Listen up, Men! This “I Owe Nobody” Mentality Is Why Modern Women Are Broken—Here’s the Harsh Truth Women today love to scream, “I owe nobody this, I owe nobody that,” like it’s some badge of honor. That’s how we got to this level of irresponsibility, broken relationships, broken marriages, and a society full of reckless women who hit 35 without a man and a body count that makes a calculator sweat. Let’s be real—this mentality is pure poison. Here’s the truth they don’t want to hear: you owe people plenty. Respect, empathy, compassion, good character, and accountability aren’t optional—they’re the bare minimum for being a decent human. But let’s not stop there. You owe your husband virginity, submission, and obedience—period. That’s not oppression—that’s order. Society crumbles without it. 1. “I Owe Nobody Respect” Is Why No Man Wants You Respect isn’t something you give based on your mood—it’s the foundation of any relationship. Women who refuse to respect men wonder why they keep getting ghosted. When a woman thinks she’s above showing respect, what she’s really saying is, “I’m entitled to everything without earning anything.” Men see that mentality from a mile away and run. And they should. No man should have to beg for basic respect. 2. “I Owe Nobody Empathy” Is Why Your Friendships Are Trash Empathy is about understanding the other person’s point of view—not about making everything about you. Women who scream about not owing anyone empathy are the same ones who can’t keep friends for longer than six months because every conversation turns into “me, me, me.” That’s why they spend their nights on TikTok live streams instead of having meaningful conversations. No empathy, no real connections—simple. 3. “I Owe Nobody My Virginity”—And That’s Why You’re Single at 35 Here’s the hard truth—a woman’s virginity is a gift, not a given. A man who works his entire life to build a legacy deserves a woman who has the discipline to save herself. You owe your husband

Never beat the Drums, if you are not ready to Dance. Never get married until you have finished being single. In Marriage, there's no privacy or this is how I live my life. Marriage required commitment, accountability, openness and honesty, sincerity, the ability to "Let Go" and say "I'm sorry" even when you are right for the sake of PEACE. Never invite someone into your life if you don't have the space for them in your life to begin with. Never open up a person's heart with no intention of marrying them when they fall in love with you. Playing with people's feelings is bad and is heart breaking. Take my advice and if you're not ready to step up to the plate, take your hands off another person's future. . . #loveit #marriage #letsgo #loveislove #fypシ゚viralシfypシ゚viralシalシ #god

THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE... Specially for you. 1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the "wow" stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing. Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people's head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It's the honeymoon stage and it's so so beautiful. 2. THE IRRITATION STAGE: This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn't. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won't bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. "What's just wrong with this guy?" You think aloud, well it's part of marriage. 3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit. It's the stage you begin to wonder: "have I really married the wrong guy?" "Have I married the wrong woman?" No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together. 4. THE RESSOLUTION STAGE: When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner's weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other. 5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change till Jesus comes. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE... Specially for you. 1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the "wow" stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing. Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people's head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It's the honeymoon stage and it's so so beautiful. 2. THE IRRITATION STAGE: This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn't. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won't bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. "What's just wrong with this guy?" You think aloud, well it's part of marriage. 3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit. It's the stage you begin to wonder: "have I really married the wrong guy?" "Have I married the wrong woman?" No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together. 4. THE RESSOLUTION STAGE: When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner's weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other. 5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change till Jesus comes. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses. 6. THE RESTUL STAGE:This is the stage you permanently accept them with all their strengths, weaknesses, short comings and flaws and love them unconditionally regardless of what they do. This is real love -agape, divine and true. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and enjoy honey moon again while building a lasting marriage regardless of the challenges you face. There is no perfect marriage. Every marriage goes through this stages. How you handle it will determine if you will come out bitter or better. You don't have to abuse your spouse or keep malice if Christ is at the centre of your home and you obey the word of God daily. Nevertheless, do not be disappointed if you go through the unpleasant stages in marriage. It is a phase and will surely end. Handle your marriage with wisdom and keep loving regardless of the challenges you face.

You can marry the right person and not marry the person right. Having the right partner doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage if you don’t work on yourself and the relationship. Some people have direct revelation/ convictions that their spouse is perfect for them, yet they are struggling in their marriage to understand themselves. God can show you that someone is destined for you, but he won't come down to treat them well for you. God provides guidance, not control. He has given you the key to a successful marriage. Men love your wives, and women submit to your husband. You also need to understand that submission and love don't just happen if you don't give room for it. Stop blaming God for your own mistakes. Take responsibility of your shortcomings. Find what works for you and your partner to foster a healthy, and loving relationship. It takes commitment from both partners to make healthy and loving marriage. Can two work together unless they agree? #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

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Ask any married man who is sincere he will tell you that sometime you wish you where not married, but one of the two must say it works. Marriage is game of I forgive you, you forgive me, we continue tomorrow.

THE DANGER OF FORCING LOVE It is dangerous to force yourself on someone or marry someone who does not love you. When there is no love in marriage, the wedding ring becomes a little handcuff and your marriage becomes a prison yard instead of a paradise on earth. A man who does not love a woman during courtship will find it difficult to cherish her after getting married. There are people who will never love you no matter how much you show love to them. That's the reality of life. Love is a choice. Don't force yourself on anyone. Don't keep fighting to be with someone who isn’t fighting to be with you, you can’t keep holding onto someone who is not holding onto you, you can’t keep planning your future with someone who doesn’t plan theirs with you, you can’t keep running back to someone who is running away from you, you can’t keep loving and caring about someone who shows that they no longer love you, and you can’t keep taking someone as a priority yet they are taking you as their option. Trust me, it’s a waste of time and energy. No matter how hard and hurting it is, you have to let go and open up a new chapter for your life. Because There are thousand of people who are praying and wishing to spend the rest of their lives with you! Why kill yourself over someone who thinks he/she is doing you a big favor by being in a relationship with you. You deserve to be happy, loved and cared for not to be sad all the time, to have sleepless nights, to cry and plead for someone’s love. Think about it. You have to be in a relationship in which you are loved, celebrated, honored and not tolerated. But until you let go of the wrong person from your life, you can't see the right person for your life. Sometimes We may love the wrong person, cry for the wrong reasons. But one thing is for sure, mistakes help us to find the right person. Know your place in people's life and act accordingly. It's not pride, it is self respect.

WHAT HURTS A WIFE😩 1. It hurts a wife when her husband listens to the advice of other women but ignores hers 2. It hurts a wife when her husband carries himself in public as if he is not married, as if he is not proud of the love he shares with her. 3. It hurts a wife when her husband would rather watch pornography and touch himself than make love to her. 4. It hurts a wife when her husband would defend the privacy of his phone, and attack his wife because of his phone activity as if what is in his phone is more important than his marriage. 5. It hurts a wife when she tries her best to cover her husband, only to keep hearing others telling her about the dishonourable things her husband is doing. 6. It hurts a wife when her husband would rather confide in another woman and praise another woman than her. 7. It hurts a wife when she tries her best to be a good wife, cook for him, serve him, stay sexy for him, stay faithful to him; but he just doesn't notice her effort. 8. It hurts a wife when her husband allows his mother to bully her and micro manage their home. 9. It hurts a wife when her husband uses the secrets she confided in him to insult her, mock her, and attack her. 10. It hurts a wife when he expects her to do everything to support his dream and yet he has never cared to find out and support her dreams. 11. It hurts a wife when her husband mistreats her but then expects great sex. 12. It hurts a wife when she has to beg her own husband for attention, and she is reduced to competing against his friends for his priority spot. 13. It hurts a wife when her husband openly stares and flirts with other women, yet he barely notices her beauty, new hairstyle or compliment her body. 14. It hurts a wife when her husband who promised her a great marriage and to grow old together, is the one person breaking the home. Ccto:

Today, we celebrate 27 incredible years of marriage, love and adventure together. You are the rock that holds me, the friend who laughs with me and the soul mate who loves me unconditionally. I cherish every moment we have shared and look forward to many more years of happiness, laughter and making memories together.

You will always meet ladies who are more attractive than your woman, you will meet ladies with more vibes, you will meet women who are more informed, you will meet women who acts as though they care more than your woman. Also as a woman you will meet men who are far richer than your man, you will meet men with more attractive body than your man, you will meet men with more vibes, you will meet men who act more caring than your spouse, you will meet men who talks better than your man; I mean men who knows how to say sweet words, crack jokes. Etc. Note. People must always be better than others in some areas of life. And sometimes the people we see as being better than our spouses may not even be what we feel they're. Note. People show you what they want you to see and most of the time it is not their true self they reveal outside. Learn to appreciate your partner Love your partner without any reservations. Whenever you feel unsatisfied regarding any aspect your partner is not doing well, be willing enough to open up to him/her. Be satisfied please. It takes commitment, and self control and discipline to stay faithful, and believe me it is achievable. Love is never enough, self-discipline and relentless commitment is very essential when it comes to relationship/marriage. Stay Faithful. One Woman Is Enough! One Man Is Enough!”

I find it surprising that some individuals assume all married women are subjected to maltreatment, abúse, and unhappiness. Sadly, these views often originate from people who are experiencing abuse in relationships, and not even marriage. Some of the singles are in a relationship, and you know what? Many of them are abúsed, especially the bròke ladies dating Yahǒò guys! I have seen a lot, but the abúse that comes from those guys to their bròke girlfriends? It’s unimaginable! When it comes to cheating nko? Many single ladies are abúsed in their relationship, physically, emotionally, verbally, and the issues is that? They still desire to end up with the man mistreating them. So, what’s the fuss about married ladies? You’re not even married and you’re being mistreated this way. Some are in a very abus!ve relationship because they don’t want their iPhones taken, they want to be able to still live up to their lifestyle, get wigs and dresses. The abuse some married ladies are experiencing in marriage didn’t just start, it started from relationship, and they stayed. Just as some of you are already in a very tòxíc relationship and you don’t want to leave. This is just common in T!KTOk, once a lady makes a video with the husband, you see comments making it looking she’s not happy. How una take get the statistics? You can’t come from a beautiful home and shaa believe such nonsense! Stop pointing fingers when you are not treated rightly in a relationship, Not everyone is your partner, some people are nicely raised💖 And if you don’t want to be among the ladies abúsed in marriage, make a good choice now, and stop generalizing. #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice Happy Sunday Everyone ❤️

THINGS THAT CAUSE REGRET AT OLD AGE When younger, we make various choice's without the future in mind. Sometimes those choices bite us in our mid-life. These are some of the things one might regret when they're older. 1. Marrying the wrong person When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young. 2. The opportunities you did not seize When you are younger many doors will open, you will get many chances. Many young people let these opportunities go because of fear, laziness, or pride; yet well younger and with more energy is the best time to start a venture and a name for yourself. Some think the opportunities are too big for them. Take advantage of them or one day when you're older you will want to go back and grab those missed chances. 3. The bridges you burned When we are younger, we care little for relationships, what most think about is getting money and moving up the ladder of success at all cost. Many use and trample on people to progress, they take relationships for granted, messing up bonds, sleeping with people for personal gain. But these bad actions will catch up with you ahead. When you will realize how empty life is without love and friends. When you will have success but no one around you or no one to trust you. 4.The child you aborted You are a young lady, you get pregnant and you are scared. You take the aborting option quickly thinking of that moment then. But when you are much older, you will look back and wish you kept that baby. When you will be rich and successful you will wish that child you gave up on would be around to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Being a single mother doesn't mean you can't make it in life or you can't find a man in future. 5. The child you rejected Young man, you impregnated a woman, she told you she's pregnant with your child. You rejected her and the baby and ran. But years later when you're 50 something, you will wish you were responsible, you will wish you manned up and became a father to that child. You will see that child excel and become an adult but will have no claim to that grown child who you rejected from the beginning. You will regret being a Dead Beat Dad by choice 6. The marriage you destroyed So you get married to your good fiance; the first months in marriage were good but shortly after, with your money and charm, you started having affairs. You became unfaithful. Your spouse begged you to stop, your children started hurting, your marriage was collapsing. One day when you are older, it will hit you how foolish you were to destroy the good marriage you had began to build for mere temporary thrills in affairs that did you no good. You will realize the damage you caused to your children and spouse. 7. The God you disowned When you are much older you become wiser, God becomes more real as you see life in a more meaningful way. But don't wait to get older to start enjoying a relationship with God. Know God when you are young, build your future with God. Don't be a young rebel who runs back to God when age catches up. 8. The body you messed up You have only one body to live with all your life. The cigarettes, the alcohol you are abusing, the drugs you are taking, the unhealthy food you're consuming; all that will destroy you slowly. When you are 50 and lifestyle diseases catch up with you, you will wish you took care of your body when younger, that you exercised more; but now the damage is done. 9. The time you wasted The time you are wasting when younger in worry, wrong relationships, laziness, being a couch potato, giving excuses and pursuing meaningless things; you will never get it back. 10. The dreams and talents you shelved Are you talented when young; are there things you love to do and you are good at them? Nurture those talents, exploit them, don't give up even if you encounter set backs, don't give up on your dreams. If you give up, when you're older you will look at your peers who stuck to what they love and made it and think to yourself, "That could have been me". Pursue a career, study a course you love. Don't waste years of your life in a field that doesn't fulfill you. 11 The name you defamed When you are older, a legacy is very important, the value of your name is crucial. You will ask yourself what is your reputation, what are you leaving behind? Your legacy is a sum total of your actions since youthful days. We write our biography by how we live life everyday. When you look back your path and you see the mud you threw at your own name, the shame you attracted and the little value you have added to the world; you will regret. 12. The wealth you threw away Are you riding on good money during your productive years? Earning good money? Don't throw away that money in clubs, reckless living and wasteful shopping. Invest with that money, widen your revenue stream, make that money work for you and keep it safe to take care of you in your older years. Leave an inheritance for your loved ones so that you will never say "I wish I knew better" 13. The good love that got away Is there that great person in your life loving you good? Don't push that person away, or else that person will walk out your life and you will never ever find someone that incredible and who connects with you all your life. It will torment you to grow older with thoughts of "What if I was still with that person?" 14 The parents you despised When younger, it is easy to show contempt to your parents; what do your parent's know? They are old-fashioned, shady and small -minded. But your parents are still your parents whether you agree with them or not, whatever their style. Don't let your parent die or age separated from you, reconcile and make up. When you get older, you will realize why your parents wanted to be close to you. The older you get, the more you see the value. Thanks for reading To realize The value of a sister or brother Ask someone Who doesn't have one. To realize The value of ten years: Ask a newly Divorced couple. To realize The value of four years: Ask a graduate. To realize The value of one year: Ask a student who Has failed a final exam. To realize The value of nine months: Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn. To realize The value of one month: Ask a mother Who has given birth to A premature baby. To realize The value of one week: Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper. To realize The value of one minute: Ask a person Who has missed the train, bus or plane. To realize The value of one second: Ask a person Who has survived an accident. Time waits for no one.🌹🌹🌹 Treasure every moment you have