter. However, the post didn’t go down well with her fans, who went to her comment section to lash out at her.

Many taunted her over her marriage to her politician husband. They asserted that she got married to an old man and does not know what it feels to be married to a young, rich and famous man.
Some others pointed out that her husband was not satisfying her in the other room. They lashed out at her for being the 6th wife of her husband.

New video of Regina Daniels and Ned Nwoko gets many talking.
Credit: @regina.danielsSource: Instagram
They asked young girls to learn from Priscilla Ojo and not from the actress when it comes to the issue of marriage. Recall that Regina Daniels recently returned to her social life with her husband after rumour that they had parted ways.

Every minute, someone leaves this world.

Age has nothing to do with it.

We're all in this queue without realizing it.

We never know how many people are in front of us.

We can't go to the back of the line.

We can't get out of line.

We can't stop moving forward.

So, while we wait in line...

Let's make peace!

Let's do good!

Let's tell the truth!

Let's be honest!

We will leave this world one day, that's for sure.

There's no point holding a grudge against someone who could leave at any moment.

There's no point sending a brother to prison when you yourself could leave first.

What's the point of boasting about putting others down when you could be gone in the next few minutes?

Why do you let yourself be deceived by your money, your social position, and your connections, when you're not the first to have them?

While you seek your brother's death for a piece of land in the village, others exploit your continent and even invade planets.

Evil is ignorance.

Pride is for the foolish.

Selfishness is for the poor.

Betrayal is for the weak.

So let's do good while we're still alive!

Good Day Everyone. Once you Connect yourself unto Gada Chat social media business you ve set yourself into a very big indegenious global business that will fetch you alot of profits. I therefore urge everyone to join this great social media business.

Thank God it is a Nigerian owned social media platform

Mark Zuckerberg admitted this week that Facebook’s original mission, “to connect and share with the people in your life,” is no longer the company’s core focus.

Testifying during a federal antitrust case, the Meta CEO described the platform as having shifted into a “broad discovery and entertainment space,” with less emphasis on fostering personal connections.

What was once a social hub is now more of a content machine — an endless AI-curated feed designed for maximum engagement and ad impressions.

Delta Governor’s Aide, Shimite Winifred, Reportedly Dies from Domestic Violence Incident

The Delta State community has been thrown into mourning following the tragic death of Chief (Mrs.) Shimite Winifred, the Special Adviser to the Governor on Trade and Export. She was a respected trade and economic expert, known for her dedication to economic development and women empowerment.

Initial reports suggest that Shimite died as a result of domestic violence. Though details are still emerging, it is alleged that she had a fatal confrontation with her husband, Pastor David Favour, who has reportedly been arrested in connection with her death.

Human rights activist and fellow government aide, Harrison Gwamnishu, confirmed the heartbreaking news in a Facebook post on Monday, April 21, 2025. Another activist, Comrade Victor Ojie, also known as Wong Box, echoed the confirmation, urging people to prioritize their lives over staying in abusive marriages: “Marriage is not by force. It’s better to lose your marriage than to lose your life.”

Shimite’s personal aide, Tameta Sunday, expressed grief and outrage in a tribute, accusing her husband of being responsible for cutting short her life and future plans.

The late Shimite Winifred held several notable positions throughout her career. She served as the Coordinator of the Delta State UNIDO Centre and was the focal person for the Federal Government’s Social Investment Programme in Delta. She also hosted African Pot, a television documentary that celebrated African cuisine, tourism, and culture.

Additionally, she was an influential member of several development and trade bodies, including the Steering Committee of USAID/NEXTT (Nigerian Expanded Trade and Transport) – Lakaji Trade Corridor, and the Board of Directors of FESECA – Foundation for Economic Change in Africa. She also contributed as an editor for Daily Trust and Leadership newspapers on travel and tourism.

Her death has sparked widespread calls for greater awareness around domestic violence and the urgent need for victims to seek safety, regardless of social or economic status.

North Korea banned leather trench coats in 2021 to prevent citizens from copying Kim Jong Un's distinctive style.

The trend gained popularity after Kim wore the coat in 2019, prompting widespread emulation among North Koreans.

However, authorities deemed this an impure trend challenging the authority of the Highest Dignity, confiscating coats from citizens and sellers alike.

The regime views imitation of Kim's style as a threat to his authority, associating it with capitalistic influences that could undermine the country's values.

Police patrols were deployed to seize coats, and manufacturers were instructed to stop production.

This ban is part of a broader effort to restrict Western fashion trends and promote a more uniform, socialist aesthetic.

Delta Governor’s Aide, Shimite Winifred, Reportedly Dies from Domestic Violence Incident

The Delta State community has been thrown into mourning following the tragic death of Chief (Mrs.) Shimite Winifred, the Special Adviser to the Governor on Trade and Export. She was a respected trade and economic expert, known for her dedication to economic development and women empowerment.

Initial reports suggest that Shimite died as a result of domestic violence. Though details are still emerging, it is alleged that she had a fatal confrontation with her husband, Pastor David Favour, who has reportedly been arrested in connection with her death.

Human rights activist and fellow government aide, Harrison Gwamnishu, confirmed the heartbreaking news in a Facebook post on Monday, April 21, 2025. Another activist, Comrade Victor Ojie, also known as Wong Box, echoed the confirmation, urging people to prioritize their lives over staying in abusive marriages: “Marriage is not by force. It’s better to lose your marriage than to lose your life.”

Shimite’s personal aide, Tameta Sunday, expressed grief and outrage in a tribute, accusing her husband of being responsible for cutting short her life and future plans.

The late Shimite Winifred held several notable positions throughout her career. She served as the Coordinator of the Delta State UNIDO Centre and was the focal person for the Federal Government’s Social Investment Programme in Delta. She also hosted African Pot, a television documentary that celebrated African cuisine, tourism, and culture.

Additionally, she was an influential member of several development and trade bodies, including the Steering Committee of USAID/NEXTT (Nigerian Expanded Trade and Transport) – Lakaji Trade Corridor, and the Board of Directors of FESECA – Foundation for Economic Change in Africa. She also contributed as an editor for Daily Trust and Leadership newspapers on travel and tourism.

Her death has sparked widespread calls for greater awareness around domestic violence and the urgent need for victims to seek safety, regardless of social or economic status.

FACT ABOUT SHY PEOPLE

1. They can talk and chat openly even crack jokes with you on social media but in real life they are ice

2. They fit pass you for road simply because of their shyness🙍🏻‍♀️. They can stay indoors for weeks without minding

3. Very calculative, clingy, little touch of hot temper, romantic with one they love. They hardly fall in love but once they fall, it's over because they don't joke with that person

4. They hardly cheat. Before you see them, dem don see you(so sensitive). They can read people's mind before you could say it, they rarely have friends and associate in any activities, always not comfortable staying in a place full of people and always like staying alone👌🏽.

5. They hardly talk in the midst of people but talkative when they are with their lovely one.
People usually sees them as too proud people but they are not.

6. They can endure alot but don't push them or take them for granted because once they decide, you have lost them kpatakpata✌🏽.

7. They are too emotional. They don't easily forget bad things someone did to them.

8. They hardly share their problems to anybody or ask people for assistance no matter what they are passing through

9. You won't easily observe the kind of person untill you get closer to them
They are unpredictable and stubborn

If you're in this table, gather here let's know ourselves

TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT, WOMEN ARE NATURALLY GAMERS
Whether you know it or like it or believe it or not... weemen are natural Gamers, and they constantly play games on you (the man).

Sometimes they do it consciously with deep intent, and other times it just occurs to them and they do it innocently, and that's because Game is ingrained in their subconscious.

It is you the man who is naive and inexperienced that suffers it, and because of the many societal notions that have emasculated men and made them Simps for years... they fall into it and think they are in love, not knowing that the whoman in her mind is like...

"damn, so this man can be this ph00lish. Lol. See how I tricked him into believing the lie I told him. See how I tricked him into doing that thing he said he will never do again. Lol"

Ouh, you didn't know that a whoman has this conversation going on in her mind each time she manipulates you?

Weemen are more experienced in the dating game than men. I can bet my life savings on this. And because weemen are born with inherent value... that is why a young girl of 20 would keep getting male attention and favours.

From her teenage age when she started growing nyash and bress... men from different social class and economic status have approached and interacted with her, and she has since then developed a thick skin in the game.

Her experiences and interaction with men from all walks of life would make her Game rock-solid, and that is why sometimes you will see a girl who have rolled with big boys prefer to settle down with one broke, calm and gentle guy that she loves.

She didn't settle for money (of course he doesn't have money), but because she has tasted life and experienced different facets of it, and is now smart and wise.

But it is the innocent guy that I do pity, because this guy hasn't had as much experiences as the girl.

Because men are born with no value.... while an 18 year old girl's SMV is high and she has probably seen more cocks than a poultry farmer... the 27 year old boy was probably broke and struggling to build his own value. He couldn't enjoy a fraction of the luxury that she enjoyed in her prime.

And when she dates this guy... she uses her experience in the Game to deal with him, manipulate him and turn him into a Simp.

That is the reason why you MUST learn Game, because the girls and weemen you're going into relationships with... these people are NOT your mates.

If you go in with a blank skull and empty brain with no sense of Game... you are finished!

You might later come to my dm and ask me to hide your identity. Lol (this is true, but if you can spot the sarcasm in this line, I'd say you have a good sense of humor)

DEFINITION OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EI)

Emotional Intelligence (EI) is the ability to perceive, understand, manage, and regulate one’s own emotions as well as recognize and influence the emotions of others. It involves self-awareness, self-control, motivation, empathy, and social skills.

Daniel Goleman popularized EI and identified five core components:

1. Self-awareness

2. Self-regulation

3. Motivation

4. Empathy

5. Social skills

High emotional intelligence helps individuals build better relationships, reduce stress, defuse conflict, and improve job performance.

50 KEY ISSUES ABOUT EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EXPLAINED)

1. Self-Awareness – Knowing your emotions, strengths, weaknesses, and drives.

2. Self-Regulation – Controlling or redirecting disruptive impulses and moods.

3. Internal Motivation – Being driven to achieve beyond external rewards.

4. Empathy – Recognizing and understanding others’ emotions.

5. Social Skills – Managing relationships and building networks effectively.

6. Emotional Recognition – Ability to identify emotions in oneself and others.

7. Emotional Expression – Expressing emotions clearly and appropriately.

8. Emotional Management – Keeping emotional reactions in check.

9. Impulse Control – Resisting or delaying an emotional or behavioral reaction.

10. Self-Confidence – A strong sense of self-worth and capabilities.

11. Adaptability – Flexibility in dealing with change or unexpected obstacles.

12. Stress Management – Handling stress without becoming overwhelmed.

13. Optimism – A positive outlook that helps overcome obstacles.

14. Emotional Resilience – Recovering from setbacks and emotional distress.

15. Conflict Resolution – Managing and resolving disputes constructively.

16. Active Listening – Fully concentrating and understanding before responding.

17. Non-Verbal Communication – Reading body language and emotional cues.

18. Building Rapport – Creating a positive connection with others.

19. Trustworthiness – Being reliable and maintaining integrity.

20. Self-Motivation – Initiating tasks and pursuing goals persistently.

21. Managing Feedback – Giving and receiving feedback positively.

22. Empathetic Listening – Understanding emotions behind the words.

23. Handling Criticism – Receiving negative feedback constructively.

24. Patience – Tolerating delays or problems calmly.

25. Influence – Persuading others while respecting their viewpoints.

26. Teamwork – Collaborating with others toward a common goal.

27. Leadership – Inspiring and guiding others with emotional sensitivity.

28. Emotional Detachment – Knowing when to detach emotionally for objectivity.

29. Personal Responsibility – Owning one’s emotions and actions.

30. Awareness of Others – Sensitivity to others' emotional states and needs.

31. Mindfulness – Being present and aware of emotions in real-time.

32. Emotional Triggers – Recognizing what provokes strong emotional responses.

33. Emotional Vocabulary – Using precise language to describe feelings.

34. Perspective-Taking – Seeing situations from others’ emotional viewpoints.

35. Emotional Contagion – Understanding how emotions spread in groups.

36. Mood Management – Maintaining a healthy and productive emotional state.

37. Cultural Sensitivity – Respecting emotional expressions in diverse cultures.

38. Boundary Setting – Knowing emotional limits and asserting them respectfully.

39. Dealing with Rejection – Handling emotional pain without collapse.

40. Balancing Emotion and Logic – Making decisions that respect both.

41. Compassion – Responding to suffering with understanding and care.

42. Apologizing Sincerely – Recognizing wrongs and expressing remorse.

43. Appreciating Others – Showing gratitude and valuing emotional contributions.

44. Emotional Coaching – Helping others manage their emotions effectively.

45. Emotional Maturity – Consistently behaving in emotionally appropriate ways.

46. Regulating Emotional Climate – Shaping group emotional tone positively.

47. Dealing with Toxic People – Navigating manipulative or overly emotional individuals wisely.

48. Encouragement – Offering emotional support to boost morale.

49. Handling Uncertainty – Coping emotionally with ambiguity and change.

50. Personal Development – Constantly working to improve emotional capabilities.