IMPOSIKANT, WOMAN FEED YOU FOR ONE..NO COMPLAIN?I LAUGH IN LATIN

Let's have this debate for the day
Can a woman feed the house without any complains

Let's have this debate for the day
Can a woman feed the house without any complains

*WORDS OF ELDERS*

1. “Beware of the naked person who offers you clothes!

2. “When one’s goat get missing, the aroma of a neighbor’s soup get suspicious”.

3. “The future belongs to the Risk takers, Not the Comfort seekers!"

4. “A deaf husband and a blind wife are always a happy couple!"

5. “The first person you think of in the morning, or last person you think of at night, is either the cause of your happiness or your pain!"

6. “Be careful who you trust! Salt and Sugar are both white!"

7. “Kindness is like butter, it works best when you spread it around!"

8. “The walls don’t only have ears, they now see!"

9. “Sometimes, you have to play the role of a fool to fool the fools who think they are fooling you!"

10. “If you have a mom, there is nowhere you are likely to go where a prayer has not already been!"

11. “A harsh man tells a woman to stop talking, but a wise man tells her that her mouth is extremely beautiful, when her lips are closed!"

12. “No matter how long the night, the day is sure to come!"

13. “A woman’s greatest perfume is the fragrance of her man’s success!"

14. “A wise person knows that there is something to be learned from everyone!"

15. “It requires wisdom to understand wisdom.

16. The music is nothing, if the audience is deaf”!

17. “None of us is as smart as all of us. Work together to achieve!!

18. If you cannot be a bridge to connect people, then do not be a wall to separate them.

19. If you cannot be a light to brighten people's good deeds then do not be darkness covering their efforts.

20. If you cannot be water to help people's crops sprout, then do not be a pest destroying their crops.

21. If you cannot be a vaccine to give life, do not be a virus to terminate it.

22. If you cannot be a pencil to write anyone's happiness, then try to be a nice eraser to remove their sadness.

23. We can always be each others keeper

Let us resolve to heal the world by making it a better place. God bless you richly today.

Good morning my people.

Happy Sunday and do have a lovely new week.

Godbless you all🙏🏿

I find this video very interesting and catching. Pls watch and listen. The place of MAN is LOVE and for WOMAN is RESPECT and HONOR so in return she get all the LOVE she wants.

After he come back from hospital, he can never look at a woman again

Nothing brings a woman into her soft girl era faster than a man who leads, loves and listens.

25 SURE SIGNS YOU ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE


Marriage is not for boys and girls. It’s for adults—emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and financially. Many people walk into marriage unprepared and end up walking out confused. So before you say “I do,” here are 25 signs that you are truly ready for a lifelong commitment:

1. You are emotionally stable.
You're not ruled by anger, lust, jealousy, or insecurity. You know how to express emotions in healthy ways.

2. You’ve dropped d€structive habits.
You no longer struggle with addictions, irresponsibility, or patterns that could damage your future home.

3. You have a strong spiritual foundation.
You can hear God's voice, discern His will, and walk in obedience.

4. You are mature in age and mindset.
Ladies, you’re at least 23. Men, you’re at least 25. Not just biologically grown but mentally mature.

5. You are financially responsible.
You have a job, a business, or steady income that can sustain you and a family.

6. You live independently.
As a man, you don’t live off your parents. You pay your own bills and live in your own space.

7. You know how to care for others.
As a woman, you can manage yourself and others with joy—not with stress or complaints.

8. You love children.
You don’t just tolerate kids; you look forward to nurturing the next generation.

9. You’re domestically skilled.
Cooking, cleaning, and organizing are not strange to you—they’re part of your daily life.

10. You can thrive far from your family.
You're not emotionally dependent on mummy and daddy to function or make decisions.

11. You take full responsibility for your life.
You own your choices and can deal with the consequences maturely.

12. You are not controlled by your parents.
You honor them, but your life isn't dictated by their preferences.

13. You don’t yield to peer pressure.
You do what's right, even when it's unpopular.

14. You’re $exually disciplined.
You can say NO to premarital $ex—not because you’re forced, but because you value purity.

15. You honor authority.
Ladies, you're respectful and submissive—not just to a man, but to God and legitimate authority.

16. You respect women.
Men, you love your mother, honor your sisters, and treat every woman with dignity.

17. You understand money.
You know how to earn, save, invest, and manage finances without being reckless.

18. You are generous and kind.
You give with joy—not grudgingly. You're not stingy with your time, love, or money.

19. You are faithful.
You're not dating two or three people “just in case.” You're loyal and intentional.

20. You are purpose-driven.
You know what God has called you to do, and you’re taking steps daily to get there.

21. You desire to build others.
You're not just looking for someone to make you happy—you want to help your spouse fulfill destiny.

22. You have control over your $ex drive.
Your body doesn't control you—you control your body.

23. You have healed from past relationships.
You’re not bitter, wounded, or suspicious. You’ve forgiven, grown, and moved forward.

24. You’re willing to learn and grow.
You’re teachable, open to correction, and you seek wise counsel.

25. You understand that marriage is ministry.
You see marriage as a place to serve, grow, and honor God—not just to be loved or have sex.

Marriage is not an emergency. It’s a journey that requires maturity—physical, emotional, spiritual, financial, and psychological. Don’t rush into it because of pressure, age, or loneliness.

Wait until you’re ready. You’ll thank yourself later.

May God grant you the wisdom to prepare and the grace to build a godly home when the time comes.

Share this with a single friend who’s serious about preparing for a purposeful marriage

THE SCIENCE OF SIGNS

Semiotics is the study of signs. A sign comprises two components: the signifier is the denotative level, and the signified is the connotation. A sign can be an icon, symbol or index. An icon is physically similar to the object or what it stands for; its literal sense refers to the signifier, e.g. a photo of a tree or the letters that spell tree, while its connotative sign pertains to its meaning. A symbol pattern refers to an interpretive habit or a norm of a learned behaviour like a play or pause button. In contrast, an index correlates with sensory information, e.g., fire smoke or car skidding noise. Language serves as a sign that we can read ‘Lamborghini’, and it can evoke similar images in our mind by spelling the word.’ We all recognize that it denotes a car. However, the sign consists of letters of the alphabet, and its connotative level conveys a deeper meaning, e.g., wealth and status, exclusivity and prestige. On the level of associated myths, which is a secondary sign, it is a myth of success and freedom. Its cultural sign is tied to broader ideologies of wealth, individuality, and power. It serves as both a functional object and a social statement.

An English rose is a flower; however, a red rose can symbolise love, romance, and beauty. It is used in romantic settings, while yellow roses may have a different meaning and could be more appropriate in a friendship context. A sign is always interpreted in context. For example, if Warren Buffet were speaking about money, his context would generate a completely different vibe than that of a corrupt prosperity preacher. They are using the same dollar note, yet the meanings generated reflect two different attitudes, even though the money possesses no inherent meaning—it's merely paper representing currency. Its connotative meaning is always interpreted differently, depending on who we are, as we see life through our worldview. Someone who believes in the stories of a prosperity preacher will form a different image in the meaning-making mind compared to one who sees through his antics. We create the meaning.

The ocean can be a place of rest where people enjoy a leisurely swim, while for others, it may provoke fear if they have recently encountered a shark. So, even though it’s the same location, the interpretations of reality or the signified meaning can have different connotations. Consider the word marriage; in most people's minds, it represents a union between a male and a female, but in other cultures, marriage may encompass multiple wives. According to the Bible, marriage is only between two people. Same-sex marriage has been normalised in many cultures, while gender-based violence can be accepted in some, leading to a belief that it is acceptable for women to be abused in a cultural context.

Nowadays, due to the globalised internet, we must ensure we share a common conceptual map of the world when discussing various concepts. This way, when we interpret signs that represent concepts, we need a thorough analysis of what we mean to minimise the chances of misinterpretation. We should never assume that everyone will derive the same conative meaning from a sign. We might discover that individuals have attached different connotations. We must not assume that someone from a completely different nation will share that same value just because something is socially acceptable or unacceptable to us.

We don't simply knock on a stranger’s door expecting a warm welcome; it requires a level of trust and background knowledge. For that access, the people we trust are vital; that’s why we have boundaries. Yet, because we all begin reasoning from different social locations, cultures, and economic, scientific, technological, religious, and philosophical backgrounds, we will not share the same premises from which we make our decisions. No one has the same experiences. The fact that you grew up on a different street with a unique life experience already illustrates the law of difference. Even if you lived next door and were raised by Indian parents in a foreign land, it means you will experience life differently and interpret signs in a distinct way. It cannot be compared to your neighbour’s experiences.

Although we may share a conceptual understanding of the economic and political system socialisation has imparted similar lessons due to our common culture. It functions like a membrane, working collectively within the groups from which we originate. However, just as there are molecular cells and membranes, they represent different components of the whole, yet they unite in agreement to operate as one cell. That is akin to culture. It emerges through the socialisation of various systems: family, shared economy, shared education, shared politics, create common values. Consequently, we are more likely to interpret signs in a similar way. For instance, if another culture were to perceive the connotative meaning of a national flag, it would lack relativity to them; instead, it simply symbolizes a nation through its colours and symbols that represent something significant.

Thus, we must consider this when using language. Although it may be understood in English, it doesn't necessarily mean that the connotative level of the sign holds the same significance. Since our minds work so quickly in processing information, we rarely pause to dissect it and reach a deeper understanding of different perspectives, as this is part of the logic of viewpoint we gain from various places. It's fascinating to analyse thought processes to truly grasp why someone’s perspective matters. All too often, we dismiss people because their standpoint differs so much, yet we should take the time to comprehend the logic behind their thinking, as it originates from where they have gathered their information.

Something profound I've observed is that when someone speaks with authority, even if their words are full of deception, others may not be thorough enough to grasp all the nuances in the speech act. They fail to detect falsehoods because the speaker sounds so convincing, especially if they are a respected authority figure. Thus, at the level of the sign, the denotative meaning is shared, but the connotative meaning is interpreted differently. That’s why we must consider who is interpreting the sign and what the context is to reach deeper understandings. It’s essential to question all thinking, including my own. It doesn’t matter who the person is; we are all prone to human error. The only one who is perfect is God. We can make mistakes without even realising it. If we look around at all the deception in this world, every person who is convinced of that deception as the truth is real in their mind. You can see this in people who live in superstition, such as walking under a ladder. This is the second level of myth, where a new connotative meaning tells another story. While we know, hypothetically, that it is not the truth, some will not agree because that is how they perceive the world when they see someone walk under a ladder and believe it.

Currently, I have been listening to a man who has tremendous insight, claiming up to 90% truth. Yet, he has categorised Christianity alongside other religions and views Jesus merely as a mystic. However, he has misunderstood the meanings he preaches and acts as if he knows the Bible. Yet, his interpretation is so erroneous it's not funny, and he has millions who follow him. It is because he has not encountered the kingdom. I could explain all his teachings if he had the right source of knowledge, which starts with God. But if the wrong connotative meaning is inferred, it leads down the wrong path. Therefore, the study of the science of signs is vital in these last days.

Marry a man who wants to be a husband....
not just a man who wants to have a wife.
There’s a big difference.
A man who wants a wife often loves the idea of marriage, the image, the comfort, the convenience.
He wants the warm meals, the folded laundry, the steady emotional support.
He wants a woman who holds it all together but doesn’t always consider the weight she carries.
But a man who wants to be a husband?
He moves differently.
He doesn't just want commitment, he respects it.
He doesn’t treat loyalty like a favour, it’s who he is, even when no one’s watching.
He wants to build with you. Grow with you. Protect the peace you bring into his life.
He communicates clearly.
He listens with patience.
He shows up, especially when it’s not easy.
He doesn’t just want the title. He wants the work, the responsibility, the devotion.
Because real husbands know that love is a verb.
It’s in the small things, the effort, the apologies, the shared responsibilities.
It’s in how he holds space for your emotions. How he covers you spiritually, mentally, and physically.
How he doesn’t run when things get hard and doesn’t go silent when you need him to speak up.
A man who wants to be a husband doesn’t chase convenience.
He chooses consistency.
So don’t settle for someone who just wants you around because of what you give.
Wait for the man who values you enough to grow into who he needs to be, for himself, for you, and for your future together.
Because when you marry someone who truly wants to be a husband,
He won’t just love you.
He will honor you.
Every single day.
~Tanvir Sourov