Relationship is good thing but when it goes butter it can be more dangerous than cancer when not properly managed

The Silent Battle

She screamed, her voice echoing through the void, but he stood motionless—a mere shadow, absorbing the storm without a word.

The weight of unspoken words, the burden of unresolved pain, and the chasm of misunderstanding stretched between them. She fought for acknowledgment, for validation, for a sign that he still cared. But his silence only deepened the distance.

Anger, frustration, love, and sorrow intertwined in a battle where both had already lost.

Silence can be louder than words, but when it becomes the only language, relationships fade into echoes of what once was.
Would you rather face the storm or drown in the quite?

"My wife and I don’t do red carpet. It is the same people that harass you for not takin' your wife to red carpet event that will sit back and point fingers at how you both look." — Ramsey Noah

My wife and I have an understanding. And this is one of the reasons our marriage is still standing strong. We avoid the public eye because the public has a way of messing up relationships. Sometimes, my wife goes ahead of me into the event, so we don’t do red carpet. It is the same people that harass you for not taking your wife to red carpet event that will sit back and point fingers at how you both look.

~ Ramsey Noah

WHAT ARE THE RESPONSIBILITIES THAT COMES WITH YOUR RIGHTS AS A NIGERIAN

As a Nigerian, along with your rights, you also have responsibilities that help maintain a harmonious and functioning society. Here are some key responsibilities that complement your rights:

Civic Responsibilities
1. *Obey the Law*: Respect and obey the laws of Nigeria, including those related to taxation, traffic, and public order.
2. *Pay Taxes*: Contribute to the development of Nigeria by paying your taxes and duties promptly.
3. *Participate in the Democratic Process*: Exercise your right to vote, participate in public debates, and engage with your elected representatives.
4. *Respect Public Institutions*: Treat public institutions, such as courts, schools, and hospitals, with respect and dignity.

Social Responsibilities
1. *Respect the Rights of Others*: Recognize and respect the rights and freedoms of fellow Nigerians, including those from different ethnic, religious, or cultural backgrounds.
2. *Promote National Unity*: Foster a sense of national unity and cohesion by embracing Nigeria's diversity and promoting peaceful coexistence.
3. *Protect the Environment*: Contribute to the preservation and protection of Nigeria's natural resources and environment.
4. *Support Vulnerable Groups*: Show compassion and support for vulnerable groups, such as children, women, and people with disabilities.

Personal Responsibilities
1. *Be a Good Neighbor*: Maintain good relationships with your neighbors and contribute to the well-being of your community.
2. *Take Care of Your Health*: Prioritize your physical and mental health by adopting healthy habits and seeking medical attention when necessary.
3. *Pursue Personal Development*: Continuously seek knowledge, skills, and personal growth to enhance your contributions to society.
4. *Be Accountable*: Take responsibility for your actions, apologize when necessary, and make amends for any harm caused.

Community Responsibilities
1. *Participate in Community Development*: Contribute to the development of your community through volunteer work, community service, or participation in local initiatives.
2. *Support Local Institutions*: Strengthen local institutions, such as schools, hospitals, and community centers, by providing resources, expertise, or volunteer services.
3. *Foster Community Cohesion*: Promote social cohesion and inclusivity within your community by organizing or participating in community events and activities.
4. *Protect Community Resources*: Help protect community resources, such as public facilities, parks, and natural resources, for future generations.

By embracing these responsibilities, you'll not only exercise your rights but also contribute to the well-being and prosperity of Nigeria.

HABITS THAT TURN YOU FROM A GIRL TO A WOMAN

There’s a difference between being a girl and being a woman. A girl moves through life hoping things will change, a woman takes responsibility and makes things happen.

If you’re ready to step into your full power as a woman, these habits will transform you:

1. You Stop Explaining Yourself to Everyone

A girl seeks approval. A woman knows she doesn’t need to justify every decision.

You don’t owe the world any explanation for your good choices.

You don’t need to prove your worth, your results will speak.

The moment you stop living for people’s validation, you step into your power.

2. You Manage Your Money Like a Boss

A girl spends first and thinks later. A woman plans her finances with sense.

You have savings, not just expenses.

You invest, because money should work for you.

You don’t buy to impress, you buy to grow.

A financially independent woman is unstoppable.

3. You Set Standards.

A girl complains about how she’s treated. A woman dictates how she wants to be treated.

In relationships, you walk away from nonsense.

In business, you charge your worth.

In friendships, you don’t beg for respect.

When you raise your standards, life aligns accordingly.

4. You Protect Your Peace at All Costs

Not everything requires your reaction. Not everyone deserves your access.

Drama? Not interested.
Fake friends? Not tolerated.
Energy-draining situations? Deleted.

A woman knows that peace is more valuable than attention.

5. You Show Up, Even When You Don’t Feel Like It

A girl waits to feel motivated. A woman moves with or without motivation.

You post that content.
You build that brand.
You work on yourself, no excuses.

Discipline separates those who wish from those who win.

6. You Take Care of Yourself Like an Asset, Not an Afterthought

A girl ignores herself. A woman takes care of herself.

You eat well, not just what’s available.
You dress well, because presentation matters.
You rest, because you deserve care too.

When you look good, feel good, and carry yourself with confidence, the world responds accordingly.

7. You Speak With Authority, Not Apology

A girl shrinks. A woman owns her space.

You say what you mean clearly.
You express your needs without guilt.
You know your value and you act like it.
Your voice is powerful, use it with confidence.

Becoming a woman is not about age, makeup, or relationship status.

It’s about mindset, habits, and how you carry yourself.


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Listen son, women do not fall in love based on logic. They always do it being guided by th3ir emotion. They enter a relationship being guided by their feelings, depending on what they feel that very moment. This is why they will always leave an engineer to date a tout. This is why you cannot advice them in their prime. They wanna date the bad boy who is not serious with them because he stirs their feelings. This is why advising your teenage daughter about marrying certain type of men will prove futile.

Always understand that this strategy changes with phases, time and age. They will now stop following their emotions when loving a man when they have already made mistakes of their lives. When their prime have lapsed and they are now single modas with baggage, when their value has depleted. They will now tend to use logic in dating because they want security. Only f00l!sh meπ will offer this security when they are done done messing.

Let them carry their own crosses. As a father, you will find yourself feeling sad because of your daughter who could not listen to you and now she married the wrong man. This happened in my family. My grandfather warned one of his daughters about marrying into a certain family. According to my grandmother, he told her,

"I know these people. Do not dare, my daughter. You will cry and I will hear in my grave." This came to pass. My grandfather was long dead when our aunt saw shege in broad daylight.

When women are young and wild, they follow their desires, they give themselves to whomever makes them go gaga! They follow where pleasure is served until it is time to settle down when they change moves.

This is why as a man you should never lie to yourself that you are the one she loves not that she agreed to marry you, no! You can afford to pay her bills, you have a house, some money and security. This is why she forego the other guy she truly loved for you. Her love for you is intentional.

She may be seeing her ex. And she might sleep with any other man she had before you. She married you because she needed the security which other men who made her go gaga could not fulfil. So, you were accepted because you came with a package others could not afford. So stop bragging, eh.

This is why you should strive in looking for a younger woman who've had no history with men because all of them will always live engraved in her soul. They will live rent free in her mind. It is like a form of digital print in a dark web that cannot be erased.

Whoever has found himself a womaπ with zero body count has found himself a good thing. The relationship is likely to be more solid than the one the womaπ is a retired veteran..

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Listen up, Men! Never Joke with Your Source of Income—Get Money at All Costs

Let me tell you this personally: If you don’t have your money right, you’re going to suffer. The world is brutal to broke men. You don’t get sympathy, handouts, or free passes. You’re not a woman who gets free stuff just by existing.

Women are born with their value. A beautiful woman can walk into any room and instantly get attention, validation, and resources. But as a man, you have to EARN your value.

Here’s Why You Must Never Joke with Your Source of Income:

1. Respect Comes from Power, and Power Comes from Money
A broke man has no power, no authority, and no say. If you want people to respect your presence, you need money.

2. Nobody Feeds a Broke Man
If you’re down and out, nobody’s coming to save you. There are no safety nets, no sympathy, and no handouts. You’re either grinding or you’re invisible.

3. You Can’t Protect or Provide Without Resources
As a man, your value is tied to your ability to provide, protect, and lead. Without money, you’re a liability, not an asset.

4. Financial Independence Is True Freedom
Without your own income, you are a slave to your job, your boss, and even the opinions of others. Money gives you choices, freedom, and control over your own destiny.

5. Broke Men Are Easy Targets for Manipulation
A man with no money is an easy mark for manipulation. People use, discard, and disrespect broke men because they know they have no leverage.

6. Women Lose Interest Quickly in Broke Men
No matter how nice or loving you are, if you’re broke, she’s going to lose interest. Women are wired to seek security and stability—if you can’t provide that, you’re done.

7. You Have No Voice Without Resources
In this world, money talks. You can’t make moves, take risks, or have influence if you’re broke.

8. Survival Demands It
There’s no dignity in poverty. You must get money at all costs because your survival, your dignity, and your future depend on it.

Final Warning

Don’t let anyone distract you from your grind. Don’t let relationships, drama, or laziness stop you from getting your money right. Chase the bag, secure your income, and build your empire.

A man without money is a man without options. Make sure you always have options. #motivation #preciousandfamily #Marriage #follower #Relationship

TYPES OF WIVES WE HAVE IN OUR SOCIETIES
1. BOXING WIVES : These are the type of wives that fight with their husbands deliberately just to provoke him to anger. These kind of women are ready to fight with the husband mostly in the public area to create a scene.
2. HEADMASTER WIVES :
These are the wives that are well paid in either their career or business but they disrespect and put their husband down because they have the financial edge over their husbands.
3. POLICE WIFE :
This type is very common. These are the wives that inspect or police their husbands every where they go. When the husband goes to the bathroom they pick up his phone to quickly check his messages.
If the husband makes a call they hide behind the door to listen to every conversation...If the husband goes out they make sure he is followed and has friends that keep an extra eye on the husband activities.
4. DICTIONARY WIFE :
These are the wives that don't listen to the advise of their husband but rather they prefer to listen to their mother or sister or friend.
Whenever their husband says something, they quickly go to verify from either the mother, sister, friend e.t.c like a dictionary to know if she should go ahead with what their husband instructed or not.
5. PARTY WIVES :
They prefer to buy every available handbag and shoe to attend any available party even though her family does not have the financial muscle to entertain such expenses...They are readily available at every party and drinkathon thereby neglecting their children, husband and home..
6. PAMPERED WIVES :
These are also known as daddy's little girl...They call and report their husband to their father at any slight argument or conversation. The rich ones are highly dangerous especially when the husband is working directly for the father..
7. DUSTBIN WIVES ;
The name might sound harsh but they exist...These wives leave the home unkept and dirty and you only see them rushing to clean the house only when they have a visitor at the door...There are several occasions were some husbands get home after a days work only to find the house upside down and dirty.
8. GOD FEARING WIVES :
They are caring and loving. Provides emotional needs and creates extra time for family. Guides home spiritually, Very responsible and treats husband and family with respect.
9. FACEBOOK WIVES :
They are always on the internet, instagram, posting pictures with twisted legs, chatting and even forget to do basic shores because they want to know what is happening on FB.
10. Unappreciated Wives:
These are wives who stay home and take care of everything and everybody but are treated like children. Seen and not heard.. So for the ladies which one are you and for the guys which one do you currently have...Kindly go through so that you can work on yourself if need be.
#everyonehighlights
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HOW YOUR FAMILY SEES YOUR PARTNER DEPENDS ON YOU!

In every relationship, family plays a crucial role in shaping perceptions. This perception may hold for years helping to mould the marriage or shatter it. A man is the determinate factor of how his wife-to-be is seen by his family. If he speaks highly of her, treats her with respect, and positions her well, his family will follow his lead. If he allows negativity, disrespect, or unnecessary interference, they may never truly accept her. Many battles some wives are having with their in-laws started way back during their courtship. He projected her in bad light so they (his family) took it up from there.

Likewise, a woman is the determinate factor of how her husband-to-be is seen by her family. If she honours him in her words and actions, her family will learn to do the same. But if she constantly complains, belittles him, or shares his weaknesses, she gives them reasons to disregard him.

So you hold the brush that will paint your parents' perception of your intended spouse. What picture are you painting? One of love, respect, and partnership? Or one of doubt, conflict, and mistrust? Be intentional about how you present your partner to your family because first impressions often last a lifetime.

If you project him or her to your family as one you hold in high esteem, your family will also do same (if not now later).

No matter what happens, never position yourself as the one instigating your partner against their parents.
Even if their family is difficult, don’t become the source of division. Instead, encourage unity, patience, and wisdom in handling family matters.

You see, nobody loves to be told that their family is bad (or receive a negative report or evaluation) even if they personal know that. Once you vocalize it and your partner is not mature enough to absorb it then you might start hearing statements like "you hate my parents" etc. Any of your actions is judged from the impression of "it's because you don't like my family".

Make yourself a system that helps protect your partner.
Be their shield in the face of misunderstandings. Stand up for them when necessary, but do so with wisdom and diplomacy. Families may not always understand your relationship at first, but consistency and honour will win their trust.

Build a system that protects your partner’s image and projects them as good.
People will see your partner through the lens you provide. If you present them as irresponsible, difficult, or unworthy, that’s exactly how your family will see them. If you highlight their strengths and virtues, your family will learn to appreciate them as you do.

Again, don't speak bad of your own family to your partner.
If you tell your partner that your family is bad, he/she will not regard them as part of her family.
He/she won't have respect for your parents and siblings. There will be no peace and respect among them.

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Speaking to NBC News, US President Donald Trump warned that he will impose secondary tariffs of 25% to 50% on all Russian oil if both countries cannot reach a deal to end the war in Ukraine, and "if I think it was Russia’s fault," Trump said.

“That would be, that if you buy oil from Russia, you can’t do business in the United States,” he explained.

Trump stated that these tariffs could take effect within a month if no ceasefire is reached.

He also expressed anger over Russian President Vladimir Putin’s criticism of Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky’s leadership, NBC News reported, and revealed plans to speak with Putin this week.

Meanwhile, Putin has proposed placing Ukraine under temporary administration to facilitate new elections and the signing of major agreements, potentially sidelining Zelensky.

Despite his frustrations, Trump claimed to maintain a "very good relationship" with Putin, suggesting his anger would subside if Putin "does the right thing".