“Don’t settle for someone who tolerates you. Wait for the one who celebrates you.” - Bimbo Odukoya

Whenever I remember this quote by the late Bimbo Odukoya, it fires me up.

Too many people are stuck in situationships, or what they consider relationships where they are merely tolerated. They walk on eggshells. They shrink themselves. They over-explain, over-apologise, and over-perform just to feel enough.

In a relationship, when you are being tolerated, it feels like you’re an inconvenience. Like your existence is being managed, not embraced. And that is not love. That’s endurance. That’s someone folding their arms, watching the clock, waiting for the version of you that’s easier for them to handle.

Now contrast that with being celebrated.

Celebration looks like someone who lights up when they see you.

Someone who leans in to understand you, not just put up with your complexities. Someone who thanks God for you, prays with you, laughs with you, and sees your presence as a gift, not a burden.

Real love doesn’t make you feel hard to love.
It doesn’t reduce you to your flaws or make you question your worth every two weeks.

And no, waiting for that kind of love is not asking for too much. It’s asking for what’s healthy. What’s God-ordained. What’s sustainable.

So, if you’re in a relationship where you feel like someone is just “managing” you, I challenge you to ask yourself this: Why am I settling for survival when I was created for a wholesome love experience? Kai.

And you see this type? It is not forced. If it is there, it’s there. If it is not there, it is not there.

The love that celebrates you exists. But sometimes, God can’t release that person because you’re still busy holding on to the one who only tolerates you.

Please, choose someone that celebrates you. Choose a love that makes you feel like you’re home, not a guest overstaying their welcome.

You are not too much. You are not a burden. You are a person to be loved loudly, fully, intentionally.

Wait for that. And while you wait, become that for yourself first.

WHERE YOU STAND TOMORROW IS A FUNCTION OF HOW DILIGENT YOU ARE IN YOUR BUSINESS TODAY. - Bishop David Oyedepo

During the 3rd Word Session at the Hour of Visitation (Day 3) of the Easter Faith Convention 2025, Bishop David Oyedepo while admonishing believers on the need to run with revelation stated that where you stand today is a function of how diligent you are in your business today. He also stated as he quoted from Proverbs 22:29 that he has been able to stand in very high places in the World today by reason of the application of revelation at his disposal.

He further explained that it is not enough to know the truth, believers must take a step further to engage with the truth. "The food you know does not satisfy you, it is the food you eat that does."

50 HABITS OF HIGHLY CREATIVE PEOPLE
1. THEY OBSERVE CLOSELY
Creative people notice the details others overlook and draw inspiration from everyday life.
2. THEY ASK QUESTIONS CONSTANTLY
They are curious about how things work, why things are the way they are, and what could be done differently.
3. THEY EMBRACE SOLITUDE
Spending time alone helps them reflect, brainstorm, and incubate ideas.
4. THEY KEEP A JOURNAL
They write down thoughts, observations, dreams, and ideas regularly for future use.
5. THEY CARRY A NOTEBOOK EVERYWHERE
They never let ideas slip away—jotting them down immediately.
6. THEY EXPERIMENT FEARLESSLY
Creatives test new concepts without fear of failure.
7. THEY LEARN FROM FAILURE
They treat mistakes as stepping stones to success.
8. THEY DAYDREAM PURPOSEFULLY
They allow their minds to wander, often discovering new ideas in the process.
9. THEY PLAY REGULARLY
Playfulness stimulates imagination and innovation.
10. THEY VALUE ORIGINALITY OVER CONFORMITY
They prioritize uniqueness and resist the pressure to follow the crowd.
11. THEY SURROUND THEMSELVES WITH INSPIRATION
Art, books, colors, or music—they create an environment that sparks creativity.
12. THEY COLLABORATE
They know that great ideas can come from diverse perspectives.
13. THEY CHALLENGE ASSUMPTIONS
They don’t take things at face value—they question the status quo.
14. THEY EMBRACE AMBIGUITY
They are comfortable with uncertainty and unresolved ideas.
15. THEY SCHEDULE THINKING TIME
They set aside time specifically to think, brainstorm, or meditate on ideas.
16. THEY LIMIT DISTRACTIONS
They focus deeply, often turning off devices or isolating themselves when creating.
17. THEY FOLLOW THEIR PASSIONS
They pursue what excites them, which fuels their creative energy.
18. THEY READ WIDELY AND OFTEN
Exposure to different subjects, genres, and styles feeds their imagination.
19. THEY LISTEN ACTIVELY
They pay attention and learn from the thoughts and experiences of others.
20. THEY KEEP AN OPEN MIND
They consider unusual ideas and approaches without immediate judgment.
21. THEY TAKE RISKS
They aren’t afraid to take creative leaps or face rejection.
22. THEY CULTIVATE PATIENCE
They know that great ideas often take time to develop.
23. THEY TRUST THEIR INSTINCTS
They rely on intuition to guide creative decisions.
24. THEY PRACTICE MINDFULNESS
They stay present and aware, which heightens sensitivity to inspiration.
25. THEY STAY CURIOUS
Their constant desire to explore keeps their creativity alive.
26. THEY LIMIT PERFECTIONISM
They allow room for imperfection and focus on progress rather than flawlessness.
27. THEY MEDITATE OR PRAY
Some use spiritual or calming practices to center themselves and boost insight.
28. THEY SEEK OUT NEW EXPERIENCES
Travel, hobbies, and unfamiliar settings help them think in new ways.
29. THEY THINK VISUALLY
They sketch, map, or visualize their thoughts to process ideas differently.
30. THEY BREAK ROUTINES
They intentionally change habits to stimulate fresh thinking.
31. THEY TAKE BREAKS
Resting helps renew the mind and encourages creative incubation.
32. THEY PRACTICE THEIR CRAFT DAILY
Whether writing, drawing, or coding—they build skill and confidence through consistency.
33. THEY FIND PATTERNS IN CHAOS
They make connections where others see disorder.
34. THEY USE METAPHORS AND ANALOGIES
They explain concepts by relating them to other known ideas creatively.
35. THEY LIMIT THEIR TOOLS SOMETIMES
Constraints often spark greater creativity by forcing innovation.
36. THEY TEACH OTHERS
Explaining ideas clarifies their own thinking and stimulates new ideas.
37. THEY EMBRACE VULNERABILITY
They’re willing to share their authentic selves, which brings emotional depth to their work.
38. THEY CELEBRATE SMALL WINS
They find joy in small breakthroughs that motivate bigger achievements.
39. THEY COLLECT THINGS
Books, quotes, images, or objects—collections serve as a creative reservoir.
40. THEY EXERCISE REGULARLY
Physical movement boosts mental clarity and creativity.
41. THEY USE MUSIC STRATEGICALLY
Music inspires mood, focus, and energy depending on the creative need.
42. THEY PRACTICE GRATITUDE
Appreciating life boosts positivity and openness to ideas.
43. THEY REFLECT ON THEIR WORK
Regular reflection refines their ideas and creative direction.
44. THEY FOLLOW A MORNING ROUTINE
Structured starts help focus energy and intention for the day.
45. THEY DREAM BIG
They envision possibilities beyond current limits.
46. THEY CREATE FOR THEMSELVES FIRST
They prioritize authenticity and self-expression over popularity.
47. THEY BUILD CREATIVE RITUALS
Habits like lighting a candle or drinking tea help trigger creative flow.
48. THEY PRACTICE DISCIPLINE
Creativity requires consistent effort, not just bursts of inspiration.
49. THEY HAVE A GROWTH MINDSET
They believe abilities can be developed through effort and learning.
50. THEY NEVER STOP LEARNING

When it comes to investing, many people look for *EXCUSES* and often rush to say that they don't invest because they don't have CAPITAL but the truth is that it is just an excuse.

The world will never run out of EXCUSES so if you are the one who always wants excuses you will always find them.

Benjamin Franklin said and l quotes *“He that is Good for Making EXCUSES is seldom good for anything else.”*

It is true that excuses are the clutches for the uncommitted.
99% of the failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses.

Today many of us have so many things in our possession yet we claim not to have capital to invest. We have failed to appreciate whatever we have within our reach and even in our brain because we underestimate what have and don't understand that all we have is all we need to succeed.
*Why do you want to start where you are not?* If you don't appreciate what you have at this moment, you won't be given more.

How can a woman have a wig for $1000 and claim to have nothing to invest in her head yet busy Investing on her head. *Is the problem really money?* Do you think God can allow you to have completely nothing to start with? Definitely not. Did God not ask Moses what he had in his hands which he used to separate the red sea. God could have just commanded the Red Sea to open but he *wanted Moses to appreciate that whatever he had in his hands was all he needed.*

Stop justifying being average when you created to break records. Everytime you justify being average you are inviting an enemy.

*Mediocrity is a dream killer.* You are enough and everything you have is everything you need to succeed.

The world has now run out of clutches for your lame excuses.

*GOOD evening people

THE DANGEROUS & COSTLY MISTAKES THAT THE MAJORITY OF GEN Zs' ARE MAKING
TODAY

Let’s be honest — Gen Z is bold, intelligent, creative, and filled with untapped potential. But greatness requires wisdom, discipline, and intentional living. If these mistakes go unchecked, they can sabotage futures before they even begin.

Let’s dive in.

1. LIVING FOR THE INTERNET, NOT FOR IMPACT;

Mistake: Chasing trends instead of transformation.

Wisdom:
In a digital age, it’s tempting to measure worth by likes, followers, and viral moments. But the internet has a short memory. What it remembers are those who made a difference, not those who made noise. Purpose outlives popularity. Build a life that leaves footprints, not just impressions.

Key Thought:
Legacy matters more than likes.

2. MOCKING THE PROCESS, BUT DESIRING THE RESULT;

Mistake: Entitlement without effort.

Wisdom:
You can’t harvest where you haven’t sown. Many want a millionaire lifestyle without embracing a laborer’s discipline. Mocking the hustle while coveting the reward is a self-inflicted curse. Every result you admire was born in hidden, hard places. Embrace the grind — it’s the gate to greatness.

Key Thought:
Desire must be matched by discipline.

3. REPLACING HARD WORK WITH AESTHETICS;

Mistake: Valuing appearance over substance.

Wisdom:
Looking wealthy is not being wealthy. Flaunting lifestyles you haven’t earned is deception to self and others. Clothes, cars, and curated feeds can’t cover empty bank accounts and shallow legacies. Invest your time in developing skills, building assets, and adding value. Substance sustains — aesthetics fade.

Key Thought:
Image fades, value endures.

4. PRIORITIZING FUN OVER FOUNDATION;

Mistake: Sacrificing tomorrow for temporary thrills.

Wisdom:
Youth is a gift, but what you do with it is your offering to the future. Fun has its place, but when pleasure takes priority over preparation, destruction is near. Lay a solid foundation now — in character, skills, relationships, and spiritual depth. Fun without foresight is fatal.

Key Thought:
Your future is the harvest of today’s habits.

5. THINKING YOU STILL HAVE TIME;

Mistake: Delaying destiny.

Wisdom:
Time waits for no one. While you hesitate, someone else your age is already leading, building, and shaping history. Starting early is an advantage, not a burden. Greatness isn’t scheduled for the future — it begins the moment you decide to grow. Don’t wait for the ‘perfect time.’ It doesn’t exist.

Key Thought:
The earlier you start, the stronger you finish.

6. TALKING MORE THAN DOING;

Mistake: Replacing execution with inspiration.

Wisdom:
Inspiration is everywhere, but action is rare. The gap between your dreams and your reality is called discipline. Stop being a motivational addict and start being a transformational leader. Speak less, do more. Let your results be louder than your quotes.

Key Thought:
Execution outperforms excitement.

7. RUNNING FROM CORRECTION;

Mistake: Canceling accountability.

Wisdom:
Correction is not rejection; it’s protection. Those who tell you uncomfortable truths are your true allies. Surrounding yourself with only those who applaud you is the fastest road to destruction. Value mentors, accept rebuke, and welcome growth conversations. Pride resists correction — wisdom craves it.

Key Thought:
Correction today saves catastrophe tomorrow.

8. CONFUSING ATTENTION FOR AFFECTION;

Mistake: Seeking applause over authentic connection.

Wisdom:
The culture rewards clout-chasing, but attention is shallow currency. Don’t dress, speak, or live for applause while starving for meaning. Real affection is built on character, trust, and value — not viral trends. Pursue depth over display. Attention fades fast; authentic relationships last.

Key Thought:
Be known for who you are, not just what you show.

9. BELIEVING YOU’RE TOO YOUNG TO FALL;

Mistake: Assuming immunity because of early success.

Wisdom:
Success without humility is a ticking time bomb. No one is untouchable. Pride blinds, and it always precedes a fall. Stay teachable, stay grounded. Let your head bow as your platform rises. Arrogance disqualifies faster than ignorance.

Key Thought:
Success unmanaged is a silent threat.

10. SLEEPING ON YOUR GIFTS;

Mistake: Letting fear bury potential.

Wisdom:
Talent unused is purpose wasted. The world doesn’t need another copy, it needs the original you. Stop hiding behind fear, perfectionism, or excuses. Wake up your gifts. Refuse to be buried with your greatness still locked inside you.

Key Thought:
Unused potential is a tragedy.

FINAL CHARGE TO GEN Z;

You are the future, but only if you survive the present. Refuse to let laziness, entitlement, pride, or fear sabotage your destiny. The world is watching — but more importantly, your generation is counting on you.

Rise with wisdom. Build with intention. Lead with humility.

Your future isn’t promised, it’s prepared. Start now.

THINGS THAT COULD BE HARMING YOUR ONLINE BRAND OR BUSINESS

Sometimes it’s not village people. It’s you.

Here are a few things you might be doing that are quietly damaging your online brand.

1. Being too humble online

Sis, if they don’t know what you carry, how will they pay you?

Stop hiding your brilliance in the name of humility. To be known, you must blow your own trumpet.

2. Inconsistency.

One day you’re on fire, next day you vanish.
People can’t trust what they can’t predict.

Unless sickness or something very serious kept you away, please show up.

3. Copy and paste content.

If your posts look and sound like everyone else, why should anyone remember you?

4. No clear message

If I come to your wall now, will I know who you serve, what you do, and why I should follow you?

The first 5 posts on your wall should tell me what you do.

5. No call-to-action

Are you posting for posting sake or with intent?

If you’re not giving people a next step, they’ll scroll and go. Tell them what next to do. Is it to sign up for stuff or comment or share?

6. Poor visuals

Nobody is saying you must have an iPhone.

But at least, use clear pictures and clean graphics.

If your photos look like it was taken with a POS camera , people will scroll past.

7. Talking to everybody

Your brand is not for “everybody.”

Find your target audience and speak to them.

8. Emotional posting without wisdom

Oversharing every struggle without a lesson or direction makes people uncomfortable.

Heal before you speak or at least share the scars, not the fresh wounds.

I’ve seen a lady who keeps posting about how she owes people, and yet she’s building a brand. How can we trust a chronic debtor?

9. Zero storytelling

People don’t connect to information. They connect to humans.

Tell your story, it’s your superpower.

10. You’re not selling

You’re only dropping motivational quotes and expecting credit alerts.

Sis, post your offer. Share your product. Let people know how to pay you.

If any of these hit you deep, it’s time to shift.

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Real Madrid have posted a video of past comebacks, with the caption of ‘The Bernabéu, again’. The video quotes this:

“I’m going to show them a world without borders or boundaries. A world… where anything is possible. I don’t know the future, I didn’t come here to tell you how this is going to end, I came here to tell you how it’s going to begin…"

I came across this quote today that really hit home: "Overnight success takes at least 5 years of work." It made me pause and think about my own path.

We live in a world where it’s so easy to feel like we’re falling behind when we see someone else “make it” overnight. But the reality? That “overnight” moment was years in the making. Selah.

Come to think of it, those entrepreneurs, artists, or creators we admire… they didn’t just wake up one day with a viral moment. They spent years honing their craft, facing setbacks, and pushing through self-doubt. Maybe they were up at 2 a.m. perfecting a project while the world slept, or maybe they heard “no” a hundred times before that one “yes” changed everything. It’s the kind of hard work that doesn’t get the spotlight, but it’s what builds the foundation for something truly amazing.

I know it’s tough to keep going when the results aren’t immediate. I’ve been there, wondered if I’m on the right path, felt like I should be further along.

This quote is a reminder that success isn’t a sprint but a marathon. It’s about showing up for yourself, day after day, even when it feels like nothing’s happening. Those small, consistent steps are leading you somewhere incredible.

Good evening everyone!

I'm in love with this quote:
When the h.a.t.e in you is missing in them.
Keep shining!

Happy Thursday......

You need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving.Your life is about breaking your own limit & outgrowing yourself to live your best life.You must understand that you are not in competition with anyone else #lifequote # motivation