If You Make It Too Comfortable for Her to Love You—You’ll Never Know If She Does. Because comfort hides character. And ease erases effort. Let’s stop acting naive. She didn’t love you. She loved how easy it was to be with you. You brought the car. You picked the bills. You paid the rent. You moved her into the good life. And now you’re surprised she vanished when things got hard? She didn’t change. You just never made her prove anything to begin with. Because if you make it too comfortable for her to love you, you’ll never know if she actually does. 1. You Should Have Hidden Your Hand—Not Played It All at Once You showed her your wallet before you saw her heart. You revealed your status before you saw her substance. You led with lifestyle, not leadership. You were busy trying to win her… while she was watching if someone better was coming. You didn’t date her. You sponsored her. And when the lifestyle paused, so did the affection. 2. Every Woman Is Sweet in Soft Life—Wait Until the Pressure Hits She cooked. She cleaned. She moaned like a lovebird. But that was before rent was due, and your business dipped. Now she sighs every time you talk. Now “you’ve changed.” Now she “needs space.” She didn’t lose feelings. She lost benefits. She was never tested, never strained, never asked to choose you without comfort. So when real life entered—she exited. 3. If You Want Loyalty, Create Conditions That Reveal It Say no. Delay gratification. Hold back your resources. Slow down the rewards. Let her meet the man—not the gifts. Let her see the work—not just the wins. If she only claps when you’re balling, she’s not your wife. She’s your fan. And fans don’t stay when the performance ends. 4. You’re Playing by the Heart—She’s Learning from the Pros You’re out here thinking, “If I love her enough, she’ll stay.” But she’s studying the algorithm. Learning from TikTok therapists, divorced aunties, and girls who say: “Never settle.” “If he slips—dip.” “Upgrade, don’t wait.” You’re loving from the chest. She’s planning with her checklist. You’re thinking about forever. She’s thinking about her next option. You’re loyal. She’s strategic. And if you pause, she’ll replace you—before you even finish explaining yourself. 5. The Substitute Strategy Works Because Every New Man Overperforms She knows: Every new man starts with his best self. New man = new effort = new benefits. So why should she struggle with a man in “grind mode” when a fresh suitor is flying her out by Thursday? Why endure… when substitution brings faster results? She’s not in it for the process. She’s in it for the payoff. 6. Her Circle Is the Whispering Wind Behind the Exit You think she’s just “overthinking.” No, she’s being influenced. By friends who already left. By single mothers who want her free. By social media stars who preach quitting over building. “Girl, you too fine to be suffering.” “He’s not your only option.” “You deserve soft life.” Now your hard-working hands look like punishment. Your discipline looks like control. Your vision feels like a burden. She’s no longer yours— she’s theirs. 7. Her Loyalty Is Built on Lifestyle, Not Love You gave her the best. Now she can’t even manage the average. You brought her up from struggle— Now she calls that struggle “toxic.” You turned her life around— Now she sees you as the bare minimum. She never wanted to grow with you. She just wanted to benefit from your elevation. And once the stream dries up, so does the “I love you.” 8. She Doesn’t Want the Builder—She Wants the Finished Product She’s not waiting for the house to be complete. She wants the mansion, furnished, scented, and photo-ready. If your money isn’t loud, if your life isn’t soft, if your timing isn’t perfect— She’s gone. And when you finally make it, she’ll return as a “changed woman.” But brother, don’t fall for the remix of what already failed the first audition. Final Truth: You Thought You Were Her Blessing—She Saw You as a Bridge You gave her ease. She gave you attitude. You gave her stability. She gave you silence. Because you made it too easy. Too sweet. Too convenient. And in a world where options are endless, easy love is easily replaced. Final Word to Men: Discipline yourself. Slow down your yes. Don’t offer the palace before you test the peasant. Make her show up when the lights are off. Make her prove herself when there’s nothing to post. Make her stay when the world says she should leave. Because if she can’t endure pressure, she doesn’t deserve the palace. And if she’s only sweet when it’s easy, she’s a luxury guest—not a life partner. Let the comments fly. We’ve all got a story. #Masculinity #TestHerFirst #SacrificeVsSubstitute #ModernWomen #BuildSmart

Cubana Chefpriest has sent a warning to his arch-enemy that he was also in the music business. He used Davido's name and video to brag of what he was capable of. Fans tagged the person he was referring to. Video and details in comments.

Niger downgrades French as it distances from its colonial past with a new official language https://africa.businessinsider.com/local/lifestyle/niger-downgrades-french-as-it-distances-from-its-colonial-past-with-a-new-official/xl6ldbr

In Network Business, You Join Small Yet Win BIG. Network Business isn’t about how early or late you join, it’s about how well you build. Some people join early and never take action, while others come in later and soar to success. Your growth depends on your MINDSET, CONSISTENCY AND the EFFORT you put into building your network. The beauty of Network Business is that anyone can WIN regardless of when they start. With the right strategy, leadership, and determination, you can rise to the top. It’s about COMMITMENT So, whether you’re just getting started or have been watching from the sidelines, now is always the right time to take ACTION and build something great.

‘Eniola Badmus, you came on my page to type ‘Ope where is your front hair?’ with a laughing emoji. Eniola, what is funny? You that was an image of ridicule had the guts to bodyshame me because of my hair loss, You are an an!mal. You think you are beautiful because God Has given you small money to do sùrgẹ̀r̃y? You just revealed who you are and I pity those that call you their friend. Anyway, you have never experienced true love. Eniola, Apart from being an animal, you are a zomb!e, a walking de@d. You shall reap everything you sow. I have no business with you and I don’t even know you exist yet you came on my page to møçk me’ -Actress Opeyemi Aiyeola

Dear Employers, Just before the close of business. These are what employees really need: ❣️Great Leadership ❣️Empowerment ❣️Flexibility ❣️Work Life Balance ❣️Growth Mindset ❣️Recognition ❣️Paid Fairly Apply this principles and build a formidable team for your brand. I hope this was helpful?

Davido was asked about his private life and relationships and he said, paraphrase" I have 5 children from four different women and it's a wahala, plenty women means plenty wahala, I'm done with Women, I'm not sleeping around anymore ". Since Davido got married to CHIOMA, he has not been in the news for any cheating on her. In the interview he also reveals that CHIOMA has a special grace, anytime he did her wrong, his business would not go well. Davido and CHIOMA dated for 11 years before he married her last year.

*CALM DOWN* Do you remember Oreofeoluwa Lawal? The four year old boy that trended in 2020 for telling his mum to be “calming down”. He became instant internet sensation, met the Governor of Lagos state, and was given a role to play in a movie. Like many people, we were all carried away with the dramatic expression of *“Mummy Calm down”* and we totally lost the message. “Be calming down” that came from that boy to the mother was a prophetic counsel and instruction. He was simply telling the mother 'relax and take it easy' , though in a dramatic way. Three years down the line, we heard that the mother committed suicide. The message of Oreofeoluwa was not properly interpreted by the mother and the rest of us. She had struggles, pressures, and situations that she could not share with the public, but the Angel of the boy discerned it and said to her three years before she committed suicide, ‘calm down.’ *Calm down* is the message for everyone today. It means cool down, relax, take it easy, don’t panic, do not be anxious, and do not fret. Don’t lose your inner peace. “Calmness is a state of mind and heart where you are at complete peace and free from agitation and are not bound by any strong emotion.” I'm learning how to BE CALM, COOL AND COLLECTED. *Always calm your mind. When you do, you see life more clearly.* After you have done your best, calm down. Never allow worry and aggression to take toll on you. Learn not to take yourself too seriously. Learn to dislodge that anxiety and worry that is building a castle within your mind. Learn not to be intimidated by people’s actions and opinions. You have just experienced business failure; calm down. Someone you love died; calm down. You couldn’t meet the target, having done all within your capacity; calm down. You have the wound of betrayal; calm down. Your economic power has been decimated; calm down. You are wrongly accused; calm down. You are confused, feel drained, and have gotten to the end of yourself; calm down. There are times we just have to stop, sit still, and listen. *You must learn to put things behind you and calm down* “The mind is like water. When it’s turbulent, it’s difficult to see. When it’s calm, everything becomes clear.” King David undestood this when he wrote, “He maketh me to lie down in green pastures; he leadeth me beside the still waters”. Do not let circumstances around you, especially the behavior of others, to take away your inner peace. *Today, Be Calm, Be cool and Collected,* *your tomorrow shall be alright.”* Remember, God does not lead in turbulent waters, He leads you in still waters. *I am calming down……. What about you?* *Happy New Day to you all*

Seriake Dickson Said: Benue, Plateau Killing Evidence Of State Failure. Seriake Dickson, senator representing Bayelsa west, says the recent attacks in Benue and Plateau states are clear signs of state failure. In a Facebook post on Tuesday, Dickson condemned the killings and described the incidents as “dastardly and callous massacres”. “I have spoken with my brother and friend, the Governor of Benue State, H.E. Fr. Hyacinth Alia, as well as officials of the Plateau State Government, to offer my condolences on behalf of my family and the good people of my Senatorial District, and on behalf of all Nigerians of goodwill, over the dastardly and callous massacres that occurred recently in communities in those two states,” he wrote. The former governor of Bayelsa said states like Benue, Plateau, Zamfara, and southern Kaduna have been repeatedly subjected to “criminality, lawlessness, and brutality in a genocidal magnitude”. “Not only are armed gunmen terrorising and ransacking hapless communities, and committing mass murders in these states, but the level of banditry, kidnapping, and killing has affected many other states as well, almost to the point of eclipsing the Boko Haram insurgency that bedevilled the northeastern part of our country years ago,” he said. Dickson called for urgent intervention from the federal government, saying the security situation has reached a level that requires an honest national conversation. “At this point, the leadership of this country and the topmost hierarchy of the security architecture need to really sit down and have a frank and honest conversation about what to do, and do it fast,” he stated. He identified several root causes of the crisis, including farmer-herder clashes, the activities of illegal miners, displacement of indigenous populations, climate-related issues, and general criminality. “While there are elements of banditry and sheer criminality that have nothing to do with competition for resources, there is also a well-known angle that has to do with perennial clashes between herdsmen and farmers in communities across the country,” he said. He urged the federal government to implement mandatory ranching and prohibit open grazing nationwide. “This was why, at the floor while contributing to a motion on this, I urged the Senate to resolve to implementing mandatory ranching, support and orientation even for the herdsmen, followed by the prohibition of open grazing nationwide,” he added. Dickson said the newly established ministry of livestock, along with other relevant agencies, must develop a funding and support framework for livestock and agribusinesses. He also called for a coordinated security strategy involving community leaders and law enforcement to flush out bandits from rural areas. “It is not acceptable in this country or any other, for people wherever they are to be attacked, maimed, killed, and communities ransacked at will without consequences, while the rest of the country and the world move on,” Dickson said. “It is the clearest evidence of State failure and collapse.”

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Shatta Wale and Stonebwoy are Africa’s best; no Nigerian artist comes close - McDan Business mogul McDan has sparked conversation with a bold claim on BTM Afrika, saying, “Shatta Wale and Stonebwoy are some of the most talented artists in Africa. None of these Nigerian artists comes close to them… Their music and stage performances are amazing.” From rivalry to royalty, Stonebwoy and Shatta Wale continue to raise the Ghana flag high