DEAR YOUNG MAN,

He who lives trusting dies betrayed.

Let this sink in deep because it might save your life and sanity.

Never trust a woman blindly—their loyalty isn’t to you; it’s to their interests. Harsh truth? Yes. But it’s a truth that too many men learn the hard way.

Women don’t love you for who you are—they love what you bring to the table. They love your ability to provide, protect, and elevate their lifestyle. You’re not the prize to them; you’re the vehicle to the prize they desire. And the moment you can no longer provide that value? Many will discard you like yesterday’s leftovers without a second thought.

Why do you think so many men are blindsided in relationships or marriages? They think, “She’s different. She loves me for me.” Wrong. She loves the life you create, the image you project, and the stability you offer. Remove those factors, and you’ll see her true colors.

This isn’t about hating women—it’s about understanding the nature of relationships. Women are driven by self-interest, and honestly, it’s not even their fault—it’s biology. But you, as a man, must protect yourself. Don’t let sweet words and affection blind you to reality.

Ask yourself:
• Does she support your vision or just enjoy the benefits of your hard work?
• Is she loyal to your grind or only to the lifestyle it creates?
• Would she stand by you if you lost everything today?

Don’t give your full trust to anyone who hasn’t proven themselves over time. Test her loyalty, observe her actions, and protect your value. Love her? Sure. But love her with your eyes open, not with your soul exposed.

Trust cautiously, lead decisively, and always prioritize yourself. You’re not a pawn in someone else’s game—you’re the king, and you don’t put your crown in someone else’s hand .

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Don't let anyone's words, opinions, or expectations dull your sparkle. Your worth and value come from within, and you deserve to be celebrated, respected, and loved just as you are.

The Lost Legacy of Ibom e-Library

Once a symbol of innovation and enlightenment, the Ibom e-Library stood tall as a beacon of knowledge in Akwa Ibom State. Built to serve as a hub of learning for all residents, it was envisioned to foster education, research, and creativity in the community. Equipped with modern facilities, internet connectivity, and countless books and resources, the e-library became a haven for students, researchers, and anyone seeking knowledge.

However, during the administration of Governor Udom Emmanuel, the vision for the Ibom e-Library began to waver. Slowly but surely, its doors that were once wide open to the public started closing. The bustling halls grew silent as access became increasingly restricted. Instead of nurturing the minds of Akwa Ibomites, the e-library was repurposed as a private training center. Public use was deprioritized, and its vast resources became unavailable to those it was built to serve.

For years, students stood outside its gates, their aspirations dimmed by locked doors. Researchers who once thrived within its walls were forced to seek knowledge elsewhere. The heart of the e-library—a public treasure—was transformed into a corporate enclave, catering only to specific training programs and organizations.

Today, the Ibom e-Library serves as a painful reminder of what could have been. Its original purpose, to educate and empower the people of Akwa Ibom, has been overshadowed by exclusivity and neglect. The promise of enlightenment has given way to disappointment, leaving the community yearning for the library’s restoration to its rightful place as a sanctuary for all.

HOW TO ATTRACT PEOPLE TO YOU?

1. Be mysterious. That develops attraction towards you.

2. Be less available. Scarce things are always attractive to people.

3. Be confident. Show that you are capable of doing things in a better way.

4. Be well dressed. Your great sense of dressing attracts everyone's attention.

5. Smells so good. Use perfume, it will attract the attention of others.

6. Your body language must be open. Show that you are straightforward and unbothered.

7. Be fun, your charisma defines you if they want to spend time with you.

8. Don't sell yourself so easily to people. Let them strive to win you over, people don't value things they get easily.

9. Don't express a boring life on social media. This kills the attraction.

10. Don't care what others think of you.

11. Don't despair while talking or texting someone.

12. Don't be needy. The more needy you become, the less attention you receive. Learn to say NO.

12. Just be yourself. Don't change yourself to win someone over. Change yourself to get better.

13. Don't reveal everything about yourself. Revealing everything about yourself makes you a "less attractive" person.

14. Don't be bothered if someone is not giving you importance that you want or deserve.
Always be the one to end the conversation.

15. Don't show too much interest in someone.

16. Maintain a balance of kindness. People will sit you down for it and you're bound to miss all the rides. A strong sense of humor increases attraction because it is also one of the signs of an intelligent personality.

17. Prioritize your goal not any other people (expect your family members).

18. During the conversation, make eye contact with the other person and smile slightly.

19. Love yourself and never be afraid to stand up for what you believe in. Be persistent and updated on fashion and other social issues.

20. Be Adventurous. Travel to amazing places and have some amazing clicks and stories from there to post on social media. Be optimistic and take risks. Optimism gives positive vibes to people and therefore they are drawn to you. By taking risks, you show that you are brave and that you can step out of your 'comfort zone' if you need to.

21. Be on your own. Spend most of your time alone. Be a thinker and analyze things. Providing solutions to other's problems without expecting anything in return.

22. Never compromise on your self worth. Always respect and love yourself, but don't forget to remain humble and polite.

23. Be ambitious. Work on your goal and focus on self-improvement.

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Even as a woman, don’t underestimate how money can transform you.

When people say, beware of a poor man’s loyalty, it is not just about men, it also applies to women too.

Some ladies are loyal and reserved because they have not touched money.

You haven’t noticed how some women change once they start dating a financially secure man? The arrogance, pride and neglect towards those struggling financially?

No wonder we are often asked never to say never.

Some ladies criticize women buying hairs, phones, clothes, etc because they are yet to afford it or have someone to gift them.

Money change people, and untill you have achieved financial stability, it is challenging to truly know yourself.

I know this devout and godly lady, very reserved and Christlike.
However, after meeting a wealthy and generous guy, she embarked on a journey to torment poor men, she started displaying attitudes I never thought possible, visiting places I never imagined she would visit, and dressing in a way I couldn’t have envisioned.

This continued until their breakup, and reality set in.

I hope your criticism of certain lifestyles or luxuries is not rooted in your inability to afford them.
I hope the lifestyle you despise is not because it is above your budget?

As you pray for prosperity , ask for the grace to manage it, so that, the blessing of prosperity won’t lead you to dòom.

If money can overwhelm you, you’re not really a good person.

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Think about the last time you accomplished something meaningful. Did it happen by accident, or did you have a clear plan? The same principle applies to your finances—setting financial goals is the foundation of success.

Why Set Financial Goals?

Gives you direction and purpose.
Helps you focus your resources.
Motivates you to stick to your budget and save.
How to Set Smart Financial Goals:

Be Specific: Instead of saying, “I want to save money,” set a goal like, “I’ll save $10,000 in 12 months.”
Make it Measurable: Track your progress regularly to stay motivated.
Ensure It’s Achievable: Be realistic based on your income and expenses.
Set a Timeline: Deadlines create urgency and help you stay on track.
Break It Down: Divide big goals into smaller, manageable milestones.
Pro Tip: Write down your goals and review them often. The clearer your goals are, the more likely you are to achieve them.

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3. Saving vs. Investing: Which Should You Focus On?
Saving and investing are both essential to building wealth, but they serve different purposes. So, how do you know when to save and when to invest?

When to Save:

You’re building an emergency fund (3–6 months of living expenses).
You’re saving for short-term goals like a vacation or down payment.
You want easy access to your money without the risk of loss.
When to Invest:

You’re aiming for long-term growth (5+ years).
You’re comfortable with some level of risk.
You want your money to grow faster than inflation.
Key Differences:

Savings: Low risk, low reward. Best for safety and liquidity.
Investing: Higher risk, higher potential reward. Best for building wealth over time.
Pro Tip: Strike a balance. Build your savings first, then start investing to grow your money. Both are essential to your financial health.

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Cut of Jealous people in your circle!!!

Jealousy is a powerful emotion that can bring out the worst in people.

The problem with jealous people is that they see you as a threat. They look at you as competition, someone who is trying to one-up them or steal the spotlight.

But for you, they're just family or friends. You care about them deeply and want to support and encourage them.

The worst part is that jealous people can be incredibly manipulative. They'll often try to make you feel guilty or responsible for their own feelings of inadequacy.

They'll play on your emotions, using tactics like gaslighting or emotional blackmail to get what they want from you.

It's exhausting and draining to be around people like this. They can suck the life out of you, leaving you feeling anxious, stressed, and unsure of yourself.

And the worst part is that they often don't even realize what they're doing. They're so consumed by their own jealousy and insecurity that they can't see the harm they're causing.

Recognize the behavior for what it is. Don't make excuses for them or try to justify their actions..

Set clear boundaries. And in most cases, Cut them off from you life.

You deserve a healthy circle of relationships
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TRANSGENDER PRISONERS PANIC OVER TRUMPS NEW ORDER TO TRANSFER THEM TO MEN'S PRISON

Hundreds of transgender federal prisoners face uncertainty and fear after President Donald Trump’s executive order mandating transfers to facilities based on biological sex rather than gender identity.

The move has sparked concerns, particularly from legal advocates who warn of the dangers these inmates may face in male prisons.

“It’s going to be incredibly dangerous,” said attorney Moira Meltzer-Cohen, who represents Donna Langan, a transgender woman serving a life sentence for bank robbery, as quoted by DailyMail UK.

Meltzer-Cohen fears a “bloodbath” if trans inmates are forced into male prisons.

The order, signed on Trump’s first day in office, states the government will recognise only two sexes and restrict “intimate spaces” like bathrooms and dorms to biological sex. Federal funding for transition-related healthcare has also been halted.

Sandra Gant, a federal public defender, revealed that her office was alerted after a trans client was segregated for transfer to a men’s prison. “She is terrified,” Gant shared, calling for legal strategies to challenge the policy.

Rhonda Fleming, a female inmate in Texas, welcomed the decision after her failed legal battle to exclude trans women from women’s prisons, citing fears for her safety. Fleming claimed some male inmates fake gender identities to serve sentences in women’s facilities.

The Bureau of Prisons, which oversees approximately 1,500 trans women and 750 trans men, has yet to decide on placements for inmates who have undergone gender-affirming surgeries, citing additional security concerns.

The executive order, part of Trump’s broader rollback of protections for transgender individuals, faces potential legal challenges from groups

The Commissioners List: What Akwa Ibom People Want to See

The air in Akwa Ibom is thick with anticipation, as citizens eagerly await the unveiling of the long-expected list of new commissioners. The wait has been akin to a suspense thriller, where the plot thickens with every passing day. People have been asking, "When will the Governor unveil the list?" Rumour mills have churned out predictions, and many had their hopes pinned on Wednesday, January 23, 2025, during the State House of Assembly’s plenary. Yet, when Rt. Hon. Udeme Otong, Speaker of the House, inquired if there was a message from the Governor, the Clerk’s response was a simple, almost deflating, “No.” And so, the Assembly adjourned to February 4th. The suspense continues.

As the days drag on, it’s easy for even the most patient Akwa Ibomite to feel the pinch of waiting. But if the list that finally lands is a masterpiece, surely it will be worth every second of the delay. The people of Akwa Ibom have high hopes, and what they truly desire is a well-balanced and forward-thinking Executive Council. Here’s a look at what Akwa Ibom people expect when the much-anticipated list finally arrives:

1. A Blend of Politicians and Core Professionals

The ideal list would feature a diverse team—a marriage of seasoned politicians with the expertise of professionals from strategic fields. Think of a Commissioner of Information who has worked in the world of journalism, someone with a keen understanding of media relations and the power of storytelling. A finance expert in the Ministry of Finance, whose knowledge and practical experience could balance the books without breaking a sweat. A Sports Commissioner who has both the administrative know-how and the passion to raise the state’s sporting profile. Of course, these professionals must also possess strong political acumen, as the corridors of power demand both expertise and influence.

2. Youthful Introductions to the Executive Council
While it’s easy to fall into the trap of recycling old names, Akwa Ibom needs a fresh wave of youth to step into the leadership roles. The leaders of tomorrow can only rise if given a seat at the table today. The youth are the lifeblood of any state, and offering them opportunities to serve is a step towards long-term growth and development. These young minds bring energy, creativity, and a sense of urgency to the table—qualities that the state needs in abundance.

3. Commissioners Who Can Drive the ARISE Agenda
Governor Umo Eno’s ARISE agenda is a vision of growth, transformation, and hope. But no agenda can succeed without the right people to execute it. Akwa Ibom’s citizens expect commissioners who don’t just sit in their offices and await directives but actively push the ARISE agenda forward in their respective ministries. Creativity, innovation, and a hands-on approach to leadership are the order of the day. We need action-oriented commissioners who are as dynamic as the vision itself.

4. Commissioners with Grassroots Connections
What good is a commissioner who speaks beautifully on television but has no genuine rapport with the people on the ground? Akwa Ibomites want commissioners who are close to the grassroots—leaders who engage with the people, understand their struggles, and address their needs. It's not about grand speeches but about real connections, about rolling up sleeves and getting involved in the day-to-day lives of citizens. It’s about empathy, understanding, and action on the ground.

5. A Strong, Transparent Leadership Team
In this day and age, transparency isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a necessity. Akwa Ibom’s citizens want commissioners who aren’t just good at their jobs but are also open, honest, and accountable. The era of secrecy and political games is fading, and people demand leaders who can build trust through transparency and integrity. After all, governance is a public trust, not a private affair.

6. Technologically Savvy Leaders
In an age where technology is at the heart of progress, Akwa Ibom people hope for commissioners who understand the power of digital transformation. Whether it’s improving public service delivery, boosting education, or facilitating e-governance, the state’s leaders must be forward-thinking when it comes to technology. The right blend of traditional leadership skills and modern digital tools could pave the way for a truly progressive Akwa Ibom.

In conclusion, the people of Akwa Ibom are waiting with bated breath, not just for a list of names, but for a team that will transform their state. It’s clear that they are asking for the best hands, people with the vision and skills to propel the state into a new era of prosperity. And while the waiting game continues, one thing is certain: Governor Umo Eno knows what the people want. So, let’s allow the Governor to continue cooking up the best possible team—after all, a perfectly cooked dish takes time, and good things come to those who wait. We trust His Excellency will deliver when the time is right.

Nsikakabasi Akpan holds a B.Sc in Political Science and Public Administration and writes from Ididep Community in Ibiono Ibom Local Government Area of Akwa Ibom State.
24/1/2025.

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In "Those Who Live Without Discipline, Die Without Honor," Modern Arjuna explores the profound relationship between discipline, personal integrity, and the pursuit of a meaningful life. Through a combination of philosophical insights, practical wisdom, and real-life examples, the author encourages readers to cultivate discipline as a foundation for honor and success. Here are ten key lessons and insights from the book:

1. Discipline as a Fundamental Value: The book emphasizes that discipline is not merely a tool for achieving goals but a core value that shapes character. Arjuna argues that a disciplined life leads to greater self-respect and respect from others, laying the groundwork for a life of honor.

2. The Connection Between Discipline and Freedom: Contrary to the belief that discipline restricts freedom, the author illustrates that true freedom comes from self-discipline. By mastering oneself, individuals can make informed choices that align with their values and long-term aspirations.

3. Consistency is Key: Arjuna highlights the importance of consistency in practicing discipline. Small, daily actions build momentum over time, leading to significant transformation. The emphasis is on creating habits that reinforce discipline in various aspects of life.

4. Embrace Hardship: The book teaches that hardship and challenges are integral to the journey of personal growth. Embracing difficulties with a disciplined mindset can foster resilience and strength, enabling individuals to face future obstacles with confidence.

5. The Role of Accountability: Arjuna underscores the significance of accountability in maintaining discipline. By setting up systems of accountability, whether through mentors, peers, or self-reflection, individuals can stay committed to their goals and values.

6. Mindfulness and Self-Awareness: The author encourages readers to cultivate mindfulness and self-awareness as essential components of discipline. Understanding one’s thoughts, emotions, and behaviors allows individuals to make conscious choices that align with their principles.

7. Discipline in Relationships: The book explores how discipline extends beyond personal goals to encompass relationships. Practicing discipline in communication, commitments, and interactions fosters trust and respect, strengthening bonds with others.

8. The Dangers of Instant Gratification: Arjuna warns against the pitfalls of seeking instant gratification, which can undermine long-term goals. The book advocates for patience and delayed gratification as essential aspects of a disciplined life.

9. Honor as a Lifelong Pursuit: The author positions honor as a lifelong pursuit that is intricately linked to discipline. Living honorably requires consistent effort and adherence to one’s principles, serving as a guiding light in decision-making.

10. Legacy and Impact: Finally, the book encourages readers to consider the legacy they leave behind. Living a disciplined life not only honors oneself but also positively impacts others. It emphasizes that true honor is reflected in the lives we touch and the values we uphold.

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Court Orders Lady to Pay ₦150k for Failing to Visit Boyfriend After Receiving ₦3k Transport Fare

A Magistrate Court in Ilesa, Osun State, has ordered Rhoda Adu to pay ₦150,000 to her boyfriend, Eru Dupe, after she collected ₦3,000 as transport fare but failed to visit him as promised.

The incident began when Eru Dupe transferred the transport fare to Rhoda, who subsequently switched off her phone and failed to show up. Feeling defrauded and emotionally distressed, Eru reported the matter to the Ayeso Police Station. Rhoda was later arrested and brought to court.

During the trial, Eru presented evidence, including the mobile money transfer and WhatsApp messages exchanged between him and Rhoda.

In her ruling, Magistrate Akogun Oludare ordered Rhoda to refund the ₦3,000, pay an additional ₦100,000 for breach of agreement, and another ₦50,000 for emotional damages. The court emphasized that the ruling was intended to deter others from similar behavior.

The boyfriend, visibly relieved, expressed gratitude for the justice served, while Rhoda was admonished for her actions.