A wrong marriage can actually make you look older than your age and even send you to an early grave. 😚🥺😁😊💕

MARRIED MEN PLEASE READ THIS! 1. Never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, Wives of Friends. 2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife. 3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies 4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow. 5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life. 6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife, this will safe your head in future. 7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners 8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady, there is nothing they have that your wife does not have even better with security. 9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart. 10. Put on your Wedding ring always 11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't tolerate anyone to dress sexily around you, if they see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you. 12. If any lady is giving you signs for sex, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly 13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity. 14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be totally open this safe your head. 15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet. 16. Celebrate your wife's birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere, this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and not available for them. 17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married. 18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted 19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away. 20, Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one, never speak negatively about her or other Women. 21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor 22. Cut all contacts with all your Exes and all you’ve had Sex with before Marriage if you don't do you may fall back together again destroying your Marriage and theirs. 23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere. 24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details. 25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move 26. Always remember that the enjoyment is just 8 Seconds, it cannot be more than that but its repercussion can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of orgasm. 27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages sexual immorality if you truly want to be faithful to avoid night Parties. 28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol you look at your sense of decency with Women, please avoid Alcohol. 29. Remember sexually transmitted diseases. It's true that sexually transmitted is possible when you don't keep to your Wife, don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure. 30. Don't Think CONDOM uses Good CONDUCT: Condom can break, it cannot even protect you from the scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God, good conduct is what you need, not Condom. 31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, be a promise keeper, remember your Vow. 32. Avoid night Clubs: Night Clubs are not for Men that want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it. 33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it. 34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly, don't do it, it's not a show of love, do that through a handshake, hug only your wife. 35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulder when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts, Shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love, only your wife deserves that. 36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife, eating together generates love and feelings, don't start the fire that will consume you. 37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car rides with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down. 38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady. 39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about 40. No Porn: Pornography can never satisfy you, but will destroy your ability to resist Sexual temptation and turn to your dirty secret and your addiction, keeping you busy without taking you anywhere. 41. No code on Phone: Don't put code on your phone to hide it from your wife, if there must be code, your wife must know it if you are a real and faithful man. 42. If you must think sexy think of your wife, avoid Lust and inordinate affection. 43. If you must look at your breasts look at your wife’s. She has the best breasts in the world. 44. If you must look at Bum your wife has it in abundance. Stop looking at the backside of any Lady, you much more than that. 45. Have an accountability Partner: Have somebody you can talk to if you feel tempted 46. Be careful with your Wife’s Friends, some of them want you, don't get too close, don't get too familiar, respect yourself. 47. Beware of your Wife’s House Maid, DONT SLEEP WITH HER!! Don't tolerate a sexy dress from her, no tying of towels around the house, no sleeping carelessly in the living room. If she is getting too hot for you let her go don't pretend, tell your wife. 48. Don't have any Lady’s Number on your phone that your wife does not know who she is 49. Stop Counselling Vulnerable Women about their Marriage or Sex life, you are not a Counsellor, you are not trained for that, you may put yourself in trouble. 50. If you want sex, go back home, get it from your wife. 51. Enjoy hugging your Wife, hold her hands play with her, be very close to her to keep your mind from straying. 52. Increase SDA in your Marriage: SDA is the Secret Display of Affection, use every opportunity to display affection to Your Wife in the secret when it's between just the two of you. 53. Increase FDA in your Marriage: FDA is Family Display Affection. Show love generously to your wife in the presence of your Children, Housemaid and People that live in your house, this will strengthen your Marriage. 54. Increase PDA in your Marriage: PDA is Public Display of Affection, display affection public don't be ashamed of your wife. 55. Date your Wife Regularly: Create time to go out with your Wife on a date, set time for it and grow together. 56. Break unbreakable Bond with your Wife. 57. Don't just be a Husband be a Lover Boy 58. Always count the Cost of Adultery: Lots of Men do look at the pleasure of illicit sex without counting the cost. Count the cost, this is much, Sexually transmitted diseases, Scandals, unwanted Baby, disappointments, satanic affliction, the judgement of God and lots. Count the cost, it's much, very much, outweighs 8 seconds of pleasure. 59. Be careful about your secretary and your Colleague at Work, they are not better than your wife, your wife is by far better than them, don't get too close to them, don't destroy your Marriage. 60. You want a better Bedroom? You want better Sex, you can get it in your Marriage. God bless you ❣️ #ccto #everyonehighlights #buhaymayasawa #relationshipgoals #marriedlife #familyfirst #Relationship #loveislove #highlights2024 #monizationtools

''Working In A Hotel Will Make You Féar Marríage, A Marríed W0man Wanted Me To be Her Sugàrboy And Be Knàckîng Her Kpekús But I Refused". Nigerian man reveals a shocking secret you probably needs to know about married wómen and what they d0 in secret places. His words: "My Experience working in a Hotel as a receptionist Open my eye to unimaginable things. So Many things that will make you scared. Working in a hotel will turn you to something else. Avoid it if you can. Things dey happen there, Especially married women what they're doing they maval, I done hear different sound track I swear, both from married woman and singles. You will see how dey $làughter people's serious girlfriends. Working at a lodge will make you fear marriage self. Chai omo I done day fear women like this, many things day happen ooh, imagine both married women ooh, omo if no be to get children I for no near woman say I won marry Especially married women with small small boys. One of them like me and wanted me to be her bo¥friend and I refused, she was àngry and st0pped coming to the hotel.. To marry go hard o. I have once càtchéd my neighbor wife but I f0rgot to snap her f0r evidence. Without an evidence, I decided to keep quiet . This man loves this lady dīe. Come see gift he will pack come back while coming for holiday from work That's is why I always say cheating is not gender based to confirm, just go to any hotel or guest house to relax or watch ball, u will see many married women coming for short time, many even stay over night, have seen a Soo called men and women of G0d c0me to h0tel to do sh0rt time. Some times is good to go out especially to some places to see dat dere is nothing in this life and u will appreciate the fact that you need to love your self more than any other person. For some men dat carry dere wíves for head, I love my wife I love my wife, y0ur wífe dey hotel dey do short tíme with an0ther man, make everyone get sense and trust nobody", she said.

TIMING AND SÉX!!! 1. Not every time is time to have séx. Find out the state of your spouse first 2. If you are a man who climaxes too quickly, study your timing to stop pumping and come out of her when you feel you are about to climax. This will delay your ejaculation 3. Don't spend too much time doing one séxual thing whilst making love. Your spouse might get bored. Good timing is when you transition to the next séxual act after adequate exploration. For example, don't kiss for too long, don't lick for too long, don't play with the nipples for too long, don't do one séx position for too long 4. Don’t transition to the next séxual act too quickly before your spouse even enjoys what you were doing. Don't rush the kissing, the foreplay 5. Don't approach your spouse for love making when you know very well his/her mind is somewhere else; perhaps rushing to finish a deadline, rushing to leave for work, preoccupied with the children. Don't take offense if your spouse turns you down. It is not that your spouse doesn't want you, it's just not the right time 6. Gentleman, as you pump inside your wife and you realize she is about to climax; that is not the time to stop or slow down. That is the time to pump harder or faster as she wants it. She is about to climax. If you mess up when almost there, it might take her a while to get there again 7. During love making is the wrong time to talk about domestics, chores, work, responsibilities and duties. Everything else can wait, focus on pleasure 8. Lady, when your husband is horny for you and you are in a position to give it to him, don't make him wait for too long. Strike while the iron is hot 9. After the husband has ejaculated. Give the penis time before the next episode so that it can rejuvenate. If you rush it, it might erect but lose hardness mid-way because it hasn't adequately breathed 10. Withdrawal method is all about timing. The man must master the precise time to come out of her when he feels the ejaculationis almost. This works best with all séxual positions besides the one where she is on top of him. When the wife is on top, the husband has less control of his penis 11. When life gets busy, you two might have to resort to intentionally creating time for love making or else you will end up having a séxless marriage. CLASS DISMISSED Follow my page for more Queendalin Chioma

SIGNS THAT YOU ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE 1. As a lady, you are at least 21 years old and the man is at least 25 years old. 2. You have a job/ business that can take care of you, your wife and at least a baby. 3. As a man you have your own apartment and you pay all your bills by yourself. 4. As a lady, you can take good care of yourself and another person without any stress. 4. You love children and hope to have yours. 5. You enjoy cooking and do house chores without being told. 6. You can live at least a thousand miles away from your parents. 7. You can make major decisions about your life and face the consequence. 8. You are no longer under the control and command of your parents. 9. You do not yield to peer pressure. You do what needs to be done regardless of what anyone feels. 10. You are sexually responsible. You know how to say NO to premarital sex and mean it. 11. As a lady you have a good relationship with your dad and you are submissive to authorities. 12. As a man, you love your mum, sisters and treat women generally with respect and dignity. 13. You know how to make and multiply money. 14. You are spiritually sound. You pray and receive answers to your prayers. You know how to hear God. 15. You are generous. You give with pleasure. 16. You have a healthy sexual desire. 17. You know exactly what you want in life and you pursue it daily to attain it. 18. You have a strong desire to love, bond with and help another person be all what God wants them to be. 19. You do not have destructive bad habits. 20. You are in full grip of your emotions. You are not hot tempered, lustful and possessive! These and more are the signs you are ready for marriage. Marriage requires all round maturity: physical, social, financial, mental, emotional, psychological. It is not compulsory you must marry at 25. Wait till you are mature or your immaturity will destroy your marriage. I see it happen all the time. May the Lord grant you understanding. ©Perfected Light #Oluwagoddy

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❤️SWEET AND BITTER💖 As people push you to get married, think before you oblige to pressure, take your time. Imagine handcuffing you with a stranger for life, that's exactly how marriage is. So just imagine how you will feel sometimes when she is no more doing the shakara that she used to do. Imagine when she wakes up with a gown that can size 4 people and you're not able to see the part of her body that she was fronting for you before marriage. Imagine seeing her real face without makeup every morning. 💯% of newly married couples one time or the other usually regretted getting married at some point Some people will wish they waited a little while others will start looking for opportunity to get out. There are only a few people who made up their mind to stay married forever. Before getting into married, check if you're mentally ready Check if you're matured in judgement. Check if you're ready to tolerate what you call shit Stop copying what you see on social media they are all edited, not real. Do you want to stay happy in your marriage? If yes, then do this one thing, zero your mind from every marital negativity, just make up your mind that you're in, and you're in for life. How often do you bring in God into your marriage? It should not be an option. As couples, stop buying property in secret. You're already convincing yourself that the marriage will not work, STOP. Especially our wives, stop buying property in your brother's name, sooner or later, you will start feeling independent and uncomfortable to be under the control of a man. My follow husband, forget the popular campaign of gender equality, Our wives can not function without us. They need support, advice, and guidance. Give it to them, and you will enjoy your marriage even when they pretend as if they don't need it. Dear men, your wife is already busy with house chores and taking care of kids. Instead of making things more difficult for her, GET BUSY. Just get busy. They will complain that you're too busy, but the truth is, no woman love her husband to stay with her 24/7. So get busy. If you don't have anything to do, look for one corner, sit down, and read bible. After all, to finish reading genesis to revelation will take time. Even when you finish, start all over. Just get busy. Remember, SWEET AND BITTER in marriage is 50/50. So you're the one to work on the SWEET aspect and make it supercede the BITTER aspect of marriage. Let's make our marriage work. We can do it. My little contribution as I celebrate today with my wife. Happy anniversary to us