Life is full of up and down let's love one another

Juliet Okonkwo (E-money's wife) remembers that “When we started dating, my friends were surprised that I sidestepped all the rich guys in Lekki, where I was resident for a man who lived in Ajegunle, but I was not bothered. I looked forward to getting a good job upon my graduation from the University. He didn't even have enough money to take us back to Lagos after our traditional marriage. KCee was the one who lent me N20,000. I used it to pay our fare in Lagos.”..........Me:For those waiting for a Man to make it in life before you marry him listen!Men don't fall in Love after making money.

HERE ARE 10 MONEY HABITS YOU NEED TO LEARN BEFORE 30!

It might not be easy as a Nigerian but you have to tryyyyyyy.

1. Live Below Your Means
Just because your salary got a glow-up doesn’t mean your lifestyle needs to. Chill. Upgrade slowly.

2. Budget Like a Baddie
Know where your money goes o, rent, food, vibes, savings… It’s giving organized and rich auntie energy.

3. Build That Emergency Fund
Life is wild. Have 3-6 months of expenses saved so you don’t have to call your ex or your parents when stuff hits the fan.

4. Start Investing Early
Even if it’s small, your future self will be sending you thank-you notes (with dividends).

5. Ditch Bad Debt
High-interest loans and credit card debt? Nah. That’s a trap. Only take debt that makes you money.

6. Pay Yourself First
Before you buy that cute shoe or order shawarma, stash something for Future You.

7. Learn the Money Basics
Compound interest, inflation, taxes—don’t let these things catch you off guard. Google is your friend.

8. Know Your Net Worth
Assets minus liabilities = net worth. Keep tabs on it like you do your followers count.

9. Set Financial Goals
Want to buy a car? Start a biz? Travel? Write it down and plan it out. Money moves need direction.

10. Get More Than One Bag
One income stream? In this economy?? Nah. Start that side hustle. Monetize your skills.

EVERY TIME YOU SLEEP WITH A WOMAN, YOU TRANSFER POWER — WHO'S WINNING?

A Brutal Post About How Careless Sex Is Weakening Men More Than They Realize

Most men don’t understand this…

Sex is not just physical.
It’s transactional.
It’s spiritual.
It’s energetic.

Every time you have sex, especially as a man —
Something leaves you.

You’re either building your strength or draining it.
You’re either transferring power, or receiving poison.

Let’s break it down:

1. Sex Is Energy Exchange — Not Just Pleasure

When you climax as a man, you don’t just release semen —
You release life force.

The same drive that builds empires, creates inventions, and conquers nations —
You’re releasing it into random women you don’t even respect.

And you wonder why you feel tired, foggy, unmotivated…
Check your body count.

2. Not Every Woman Deserves Access to Your Power

Some women carry peace.
Some carry confusion.
Some carry grace.
Others carry destruction.

But when you’re lust-driven, you’ll sleep with anything in a skirt —
And wonder why your life is going backward.

Sex doesn’t just feel good. It plants seeds.

You might be planting vision into the wrong soil.

3. Women Receive — Men Release

It’s biological.
She gets filled.
You get emptied.

That’s not just about sperm — it’s about power.

The more careless you are with your sexual energy,
The weaker your focus, your discipline, and your drive becomes.

You’re draining yourself for free… and calling it “enjoyment.”

4. Sexual Discipline Is Masculine Strength

Any man can chase women.
But a real man controls himself.

While others are busy chasing sex,
You’re chasing wealth, purpose, legacy, and influence.

That’s how kings think.

Your d*ck is not a compass — stop letting it lead your life.

5. You Are Becoming the Women You Sleep With

Yes. That’s real.

You’re exchanging spirits, mindsets, and even emotional baggage.

You may think it’s just a quickie,
But you don’t know what demons she’s carrying.

Now you’re battling depression, laziness, addiction…
And it all started the night you “just wanted to relax.”

6. You Can’t Be Focused and Sex-Obsessed

Sex on the brain? Vision will suffer.
Always in a woman’s DMs? Bank account will suffer.
Too many women in rotation? Your name, health, and peace will suffer.

Your greatest distractions will often come with curves.
And if you’re not smart, you’ll trade your future for thighs.

7. Power Leaks in Pleasure

Every time you finish inside the wrong woman,
You finish a part of your ambition.

And guess what?
You’re empowering her… and disempowering yourself.

She gets free resources.
You get delayed dreams.

She gets emotional attachment.
You get emotional confusion.

You’re transferring power — but you’re not getting any back.

8. The Strongest Men Aren’t the Most Sexually Active — They’re the Most Disciplined

Do you know what turns a man into a king?
Not money. Not women.
Control.

When you can master your urges,
You can master your life.

If your penis controls you,
You are not a man — you are a slave with WiFi.

9. Stop Empowering Women Who Do Nothing but Drain You

She has no plan.
No purpose.
No values.
Just vibes, makeup, and waist.

And you’re giving her all your energy?

You’re investing your masculine power into a human distraction.
And wondering why you're stagnant?

10. Before You Enter Her Body, Ask Yourself:

What am I entering into?
Is this going to elevate me or destroy me?

Am I giving my power to a queen — or a crisis?

Because every sexual act is not just about pleasure —
It’s an agreement.

Some of you are in spiritual contracts you never signed in prayer —
You signed with your pants down.

BOTTOM LINE:

You’re a king.
Stop acting like a stray dog.

Preserve your energy.
Value your seed.
Respect your mission.

Because every time you have sex —
You transfer power.

The question is: Who’s winning? You or her?

50 LIES NIGERIAN WOMEN TELL MEN

1. "I’m fine." – When she’s actually upset and wants you to figure out why.

2. "I’ve never been with anyone like you." – She says this every time, and you think you’re special.

3. "I don’t need money, I’m okay." – Until the next shopping spree.

4. "I’m not interested in your friend." – But she’s been flirting with him on social media.

5. "I love surprises." – She only loves them if they’re the right kind of surprises.

6. "I don’t know how to cook." – Until you see her preparing a full course meal for her friends.

7. "It’s not a big deal." – When it’s actually a huge deal, and she’s really mad.

8. "I don’t want anything for my birthday." – But she’s secretly expecting an expensive gift.

9. "I’m not like the others." – A line she uses to make herself seem different, but... really?

10. "I’m busy." – She’s actually busy chatting with her friends or browsing Instagram.

11. "I’m not hungry." – Until you start eating, then she suddenly wants your food.

12. "I don’t mind if you’re friends with your ex." – But she’s side-eyeing you every time you talk about her.

13. "I’m not jealous." – But she’s checking your phone every five minutes.

14. "I’m not a materialistic person." – She’s just waiting for the designer bag.

15. "I’ll be ready in 5 minutes." – Which turns into an hour.

16. "I love your friends." – But deep down, she can’t stand them.

17. "I don’t care what you do for a living." – But she’s judging your career based on your earnings.

18. "I’ve never lied to you." – Even though she’s been caught in a few fibs.

19. "You’re the only one I’m talking to." – But you’ve seen the countless other guys texting her.

20. "I’m not materialistic." – But she only dates guys with the latest cars and phones.

21. "I can pay for it myself." – Until the bill arrives, and she expects you to cover it.

22. "I don’t need help with anything." – But she’s waiting for you to volunteer.

23. "I’m just being friendly." – When she’s actually flirting with every guy in sight.

24. "I’m not ready for a relationship." – But she’s already planning your wedding in her mind.

25. "I don’t like drama." – But she creates it every chance she gets.

26. "I’ve been single for so long." – While she’s had a string of ex-boyfriends.

27. "I’m not checking up on you." – But she knows exactly where you were last night.

28. "I’ll come to your place anytime." – But there’s always a “good reason” why she can’t make it.

29. "I don’t want to rush into anything." – But she’s secretly pushing for commitment.

30. "I’m not looking for anything serious." – But she’s planning your life together.

31. "You’re perfect just the way you are." – But she’s constantly suggesting you change your style or habits.

32. "I’ve never been married." – Even though there’s a divorcee label she’s hiding.

33. "I’m not interested in your money." – But she’s always asking for gifts and financial support.

34. "I don’t mind if you’re busy." – But she’s getting upset that you’re not prioritizing her.

35. "I’m cool with your friends." – But she’s criticizing them behind their backs.

36. "It’s okay, I’m not offended." – When she’s actually deeply hurt by something you did or said.

37. "I’ve never been in a toxic relationship." – But her past relationships were a mess.

38. "I love simple dates." – Until you suggest a low-budget one, then she’s unimpressed.

39. "I can’t do anything for you right now." – When she’s fully capable but just doesn’t want to.

40. "I’m not interested in your hobbies." – But she’s asking you a thousand questions about them.

41. "I like it when you’re quiet." – But she won’t stop talking.

42. "I don’t mind sharing you with other people." – But you can tell she’s possessive.

43. "I’m happy for you." – But she’s secretly jealous.

44. "I’m not keeping track of your mistakes." – But she’s quick to bring them up every chance she gets.

45. "I’m not the jealous type." – But she checks your social media obsessively.

46. "I’ll forgive you, it’s okay." – But she holds grudges for months.

47. "I just want peace." – But she knows how to stir things up just to get attention.

48. "I can live without you." – But she keeps calling and texting, hoping for reassurance.

49. "I don’t like surprises." – Until you show up with flowers and she melts.

50. "I’ve never done anything like this before." – Yet she’s been through this routine multiple times.

Any Woman That Will Make You Successful Carries These 7 Signs

Not every woman you see on the street is headed the same way you are heading. Some women come to distract, some come to destroy, and others will come to damage.

There are a few rare ones, sent to build, to bless, and to bring out the king in you.

Here’s how you’ll know her:

She believes in your dreams

Even when they look crazy to others, she sees your potential. She doesn't laugh at your vision, she reminds you of it when you start forgetting who you are.

She prays for you

Even when you don’t know it. In silence and in secret, she lifts your name up to God, covering your battles with faith and not fear. A praying woman is a powerful partner.

She pushes you to grow

She won’t let you settle. She challenges your comfort zone with love, because she sees what you can become. Growth is never easy, but she makes it worth it.

She speaks life into you

When the world tears you down, she builds you up with her words. She reminds you of your strength, your vision, and your value, not just with sweet talk, but with truth.

She respects your hustle

She understands your grind, your long nights, your silent battles. She doesn’t compare you to others, she celebrates your efforts and your process.

She brings peace, not pressure

Her presence feels like calm in a storm. She's not in competition with your purpose; she aligns with it. She doesn’t drain your energy, she restores it.

She loves you into purpose, not just into pleasure

She’s not just there for the good times or for what she can get. She’s invested in your becoming. She helps you walk in your calling, even when it’s hard.

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Your success as a man will greatly be influenced by who you marry. One mistake, and everything you've built will collapse in seconds.

Staying around friends that has positive influence in your life has good progress in you becoming successful

TEACH YOUR DAUGHTERS THAT

They are five (5) important dresses a woman should wear in her lifetime.

These are:

1. School uniform
2. Matriculation gown
3. Graduation gown
4. Wedding gown
5. Maternity gown

Let your daughters know;That if any girl skips the 2nd dress, she will not get to wear the 3rd.

Daughters must not rush to wear the 5th just because a man has promised them the 4th.

More so, the 4th fits better and more prestigious if worn before the 5th.

Our daughters must learn to wait and follow the dress pattern from 1 to 5.

Be a good parent and Christian leader.

We have this as a responsibility to our Children as parents.

And it is Very important.

A story of Love, German to Tanzania
Stephanie Fuchs, a German native, embarked on a life-altering adventure when she met Sokoine, a Maasai man, in January 2011 while working at a research camp in Tanzania, and their love story is genuinely uplifting.
A mother of one, Stephanie has spent the past 12 years living in Tanzania and proudly affirms that following her heart was the most empowering decision she ever made.

HOW TO BUILD A CEO MINDSET AS AN ONLINE BRAND OWNER

Sweetheart, if you don’t start thinking like a CEO, your online brand will forever remain a hobby.

And hobbies don’t pay bills!

When you see fellow women making mind blowing money online? It’s not magic.

They have something you might be overlooking, a CEO mindset.

That’s the difference between running your brand like a side hustle and running it like a business that funds your dream life.

Let me break it down for you:

1. STOP SEEING YOUR BRAND AS “JUST ONLINE”

A lot of women make the mistake of thinking, “It’s just social media. It’s not that deep.”

Big mistake!

You need to start seeing your online brand as a real business.

If you take it seriously, others will too.

Show up like a boss.

Be intentional about your content.

Stop running it when you feel like, have a strategy.

2. KNOW YOUR NUMBERS, KNOW YOUR MONEY

You’re not just a content creator, you’re a businesswoman.

Do you know how much you made last month?

Do you track your sales? If not, you’re running your brand blindfolded.

Have clear income goals.

Track every naira you make and spend.

Charge your worth!

Stop underpricing yourself out of fear.

3. MOVE FROM EMPLOYEE THINKING TO CEO THINKING

If you’re waiting for someone to tell you what to do, you’re still thinking like an employee.

CEOs take charge!

Invest in learning new skills (marketing, branding, sales).

Make bold decisions without fear.

4. BRAND POSITIONING IS EVERYTHING.

A CEO doesn’t just “post and pray.”

She positions herself to attract the right audience and clients.

Speak with authority in your niche.

Show social proof, testimonials, success stories, results!

Network with other high-value women (your circle matters).

5. CONSISTENCY IS YOUR BEST FRIEND

Sis, if you show up today and disappear for two weeks, how will people take you seriously?

Consistency is what turns followers into buyers.

Plan your content ahead.

Show up even when you don’t feel like it.

Keep refining and improving your content.

6. DEVELOP A GROWTH MINDSET

A CEO doesn’t cry over low engagement or failed launches, she learns and improves.

See challenges as lessons, not roadblocks.

Be adaptable (social media change fast).

Never stop evolving!

If you want a profitable online brand, you need to start thinking and acting like a CEO today.

No more playing small.

As for me, I’m here to play the big game!

HOW TO CONNECT WITH HIGH-VALUE PEOPLE

Going to people’s dm and asking to be mentored isn’t the way to go!

High value people value their time so much and won’t give it to just anyone for free.

So how do you connect with them?

1. Be Valuable Yourself

You attract what you carry.

High-value people can smell desperation from a mile away, but they also recognize VALUE when they see it.

What skill do you have?

What problem can you solve?

What makes you different? Start there.

Build something. Even if it’s small. Just be doing something for yourself first!

2. Show Up Where They Are

It’s not by commenting “I tap into your grace” under their posts.

Attend their webinars.

Join online communities.

Show up in places they’re likely to be.

And when you get in, don’t go and start begging for visibility.

Instead, contribute. Add intelligent inputs.

Ask thoughtful questions. Share some of your wins. It’s attractive.

3. Use Your Content to Position Yourself

Your content is your loudspeaker.

Let it speak about your expertise, your values, your journey.

When they come across your page, what will they see?

Complaints? Confusion?

Or clarity, consistency, and commitment to growth?

4. Offer Value Before Asking for Anything

You want to DM a high-value person to connect with him or her!

Ask yourself first: “What am I offering this person?”

Even if it’s just a genuine compliment, a thoughtful idea, or something helpful.

Don’t just enter with “I need your help(for free) or “Please be my mentor”

That’s not going to work.

5. Let God Do His Networking

Not everything is by hustling.

Some connections will find you when you’re faithful with what’s in your hand.

Do your part. Sow your seeds. Serve well.

And then let God position you for divine connections. One helper from God can shift your whole story.

Last last, no dey form who you’re not.

Avoid fake life. Just do what you’re supposed to do.

Because when your light starts to shine, trust me, they will find you.