What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you. This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married. If you are open-minded, you can still read. Nobody knows it all. 1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance. NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals. It will save you a lot. There are some things the rich won’t tell you. With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package. A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k. 2. Have a family doctor very very important. See, no church will tell you this. Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency. Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids. 3. Also, have a family lawyer. Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit. But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly. 4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff. Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam. My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi. Get help if you can. 5. Buy things in bulk. The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk. You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk. That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals. There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group. 6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes. As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September. I don’t have to worry about it again. It helps me plan myself. Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side. 7. Strive to have passive income. Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day. No matter what try and get something like that. It will save you from a lot of stress. 8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend. This one is very, very important. Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools. You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age. 9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings. You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are. Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward. Allow the kids air their opinions. Ask the kids: 🔹Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like? Same thing with your wife. Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family. This helps in uniting the family. Every month is fine or even every 6 months. Just make it a habit and a culture. It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too. Everyone’s opinion in the family matters. And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family. This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time. I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress. You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.

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DONT BUY LAND IF U DONT HAVE EXTRA MONEY FOR THE FOLLOWING You’ve paid, collected documents, even snapped picture on the land. Now what? 1. Do a Deed of Assignment – It transfers ownership to you legally. Don't skip it. 2. Register your land – At the Land Registry. If it’s not registered, the law may not protect you. 3. Get your own survey done – Even if the seller shows you theirs. Be sure what you paid for. 4. Fence it, or at least mark it – That bush is someone else’s goldmine if left open. 5. Keep all your documents safe – Scan copies and keep originals secure. No go dey look for "photocopy" in 10 years. Buy land like a future landlord, not a learner. — Eazee

🔥 From Northern Monopoly to Yoruba Rotation? A Deep Look at Buhari vs Tinubu Appointments and the Tribal Virus Slowing Nigeria They say the more things change, the more they stay the same — but in Nigeria, it seems things just change tribally, not nationally. Let’s start with the facts. During President Buhari’s administration, key federal positions were overwhelmingly filled by individuals from the North. Not just the heads of agencies, but even their deputies. From EFCC to DSS, NNPC, NDLEA, NPA, NSCDC, NIS, FRSC, NPS, and nearly every other major institution — it was North on North. In fact, over 80% of these agencies had both leaders from the same region. It wasn’t governance; it was regional occupation. Now enter President Tinubu. A new era, a new hope. But did we really leave tribal politics behind? On the surface, Tinubu’s appointments show more balance. Agencies now have North–South or South–North combinations. There’s a visible attempt to mix things regionally. At least, on paper, it looks like a step in the right direction. But here’s where it gets messy — almost all the Southern appointments under Tinubu are Yoruba. His tribe. From AMCON to the Army, Navy, DIA, DSS, and more, it’s still ethnic stacking, just done differently. We’ve moved from Northern monopoly under Buhari to Yoruba favoritism under Tinubu. Same wine, different tribal bottle. ❗WHY TRIBAL APPOINTMENTS ARE DESTROYING NIGERIA 1. They kill meritocracy — people are chosen based on tribe, not ability. That’s why institutions rot. 2. They destroy national unity — no one wants to believe in “one Nigeria” when only one group dominates. 3. They fuel ethnic tension and resentment — every tribe begins to see others as threats instead of partners. 4. They block true federal character — when only Hausa, Fulani, or Yoruba dominate, where are the Igbos? The Ijaws? The Ibibios? The Tivs? The Nupes? 5. They breed mediocrity at the top — because positions are shared like family inheritance, not national responsibility. 💥 TINUBU VS BUHARI: WHO’S MORE TRIBAL? Let’s be honest. Buhari didn’t even pretend to balance. The North had it all. The South was an afterthought. Tinubu is trying to mix things — but only if you're Yoruba. The Igbo man is still watching from the sidelines. South–South is barely noticed. So the Obidients who cry “tribalism!” under Tinubu aren’t entirely wrong — but many of them were silent under Buhari. And the Buhari loyalists who scream “Tinubu is fair” are conveniently forgetting how they defended Northern domination for 8 years. Hypocrisy is the only thing everyone seems to share equally in this country. 🤯 IF NIGERIA MUST MOVE FORWARD... We must kill tribalism in appointments. The presidency is not a tribal office. National agencies are not clan estates. Until we put merit and fairness above tribe, Nigeria will continue to crawl while other nations run. Let appointments reflect federal character, not ethnic calculation. Let every Nigerian child — North, South, East or West — believe they can rise to the top without a tribal godfather. Who did worse — Buhari or Tinubu? Is Tinubu’s balance real, or is it Yoruba rebranding of old tribal games? Can Nigeria ever break free from ethnic politics? Drop your thoughts. Argue with sense. But speak your truth. 👇👇👇 #WalaataPapers #NigeriaFirst #TribalismKills #TinubuVsBuhari #Obidients #Jagaban #ArewaPolitics #NaijaMustChange

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278 IN UTME. I CHOSE EDUCATION. AND EVERYONE LOST THEIR MINDS. "Why would someone so intelligent waste a score like that on Education?" "You should be studying Medicine." "You deserve better." NO. Education is not a waste. I didn’t deserve “better.” I deserved my DREAM. And my dream was to TEACH. To build minds. To change lives. But in Nigeria, when you say you want to teach, people act like you’ve failed, like you're unintelligent 🎯 First semester -12 courses: 11 A’s, 1 B. Boom. HOD of Physics offered me a department switch and a future job after M.Sc. I said NO. Not because the offer wasn’t tempting. But because I knew myself - and I knew I wasn’t called to just chase titles. I was born to build futures. But guess what? 🚨 Now, JAMB just released the 2025 UTME cut-off for Colleges of Education: 100. Let that sink in. NOT AVERAGE! NOT 150! NOT 140! ONE HUNDRED. And we’re out here screaming about “half-baked teachers”? How won’t they be half-baked when we admit students with 100 marks to train the nation’s future? 🤯 You need over 200 to study Law or Medicine… But just 100 to teach those who will become lawyers and doctors? This is madness. Let me be blunt: 👉🏽 A country that treats education like a dustbin for rejected students will never rise. 👉🏽 A system where “intelligent” people are told they’re too smart to teach is doomed. 👉🏽 A nation that sets the bar so low for teacher training is signing its own death sentence. When NECO visited my school and saw 70% of teachers were B.Sc holders, they raised eyebrows. But any school that’s truly intentional about excellence won’t gamble with teachers’ quality. We’re raising thinkers, not just filling periods. Why is this hard to understand? 💥 TEACHERS are not plan B. 💥 TEACHERS are the MAIN PLAN. 💥 A country that undervalues its educators has no business dreaming of development. Stop telling brilliant students that “they deserve better than Education.” Make EDUCATION deserve brilliant students. Until we fix this narrative, we are going nowhere. 278 for Education. And I REGRET NOTHING. I didn’t settle. I CHOSE. And I’m still choosing - every single day. 📢 Share this if you believe Nigeria’s education system needs a reset. I am Owoade Mariam and I know that the Nigerian education system deserves better.

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