*I shut my office door and wept. I couldn’t hold back the tears especially after stepping into the female hostel, now overcrowded*. *Every single girl under our care this session is under 25 years old. Some are just 12. And here’s what breaks my heart even more-none of these girls were rescued from the streets*. *Every one of them was brought in by their own parents. While checking in bags at both the girls’ and boys’ hostels, we found paraphernalia-evidence of addiction, rebellion, deep-rooted pain…* *This is not just a problem. This is a pandemic*. *Let’s stop pretending. Let’s stop covering our eyes*. *Things are NOT right with our Youths*. *Today, i read about a young man expelled from Babcock University-a teenager with a ₦100,000 ritual soap from a herbalist.* *He borrowed ₦500,000. He became a drug peddler.* *Not from a poor home. Not a street child. But a well-groomed boy from a comfortable background. Wetin him dey find? KILO NWA KIRI !!!* *What is going on with our YOUTHS? Why this desperation for quick wealth*? *What has happened to HARD WORK, INTEGRITY, and DIGNITY*? *Last week, we struggled to find a tiler for one of our projects. We had to bring in one from Togo. Why*? *Because our own YOUTH do not want to learn any skill*. *They don’t want SCHOOL.* *They want “HOOKUP*” *They want “YAHOO*.” *They want to do nothing but SCROLL, LIE, PARTY and they want MONEY FAST*. *And let’s be real. You cannot do Yahoo or Hookup without drugs or Alcohol. They go hand in hand*. *My heart is heavy. Are we just going to fold our hands and watch this generation waste away*? *PARENTS! Wake up*! *Where are you*? *Why the silence*? *Why the complacency*? *Why are some of us condoning and funding this destructive lifestyle*? *Your child doesn’t need a new PHONE-they need PURPOSE*. *They don’t need more DATA-they need DISCIPLINE*. *They don’t need “FREEDOM”-they need BOUNDARIES*. *We cannot keep blaming SOCIETIES, FRIENDS, INFLUENCERS. It starts from the HOME*. *Please, let’s start talking again*. *Let’s check their bags*. *Let’s check their hearts*. *Let’s check ourselves*. *To every Parent reading this please be present*. *Your child doesn’t just need your MONEY; they need your TIME and VOICE*. *Ask questions. Don’t be afraid to dig deeper, even if it’s uncomfortable*. *Teach values. Wealth is GOOD, but WISDOM, CHARACTER, and CONTENTMENT are better*. *Be their safe space. If you don’t listen, the world will and it will feed them lies*. *Let’s rise up and fight for the souls of our children. We may not be able to save all, but we must not give up on the ones we can reach* *They are not just the future-they are our now*. _*Let’s not lose them...*_ *WHEN PARENTS FAIL – HOW LACK OF DISCIPLINE IS CREATING A GENERATION OF LOST SOULS* There was a time when parents raised warriors. Now, they raise weaklings. A time when children feared their fathers’ discipline. Now, children insult their fathers online. A time when a slap from your mother could reset your entire future. Now, mothers watch their children twerk for clout. The world changed—not because evil became more powerful, but because parents became weaker. Children no longer have boundaries. No fear. No respect. No discipline. And the result? A generation that mocks God, worships vanity, and embraces sin with pride. *BRUTAL THREAD:* 1. *CHILDREN WITHOUT DISCIPLINE BECOME ADULTS WITHOUT SELF-CONTROL* A child who never hears “NO” at home will hear “NO” from life when it’s too late. The boy who was never told to control his desires will become a man addicted to sex, gambling, and laziness. The girl who was never told to respect herself would become a woman who exposes her body for money and attention. The child who was never corrected for lying will become an adult who deceives, manipulates, and steals. If parents don’t discipline their children, the world will punish them later. 2. *THE FALL OF FAMILY VALUES IS THE RISE OF MORAL DECAY* What happened to parenting? Mothers used to teach daughters how to be women of dignity. Now, they encourage them to “secure the bag” by any means. Fathers used to teach sons how to be responsible men. Now, they are absent—either too weak, too distracted, or too scared to lead. So children are now learning from TikTok instead of home, and the internet is raising a generation with no fear of God and no sense of direction. 3. *PARENTS WHO SPOIL THEIR CHILDREN ARE DESTROYING THEM* Giving your child everything they want is the fastest way to ruin them. A child who never worked for anything will grow up lazy and entitled. A child who was never disciplined will grow up thinking life has no consequences. A child who was never corrected will grow up believing they can do anything and get away with it. Now, we have a world full of adults who can’t handle rejection, can’t handle failure, and can’t handle life. 4. *WHEN PARENTS CHOOSE FRIENDSHIP OVER LEADERSHIP, CHAOS FOLLOWS* Many parents today want to be their child’s friend instead of their leader. So instead of saying: ❌ "This behaviour is wrong!" They say, "She’s just expressing herself." ❌ "You must work for what you want!" They say, "Let me buy it for you." ❌ "This is not acceptable!" They say, "I don't want to hurt their feelings." And just like that, we have a generation of weak people who cry over small problems and break down when life gets tough. 5. *THE NEW GENERATION LOVES PLEASURE BUT HATES RESPONSIBILITY* Discipline used to be normal. Now, a child calls it "abuse" when a parent corrects them. Now, teachers can’t discipline students because "it’s too harsh." Now, young people demand freedom but reject accountability. Everyone wants to enjoy, but no one wants to work. And this is why: The streets are full of lazy men chasing quick money. Social media is full of young girls selling their bodies for attention. Homes are full of broken families because nobody was raised to be a good partner or parent. 6. *WHEN CHILDREN LOSE DISCIPLINE, THEY LOSE THEIR FUTURE.* Many young men today are addicted to masturbation, pornography, and cheap pleasure—because nobody taught them self-control. Many young women today expose their bodies for social media likes—because nobody taught them self-respect. Many young people today are broke, weak, and mentally unstable—because nobody taught them how to survive hardship. The devil is not the problem. The parents failed. 7. *IF WE DON’T FIX PARENTING, THE WORLD WILL GET WORSE.* If we continue like this, the next generation will: ⚠️ Have no morals. ⚠️ Have no work ethic. ⚠️ Have no fear of God. Society will collapse—not because of demons, but because of poor parenting. *BOTTOM LINE:* If you are a parent, discipline your children. If you are young, discipline yourself. Because the world will not be kind to those who were raised without discipline. *Let’s raise warriors, not weaklings.* *Pls forward this to family and friends, especially to those with young and teenage children* *May GOD help us all.*

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Lagos Is Playing with Fire — And Tinubu Must Put It Out By Babafemi Ojudu A troubling trend is unfolding in Lagos State. In the aftermath of the recent local government elections, some newly elected officials have embarked on a reckless spree of renaming streets—particularly those bearing Igbo names or named after prominent non-indigenes. This is not coincidental; it is a calculated political maneuver rooted in resentment, identity politics, and shortsighted leadership. The long-simmering tension between Yoruba and Igbo communities reached a boiling point during the 2023 elections. Peter Obi of the Labour Party shocked the political establishment by defeating Bola Ahmed Tinubu—Lagos’s long-reigning political figure—in the presidential poll within the state. That upset sent shockwaves through the ruling APC, and fears grew that a similar surprise might unfold in the governorship race. What followed was an aggressive, divisive campaign that shamelessly weaponized ethnicity, fear, and misinformation. Wild accusations flew: that the Igbo had “bought up” Lagos, “taken over” the economy, and were scheming to seize political power. These narratives were dangerous—and not entirely new. But while they didn’t arise in a vacuum, they have been irresponsibly amplified. It’s true that some individuals within the Igbo community, in asserting cultural pride, have crossed into political overreach—not just in Nigeria but abroad. A recent example is an Igbo man in Ghana who purchased large tracts of land and declared himself a king, sparking fears—justified or not—of secessionist ambitions in host communities. Similarly, the proliferation of self-styled “Eze Ndi Igbo” (Igbo kings) across non-Igbo regions can be perceived as provocative, especially when seen as parallel authority structures. While these acts may stem from pride and cultural identity, they can easily be exploited by opportunistic politicians to sow fear and division. But make no mistake: these isolated actions do not justify collective punishment or cultural erasure. Lagos was built by many hands—Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa, Urhobo, Tapa, and more. Its strength lies in its diversity. To target any group—especially one so deeply embedded in the city’s economy and social fabric—is not just morally wrong; it is politically suicidal. Rather than stoking ethnic division, Lagos leaders should focus on the real threats to the city: youth unemployment, drug addiction, urban decay, traffic congestion, and collapsing infrastructure. These are the issues threatening Lagos’s future—not the names on its street signs. What makes this ethnic posturing even more shortsighted is the broader national context. Discontent is rising across Nigeria. The economy is reeling, inflation is crushing households, and insecurity remains rampant. As the 2027 elections approach, the ruling APC is grappling with waning public trust. Alienating a significant Southern demographic—the Igbo—while Northern political elites express growing dissatisfaction with Tinubu’s leadership is a dangerous gamble. Just recently, Northern heavyweight Rabiu Kwankwaso declared that the North feels marginalized under Tinubu’s presidency and may not support his re-election. If the North grows distant and the Southeast is antagonized, where will the support come from? This trend risks isolating the South West politically—and that isolation will not bode well for the Yoruba, both at home and in the diaspora. This is where President Bola Ahmed Tinubu must rise above the fray. He cannot afford to allow partisan loyalty or ethnic sentiment to blind him to the growing danger of ethnic polarization. Left unchecked, it could spiral into something far more sinister—even ethnic cleansing. Nigeria is too fragile for such a descent. The President must initiate a process of reconciliation. He should reach out to Igbo leaders—both at home and abroad—to promote moderation and mutual respect. Online abuse and reckless insults, such as referring to revered Yoruba figures like Wole Soyinka in derogatory terms, must cease. I was stunned to read a young Igbo man referring to Soyinka as a “gbajue professor.” Such incivility wounds the national psyche and deepens mistrust. At the same time, Tinubu must speak frankly to Yoruba communities—especially indigenes of Lagos. Being a host comes with responsibility, not superiority. You cannot sell your land willingly, spend the proceeds on indulgent lifestyles, and then resent those who invested and built on that land. You cannot eat your cake and still have it. If you admire the success of others, emulate their work ethic and community spirit—don’t scapegoat them. Meanwhile, fault lines are cracking elsewhere. In the North, Muslim-Christian tensions are rising. The once-cohesive Fulani-Hausa alliance is showing strain. In the South, Yoruba-Igbo relations are fraying. In the Niger Delta, some groups are rejecting the inclusion of Igbos in the Biafra narrative. Even among the Yoruba, there is growing resentment against the idea of “giving everything to Lagos,” while some Lagosians disparage non-indigenous Yoruba (“ara oke”) who’ve found success in the city. Nigeria is a house divided—and unless urgent steps are taken, it may not stand much longer. The crisis in Rivers State has stirred new waves of resentment in the Niger Delta. Everywhere, identity-based fault lines are deepening. President Tinubu must not be complacent. If Nigeria fractures, history will not remember his economic policies or political victories. It will remember that the house collapsed under his watch. The task before him is urgent and non-transferable: call your boys to order, heal old wounds, unite the nation, and rise above petty politics. This is not a job for committees or proxies. Only bold, visionary leadership can pull Nigeria back from the brink. The window is closing. Now is the time to act. • Ojudu is a former Senator, journalist, political scientist,

Here’s the cold truth most men don’t want to hear: women don’t love men the way men love women. A man can love a woman deeply even if she has nothing no money, no status, no beauty left. But a woman? She loves what you *represent*, what you *provide*, and how you make her *feel*. You could give her the whole world money, a house, a car, endless gifts and the moment you lose it all, watch how quickly that “love” fades. It’s not because she’s evil. It’s because female love is conditional by nature. They’re biologically wired to seek the best provider, the strongest protector, the man who elevates their life. This is why rich men get women effortlessly, while struggling men get “friend-zoned” without mercy. Women don’t love your soul they love the lifestyle, the security, and the emotions you can give them. So stop chasing fairy tales. Stop believing love will save you. Build yourself, keep your value high, and understand: the moment you can’t provide, the romance clock starts ticking. Disagree? Go ahead the comment section is ready for you

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IF YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND SOME WOMEN THOUGH NOT ALL, THEY WILL DRAIN YOUR ENERGY, KILL YOUR FOCUS, AND DERAIL YOUR MISSION. Most men don’t fail because of women — They fail because they don’t know how to handle women. If you’re not mentally equipped, she’ll become your downfall. Here are 10 BRUTAL TRUTHS every man must know to survive the game and lead with purpose — not lust. 1. If you don’t lead, she’ll walk all over you. Women test men constantly. If you don’t take charge, she’ll lose respect and start controlling the relationship. 2. Women follow strength — not begging, simping, or softness. If you're too available, too nice, or too emotional, she'll feel safe, but not attracted. She’ll crave a man who can say “No.” 3. Lust blinds you from seeing who she really is. Her beauty distracts you, her curves control you, and by the time you wake up — you’re trapped in chaos. 4. Women listen to actions, not words. You can talk all day, but if your life doesn’t reflect power, discipline, and purpose — she’ll tune out and walk away. 5. Women don’t respect men they can manipulate. If she senses you’re weak, she’ll test you more. Fail the test enough times, and she'll look elsewhere for masculine energy. 6. She doesn’t care about your potential — she watches your results. Ambition sounds cute. But if you’re not producing, she’ll quietly start comparing you to men who are. 7. You will NEVER win with a woman if you lose yourself. Compromise your values, sacrifice your mission, and you’ll become the very man she stops desiring. 8. Not every woman deserves your energy. Some women are sent to distract you, not build with you. Looks fade. Character builds legacies. 9. A good woman follows a man with vision. If your life has direction, she’ll submit to the leadership. But if you’re lost, she’ll either take control or leave. 10. Stop chasing — start building. Chase her, and she’ll treat you like an option. Build your empire, and she’ll chase the lifestyle you create. --- FINAL WARNING: A man who doesn’t understand women is a man constantly played by them. You either lead her with strength and clarity — Or she’ll manipulate, drain, and leave you broken. Get control of your lust. Get control of your mind. Protect your energy. Prioritize your mission. HAPPY HOME FAMILY

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You'll be thinking you have problem until you hear the stories of others. Someone's 12yrs old Child was thrown into prison and later released at the age of 22 for nothing, all because they had no one to speak for them. Tell me if this boy will ever think straight again...after been exposed to all sorts of pun1shments, t0rture, infecti0ns and lifestyle at the pr1son while his mates were in school and growing..😥😥

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HEALTH TALK FOR TODAY – AUTOIMMUNE DISEASES (Please Read & Share) Autoimmune diseases occur when the body's immune system mistakenly attacks and damages its own cells, tissues, and organs. Common autoimmune diseases: 1. Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA) - affects joints 2. Lupus - affects multiple organs (skin, joints, and kidneys) 3. Hashimoto's Thyroiditis - affects thyroid gland 4. Type 1 Diabetes - affects pancreas 5. Multiple Sclerosis (MS) - affects central nervous system 6. Psoriasis - affects skin 7. Crohn's Disease and Ulcerative Colitis - affect digestive tract What happens in autoimmune diseases: 1. The immune system mistakenly identifies healthy cells and tissues as foreign. 2. Immune cells attack and damage these healthy tissues. 3. Inflammation and tissue damage occur, leading to various symptoms. Types of autoimmune diseases: 1. Organ-specific: Affect specific organs (e.g., Type 1 Diabetes, Hashimoto's Thyroiditis) 2. Systemic: Affect multiple organs and tissues (e.g., Lupus, Rheumatoid Arthritis) Causes and risk factors: 1. Genetics: Family history plays a role. 2. Environmental triggers: Infections, toxins, stress. 3. Hormonal influences: Hormonal changes can trigger or exacerbate symptoms. 4. Gut health: Imbalanced gut microbiome may contribute. Treatment options: 1. Medications: Immunosuppressant, biologics, corticosteroids. 2. Lifestyle changes: Diet, exercise, stress management, sleep. 3. Alternative therapies: Acupuncture, herbal supplements, yoga. Managing autoimmune diseases: 1. Early diagnosis: Crucial for effective management. 2. Personalized treatment plans: Tailored to individual needs. 3. Lifestyle modifications: Healthy habits can help manage symptoms. 4. Monitoring and adjusting treatment: Regular check-ups and adjustments. Current research and future directions: 1. Biologics and targeted therapies: Developing more effective treatments. 2. Gene therapy: Exploring potential for genetic correction. 3. Stem cell therapy: Investigating potential for tissue repair. 4. Gut microbiome research: Understanding role in autoimmune diseases.