Not tonight
Sometimes, just sometimes, sex is a bad idea. Stick around because in this article I’m going to list these rare occasions.

Sex is one of the most natural, primal and amazing things in the world. Sometimes, however, what feels so good might be harmful to either you or your partner’s mind and body. In such cases, where you feel like it poses a threat to either you or your partner, abstinence is a good idea. I’ve rounded up five instances that are further complicated by sex.

For those other times, when sex is the best idea in the world, check out my program – G-Spot Orgasms Made Easy – to learn how to give your partner full-body, ecstatic orgasms. You’ll discover tips to get her G-Spot juices flowing which in turn will lead to one of the most powerful orgasms any woman has ever felt and experienced.

When one of you has an infection

If you suspect that you may have contracted a sexually transmitted disease (STD), go straight to your doctor and get tested. Even mere suspicion of STDs such as HIV/AIDS, hepatitis or syphilis prompts doctors to advise ‘no sex’ till the suspicion is ruled out through tests. It’s better to be safe than sorry, no?

When your partner has pain down there

Pain during intercourse may be due to lack of lubrication, untreated genital infections, or rough penetration. It’s ill-advised to tolerate discomfort during sex. Pain is like an alarm, which should urge you to investigate the cause of the problem. Painful intercourse may lead to physical and psychological problems, and cause complications in your relationship.

When there’s no protection

If your partner isn’t comfortable having sex without a condom, she has every right to turn you down. You shouldn’t make her feel guilty about saying no, because having unprotected sex under duress is neither pleasurable nor safe, for either of you. Talk to your partner about why she’s uncomfortable with unprotected sex. Ask her to help you understand how she feels. Also, try to come up with a way to avoid this situation in the future. Instead of relying solely on one person to bring the condoms – you – maybe you could ask her to keep a couple at her place or in her purse, for emergencies.

When you’re unsure

There may be times when you want to have sex with someone, but you’re not completely sure about how you feel about her, or if you trust her. In times like these, it’s smarter to wait. Even if you know someone well and still find yourself hesitating, it’s better to pay heed to your gut feeling. Having sex when you’re unsure of it may cause you to feel guilty, agitated and remorseful later.

When you risk hurting someone

If you are seeing someone who is married or is in a relationship, then you may want to think about whether it’s worth taking things ahead. Do you really want to hurt people along the way? Step back and think twice before you make a decision. Ask yourself if you’re okay with helping someone commit adultery, and if you can trust her word about her sexual past.

Hot kisses,

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Lips don’t lie
A kiss can reveal where you stand with your woman. Allow me to do some lip reading for your hot benefit.

Ever met someone who made the butterflies in your stomach do the Mexican wave only to have the first kiss kill the spark? Your partner’s kissing style provides all the information you need about her interest in you, and level of attraction and commitment.

Kisses when done right create magic and magic has the power to bind and behold your senses. Such is the spell of kisses!

And definitely there are a lot other places on the body where a kiss is welcome, besides the face.

Speaking from the emotional front, kisses express a connection and at the same time, hint for the upcoming romantic show. That’s certainly why, there are a number of ways kisses are performed and each kiss has a meaning, more so an emotion attached to it.

Here’s how to decode those lip locks.

Peck, peck

A dry, close-mouthed kiss on the cheek is great—if you’re her grandma. Consider yourself warned: If you find yourself calling a peck on the cheek a kiss, it isn’t long before you feel more like a roommate than a lover or spouse. A peck is more a sign of affection than love or passion. It could also mean she wants to take things slow and is testing the waters.

Tongue traveller

When she explores with her tongue, take it as a hint that she wants to know more about you. The French kiss is undoubtedly the most passionate and arousing of all the kisses. This exchange of sensory information provides non-verbal clues about the other person—their level of commitment and compatibility. If you return her kiss with the same intensity and urgency, it’s a pretty good sign that the flames of passion will always be strong in this relationship.

Gentle flutter

A gentle kiss on the eyes or forehead is called the angel kiss. It lets you know she has your back. Someone who gives their partner angel kisses believes it is important to take care of one another. It’s an intimate expression which reduces the distance between partners and leaves no room for misunderstanding.

Heavy necking

A kiss on the neck is an open declaration of her passion for you and almost always leads to some between-the-sheets action. Don’t believe me? Here’s what a friend of mine has to say about this type of kiss: “I was dating this girl for a month and we were watching a movie together at my place. She had come over for the first time, so the tension was palpitating. It began with her hands finding their way to my nape. She slowly began kissing my neck. Since I liked her a lot, I egged her on, and we ended up having sex. It was after this incident that we developed a deeper comfort level.”

Also, did you know that the neck is a crucial hot spot on your woman’s erotic map of pleasure points? Check out my program on the subject – Her Secret Hot Spots – and I’ll introduce you to the rest of these naughty nooks. Be advised, some of this might literally shock you – and change the way have sex altogether.

Puppy love

Do not be put off if she smothers you with wet kisses. Women tend to express a preference for wet, sloppy, open-mouthed kisses. It is typically the sign of an intensely physical relationship. She has let go of her inhibitions and wants to shift the action to the bedroom.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

SEX TIPS FOR COUPLES
How to talk to a woman to seduce her
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SEX TIPS FOR COUPLES
How to talk to a woman to seduce her
Because you will have to say something to this blessed girl that caught your eye, right? In short, the conversation phases that you should follow and ace are the following.

Before you head right in, I must divert your attention for a second to my friend Brett’s Silent Seduction program. Because not only words help you get the girls. Sometimes what you don’t say weighs just as much!

COMFORT

Comfort aims to put the girl at ease. Remember that women are almost never approached in a direct way, so you have to make sure that she is ready for the “emotional blow” she has just received. Imagine it as a light conversation with friends. So, once you have exchanged your names, start a normal and friendly conversation and get it into your head that: YOU WANT TO GET TO KNOW HER; YOU DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER! If you start with the idea of “I absolutely have to sleep with her,” she will leave because you have basically focused on yourself and not on the girl.

Before seducing a body, you should seduce a brain!

To get to know her, she must talk! Plus, the less you say about yourself, the more you will create mystery that is synonymous with attraction.

How do you proceed then? After opening, try to go immediately to the personal, try to understand what she does, where she lives, her work/education, etc. But please … DO NOT INTERVIEW HER! 90% of the men who try to approach a girl do it by way of an interview by asking a flurry of endless questions.

“What are you doing?”, “Where are you from?”, “Do you like XY?” These are all trivial questions that a woman hears every day. You may be wondering, “If I don’t ask questions, how will I get to know her? “Simple: assumptions.

Try to turn every question that passes through your head into a positive phrase, in this way you’ll be much less predictable and you’ll push it to open up and talk. For example: thinking about the question “Where are you from?” You can replace it with “From your accent, I guess you’re not from here …”

ATTRACTION

Attraction is synonymous with emotion. Be aware that by emotion, I mean positive and negative emotions (negative emotions in seduction are FUNDAMENTAL to balance the positive ones).

So, what gives emotion to a woman?

Small ironic criticisms: The small criticisms are GOLD in seduction. They sub-communicate to the girl that you are not treating her like a goddess descending from the sky, that you are not needy and that you have a sense of irony.

Value : Anecdotes full of descriptions and emotional entrainment, gestures and wisdom (maturity) are elements of strong attraction for a woman.

Kino : Kino is all about physical contact. In a first conversation with a girl you just met, you can raise her level of attraction by gradually progressing from lighter touches to touch a little ‘more pushed up even to get to the kiss. Based on the positive, negative or neutral reaction of the girl to your kino stimuli, you can also understand the direction in which the conversation is going.

RAPPORT

Rapport must be the goal of the conversation. Rapport is that phase of the conversation where you two are naked, and you feel that you can tell her anything. The Rapport is also called deep connection. How do you reach a deep connection with a woman?

You reach the Rapport with a woman by doing what I call scaring the soul. In other words, from the first initial soft conversation, you gradually pass to more and more profound subjects, investigating her identity and entering her sphere of trust.

HOBBIES, PASSIONS, AMBIANCES, CHARACTER, QUALITY, PRAYERS AND DEFECTS are just a few examples of the elements that make up the identity of a person in general and of a specific girl.

Bet on investigating these characters and kaboooom! You will have hit the target; you will have a deep connection between your two souls, and you will have created EMPATHY!

Hot kisses, Viclyon Igwe

SEX POSITIONS

Sex by the signs
Tell me when your partner was born and I will tell you the best way to make things sizzle between the sheets.

Whether you believe in them or not, you can’t deny being intrigued by zodiac signs. Plus, women do listen to the stars so maybe you should take this into consideration as well and not shrug the whole thing off. A study conducted by Susan Blackmore and Marianne Seebold from the University of the West of England, in 2001, confirmed that astrology has a strong influence on women’s lives. It concluded: “Seventy-two per cent do not think astrology is just superstition and almost 90 per cent said they find out the sun signs of people they have relationships with. Seventy-eight per cent had read a book concerning their sun sign in love.”

If you accept that each sign is associated with a certain personality type, then it’s no great stretch to see how this affects things in the bedroom too. So if you are unsure about what floats your partner’s boat, I have collated zodiac sign-specific moves that you can use. If nothing else, this is a great excuse to try something new tonight.

ARIES – Doggy

The Aries woman is strong-headed and enjoys attention. The doggy style offers you a great view of your partner’s derriere and allows you to focus completely on the task at hand, that is pleasing her.

TAURUS – Missionary

Women born under this sign are sensual beings. The tried-and-tested missionary position offers full-body contact and enough opportunity to explore your partner’s body.

GEMINI – Pinball wizard

Experimentation comes naturally to Geminis. So try the pinball wizard pose, where your partner lies on her back and raises her hips against you till her shoulders are carrying most of her weight. You must kneel to enter.

CANCER – Spider

Stable and loyal, the Cancer woman is all about the emotional intimacy. The spider style helps her feel close to you and secure in your arms. Sit facing each other and have your lady wrap her legs around your waist as you slowly thrusts into her.

LEO – Cowgirl

The Leo woman loves to be in control. This style will show your partner that you know she’s the boss. Allow her to get on top of you and enjoy the ride.

VIRGO – Octopus

Virgos are methodical and chase perfection, so a spot of adventure is just what the doctor ordered. Try the Octopus pose, where you sit on the floor with your legs spread apart and bent at the knee. Your partner should straddle you while facing you and place her legs on your shoulders, one by one. This allows for deeper penetration and greater pleasure.

LIBRA – 69

Libras are pragmatic, but enjoy a little drama in the bedroom. Since she is committed to keeping the balance, she like positions where the partner makes an equal effort. So clearly, the 69 is made for you two. And since we’re talking about oral sex, check out my program, Oral Rapture, for more naughty tips and tricks on making oral sex the best it can be.

SCORPIO – Face-off

The Scorpio woman is assertive in the bedroom. Try the face-off position, where you sit on the edge of a chair or bed and your partner sits on your lap, so she can control the angle and intensity of the thrusts for her satisfaction.

SAGITTARIUS – Champagne room

Sagittarians are sexual adventurers who like an element of mystery to the act. Sit on the chair and have your lady sit on your lap with her back to you. This style will help her regulate your thrusts and since you can’t see her, you can only guess at what’s working by the way her body reacts.

CAPRICORN – BDSM

Women born under this sun sign like to take things slow, so they can get comfortable before trying something new. Foreplay is the clincher for your partner. Once she has built a bedrock of trust, however, she will feel free to give up some control with some light bondage.

AQUARIUS – G-whiz

Novelty is a major turn on for Aquarians. This style lets your partner lie down and rest her legs on your shoulders, as you are kneeling. Raising her leg narrows the vagina and helps you target her G spot. It also keeps your face at a distance, which means your partner is left to guess your expressions.

PISCES Frog

The Piscean woman is typically a giver in the bedroom. Lie on your back; have your partner climb on top of you with her legs spread wide apart, just like a frog. In this position, her torso is close to yours and stimulating her clitoris creates friction. This could also lead to a quicker orgasm for your lady.

Hot kisses,