DEAR YOUNG MAN,

He who lives trusting dies betrayed.

Let this sink in deep because it might save your life and sanity.

Never trust a woman blindly—their loyalty isn’t to you; it’s to their interests. Harsh truth? Yes. But it’s a truth that too many men learn the hard way.

Women don’t love you for who you are—they love what you bring to the table. They love your ability to provide, protect, and elevate their lifestyle. You’re not the prize to them; you’re the vehicle to the prize they desire. And the moment you can no longer provide that value? Many will discard you like yesterday’s leftovers without a second thought.

Why do you think so many men are blindsided in relationships or marriages? They think, “She’s different. She loves me for me.” Wrong. She loves the life you create, the image you project, and the stability you offer. Remove those factors, and you’ll see her true colors.

This isn’t about hating women—it’s about understanding the nature of relationships. Women are driven by self-interest, and honestly, it’s not even their fault—it’s biology. But you, as a man, must protect yourself. Don’t let sweet words and affection blind you to reality.

Ask yourself:
• Does she support your vision or just enjoy the benefits of your hard work?
• Is she loyal to your grind or only to the lifestyle it creates?
• Would she stand by you if you lost everything today?

Don’t give your full trust to anyone who hasn’t proven themselves over time. Test her loyalty, observe her actions, and protect your value. Love her? Sure. But love her with your eyes open, not with your soul exposed.

Trust cautiously, lead decisively, and always prioritize yourself. You’re not a pawn in someone else’s game—you’re the king, and you don’t put your crown in someone else’s hand .

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Look, it’s biology. Women are wired to be attracted to power, success, and wealth. There’s nothing wrong with that, it’s human nature. But understand this—when you start to rise, so will the number of women trying to get close to you. And not for the reasons you think. They see you as a man who can provide, a man who has access to resources, and for some, that’s all you aretar words, and all the charm in the world, but make no mistake, some of them don’t care about you as a person. They care about what you can give them, and when you stop giving, they’ll drain you dry. They’ll take your money, your peace, your energy, and when you’re left with nothing, they’ll move on to the next man.

2. Distraction is a Killer

When women start coming at you left and right, it’s easy to get distracted. You’re feeling good about yourself, your ego is fed, and you think you’ve got the world at your feet. But here’s where you need to be careful—distraction is the ultimate killer of dreams. You didn’t work this hard, grind this much, or sacrifice all that time just to throw it away for short-term pleasure.

Every time you chase after one of these women, you’re taking your eye off the ball. You’re losing focus, and in the business world, losing focus is a recipe for disaster. Your competition won’t wait while you’re busy entertaining women, and those women won’t care if you fall. They’ll simply move on to the next man who’s still on his game.

3. Scandals, Setups, and Manipulation

Let’s not act like the world isn’t full of traps. Powerful men attract scandals, and many of those scandals start with women. Whether it’s false accusations, leaked personal information, or even blackmail, women who want to take you down know how to play the game. One mistake, one wrong move, and they’ll have you wrapped around their finger.

You think it can’t happen to you? Look around—how many successful men have been brought down by women who pretended to care, only to turn around and destroy their reputation, career, and personal life? Don’t be naive. When you start attracting women, you start attracting potential threats to everything you’ve built.

4. The Cost of Attention

Success comes with a cost, and attention from women can be one of the most expensive prices you pay. The more women surround you, the more you’ll be tempted to spend money, time, and energy just to maintain that attention. Whether it’s fancy dinners, gifts, or trips, you’ll find yourself pouring resources into women who will never repay you with loyalty or love. They’ll take, take, take, until you’ve got nothing left.

And let’s not forget about the emotional cost. When you’re juggling multiple women, you’re not just playing with fire—you’re risking your mental peace. Drama, jealousy, manipulation, all of it comes into play when you let too many women into your life. Your focus should be on building your empire, not getting caught in emotional webs that slow you down.

5. The Ego Trap

There’s no denying it—attention from women can feel good. It feeds your ego, makes you feel invincible. But here’s where the trap is: your ego can be your biggest enemy. The moment you start believing that you’re untouchable because of how many women are interested in you, you’ve already lost the game.

An Alpha male knows his worth without needing external validation from women. He’s focused on his mission, and he doesn’t let female attention steer him off course. He knows that the more women like him, the more he needs to guard his space, his resources, and his mind.

6. Not All Women Are Bad, But Most Can Be Trouble

Let’s be clear—not all women are out to get you. There are genuine, loyal women out there who will support and love you for who you are, not for what you can give them. But here’s the catch: those women are rare. And the more success you have, the harder it becomes to find them. The majority of women who flock to you once you’ve made it aren’t in it for the long haul. They’re there for the benefits, and the moment those benefits dry up, so does their interest in you.

7. Stay Focused, Stay Safe

So what’s the solution, Men? Simple: stay focused and stay safe. Don’t let your success be the reason you get taken down by a woman who doesn’t care about you. Guard your heart, your finances, and your energy. Be smart about who you let into your life. Don’t give access to just anyone. You worked too hard to let distractions ruin everything.

When women start liking you, your life is not about becoming the “ladies’ man.” It’s about staying on your purpose, keeping your eyes on your goals, and knowing that not all attention is good attention. You’re an Alpha—act like it.

Aklahyel Goni

The Lost Legacy of Ibom e-Library

Once a symbol of innovation and enlightenment, the Ibom e-Library stood tall as a beacon of knowledge in Akwa Ibom State. Built to serve as a hub of learning for all residents, it was envisioned to foster education, research, and creativity in the community. Equipped with modern facilities, internet connectivity, and countless books and resources, the e-library became a haven for students, researchers, and anyone seeking knowledge.

However, during the administration of Governor Udom Emmanuel, the vision for the Ibom e-Library began to waver. Slowly but surely, its doors that were once wide open to the public started closing. The bustling halls grew silent as access became increasingly restricted. Instead of nurturing the minds of Akwa Ibomites, the e-library was repurposed as a private training center. Public use was deprioritized, and its vast resources became unavailable to those it was built to serve.

For years, students stood outside its gates, their aspirations dimmed by locked doors. Researchers who once thrived within its walls were forced to seek knowledge elsewhere. The heart of the e-library—a public treasure—was transformed into a corporate enclave, catering only to specific training programs and organizations.

Today, the Ibom e-Library serves as a painful reminder of what could have been. Its original purpose, to educate and empower the people of Akwa Ibom, has been overshadowed by exclusivity and neglect. The promise of enlightenment has given way to disappointment, leaving the community yearning for the library’s restoration to its rightful place as a sanctuary for all.

Quotes from Some "Wise Thinkers"

1. True evil comes from someone who was once kind.
Cesare Pavese

2. I don’t mind losing those who don’t want me, for I’ve lost those I wanted, and I’m still alive.
Karl May

3. One conversation with a wise man is better than ten years of studying books.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

4. The corruption of justice leads to the downfall of nations.
Ibn Khaldun

5. If you want to conquer anxiety and start living, count your blessings instead of your troubles.
Dale Carnegie

6. If you want to fail, try to please everyone.
Erwin Rommel

7. No one harmed me except those I knew; may God bless everyone I don’t know!
Abu Al-Alaa Al-Ma’arri

8. This world crushes justice with disgrace every single day.
Ghassan Kanafani

9. If you see the lion's fangs bared, don’t assume the lion is smiling!
Al-Mutanabbi

10. To be honest is to be an enemy to all.
Gibran Khalil Gibran

11. The first obstacle to an individual’s development is the family.
Leo Tolstoy

12. Increased awareness intensifies pain, and most sufferers of psychological depression are intellectuals.
Adel Sadeq

13. When you respect me well and treat me with courtesy, it’s not a feather in my cap; instead, you’ll be the crown on my head!
Ibrahim El-Fiky

14. You need to have wished for death to truly value life.
Winston Churchill

15. Kindness in words creates confidence, kindness in thinking solves every difficulty, and kindness in giving creates love.
Lao Tzu

16. I know no greater sin than oppressing an innocent person in the name of religion.
Mahatma Gandhi

17. Sadness is a psychological state that allows awareness to reflect on oneself and society.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau

18. Often, the words you fear to say are the ones that most need to be spoken.
George Bernard Shaw

19. Try staying away from the internet for a while, and you’ll realize you missed nothing online, but a lot outside it—like your mothers aging unnoticed!

Abdullah Al-Mughlooth
20. Life is hope; without hope, life is lost.
Plato

21. A day without laughter is a day wasted!
Charlie Chaplin

22. No one can ambush you except those who know your moves well. Don’t share your thoughts with anyone to reach your destination safely!
Htr

23. I will never respect the world as long as there’s a child with broken eyes.
Che Guevara

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"A Fatal Motor Accident on Udo Udoma Avenue
…The Consequence of Speeding

At approximately 2:30 PM on Saturday, 25th January, a devastating motor accident occurred along Udo Udoma Avenue involving a Lexus saloon car with a covered plate number and a Toyota Camry.

Eyewitnesses report that the driver of the Lexus, a young girl, was speeding toward Aka Road when she lost control of the vehicle. The car veered off the road, colliding with a pavement, knocking down several electric poles, before crossing into the opposite lane and crashing into the Toyota Camry. The Lexus sustained severe damage, with the airbags deployed.

According to police officers who arrived at the scene, both the young girl driving the Lexus and the driver of the Toyota Camry were unconscious and unable to communicate clearly. Emergency services were quickly arranged to transport the victims to the hospital."

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Quotes from Some Wise Thinkers:
1. True evil comes from someone who was once kind.
Cesare Pavese
2. I don’t mind losing those who don’t want me, for I’ve lost those I wanted, and I’m still alive.
Karl May
3. One conversation with a wise man is better than ten years of studying books.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
4. The corruption of justice leads to the downfall of nations.
Ibn Khaldun
5. If you want to conquer anxiety and start living, count your blessings instead of your troubles.
Dale Carnegie
6. If you want to fail, try to please everyone.
Erwin Rommel
7. No one harmed me except those I knew; may God bless everyone I don’t know!
Abu Al-Alaa Al-Ma’arri
8. This world crushes justice with disgrace every single day.
Ghassan Kanafani
9. If you see the lion's fangs bared, don’t assume the lion is smiling!
Al-Mutanabbi
10. To be honest is to be an enemy to all.
Gibran Khalil Gibran
11. The first obstacle to an individual’s development is the family.
Leo Tolstoy
12. Increased awareness intensifies pain, and most sufferers of psychological depression are intellectuals.
Adel Sadeq
13. When you respect me well and treat me with courtesy, it’s not a feather in my cap; instead, you’ll be the crown on my head!
Ibrahim El-Fiky
14. You need to have wished for death to truly value life.
Winston Churchill
15. Kindness in words creates confidence, kindness in thinking solves every difficulty, and kindness in giving creates love.
Lao Tzu
16. I know no greater sin than oppressing an innocent person in the name of religion.
Mahatma Gandhi
17. Sadness is a psychological state that allows awareness to reflect on oneself and society.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau
18. Often, the words you fear to say are the ones that most need to be spoken.
George Bernard Shaw
19. Try staying away from the internet for a while, and you’ll realize you missed nothing online, but a lot outside it—like your mothers aging unnoticed!
Abdullah Al-Mughlooth
20. Life is hope; without hope, life is lost.
Plato
21. A day without laughter is a day wasted!
Charlie Chaplin
22. No one can ambush you except those who know your moves well. Don’t share your thoughts with anyone to reach your destination safely!
Htr
23. I will never respect the world as long as there’s a child with broken eyes.

Thousands of Transgender people have been dismissed by Donald Trump . You are either a male soldier or a female soldier
Thousands of Tränsger teachers have lost their license. You are either a male teacher or a female teacher.
Anyone who suggests to kids that they can be any gender they want from the 20th will face Jail terms.
The only Gender recognized by the United States are Male and female now.

Congratulations Trump!

Nigerian Medical Doctor k!lls EFCC officers in Anambra … said that he thought they were kidnappers ;

It was a Medical Doctor that k!lled an EFCC officer when they came like armed robbers in the middle of the night at a time the state was faced with insecurity and the man reacted in safe defence probably thinking they were robbers.

The man involved is a medical doctor with no ties to illegal activities. The pump-action gun he used was reportedly licensed. Normally, before the EFCC operates in any area, they are required to notify the local police. Unfortunately, this protocol was not followed during their operation in Awka that night.

When the doctor called to confirm whether the relevant security agencies were aware of the EFCC’s presence, he was informed that they were not. Believing he was confronted by kidnappers and acting out of self-defense, he fired when they broke into his apartment at midnight. Regrettably, two EFCC operatives were injured in the process. Upon realizing they were from the EFCC, he immediately dropped the weapon.

Meanwhile, the EFCC’s actions in Anambra have raised concerns. Initially, they attempted a raid in a particular area but were intercepted by the police, who were unaware of their operation. According to the EFCC, due to a shortage of personnel, they altered their plans and proceeded to raid a smaller location. They forcibly entered the estate and targeted apartments based on the types of cars parked outside, using them as indicators for which units to search. This raises the question: how did operatives from the EFCC’s Enugu zonal office go to Anambra amid ongoing insecurity in the state without informing the local police, especially while facing a shortage of manpower?

It is so unfortunate that we lost a staff of the commission, but this call for new strategy. I don’t buy into EFCC entering an apartment like criminals.

The went to media with story of Yahoo boys shooting EFCC operatives because they can’t defend mode of their operation in Awka that night.
EFCC should conduct investigation before invitation or even arrest.
Economic and Financial Crimes Commission should change their strategies to reflect intelligence!


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Quotes from Some Wise Thinkers:
1. True evil comes from someone who was once kind.
Cesare Pavese
2. I don’t mind losing those who don’t want me, for I’ve lost those I wanted, and I’m still alive.
Karl May
3. One conversation with a wise man is better than ten years of studying books.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
4. The corruption of justice leads to the downfall of nations.
Ibn Khaldun
5. If you want to conquer anxiety and start living, count your blessings instead of your troubles.
Dale Carnegie
6. If you want to fail, try to please everyone.
Erwin Rommel
7. No one harmed me except those I knew; may God bless everyone I don’t know!
Abu Al-Alaa Al-Ma’arri
8. This world crushes justice with disgrace every single day.
Ghassan Kanafani
9. If you see the lion's fangs bared, don’t assume the lion is smiling!
Al-Mutanabbi
10. To be honest is to be an enemy to all.
Gibran Khalil Gibran
11. The first obstacle to an individual’s development is the family.
Leo Tolstoy
12. Increased awareness intensifies pain, and most sufferers of psychological depression are intellectuals.
Adel Sadeq
13. When you respect me well and treat me with courtesy, it’s not a feather in my cap; instead, you’ll be the crown on my head!
Ibrahim El-Fiky
14. You need to have wished for death to truly value life.
Winston Churchill
15. Kindness in words creates confidence, kindness in thinking solves every difficulty, and kindness in giving creates love.
Lao Tzu
16. I know no greater sin than oppressing an innocent person in the name of religion.
Mahatma Gandhi
17. Sadness is a psychological state that allows awareness to reflect on oneself and society.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau
18. Often, the words you fear to say are the ones that most need to be spoken.
George Bernard Shaw
19. Try staying away from the internet for a while, and you’ll realize you missed nothing online, but a lot outside it—like your mothers aging unnoticed!
Abdullah Al-Mughlooth
20. Life is hope; without hope, life is lost.
Plato
21. A day without laughter is a day wasted!
Charlie Chaplin
22. No one can ambush you except those who know your moves well. Don’t share your thoughts with anyone to reach your destination safely!
Htr
23. I will never respect the world as long as there’s a child with broken eyes.