𝗗𝗼 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗻𝗲𝗴𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻

When God has given you a word of prophecy about your life, He takes you through a season of preparation to empower you so that the prophetic word comes to pass.

Gold has to go through a purification (refining) process so that it becomes pure gold, free from impurities.

God prepares you so that any character in you that is inconsistent with His nature would die. For example, pride, anger, envy, jealousy, and lust would die, allowing you to fully express the character of God, which is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

The process of preparation is characterized by waiting on God, spending time studying the word of God, praying, and experiencing pain.

The process of preparation is not an easy one, but it's worth it.

Child of God, don't neglect your season of preparation. Don't give up, stay focused on what God is doing in your life.

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Welcome to April

As you step into this new month, let each day be a reminder to reflect on your actions and align your life with your core values. Embrace every challenge as an opportunity to grow in wisdom and strength. May you learn from past mistakes, cultivate compassion, and nurture the discipline needed to forge a path of integrity. Let self-awareness and honest introspection guide your decisions, transforming every setback into a stepping stone toward a better you.

In the spirit of progress and renewal, may this month be a call to commit to your personal journey of improvement. Seek out the lessons in every experience, and allow patience and perseverance to shape your actions. Let your heart remain open to change and your mind receptive to growth, knowing that each day offers a new chance to honor your true self and to uplift those around you.
Happy New Month

Who's The most Difficult Mother-in-Law to defeat in movie, if you came from a poor home in nollywood movie

Clarion Chukwurah
Eucharia Anunobi
Tina Mba
Shafy Bello
Patience Ozokwor
Ngozi Ezeonu
Sola Sobowale
Ireti doyle

HOW YOUR FAMILY SEES YOUR PARTNER DEPENDS ON YOU!

In every relationship, family plays a crucial role in shaping perceptions. This perception may hold for years helping to mould the marriage or shatter it. A man is the determinate factor of how his wife-to-be is seen by his family. If he speaks highly of her, treats her with respect, and positions her well, his family will follow his lead. If he allows negativity, disrespect, or unnecessary interference, they may never truly accept her. Many battles some wives are having with their in-laws started way back during their courtship. He projected her in bad light so they (his family) took it up from there.

Likewise, a woman is the determinate factor of how her husband-to-be is seen by her family. If she honours him in her words and actions, her family will learn to do the same. But if she constantly complains, belittles him, or shares his weaknesses, she gives them reasons to disregard him.

So you hold the brush that will paint your parents' perception of your intended spouse. What picture are you painting? One of love, respect, and partnership? Or one of doubt, conflict, and mistrust? Be intentional about how you present your partner to your family because first impressions often last a lifetime.

If you project him or her to your family as one you hold in high esteem, your family will also do same (if not now later).

No matter what happens, never position yourself as the one instigating your partner against their parents.
Even if their family is difficult, don’t become the source of division. Instead, encourage unity, patience, and wisdom in handling family matters.

You see, nobody loves to be told that their family is bad (or receive a negative report or evaluation) even if they personal know that. Once you vocalize it and your partner is not mature enough to absorb it then you might start hearing statements like "you hate my parents" etc. Any of your actions is judged from the impression of "it's because you don't like my family".

Make yourself a system that helps protect your partner.
Be their shield in the face of misunderstandings. Stand up for them when necessary, but do so with wisdom and diplomacy. Families may not always understand your relationship at first, but consistency and honour will win their trust.

Build a system that protects your partner’s image and projects them as good.
People will see your partner through the lens you provide. If you present them as irresponsible, difficult, or unworthy, that’s exactly how your family will see them. If you highlight their strengths and virtues, your family will learn to appreciate them as you do.

Again, don't speak bad of your own family to your partner.
If you tell your partner that your family is bad, he/she will not regard them as part of her family.
He/she won't have respect for your parents and siblings. There will be no peace and respect among them.

Morning Motivation

Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.
- Winston Churchill

Life is a journey filled with highs and lows, victories and setbacks. But true success is not measured by never failing—it’s about having the courage to rise again every time you fall. Keep pushing, keep believing, and keep moving forward!

Every great achiever has faced obstacles, moments of doubt, and even failure. But what sets them apart is their resilience—the unwavering determination to stand up, learn from their mistakes, and keep striving for greatness. The road to success is never a straight path; it’s a winding journey that tests your strength, patience, and faith. So, no matter where you are today, trust that every challenge is shaping you for something greater.

Happy weekend Fam

STORY SERIES - Growing Together

Aisha and Kunle came from two different worlds—she was raised in a disciplined academic household, where structure and knowledge were everything, while he grew up in the bustling streets of Lagos, learning the art of mechanics from his late father. They met by chance, two souls from different paths drawn to each other in a way neither could fully explain.

Their love wasn’t a fairy tale—it was raw, real, and at times, frustrating. They disagreed often. Aisha was a deep thinker, always lost in books, while Kunle found joy in working with his hands, fixing engines, and finding practical solutions to life’s problems. He loved the noise and energy of the streets, while she craved the stillness of quiet evenings.

At first, their differences felt like obstacles. Aisha couldn’t understand Kunle’s fascination with machines, and Kunle didn’t see why Aisha would spend hours reading instead of engaging with the world. Their arguments were frequent, but so were their efforts to understand each other.

One evening, Aisha walked into Kunle’s workshop, the scent of grease and metal filling the air. She watched him work, the way his hands moved with precision, the passion in his eyes as he explained how an engine comes to life. She listened, truly listened, and for the first time, she saw beauty in his craft.

Kunle, in turn, picked up a book Aisha loved and struggled through its pages. He didn't always understand the deep metaphors she adored, but he wanted to see the world through her eyes.

Through patience and compromise, they found balance. Aisha learned to enjoy an occasional night out with Kunle’s friends, and he, in turn, learned the peace that came from a quiet evening under the stars. They didn’t try to change each other but instead chose to evolve together.

On their fifth anniversary, as they sat under the old mango tree in their village, watching the sunset paint the sky in warm hues, Aisha leaned her head on Kunle’s shoulder and smiled. “Love isn’t about being perfect,” she whispered. “It’s about choosing to grow together.”

Kunle squeezed her hand and, with a soft chuckle, replied, “And I’ll keep growing with you, always.”

Moral Lesson:

Love isn’t about finding someone perfect; it’s about choosing to grow, compromise, and evolve with each other despite differences. True love isn’t without challenges, but it flourishes when both partners are willing to learn, adjust, and support each other’s journey.

IF YOU DON'T FEEL IT, IT ISN'T LOVE

Real love isn’t just about saying “I love you”; it’s about proving it through consistent actions. It’s found in the little, everyday gestures-checking in to see how your partner is doing, offering support without being asked, remembering the small details that matter most. It’s in the effort to understand, in the willingness to listen, and in the patience to stand by someone even when times get tough.

True love doesn’t waver when faced with challenges; instead, it deepens, showing its strength through commitment and unwavering presence. Words can be spoken without meaning, but actions never lie. Love is in the way someone prioritizes you, the sacrifices they make, and the effort they put into making you feel valued.

Love isn’t just a feeling-it’s a choice, made every day, to show up, to care, and to stay.

"Trust the process. God’s timing is always perfect. #DivineTiming #PatiencePaysOff"

"Trust the process. God’s timing is always perfect. #DivineTiming #PatiencePaysOff"

"Trust the process. God’s timing is always perfect. #DivineTiming #PatiencePaysOff"

"Trust the process. God’s timing is always perfect. #DivineTiming #PatiencePaysOff"