“My Money is My Money, But His Money is Our Money?” 💔 A Danger0us Mindset in Marriage Ladies, let's talk. 👇 That line might sound funny on social media, but in real life, it’s one of the quickest ways to break trust, fuel resentment, and hinder progress in your marriage. As a marriage counselor, let me help you reset your mindset and set your marriage up for success. 💯 ✅ 1. Marriage is a Covenant, Not a Competition 🌹 Once you say "I do," you are no longer two individuals — you are one team. That means resources, time, energy, and money should no longer be viewed as “mine vs. yours” but ours. ✅ 2. Your Money is Family Money 🌹 Whether the husband earns it or the wife does, it belongs to the home, not to one person. Money should be pooled together to meet family needs, pursue shared goals, and build legacy. 🧩 Teamwork in finances equals peace in the home. ✅ 3. Stop Misusing 1 Timothy 5 🌹 Many wrongly use 1 Timothy 5:8 to say men must be sole providers. But context matters! That chapter talks about supporting widows, not setting financial roles in marriage. Verse 16 even says: “If any man or woman has widows... let them relieve them...” 💡 Conclusion: Provision isn’t gender-specific — it’s about responsibility, not roles. ✅ 4. Scripture Over Culture 🌹 Culture may say “only the man must provide”, but the Bible never says the man must be the sole provider. 🔍 Proverbs 31 paints a picture of a resourceful, industrious woman involved in: 📍Agriculture 📍Trading and exporting 📍Fashion and textiles 📍Charity work 👑 She was married and still actively contributed financially. ✅ 5. Marriage is a Financial Partnership 🌹 You and your spouse should: 📍Set shared financial goals 📍Create a joint budget 📍Discuss big purchases 📍Sacrifice for one another when needed Sometimes, the wife will delay her wants so her husband can meet a need, and vice versa. This is not weakness — this is love and wisdom. ✅ 6. Ladies, Adjust Your Mindset 🌹 Stop seeing yourself as a financial observer. You are not a guest in your marriage — you are a co-builder. 🚫 “I’m just helping him” ✅ “We’re building this life together” God did not create Eve to be idle — He created her to be a helper suitable. That includes emotional, spiritual, and financial help. ✅ 7. Be a Woman of Value, Not Just Expense 🌹 You can be wealthy. You can provide. You can start a business, own property, fund dreams, sponsor others, and bless your home. 🌱 You are not just a helpmate — you are a force for financial progress. 🙏🏾 Final Word: Marriage thrives where selfishness d!es. Drop the “my money vs. his money” mindset. Pick up the “our home, our wealth, our future” mindset. 💖 God is for your marriage, and you will not fail in Jesus’ name. 🔁 Share this with every married couple and young woman you know. 📌 Follow us for more Biblical marriage truths:

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" Don't tell me you are suspecting me ? Do you think I took your money? " Olamma asked with a teary voice. " Who is calling you on phone by this time of the night? Pick up the phone now " Femi said in an angry tone ignoring the question Olamma had asked. Olamma's hand was shaking in fear. She picked up the call and put it on speaker. " Hello Ola " a female voice said over the phone. " Hello, Mirable " " Babe, how far nah " the female voice asked. All the anger boiling within Femi died down. He felt confused and didn't even know what to think anymore. " Let me talk to you later, Mimi " Olamma said and hung up the call. She started shedding tears. Femi tried to touch her and she asked him to leave her alone. Femi looked at Olamma for a while and then walked out of her room. Olamma wiped her tears immediately. She was scared that Femi had caught her. But her friend had come to the rescue. She had told Mirable that she was going to gist her that night but had forgotten to call her. As Olamma was still breathing her air of freedom, her phone beeped. It was a message from Fred. He told her he didn't call back because he felt her husband was around which made her hang up abruptly. Olamma was so happy with Fred for being so smart. She thanked him and promised to see him the next day to give him exactly what he wanted the way he wanted it. * Femi sat on his bed thinking of what he was going to do next. If Olamma didn't take the money as he had suspected earlier, does it mean that Odera changed overnight and stole his money?. The more Femi thought about it, the more he got confused. He picked his phone and tried Odera's number and it was still switched off. The next morning, Femi woke up early. He made up his mind to look for his wife and know why she left with his money. He had dressed up and was about to leave the house when Olamma stopped him. " Babe, I know you are angry at Odera for t

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This morning as you prepare to go to out , I decree that the Lord Almighty will surely raise a standard against those who says No to your progress and breakthrough. His Mighty hands that doeth valiantly and wondrous miracles will elevate you and place you at the highest level that surpasses human understandings, No one will rise to stop you, You will surely shine and utilize your glory, The glory of God will radiates upon your household in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen. *FOBCARES ✍️*

The Lord counsels, "Enter ye in at the gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it." The 'strait gate' is the narrow way; the way of salvation that leads to eternal life in Heaven. It accommodates only those liberated from their heavy weight of sin, which they have offloaded at the Cross of Calvary.👇👇👇 The 'wide gate' on the other hand, is the broad way. It is the way of easy and self-indulgence; 👇👇👇👇👇it accommodates excesses of all sorts, and sin, in its wildest range. It is the way of destruction, because it terminates in Hellfire. Unfortunately, many people are heading there, because of the life they have chosen to lead - a life of sin, a life without Jesus Christ as Saviour 😭😭😭🙆 The only one to eternal life in Heaven is the way of repentance from all sins; and faith in Jesus Christ. He has completed the work for your redemption. All you need do is to repent and get this saving grace.🙏🙏🙏 Amen.

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