People don't understand the undertone Okpebholo can't threaten a Kwankwaso He can't threaten Atiku He can't dare elrufai But he can trample Obi Obi is fair game He is Igbo Behind the scenes In their closets Many bigots who moonlight as democrats Who occupy high offices in this land Will clap for Okpebholo He has voiced out what they murmur in their bedrooms Onanuga told the Igbo nit to bother about voting in lagos in 2027 He can't tell the same thing to the Hausa He can't dare the Fulani in Lagos Igbo is bushmeat Against them every weakling, every hustler Shows his savagery We had seen Fr Alia threaten Obi A man who has no guts to speak about the killer herdsmen and local militants groups ravaging his state A literal sissy of a Reverend father We have seen him turn a pugnacious area boy against Obi Obi is an easy target because of his ethnic group When an Igbo man is attacked or humiliated like that All Igbo are put in their right place Don't think that the Olodo of Edo called Okpebholo is threatening Obi for personal political advantage He is threatening Obi to please Tinubu. Edo was purchased for him He must show loyalty by delivering the state at all costs And threatening Obi must be the sort of sport Tinubu likes That is why all the garrulous men around him revel in it Tinubu stayed aloof while the Igbo were chased away from polling units in Lagos on March 2023 He thinks highly of McOluomo, Onanuga and recently Very recently he enjoys Reno Omokri who stopped calling him a drug baron to concentrate his lunacy around Obi and the Igbo Tinubu is definitely enjoying the threats being issued to Obi by his unscrupulous agents But he should know that the chickens will come home to roost soon When a president sows division He reaps katakata This country needs a transformative and principled leadership Not a bunch of urban political bandits running around as reformers , stealing votes and looting the country.

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TOUCHING THE LIVES OF ALMAJIRIS AND WOMEN ON THE STREETS OF JALINGO – A DAY OF LOVE AND IMPACT- ROHHI 🇬🇧 🇺🇸 🇧🇷 🇬🇭 🇿🇦 🇺🇬 Yesterday, As the Global Humanitarian Ambassador and Representative of ROHHI, i had the honour of joining the incredible Royal Hearts Humanitarian Foundation (ROHHI) family as we stormed the streets of Jalingo to bring hope, joy, and relief to two often-overlooked groups the Almajiris in motor parks and the women selling vegetables and perishable goods by the roadside. It was a deeply emotional and unforgettable experience. We were able to distribute clothing and financial support to the women, and gave out slippers, little token, and words of encouragement to the Almajiris. The joy, prayers, and smiles we received in return were priceless. That is a true reminder that even the smallest acts of kindness can light up hearts and transform lives. Seeing people smile and bless God because of our little sacrifice brought tears of joy to my eyes. Special thanks to our tireless and devoted Country Project Coordinator (CPC), Barr. Amb. Stella Ahijo Musa, for her exemplary leadership, and to our outstanding ROHHI Nigeria Directors, whose commitment made this outreach a reality. Pastor Ayuba Ardo Tijos, Apostle Caleb Dinki, Amb. Ali Saidu Yola, Amb. Aisha Bello Muhammad, Amb. Rukaiya, Amb. Fati, Amb. Affos Musa Peace, Amb. Tabitha Ishaya, Engr. Tony Matinjah, And my dependable Vice President, Amb. Abdullahi Hassan. It was a joy and privilege working with you all. You are the strength and heart of this vision. We are also sincerely grateful to all our partners and supporters within and outside Nigeria. Your unwavering commitment and generous support continue to help Royal Hearts Humanitarian Foundation Nigeria to set a remarkable example for the world to see. Let us keep raising the banner of love and compassion. Together, we are building a better world one smile at a time. NOTE: Everything you see here was sponsored by: AUTAN ZAKI GLOBAL FOUNDATION (AZAGOF), YAKUBU PANTUVO GIWA FOUNDATION (YPGF), ROHHI Family, and our Partners in Nigeria. #ROHHI #HumanityFirst #AlmajiriSupport #WomenEmpowerment #HopeInAction #JalingoOutreach #VictorAutanZakiSarkinWaka #CompassionInMotion #NigeriaToTheWorld #RoyalHeartsHumanitarianFoundation🇬🇧🇺🇸🇧🇷🇳🇬

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FORMER Governor Samuel Ortom of Benue State, yesterday, explained why he and other members of the G5 Governors’ Forum opposed the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, and its presidential candidate, Atiku Abubakar, in the 2023 elections. But in a push back, the former Vice President, described them as frustrated opportunists, who are searching for relevance. Also, the PDP similarly, accused Ortom of acting out of personal interest rather than genuine concern for fairness and equity in the 2023 elections. This came as a former Presidential aspirant, Mr Dele Momodu formally resigned from the PDP, citing what he described as the hijacking of the party by antidemocratic forces. Ortom, a leading member of the G5 group of PDP governors, said the party’s failure to respect equity, fairness, and justice was the reason they chose to stand against it. Ortom said the G5 had insisted that the presidency should shift to the South after eight years of Northern rule under President Muhammadu Buhari, but the PDP’s decision to field Atiku, also a Northerner, went against that principle. “I acted as I did because we had expected the PDP to uphold equity, fairness, and justice, values I hold dear. “When the majority of PDP members supported a Northern candidate, we deemed it unjust. We’ve always stood for equity, fairness, and justice, and we felt the presidency should alternate between the North and South for eight years each,” he said. As chairman of the PDP’s zoning committee, Ortom noted that although the committee recommended an open contest, he personally pushed for a Southern candidate. As chairman of the PDP’s zoning committee, Ortom noted that although the committee recommended an open contest, he personally pushed for a Southern candidate. On the role of Nyesom Wike, now Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, in the crisis, Ortom revealed, “We fought for Wike to be the PDP’s presidential candidate, but unfortunately, he didn’t secure the nomination. We also believed he should have been the running mate. I was part of the 20-member committee tasked with selecting a running mate, and 16 of us supported Wike. However, the candidate and the party leadership decided otherwise.” Ortom defended supporting opposition candidates in 2023, saying politics was based on interests. “Politics revolves around interests. There’s no permanent enemy or friend in politics. It’s about protecting the interests of your community, your people, and yourself,” he stated. He also addressed criticism that he and Wike tried to “destroy” the PDP by supporting opposition candidates. Ortom compared their strategy to that of other PDP members who backed Peter Obi of the Labour Party or Bola Tinubu of the APC. “Peter Obi wasn’t in the PDP, but we agreed on a strategic partnership to demonstrate our influence. Some of us supported Peter Obi, others supported Tinubu, and we ended up with the current government. If God has given us President Bola Tinubu, why shouldn’t we support him?” Ortom added. Looking to the 2027 elections, Ortom reaffirmed his support for a Southern presidential candidate and stressed the importance of respecting power rotation. “My position is clear. I will support a Southern candidate. I see no reason to support a Northern candidate in 2027. By 2031, if someone from the South expresses interest in the presidency, I will still advocate for it to shift to the North. That’s based on my belief in equity and fairness.” Ortom on criticism over alleged bias in Benue State politics, where he is accused of favouring the Tiv ethnic group, said: “I’ve fought for fairness and have advised other ethnic groups on what they need to do. I agree it’s unfair for one group to dominate the governorship since the creation of Benue State. However, politics also involves the majority. The Tiv people occupy Zones A and B, while the Idoma and Igede are in Zone C. It’s a matter of political dynamics, and I’ve encouraged other groups to organise and assert themselves.” On crisis in the PDP,

‎‎PRESS RELEASE ‎ PEACEFUL PROTEST BY RETIRED POLICE OFFICERS: POLICE SETS RECORDS STRAIGHT, ASSURES OF SECURITY, PRESERVATION OF DIGNITY ‎ ‎The Nigeria Police Force has noted the ongoing conversations surrounding the peaceful protest being organised by some of our retired officers in relation to their pension entitlements. While some of these accounts are grounded in fact and driven by good faith, others have been marred by misinformation, emotional manipulation, and calculated distortions designed to discredit the Government and undermine the present leadership of the Nigeria Police Force. It is disheartening to observe how certain actors have chosen to politicise a sensitive welfare issue, weaponizing the legitimate grievances of our retired colleagues for ulterior motives. Their intent is not reform, but disruption. Their tactics involve twisting facts, inflaming sentiments, and sowing distrust in the public space. These actions do a disservice not only to our noble institution, but to the integrity of public discourse in our country. We however remain focused on the real issue which is the welfare of those who once bore the burden of national security with courage and honour. The agitation for improved police pensions, particularly the call for exit from the Contributory Pension Scheme (CPS), is not a recent development. It has spanned over a decade. Since 2014, successive Inspectors-General of Police have demonstrated empathy, engaged critical stakeholders, and provided institutional support for this cause. Yet, despite these earnest efforts, the desired outcome has remained elusive; not for lack of will, but due to entrenched legal provisions, fiscal limitations, and administrative bottlenecks. The hard truth is that exiting the Police from the CPS lies beyond the remit of any Inspector-General, as the matter is deeply woven into a web of statutory mandates, inter-agency protocols, and policy inertia.‎ ‎Moreover, expert projections indicate that as the scheme matures, its benefits are expected to significantly improve. Officers retiring within the next five years are projected to receive significantly more favourable pension outcomes than those currently exiting the system. In practical terms, this means that the longer one remains in the scheme, the less likely they are to experience the same pension challenges. This evolving reality demands a pragmatic review of our approach. In recognition of these constraints and shifting dynamics, the current Police leadership is pursuing a dual-track strategy of supporting the agitation in principle, while urgently exploring innovative, alternative solutions to address the immediate plight of our retirees. These include utilising internally generated revenues from police services to provide supplementary pension benefits; and mobilising private sector and corporate support for the establishment of targeted pension enhancement initiatives. These interventions are already underway and reflect a broader, more holistic strategy to elevate the welfare of our retired personnel, not merely through policy debates, but through tangible results. The Federal government has been sensitized enough and appropriate responses are being awaited Let it be stated unequivocally that this explanation is not intended to suppress the planned protest. On the contrary, it reflects a leadership that listens, understands, and engages in good faith. The Inspector-General of Police has interacted extensively with many retired officers over the past year, and several groups have since withdrawn their support for the protest, having appreciated the direction of current efforts. However, for those who still choose to proceed, their rights will be protected. The protest is scheduled to take place on Monday, 21st July 2025, primarily within the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) and any other State Command where prior notification has been duly given. Accordingly, the Inspector-General of Police has directed all Commissioners of Police to ensure the peaceful conduct of the protest within their jurisdictions, especially in the FCT and other states where formal notice has been received; provide adequate security coverage to our retired colleagues who have chosen to publicly express their grievances; prevent any hijack of the protest by miscreants, political actors, or non-retired agitators; sensitise officers and men under their command on the constitutional rights to peaceful assembly, and the obligation to show utmost respect to our retired colleagues; while deploying intelligence and operational resources to protect lives, maintain public order, and safeguard institutional integrity. The Inspector-General of Police charges all officers to note that this protest, described as “the mother of all peaceful protests”, must not only be peaceful; it must be exemplary, and as such should stand as a national model for dignified expression of grievance and responsible public order management. We must show, by conduct and command, that the Nigeria Police Force is both professional and humane.‎ He further reiterates that this is more than a directive; it is a call to institutional responsibility, a test of our maturity, our values, and our discipline. Let us rise to this moment with wisdom, restraint, and unwavering respect for those who served before us. Serving officers are however warned not to be misled by those who either are ignorant of the ethics of our profession or are up for manipulations and disruption. ‎ ‎ACP OLUMUYIWA ADEJOBI, mnipr, mipra, fCAI, ‎FORCE PUBLIC RELATIONS OFFICER, ‎FOR: INSPECTOR-GENERAL OF POLICE ‎ ‎ ‎20th July, 2025

Three civil society organisations have condemned the Governor of Edo State, Senator Monday Okpebholo, over a viral video where he threatened Peter Obi, the former presidential candidate of the Labour Party. The groups, ImpactHouse Centre for Development Communication, Accountability Lab Nigeria, and Kimpact Development Initiative (KDI) described the Governor’s remarks as dangerous, undemocratic, and a clear threat to peace and political freedom. Check comment section for more......

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