• “6 THINGS MEN WHO NEVER SIMP UNDERSTAND (THAT SIMPS WILL NEVER GET)”

    Some of you think you’re “nice guys.”

    Nah, bro—you’re a SIMP.

    Always chasing, begging, paying, pleading…
    And still not getting what you want.

    But there’s a class of men who NEVER go through that humiliation.

    Let me tell you the 6 codes those men live by.

    BRUTAL THREAD:

    1. “ATTENTION IS CURRENCY—NEVER SPEND IT FOOLISHLY”
    A non-simp knows: the more you give a woman unnecessary attention, the less she values it.

    Simps? Always double texting, calling 10 times, replying stories in 2 seconds.

    Real men? They respond, not chase.
    They’re BUSY. They don’t overinvest attention.

    Result? Women respect them because their attention is rare.

    2. “A MAN WHO WORSHIPS A WOMAN CAN NEVER LEAD HER”
    A non-simp knows: once you place her on a pedestal, you’ve put yourself under her feet.

    Simps? “My queen,” “You’re my world,” “I’m nothing without you.”

    Bro… even SHE will start believing you’re beneath her.

    Real men? They love, but they don’t worship.
    They admire, but they don’t lose frame.

    Women can only follow men they respect, not men who beg.

    3. “A MAN WHO CAN’T WALK AWAY HAS ALREADY LOST POWER”
    A non-simp understands:
    The power to walk away is the power to lead.

    Simps?
    “I’ll do anything to keep her.”
    “She’s all I have.”
    “I can’t live without her.”

    Bro, you’ve surrendered your balls.

    Real men? They’re ready to walk away if respect is lost.
    They know: staying where you’re not valued is self-abuse.

    4. “YOUR MONEY MUST SERVE YOUR MISSION—NOT HER EMOTIONS”
    A non-simp’s money builds himself first.

    Simps?
    “Babe needs money.”
    “Babe wants hair.”
    “Babe’s rent is due.”

    Their account balance = ATM for her lifestyle.

    Real men? They fund purpose, not parasitism.

    They help, but they never cripple their finances to sponsor a princess lifestyle.

    5. “A MAN WHO CHASES WOMEN HAS NO TIME TO BUILD KINGDOMS”
    A non-simp knows: the more you chase, the more you waste time.

    Simps are marathon runners:
    From one DM to another.
    From one date to another.

    Meanwhile… kings are busy building empires.
    Money. Power. Value.

    And guess what?
    Women chase men who build.

    6. “A WOMAN MUST QUALIFY FOR YOUR LEADERSHIP—NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND”
    A non-simp doesn’t audition for women’s approval.

    Simps?
    “Do you like me now?”
    “Am I good enough?”
    “Please give me a chance.”

    Bro… why are you applying for a job you created?

    Real men?
    They ARE the prize.
    Their standards select.

    A woman must qualify to sit beside him, not the other way around.

    BOTTOM LINE:

    If you’re still simping, you’re living life upside down.

    Stop chasing validation.
    Stop funding entitlement.
    Stop surrendering power.

    Start building YOU.
    Respect flows from strength.

    Women don’t follow men who beg.
    They follow men who lead.

    If this post burns you—it’s because you need it.

    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
    “6 THINGS MEN WHO NEVER SIMP UNDERSTAND (THAT SIMPS WILL NEVER GET)” Some of you think you’re “nice guys.” Nah, bro—you’re a SIMP. Always chasing, begging, paying, pleading… And still not getting what you want. But there’s a class of men who NEVER go through that humiliation. Let me tell you the 6 codes those men live by. BRUTAL THREAD: 1. “ATTENTION IS CURRENCY—NEVER SPEND IT FOOLISHLY” A non-simp knows: the more you give a woman unnecessary attention, the less she values it. Simps? Always double texting, calling 10 times, replying stories in 2 seconds. Real men? They respond, not chase. They’re BUSY. They don’t overinvest attention. Result? Women respect them because their attention is rare. 2. “A MAN WHO WORSHIPS A WOMAN CAN NEVER LEAD HER” A non-simp knows: once you place her on a pedestal, you’ve put yourself under her feet. Simps? “My queen,” “You’re my world,” “I’m nothing without you.” Bro… even SHE will start believing you’re beneath her. Real men? They love, but they don’t worship. They admire, but they don’t lose frame. Women can only follow men they respect, not men who beg. 3. “A MAN WHO CAN’T WALK AWAY HAS ALREADY LOST POWER” A non-simp understands: The power to walk away is the power to lead. Simps? “I’ll do anything to keep her.” “She’s all I have.” “I can’t live without her.” Bro, you’ve surrendered your balls. Real men? They’re ready to walk away if respect is lost. They know: staying where you’re not valued is self-abuse. 4. “YOUR MONEY MUST SERVE YOUR MISSION—NOT HER EMOTIONS” A non-simp’s money builds himself first. Simps? “Babe needs money.” “Babe wants hair.” “Babe’s rent is due.” Their account balance = ATM for her lifestyle. Real men? They fund purpose, not parasitism. They help, but they never cripple their finances to sponsor a princess lifestyle. 5. “A MAN WHO CHASES WOMEN HAS NO TIME TO BUILD KINGDOMS” A non-simp knows: the more you chase, the more you waste time. Simps are marathon runners: From one DM to another. From one date to another. Meanwhile… kings are busy building empires. Money. Power. Value. And guess what? Women chase men who build. 6. “A WOMAN MUST QUALIFY FOR YOUR LEADERSHIP—NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND” A non-simp doesn’t audition for women’s approval. Simps? “Do you like me now?” “Am I good enough?” “Please give me a chance.” Bro… why are you applying for a job you created? Real men? They ARE the prize. Their standards select. A woman must qualify to sit beside him, not the other way around. BOTTOM LINE: If you’re still simping, you’re living life upside down. Stop chasing validation. Stop funding entitlement. Stop surrendering power. Start building YOU. Respect flows from strength. Women don’t follow men who beg. They follow men who lead. If this post burns you—it’s because you need it. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
    Love
    1
    0 Yorumlar 0 hisse senetleri 55 Views
  • Life testimony on how jigsimur remove her from wheelchair, cervical cancer stage two ND healed her of ovariancyt.....
    DM 08068857039 or 09050357218
    Life testimony on how jigsimur remove her from wheelchair, cervical cancer stage two ND healed her of ovariancyt..... DM 08068857039 or 09050357218
    0 Yorumlar 0 hisse senetleri 48 Views 0
  • DECLARATION

    I DECREE TODAY THAT WHAT THE DEVIL IS AFRAID OF REGARDING YOUR LIFE SHALL COME TO PASS IN JESUS NAME
    DECLARATION I DECREE TODAY THAT WHAT THE DEVIL IS AFRAID OF REGARDING YOUR LIFE SHALL COME TO PASS IN JESUS NAME
    0 Yorumlar 1 hisse senetleri 74 Views
  • Gracious Lord, in the quiet sanctuary of Your presence, I seek to choose the better part. I long to know You deeply, but the whirlwind of life's demands often scatters my focus. Lead me into a place of holy stillness. Let Your Spirit quiet my heart, that I may be a vessel of worship rather than a carrier of worry. As I open Your Word, let it be the lamp unto my feet, guiding me closer to You. Teach me to abide in You so that my life may reflect Your love and bear fruit that glorifies Your name. Amen.
    Gracious Lord, in the quiet sanctuary of Your presence, I seek to choose the better part. I long to know You deeply, but the whirlwind of life's demands often scatters my focus. Lead me into a place of holy stillness. Let Your Spirit quiet my heart, that I may be a vessel of worship rather than a carrier of worry. As I open Your Word, let it be the lamp unto my feet, guiding me closer to You. Teach me to abide in You so that my life may reflect Your love and bear fruit that glorifies Your name. Amen.
    0 Yorumlar 1 hisse senetleri 61 Views
  • *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE *

    Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.

    No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages.

    What Should you do?

    1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage

    2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses.

    3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together.

    4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day.

    5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other.

    6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment.

    7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis.

    8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her.

    9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills.

    10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc
    Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her.

    11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear.

    12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say.

    13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day.

    14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you.

    15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x.
    Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage.

    16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend.

    17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse.

    18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry.

    19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself.

    20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere

    21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation

    22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too!

    23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone.

    Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever.

    24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems.

    25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go.

    26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist.

    27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse.

    You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name

    Kindly share..
    *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice. No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..
    WHATSAPP.COM
    💑MARRIAGE TIPS, HEALTH AND BUSINESS ADVICES 💞💃 | WhatsApp Channel
    💑MARRIAGE TIPS, HEALTH AND BUSINESS ADVICES 💞💃 WhatsApp Channel. *❤️MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING CREATED BY GOD,* *FOR YOU TO ENJOY IT THERE ARE SOME TIPS AND ADVICE YOU NEED TO LEARN:🌹* *6 SECRETS IN MARRIAGE THAT WILL SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOR BETTER!*🍹 Secret 1 *Everyone you marry has a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.* Secret 2 *Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.* Secret 3 *Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.* Secret 4 *Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.* Secret 5 *To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:* 1. Ignorance 2. Prayerlessness 3. Unforgiveness 4. Third party influence 5. Stinginess 6. Stubbornness 7. Lack of love 9. Rudeness 10. Laziness 11. Disrespect 12. Cheating Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone. Secret 6 *There is no perfect marriage.There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it.* *Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances Let us not be careless about our marriages.🙏*. 38K followers
    0 Yorumlar 0 hisse senetleri 78 Views


  • *What to Have Before You Become a Wife *

    Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire.

    But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience.

    So before you become a wife; Have

    1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself

    Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions.

    Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else.

    Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself.

    Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure.

    2. Emotional Maturity

    Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love?

    In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband.
    There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills.

    Learn Good Communication Skills too.

    Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man.

    Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough.

    Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence.

    A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom.

    3. Financial Wisdom

    You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that.

    You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally.

    Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you

    Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both.

    Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain!



    4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life

    What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose?

    Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife?

    It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision.

    Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep.

    If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met.

    Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort.


    5. Sound Marital Knowledge

    You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage?

    In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent.

    You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it.

    You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible.

    All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing

    Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ?

    Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront.

    Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can.

    6. Healing from Past Wounds

    Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage.

    Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married.

    Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage.

    Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow.

    7. The Right Community

    Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage.

    Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage.

    Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them.


    8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility

    Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed?

    Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them.
    Start building them now— the right habits.

    Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids.

    9. Hobbies and Passions

    In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow.

    Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season.

    When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home.

    10. A Prayer Life

    Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God.

    A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan.

    A kneeling woman is a winning woman!


    Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it.

    Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole.

    So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman.

    A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key.

    Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it.

    Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED , not to be ENDURED .

    You are worth the wait. PEACE!
    *What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️
    WHATSAPP.COM
    💑MARRIAGE TIPS, HEALTH AND BUSINESS ADVICES 💞💃 | WhatsApp Channel
    💑MARRIAGE TIPS, HEALTH AND BUSINESS ADVICES 💞💃 WhatsApp Channel. *❤️MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING CREATED BY GOD,* *FOR YOU TO ENJOY IT THERE ARE SOME TIPS AND ADVICE YOU NEED TO LEARN:🌹* *6 SECRETS IN MARRIAGE THAT WILL SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOR BETTER!*🍹 Secret 1 *Everyone you marry has a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.* Secret 2 *Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.* Secret 3 *Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.* Secret 4 *Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.* Secret 5 *To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:* 1. Ignorance 2. Prayerlessness 3. Unforgiveness 4. Third party influence 5. Stinginess 6. Stubbornness 7. Lack of love 9. Rudeness 10. Laziness 11. Disrespect 12. Cheating Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone. Secret 6 *There is no perfect marriage.There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it.* *Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances Let us not be careless about our marriages.🙏*. 38K followers
    0 Yorumlar 0 hisse senetleri 70 Views
  • *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 08/06/2025*

    Looming floods in 33 States: Food insecurity may worsen

    Fibre cuts disrupt telecom services in nine states

    Anambra, Osun polls: Anxieties in APC as Soludo, Adeleke court Tinubu

    I’ve never begged Wike for money – Abati counters Lere Olayinka

    God warned my firstborn would die if I left RCCG — Adeboye

    Osimhen agrees personal terms with Al Hilal

    Spending bill criticism: Trump warns Musk of serious consequences

    Nigeria, U.S trade hits $13bn, 2nd largest in Africa — Mills, Envoy

    Nigeria, Angola lead Africa’s push for energy independence — Report

    Ireland spends N577m to deport 35 Nigerians

    No lives lost in fire incident at Mecca pilgrims’ hotel – NAHCON

    Terror financier: British-Nigerian, Ojiri jailed for concealing £140,000 art transactions

    Nigerians losing their minds in Libyan prisons – Returnee

    ----------------------------
    *DID YOU KNOW?*

    * Wagyu, which means “Japanese Cow” in Japanese, is the most expensive beef in the world. It can only come from a certain breed, such as Japanese Black (Kuroge) cattle. Each cow is identified with a nose print and a unique 10-digit Cattle ID number that can be used to research date of birth, lineage, farm and other important details.

    * The ‘Baby Shark Dance’ is one of the most-watched videos on YouTube, with over 14.66 billion views.
    ----------------------------

    President, Atiku, others mourn as music icon Ejeagha dies at 95

    Tinubu in support of LG autonomy – Senator Karimi

    ICPC arraigns court worker over N9.2m job scam

    NAF destroys Boko Haram storage facility in Borno

    Egbetokun hailed for abolishing case transfer, other reforms

    Akume not silent on insecurity in Benue, says SGF office

    NAPTIP rejects Speed Darlington’s June 26 appearance request

    FG relocates 484 pilgrims after Saudi hotel fire

    Brazilian tourism board strengthens ties with NICO

    No state can receive LGs’ funds, FG insists

    Zulum, Shehu urge FG to fast-track Alau Dam project to avert looming disaster

    FG declares Abia river blindness free

    Why new firm won oil blocks in 2024 round — NUPRC

    Eid: NRC adds special services on Lagos-Ibadan, Abuja-Kaduna routes

    NIN registration yet to commence in 256 custodial centres – Report

    NOA kicks against proliferation of small and light weapons in A’Ibom

    OAUSTECH’s lecturer gets patent rights for pharmaceutical device

    Man who died after jumping from 3-storey not our student – UNIZIK

    Civil War my most difficult period in life — Gowon

    ‘It wasn’t a firearm,’ Paul Adefarasin addresses viral video allegations

    Otedola eulogises Tinubu, describes President as history maker

    Trustfund Pension declares 55 kobo dividend

    Peter Obi decries unpaid 5- year salary arrears for UNIZIK workers

    Lagos APC members protest imposition in council

    Soludo optimistic as Anambra poll campaign kicks off Wednesday

    Zulum donates N100m to injured, fallen soldiers’ families

    Ibas rues Songhai Farm’s neglect in Rivers

    Defection: We remain loyal to Eno, didn’t resign —Commissioners

    Delta approves multi-billion naira road projects, N6.7bn UBEC counterpart fund

    Anambra sets up electricity commission to boost power supply

    NOA kicks against proliferation of small and light weapons in A’Ibom

    No fight between Ooni and I, says Alaafin

    Drug-fuelled Kwara man dies in well

    ----------------------------

    *TODAY IN HISTORY*

    * On this day in 1998, General Sani Abacha, a military head of state of Nigeria, died in Aso Rock Villa, Abuja. On November 17, 1993, Abacha became head of state when he overthrew the Ernest Shonekan-led interim national government set in place by General Ibrahim Babangida on August 26, 1993, after Babangida annulled the 1993 presidential which billionaire MKO Abiola won.

    * On this day in 1949, George Orwell published ‘Nineteen Eighty-Four’. Orwell’s nightmarish description of a totalitarian society set in the year 1984 is a significant work of English literature and popular novel. The phrase, Big Brother is watching you, stems from this work.

    ----------------------------
    *ADVERT*

    Do you want to have a deep knowledge of Entrepreneurship And Tech Startups, click the link below https://selar.com/34z311

    ----------------------------

    Give a little love to a child, and you get a great deal back. – John Ruskin

    Good morning


    *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com, +234-8122200446*
    *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 08/06/2025* Looming floods in 33 States: Food insecurity may worsen Fibre cuts disrupt telecom services in nine states Anambra, Osun polls: Anxieties in APC as Soludo, Adeleke court Tinubu I’ve never begged Wike for money – Abati counters Lere Olayinka God warned my firstborn would die if I left RCCG — Adeboye Osimhen agrees personal terms with Al Hilal Spending bill criticism: Trump warns Musk of serious consequences Nigeria, U.S trade hits $13bn, 2nd largest in Africa — Mills, Envoy Nigeria, Angola lead Africa’s push for energy independence — Report Ireland spends N577m to deport 35 Nigerians No lives lost in fire incident at Mecca pilgrims’ hotel – NAHCON Terror financier: British-Nigerian, Ojiri jailed for concealing £140,000 art transactions Nigerians losing their minds in Libyan prisons – Returnee ---------------------------- *DID YOU KNOW?* * Wagyu, which means “Japanese Cow” in Japanese, is the most expensive beef in the world. It can only come from a certain breed, such as Japanese Black (Kuroge) cattle. Each cow is identified with a nose print and a unique 10-digit Cattle ID number that can be used to research date of birth, lineage, farm and other important details. * The ‘Baby Shark Dance’ is one of the most-watched videos on YouTube, with over 14.66 billion views. ---------------------------- President, Atiku, others mourn as music icon Ejeagha dies at 95 Tinubu in support of LG autonomy – Senator Karimi ICPC arraigns court worker over N9.2m job scam NAF destroys Boko Haram storage facility in Borno Egbetokun hailed for abolishing case transfer, other reforms Akume not silent on insecurity in Benue, says SGF office NAPTIP rejects Speed Darlington’s June 26 appearance request FG relocates 484 pilgrims after Saudi hotel fire Brazilian tourism board strengthens ties with NICO No state can receive LGs’ funds, FG insists Zulum, Shehu urge FG to fast-track Alau Dam project to avert looming disaster FG declares Abia river blindness free Why new firm won oil blocks in 2024 round — NUPRC Eid: NRC adds special services on Lagos-Ibadan, Abuja-Kaduna routes NIN registration yet to commence in 256 custodial centres – Report NOA kicks against proliferation of small and light weapons in A’Ibom OAUSTECH’s lecturer gets patent rights for pharmaceutical device Man who died after jumping from 3-storey not our student – UNIZIK Civil War my most difficult period in life — Gowon ‘It wasn’t a firearm,’ Paul Adefarasin addresses viral video allegations Otedola eulogises Tinubu, describes President as history maker Trustfund Pension declares 55 kobo dividend Peter Obi decries unpaid 5- year salary arrears for UNIZIK workers Lagos APC members protest imposition in council Soludo optimistic as Anambra poll campaign kicks off Wednesday Zulum donates N100m to injured, fallen soldiers’ families Ibas rues Songhai Farm’s neglect in Rivers Defection: We remain loyal to Eno, didn’t resign —Commissioners Delta approves multi-billion naira road projects, N6.7bn UBEC counterpart fund Anambra sets up electricity commission to boost power supply NOA kicks against proliferation of small and light weapons in A’Ibom No fight between Ooni and I, says Alaafin Drug-fuelled Kwara man dies in well ---------------------------- *TODAY IN HISTORY* * On this day in 1998, General Sani Abacha, a military head of state of Nigeria, died in Aso Rock Villa, Abuja. On November 17, 1993, Abacha became head of state when he overthrew the Ernest Shonekan-led interim national government set in place by General Ibrahim Babangida on August 26, 1993, after Babangida annulled the 1993 presidential which billionaire MKO Abiola won. * On this day in 1949, George Orwell published ‘Nineteen Eighty-Four’. Orwell’s nightmarish description of a totalitarian society set in the year 1984 is a significant work of English literature and popular novel. The phrase, Big Brother is watching you, stems from this work. ---------------------------- *ADVERT* Do you want to have a deep knowledge of Entrepreneurship And Tech Startups, click the link below https://selar.com/34z311 ---------------------------- Give a little love to a child, and you get a great deal back. – John Ruskin Good morning *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com, +234-8122200446*
    SELAR.COM
    Buy Demystifying Entrepreneurship And Tech Startups by GML Consulting on Selar
    Demystifying Entrepreneurship And Tech Startups.25 Pre-recorded real classroom marker-to-board lecture that can be watched at your convenience. Each is made of average of 20 minutes of solid knowledge packed videos.The Topics are;* Understanding Entrepreneurship, Gener...
    0 Yorumlar 0 hisse senetleri 58 Views
  • Happy xunday everyone wishing you every good thing in life
    Happy xunday everyone 🙏🥰🥰 wishing you every good thing in life😎😎🥰🥰
    Love
    1
    0 Yorumlar 0 hisse senetleri 81 Views
  • Gowon describes the Nigerian Civil War as the most difficult period of his life, urging forgiveness and national unity.
    Gowon describes the Nigerian Civil War as the most difficult period of his life, urging forgiveness and national unity.
    0 Yorumlar 0 hisse senetleri 110 Views
  • Let every Igbo read and pass this educational piece to our children. Culled from Chike Ofilli.

    ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS ON THE IGBO:
    Clearing the Basic Confusions Honestly

    *Question: Is Southeast and Igboland the same thing?*

    *Answer* : Not at all. Southeast is only about 3/5th of Igboland. Igboland covers the whole of Southeast, parts of Rivers, Delta, Edo, Cross river, Benue, Kogi, and Akwa Ibom states.

    *Question: Why were we taught in school that Igbo people are easterners?*

    *Answer* : It is both an unfortunate parroting by teachers and careless adoption by Igbo educated class. Igbo people come from Southern Nigeria and not Eastern Nigeria. It may be correct to say that the Igbo are found predominantly in eastern Nigeria. However, by saying that the Igbo are easterners, the implication is that the Igbo in western Nigeria, numbering about 2.5 million (Agbor, Ogwashi Ukwu, Ibuzo, Okpanam, Asaba, Orimili, Ndokwa, Anioma, etc) are not Igbos. The best-known Igbo anthropologist Professor Mike Onwuejeogwu is from the western part of Nigeria, Chukwuma Nzeogwu, Dennis Osadebe, Okonkwo Adibe (the famous musician), Sony Odogwu, etc. are all from the western part of Nigeria. They are no less Igbo than those who live in the eastern part of Nigeria. The correct answer to your question is “the Igbo come from Southern Nigeria.”

    *Question: Why do some Igbo refer to themselves as “core Igbo?”*

    *Answer:* That is clearly arrant nonsense. Nobody is core and others peripheral. All Igbo are the same. It is both arrogant, thoughtless, and insensitive for anybody to regard others as marginal.

    *Question: Is Igboland landlocked?*

    *Answer:* Not at all. Igboland stretches from Port Harcourt to Agbor. The Atlantic ocean washes the shores of Igboland at the islands Opobo and Bonny, Africa’s second largest river – River Niger, traverses Igboland with one part of Igboland in the east and another part in the west of Nigeria. Oguta Lake has the potential to accommodate large ships and could be made a navigable port. If Igboland is landlocked, then all Nigeria is landlocked.

    *Question: Is there oil in Igboland?*

    *Answer:* Yes, indeed. There is a lot of oil & and gas in Imo, Abia, and currently in Anambra states and Igbo areas in Rivers and Delta States. Besides, Igboland has many other natural resources, including coal, iron ore, limestone, lead, zinc, brine, glass, etc.

    *Question: Are the Igbo a nation or a tribe?*

    *Answer:* The Igbo is a nation and a very large one. There are many dialects or tribes in Igbo nation, just like you have many tribes within Israel.

    *Question: Why do some Ikwerre people and other non southeastern Igbo say they are not Igbo?*

    *Answer:* First, it is not up to them to say what they are and what they are not. When God created them, He did not ask them who they wanted to be. He just created them Igbo. The only way you’ll know who belongs to what ethnic group in Nigeria is the name and what language the name comes from. Anybody whose name is Amadi or Onyeri, or Eke, or Odili, Wanodi (Nwanodi) does not need to tell you who he is. He is Igbo, notwithstanding their politics.

    *Question: But they claim that their language is Ikwerre, not Igbo.*

    *Answer:* That is politics. Ikwerre is a dialect of Igbo language. Just like an Ngwa man speaks Ngwa Igbo, Arochukwu speaks Arochukwu Igbo, Ika speaks Ika Igbo, Ibani speak Ibani Igbo etc.

    *Question: Some people say that Igbo language is not complete, is it true?*

    *Answer:* No language is complete. All languages borrow from each other. Igbo language is very rich. It has inexhaustible and rich linguistic features like idioms, proverbs, aphorisms, sayings, anecdotes, riddles, folklores, etc. Igbo language is one of the major languages of the world, being spoken by millions of people.

    *Question: How many are the Igbo?*

    *Answer:* The Igbo are very numerous. There is an educated guess that if Nigeria’s census is properly enumerated, the Igbo could easily be the largest ethnic group in the country. They may number up to 40 million. Everything right now is speculation. Nobody knows the true stratification or ethnic populations in Nigeria. The Igbo are the only ethnic group found in large numbers everywhere in Nigeria and foreign countries more than any other ethnic group in Africa.

    *Question: Do the Igbo have a culture of their own?*

    *Answer:* Yes, indeed. Igbo culture is perhaps one of the richest and all-encompassing cultures in this world. Igbo culture always observes the temporal and the spiritual aspects of cosmology. The study of Igbo culture reveals that it is extremely deep and original.

    *Question: Why do the Igbo wear Yoruba Agbada and Hausa babban riga, but the Yoruba and the Hausa do not ever wear Igbo national dress?*

    *Answer* : Unfortunately, this is the case. The Igbo have very attractive and resplendent national dresses. And they come in assortments that are extremely dignifying. The Igbo take up foreign cultures more readily than other Nigerians, and they seem not to care that nobody reciprocates their carefree attitude to life. Most ethnics promote their cultures and show off what makes them unique. Actually, it is still the same so-called educated Igbo class who behave in such disgraceful and devil-may-care attitudes.

    *Question: Why do the Igbo call themselves Biafrans?*

    *Answer:* Great question. Some people have the idea that Biafra originates from the Bight of Biafra. But that is wrong. Biafra was the National name of Igboland given to Igbo by the Portuguese, just as Nigeria was named by the English of Britain. There was the Kingdom of Biafra that ruled most of the ancient subtropical Africa about 50,000 years ago. Unfortunately, nobody talks about it, for whatever reason (maybe because Portugal lost the colony right of Biafra to Britain who buried it, in other to promote Nigeria amalgamation), "I do not know". But, it is in the ancient maps of the world. If you wish, search it in Google.

    *Question: Were the Igbo also taken into slavery during the slave trade?*

    *Answer:* Yes. The Igbo slaves themselves gave account of their travails in slavery. Olauda Ekwuano, an Igbo ex-slave who bought his freedom in Britain, was the first slave to write about his experience in slavery. His book has become a classic. You ought to find it and read it. Also, other Igbos who were brought to America revolted, and some walked back on water and were said to have returned to Africa. Several books have been written about them. One of such books is “Ibo Landing.” It is available in bookstores like Barnes & Noble. In Haiti, the Igbo settled there and refused to be colonized by anybody. There are many places where the Igbo left their mark or their signature.

    *Question: How did the Igbo know days and years?*

    *Answer:* The Igbo invented an accurate, if not the most accurate, calendar called “Iguafo Igbo (Igbo Calendar).” In Igbo calendar, there are four market days – Eke, Afor, Nkwo, Orie that make one week. Four days make one week, seven weeks make one month, and thirteen months make one year. There are 28 days for each month, with the last month having 29 days. Each month starts the same day as the previous. Igbo calendar forms the perfect astronomical alignment with the cosmos and regulates the seasons, agriculture, navigation, astrology, geography, mathematics, travel, etc.

    *Question: Did the Igbo have their own alphabet?*

    *Answer:* Yes, indeed. It is called “Nsibidi.”

    *Question: How about mathematics; did the Igbo know mathematics?*

    *Answer:* Yes, indeed. There are such inventions as “Okwe” and “Mkpisi” which the Igbo used to resolve figures.

    *Question: Did the Igbo know anything about banking?*

    *Answer:* Yes. Igbo banking was more in the nature of savings and loans. The authentic Igbo savings and loans invention is called “Isusu’ in which contributions are pooled each week, and one person who has the need, collects, is still in practice. Igbo slaves took this invention to the Caribbean Islands, where they still practice it and call it “Sue Sue.”

    *Question: Some people say that Igboland is too small for the Igbo, that they have no alternative than to live as Nigerians: is this true?*

    *Answer:* False. Igboland is a large country. Do every Igbo need to stay and work in Igboland? No. Everywhere in the world, some will stay home while others venture abroad in search of opportunities. Igboland is large enough for the Igbo. It is a very rich and hospitable part of the world. It has rich soil for agriculture, abundant rainfall, good sunshine, and table land in many parts. Its land space and population are more than that of over half of the present countries in the world.

    *Question: Where did the Igbo come from?*

    *Answer:* That question is still being asked. There are very intriguing theories or histories now being studied. You may have heard of the Jewish angle & the Egypt angle which are connected, and the Origin of man angle. This twenty-first century, hopefully, will resolve the mystery.

    Share to educate others if you love Igbo👍🏾 @IzuchukwuCenter
    Let every Igbo read and pass this educational piece to our children. Culled from Chike Ofilli. ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS ON THE IGBO: Clearing the Basic Confusions Honestly *Question: Is Southeast and Igboland the same thing?* *Answer* : Not at all. Southeast is only about 3/5th of Igboland. Igboland covers the whole of Southeast, parts of Rivers, Delta, Edo, Cross river, Benue, Kogi, and Akwa Ibom states. *Question: Why were we taught in school that Igbo people are easterners?* *Answer* : It is both an unfortunate parroting by teachers and careless adoption by Igbo educated class. Igbo people come from Southern Nigeria and not Eastern Nigeria. It may be correct to say that the Igbo are found predominantly in eastern Nigeria. However, by saying that the Igbo are easterners, the implication is that the Igbo in western Nigeria, numbering about 2.5 million (Agbor, Ogwashi Ukwu, Ibuzo, Okpanam, Asaba, Orimili, Ndokwa, Anioma, etc) are not Igbos. The best-known Igbo anthropologist Professor Mike Onwuejeogwu is from the western part of Nigeria, Chukwuma Nzeogwu, Dennis Osadebe, Okonkwo Adibe (the famous musician), Sony Odogwu, etc. are all from the western part of Nigeria. They are no less Igbo than those who live in the eastern part of Nigeria. The correct answer to your question is “the Igbo come from Southern Nigeria.” *Question: Why do some Igbo refer to themselves as “core Igbo?”* *Answer:* That is clearly arrant nonsense. Nobody is core and others peripheral. All Igbo are the same. It is both arrogant, thoughtless, and insensitive for anybody to regard others as marginal. *Question: Is Igboland landlocked?* *Answer:* Not at all. Igboland stretches from Port Harcourt to Agbor. The Atlantic ocean washes the shores of Igboland at the islands Opobo and Bonny, Africa’s second largest river – River Niger, traverses Igboland with one part of Igboland in the east and another part in the west of Nigeria. Oguta Lake has the potential to accommodate large ships and could be made a navigable port. If Igboland is landlocked, then all Nigeria is landlocked. *Question: Is there oil in Igboland?* *Answer:* Yes, indeed. There is a lot of oil & and gas in Imo, Abia, and currently in Anambra states and Igbo areas in Rivers and Delta States. Besides, Igboland has many other natural resources, including coal, iron ore, limestone, lead, zinc, brine, glass, etc. *Question: Are the Igbo a nation or a tribe?* *Answer:* The Igbo is a nation and a very large one. There are many dialects or tribes in Igbo nation, just like you have many tribes within Israel. *Question: Why do some Ikwerre people and other non southeastern Igbo say they are not Igbo?* *Answer:* First, it is not up to them to say what they are and what they are not. When God created them, He did not ask them who they wanted to be. He just created them Igbo. The only way you’ll know who belongs to what ethnic group in Nigeria is the name and what language the name comes from. Anybody whose name is Amadi or Onyeri, or Eke, or Odili, Wanodi (Nwanodi) does not need to tell you who he is. He is Igbo, notwithstanding their politics. *Question: But they claim that their language is Ikwerre, not Igbo.* *Answer:* That is politics. Ikwerre is a dialect of Igbo language. Just like an Ngwa man speaks Ngwa Igbo, Arochukwu speaks Arochukwu Igbo, Ika speaks Ika Igbo, Ibani speak Ibani Igbo etc. *Question: Some people say that Igbo language is not complete, is it true?* *Answer:* No language is complete. All languages borrow from each other. Igbo language is very rich. It has inexhaustible and rich linguistic features like idioms, proverbs, aphorisms, sayings, anecdotes, riddles, folklores, etc. Igbo language is one of the major languages of the world, being spoken by millions of people. *Question: How many are the Igbo?* *Answer:* The Igbo are very numerous. There is an educated guess that if Nigeria’s census is properly enumerated, the Igbo could easily be the largest ethnic group in the country. They may number up to 40 million. Everything right now is speculation. Nobody knows the true stratification or ethnic populations in Nigeria. The Igbo are the only ethnic group found in large numbers everywhere in Nigeria and foreign countries more than any other ethnic group in Africa. *Question: Do the Igbo have a culture of their own?* *Answer:* Yes, indeed. Igbo culture is perhaps one of the richest and all-encompassing cultures in this world. Igbo culture always observes the temporal and the spiritual aspects of cosmology. The study of Igbo culture reveals that it is extremely deep and original. *Question: Why do the Igbo wear Yoruba Agbada and Hausa babban riga, but the Yoruba and the Hausa do not ever wear Igbo national dress?* *Answer* : Unfortunately, this is the case. The Igbo have very attractive and resplendent national dresses. And they come in assortments that are extremely dignifying. The Igbo take up foreign cultures more readily than other Nigerians, and they seem not to care that nobody reciprocates their carefree attitude to life. Most ethnics promote their cultures and show off what makes them unique. Actually, it is still the same so-called educated Igbo class who behave in such disgraceful and devil-may-care attitudes. *Question: Why do the Igbo call themselves Biafrans?* *Answer:* Great question. Some people have the idea that Biafra originates from the Bight of Biafra. But that is wrong. Biafra was the National name of Igboland given to Igbo by the Portuguese, just as Nigeria was named by the English of Britain. There was the Kingdom of Biafra that ruled most of the ancient subtropical Africa about 50,000 years ago. Unfortunately, nobody talks about it, for whatever reason (maybe because Portugal lost the colony right of Biafra to Britain who buried it, in other to promote Nigeria amalgamation), "I do not know". But, it is in the ancient maps of the world. If you wish, search it in Google. *Question: Were the Igbo also taken into slavery during the slave trade?* *Answer:* Yes. The Igbo slaves themselves gave account of their travails in slavery. Olauda Ekwuano, an Igbo ex-slave who bought his freedom in Britain, was the first slave to write about his experience in slavery. His book has become a classic. You ought to find it and read it. Also, other Igbos who were brought to America revolted, and some walked back on water and were said to have returned to Africa. Several books have been written about them. One of such books is “Ibo Landing.” It is available in bookstores like Barnes & Noble. In Haiti, the Igbo settled there and refused to be colonized by anybody. There are many places where the Igbo left their mark or their signature. *Question: How did the Igbo know days and years?* *Answer:* The Igbo invented an accurate, if not the most accurate, calendar called “Iguafo Igbo (Igbo Calendar).” In Igbo calendar, there are four market days – Eke, Afor, Nkwo, Orie that make one week. Four days make one week, seven weeks make one month, and thirteen months make one year. There are 28 days for each month, with the last month having 29 days. Each month starts the same day as the previous. Igbo calendar forms the perfect astronomical alignment with the cosmos and regulates the seasons, agriculture, navigation, astrology, geography, mathematics, travel, etc. *Question: Did the Igbo have their own alphabet?* *Answer:* Yes, indeed. It is called “Nsibidi.” *Question: How about mathematics; did the Igbo know mathematics?* *Answer:* Yes, indeed. There are such inventions as “Okwe” and “Mkpisi” which the Igbo used to resolve figures. *Question: Did the Igbo know anything about banking?* *Answer:* Yes. Igbo banking was more in the nature of savings and loans. The authentic Igbo savings and loans invention is called “Isusu’ in which contributions are pooled each week, and one person who has the need, collects, is still in practice. Igbo slaves took this invention to the Caribbean Islands, where they still practice it and call it “Sue Sue.” *Question: Some people say that Igboland is too small for the Igbo, that they have no alternative than to live as Nigerians: is this true?* *Answer:* False. Igboland is a large country. Do every Igbo need to stay and work in Igboland? No. Everywhere in the world, some will stay home while others venture abroad in search of opportunities. Igboland is large enough for the Igbo. It is a very rich and hospitable part of the world. It has rich soil for agriculture, abundant rainfall, good sunshine, and table land in many parts. Its land space and population are more than that of over half of the present countries in the world. *Question: Where did the Igbo come from?* *Answer:* That question is still being asked. There are very intriguing theories or histories now being studied. You may have heard of the Jewish angle & the Egypt angle which are connected, and the Origin of man angle. This twenty-first century, hopefully, will resolve the mystery. Share to educate others if you love Igbo👍🏾 @IzuchukwuCenter
    0 Yorumlar 0 hisse senetleri 99 Views
  • *A true life story meant for women or men who always taught it's done with them when their marriage doesn't bring forth children.*

    *She Adopted 5 Boys Nobody Wanted — 27 Years Later, They Did Something She Never Expected.*

    *Gloria Adebayo was 35 when life tested her strength. After five years of marriage and multiple failed fertility treatments, her husband walked away — no explanation, just a short note on the kitchen table:-*
    *“I can’t do this anymore. I’m sorry.”*

    *The silence that followed was deafening. Gloria battled loneliness, shame, and the heavy weight of dreams unfulfilled. But she wasn’t the kind of woman to stay down for long.*

    *In 1997, during a volunteer shift at a local child welfare center in Lagos, she met a set of brothers — five boys, all under the age of 10, abandoned by their relatives after the death of their parents.*
    *No one wanted to adopt them because they came as a group. And so, they stayed… waiting.*

    *Something in Gloria’s heart stirred.*

    *She didn’t have the resources. She didn’t have a husband. But she had love — so much love, and she knew it wasn’t meant to stay locked up in her heart.*

    *One by one, she brought them home. First Segun, then Tunde, then the twins, Ikenna and Ifeanyi, and finally, baby Chuka. Raising them wasn’t easy — there were hospital visits, school fees, tears, and teenage drama. But there was also laughter, dancing in the rain, and Sunday mornings filled with jollof rice and gospel music.*

    *Years passed. The boys grew. One became a civil engineer. Another started a non-profit. One moved abroad and became a teacher. Two others joined the police force. But they all remained close to home… and close to Mama Gloria.*

    *In December 2024, on her 62nd birthday, they gathered in her small compound — and surprised her with a key.*

    *A brand-new house. Bought and built by all five of them.*

    *“We know you never had much,” Segun said, holding her trembling hands. “But you gave us everything. You gave us a home when we were forgotten. And now, it’s our turn.”*

    *Gloria couldn’t speak.*
    *The woman who once cried herself to sleep wondering if she’d ever be called “Mama” now sat surrounded by five grown men calling her “The greatest mother in the world.”*

    *She didn’t just adopt five boys.*
    *She raised five kings.*

    *Source: Rosy world CRN*

    *A true life story meant for women or men who always taught it's done with them when their marriage doesn't bring forth children.* *She Adopted 5 Boys Nobody Wanted — 27 Years Later, They Did Something She Never Expected.* *Gloria Adebayo was 35 when life tested her strength. After five years of marriage and multiple failed fertility treatments, her husband walked away — no explanation, just a short note on the kitchen table:-* *“I can’t do this anymore. I’m sorry.”* *The silence that followed was deafening. Gloria battled loneliness, shame, and the heavy weight of dreams unfulfilled. But she wasn’t the kind of woman to stay down for long.* *In 1997, during a volunteer shift at a local child welfare center in Lagos, she met a set of brothers — five boys, all under the age of 10, abandoned by their relatives after the death of their parents.* *No one wanted to adopt them because they came as a group. And so, they stayed… waiting.* *Something in Gloria’s heart stirred.* *She didn’t have the resources. She didn’t have a husband. But she had love — so much love, and she knew it wasn’t meant to stay locked up in her heart.* *One by one, she brought them home. First Segun, then Tunde, then the twins, Ikenna and Ifeanyi, and finally, baby Chuka. Raising them wasn’t easy — there were hospital visits, school fees, tears, and teenage drama. But there was also laughter, dancing in the rain, and Sunday mornings filled with jollof rice and gospel music.* *Years passed. The boys grew. One became a civil engineer. Another started a non-profit. One moved abroad and became a teacher. Two others joined the police force. But they all remained close to home… and close to Mama Gloria.* *In December 2024, on her 62nd birthday, they gathered in her small compound — and surprised her with a key.* *A brand-new house. Bought and built by all five of them.* *“We know you never had much,” Segun said, holding her trembling hands. “But you gave us everything. You gave us a home when we were forgotten. And now, it’s our turn.”* *Gloria couldn’t speak.* *The woman who once cried herself to sleep wondering if she’d ever be called “Mama” now sat surrounded by five grown men calling her “The greatest mother in the world.”* *She didn’t just adopt five boys.* *She raised five kings.* *Source: Rosy world CRN* 💟💖💝❤️‍🩹💟
    0 Yorumlar 1 hisse senetleri 132 Views
  • John 14:6

    The Lord Jesus said: "I am the way, the truth, and the life."
    John 14:6 The Lord Jesus said: "I am the way, the truth, and the life."
    0 Yorumlar 0 hisse senetleri 64 Views
Arama Sonuçları
Gada Chat https://gada.chat