The Marriage Advice .

1. **Choose Love, Always:** Even in moments when you find it hard to like each other, choose to love. Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.

2. **Be Present:** Always answer the phone when your spouse calls. When you're together, try to keep your phone off, giving each other your full attention.

3. **Prioritize Time Together:** Make time with your spouse a top priority. Budget for regular date nights because time is the currency of relationships, and investing in your marriage is key.

4. **Surround Yourself with Support:** Keep company with friends who strengthen your marriage. Distance yourself from those who might tempt you to compromise your character.

5. **Laugh Together:** Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share joyful moments, and even in tough times, find reasons to laugh together.

6. **Team Up in Arguments:** In every disagreement, remember that you’re on the same team. There’s no winner or loser; you either win together or lose together. Work as partners to find solutions.

7. **Be Each Other’s Strength:** A strong marriage isn’t about both being strong at the same time. It’s about taking turns being strong for each other when one of you feels weak.

8. **Value Intimacy:** Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. While a strong marriage takes more than s=x, it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it.

9. **Give 100%, Not 50/50:** Marriage isn’t about splitting everything down the middle. Divorce is 50/50; marriage is 100/100, with both partners giving their all.

10. **Give Your Best:** Offer your best self to each other, not just the leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

11. **Embrace Uniqueness:** Learn from others, but resist comparing your marriage to anyone else’s. Your life is uniquely yours.

12. **Don’t Put Marriage on Hold:** Don’t neglect your marriage while raising your kids, or you might end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

13. **Be Transparent:** Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

14. **Build Trust:** Never lie to each other. Trust is the foundation of a strong marriage, and lies will break it.

15. **Admit Mistakes:** When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and seek forgiveness humbly. Be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

16. **Forgive Quickly:** When trust is broken, be quick to forgive. This promotes healing and opens the door for trust to be rebuilt. Say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

17. **Practice Patience:** Your spouse is more important than your schedule. Be patient with each other.

18. **Model Love for Your Children:** Live the kind of marriage that inspires your sons to be good husbands and your daughters to be good wives.

19. **Protect Your Spouse:** Never speak badly about your spouse to others or vent about them online. Always protect them, in all places and at all times.

20. **Wear Your Ring:** Your wedding ring is a constant reminder that you’re connected to your spouse and that you’re off-limits to the rest of the world.

21. **Connect to Faith:** Being part of a faith community can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

22. **Pray Together:** A marriage is stronger with God at its center. Pray together regularly.

23. **Choose Kindness:** If you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, choose to say nothing every time.

24. **Stay Committed:** Never consider annulment as an option. A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

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KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

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1 Laziness kills Marriage.

2 Suspicion kills Marriage

3 Lack of trust kills marriage.

4 Lack of mutual respect kills marriage.

5 Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice and anger kill marriage.

6 Unnecessary Arguments kills marriage.

7 Keeping Secrets from your Spouse kills marriage.

8 Every form of Infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc).

9 Poor Communication kills marriage.

10 Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.

11 Relating more with your parents/family members than your spouse kills marriage.

12 Lack of inadequate or unenjoyable s€x kills marriage.

13 Nagging kills marriage.

14 Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage .

15 Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage.

16 Being too independent minded kills marriage.

17 LOVE for party, money, impulse buying and spending/partying, financial indiscipline kills marriage.

18 Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or Siblings kills marriage.

19 Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit, not praying together kills not only marriage but your life.

20 Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.

21 Always wearing a sad face and being Moody kills marriage.

22 FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage.

23 MALE CHAUVINISM kills marriage.

24 Uncontrolled or hot Temperament, Anger kills marriage.

25 Not understanding your role and position , not taking responsibilty in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.

26 Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage.

27 When anything threatens the position/security of a wife or husband, his or her reaction(s) will be detrimental to the marriage.

28 Lack of the Knowledge of & Obedience to the word of God kills marriage.

At first glance, it looks sweet.
Two lizards. Locked in what looks like a hug.
But this isn’t love. It’s a duel.

These are monitor lizards — and when two males meet during mating season, there’s no roaring, no biting. Just a silent, full-body brawl.

They stand tall on hind legs, wrap their arms around each other like wrestlers, and try to slam the other into the dirt. No blood, no broken bones — just pressure, leverage, and brute dominance. It’s nature’s version of sumo.

Why no violence?

Because in the wild, a cut isn’t a scar — it’s a death sentence.
You bleed, you die. So evolution gave them another option: out-muscle your rival without risking your life.

But don’t let the rules fool you — these fights are real. They can last over 20 minutes, with each lizard twisting, shoving, and trying to outlast the other.
Winner gets the territory.
Winner gets the female.
Loser walks away — if he can.

And sometimes, while the tough guys are locked in this macho showdown, a sneaky male creeps past and mates with the female anyway.
Because in nature, brains beat biceps more often than you think.

So yeah… it might look like a hug.
But what you’re seeing is a war with no blood… and everything on the line.

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If you thought they were cuddling — don't worry. Most people do. Nature doesn’t care what it looks like. Only who walks away stronger.

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BENITA has unfollowed SHANK on Instagram after 10 years of love, loyalty, and sacrifice!

She stood by him when he had nothing and no fame, no money, just dreams. She was his backbone. His ride or die.

But now...
He meets Lil Wayne's daughter and

Truth be told, Benita is finer, has natural beauty, and has a good character that shines even without filters.

Now she's heartbroken while Shanks is trending with someone new.

To say I know say marriage will humble me like this I for no smile for my prewedding picture.
Senior married women why una no gist me?

I don wake up since 5am prepare my husband to work.

Now naw bitterleaf I want wash like this to cook in the afternoon . After cooking I will still prepare for inah when OGA return

Good morning my lovers, hope you guys are doing well?

MMA Solution Love you all