1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments 13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband 14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves 15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband 16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty 17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her 18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage. Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own. Greetings to all submissive Women A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31 #women#marriagegoals#everyonehighlightsfollowers#followerseveryone#friends#womenempoweringwomen,#knowledgeispower

Who told you that you can’t abstain from s3x before marriage 🤔 By God’s Grace, I and my wife courted for 4 years and never had s3x until after our wedding. The notion that once you’re in a committed relationship SEX IS NORMAL is totally erroneous Let’s be clear : Sex before marriage is not FUN but FORNICATION. You can love someone deeply, be strongly attracted to them, and still honour God with your body. Purity is possible, even in this generation. Here are 6 biblical and practical ways to abstain from sex before marriage: 1. Set Clear Boundaries from Day One Don’t leave things to chance. Define what’s acceptable and what’s not. Avoid places, times, and behaviors that fuel temptation. “Flee the evil desires of youth…” — 2 Timothy 2:22 2. Choose a Partner Who Shares Your Values It’s easier to stay pure when your partner also desires purity. If they’re pressuring you, they’re not protecting you. A brother or sister who sees nothing wrong in fornication will definitely pressure you into it. “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” — Amos 3:3 3. Avoid Private and Compromising Situations Being alone behind closed doors is a setup for sin. Meet in public places or around trusted people. “Make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.” — Romans 13:14 4. Make the Relationship Spiritual, Not Just Emotional Pray together, study the Word together, and talk about purpose—not just feelings. This keeps your connection rooted in God. “How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to your word.” — Psalm 119:9 5. Seek Accountability and Counseling When Needed Don’t walk the journey alone. Be accountable to a godly mentor or couple who will check in and support your commitment to purity. “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” — Proverbs 15:22 6. What if you have fallen before? “My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.” ‭‭1 John‬ ‭2‬:‭1‬ ‭ In the occasion of sin, quickly repent and run to Jesus. He will forgive you and ensure you follow the first 5 principles, so you don’t return back to your vomit. Copied

Who told you that you can’t abstain from s3x before marriage 🤔 By God’s Grace, I and my wife courted for 4 years and never had s3x until after our wedding. The notion that once you’re in a committed relationship SEX IS NORMAL is totally erroneous Let’s be clear : Sex before marriage is not FUN but FORNICATION. You can love someone deeply, be strongly attracted to them, and still honour God with your body. Purity is possible, even in this generation. Here are 6 biblical and practical ways to abstain from sex before marriage: 1. Set Clear Boundaries from Day One Don’t leave things to chance. Define what’s acceptable and what’s not. Avoid places, times, and behaviors that fuel temptation. “Flee the evil desires of youth…” — 2 Timothy 2:22 2. Choose a Partner Who Shares Your Values It’s easier to stay pure when your partner also desires purity. If they’re pressuring you, they’re not protecting you. A brother or sister who sees nothing wrong in fornication will definitely pressure you into it. “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” — Amos 3:3 3. Avoid Private and Compromising Situations Being alone behind closed doors is a setup for sin. Meet in public places or around trusted people. “Make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.” — Romans 13:14 4. Make the Relationship Spiritual, Not Just Emotional Pray together, study the Word together, and talk about purpose—not just feelings. This keeps your connection rooted in God. “How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to your word.” — Psalm 119:9 5. Seek Accountability and Counseling When Needed Don’t walk the journey alone. Be accountable to a godly mentor or couple who will check in and support your commitment to purity. “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” — Proverbs 15:22 6. What if you have fallen before? “My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.” ‭‭1 John‬ ‭2‬:‭1‬ ‭ In the occasion of sin, quickly repent and run to Jesus. He will forgive you and ensure you follow the first 5 principles, so you don’t return back to your vomit. ©️ I am Nicholas Michael Oriarewo Your #relationshipcoach #marriagecounselor #lovebankers #nNicholas Michael Oriarewo

7 WAYS TO BUILD TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE (PART 1) The short story in between should teach you a lesson. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship. It’s what makes love safe, secure, and long-lasting. But trust isn’t automatic—it is built through consistent actions, honesty, and reliability. Here are seven powerful ways to build trust in your relationship or marriage: 1. BE HONEST, EVEN ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS Let me tell you a short story🤔 Chijioke and Ada had been married for three years when Chijioke suddenly started acting restless. He was distant, easily irritated, and always on his phone. Ada noticed but assumed it was work stress. One evening, a strange number called his phone while he was in the shower. Out of curiosity, Ada answered. “Mr. Chijioke, this is our final warning. Pay back the ₦2 million loan or face legal action.” Ada’s heart dropped. A loan? For ₦2 million? She had no idea her husband had borrowed money. When he came out, she confronted him. He sighed and said, “I didn’t want to stress you, so I didn’t tell you.” Ada felt betrayed. Not because of the debt, but because he had kept it a secret. That night, she lay awake thinking, “If he can hide this, what else is he hiding?” And that was the foundation of distrust she developed towards her husband. She started doubting most of the things he says☹️ Here’s the truth: Hiding the truth, even with good intentions, damages trust. Ada wasn’t upset about the loan itself—she was upset about the secrecy. When you are honest, even about small things, your partner feels safe and secure. When you start keeping secrets, doubt creeps in. How do you achieve this? ✅ Speak the truth, even if it’s uncomfortable. ✅ If you make a mistake, own up to it instead of covering it up. ✅ Never assume small lies won’t matter—they always do in the long run. Biblical Wisdom: “The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in people who are trustworthy.” — Proverbs 12:22 To be continued……..🤩 Your #relationshipcoach #marriagecounselor #lovebankers

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments 13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband 14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves 15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband 16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty 17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her 18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage. Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own. Greetings to all submissive Women A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, READ THIS AND LEARN. "Dad, can you loan me Five Hundred Thousand Naira?" Kola asked his father. "What for son?", his father asked. "For my wedding. By our calculations, we're falling short meeting the cost". Kola had come to meet his parents with his fiancé. "Your wedding? How much is the total cost of the wedding?", his father asked. "N3.6 million. We're thinking of starting the committee next week. We can together give about eight hundred thousand and expect our friends to help us raise about two million. I remember you told me if ever I need help I can come to you" Kola answered. His father held him by the shoulder and said "Go get your wife and come meet me at my study room". "Yes dad", Kola obliged. Minutes later, Kola and his fiancé,Tomilayo walked into his father's study room. "Having a good time my daughter?" Kola's father asked. "Yes I am. You and your wife are so hospitable. I pray that Kola and I can emulate your marriage. You are an admirable couple" answered Kola's fiance. "Thank you. I am delighted to have you as my daughter. This is your home, you're welcome anytime", said father. They sat down. "Thank you dad" "So, I hear you want to spend N3.6 million for your wedding and you need me to help with five hundred thousand?", asked father. "Yes, we will greatly appreciate" said the fiancé. "The wedding will be at the Total Garden Ibadan in about six months time", said Kola. "Why do you want to have a big wedding?", father asked. "Well, it's our big day. She's always dreamt of a big wedding", Kola replied. "Have you dreamt of a big wedding or a strong marriage?", The father asked the fiancé. "When you put it that way, it's more of a strong marriage" said the fiancé. "Good. You've answered wisely. So who do you expect to come for your wedding?", asked the father. "Friends and relatives. About seven hundred people", answered Kola. "How many true friends do you really have?", I mean friends who have been tried and tested to be there for you through thick and thin?, asked the father. Kola and Tomilayo looked at each other. "Countable", the fiancé answered. "So who are these other people who will come to your wedding?", asked the father. Silence. "OK. Let's go to the relatives. I know you love your relatives, but how many are really close to you? You barely talk with the many relatives you have", said the father. "What are you trying to say dad?" asked Kola. "My son, my daughter; why do you want to spend N3.6 million on a wedding, a one day event yet you need the money in your marriage? Look, you are actually coming to ask me for money, you will form a committee to ask people for money; all to show off and please people who will not even matter in your marriage" Silence. The father continued, "Let me share with you my experience. When I married your mother, we spent about a million for the wedding. That was a lot of money then. We fed people, got stressed by service providers, just so that we put up a wedding that will win the applause of a crowd. But as soon as we got married, the crowd disappeared. All the issues that your mother and I went through, no one cared, even family couldn't do much. Every one is busy living their life. When things got tough, the crowd gossiped about us, some even seemed happy that our marriage was in trouble" Silence. "I have seen this script repeated over and over. Brides get stressed on their wedding day, they can't even enjoy, couples being angry at friends who don't support them financially, the worst part is starting marriage in debt or struggling financially. Do you know a wedding doesn't have to cost so much, it doesn't have to be stressful, it doesn't have to be full of people who perhaps will never talk to you again?" added the father. "But dad, what will people think if we do a small wedding or we don't invite them?"asked the fiancé. "Are you getting married for people? If you have a small wedding with only the witnesses who matter, will you two not be married? What is all this competition of who has a grand wedding for? People are competing on Facebook, in weddings; why this need to show off? You know that money you are about to blow in one day, you can use it to invest in your marriage, you can start the process of buying or building a home, you can save up for the needs of the children you will have because you need money to raise a family. Why not start your marriage financially healthy and not in debt? Marriage is what is more important than a wedding", continued the father. "Dad, if you don't want to support us it's okay", said Kola. The fiancé stopped him saying, "No my love, dad has a point. I actually find the idea of a small wedding not just wise and economical, but also intimate. Marriage is just you and me, not people". The father spoke, "My son, in all the years you have been a man, you have never come to me asking for money, but now you are asking for money to put up a show? I look further, I look at your marriage. I admire how people come together in a wedding committee to raise money and I wonder, what if couples and people use that same energy to put up a business that will uplift families. Those members who will be part of your wedding committee, imagine if they become your investors, imagine if you build a company where you can make profit and feed your homes. Something sustainable." Kola and his fiancé nodded. "My son, I have longed for the day you would come and ask me to invest in your business idea. But today I will make the first move", the father said taking his cheque book from his drawer. He wrote on the cheque then gave it to the fiancé. "Here my son, this is a cheque of five million naira, not for your wedding but as start up capital for a business of your choice. I am giving the cheque to your wife because as the Proverbs 31 woman said, she is to walk with you in building an empire for your family. Focus on your family, give your family the best; forget about the public and opinions of people who don't matter. Build a future for your family. Build your family on a foundation of surplus not debt". "Thank you so much" said the fiancé. Kola stood up with tears in his eyes. His father stood up too. The father and son hugged. "Thank you dad for being a great figure and your counsel. I don't know what to say. You have challenged me not to merely get married but to have a vision, a vision for my family. I don't know what to say" he spoke. The father held his shoulder, "You will make a great husband and father. I wish I had the same counsel when I was getting married, all those people I fed on my wedding day didn't add value to my marriage. In fact, if I was to organize an event and feed multitudes, I would do so for the less fortunate and those in need. Marriage is not for show. Pls follow Eunice home of fashion &hair Don’t forget to share to enlighten more people #highlightseveryone #fbreels23 #fypシ゚viralシ #fbyシvideo #highlightseveryonefollowers #highlightsシ゚ #fbyシviral #fbreelsvideo #reelsfypシ

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband 2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband 3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances 4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings 5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend 6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood 7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband 8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him 9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly 10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time 11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids 12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments 13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband 14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves 15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband 16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty 17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her 18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage. Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own. Greetings to all submissive Women A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31 Happy mother's day to all our Amazing mothers.

Every destiny that rises to greatness is built on the foundation of planning and preparation. Mature believers don’t wait for things to happen; they align their plans with God’s will and take action! Proverbs 16:3 says Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and He will establish your plans. #AdakoleJohnPaulCares

TOPIC: GIVING AS AN ACT OF FAITH AND DEDICATION TO GOD TEXT:2 CORINTHIANS 9:6, MALACHI 3:8-9 •Giving is an act of providing something, giving is making available your time, your resources, your money and also giving support. •Giving is without necessarily expecting anything in return. •When we say we give to God, it means we are assisting the work of God. •Giving is a selfless act. •When giving is done right, it leaves you with joy, knowing that someone has benefitted from your benevolence. •We give to deepen our faith and trust in God. •Our giving in the house of God is purposeful and not a vain act. •Every form of giving is principle guided and every principle operated in faith with all honesty, carries a heavy blessing for the operator - Luke 6:38 •Anyone that acts in the giving principle, will also receive the reward that the principle brings - Proverbs 11:4 •In church, giving comes in different ways: OFFERING, TITHING, SEED FAITH, VOWS, PLEDGES, FIRST FRUITS, WELFARE 1). OFFERING - Exodus 25:2 •Offering is a planned, sacrificial giving in service and it is usually set aside to be rendered as an act of worship to God. •Offering does not take a Christian by surprise, it's never an accident, but something you already know - Malachi 1:6-8 •Offering is a communication of your heart to God. •Offering is a contribution to the fund of the church to execute her charity work and other developmental works. •Everything you do has a way of coming back to you. •God gives every man a forbidden fruit to test his faith. Pass your test and don't fall. 2). TITHING - Malachi 3:10-11 •Tithe is a levy of one tenth of all your income. WHY DO WE TITHE? 1). Tithing is critical for us to honour God To acknowledge the source of your blessing. 2). You tithe to enlarge your resources - 2 Corinthians 9:8 3). Curses are broken. •You become free from financial deficit. 4). You are protected from enemies - Malachi 3:11 5). You will be able to overcome and conquer greed in your life. •Don't pretend not to know your tithe.

TOPIC:WORK OF FAITH TEXT:1 THESSALONIANS 1:1, JAMES 2:26, MARK 5:25 •The work of faith implies putting faith to work, it means practicing what we believe. •If you believe, but don't act on those things, it becomes useless. •It is your work that gives life to your faith. •It is your workings that makes your faith effective, take faith away and your work is defective. •Faith is sealed by your actions. •Faith is seen or made manifest by your works - Luke 5:1-7 •No work no faith - James 2:18 •Your work directs people to your faith, you know a man of faith by his workings and not by his talkings. •Your work of faith is your corresponding action in response to what you have heard - Romans 10:7 •It takes a man of faith to work. •What you have heard can only produce in your life if you act on what you've heard - Acts 14:8 •It's not only the hearing that brings results, but what you do with what you do afterwards - James 2:19 •Not acting on what you have heard is the same thing as not hearing. •Your works and confessions which you make on a regular basis, represents your work of faith - Joshua 1:8 •Your works can make faith effective or ineffective. •If there are no words to hear, then there will be no words to speak, and if there's no words to speak then there's no faith to act on - Romans 10:8-9 •Faith rides on words - Proverbs 4:23 •Speak right words, disassociate from people who always speak wrong words. •Stage 1 (Have faith) - Mark 11:22 •Stage 2 ( confessing ) •Stage 3 - (speaking, based on your faith you have) - Mark 11:23a •Stage 4 (you will have whatever you ask for) - Mark 11:23b •If you stand on stage 1 and refuse to enter into stage 2 and 3, then there will be no stage 4. •The workings of your faith is not the end result, but just the process that leads to the end result, which is the evidence of your faith.

TOPIC:ENFORCING YOUR RIGHT AND TAKING A STAND VIA THE WORD TEXT:1 CORINTHIANS 16:13 •To "watch" means to be vigilant, expecting something to happen. •Weakness is not of God. Power is God and it is what you have in your inner man. You are as big and strong as the one you carry inside. •Taking a stand via the word means, be fearless, be willing to push past every adversity. Don't see a situation and run away, else it will outclass you. •Your right has been given to you, you need to enforce your right and take a stand. •You need a word to liberate you out of every fear and issues of life. •Nobody fights where there's no courage - 1 Timothy 6:12 •There's a word for every war. •The provocation of your faith is to see the results of all that God has spoken concerning you - Hebrews 11:1-3 •If you say you have faith in God and you don't practice it, then you're outdoing yourself. •Faith is action. •By faith we understand God's word in your life. •Your understanding of God's word will always give shape to the results you have in your life. •Result is the outcome of a particular action with the desire to produce desirable or undesirable proofs - Hebrews 11:33-35 •When it is a desirable proof, it is what you want. When it produces undesirable proofs, it is what you don't want. •Lies contaminates the pureness of faith once it is considered. •Every lie is a bondage to keep you perpetually entangled in the same problem. •Taking a stand in faith is identifying your current position and acting out your faith in that direction - Luke 15:15 •Your current position propels you to speak the right word. Use the word to shape it in. •The daily confession has profound impact on your destiny. RESULTS THAT YOU CAN SEE WHEN YOU ENFORCE YOUR RIGHT IN GOD'S WORD 1). Renew's your mind. Transforms your attitude to align with God's word - Romans 12:2 2). Builds your faith. Strengthens you to trust God the more on every promise He has made - Romans 10:17 •Repeated confession of God's word creates new ground for God's word. 3). It protects and defends you - Psalm 23:1-3 •It makes you fearless. 4). It enhances your spiritual growth and improves your relationship with God - Galatians 5:1-2 Proverbs 18:21 •What you fail to speak, the devil will hold to it. •When you keep resisting him, he will flee.

Topic:Love The Greatest Gift Text :1 Corinthians 13:13 •Hope, Faith and Love are all Christian virtues. Every child of God must possess all, but love is the greatest. •Hope (something you expect to happen), is also powerful, no doubt - 1 John 3:1-3 •A man who has Hope will purify himself, waiting on Jesus - Romans 5:1-5 •The day you lose Hope, that's the end, but the Bible says “Love is the greatest”. •Faith is also very powerful, because without it, it is impossible to please God - Hebrews 11:6 •Yet Love is still the greatest of all and there has to be a reason. •Until you're dead to self, Love is not operational in your life. Love enables you to conquer self. •A man of faith but not working in love, is promoting self - 1 Corinthians 13:1-2 •The sign of spiritual maturity is you walking in love. It’s not about you manifesting miracles. •When you walk in love, you don't offend and you don't get offended - Proverbs 19:11, 17:9 •A man who has power and authority but chooses not to misuse it, is a great man walking in love - Matthew 26:51-54, John 18:35, •When you refuse to be offended by someone's action, you're a blessed man - Matthew 11:1-6 •It's a certainty that offense will come, it's what you do when it comes that matters - Romans 14:4, 1 Corinthians 8:1-13 •Walking in love helps you to conquer bitterness, pride, envy, eventful heart strife, contentions, anger. And all these are kept by the devil, just to bring the believer down. •Don't rebuke anyone with bitterness - 2 Corinthians 16:14