“healing is learning” aside from being heartbroken what else have you learnt from that relationship?

PLAYING WITH YOUR SPOUSE Marrying someone you can not play or joke around with can make life boring in the marriage. Marriage is not a military ground. It is a place of love, romance and fun. 😊 Play isn’t just for kids! Play is an essential part of maintaining a happy, healthy long-term relationship, especially in today’s world. Playing together increases bonding, reduces stress, improves communication, enhances intimacy, conflict resolution, and relationship satisfaction 1. As a married couple, Play romantic games with your wife. The couple that plays together stays together. 2. Tickle your wife. 3. Go out for a date. Go to the beach. Take her out for dinner, just the two of you, and enjoy yourself. 4. Go to a cinema and watch films together 5. Plan a mini honeymoon when both of you can spend quality time together. 6.Visit Beach & Cinema Together 7. Play a board game Make your own board game 8. Play ball and table tennis together 9. Take a cooking or baking class 10. Try something new in the bedroom 11. Romance Together, 12. Rejoice Together, 13. Attend Special Events Together, 14. Laugh together, 15. *Take A Stroll Together, 16. *Dance together (Dancing helps us to release happy hormones.Try Dancing with your partner 🕺💃) 17. Sing together, 18. Eat together, 19. Bath together. It enhances your friendship: as it brings you closer. It makes you free with each other 20. Spend quality time together, 21. Do exercise together, 22. Play football together, 23. Sleep Together, 24. Kiss Together, 25. Do House Chore Together, 25. Plan Together, 26. Celebrate together 27. Enjoy Regular S*x Together with your spouse. Doing These Keep Your Marriage Fresh And Lively. Treat Your Spouse As Your Best Friend And A Treasure Not As Your Enemy.” Love your spouse like there is no tomorrow, and if tomorrow comes, wake up and do it over again. Marriage Is A True Test Of Love! Enjoy Your Marriage In Jesus Name You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Kindly share this post to reach all men and woman

15 SECRETS TO HAVING A STRONG RELATIONSHIP 💖🤷‍♀🤷‍♂ Everyone dreams of having the happiest marriage. You want someone who’s going to love you no matter what, you want a person to have fun with and most importantly, you want someone you can share a happy, fulfilling life with. If you desire a loving and lasting relationship with your spouse, both of you need to adopt the following habits below: 1. INVEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE Reading books on marriage, conflict resolution, and communication techniques will help your marriage. The more you invest in your marriage, the more valuable it becomes. Most importantly, Treat your spouse better than you treat anyone else. 2. COMMUNICATION Believe it or not, communication is the key to a happy marriage. Never stop communicating. Stay on the same page. Make sure your spouse always knows how you feel. Keeping open communication is arguably the best thing you can do for your marriage. Make sure that you always communicate clearly about what you want and expect. Remember that good communication is what makes a marriage successful. 3. DON'T GIVE UP: On your wedding day, you make promises to love your sweetheart forever through the good and bad times. But sometimes the bad outweighs the good by a lot, and marriages end up falling apart. But there are things you can do to make your happy marriage last forever. Be committed to make your marriage work. Don't think the grass is always greener on the other side. Most people who leave their marriages for someone else find the same problems in the new relationship, and many regret not having worked things out in their first marriage. Any married person will tell you that marriages wax and wane. There are good times, bad times, and so-so times. A marriage is viable if the good outweighs the bad, even by a little bit. The more you appreciate the good and try to let the bad roll off, the easier it will get, and the more fondness and connection you will feel towards your spouse. 4. LEARN TO LISTEN Speaking less and listening more is important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. It’s important you always pay close attention to what your partner has to say. Ask your partner how his/her day went and listen to him/her talk about their day. 5. KEEP YOUR PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE When you put your relationship on social media, you invite the public to your relationship. Keep your private matters private. It’s a relationship between you and your partner and not between you, your partner and the public. You can share your fun dates with your partner or some nice photos together on your Facebook or Instagram app but make sure you draw the line where necessary. 6. KNOW WHEN TO LET THINGS SLIDE AND LEARN HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICTS Finding ways to reduce the frequency of conflict in your relationship by letting go of the little things will help you build a strong relationship with your partner. Arguments are normal in a relationship but you should make sure you never insult your partner during an argument. Always listen to what your partner has to say during an argument. 7. COMMITMENT: Commitment is very important if you desire to have a strong relationship with your partner. You have to decide to stick with your partner and make the relationship work irrespective of the flaws your partner might have. Couples who renew their commitments every day, in words and deed, are on their way to having a strong relationship. 8. MAKE TIME TO DATE Spending quality time with your partner is important if you desire to build a strong relationship. Nothing substitutes for time together. No matter how busy you are, always create time to go out on dates with your partner. 9. BE TOTALLY TRANSPARENT Partners in strong relationships have no secrets. If you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner, you have to be completely transparent with your partner. You don’t need privacy in your relationship if you want a strong relationship. 10. TRY NEW THINGS TOGETHER Whether it be something as simple as watching a movie neither of you has seen, or something as extreme as skydiving, trying new things together as a couple is important if you want to have a strong relationship. Trying new things together keeps the excitement and passion going in your relationship. 11. COMPLIMENT YOUR PARTNER You shouldn’t save the compliments for big events alone, make complimenting your partner a regular occurrence. You make your partner feel special and noticed when you compliment him/her and this helps build a strong relationship 12. NEVER PUT EACH OTHER DOWN IN PUBLIC How you treat your partner in front of others matter if you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner. Never ever put each other down or say anything negative about your partner in public. Only say supportive and kind things to each other in public and save disagreements for when you both are alone. 😊💖 13. NEVER GET TIRED OF SAYING “I LOVE YOU” 💖💖💖 These three little words “I love you” are important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. No matter how long or hard your day is, always end your day by telling your partner how much you love him/her. End your day with the words “I love you”. 14. LEARN HOW TO COMPROMISE You have to understand the value of compromise if you want to build a strong relationship. You may not always want to do what your partner wants but if it’s important to your partner, do it with a smile on your face. Lastly..... ✍✍✍ 15. Pray and Play Together: Couples that pray and play together stay together. Hand in hand each morning before you face the vicissitude of life, read a devotional, and pray together. Take turns to pray for your marriage, your challenges &your children. If its your turn to pray, lift your spouse's burdens to The Lord and thank God for the wonderful spouse He gave you. Never miss an opportunity to celebrate life's milestones together. Celebrate anniversaries and birthdays. Make it simple and sweet. Play and laugh together. Be merry with the person you married and watch your love for each other grow from strength to strength. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Kindly share this message with your loved ones 🙏

*COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGE IS A COVENANTAL Lifeline Communication in marriage is not a luxury—it is a lifeline. It sustains emotional connection, resolves conflict, nurtures intimacy, and affirms love. When communication breaks down, the relationship begins to starve. The words you speak—or withhold—have the power to build or break your home. Silence is not always golden; sometimes, it’s lethal. THE SILENT TREATMENT IS A DANGEROUS WEAPON The silent treatment is not maturity—it’s manipulation. It is the weapon of the emotionally immature, used to punish rather than to heal. It seeks to gain control by withholding presence, affection, and resolution. Rather than addressing issues with grace and truth, it creates emotional torture, confusion, and rejection. It becomes a breeding ground for bitterness and resentment. SILENCE INVITES THE ENEMY INTO THE MARRIAGE BED When one spouse chooses to shut down emotionally, Satan finds an open door to whisper lies, exaggerate offenses, and magnify distance. Every hour of silence gives the enemy uncontested influence. Marital silence becomes spiritual noise, echoing division, and promoting separation. As Scripture reminds us, “Do not give the devil a foothold” (Ephesians 4:27). Prolonged silence is a foothold. DISAGREEMENTS ARE HEALTHY—DIVISION IS NOT Disagreements are not signs of a broken marriage—they are signs of two thinking, growing individuals working out oneness. Emotionally mature spouses can disagree on topics without tearing the relationship apart. They do not allow one subject of contention to shut down the entire flow of love, respect, or communication. They remain relationally connected even in moments of tension. EMOTIONALLY MATURE SPOUSES COMMUNICATE THROUGH CONFLICT In healthy marriages, spouses do not use silence as a shield or sword. Instead, they lean into dialogue, even when it's difficult. They listen, reflect, and respond with emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity. They understand that silence solves nothing and often creates more wounds than words ever could. Choosing discussion over distance is the path of maturity. AGREEING TO DISAGREE IS A SIGN OF STRENGTH, NOT WEAKNESS Sometimes the healthiest thing a couple can say is, “We may not agree right now, but we still choose unity.” Agreement in every opinion is not the goal; unity in love and respect is. Agreeing to disagree allows space for individuality without threatening the oneness of the covenant. It keeps the door of understanding open and prevents unnecessary emotional shutdown. KEEP THE LINES OF COMMUNICATION OPEN AT ALL COSTS Even during conflict, always leave the door open for dialogue. Say things like, “I need time to think, but I’m not walking away,” or “I love you, but let’s talk when we’re both calm.” These phrases preserve the emotional connection while creating space for clarity. Never let a disagreement silence the entire relationship. RECLAIM YOUR MARRIAGE WITH CONSISTENT, HONEST COMMUNICATION Healing begins with humility and honesty. Even if the conversation is uncomfortable, it is worth having. Regular, respectful communication cultivates trust, emotional safety, and long-term unity. Ask questions. Listen deeply. Speak with grace. Share feelings without blame. Rebuild intimacy one conversation at a time. Silence divides, but godly communication restores.

20 WAYS TO BEFRIEND YOUR PARTNER: I decided to write this list because someone asked " How can I be a friend to my Lover?" A friend is someone who understands you and adds value to your life. The popular saying says," Marry your friend or befriend anyone you marry". 1. Speak to her softly instead of shouting. 2. ‍Always make her smile and crack jokes for her. Stare at her face and Smile, if she asks why smiling. Tell her she's beautiful; laugh when she cracks jokes or says something funny. Frowning always is not spiritual. 3. Walk a distance together. 4. Hang out together at eateries. 5. Watch movies (wrestling, football, and Christian films) and play games together. 6. Fulfill purpose by going into ministration together. 7. Write love letters to each other. 8. Read books together. 9. Read the Bible together. 10. Pray together. 11. Sing praises and worship together. 12. Shop for her. 13. Speak your dialect. 15. Call her sweet names (Honey, Gem, Gold, my heartbeat, my sugar...) 😂😂😂 16. Coauthor a book. 17. Cook for her. 18. Seek her advice and follow it as the spirit leads. 19. Discuss your plans with her. 20. Keep your money with her. Support him financially. Above all thy getting, befriend her, and watch things work for you in your relationship. Marriage is too long for you to journey with your boss, not a friend. It's absurd for you to be in a relationship and still have opposite sex Bestie somewhere else. A relationship thrives when you start with friendship! Marry your friend! Befriend your Lover! Marry your talking mate! Marry your purpose mate! Marry your spiritual mate! Marry your genotype mate! (You should marry someone your genotype is compatible with. AA should marry AS. AA should marry SS) Marry your academic mate! Marry your playmate!

https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U5 *💫Todays word, Bitterness Ngaipere* *Iam going to talk about BITTERNESS.* *Chii chinonzi bitterness?* *BITTERNESS imhando yehasha dzadzika midzi muvanhu vazhinji. Hasha idzi dzakakonzerwa nekurwadziswa. Ini ndinoti imhando yembeu yemidzwa yakadyarwa ikamera pamoyo. Wakarwadzisa zvekuti unoona sekuti it's unforgivable...* *Vazhinji vane bitterness havagone kugamuchiradzidziso kubva kunevamwe. Nekuti anoti ndakatobvavo neko azvina kundishandira, haagoni zvekare kutaura zvinovaka kunevamwe nekuti she judges everything based on her past bad experiences. Munhu ari bitter is not even ready to try new things nekuti anotya kurwadziswa. Bitterness does not affect you alone but even everyone that come in conduct with you. Hebrews 12:15 says, see to it that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.* *Vazhinji takarwadziswa muma previous marriages and relationships zvakuita tive nehasha. Takutora Abel wakatirwadziisa kumuita Paul who is coming with a word of marriage to you. Bitterness inokuita utadze kuona the right person or opportunity when it comes. Zvese izvozvo kwauri zviri wrong.Boaz chaiye paakauya wakatadza kuzviziva. Business partner chaiye akatouya akaenda.* *Murume kana mudzimai waugere naye akakutadzira five years ago nanhasi nyaya iyoyo ichikukupa hasha zvekuti paunotanga kuitaura inoita sekunge akatadza nezuro. Madzimai forgiveness is not an option for the Christian, it is required and its step number one in removing bitterness. Ukaziva kuti Abel haasi Paul unowana peace. A bitter heart finds no peace at all. COLOSSIANS 3:13 inoti Bear with each other and forgive what ever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.* *Gona kuregerera!!!* *One thing I have discovered with bitterness is that it hinders your prayers thereby causing delays to your destiny. Life yemunhu ari bitter inoramba ichitenderera panzvimbo one. Business remunhu ari bitter does not grow. Ephesians 4:31 inobva, "yati get rid of all bitterness."* *Hama dzangu we are God's vessels, and Mwari varikumada ma vessels ivavo to use them in His kingdom. But the vessels are full, they are occupied. Unless you empty the cup,you can not add anything to it. A plane can not land unless the one iripa position yairikufanirwa to land yaita take off. Otherwise inoramba irimudenga. Heaven is saturated with spiritual gifts but it can not release them because the vessels that are supposed to receive are full. Vadikani tinebasa rekuita muimba yaMwari. Amongst us are teachers, preachers, intercessors, and worshippers. But the destiny has been delayed because of bitterness...* *Whatever you are going thru surrender it to God. The Load is not yours to carry, give it to the owner (Jesus Christ).* *Tanga nekuregerera nhasi, Mwari vagokuregererawo. Be a prayerful person. Ukaziva kutaura naMwari kana wasangana nedambudziko you will live a bitterness free life.* *Blessed Friday morning family,God bless you all!🙏🏽*

If she's truly in love with you, she will never fail to do these four things. DON'T GET PLAYED. BROTHER'S As we talk about women, it's also important you take your pursuit for success and greatness seriously. Let's go 1. Making loving her easy for you will be her utmost priority. It will be more about her making life easy for you when it concerns her and the relationship, giving you a soft landing in almost every areas of life. She will be considerate and understanding, you don't need to do too much work. 2. She will not bill you recklessly, she will hardly even ask you for money, she will never stress you financially. Although you will give her money but then she never put you under any duress or pressure for financially provisions. She manages the little you have and give to her and she's happy. Its what it is. 3. She will always wants to be by your side, always wants to talk to you and strongly emotionally attached to you. She will desire you to the point where you will even be tired and be running from her. Always available for you, no rubbish excuses and if they is any, she will always find a way to meet up. 4. She will submit and respect you 90% of the time. She will never be difficult to lead, she will trust your leadership and becomes easy going. Doesn't do anything without you getting to know about it and she will always wants your involvement to what ever she does. She's obedient and honest with you. Gives you peace and stability. 5. She's ever willing to supports you in which ever way she can. Ever willing to make sacrifices for you. She's kind and caring. Bro wife her. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

15 SECRETS TO HAVING A STRONG RELATIONSHIP 💖🤷‍♀🤷‍♂ Everyone dreams of having the happiest marriage. You want someone who’s going to love you no matter what, you want a person to have fun with and most importantly, you want someone you can share a happy, fulfilling life with. If you desire a loving and lasting relationship with your spouse, both of you need to adopt the following habits below: 1. INVEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE Reading books on marriage, conflict resolution, and communication techniques will help your marriage. The more you invest in your marriage, the more valuable it becomes. Most importantly, Treat your spouse better than you treat anyone else. 2. COMMUNICATION Believe it or not, communication is the key to a happy marriage. Never stop communicating. Stay on the same page. Make sure your spouse always knows how you feel. Keeping open communication is arguably the best thing you can do for your marriage. Make sure that you always communicate clearly about what you want and expect. Remember that good communication is what makes a marriage successful. 3. DON'T GIVE UP: On your wedding day, you make promises to love your sweetheart forever through the good and bad times. But sometimes the bad outweighs the good by a lot, and marriages end up falling apart. But there are things you can do to make your happy marriage last forever. Be committed to make your marriage work. Don't think the grass is always greener on the other side. Most people who leave their marriages for someone else find the same problems in the new relationship, and many regret not having worked things out in their first marriage. Any married person will tell you that marriages wax and wane. There are good times, bad times, and so-so times. A marriage is viable if the good outweighs the bad, even by a little bit. The more you appreciate the good and try to let the bad roll off, the easier it will get, and the more fondness and connection you will feel towards your spouse. 4. LEARN TO LISTEN Speaking less and listening more is important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. It’s important you always pay close attention to what your partner has to say. Ask your partner how his/her day went and listen to him/her talk about their day. 5. KEEP YOUR PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE When you put your relationship on social media, you invite the public to your relationship. Keep your private matters private. It’s a relationship between you and your partner and not between you, your partner and the public. You can share your fun dates with your partner or some nice photos together on your Facebook or Instagram app but make sure you draw the line where necessary. 6. KNOW WHEN TO LET THINGS SLIDE AND LEARN HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICTS Finding ways to reduce the frequency of conflict in your relationship by letting go of the little things will help you build a strong relationship with your partner. Arguments are normal in a relationship but you should make sure you never insult your partner during an argument. Always listen to what your partner has to say during an argument. 7. COMMITMENT: Commitment is very important if you desire to have a strong relationship with your partner. You have to decide to stick with your partner and make the relationship work irrespective of the flaws your partner might have. Couples who renew their commitments every day, in words and deed, are on their way to having a strong relationship. 8. MAKE TIME TO DATE Spending quality time with your partner is important if you desire to build a strong relationship. Nothing substitutes for time together. No matter how busy you are, always create time to go out on dates with your partner. 9. BE TOTALLY TRANSPARENT Partners in strong relationships have no secrets. If you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner, you have to be completely transparent with your partner. You don’t need privacy in your relationship if you want a strong relationship. 10. TRY NEW THINGS TOGETHER Whether it be something as simple as watching a movie neither of you has seen, or something as extreme as skydiving, trying new things together as a couple is important if you want to have a strong relationship. Trying new things together keeps the excitement and passion going in your relationship. 11. COMPLIMENT YOUR PARTNER You shouldn’t save the compliments for big events alone, make complimenting your partner a regular occurrence. You make your partner feel special and noticed when you compliment him/her and this helps build a strong relationship 12. NEVER PUT EACH OTHER DOWN IN PUBLIC How you treat your partner in front of others matter if you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner. Never ever put each other down or say anything negative about your partner in public. Only say supportive and kind things to each other in public and save disagreements for when you both are alone. 😊💖 13. NEVER GET TIRED OF SAYING “I LOVE YOU” 💖💖💖 These three little words “I love you” are important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. No matter how long or hard your day is, always end your day by telling your partner how much you love him/her. End your day with the words “I love you”. 14. LEARN HOW TO COMPROMISE You have to understand the value of compromise if you want to build a strong relationship. You may not always want to do what your partner wants but if it’s important to your partner, do it with a smile on your face. Lastly..... ✍✍✍ 15. Pray and Play Together: Couples that pray and play together stay together. Hand in hand each morning before you face the vicissitude of life, read a devotional, and pray together. Take turns to pray for your marriage, your challenges &your children. If its your turn to pray, lift your spouse's burdens to The Lord and thank God for the wonderful spouse He gave you. Never miss an opportunity to celebrate life's milestones together. Celebrate anniversaries and birthdays. Make it simple and sweet. Play and laugh together. Be merry with the person you married and watch your love for each other grow from strength to strength. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Kindly share this message with your loved ones 🙏

If you are in a serious relationship, leave that nonsense 😒 bcus the only thing you'll get is: "Babe where are you?"

https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U My Marriage advice 🔥🔥🔥🔥 even warikuda kuroorwa or vasikana garai maverenga I know haasi maturusi anoshanda kwese kwese and haugone kutora maturusi andoshandisa mu marriage mangu womashandisa mako😩😩😩😩😩 But I hope we can share ideas as married couples with those who are about to get married 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥...my marriage is now 11 years old😂😂😂😂and in those eleven years pakaipa zvekuti pamwe pacho I almost dumped it🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮 Until ndazodzidzawo nekuverenga ma books and listening to other preachers 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 It's true we get married to people because we love them🔥🔥🔥but over the years I realized kuti love does not make marriage work or love is not enough mu marriage 😂😂😂😂...ukatarisa vese vakaita ma divorce vazhinji vacho still love each other izvezvi,vakatosangana vanogona kutorara vese🚮🚮🚮 but they divorced why? Mu marriage mune zvimwe zvinouya zviri stronger than love💔💔💔inogona kuva infidelity, negligence, abuse or misuse of finances or your partner anogona kutobudirwa nemudzimu 😩😩😩zvawanga usina kumbobvira wafunga or kutarisira apa iwe your religion ichiri noo ma demon🚮🚮...zvekuti love won't save you. Pamwe pacho you can ask someone,"do you still love him"wonzwa yes,"so why did you divorce him?"wonzwa haagarike naye anoshusha or anodhakwa or akandihurira but I still care😭😭😭😭?" So what do you do then?I think the best way is to have knowledge and wisdom pamusoro pemunhu wako ne marriage yenyu,know how to handle infidelity,know how to handle abuse,know how to handle negligence....right now tikagara nevabereki vadu they tell us history yavo kuti,"baba venyu Ava vaindihurira ndika potsa ndaenda ini asi nhasi tane 40 years tese"...🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥anyway it's something our generation won't tolerate 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂no wonder we divorce even after three years yemuyedzo mu marriage 🚮🚮🚮💔💔💔💔hatina wisdom and knowledge yekuziva how to stay in a marriage 😂😂😂 Our generation we easily let go,we no longer fight for relationships,even ma friendships chaiwo...we are so broken and weak.We have no time to wait and see if huri hudiki hwemunhu or mistake,we just jump out of the ship tichinopinda muneimwe futi same ship or worse💔💔💔💔hence we keep moving on😩😩😩😩 instead of building out relationships

TOPIC FOR TODAY GIRL CHILD ABUSE Girl child abuse refers to any form of physical, emotional, or sexual abuse inflicted upon girls under the age of 18. It can take many forms, including: Types of Girl Child Abuse: 1. Physical Abuse: Physical harm or injury, such as hitting, beating, or burning. 2. Emotional Abuse: Verbal or psychological abuse, such as belittling, shaming, or ignoring. 3. Sexual Abuse: Any form of sexual exploitation or molestation, including incest, rape, or child pornography. 4. Neglect: Failure to provide basic needs, such as food, shelter, or medical care. Consequences of Girl Child Abuse: 1. Physical harm and health problems 2. Emotional trauma and psychological distress 3. Low self-esteem and confidence 4. Difficulty forming healthy relationships 5. Increased risk of mental health issues, such as depression and anxiety 6. Risk of suicidal thoughts or behaviors Causes of Girl Child Abuse: 1. Societal and cultural norms that perpetuate gender-based violence 2. Family dynamics and stress 3. Lack of education and awareness about child rights and protection 4. Poverty and economic instability 5. Weak laws and enforcement mechanisms Prevention and Response: 1. Strengthening laws and policies to protect girl children 2. Educating communities about child rights and protection 3. Providing support services for survivors, such as counseling and healthcare 4. Encouraging reporting of suspected abuse cases 5. Promoting healthy relationships and positive parenting practices

Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅ Follow our other Channel for only relationship teachings and guidance. Click the link below and follow 👇https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vak8fCV9xVJbSFCiGN1K