PASTORS' WIVES With the rate at which Pastors and their wives are filing for divorce, I think we need to do something fast or else, the church may soon be filled with divorced Pastors and congregations. If the Pastor can get a divorce, why can't the members? I spoke recently to an estranged Pastor's wife and her complain like the complain of other unhappily married Pastors' wives is that her husband had many "strange" women around him and when she complained, he saw her as jealous. He eventually sent her packing with her children and filed for divorce. Case closed. I'm not here to judge anybody. It is hell going through divorce and no one needs any preaching or correction during this period. I will use this medium to advise single ladies dating Pastors, buckle your belt. It is not enough to be seen as the First Lady in the church. You will be seen as a spiritual mother who should "accommodate" all the "sisters" flocking around your husband. Your husband will attract women. If he doesn't go after them, they will go after him, it is natural. Women are attracted to great father figures who treat them with care and listen to their pains and hurts with tender love. Some of these women may bond with him and want more of him, that is REALITY. The earlier you prepare your self, the lots of headache you will save yourself in future. Now, this is where your work comes in: PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND DAILY: You will do well to have Stormie Omartian's THE POWER OF A PRAYING WIFE in your library. LOOK DROP-D€AD GORGEOUS: Dress fabulous to church with your husband. Let your husband easily pick you out from the crowd of women that flocks him. Always dress to his taste. DRESS YOUR CHARACTER: Be mature, loving, accommodating and decorate his home with peace of mind. Nagging, complaining and red hot temper can drive any man mad. BE A CHICK AT HOME. Alright, you are no longer in church, so remove that scarf, wear something kinky and be super delicious. Use your feminine power and be seductive. Men who hang around ladies who send them signals all the time need a seductive wife at home. You've got to display all your assets conspicuously and let him know he's got the best deal at home. GIVE HIM $€X BEFORE HE STEPS OUT OF THE HOUSE: Drain him. A $€xually hungry man's eyes wander around and he is restless around women. Do not push your husband into temptation. If there are people who need more $€x on daily basis, they are the pastors. Satisfy him $€xually and be super hot in bed. Abeg, this is not church. This is the bedroom where the man needs to go to heaven and come back as often as possible. Let him wish he carries his bedroom to his office. When a man is thoroughly satisfied sexually, he feels nothing for other females out there. BE HIS FRIEND: listen to him, play with him, date him, flirt with him, encourage him, support him and always be there for him. LET HIM BE THE MAN: Some pastors' wives are proud and pompous. They dictate to everyone around and you wonder whether they are the General Overseer or the husband. Let the husband take the lead while you offer suggestions, encourage and assist. MAKE HIS HOME A PALACE: Keep it clean, make it comely and allow peace to reign. When a man has a loving wife, a peaceful home and the power of God backing him up, who is the woman that will snatch him? Singles, this is a tall order. Marrying a Pastor is not a joke, it is serious business. You either prepare to be a great wife and do more than an average wife, or let him go in peace and marry someone you are comfortable with. The ball is in your court... Thanks for reading. God bless you.

According to your birthday month 🎂 which personality do you have 💕? 1. January: romantic ❤‍🩹 2. February: Emotional 🥹 3. March : Genius 😉 4. April: loving 🙈 5. May : Attraction 🌼 6. June : Respectful 🌷 7. July: Funny 😁 8. August: cute 🥰 9. September: Dangerous ❤️‍🔥 10. October: Intelligent 😲 11. November: Brave 🫡 12. December: Calm 😄

*The Joy of Bathing Together Every Night with your spouse* Taking a bath with your spouse every night can truly transform your evenings and your relationship. 🥰 It offers a unique opportunity to unwind and de-stress after a long day, letting the warm water melt away any tension you might be holding. 🛀 This shared ritual creates a peaceful haven where you can talk openly and connect deeply without the usual distractions of daily life. 🗣️ Imagine discussing your day, sharing your thoughts, and simply being present with each other, fostering a profound sense of intimacy and closeness. 🤗 It's more than just a wash; it's a dedicated moment for nurturing your bond, reinforcing that you're a team. 💖 Beyond emotional connection, the physical act of bathing together can be incredibly therapeutic, helping both of you to relax muscles and soothe your minds. 😌 This leads to better sleep quality, as you'll both drift off feeling refreshed and content. 😴 Establishing this nightly routine adds a special, cherished element to your evenings, something you both look forward to. ✨ It's a subtle yet powerful way to inject consistent romance and tender moments into your busy lives, creating a routine that's uniquely yours. 💕 This shared experience fosters a sense of unity and shared well-being, making you feel more connected and understood. 😊 It’s about building a stronger, more loving partnership, one warm, shared bath at a time. So, why not embrace this simple yet profound way to enhance your connection and enjoy each other's company more fully? 🤔 It’s a small change that can lead to big improvements in your relationship.

DO NOT DIÊ IN SILENCÈ, DO IT YOURSÈLF. 1. TYPHÖID FÈVER (1) Take Alabukun with lime water, squeeze ugu vegetable into a glass cup with two local eggs, half tin milk and two spoons of natural honey mix together and drink it. Three times a day after meal. 2. TYPHÓID FÈVER (2) Ten lime oranges (H20) mixed with garlic and three teaspoons of original honey should be used morning & night after meal. 3. TYPHÓID FÈVER (3) Get unripe pawpaw, unripe pineapple, ginger, lime orange, sugarcane and Lipton tea 2sachet.Cut everything into Pieces and boil them with fermented corn water(omidun) for one hour+. Take one glass cup 3 times daily for one week with original honey mix together. 4. ENÈZEMA/RINĠ WÒRM Mix some native soap with grounded potash, add lime orange to it and apply the mixture on the spot after bathe. 5. HYNÈA Get some leavesof casia alata, boil with water and drink one glass cup daily. 6. INTÈRNAL HEAŤ Get some quantity of dry pawpaw and cashew leaves. Boil with water and drink 1 cup 2 times daily. 7. NÀTURAL FÀMILY PLÂNING Get some root of cashew tree, boil and add original honey to it. Take one cup per day after monthly period for one week before making love. 8. JÁUNDICE PAIN Get the water of unripe pineapple, three lime oranges, and three ijagaun orange, mix them together. Four spoons 3 times a day after meal. 9. ANÚS PULLINĠ ÓUT (1) Tetracycline (6) mixes with original honey 2 spoons. Rub the anus with the solution when it pulls out. 10. ÚLCEŘ (1) Use three spoons of original honey with pap early in the morning before meal for 6 days. 11. ULCEŘ (2) Squeeze either pineapple or pawpaw seed to produce water and filter it. Mix the solution with tin milk and drink it for seven days. 12. ÚLCER (3) Get 8 unripe plantains, peel them and cut them into pieces and pound them to paste. Pack everything into a container (1 five litters gallon), fill the gallon with drinkable water add little honey. Allow to ferment for 3-5days and take one cup 2 times a day. 13. TÓO MUCH FAT (OBÈSITY) Peel the back of maize, lime orange and cook them with water. One tumbler 3 times daily. 14. ENGSLÈEPLESS NIGHŤ(1) Undiluted honey, aloe Vera juice mixed together, take two or 3 spoons every day. 15. SLEÈPLESS NIGHȚ (2) Add(2) 3 spoons of honey into glass cup of milk(low in cholesterol).Take all as soon as you are ready to go to bed. 16. WEÀKNESS OF THE BØDY Cut aloe Vera into cup, put water for 5 minutes and drink the liquid. 17. THROÁT PROBLEM A handful of Abeere seed, grind it well and mix it with honey (half coke bottle).One spoon every hour. 18. CIRCUMCISIOÑ/SCAŘ ON NEŴ BÓRN BÀBY MANHOOD Mix groundnut oil and goya oil, original honey ¼ coke bottle, use it to rub it with cotton wool.2 times a day. 19. DIÁBETES Bitter leaf, scent leaf, squeeze them, add little potash, grind 3 bulb of onion garlic and mix it with the solution above. Also squeeze dongoyaro leaf with the solution. Adult: 3 spoons 3 times a day; children 1 spoon 3 times a day. 20 AŠTHMÁ Take the fluid of the snail and mix it with the original honey till it becomes light 3 spoons 3 times a day. 21.TEÈTHING PRÒBLEM(1) Some alum, some potash, a spoon of salt, native pepper. Grind them together put small of it to the affected teeth and wash your mouth with lime water after 5 minutes. 22. TÈETHING PRÒBLEM (2) Get a mixture of lime orange juice and honey (equal quantity) 1 teaspoon 3 times daily. 23. HEÁRINĠ PROBLĖM Drop Bintu Perfume inside the ear and cover it with cotton wool. (IT’S ABOMINATION FOR TWINS). 24. WEAKNÈSS OF MÁNHÖOD Cook 21 pieces of onion and squeeze the juice into a container.One spoon 3 times every day. 25. WEAĶ ERÈCTION Get plenty of white onion, grind and extract the juice, mix with equal quantity of honey. Take 2 spoons of it three times daily. 26. HYPÈRTENSION Take two spoons of original honey before eating (morning & night). 27.SEVERE HEADACHE Squeeze scent leaves and rub the juice on your forehead every day. 28. SÈVERE COÚGH (1) Grind some bitter cola (10) and mix it with original honey. Adult: 3 spoons, children: 1 spoon 3 times a day. 29. SÈVERE COÚGH (2) ¼ honey, lime water, ¼ palm oil, mix together. A glass cup 3 times a day (adult) two spoons 3 times a day (children). 30. FRÈQUENT STOÒLING OR DYSÈNTRY Take a glass cup of your early morning urine. 31. PIŁÈ Take one spoon of original honey. After an hour squeeze scent leaf and bitter leaf with lime water and filter it. 3 spoons three times a day. 32. SWÒLLEN LEG IN PRÈGNANCY Boil corn silk with water and honey. A glass cup a day. 33. MÈASLES Grind bitter leaf and mix it with either honey or gin. Drink it and rub body with it. 34. MENSTRUÁL PÀIN Get Oriji herbs, wash it and cut it into pieces. Soak it with water. Drink it for 3 days before your menstruation. 35. MENSTRUATIÒN PRÒBLEM Get 3 wonderful cola, ginger and garlic, cut them into pieces. Get 1 bottle of lime orange juice. Pour the three substances into the bottle of lime and add small original honey to it. Take 2 spoons 2 times a day. 36. LÓW SPÈRM COÚNTING/WATERY SPÈRM Mix 3 spoons of original honey, 3 local eggs and a tin milk together and drink it twice a week. 37. BOÏL Grind otili leaf and mix it with ori amo. Rub it on the boil. 38.CHILDREÑ MIDDLE HÈAD PAIÑ Cut alubosa elewe into pieces fry palm oil on fire and add that onion and iru woro to it and leave it till the naming day of the child before star using it to rub his head. 39. ENGDANDRÚFF Grind lali leaves with alubosa elewe, dry it and re-grind it and pour it inside hair cream for usage. 40.URINÁTORY CHILÐ Let the child be taking 2 spoons of original honey after eating at night. 41. SAFÈ DÈLIVERY A pregnant woman should be drinking chickweed (Ewedu) soup at all time or squeeze it and be drinking the juice. 42. RASHÈS (1) Mix lime water with black soap and use it to rub the affected part GOOD LUCK Nature is Powerful #StayProtected #StayProtected

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A human chess game played in 1924 took five hours and ended in a draw. "The claim about a human chess game in Leningrad in 1924 is true. Historical records confirm that on July 20, 1924, chess masters Peter Romanovsky and Ilya Rabinovich played a game on Palace Square, using Red Army and Red Fleet members as pieces, with horses for knights. It lasted five hours, ending in a draw on the 67th move, with about 8,000 spectators. Sources like Russia Beyond and Open Culture are consistent, though minor details, like exact crowd size, may vary slightly. No significant evidence disputes this event, which was part of a Soviet chess promotion series."

A COLD WAR 🤣🤣 I entered a keke, and a woman and her 7 year old son were sitting beside me in the keke. It was raining and all the twilight girls (prost!tutes) were standing by the roadside. The boy asked; “Mummy, what are all those women doing? His Mother replied; “They are waiting for their husbands to come back from work." The keke driver turned around and said; “Why don’t you tell him the truth?. Little boy, they are prostitutes, they sleep with men for money. Said the keke driver” The boy’s eyes got wide and asked; “Mummy is that true?” His mother, glaring hard at the keke driver replied; “Yes.!!” After a few minutes, the boy asked; “Mummy, what happens to the babies those women have?" She replied; “Most of them become keke drivers.🙆🏽‍♂🙆🏽‍♂🙆🏽‍♂ Up till now, combined road safety officers and passengers are still trying hard to see if they can separate the f!ght between the woman and the driver. Me, I quickly used the opportunity to come down and leave without paying🏃🏃🏃🏃🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Copied

Breaking News: “Nothing Wrong If An Actor Wants S£x From An Actress for Movie Roles So Far He Doesn’t Force Her”–Yoruba Actor Dele Odule –Lagos Reporters Veteran Yoruba actor, Dele Odule, has stirred public debate following his remarks on the controversial issue of s£x-for-roles in the Nigerian movie industry, saying it is not wrong for an actor to request a relationship from an actress in exchange for a movie role provided there is no coercion involved. Odule made the statement during an interview on Oyinmomo TV’s official YouTube channel, where he offered a personal perspective on what has become a recurring concern in Nollywood. “I don't agree that actors can ask actresses to have an affair with them before giving them movie roles because if such happens, it means the actress already has an interest in doing it,” he said. The actor, known for his decades-long contributions to the Yoruba film industry, clarified that in any normal society where men and women interact, romantic or sexual advances are bound to happen. According to him, what matters is mutual consent. “In a society where there are men and women, it is normal that they will approach each other for relationships, but it has to come with mutual agreement between a man and a woman because a woman always has the choice to agree or disagree,” he stated. Odule emphasized that it only becomes a legal or moral issue when force is applied, noting that coercion or exploitation is punishable under the law. “Nothing wrong if an actor wants s£x from an actress for movie roles so far he doesn't force her. It only becomes illegal when force is applied, which is punishable under law.” His remarks have sparked mixed reactions online, with some Nigerians accusing the actor of normalizing exploitation in the industry, while others argue that his comments simply reflect the reality of adult relationships and consent. As the entertainment industry continues to wrestle with issues of ethics, professionalism, and abuse of power, Odule’s comments may further ignite conversations around how boundaries are defined and respected in Nollywood. Lagos Reporters will continue to follow public and industry responses to this developing story.

"I’m a solo adventurer; I am a loner. I am the woman you see alone drinking tea and reading a book. I am the one who takes herself out on dates and sits all by herself, without shame. I am the woman who attends concerts without feeling awkward about being there alone. I sing my heart out and have a hell of a good time. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that doing things alone is wonderful. I mean sure, sometimes it’s fun to be around other people. However, so many underestimate how much we can enjoy certain activities without any company. Some people think of “being alone” and “doing things alone” as being something bad. It either means you’re anti-social or you’re a “loser”, and this social stigma is wrong. Once I changed my mentality and started to live my life as I please, I found this astounding feeling of freedom, freedom of being me, freedom to do whatever the hell I want to do. And let me tell you that there’s no better feeling than enjoying your own company. In these past few years when I started to do things alone, I have experienced the best times of my life. I have gone hiking, bike riding, skydiving, bungee jumping, I’ve taken trips alone and have made unforgettable memories. I have learned to become my own best friend. I am the woman who chooses to do fun things alone, doing things alone feels normal to me."

*Kind heart ,to God be the glory* Title: She Adopted 5 Boys Nobody Wanted — 27 Years Later, They Did Something She Never Expected Written by Rosyworld CRN Gloria Adebayo was 35 when life tested her strength. After five years of marriage and multiple failed fertility treatments, her husband walked away — no explanation, just a short note on the kitchen table: “I can’t do this anymore. I’m sorry.” The silence that followed was deafening. Gloria battled loneliness, shame, and the heavy weight of dreams unfulfilled. But she wasn’t the kind of woman to stay down for long. In 1997, during a volunteer shift at a local child welfare center in Lagos, she met a set of brothers — five boys, all under the age of 10, abandoned by their relatives after the death of their parents. No one wanted to adopt them because they came as a group. And so, they stayed… waiting. Something in Gloria’s heart stirred. She didn’t have the resources. She didn’t have a husband. But she had love — so much love, and she knew it wasn’t meant to stay locked up in her heart. One by one, she brought them home. First Segun, then Tunde, then the twins, Ikenna and Ifeanyi, and finally, baby Chuka. Raising them wasn’t easy — there were hospital visits, school fees, tears, and teenage drama. But there was also laughter, dancing in the rain, and Sunday mornings filled with jollof rice and gospel music. Years passed. The boys grew. One became a civil engineer. Another started a non-profit. One moved abroad and became a teacher. Two others joined the police force. But they all remained close to home… and close to Mama Gloria. In December 2024, on her 62nd birthday, they gathered in her small compound — and surprised her with a key. A brand-new house. Bought and built by all five of them. “We know you never had much,” Segun said, holding her trembling hands. “But you gave us everything. You gave us a home when we were forgotten. And now, it’s our turn.” Gloria couldn’t speak. The woman who once cried herself to sleep wondering if she’d ever be called “Mama” now sat surrounded by five grown men calling her “The greatest mother in the world.” She didn’t just adopt five boys. She raised five kings.

Not all soulmates are meant to be romantic partners. Sometimes, they show up in our lives as friends, mentors, or even brief encounters that leave a lasting impact. A soulmate is simply someone whose soul resonates with yours — someone who mirrors your inner world, challenges your growth, and reminds you of who you truly are. These connections can feel electric and deeply familiar, even if they aren’t wrapped in the narrative of love stories or lifelong companionship. They may arrive during a season of change, guide you through darkness, and exit once their purpose is fulfilled, leaving your life altered in quiet, powerful ways. We often think of soulmates as "the one," but the truth is, some are sent to awaken us, not stay with us. These relationships may be painful, confusing, or fleeting, but they’re no less profound. They help us peel back layers of ourselves we never knew existed. A soulmate can be the best friend who sees you clearly, the teacher who believes in you when no one else does, or the stranger whose words echo in your heart years later. Soulmates aren’t defined by permanence — they’re defined by impact. And sometimes, their greatest gift is teaching us how to be our own soulmate first.

Mother sentence to life imprisonment after selling her daughter for £800 to healer who wanted her for her light eyes and skin A South African mother has been jailed for life, along with her two accomplices, after she sold her daughter to a traditional "healer" so her light eyes and skin could be cut out and used for medicine. Racquel ‘Kelly’ Smith sold six-year-old Joshlin for 20,000 rand (£800) in February because the healer wanted her fair complexion and turquoise eyes. The case shocked South Africa even further when it emerged that she would have accepted £200 for the child. Smith, 35, has now been sentenced for kidnapping and trafficking along with boyfriend Jacquen Appollis and friend, Steveno van Rhyn. Judge Nathan Erasmus told them: "There is nothing that I can find that is redeeming and deserving of a lesser sentence than the harshest I can impose" Joshlin’s grandmother, Amanda Smith-Daniels, is now begging her daughter to reveal where Joshlin is. She told Newzroom Afrika: "I don’t feel that any sentence they get will bring my grandchild back." Speaking directly to Smith, she added: "How do you sleep [and] live with yourself?" Her teacher also said that Joshlin’s schoolfriends still ask where she is. A court heard that Joshlin vanished from outside her home in Saldanha Bay, near Cape Town, in February 2024. She had been living with family friends after her mother – with a drug dependency since her teens – became abusive while high. They wanted to adopt her to give her a better life, but the family blocked these bids. Neighbour Lorential Lombaard said Smith confessed to them that she had sold Joshlin to a sangoma – traditional healer known as soul doctors. She later saw Smith packing a bag of clothes for Joshlin before getting into a car with the woman she believes to be the healer. The young girl’s teacher also claimed that Smith told her that Joshlin was already "on a ship inside a container, and they were on the way to western Africa." The sentencing follows an eight-week trial that captivated South Africa, with witnesses and prosecutors making a number of shocking allegations. Judge Nathan Erasmus said he "drew no distinction" between the trio in handing down the sentences. "On the human trafficking charge, you are sentenced to life imprisonment. On the kidnapping charge, you are sentenced to 10 years imprisonment," he said to loud applause in the courtroom. Smith, 35, and her accomplices showed no emotion as their sentences were read out in the community centre in Saldanha where the trial was held to allow residents to attend proceedings. Police said the search for the little girl would continue, even beyond South Africa's borders. "We will not rest until we find [out] what happened to Joshlin. We are continuing day and night looking for her," Western Cape police commissioner Thembisile Patekile told local media.