• *The Myth About Soulmates!*

    Many people erroneously believe that there's ONE person out there who is their soulmate, someone God had predestined for them to marry, and until they find that ONE person, they will never enjoy true love.

    Some people call it "missing rib," someone that was divinely created for them alone.

    But that is not true!

    There is no ONE person in the entire universe that is your soulmate or missing rib.

    You can choose your soulmate.

    You can choose who to fall in love with, and eventually marry.

    If I didn't marry my wife, there are more than 1 million women I could still marry, and the marriage will work, and if she didn't marry me, there are many other men she could have married.

    But I chose her, and she chose me.
    And we both became each other's soulmates!

    Yes, God helped us to make the choice, because of his plan and purpose for our lives.

    If you believe there's ONE person in the world that is your soulmate, what if that person dies, even before you meet him/her?
    Will you remain single for life?

    Some people are still single today, because they are waiting for a magical soulmate, and they have missed an opportunity with many amazing men and women.

    If you're a believer, the instruction is to never marry an unbeliever or a believer who isn't focused on serving God and pursuing the plan and purpose of God.

    Sister Adetola, brother Timothy is not your soulmate, if he doesn't marry you, another brother can marry you.
    Stop being frustrated because someone you love isn't interested in marrying you.

    Open up your heart, and you will find love in places you least expect.

    And when you meet that man or woman that truly deserves you, you can make them your SOULMATE!

    I hope this helps!


    #truelove #soulmate #relationship #happiness #Marriage Tips
    *The Myth About Soulmates!* Many people erroneously believe that there's ONE person out there who is their soulmate, someone God had predestined for them to marry, and until they find that ONE person, they will never enjoy true love. Some people call it "missing rib," someone that was divinely created for them alone. But that is not true! There is no ONE person in the entire universe that is your soulmate or missing rib. You can choose your soulmate. You can choose who to fall in love with, and eventually marry. If I didn't marry my wife, there are more than 1 million women I could still marry, and the marriage will work, and if she didn't marry me, there are many other men she could have married. But I chose her, and she chose me. And we both became each other's soulmates! Yes, God helped us to make the choice, because of his plan and purpose for our lives. If you believe there's ONE person in the world that is your soulmate, what if that person dies, even before you meet him/her? Will you remain single for life? Some people are still single today, because they are waiting for a magical soulmate, and they have missed an opportunity with many amazing men and women. If you're a believer, the instruction is to never marry an unbeliever or a believer who isn't focused on serving God and pursuing the plan and purpose of God. Sister Adetola, brother Timothy is not your soulmate, if he doesn't marry you, another brother can marry you. Stop being frustrated because someone you love isn't interested in marrying you. Open up your heart, and you will find love in places you least expect. And when you meet that man or woman that truly deserves you, you can make them your SOULMATE! I hope this helps! #truelove #soulmate #relationship #happiness #Marriage Tips
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  • THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN

    Let’s settle this like men.

    1️⃣ A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability.
    The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now.

    2️⃣ If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan.
    While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product.

    3️⃣ Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish.
    Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired.

    4️⃣ A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner.
    If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate.

    5️⃣ Love without financial independence is modern slavery.
    You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense.

    6️⃣ Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight.
    You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies.

    7️⃣ The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money.
    No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost.

    8️⃣ Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women.
    You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement.

    9️⃣ The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission.
    The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely.

    Don’t confuse sex for value.
    Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference.

    FINAL WARNING
    Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons.
    Spend them like a king.
    A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress.

    If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life.
    Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire.

    Stop sponsoring liabilities.
    Start building legacies.
    THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN Let’s settle this like men. 1️⃣ A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability. The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now. 2️⃣ If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan. While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product. 3️⃣ Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish. Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired. 4️⃣ A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner. If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate. 5️⃣ Love without financial independence is modern slavery. You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense. 6️⃣ Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight. You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies. 7️⃣ The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money. No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost. 8️⃣ Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women. You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement. 9️⃣ The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission. The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely. 🔟 Don’t confuse sex for value. Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference. FINAL WARNING Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons. Spend them like a king. A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress. If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life. Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire. Stop sponsoring liabilities. Start building legacies.
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  • A LONG READ

    How do we choose the people we fall in love with?

    The Romantic answer is that our instincts naturally guide us to individuals who are kind and good for us.

    Love is a sort of ecstasy that descends when we feel ourselves in the presence of a benign and nourishing soul, who will answer our emotional needs, understand our sadness and strengthen us for the hard tasks of our lives.

    In order to locate our lover, we must let our instincts carry us along, taking care never to impede them through pedantic psychological analysis and introspection or else considerations of status, wealth or lineage.

    Our feelings will tell us clearly enough when we have reached our destiny. To ask someone with any degree of rigour why exactly they have chosen a particular partner is – in the Romantic world-view – simply an unnecessary and offensive misunderstanding of love: true love is an instinct that accurately and naturally settles on those with a capacity to make us happy.

    The Romantic attitude sounds warm and kind. Its originators certainly imagined that it would bring an end to the sort of unhappy relationships previously brokered by parents and society. The only difficulty is that our obedience to instinct has, very often, proved to be a disaster of its own.

    Respecting the special feelings we get around certain people in nightclubs and train stations, parties and websites and that Romanticism so ably celebrated in art appears not to have led us to be any happier in our unions than a Medieval couple shackled into marriage by two royal courts keen to preserve the sovereignty of a slice of ancestral land. ‘Instinct’ has been little better than ‘calculation’ in underwriting the quality of our love stories.

    Romanticism would not at this point, however, give up the argument quite so easily. It would simply ascribe the difficulties we often have in love to not having looked hard enough for that central fixture of Romantic reverie: the right person. This being is inevitably still out there (every soul must have its soulmate, Romanticism assures us), it is just that we haven’t managed to track them down – yet.

    So we must continue the search, with all the technology and tenacity necessary, and maybe, once the divorce has come through and the house has been sold, we’ll get it right. But there’s another school of thought, this one influenced by psychoanalysis, which challenges the notion that instinct invariably draws us to those who will make us happy.

    The theory insists that we don’t fall in love first and foremost with those who care for us in ideal ways, we fall in love with those who care for us in familiar ways. Adult love emerges from a template of how we should be loved that was created in childhood and is likely to be entwined with a range of problematic compulsions that militate in key ways against our chances of growth.

    We may believe we are seeking happiness in love, but what we are really after is familiarity. We are looking to re-create, within our adult relationships, the very feelings we knew so well in childhood – and which were rarely limited to just tenderness and care.

    The love most of us will have tasted early on was confused with other, more destructive dynamics: feelings of wanting to help an adult who was out of control, of being deprived of a parent’s warmth or scared of his or her anger, or of not feeling secure enough to communicate our trickier wishes.

    How logical, then, that we should as adults find ourselves rejecting certain candidates not because they are wrong but because they are a little too right – in the sense of seeming somehow excessively balanced, mature, understanding and reliable – given that in our hearts, such rightness feels foreign and unearned.

    We chase after more exciting others, not in the belief that life with them will be more harmonious, but out of an unconscious sense that it will be reassuringly familiar in its patterns of frustration. Psychoanalysis calls the process whereby we identify our partners ‘object choice’ – and recommends that we try to understand the factors semi-consciously governing our attractions in order to interrupt the unhealthier patterns that might be at play.

    Our instincts – our strong undercurrents of attraction and revulsion – stem from complicated experiences we had when we were far too young to understand them, and which linger in the antechambers of our minds.

    Psychoanalysis doesn’t wish to suggest that everything about our attractions will be deformed. We may have quite legitimate aspirations to positive qualities: intelligence, charm, generosity… But we are also liable to be fatefully drawn towards trickier tendencies: someone who is often absent, or treats us with a little disdain, or needs to be surrounded all the time by friends, or cannot master their finances.

    However paradoxical it can sound, without these tricky behaviours, we may simply not be able to feel passionate or tender with someone.

    Alternatively, we may have been so traumatised by a parental figure, we cannot approach any partner who shares qualities with them of any kind, even ones disconnected from their negative sides. We might in love be rigidly intolerant of anyone who is intelligent, or punctual or interested in science, simply because these were the traits of someone who caused us a great deal of difficulty early on.

    To choose our partners wisely, we need to tease out how our compulsions to suffering or our rigid flights from trauma may be playing themselves out in our feelings of attraction. A useful starting place is to ask ourselves (perhaps in the company of a large sheet of paper, a pen and a free afternoon) what sort of people really put us off.

    Revulsion and disgust are useful first guides because we are likely to recognize that some of the traits that make us shiver are not objectively negative and yet feel to us distinctly off-putting. We might, for example, sense that someone who asks us too much about ourselves, or is very tender or dependable, will seem extremely eerie and frightening.

    And we might equally well, along the way, recognize that a degree of cruelty or distance belong to an odd list of the things we appear genuinely to need in order to love. It can be tricky to avoid self-censorship here, but the point isn’t to represent ourselves as reassuring, predictable people, but to get to know the curious quirks of our own psyches.

    We’ll tend to find that some ostensibly pretty nice things are getting caught in our love filters: people who are eloquent, clever, reliable, sunny can set off loud alarms. This is vital knowledge. We should pause and try to fathom where the aversions come from, what aspects of our past have made it so hard for us to accept certain sorts of emotional nourishment.

    Each time we recognize a negative, we’re discovering a crucial association in our own minds: we’re alighting on an impossibility of love based on associations from the past projected onto the present. An additional way we can get at the associations which circulate powerfully in the less noticed corners of our brains is to finish stub-sentences, that invite us to respond to things that might charm or repel us about someone.

    We get to see our own reactions more clearly when we write things down without thinking too much about our answers, catching the mind’s unconscious at work.

    For instance, we can deliberately jot the first things that come into our heads when we read the following:
    • If I tell a partner how much I need them, they will…
    • When someone tells me they really need me, I…
    • If someone can’t cope, I…
    • When someone tells me to get my act together, I …
    • If I were to be frank about my anxieties …
    • If my partner told me not to worry, I’d…
    • When someone blames me unfairly, I …

    Our honestly described reactions are legacies. They are revealing underlying assumptions we have acquired about what love can look like. We may start to get a clearer picture that our vision of what we are looking for in another person might not be an especially good guide to our personal or mutual happiness.

    Examining our emotional histories, we see that we can’t be attracted to just anyone. Getting to know the past, we come to recognise our earlier associations for what they are: generalisations we formed – entirely understandably – on the basis of just one or, hugely impressive, examples.

    We’ve unknowingly turned some local associations into strict rules for relationships. Even if we can’t radically shift the pattern, it’s useful to know that we are carrying a ball and chain. It can make us more careful of ourselves when we feel overwhelmed by a certainty that we’ve met the one, after a few minutes chatting at the bar.

    Ultimately, we stand to be liberated to love different people to our initial ‘types’, because we find that the qualities we like, and the ones we very much fear, are found in different constellations from those we encountered in the people who first taught us about affection, long ago in a childhood we are starting at last to understand and free ourselves from.

    The Counsellor
    A LONG READ How do we choose the people we fall in love with? The Romantic answer is that our instincts naturally guide us to individuals who are kind and good for us. Love is a sort of ecstasy that descends when we feel ourselves in the presence of a benign and nourishing soul, who will answer our emotional needs, understand our sadness and strengthen us for the hard tasks of our lives. In order to locate our lover, we must let our instincts carry us along, taking care never to impede them through pedantic psychological analysis and introspection or else considerations of status, wealth or lineage. Our feelings will tell us clearly enough when we have reached our destiny. To ask someone with any degree of rigour why exactly they have chosen a particular partner is – in the Romantic world-view – simply an unnecessary and offensive misunderstanding of love: true love is an instinct that accurately and naturally settles on those with a capacity to make us happy. The Romantic attitude sounds warm and kind. Its originators certainly imagined that it would bring an end to the sort of unhappy relationships previously brokered by parents and society. The only difficulty is that our obedience to instinct has, very often, proved to be a disaster of its own. Respecting the special feelings we get around certain people in nightclubs and train stations, parties and websites and that Romanticism so ably celebrated in art appears not to have led us to be any happier in our unions than a Medieval couple shackled into marriage by two royal courts keen to preserve the sovereignty of a slice of ancestral land. ‘Instinct’ has been little better than ‘calculation’ in underwriting the quality of our love stories. Romanticism would not at this point, however, give up the argument quite so easily. It would simply ascribe the difficulties we often have in love to not having looked hard enough for that central fixture of Romantic reverie: the right person. This being is inevitably still out there (every soul must have its soulmate, Romanticism assures us), it is just that we haven’t managed to track them down – yet. So we must continue the search, with all the technology and tenacity necessary, and maybe, once the divorce has come through and the house has been sold, we’ll get it right. But there’s another school of thought, this one influenced by psychoanalysis, which challenges the notion that instinct invariably draws us to those who will make us happy. The theory insists that we don’t fall in love first and foremost with those who care for us in ideal ways, we fall in love with those who care for us in familiar ways. Adult love emerges from a template of how we should be loved that was created in childhood and is likely to be entwined with a range of problematic compulsions that militate in key ways against our chances of growth. We may believe we are seeking happiness in love, but what we are really after is familiarity. We are looking to re-create, within our adult relationships, the very feelings we knew so well in childhood – and which were rarely limited to just tenderness and care. The love most of us will have tasted early on was confused with other, more destructive dynamics: feelings of wanting to help an adult who was out of control, of being deprived of a parent’s warmth or scared of his or her anger, or of not feeling secure enough to communicate our trickier wishes. How logical, then, that we should as adults find ourselves rejecting certain candidates not because they are wrong but because they are a little too right – in the sense of seeming somehow excessively balanced, mature, understanding and reliable – given that in our hearts, such rightness feels foreign and unearned. We chase after more exciting others, not in the belief that life with them will be more harmonious, but out of an unconscious sense that it will be reassuringly familiar in its patterns of frustration. Psychoanalysis calls the process whereby we identify our partners ‘object choice’ – and recommends that we try to understand the factors semi-consciously governing our attractions in order to interrupt the unhealthier patterns that might be at play. Our instincts – our strong undercurrents of attraction and revulsion – stem from complicated experiences we had when we were far too young to understand them, and which linger in the antechambers of our minds. Psychoanalysis doesn’t wish to suggest that everything about our attractions will be deformed. We may have quite legitimate aspirations to positive qualities: intelligence, charm, generosity… But we are also liable to be fatefully drawn towards trickier tendencies: someone who is often absent, or treats us with a little disdain, or needs to be surrounded all the time by friends, or cannot master their finances. However paradoxical it can sound, without these tricky behaviours, we may simply not be able to feel passionate or tender with someone. Alternatively, we may have been so traumatised by a parental figure, we cannot approach any partner who shares qualities with them of any kind, even ones disconnected from their negative sides. We might in love be rigidly intolerant of anyone who is intelligent, or punctual or interested in science, simply because these were the traits of someone who caused us a great deal of difficulty early on. To choose our partners wisely, we need to tease out how our compulsions to suffering or our rigid flights from trauma may be playing themselves out in our feelings of attraction. A useful starting place is to ask ourselves (perhaps in the company of a large sheet of paper, a pen and a free afternoon) what sort of people really put us off. Revulsion and disgust are useful first guides because we are likely to recognize that some of the traits that make us shiver are not objectively negative and yet feel to us distinctly off-putting. We might, for example, sense that someone who asks us too much about ourselves, or is very tender or dependable, will seem extremely eerie and frightening. And we might equally well, along the way, recognize that a degree of cruelty or distance belong to an odd list of the things we appear genuinely to need in order to love. It can be tricky to avoid self-censorship here, but the point isn’t to represent ourselves as reassuring, predictable people, but to get to know the curious quirks of our own psyches. We’ll tend to find that some ostensibly pretty nice things are getting caught in our love filters: people who are eloquent, clever, reliable, sunny can set off loud alarms. This is vital knowledge. We should pause and try to fathom where the aversions come from, what aspects of our past have made it so hard for us to accept certain sorts of emotional nourishment. Each time we recognize a negative, we’re discovering a crucial association in our own minds: we’re alighting on an impossibility of love based on associations from the past projected onto the present. An additional way we can get at the associations which circulate powerfully in the less noticed corners of our brains is to finish stub-sentences, that invite us to respond to things that might charm or repel us about someone. We get to see our own reactions more clearly when we write things down without thinking too much about our answers, catching the mind’s unconscious at work. For instance, we can deliberately jot the first things that come into our heads when we read the following: • If I tell a partner how much I need them, they will… • When someone tells me they really need me, I… • If someone can’t cope, I… • When someone tells me to get my act together, I … • If I were to be frank about my anxieties … • If my partner told me not to worry, I’d… • When someone blames me unfairly, I … Our honestly described reactions are legacies. They are revealing underlying assumptions we have acquired about what love can look like. We may start to get a clearer picture that our vision of what we are looking for in another person might not be an especially good guide to our personal or mutual happiness. Examining our emotional histories, we see that we can’t be attracted to just anyone. Getting to know the past, we come to recognise our earlier associations for what they are: generalisations we formed – entirely understandably – on the basis of just one or, hugely impressive, examples. We’ve unknowingly turned some local associations into strict rules for relationships. Even if we can’t radically shift the pattern, it’s useful to know that we are carrying a ball and chain. It can make us more careful of ourselves when we feel overwhelmed by a certainty that we’ve met the one, after a few minutes chatting at the bar. Ultimately, we stand to be liberated to love different people to our initial ‘types’, because we find that the qualities we like, and the ones we very much fear, are found in different constellations from those we encountered in the people who first taught us about affection, long ago in a childhood we are starting at last to understand and free ourselves from. ©️The Counsellor
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  • *The Myth About Soulmates!*


    Many people erroneously believe that there's ONE person out there who is their soulmate, someone God had predestined for them to marry, and until they find that ONE person, they will never enjoy true love.

    Some people call it "missing rib," someone that was divinely created for them alone.

    But that is not true!

    There is no ONE person in the entire universe that is your soulmate or missing rib.

    You can choose your soulmate.

    You can choose who to fall in love with, and eventually marry.

    If I didn't marry my wife, there are more than 1 million women I could still marry, and the marriage will work, and if she didn't marry me, there are many other men she could have married.

    But I chose her, and she chose me.
    And we both became each other's soulmates!

    Yes, God helped us to make the choice, because of his plan and purpose for our lives.

    If you believe there's ONE person in the world that is your soulmate, what if that person dies, even before you meet him/her?
    Will you remain single for life?

    Some people are still single today, because they are waiting for a magical soulmate, and they have missed an opportunity with many amazing men and women.

    If you're a believer, the instruction is to never marry an unbeliever or a believer who isn't focused on serving God and pursuing the plan and purpose of God.

    Sister Adetola, brother Timothy is not your soulmate, if he doesn't marry you, another brother can marry you.
    Stop being frustrated because someone you love isn't interested in marrying you.

    Open up your heart, and you will find love in places you least expect.

    And when you meet that man or woman that truly deserves you, you can make them your SOULMATE!

    I hope this helps!


    #truelove #soulmate #relationship #happiness #Marriage Tips
    *The Myth About Soulmates!* Many people erroneously believe that there's ONE person out there who is their soulmate, someone God had predestined for them to marry, and until they find that ONE person, they will never enjoy true love. Some people call it "missing rib," someone that was divinely created for them alone. But that is not true! There is no ONE person in the entire universe that is your soulmate or missing rib. You can choose your soulmate. You can choose who to fall in love with, and eventually marry. If I didn't marry my wife, there are more than 1 million women I could still marry, and the marriage will work, and if she didn't marry me, there are many other men she could have married. But I chose her, and she chose me. And we both became each other's soulmates! Yes, God helped us to make the choice, because of his plan and purpose for our lives. If you believe there's ONE person in the world that is your soulmate, what if that person dies, even before you meet him/her? Will you remain single for life? Some people are still single today, because they are waiting for a magical soulmate, and they have missed an opportunity with many amazing men and women. If you're a believer, the instruction is to never marry an unbeliever or a believer who isn't focused on serving God and pursuing the plan and purpose of God. Sister Adetola, brother Timothy is not your soulmate, if he doesn't marry you, another brother can marry you. Stop being frustrated because someone you love isn't interested in marrying you. Open up your heart, and you will find love in places you least expect. And when you meet that man or woman that truly deserves you, you can make them your SOULMATE! I hope this helps! #truelove #soulmate #relationship #happiness #Marriage Tips
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  • Who we want in a Relationship.

    We want someone to come into our lives who knows how to manage emotional trauma, that has intelligence, and someone that can give us the world without us even asking.

    Countless nights go by and we catch ourselves praying that maybe tomorrow we will find our soulmate that will make everything feel like a book that Nicholas Sparks wrote.

    We want someone that notices us on a daily basis, respects us, admires us and treats us like a priority rather than an option.

    We want someone who wants to protect our well-being and invests their time in our own happiness.

    We want to be with someone who isn't afraid to hurt others people's feelings to protect ours.

    We want someone who wakes up everyday looking for new ways to love us.

    We want someone who chooses us under any circumstance.

    We want to be with someone who refuses to entertain any other person that's not us.

    We want someone that will continue chasing us long after, they have already had us.

    We all will eventually find someone who will give us the love and affection we have always longed for, but you always have to remember no matter what... It’s never too late to find someone who appreciates and values you for who you truly are as a person inside and out.

    Take my advice .... and always remember that your time is precious. So don't waste it on someone who doesn't realize you are too.

    ~ written by Strawberry Tech Media

    ➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹

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    Who we want in a Relationship. We want someone to come into our lives who knows how to manage emotional trauma, that has intelligence, and someone that can give us the world without us even asking. Countless nights go by and we catch ourselves praying that maybe tomorrow we will find our soulmate that will make everything feel like a book that Nicholas Sparks wrote. We want someone that notices us on a daily basis, respects us, admires us and treats us like a priority rather than an option. We want someone who wants to protect our well-being and invests their time in our own happiness. We want to be with someone who isn't afraid to hurt others people's feelings to protect ours. We want someone who wakes up everyday looking for new ways to love us. We want someone who chooses us under any circumstance. We want to be with someone who refuses to entertain any other person that's not us. We want someone that will continue chasing us long after, they have already had us. We all will eventually find someone who will give us the love and affection we have always longed for, but you always have to remember no matter what... It’s never too late to find someone who appreciates and values you for who you truly are as a person inside and out. Take my advice .... and always remember that your time is precious. So don't waste it on someone who doesn't realize you are too. ~ written by Strawberry Tech Media ➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨😭🙏❤‍🩹 ``🍓🌟🍓🌟🍓💛💜💙💛🍓
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  • Who we want in a Relationship.

    We want someone to come into our lives who knows how to manage emotional trauma, that has intelligence, and someone that can give us the world without us even asking.

    Countless nights go by and we catch ourselves praying that maybe tomorrow we will find our soulmate that will make everything feel like a book that Nicholas Sparks wrote.

    We want someone that notices us on a daily basis, respects us, admires us and treats us like a priority rather than an option.

    We want someone who wants to protect our well-being and invests their time in our own happiness.

    We want to be with someone who isn't afraid to hurt others people's feelings to protect ours.

    We want someone who wakes up everyday looking for new ways to love us.

    We want someone who chooses us under any circumstance.

    We want to be with someone who refuses to entertain any other person that's not us.

    We want someone that will continue chasing us long after, they have already had us.

    We all will eventually find someone who will give us the love and affection we have always longed for, but you always have to remember no matter what... It’s never too late to find someone who appreciates and values you for who you truly are as a person inside and out.

    Take my advice .... and always remember that your time is precious. So don't waste it on someone who doesn't realize you are too.

    ~ written by Strawberry Tech Media
    Who we want in a Relationship. We want someone to come into our lives who knows how to manage emotional trauma, that has intelligence, and someone that can give us the world without us even asking. Countless nights go by and we catch ourselves praying that maybe tomorrow we will find our soulmate that will make everything feel like a book that Nicholas Sparks wrote. We want someone that notices us on a daily basis, respects us, admires us and treats us like a priority rather than an option. We want someone who wants to protect our well-being and invests their time in our own happiness. We want to be with someone who isn't afraid to hurt others people's feelings to protect ours. We want someone who wakes up everyday looking for new ways to love us. We want someone who chooses us under any circumstance. We want to be with someone who refuses to entertain any other person that's not us. We want someone that will continue chasing us long after, they have already had us. We all will eventually find someone who will give us the love and affection we have always longed for, but you always have to remember no matter what... It’s never too late to find someone who appreciates and values you for who you truly are as a person inside and out. Take my advice .... and always remember that your time is precious. So don't waste it on someone who doesn't realize you are too. ~ written by Strawberry Tech Media
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  • Who we want in a Relationship.

    We want someone to come into our lives who knows how to manage emotional trauma, that has intelligence, and someone that can give us the world without us even asking.

    Countless nights go by and we catch ourselves praying that maybe tomorrow we will find our soulmate that will make everything feel like a book that Nicholas Sparks wrote.

    We want someone that notices us on a daily basis, respects us, admires us and treats us like a priority rather than an option.

    We want someone who wants to protect our well-being and invests their time in our own happiness.

    We want to be with someone who isn't afraid to hurt others people's feelings to protect ours.

    We want someone who wakes up everyday looking for new ways to love us.

    We want someone who chooses us under any circumstance.

    We want to be with someone who refuses to entertain any other person that's not us.

    We want someone that will continue chasing us long after, they have already had us.

    We all will eventually find someone who will give us the love and affection we have always longed for, but you always have to remember no matter what... It’s never too late to find someone who appreciates and values you for who you truly are as a person inside and out.

    Take my advice .... and always remember that your time is precious. So don't waste it on someone who doesn't realize you are too.

    ~ written by Strawberry Tech Media

    ➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹
    Who we want in a Relationship. We want someone to come into our lives who knows how to manage emotional trauma, that has intelligence, and someone that can give us the world without us even asking. Countless nights go by and we catch ourselves praying that maybe tomorrow we will find our soulmate that will make everything feel like a book that Nicholas Sparks wrote. We want someone that notices us on a daily basis, respects us, admires us and treats us like a priority rather than an option. We want someone who wants to protect our well-being and invests their time in our own happiness. We want to be with someone who isn't afraid to hurt others people's feelings to protect ours. We want someone who wakes up everyday looking for new ways to love us. We want someone who chooses us under any circumstance. We want to be with someone who refuses to entertain any other person that's not us. We want someone that will continue chasing us long after, they have already had us. We all will eventually find someone who will give us the love and affection we have always longed for, but you always have to remember no matter what... It’s never too late to find someone who appreciates and values you for who you truly are as a person inside and out. Take my advice .... and always remember that your time is precious. So don't waste it on someone who doesn't realize you are too. ~ written by Strawberry Tech Media ➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨😭🙏❤‍🩹
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  • Not all soulmates are meant to be romantic partners. Sometimes, they show up in our lives as friends, mentors, or even brief encounters that leave a lasting impact. A soulmate is simply someone whose soul resonates with yours — someone who mirrors your inner world, challenges your growth, and reminds you of who you truly are. These connections can feel electric and deeply familiar, even if they aren’t wrapped in the narrative of love stories or lifelong companionship. They may arrive during a season of change, guide you through darkness, and exit once their purpose is fulfilled, leaving your life altered in quiet, powerful ways.
    We often think of soulmates as "the one," but the truth is, some are sent to awaken us, not stay with us. These relationships may be painful, confusing, or fleeting, but they’re no less profound. They help us peel back layers of ourselves we never knew existed. A soulmate can be the best friend who sees you clearly, the teacher who believes in you when no one else does, or the stranger whose words echo in your heart years later. Soulmates aren’t defined by permanence — they’re defined by impact. And sometimes, their greatest gift is teaching us how to be our own soulmate first.
    Not all soulmates are meant to be romantic partners. Sometimes, they show up in our lives as friends, mentors, or even brief encounters that leave a lasting impact. A soulmate is simply someone whose soul resonates with yours — someone who mirrors your inner world, challenges your growth, and reminds you of who you truly are. These connections can feel electric and deeply familiar, even if they aren’t wrapped in the narrative of love stories or lifelong companionship. They may arrive during a season of change, guide you through darkness, and exit once their purpose is fulfilled, leaving your life altered in quiet, powerful ways. We often think of soulmates as "the one," but the truth is, some are sent to awaken us, not stay with us. These relationships may be painful, confusing, or fleeting, but they’re no less profound. They help us peel back layers of ourselves we never knew existed. A soulmate can be the best friend who sees you clearly, the teacher who believes in you when no one else does, or the stranger whose words echo in your heart years later. Soulmates aren’t defined by permanence — they’re defined by impact. And sometimes, their greatest gift is teaching us how to be our own soulmate first.
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  • What type of a soulmate do you prefer?

    * That goes to church
    * That likes to party
    * That don't do all the above
    * That goes to church & partying
    What type of a soulmate do you prefer? * That goes to church❤️ * That likes to party😂 * That don't do all the above😮 * That goes to church & partying 🙏
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  • my soulmate
    my soulmate
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  • I’m the type of person who talks to my food like it’s my soulmate.
    I’m the type of person who talks to my food like it’s my soulmate.🤣
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