• Lean how to relate with others
    Learn how to relate with your employer
    Learn to relate with your family
    Learn to how to talk
    It will do you wonders.
    Lean how to relate with others Learn how to relate with your employer Learn to relate with your family Learn to how to talk It will do you wonders.
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  • Good morning God's beloved. Thank God for another day. Today, every arrow against our lives, families, health, marriages, children, health etc is going back to sender by fire. Whatever stopped you the last time from entering into your new level, shall not stop you again. By the blood of Jesus Christ, I put an end to every negative description that has been attached to your family name because of negative conditions. Whatever you have given up on humanly speaking, may God's mercy restore them back to you. Out of your family, there may not have arisen any great person IN CHRIST, but God is raising you to be the first, opening new chapters to the destiny of your family. As from today, the things that you were looking for before shall begin to look for you on their own accord. Welcome to your new week of new good things. The evils in this new week are far from us and our family members in Jesus mighty name. Today shall be your "I RISE TO A NEW HEIGHT SUNDAY".
    Good morning God's beloved. Thank God for another day. Today, every arrow against our lives, families, health, marriages, children, health etc is going back to sender by fire. Whatever stopped you the last time from entering into your new level, shall not stop you again. By the blood of Jesus Christ, I put an end to every negative description that has been attached to your family name because of negative conditions. Whatever you have given up on humanly speaking, may God's mercy restore them back to you. Out of your family, there may not have arisen any great person IN CHRIST, but God is raising you to be the first, opening new chapters to the destiny of your family. As from today, the things that you were looking for before shall begin to look for you on their own accord. Welcome to your new week of new good things. The evils in this new week are far from us and our family members in Jesus mighty name. Today shall be your "I RISE TO A NEW HEIGHT SUNDAY".
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  • Mohbad’s Death Inquest Exposes Nurse And Family’s Roles — Nigerians React | Naija News TV

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    Mohbad’s Death Inquest Exposes Nurse And Family’s Roles — Nigerians React | Naija News TV https://youtu.be/ROFu4g1clxs
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  • Happy Sunday Gada family
    Today is going to be a good day
    Happy Sunday Gada family ♥️ Today is going to be a good day
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    HAPPY SUNDAY MY GADA FAMILY
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  • Noni Madueke
    For a young 23-year-old English footballer to be vilified, bullied, embarrassed, and totally stripped down at a time when you’re meant to be celebrating a transfer worth £55 million. Yes, a young kid with a dream about to secure a £55 million dream move to a club of his desire, leaving a rival at that, to be treated in this manner via a section of the Arsenal fan base is an utter disgrace. Just put yourself in his shoes for one minute, just put yourself in his parents shoes for one minute, and just think of how that feeling must be. I’ll say it again: at a time like this, as a player, as a human, and as a family, you should be celebrating. I just hope the people who are closest to him are around him and supporting him in the way that he needs right now.
    It’s fine for fans to disagree with signings or decisions made at their football club, but the way some fans have publicly voiced their opinions and those who have gone a step further in publicly joining a petition for this player not to be signed by their football club is beyond me. I have never seen anything like this before, and I hope I don’t ever again. Like I said earlier, just imagine this was your best friend, one of your family members, your brother, son… then tell me, how would you feel if they were on the receiving end of this vulgar behaviour ???
    By the way, this isn’t aimed at all Arsenal fans; it’s just a small section who have become very loud, unfortunately.
    I just hope the transfer goes through and Noni Madueke
    rams all of this negativity back down the throats of these impostors.
    Whatever happens from here, good luck, Noni.

    #AFC
    ~ @rioferdy5
    Noni Madueke For a young 23-year-old English footballer to be vilified, bullied, embarrassed, and totally stripped down at a time when you’re meant to be celebrating a transfer worth £55 million. Yes, a young kid with a dream about to secure a £55 million dream move to a club of his desire, leaving a rival at that, to be treated in this manner via a section of the Arsenal fan base is an utter disgrace. Just put yourself in his shoes for one minute, just put yourself in his parents shoes for one minute, and just think of how that feeling must be. I’ll say it again: at a time like this, as a player, as a human, and as a family, you should be celebrating. I just hope the people who are closest to him are around him and supporting him in the way that he needs right now. It’s fine for fans to disagree with signings or decisions made at their football club, but the way some fans have publicly voiced their opinions and those who have gone a step further in publicly joining a petition for this player not to be signed by their football club is beyond me. I have never seen anything like this before, and I hope I don’t ever again. Like I said earlier, just imagine this was your best friend, one of your family members, your brother, son… then tell me, how would you feel if they were on the receiving end of this vulgar behaviour ??? By the way, this isn’t aimed at all Arsenal fans; it’s just a small section who have become very loud, unfortunately. I just hope the transfer goes through and Noni Madueke rams all of this negativity back down the throats of these impostors. Whatever happens from here, good luck, Noni. #AFC ~ @rioferdy5
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  • I'm STILL healing. Healing from it all. Not only toxic relationships or heartbreaks. I am healing from the mistakes I made in the past. From.. family issues, friendship issues, from failing myself, from disappointments, and from expectations I couldn't reach because I was too focused on the wrong things. Also healing from times l've been betrayed by the people I THOUGHT I could count on & TRUST! My soul is still learning to clap for the pieces of myself that nobody wants to clap for. I am still in the process of figuring things out on my OWN. I am STILL healing silently. I'm more focused than ever & ready to become the BEST version of myself!!
    I'm STILL healing. Healing from it all. Not only toxic relationships or heartbreaks. I am healing from the mistakes I made in the past. From.. family issues, friendship issues, from failing myself, from disappointments, and from expectations I couldn't reach because I was too focused on the wrong things. Also healing from times l've been betrayed by the people I THOUGHT I could count on & TRUST! My soul is still learning to clap for the pieces of myself that nobody wants to clap for. I am still in the process of figuring things out on my OWN. I am STILL healing silently. I'm more focused than ever & ready to become the BEST version of myself!!
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  • The Silent Cry: The Real Dangers of Abortion

    Intro: A True-Like Story That Happens Every Day

    Ama was only 19, in her second year at the university. Bright. Ambitious. Full of dreams.
    But life doesn’t always go as planned.

    She found out she was pregnant. The father? A guy who had already moved on. Family? She feared the shame. Friends? Most encouraged her to "just take it out and move on."

    So one quiet afternoon, Ama walked into a backstreet clinic—no signboard, no license, just a promise of quick results. She came out with a heavy heart, bleeding… not just physically but emotionally and spiritually.

    Days later, Ama collapsed in her hostel. The infection had spread. Her womb was damaged. Her dreams of ever carrying a child again? Gone.

    This is not just Ama’s story. It is the story of thousands of young women across Ghana and Africa. Some survive. Some don’t. Most carry the scars forever.

    What Is Abortion?

    Abortion is the deliberate termination of a pregnancy before the baby can survive outside the womb.
    While some abortions are carried out under strict medical guidance due to life-threatening complications, unsafe abortions—especially those done secretly, by untrained persons, or in unsanitary places—pose deadly risks.

    Dangers of Abortion (Especially Unsafe or Repeated)

    1. Physical Health Risks

    Severe bleeding (hemorrhage): Can lead to death if untreated.

    Infections: Unsanitary tools or poor hygiene can introduce bacteria that damage reproductive organs or cause sepsis (blood poisoning).

    Womb perforation: Instruments can tear the uterus, leading to long-term complications or emergency surgery.

    Infertility: Damage to the womb or fallopian tubes can result in permanent infertility.

    Organ damage: Unsafe procedures can harm nearby organs like the bladder or intestines.

    2. Mental and Emotional Trauma

    Depression, guilt, and regret are common.

    Post-Abortion Syndrome: A condition similar to PTSD, marked by anxiety, nightmares, emotional numbness, and self-blame.

    3. Social and Spiritual Consequences

    Emotional distance from partners or family.

    Isolation due to fear or stigma.

    Spiritual guilt or disconnection for those with strong religious values.

    Common Myths That Push Women Toward Abortion

    “It’s just a small problem, take it out.”
    → No. Pregnancy involves two lives: the mother and the child.

    “Abortion is safer than giving birth.”
    → Only when done legally and under medical care. Unsafe abortions kill more women than childbirth in many places.

    “You can’t get pregnant again after just one abortion.”
    → Many women have faced infertility after a single poorly done abortion.

    What Should You Do Instead?

    Talk to a health professional: Seek counseling and support services.

    Look into adoption: Many families are looking to adopt children.

    Educate yourself: Know your body, understand protection, and make informed decisions.

    Join support groups: You're not alone. There are safe spaces to help you make the best decision.

    The Way Forward for Ghana and Africa

    We need more education—not judgment.
    We need safe spaces, not silence.
    We need men to take responsibility, not escape it.
    We need communities to empower, not shame.
    Let’s protect our women, our daughters, and our sisters from the trap of unsafe abortions.
    🩸The Silent Cry: The Real Dangers of Abortion Intro: A True-Like Story That Happens Every Day Ama was only 19, in her second year at the university. Bright. Ambitious. Full of dreams. But life doesn’t always go as planned. She found out she was pregnant. The father? A guy who had already moved on. Family? She feared the shame. Friends? Most encouraged her to "just take it out and move on." So one quiet afternoon, Ama walked into a backstreet clinic—no signboard, no license, just a promise of quick results. She came out with a heavy heart, bleeding… not just physically but emotionally and spiritually. Days later, Ama collapsed in her hostel. The infection had spread. Her womb was damaged. Her dreams of ever carrying a child again? Gone. This is not just Ama’s story. It is the story of thousands of young women across Ghana and Africa. Some survive. Some don’t. Most carry the scars forever. 🔴 What Is Abortion? Abortion is the deliberate termination of a pregnancy before the baby can survive outside the womb. While some abortions are carried out under strict medical guidance due to life-threatening complications, unsafe abortions—especially those done secretly, by untrained persons, or in unsanitary places—pose deadly risks. ⚠️ Dangers of Abortion (Especially Unsafe or Repeated) 1. Physical Health Risks Severe bleeding (hemorrhage): Can lead to death if untreated. Infections: Unsanitary tools or poor hygiene can introduce bacteria that damage reproductive organs or cause sepsis (blood poisoning). Womb perforation: Instruments can tear the uterus, leading to long-term complications or emergency surgery. Infertility: Damage to the womb or fallopian tubes can result in permanent infertility. Organ damage: Unsafe procedures can harm nearby organs like the bladder or intestines. 2. Mental and Emotional Trauma Depression, guilt, and regret are common. Post-Abortion Syndrome: A condition similar to PTSD, marked by anxiety, nightmares, emotional numbness, and self-blame. 3. Social and Spiritual Consequences Emotional distance from partners or family. Isolation due to fear or stigma. Spiritual guilt or disconnection for those with strong religious values. 💔 Common Myths That Push Women Toward Abortion “It’s just a small problem, take it out.” → No. Pregnancy involves two lives: the mother and the child. “Abortion is safer than giving birth.” → Only when done legally and under medical care. Unsafe abortions kill more women than childbirth in many places. “You can’t get pregnant again after just one abortion.” → Many women have faced infertility after a single poorly done abortion. 💡 What Should You Do Instead? Talk to a health professional: Seek counseling and support services. Look into adoption: Many families are looking to adopt children. Educate yourself: Know your body, understand protection, and make informed decisions. Join support groups: You're not alone. There are safe spaces to help you make the best decision. ❤️ The Way Forward for Ghana and Africa We need more education—not judgment. We need safe spaces, not silence. We need men to take responsibility, not escape it. We need communities to empower, not shame. Let’s protect our women, our daughters, and our sisters from the trap of unsafe abortions.
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  • *WEDNESDAY MOTIVATION!*
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    *Get Out of THE COMFORT ZONE*

    There is story I heard that inspired me:
    Two guys were walking home from work then one fell in a deep pit. The other one tried to pull out his friend and failed. Then he said LET ME QUICKLY GO AND GET A ROPE TO PULL YOU OUT. He went, and when he came back, he found his friend akamira panze achidongorera mugomba muya. Then he asked kuti wabuda sei? He said "MAWIRA NYOKA WENA!

    *Lesson*
    *Sometimes we do not show our potential due to comfort zone, when we are put in harsh and limiting conditions we will do great and mighty works,so stop being lazy about your life my sister and brother do wat is impossible to be possible...ndikuhwe uchiti haugoni kubuda musituation yauri...🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾*

    *You can come out of any situation, have the desire to be successful*. Tarisa chiri kukumhanyisa. *Don’t befriend what is chasing you*. Kusvika pakusavhunduka nhamo, pakufanana nesituation yako. Kuita mutwin wePoverty

    _Kune maTriplets aSatani atiri kurwa nayo HUROMBO, HUROVHA, HUROMBE….zvinofambirana…ukapusa unomabereka. Kunzwira tsitsi nhamo._

    *Try to force yourself out of your comfort zone because being shy will not get you anywhere.Panobudika mwanasikana zvimwe makazorora chete. Come out of the comfort zone.*

    Unonyara kutengesa apo hauna kana cent nekuti ukuzviti une Degree…. Degree kana Diploma kana 10 points haizi mari…Get out of the Comfort Zone. Enda unohodha bhero upinde muchiround. Pinda muchiround usaComfotwer nebeuaty nemahips, hatidye mahips nemaonini, usanyare vanhu heee Get out of that Comfort ZOne

    _Kune vanhu vari comfortable nezvinhu zvisiri comfortable, kujairira zvinhu zvisingajairike. Kujairira kusiirwa weave, kujairira kuendeswa out, kujairira kurara pamubhedha wakabhovhoka, kujairira kurarwa. Don’t feel comfortable in an uncomfortable environment._

    Hanzi hee isu tatojaira isu, haaa muchirikurwadziwa isu tatojaira kurara pasi aaaah imi musajairire nhamo. Inzwa shungu kuti one day I want to change this situation

    _Vamwe makazorora nekuti mukuchengetwa nevabereki, vamwe takazorora nekuti tikutemba sisi varikuUK, vamwe mazorora nekuti mukutemba kabasa kauri kutambira ka150USD. If you divide it by 30 days ndopaunoona kuti pazuva ukushandira $5._

    Mira muwire nyoka unobuda chete because its either dying or coming out of the pit. *Sometimes you need to be FIRED in order to be FIRED UP.* Panobudika chete

    _Varume vane maperembudzi in Kings vakaona kuti tikagara pano tinofa, tikapinda muguta tinofa, tikaenda kuvavengi tinofa. Kusiri kufa ndekupi. Its Better tife tichienda kune chikafu._

    *Comfort Zone has killed many dreams, has killed a lot of potential and visions.* Comfort Zone yekuti uriEmployee muGovernment toshanda nguva yatinoda, Comfort Zone yekuti tinogara imba yaSisi or yeCompany. Comfort zone yekuti haubhadhare rent, Comfort Zone yekupihwa mari nevanhu aaah *Refuse to be comforted nemachunks…remember machunks is not Meat. I need real meat.*

    Taramba kaupenyu kekuti haa zvirinani pane kushaya aaah we need the Best of Life…Usagare pana zvirinani enda pana zvakanaka

    _Comfort Zone yekuti ndichiri mwana, ndine spare bedroom yangu, ndiri last born, ndiri musikana saka handina pressure, comfort zone yekuti ndine Degree, ndine Masters. Ko chako chii chaunacho cheupenyu._

    My sister regai muwire nyoka, I don’t know what type of snake that will fall in your comfort zone PIT, ndopaunoona kuti MaChunks haizi nyama, Zai harizi Chicken. Get out of the Comfort Zone before the Zone become uncomfortable.

    *Some of you mukuda motivation but mira muwire nyoka indeed motivation will find you* Panobudika apa.

    *The comfort zone is nothing else but a graveyard for your dreams & ideas* Comfort is your biggest trap and coming out of comfort zone your biggest challenge

    *Panobudika pauri, chandakadzidza kuti ukagarira tsono unosimuka chete.*
    Haaaa nhasi regai ndigumire pano.

    Blessed morning family,have a great day!🙏🏽

    _With Love_
    *💫WEDNESDAY MOTIVATION!* https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U *Get Out of THE COMFORT ZONE* There is story I heard that inspired me: Two guys were walking home from work then one fell in a deep pit. The other one tried to pull out his friend and failed. Then he said LET ME QUICKLY GO AND GET A ROPE TO PULL YOU OUT. He went, and when he came back, he found his friend akamira panze achidongorera mugomba muya. Then he asked kuti wabuda sei? He said "MAWIRA NYOKA WENA! *Lesson* 🔥 *Sometimes we do not show our potential 😂due to comfort zone, when we are put in harsh and limiting conditions we will do great and mighty works,😂😂😂so stop being lazy about your life my sister and brother do wat is impossible to be possible...ndikuhwe uchiti haugoni kubuda musituation yauri...🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾* 🔥 *You can come out of any situation, have the desire to be successful*. Tarisa chiri kukumhanyisa. *Don’t befriend what is chasing you*. Kusvika pakusavhunduka nhamo, pakufanana nesituation yako. Kuita mutwin wePoverty 🔥 _Kune maTriplets aSatani atiri kurwa nayo HUROMBO, HUROVHA, HUROMBE….zvinofambirana…ukapusa unomabereka. Kunzwira tsitsi nhamo._ 🔥 *Try to force yourself out of your comfort zone because being shy will not get you anywhere.Panobudika mwanasikana zvimwe makazorora chete. Come out of the comfort zone.* 🔥 Unonyara kutengesa apo hauna kana cent nekuti ukuzviti une Degree…. Degree kana Diploma kana 10 points haizi mari…Get out of the Comfort Zone. Enda unohodha bhero upinde muchiround. Pinda muchiround usaComfotwer nebeuaty nemahips, hatidye mahips nemaonini, usanyare vanhu heee Get out of that Comfort ZOne 🔥 _Kune vanhu vari comfortable nezvinhu zvisiri comfortable, kujairira zvinhu zvisingajairike. Kujairira kusiirwa weave, kujairira kuendeswa out, kujairira kurara pamubhedha wakabhovhoka, kujairira kurarwa. Don’t feel comfortable in an uncomfortable environment._ 🔥 Hanzi hee isu tatojaira isu, haaa muchirikurwadziwa isu tatojaira kurara pasi aaaah imi musajairire nhamo. Inzwa shungu kuti one day I want to change this situation 🔥 _Vamwe makazorora nekuti mukuchengetwa nevabereki, vamwe takazorora nekuti tikutemba sisi varikuUK, vamwe mazorora nekuti mukutemba kabasa kauri kutambira ka150USD. If you divide it by 30 days ndopaunoona kuti pazuva ukushandira $5._ 🔥 Mira muwire nyoka unobuda chete because its either dying or coming out of the pit. *Sometimes you need to be FIRED in order to be FIRED UP.* Panobudika chete 🔥 _Varume vane maperembudzi in Kings vakaona kuti tikagara pano tinofa, tikapinda muguta tinofa, tikaenda kuvavengi tinofa. Kusiri kufa ndekupi. Its Better tife tichienda kune chikafu._ 🔥 *Comfort Zone has killed many dreams, has killed a lot of potential and visions.* Comfort Zone yekuti uriEmployee muGovernment toshanda nguva yatinoda, Comfort Zone yekuti tinogara imba yaSisi or yeCompany. Comfort zone yekuti haubhadhare rent, Comfort Zone yekupihwa mari nevanhu aaah *Refuse to be comforted nemachunks…remember machunks is not Meat. I need real meat.* 🔥 Taramba kaupenyu kekuti haa zvirinani pane kushaya aaah we need the Best of Life…Usagare pana zvirinani enda pana zvakanaka 🔥 _Comfort Zone yekuti ndichiri mwana, ndine spare bedroom yangu, ndiri last born, ndiri musikana saka handina pressure, comfort zone yekuti ndine Degree, ndine Masters. Ko chako chii chaunacho cheupenyu._ 🔥 My sister regai muwire nyoka, I don’t know what type of snake that will fall in your comfort zone PIT, ndopaunoona kuti MaChunks haizi nyama, Zai harizi Chicken. Get out of the Comfort Zone before the Zone become uncomfortable. 🔥 *Some of you mukuda motivation but mira muwire nyoka indeed motivation will find you* Panobudika apa. 🔥 *The comfort zone is nothing else but a graveyard for your dreams & ideas* Comfort is your biggest trap and coming out of comfort zone your biggest challenge 🔥 *Panobudika pauri, chandakadzidza kuti ukagarira tsono unosimuka chete.* Haaaa nhasi regai ndigumire pano. Blessed morning family,have a great day!🙏🏽 _With Love_❤️
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  • What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you.

    This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married.
    If you are open-minded, you can still read.
    Nobody knows it all.

    1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance.
    NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals.
    It will save you a lot.
    There are some things the rich won’t tell you.
    With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package.
    A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k.

    2. Have a family doctor very very important.
    See, no church will tell you this.
    Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency.
    Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids.

    3. Also, have a family lawyer.
    Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit.
    But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly.

    4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff.
    Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam.
    My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi.
    Get help if you can.

    5. Buy things in bulk.
    The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk.
    You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk.
    That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals.
    There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group.

    6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes.
    As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September.
    I don’t have to worry about it again.
    It helps me plan myself.
    Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side.

    7. Strive to have passive income.
    Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day.
    No matter what try and get something like that.
    It will save you from a lot of stress.

    8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend.
    This one is very, very important.
    Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools.
    You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age.

    9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings.
    You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are.
    Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward.
    Allow the kids air their opinions.

    Ask the kids:
    Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like?

    Same thing with your wife.
    Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family.
    This helps in uniting the family.

    Every month is fine or even every 6 months.
    Just make it a habit and a culture.
    It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too.

    Everyone’s opinion in the family matters.
    And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family.

    This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time.
    I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress.
    You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.
    What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you. This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married. If you are open-minded, you can still read. Nobody knows it all. 1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance. NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals. It will save you a lot. There are some things the rich won’t tell you. With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package. A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k. 2. Have a family doctor very very important. See, no church will tell you this. Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency. Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids. 3. Also, have a family lawyer. Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit. But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly. 4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff. Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam. My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi. Get help if you can. 5. Buy things in bulk. The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk. You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk. That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals. There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group. 6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes. As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September. I don’t have to worry about it again. It helps me plan myself. Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side. 7. Strive to have passive income. Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day. No matter what try and get something like that. It will save you from a lot of stress. 8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend. This one is very, very important. Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools. You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age. 9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings. You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are. Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward. Allow the kids air their opinions. Ask the kids: 🔹Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like? Same thing with your wife. Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family. This helps in uniting the family. Every month is fine or even every 6 months. Just make it a habit and a culture. It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too. Everyone’s opinion in the family matters. And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family. This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time. I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress. You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.
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  • From Northern Monopoly to Yoruba Rotation?

    A Deep Look at Buhari vs Tinubu Appointments and the Tribal Virus Slowing Nigeria

    They say the more things change, the more they stay the same — but in Nigeria, it seems things just change tribally, not nationally.

    Let’s start with the facts.

    During President Buhari’s administration, key federal positions were overwhelmingly filled by individuals from the North. Not just the heads of agencies, but even their deputies. From EFCC to DSS, NNPC, NDLEA, NPA, NSCDC, NIS, FRSC, NPS, and nearly every other major institution — it was North on North. In fact, over 80% of these agencies had both leaders from the same region. It wasn’t governance; it was regional occupation.

    Now enter President Tinubu. A new era, a new hope. But did we really leave tribal politics behind?

    On the surface, Tinubu’s appointments show more balance. Agencies now have North–South or South–North combinations. There’s a visible attempt to mix things regionally. At least, on paper, it looks like a step in the right direction.

    But here’s where it gets messy — almost all the Southern appointments under Tinubu are Yoruba. His tribe. From AMCON to the Army, Navy, DIA, DSS, and more, it’s still ethnic stacking, just done differently. We’ve moved from Northern monopoly under Buhari to Yoruba favoritism under Tinubu. Same wine, different tribal bottle.

    WHY TRIBAL APPOINTMENTS ARE DESTROYING NIGERIA

    1. They kill meritocracy — people are chosen based on tribe, not ability. That’s why institutions rot.

    2. They destroy national unity — no one wants to believe in “one Nigeria” when only one group dominates.

    3. They fuel ethnic tension and resentment — every tribe begins to see others as threats instead of partners.

    4. They block true federal character — when only Hausa, Fulani, or Yoruba dominate, where are the Igbos? The Ijaws? The Ibibios? The Tivs? The Nupes?

    5. They breed mediocrity at the top — because positions are shared like family inheritance, not national responsibility.

    TINUBU VS BUHARI: WHO’S MORE TRIBAL?

    Let’s be honest.

    Buhari didn’t even pretend to balance. The North had it all. The South was an afterthought.

    Tinubu is trying to mix things — but only if you're Yoruba. The Igbo man is still watching from the sidelines. South–South is barely noticed.

    So the Obidients who cry “tribalism!” under Tinubu aren’t entirely wrong — but many of them were silent under Buhari.
    And the Buhari loyalists who scream “Tinubu is fair” are conveniently forgetting how they defended Northern domination for 8 years.

    Hypocrisy is the only thing everyone seems to share equally in this country.

    IF NIGERIA MUST MOVE FORWARD...

    We must kill tribalism in appointments. The presidency is not a tribal office. National agencies are not clan estates. Until we put merit and fairness above tribe, Nigeria will continue to crawl while other nations run.

    Let appointments reflect federal character, not ethnic calculation. Let every Nigerian child — North, South, East or West — believe they can rise to the top without a tribal godfather.

    Who did worse — Buhari or Tinubu?
    Is Tinubu’s balance real, or is it Yoruba rebranding of old tribal games?
    Can Nigeria ever break free from ethnic politics?

    Drop your thoughts. Argue with sense. But speak your truth.


    #WalaataPapers #NigeriaFirst #TribalismKills #TinubuVsBuhari #Obidients #Jagaban #ArewaPolitics #NaijaMustChange
    🔥 From Northern Monopoly to Yoruba Rotation? A Deep Look at Buhari vs Tinubu Appointments and the Tribal Virus Slowing Nigeria They say the more things change, the more they stay the same — but in Nigeria, it seems things just change tribally, not nationally. Let’s start with the facts. During President Buhari’s administration, key federal positions were overwhelmingly filled by individuals from the North. Not just the heads of agencies, but even their deputies. From EFCC to DSS, NNPC, NDLEA, NPA, NSCDC, NIS, FRSC, NPS, and nearly every other major institution — it was North on North. In fact, over 80% of these agencies had both leaders from the same region. It wasn’t governance; it was regional occupation. Now enter President Tinubu. A new era, a new hope. But did we really leave tribal politics behind? On the surface, Tinubu’s appointments show more balance. Agencies now have North–South or South–North combinations. There’s a visible attempt to mix things regionally. At least, on paper, it looks like a step in the right direction. But here’s where it gets messy — almost all the Southern appointments under Tinubu are Yoruba. His tribe. From AMCON to the Army, Navy, DIA, DSS, and more, it’s still ethnic stacking, just done differently. We’ve moved from Northern monopoly under Buhari to Yoruba favoritism under Tinubu. Same wine, different tribal bottle. ❗WHY TRIBAL APPOINTMENTS ARE DESTROYING NIGERIA 1. They kill meritocracy — people are chosen based on tribe, not ability. That’s why institutions rot. 2. They destroy national unity — no one wants to believe in “one Nigeria” when only one group dominates. 3. They fuel ethnic tension and resentment — every tribe begins to see others as threats instead of partners. 4. They block true federal character — when only Hausa, Fulani, or Yoruba dominate, where are the Igbos? The Ijaws? The Ibibios? The Tivs? The Nupes? 5. They breed mediocrity at the top — because positions are shared like family inheritance, not national responsibility. 💥 TINUBU VS BUHARI: WHO’S MORE TRIBAL? Let’s be honest. Buhari didn’t even pretend to balance. The North had it all. The South was an afterthought. Tinubu is trying to mix things — but only if you're Yoruba. The Igbo man is still watching from the sidelines. South–South is barely noticed. So the Obidients who cry “tribalism!” under Tinubu aren’t entirely wrong — but many of them were silent under Buhari. And the Buhari loyalists who scream “Tinubu is fair” are conveniently forgetting how they defended Northern domination for 8 years. Hypocrisy is the only thing everyone seems to share equally in this country. 🤯 IF NIGERIA MUST MOVE FORWARD... We must kill tribalism in appointments. The presidency is not a tribal office. National agencies are not clan estates. Until we put merit and fairness above tribe, Nigeria will continue to crawl while other nations run. Let appointments reflect federal character, not ethnic calculation. Let every Nigerian child — North, South, East or West — believe they can rise to the top without a tribal godfather. Who did worse — Buhari or Tinubu? Is Tinubu’s balance real, or is it Yoruba rebranding of old tribal games? Can Nigeria ever break free from ethnic politics? Drop your thoughts. Argue with sense. But speak your truth. 👇👇👇 #WalaataPapers #NigeriaFirst #TribalismKills #TinubuVsBuhari #Obidients #Jagaban #ArewaPolitics #NaijaMustChange
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