10 TYPES OF WOMEN A MALE FARMER MUST AVOID
Brutal Truths Every Focused Man Needs in 2025

You don’t need witchcraft to fail — just the wrong woman in your space.
Your farm, peace, and future can be destroyed silently… if you're not discerning.

Here’s the harsh truth no one tells male farmers:

1. The Beauty Without Brains – Fine face, empty mind. Can’t support your vision.
2. The “Soft Life Only” Babe – No hustle. Just vibes and expensive taste.
3. The Forever Victim – She’ll drain your emotions, not water your dreams.
4. The Seductress – Knows your weakness, weaponizes it.
5. The Classy Gold-Digger – She’s not in love — she’s in business.
6. The Spiritually Dead – You’re sowing seeds, she’s sowing confusion.
7. Miss Entitled – Wants queen treatment, won’t lift a finger.
8. The Modern Rebel – Can’t build legacy with someone who hates structure.
9. The Ex You Won’t Delete – If she still controls your heart, your hands can’t build.
10. The Destiny Assassin – Sent to waste your time, money, and mind.

Bro, protect your purpose.
Some women aren’t partners… they’re spiritual potholes.

Think legacy. Think vision. Choose wisely.

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WOMEN ONLY PRAISE YOU WHEN THEY ARE TAKING ADVANTAGE OF YOU
Dear Young Man,

Be careful when Women are praising you in large numbers, just know you are perhaps doing something wrong.

When you start hearing ..

"Awwn, your wife will enjoy you.”
“You’re not like other men, you’re so different.”
“You’re so sensible. So intelligent.”
“You always know the right thing to say.”
“You’re such a gentleman. So nice.”
"You have a heart of Gold"
"You such a darling " and the list goes on.

At this point , you will think you are doing well and your head will be swollen while your shoulders will be up thinking that you have arrived. Big guy. Some guys (efulefu) even go about bragging about this

Listen up! The moment you start prioritizing yourself, caring less, stop being always available, stop spending recklessly on them, the moment you start saying NO to her manipulative tricks. Everything will change. The same mouth that praises you will rain causes on you.

Then you will start hearing
HE is “stingy,
"too proud.”
“You’ve changed, you’re no longer the sweet guy I used to know.”
“I pity the girl that will marry you.”
You will no longer be intelligent.
You will become “idiot with no sense that doesn't know how to take care of a woman”

The same “nice guy” who was once their dream man is now the villain. Don't be a nice guy.

The praises of women are like sweet poison. It tastes nice, but it can kill your purpose if you continue to simp too low to drink it.

Women don’t just love you for who you are, They love what you’re offering. They love the ride, not the rider. They love the Poverty alleviating scheme you have made available not you the provider.

Take away the gifts, the money, the attention, and suddenly, the “love” starts to look more like customer service.

Let your worth not be tied to how many women are clapping for you. Some are clapping because you’re dancing to their tune. Once you stop, they’ll boo you off the stage.

You are the PRIZE ,they won’t teach you that in school. They won’t teach you that in church. Society won’t even allow you believe it. But it’s the truth.

Young Man, Build yourself. Respect yourself. Be kind, yes, but don’t be foolish. Don’t trade your crown for validation.

Her “I love you” will be loudest when your pocket is full and your standards are low.

But when you start walking like a king, talk like a king, and live like a man who knows his worth, They will say: “he’s proud.”

Let them talk.

Get used to their hate.
You’re not here to be liked.

Stay dangerous.

*EAT HEALTHY. STAY IN CONTROL.*

This isn’t just food—it’s warfare on your plate.

Refuse the nonsense.
Rebuke the sugar. Reject the trash.
Sanitize your kitchen like a temple—
Your stomach is a sacred ground.
If it doesn’t serve the purpose,
Throw. It. Out.

No room for junks.
This is the gospel of health.
We don't compromise. We don’t negotiate with poisons.

Maggi? All MSG's?
Out.
All Spice. Natural herbs.
Flavor with purpose, not problems.

Wheat?
NEVER!
Not for a cheat day, not for a birthday, not even on a last supper.
Plantain amala.
Ancestral grain. Real gain.

Soda? That syrupy sin?
Trade it for Zobo—deep, rich, alive.
Not that fizzy death in disguise.

Bread?
Oh ye adults of habit—
Flush it.
Yes, I said it—flush it down the drain.
Your gut deserves better.

Don’t get it twisted.
This isn’t a restriction—it’s elevation.

It’s not lack—it’s selection.

We pick life on purpose, not death by default.

Health is a strategy.

And without discipline? You’re losing the game.

Life and death are in your hands.

Every bite a seed. Every seed a harvest.

Choose life!
Because, what you do daily compounds.

And one day—It cashes out.

God desire that our heart become good grounds,only then will His purpose be fulfilled in our lives. Your heart is a good soil where either God or Satan plants their seed, depending on who you yield yourself to. Remember, every harvest is a multiplied portion of the seed that was sown.

We weren’t allowed to tell them’: Worker quits job at bank. Then she reveals how you’re probably using Apple Cash in a way that could get you banned for life

A former bank worker reveals how some common Apple Cash habits can actually get you banned for life.

Dom (@damnndomm) posted a TikTok video with her advice on April 8. While comments on the video are disabled, it amassed 265,000 views before seemingly being deleted. “Things that you’re doing with Apple Cash that’s gonna bite you in the ssa,” she wrote in an on-screen caption.

“I used to work for the bank that processes your Apple Cash transactions, and I just feel like there’s some things now that I don’t work there that you guys should know,” she began. “Because a lot of people didn’t know these things, and we weren’t allowed to tell them either.”

What should you stop doing with Apple Cash?
Using fake names: Dom said that after you’ve received or sent $500, it will verify your identity. If your name isn’t correct, you can’t get verified and may even get restricted.
Adding your partner’s debit card to your Apple Pay when your name isn’t on the account: Dom said that can result in your account being flagged for fraud and restricted.
Setting up accounts with a fake birth date if you’re a minor: Dom said Apple Cash is only for legal adults. Minors can only have an account if their parents set it up for them via the Apple Cash Family feature. “You’re not bypassing. You’re not tricking anybody,” she added.
Using it for business purposes: Dom said Apple Cash is intended to be a person-to-person payment service. It is not intended for business owners to use to conduct sales.
Sending money to people you don’t know: Dom said many users would unknowingly send money to scammers, and the bank would not allow them to dispute the transaction because they willingly sent the money. She added that the only way the bank would accept the dispute was if you purchased something from the business and it agreed to issue you a credit, but never did.

How will Apple know you’re doing these things?

Apple Cash is Apple’s Venmo and PayPal competitor, which is serviced by Green Dot Bank. Late last year, the company announced it would start verifying the identities of anyone who sends out more than $500. Importantly, this applies not only to future transactions but also to funds you’ve already sent.

This change came along with the new Tap to Cash feature, which allows you to transfer funds to another person by holding your iPhone or Apple Watch up to theirs.

According to the terms of service, you must be 18 years or older and a legal resident of the United States to use Apple Cash. It stands to reason that Apple and Green Dot Bank would need to know your real name in order to confirm these details.

Dom said in her video that most people don’t realize Apple has processes to determine whether people are following its rules.

Apple encourages Apple Cash account holders to confirm their identities as soon as possible. That’s because the money you keep in it isn’t eligible for FDIC insurance if you don’t, and that’s what protects your money in the case a bank or financial institution holding it goes bust.


Of course, Apple is able to suspend or terminate your use of the service for pretty much any reason. That list includes security reasons, suspected fraud, and unauthorized use.

Giant Tomato Tree in China Yields 3,000 KG Annually from a Single Plant | Earth Day 2025 Observation

A towering tomato plant showcased at the Vegetable Expo in Shouguang, Shandong, has become a focal point of public and media interest due to its impressive size and production capacity on Apr 20th 2025. According to the OceanWetlands’ latest report, this plant, often referred to as a “tomato tree,” stands over two meters tall and covers a canopy area of approximately 150 square meters. According to expo organizers, this single plant is capable of yielding up to 6,000 jin (around 3,000 kilograms) of tomatoes annually.
Despite its extraordinary appearance, the tomato tree was cultivated from regular tomato seeds. The transformation into a tree-like structure was achieved through advanced agricultural techniques, including pruning, nutrient regulation, and environmental control. These methods stimulate continuous growth, resulting in a large and long-living plant structure.

Expo staff emphasized that the tomatoes produced by this plant are similar in taste and quality to standard tomatoes. However, due to the plant’s high space and maintenance demands, the cultivation model is currently limited to exhibition and research purposes. The structure requires significant vertical and horizontal space, as well as controlled conditions that are not easily replicable on regular farms.

For now, the tomato tree is not considered viable for commercial-scale farming. Agricultural experts note that while a typical farmer can afford minor losses in conventional tomato cultivation, the high input costs and space requirements of a single tomato tree mean that any failure could result in substantial financial loss. As a result, this model is primarily adopted in agricultural parks and controlled environments rather than in widespread farming practice.

Interestingly, this type of cultivation is not entirely new. Reports from previous years indicate that similar tomato trees in the region have been in development since at least 2018. One such plant was recognized by the Shanghai Great World Guinness Records for its high yield from a single vine.

Tomatoes, also known as fanqie in Chinese, originated in the Andes region of South America as small, sour wild fruits. Brought to Europe by Spanish colonizers in the 16th century, they were initially grown as ornamental plants due to their vibrant color. It wasn’t until the 18th century that Italians began using tomatoes in cooking, sparking their culinary popularity across Europe. Introduced to China during the Ming Dynasty, tomatoes were first seen as decorative, but gradually became a staple ingredient. Today, valued for their rich nutrition and sweet-tart flavor, tomatoes are one of the most widely cultivated and consumed fruits worldwide.

China’s agriculture is undergoing a crucial phase of modernization. The focus is shifting from food quantity to quality, sustainability, and efficiency. Innovative cultivation methods—like the high-yield, space-saving tomato tree—reflect this change. Such techniques not only boost productivity and reduce labor but also support industrial growth and rural revitalization. Though not yet mainstream, the tomato tree exemplifies how agricultural science is exploring new frontiers, offering fresh possibilities for the future of farming.

The world sells distractions at the cost of your lifes' purpose;the wise don't shop in this market.

Common Mistakes People Make When Choosing a Life Partner

DESPERATION– Some people rush into marriage without learning enough about it.

They think, “I’ll figure it out along the way,” but this mindset leads to regret.

The right knowledge helps you prepare, notice warning signs early, and make better choices.

TRYING TO PROVE A POINT– Some get married just to show others they can. They don’t want people saying, “With all your beauty and money, you’re still single?”

But in the end, when problems come, they realize no one really cared that much and they have to face the consequences of their choices and decisions all alone

PEER PRESSURE – Seeing friends get married makes some feel left out.

So, they rush to pick anyone just to fit in, without thinking long-term.

FEAR OF TIME PASSING – Some believe they are getting too old and must marry quickly, even if the person doesn’t match their values and purpose in life.

They forget that everyone’s journey(time) is different, and rushing can lead to regret.

MARRYING FOR MONEY OR STATUS– Some choose a partner just for wealth or social position, ignoring their bad character.

Later, they realize that money is useless when there is no peace and they have no say in the marriage.

BLINDLY FOLLOWING RECOMMENDATIONS– Some marry people recommended by parents, pastors, or others without checking if they are truly compatible.

But what others see as “good” may not be right for you. Good intentions doesn’t equate compatibility.

Marriage is a lifelong journey. Don't rush into it for the wrong reasons.

Take your time, learn, and choose wisely.

*7 Destinies Destr0yers to Avoid*

As a young man, it's essential to be aware of the pitfalls that can hinder your success. Here are seven key areas to focus on:

1. *Gambling*: Avoid gambling at all costs. The addiction can wreck lives and destroy destinies. Stay away from anything that might lead to gambling.

2. *Womanizing*: Fornication is costly and can lead to financial ruin. Focus on building meaningful relationships rather than chasing fleeting pleasures.

3. *Alcoholism*: Drink responsibly and maintain self-control. Excessive drinking can lead to financial waste and neglect of responsibilities.

4. *Drugs and Smoking*: Never succumb to drug addiction or smoking. These habits can lead to mental instability, health issues, and financial ruin.

5. *Laziness*: Hard work and diligence are essential for success. Avoid procrastination and stay active.

6. *Indiscipline*: Live with discipline and purpose. Establish routines and stick to them, prioritizing attitudes and character that promote positive change.

7. *Time Mismanagement*: Value your time and invest it wisely. Prioritize activities that add value to your life and watch your life change for the better.

By avoiding these destinies destroyers, you'll be well on your way to achieving your goals and living a purposeful life.

Thanks for reading.

Who you marry shapes your future more than when you marry. The right partner brings peace, purpose, and support, making every season of life meaningful.

Rushing into marriage for the sake of timing can lead to regrets, but choosing wisely, regardless of age, builds a foundation for lasting joy. It’s not about the clock; it’s about the character.

- Dakore Akande

When you have a clear purpose in life nature most times work against you not to succeed.

Obi Cubana when he was living below a dollar per day with his first son.......You Gold Digger, continue waiting for men to get rich before you can take them serious.. You think you are smart?You can sense when a man has urgent 2k to give you but can't sense where his destiny,vision and purpose can drive him in the next one decade?Continue waiting for already made Man!Smart girl indeed!