• Women with absent fathers often become beggars for love, safety, and security.
    It’s heartbreaking how deeply they invest themselves in others, hoping that their love will be returned, hoping to finally feel chosen, protected, and seen.

    They carry a silent ache—an invisible wound that whispers....Maybe if I give more, they’ll stay. Maybe if I’m good enough, they’ll love me.

    This voice doesn’t come from who they are today, but from the little girl inside them who kept looking out the window, waiting for someone who never came.

    Their love becomes a currency—they trade affection, loyalty, and even their own boundaries just to feel held.

    They over-give, over-function, and over-apologize, hoping that one day, someone will finally choose to stay without conditions.

    The absence of a father doesn’t just leave a physical void—it creates emotional gaps that women often try to fill with partners, friends, or even strangers.

    But what’s missing isn’t just a person—it’s the early belief that they are inherently worthy of love without having to earn it.

    She often becomes hyper-independent, saying she doesn’t need anyone.

    But behind that strength is exhaustion—from carrying her own pain, from pretending she’s okay, from surviving in a world that never taught her how to receive.

    When she finally does meet love, she may not know how to trust it.

    Her nervous system doesn’t recognize consistency. It feels foreign. Unsafe even. She might push it away before it has a chance to hold her.

    This woman is not broken.
    She is someone who has been asked to mother herself before she was ever truly mothered. She’s someone who has built a heart out of scars and silence.

    Healing for her doesn’t come from finding the perfect partner. It comes from finding herself. From meeting the little girl within and telling her, “You don’t have to beg anymore. You are already enough.”

    When a woman with an absent father begins to reclaim her worth, she stops performing for love and starts attracting it from a place of truth.

    Her healing isn’t just hers—it becomes a ripple that touches every generation after her.

    And maybe for the first time, she finally breathes deeply… not because someone stayed, but because she stopped abandoning herself.

    If you belong to this story, know that healing is possible. I’m here to help you on this journey—just reach out to me.

    - Abhikesh
    Women with absent fathers often become beggars for love, safety, and security. It’s heartbreaking how deeply they invest themselves in others, hoping that their love will be returned, hoping to finally feel chosen, protected, and seen. They carry a silent ache—an invisible wound that whispers....Maybe if I give more, they’ll stay. Maybe if I’m good enough, they’ll love me. This voice doesn’t come from who they are today, but from the little girl inside them who kept looking out the window, waiting for someone who never came. Their love becomes a currency—they trade affection, loyalty, and even their own boundaries just to feel held. They over-give, over-function, and over-apologize, hoping that one day, someone will finally choose to stay without conditions. The absence of a father doesn’t just leave a physical void—it creates emotional gaps that women often try to fill with partners, friends, or even strangers. But what’s missing isn’t just a person—it’s the early belief that they are inherently worthy of love without having to earn it. She often becomes hyper-independent, saying she doesn’t need anyone. But behind that strength is exhaustion—from carrying her own pain, from pretending she’s okay, from surviving in a world that never taught her how to receive. When she finally does meet love, she may not know how to trust it. Her nervous system doesn’t recognize consistency. It feels foreign. Unsafe even. She might push it away before it has a chance to hold her. This woman is not broken. She is someone who has been asked to mother herself before she was ever truly mothered. She’s someone who has built a heart out of scars and silence. Healing for her doesn’t come from finding the perfect partner. It comes from finding herself. From meeting the little girl within and telling her, “You don’t have to beg anymore. You are already enough.” When a woman with an absent father begins to reclaim her worth, she stops performing for love and starts attracting it from a place of truth. Her healing isn’t just hers—it becomes a ripple that touches every generation after her. And maybe for the first time, she finally breathes deeply… not because someone stayed, but because she stopped abandoning herself. If you belong to this story, know that healing is possible. I’m here to help you on this journey—just reach out to me. - Abhikesh
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  • *THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE*

    DATE: SATURDAY 14TH JUNE 2025

    THEME: *HIDDEN ACCESS TO WEALTH*

    MEMORIZE
    Proverbs 4:7
    Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.

    READ
    Job 28:20-28
    Whence then cometh wisdom? and where is the place of understanding?
    Seeing it is hid from the eyes of all living, and kept close from the fowls of the air.
    Destruction and death say, We have heard the fame thereof with our ears.
    God understandeth the way thereof, and he knoweth the place thereof.
    For he looketh to the ends of the earth, and seeth under the whole heaven;
    To make the weight for the winds; and he weigheth the waters by measure.
    When he made a decree for the rain, and a way for the lightning of the thunder:
    Then did he see it, and declare it; he prepared it, yea, and searched it out.
    And unto man he said, Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom; and to depart from evil is understanding.

    THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
    *When our relationship with God is intact, He sustains us from His endless abundance and possibilities.*

    MESSAGE
    God's word declares that it is He who gives His covenant people the power to get wealth. I have often wondered what this amazing power to get wealth is all about until I saw that Solomon the richest man that ever lived asking for wisdom and along with wisdom came riches and wealth that the world is still talking about till date.

    His daily provisions according to the account of 1Kings 4:22-23; sums up to at least over $60,000, it's only very wealthy people that spends such money on food daily.

    The source of such must be inexhaustible, if such budget should be sustained or maintained.

    Having seen that wisdom is the principal thing, its clear that with wisdom, wealth is a natural sequence that follows.

    Every form of lack is traceable to the lack of wisdom.

    *Every form of financial issues is a wisdom issue.*

    Otherwise, wherever wisdom is found, money results naturally, though with time.

    However, wisdom is hidden from all men because all men have fallen from the glory of God. Its the glory of God therefore, to conceal sacred things from fallen humans, and we show our value for hidden stuffs by making ourselves available to search them out.

    *Pure wisdom from God is extremely sacred and flows directly from Him into the hearts of those who are undefiled in their relationship with God.*

    Pure wisdom connects it's beneficiaries to the secret chambers of God's deepest mysteries, and with such mysteries, we gain masteries over the affairs of life irrespective of the challenges on ground.

    Wisdom is more than just the application of knowledge, rather, it is the correct application of the insights gotten from direct fellowship or relationship with God. *When our relationship with God is intact, He sustains us from His endless abundance and possibilities.*

    It's simply amazing how God supplies the needs of those who are connected to Him.

    ACTION STEPS
    1. Ask the Lord to purify your heart and soul from every form of pollutions, impurities and unrighteousness.
    2. Love and pursue knowledge with all you have.
    3. Cry after wisdom on daily basis.

    PRAYERS
    Dear heavenly Father, thank you for today's devotional guide, I receive the grace to stay connected to you and draw from your limitless wisdom and knowledge for endless possibilities in my life in Jesus name.

    REMEMBER
    *When our relationship with God is intact, He sustains us from His endless abundance and possibilities*

    AUTHOR JEDIDIAH DAVID

    DAILY READING: Exodus 21; Psalms 90; Proverbs 6-8; Acts 1; 2Cor 6.

    HYMN
    " There shall be showers of blessing " :
    This is the promise of love ;
    There shall be seasons refreshing,
    Sent from the Saviour above.

    Show - - ers of blessing,
    Showers of blessing we need ;
    Mercy-drops round us are falling,
    But for the showers we plead.

    2
    " There shall be showers of blessing "
    Precious reviving again ;
    Over the hills and the valleys,
    Sound of abundance of rain.

    3
    " There shall be showers of blessing " :
    Send them upon us, O Lordl
    Grant to us now a refreshing ;
    Come, and now honour Thy Word.

    4
    " There shall be showers of blessing ":
    Oh that to-day they might fall,
    Now as to God we're confessing,
    Now as on Jesus we call !

    PLEASE SHARE
    *THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE* DATE: SATURDAY 14TH JUNE 2025 THEME: *HIDDEN ACCESS TO WEALTH* MEMORIZE Proverbs 4:7 Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding. READ Job 28:20-28 Whence then cometh wisdom? and where is the place of understanding? Seeing it is hid from the eyes of all living, and kept close from the fowls of the air. Destruction and death say, We have heard the fame thereof with our ears. God understandeth the way thereof, and he knoweth the place thereof. For he looketh to the ends of the earth, and seeth under the whole heaven; To make the weight for the winds; and he weigheth the waters by measure. When he made a decree for the rain, and a way for the lightning of the thunder: Then did he see it, and declare it; he prepared it, yea, and searched it out. And unto man he said, Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom; and to depart from evil is understanding. THOUGHT FOR THE DAY *When our relationship with God is intact, He sustains us from His endless abundance and possibilities.* MESSAGE God's word declares that it is He who gives His covenant people the power to get wealth. I have often wondered what this amazing power to get wealth is all about until I saw that Solomon the richest man that ever lived asking for wisdom and along with wisdom came riches and wealth that the world is still talking about till date. His daily provisions according to the account of 1Kings 4:22-23; sums up to at least over $60,000, it's only very wealthy people that spends such money on food daily. The source of such must be inexhaustible, if such budget should be sustained or maintained. Having seen that wisdom is the principal thing, its clear that with wisdom, wealth is a natural sequence that follows. Every form of lack is traceable to the lack of wisdom. *Every form of financial issues is a wisdom issue.* Otherwise, wherever wisdom is found, money results naturally, though with time. However, wisdom is hidden from all men because all men have fallen from the glory of God. Its the glory of God therefore, to conceal sacred things from fallen humans, and we show our value for hidden stuffs by making ourselves available to search them out. *Pure wisdom from God is extremely sacred and flows directly from Him into the hearts of those who are undefiled in their relationship with God.* Pure wisdom connects it's beneficiaries to the secret chambers of God's deepest mysteries, and with such mysteries, we gain masteries over the affairs of life irrespective of the challenges on ground. Wisdom is more than just the application of knowledge, rather, it is the correct application of the insights gotten from direct fellowship or relationship with God. *When our relationship with God is intact, He sustains us from His endless abundance and possibilities.* It's simply amazing how God supplies the needs of those who are connected to Him. ACTION STEPS 1. Ask the Lord to purify your heart and soul from every form of pollutions, impurities and unrighteousness. 2. Love and pursue knowledge with all you have. 3. Cry after wisdom on daily basis. PRAYERS Dear heavenly Father, thank you for today's devotional guide, I receive the grace to stay connected to you and draw from your limitless wisdom and knowledge for endless possibilities in my life in Jesus name. REMEMBER *When our relationship with God is intact, He sustains us from His endless abundance and possibilities* AUTHOR JEDIDIAH DAVID DAILY READING: Exodus 21; Psalms 90; Proverbs 6-8; Acts 1; 2Cor 6. HYMN " There shall be showers of blessing " : This is the promise of love ; There shall be seasons refreshing, Sent from the Saviour above. Show - - ers of blessing, Showers of blessing we need ; Mercy-drops round us are falling, But for the showers we plead. 2 " There shall be showers of blessing " Precious reviving again ; Over the hills and the valleys, Sound of abundance of rain. 3 " There shall be showers of blessing " : Send them upon us, O Lordl Grant to us now a refreshing ; Come, and now honour Thy Word. 4 " There shall be showers of blessing ": Oh that to-day they might fall, Now as to God we're confessing, Now as on Jesus we call ! PLEASE SHARE
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    THE WIFE WHO PRAYS YET DESTROYS HER MARRIAGE...

    WIFE/Husband... God, I want to fast and pray this week

    GOD: What will you be fasting and praying for?

    WIFE: My marriage

    GOD: Have you told your husband about it?

    WIFE: I don't think I need to

    GOD: Where is your Bible?

    WIFE: It's in my handbag

    GOD: When was the last time you read the Bible?

    WIFE: It's been a long while

    GOD: Then how do you expect to pray in the right way if you don't take time to know My will by reading My Word? Pray using My Word

    WIFE: How do I pray using Your Word?

    GOD: By returning My Word to Me. Speak My inspired Word back to Me. Like Jesus, say "It is written". My Word will not return to Me void but will accomplish the purpose intended. Hold Me to account on My Word. Go get your Bible my child

    WIFE: Yes Lord

    WIFE: I am back

    GOD: Read 1 Corinthians 7: 5

    WIFE: It says, "Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control."

    GOD: That passage of Scripture is addressing the husband and wife. I don't think you fully understand what I mean when I say in marriage, two become one. You and your husband have become one. You should be informing your husband

    WIFE: Why? What for? It's not like he will want to fast with me

    GOD: Have you tried asking him?

    WIFE: Aah. I know him. He doesn't like this spiritual stuff. I wish he was as spiritual as me

    GOD: My child, I know him better than you do. Your attitude of seeing yourself as spiritually superior is what is discouraging joint prayer between you and him. You already formed an opinion about him and you push that opinion in his face. Why do you feel the need to show how spiritual you are?

    WIFE: I take hours to pray for my marriage. I wish he knew how much I am on my knees for this marriage to work

    GOD: My child, you're doing the right thing but your attitude and motives don't please Me. You pray a miss because your heart is not in the right place. I have seen you spending hours at keshas in Church buildings; only to come back home and shout at your children and husband as you pass judgement on them. I have watched you kneel in your bedroom in prayer, only for you to show contempt and disrespect to your husband some hours later. I have seen you fasting, only for you to speak negative belittling your husband. What exactly do you want? Your prayers and fasting seem religious, like you do them to appease yourself or to show off. In the Church congregation, you are celebrated because you never miss concerts, fellowships, revival meetings, Church services and keshas; but at home you are an ungrateful wife, an angry wife, a cold wife, a harsh mother, a discouraging mother, a thorn in the flesh. Kindly read 1st Corinthians 13: 1 - 3

    WIFE: If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

    GOD: My child, if your husband and children don't feel loved by you then all your praying and fasting is for nothing. It is not what you do, but who you are. You can fast all this week for your marriage yet destroy your own marriage by how you treat your husband

    WIFE: So what do I do God? What do I do?

    GOD: Always remember that marriages remain strong, not because of prayer but because of love; prayer is but a force accompanying love. As you speak to Me in prayer, speak love to your husband.
    Praying for your marriage will not automatically make your marriage fruitful; you must work on your marriage. Stop using prayer and fasting to hide your laziness or to cover up the things you need to change as a wife. I really desire to see love in your home. I desire to see you and your husband laughing, treating each other well. Whatever you do to your husband, you do to Me. I desire to see you two together in love in My presence

    WIFE: God, forgive me for going about it the wrong way. Please give me some minutes. I will be back

    (Twenty seven minutes later)

    WIFE: God, I am back now. With my king, my husband. We approach Your throne, our King of kings

    HUSBAND: God, I want to thank You for my wife. She came to me and blessed me in a way that a wife should. Today, I want to thank You for our marriage

    GOD: Go on, I am listening. I am pleased by you two

    Since that day, the husband and wife pray together; but above all, they love each other

    *#SHARE to Educate others. Cheers! *
    * THE WIFE WHO PRAYS YET DESTROYS HER MARRIAGE... WIFE/Husband... God, I want to fast and pray this week GOD: What will you be fasting and praying for? WIFE: My marriage GOD: Have you told your husband about it? WIFE: I don't think I need to GOD: Where is your Bible? WIFE: It's in my handbag GOD: When was the last time you read the Bible? WIFE: It's been a long while GOD: Then how do you expect to pray in the right way if you don't take time to know My will by reading My Word? Pray using My Word WIFE: How do I pray using Your Word? GOD: By returning My Word to Me. Speak My inspired Word back to Me. Like Jesus, say "It is written". My Word will not return to Me void but will accomplish the purpose intended. Hold Me to account on My Word. Go get your Bible my child WIFE: Yes Lord WIFE: I am back GOD: Read 1 Corinthians 7: 5 WIFE: It says, "Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." GOD: That passage of Scripture is addressing the husband and wife. I don't think you fully understand what I mean when I say in marriage, two become one. You and your husband have become one. You should be informing your husband WIFE: Why? What for? It's not like he will want to fast with me GOD: Have you tried asking him? WIFE: Aah. I know him. He doesn't like this spiritual stuff. I wish he was as spiritual as me GOD: My child, I know him better than you do. Your attitude of seeing yourself as spiritually superior is what is discouraging joint prayer between you and him. You already formed an opinion about him and you push that opinion in his face. Why do you feel the need to show how spiritual you are? WIFE: I take hours to pray for my marriage. I wish he knew how much I am on my knees for this marriage to work GOD: My child, you're doing the right thing but your attitude and motives don't please Me. You pray a miss because your heart is not in the right place. I have seen you spending hours at keshas in Church buildings; only to come back home and shout at your children and husband as you pass judgement on them. I have watched you kneel in your bedroom in prayer, only for you to show contempt and disrespect to your husband some hours later. I have seen you fasting, only for you to speak negative belittling your husband. What exactly do you want? Your prayers and fasting seem religious, like you do them to appease yourself or to show off. In the Church congregation, you are celebrated because you never miss concerts, fellowships, revival meetings, Church services and keshas; but at home you are an ungrateful wife, an angry wife, a cold wife, a harsh mother, a discouraging mother, a thorn in the flesh. Kindly read 1st Corinthians 13: 1 - 3 WIFE: If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. GOD: My child, if your husband and children don't feel loved by you then all your praying and fasting is for nothing. It is not what you do, but who you are. You can fast all this week for your marriage yet destroy your own marriage by how you treat your husband WIFE: So what do I do God? What do I do? GOD: Always remember that marriages remain strong, not because of prayer but because of love; prayer is but a force accompanying love. As you speak to Me in prayer, speak love to your husband. Praying for your marriage will not automatically make your marriage fruitful; you must work on your marriage. Stop using prayer and fasting to hide your laziness or to cover up the things you need to change as a wife. I really desire to see love in your home. I desire to see you and your husband laughing, treating each other well. Whatever you do to your husband, you do to Me. I desire to see you two together in love in My presence WIFE: God, forgive me for going about it the wrong way. Please give me some minutes. I will be back (Twenty seven minutes later) WIFE: God, I am back now. With my king, my husband. We approach Your throne, our King of kings HUSBAND: God, I want to thank You for my wife. She came to me and blessed me in a way that a wife should. Today, I want to thank You for our marriage GOD: Go on, I am listening. I am pleased by you two Since that day, the husband and wife pray together; but above all, they love each other *#SHARE to Educate others. Cheers! 🥂*
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  • Tears for Africa
    In twilight's hush, where shadows play,
    A continent's cry echoes through the day,
    Africa's heartbeat, strong and free,
    Yet bound by chains of poverty.

    From Sahara's sands to Cape's green shore,
    A story unfolds, of struggle and more,
    Of nations rising, of dreams unfulfilled,
    Of potential waiting, yet unskilled.

    In cities bustling, where lights ablaze,
    A different tale of Africa's gaze,
    Of progress made, of hope anew,
    Yet whispers of despair, in every hue.

    The drums of tradition, beat strong and free,
    A heritage rich, of history,
    Yet modernity's tide, brings change and strife,
    A balance sought, between past and life.

    The tears fall hard, for all unseen,
    For futures bright, yet unclean,
    For opportunities, lost and rare,
    For potential squandered, beyond repair.

    But still we hold, on to hope's thin thread,
    A glimmer of a brighter future spread,
    Of leaders rising, with vision grand,
    Of people uniting, hand in hand.

    The African dream, of unity and might,
    A future shining, where all take flight,
    Where children learn, and grow with glee,
    Where women thrive, and equality,
    Where men and women, in peace entwine,
    And Africa's story, is one divine.

    The tears we shed, are not in vain,
    For in our sorrow, a change will reign,
    A new dawn breaks, with promise true,
    For Africa's future, anew.

    Let us stand tall, and claim our right,
    To shape our destiny, and shine with all our might,
    Let us unite, and work as one,
    To build a brighter future, for everyone.

    In Africa's heart, a fire burns bright,
    A flame of hope, that guides through the night,
    A beacon of light, that shines so bold,
    A symbol of strength, that never grows old.

    The tears for Africa, will dry with time,
    As progress made, and hope entwine,
    A brighter future, will soon unfold,
    For Africa's children, young and old.
    Tears for Africa In twilight's hush, where shadows play, A continent's cry echoes through the day, Africa's heartbeat, strong and free, Yet bound by chains of poverty. From Sahara's sands to Cape's green shore, A story unfolds, of struggle and more, Of nations rising, of dreams unfulfilled, Of potential waiting, yet unskilled. In cities bustling, where lights ablaze, A different tale of Africa's gaze, Of progress made, of hope anew, Yet whispers of despair, in every hue. The drums of tradition, beat strong and free, A heritage rich, of history, Yet modernity's tide, brings change and strife, A balance sought, between past and life. The tears fall hard, for all unseen, For futures bright, yet unclean, For opportunities, lost and rare, For potential squandered, beyond repair. But still we hold, on to hope's thin thread, A glimmer of a brighter future spread, Of leaders rising, with vision grand, Of people uniting, hand in hand. The African dream, of unity and might, A future shining, where all take flight, Where children learn, and grow with glee, Where women thrive, and equality, Where men and women, in peace entwine, And Africa's story, is one divine. The tears we shed, are not in vain, For in our sorrow, a change will reign, A new dawn breaks, with promise true, For Africa's future, anew. Let us stand tall, and claim our right, To shape our destiny, and shine with all our might, Let us unite, and work as one, To build a brighter future, for everyone. In Africa's heart, a fire burns bright, A flame of hope, that guides through the night, A beacon of light, that shines so bold, A symbol of strength, that never grows old. The tears for Africa, will dry with time, As progress made, and hope entwine, A brighter future, will soon unfold, For Africa's children, young and old.
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  • Father God thank you for unseen battles you fight on my behalf, I do not take it granted
    Father God thank you for unseen battles you fight on my behalf, I do not take it granted 🙏🙏
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  • AI translation from Hausa to English

    *BE CAREFUL WHEN TAKING PHOTOS OF NEWBORNS!!*

    This morning, I was called to the home of one Alhaji to examine a baby girl who was born three weeks ago.

    When I arrived at the house:

    They complained to me that the baby girl seems to have trouble seeing. Since the day of her naming ceremony up to the time I'm sharing this message, her parents have noticed that she doesn't respond to light or to hand movements near her eyes or face.

    Because of this, I suggested they consult a pediatrician at Nassarawa Hospital. I called a pediatrician and explained the situation, but he said this case should rather be seen by an eye specialist.

    The surprising part that made me share this with you is what the eye specialist said when I called him. He asked, "Did they have a naming ceremony at home?" I said, "Yes, they did, and it was well attended."

    Then he said that it's now being observed that many babies who had home naming ceremonies, where the husband’s and wife’s relatives took pictures of the newborns with their phones, end up with visual problems. The flash from phone cameras, especially during the early days or first one or two months of life, can damage the retina—the part of the eye that sends visual information to the brain.

    This happens because relatives often insist that the baby open their eyes for a photo, and at that moment, the flash from the phone’s camera can harm the baby's retina.

    Taking photos of a baby during the naming ceremony can potentially cause permanent blindness.

    Please, let’s be careful. And let’s educate parents and relatives about the dangers of insisting that a newborn open their eyes for photos.

    Please share this message so others can benefit.

    Abubakar I. Ahmad — SNA Nephrology

    Isah Abdullahi Isah
    AI translation from Hausa to English *BE CAREFUL WHEN TAKING PHOTOS OF NEWBORNS!!* This morning, I was called to the home of one Alhaji to examine a baby girl who was born three weeks ago. When I arrived at the house: They complained to me that the baby girl seems to have trouble seeing. Since the day of her naming ceremony up to the time I'm sharing this message, her parents have noticed that she doesn't respond to light or to hand movements near her eyes or face. Because of this, I suggested they consult a pediatrician at Nassarawa Hospital. I called a pediatrician and explained the situation, but he said this case should rather be seen by an eye specialist. The surprising part that made me share this with you is what the eye specialist said when I called him. He asked, "Did they have a naming ceremony at home?" I said, "Yes, they did, and it was well attended." Then he said that it's now being observed that many babies who had home naming ceremonies, where the husband’s and wife’s relatives took pictures of the newborns with their phones, end up with visual problems. The flash from phone cameras, especially during the early days or first one or two months of life, can damage the retina—the part of the eye that sends visual information to the brain. This happens because relatives often insist that the baby open their eyes for a photo, and at that moment, the flash from the phone’s camera can harm the baby's retina. Taking photos of a baby during the naming ceremony can potentially cause permanent blindness. Please, let’s be careful. And let’s educate parents and relatives about the dangers of insisting that a newborn open their eyes for photos. Please share this message so others can benefit. Abubakar I. Ahmad — SNA Nephrology Isah Abdullahi Isah
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  • You see that thing they call HODL in crypto? Na wethin finish most people in this circle. ⭕️ If not BTC, pls don’t HODL. My eys have seen my ears . Which one did 🫵you foolishly HODL like me?
    You see that thing they call HODL in crypto? Na wethin finish most people in this circle. ⭕️ If not BTC, pls don’t HODL. My eys have seen my ears 👂. Which one did 🫵you foolishly HODL like me?
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  • You see that thing they call HODL in crypto? Na wethin finish most people in this circle. ⭕️ If not BTC, pls don’t HODL. My eys have seen my ears . Which one did 🫵you foolishly HODL like me?
    You see that thing they call HODL in crypto? Na wethin finish most people in this circle. ⭕️ If not BTC, pls don’t HODL. My eys have seen my ears 👂. Which one did 🫵you foolishly HODL like me?
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  • IF YOU KEEP PICKING WRONG, READ THIS.


    Choosing a partner is one of the most important decisions of your life. But many good women are making bad decisions because something deeper is influencing their choices.

    These are 5 things that can cause you to choose the wrong partner even when you’re praying, fasting, and “doing everything.”

    1. YOUR EMOTIONS

    The moment you feel something strong, you stop seeing clearly. You start making excuses to cover up red flags because you don't want to lose this thing you feel for him.

    If emotions are driving the car, wisdom is probably tied up in the boot. And that is exactly the case for many ladies.

    Your emotions are good and what makes you human, but you need to gain mastery over it else it will keep making you choose the wrong partners.

    2. UNMET NEEDS

    Some of the worst relationships you’ll ever enter are the ones you walk into with an empty cup.
    Because when you’re thirsty, even p0ison can look like water.

    When you have unmet needs, your definition and perception of love are altered, and you will confuse so many things for love.

    3. YOU’RE STILL IN YOUR FANTASY STAGE

    A lot of women fall in love with the idea of a man, not the reality of who he is. You picture a wedding with him, future kids, matching Ankara, and couple selfies…

    But you never stopped to ask: Is this man truly ready for what I’m praying for? Sometimes, you’re not choosing him - you’re choosing your hope.

    So as long as he matches the idea of the man you fantasize about, you intentionally close your eyes to other important things and hope that helps changes later.

    4. TRAUMA YOU HAVEN’T HEALED FROM

    Unhealed trauma can distort a lot. You’ll think you’re following your heart and even feel “peace” and use it as a confirmation….

    But it’s your w0unds that are choosing for you because it has seen something “familiar”.

    Your nervous system isn’t looking for love… it’s looking for what it knows. And until you do the healing work, your past will keep hijacking your future.

    5. PRESSURE (FROM SOCIETY, FRIENDS, FAMILY OR EVEN YOURSELF)

    When you’re close to your 30s and people keep asking “when are you getting married?”, it messes with your peace.

    You start feeling like you’re behind. You lower your standards. You rush, settle, and pick out of fear. And the worst part? You start seeing the wrong person as “good enough” After all no one is perfect, right? All because you’re trying to meet a deadline.
    =========

    For how long will you keep allowing your emotions to affect your relationship choices? What unmet need is influencing your choice?

    Is something from the past making you reject what is safe, good, and real? Then making you choose what isn't good for you?

    How about pressure to be married? Are you giving in already?
    IF YOU KEEP PICKING WRONG, READ THIS. 🧠💔 Choosing a partner is one of the most important decisions of your life. But many good women are making bad decisions because something deeper is influencing their choices. These are 5 things that can cause you to choose the wrong partner even when you’re praying, fasting, and “doing everything.” 📌 1. YOUR EMOTIONS The moment you feel something strong, you stop seeing clearly. You start making excuses to cover up red flags because you don't want to lose this thing you feel for him. If emotions are driving the car, wisdom is probably tied up in the boot. And that is exactly the case for many ladies. Your emotions are good and what makes you human, but you need to gain mastery over it else it will keep making you choose the wrong partners. 📌 2. UNMET NEEDS Some of the worst relationships you’ll ever enter are the ones you walk into with an empty cup. Because when you’re thirsty, even p0ison can look like water. When you have unmet needs, your definition and perception of love are altered, and you will confuse so many things for love. 📌 3. YOU’RE STILL IN YOUR FANTASY STAGE A lot of women fall in love with the idea of a man, not the reality of who he is. You picture a wedding with him, future kids, matching Ankara, and couple selfies… But you never stopped to ask: Is this man truly ready for what I’m praying for? Sometimes, you’re not choosing him - you’re choosing your hope. So as long as he matches the idea of the man you fantasize about, you intentionally close your eyes to other important things and hope that helps changes later. 📌 4. TRAUMA YOU HAVEN’T HEALED FROM Unhealed trauma can distort a lot. You’ll think you’re following your heart and even feel “peace” and use it as a confirmation…. But it’s your w0unds that are choosing for you because it has seen something “familiar”. Your nervous system isn’t looking for love… it’s looking for what it knows. And until you do the healing work, your past will keep hijacking your future. 📌 5. PRESSURE (FROM SOCIETY, FRIENDS, FAMILY OR EVEN YOURSELF) When you’re close to your 30s and people keep asking “when are you getting married?”, it messes with your peace. You start feeling like you’re behind. You lower your standards. You rush, settle, and pick out of fear. And the worst part? You start seeing the wrong person as “good enough” After all no one is perfect, right? All because you’re trying to meet a deadline. ========= For how long will you keep allowing your emotions to affect your relationship choices? What unmet need is influencing your choice? Is something from the past making you reject what is safe, good, and real? Then making you choose what isn't good for you? How about pressure to be married? Are you giving in already?
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