• Yesterday, the coalition members formally adopted the African Democratic Congress (ADC) for the 2027 Nigeria General Elections with Distinguished Senator David Mark serving as the National Chairman and H.E. Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola serving as the National Secretary.

    Our commitment is to sacrifice and work together towards the 2027 General Elections, ensuring that Nigeria gets a competent, capable, and compassionate leadership that will prioritise the nation’s future by putting the welfare of Nigerians first.

    This decision was not made lightly. It comes from deep reflection on where we are as a country and what must be done to move forward.

    No one group can change Nigeria alone. To dismantle the structures that keep our people in poverty and insecurity, we must build bridges, not walls even when those bridges are uneasy.

    A New Nigeria is POssible.

    - PO
    Yesterday, the coalition members formally adopted the African Democratic Congress (ADC) for the 2027 Nigeria General Elections with Distinguished Senator David Mark serving as the National Chairman and H.E. Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola serving as the National Secretary. Our commitment is to sacrifice and work together towards the 2027 General Elections, ensuring that Nigeria gets a competent, capable, and compassionate leadership that will prioritise the nation’s future by putting the welfare of Nigerians first. This decision was not made lightly. It comes from deep reflection on where we are as a country and what must be done to move forward. No one group can change Nigeria alone. To dismantle the structures that keep our people in poverty and insecurity, we must build bridges, not walls even when those bridges are uneasy. A New Nigeria is POssible. - PO
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    We’re changing Nigeria’s infrastructure development story — Tinubu

    ANOTHER TOWN HALL TALK from hullabaloo bluehubaa... We’re changing Nigeria’s infrastructure development story — Tinubu
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  • In May 2018, a coalition movement initiated by former President Olusegun Obasanjo adopted the African Democratic Congress (ADC) as its political platform to challenge then-President Muhammadu Buhari in the 2019 elections.

    The Obasanjo-led movement — Coalition of Nigeria Movement (CNM) — unveiled ADC as an anti-Buhari political party during a press conference on May 10, 2018.

    The press conference was attended by Obasanjo, Olagunsoye Oyinlola, co-convener of the movement and a former governor of Osun state, and other political stakeholders.

    Obasanjo had proposed the CNM as a non-partisan platform that would “redeem” Nigeria from the “lice of poor performance” of the Buhari-led administration.

    He said the movement adopted ADC to bring about “desirable change in the Nigerian polity and governance”.

    The former president stated that ADC was not based on the “past and condemnable records of PDP” and the “disastrous performance of APC”.

    “Let me start by welcoming and commending the emergence of a renewed and reinvigorated African Democratic Congress, ADC, as a political party,” the former president had said.

    “Since the inception of the Coalition for Nigeria Movement (CNM), many of the sixty-eight registered political parties had contacted and consulted with the movement on coming together and working together.

    “The leadership of the movement, after detailed examination, wide consultation and bearing in mind the orientation, policies and direction of the movement, have agreed to adopt ADC as its platform to work with others for bringing about desirable change in the Nigerian polity and governance.”

    Also, Oyinlola said the decision to move into ADC was “an appreciation of the progressive essence of the party and its untainted existence on the terrain of our nation’s politics”.

    The former governor said Nigerians should expect more from the movement, describing the fusion as “the first in a multi-layered action plan to give back the country to its much-deprived people”.

    However, the fusion of the ADC and the Obasanjo-led movement lasted for just about three months.

    In August 2018, a faction of CNM pulled out of the ADC and announced itself as the New African Democratic Congress (N-ADC).

    Precious Elekima, protem national chairman of the group, made the announcement at a news conference in Abuja.

    Elekima said the group withdrew from ADC because it did not want to be a party in the Coalition of United Political Parties (CUPP).

    He noted that ADC leadership joined the alliance without consulting stakeholders.

    Elekima added that the ADC defied the clarion call by Obasanjo for the rejection of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) and All Progressives Congress (APC) by joining the alliance.

    In July 2018, the ADC joined 36 other opposition parties and the Reformed All Progressive Congress (R-APC) and PDP to form an alliance called CUPP.

    The parties signed a memorandum of understanding (MoU) to contest the 2019 elections under one platform.

    However, Buhari was re-elected in the 2019 elections.

    OPPOSITION COALITION ADOPTS ADC AHEAD OF 2027 ELECTIONS

    On Tuesday, the opposition politicians adopted ADC as the coalition platform ahead of the 2027 elections.

    Former Senate President David Mark and Rauf Aregbesola, ex-minister of interior, were appointed as the party’s interim national chairman and secretary, respectively.

    Bolaji Abdullahi, a former minister of sports, is the protem national publicity secretary of the ADC.

    On Wednesday, the coalition unveiled ADC in Abuja as the platform to seek elective positions and wrest power from the ruling APC in 2027.

    The party’s national executives, led by Ralph Nwosu, resigned for the Mark-led leadership to take over.

    Politicians at the event include former Vice-President Atiku Abubakar; Peter Obi, presidential candidate of the LP in 2023; Aminu Tambuwal, former governor of Sokoto; Rotimi Amaechi, former minister of transportation; Solomon Dalung, ex-minister of sports; and Odigie Oyegun, the former national chairman of the APC.

    Others are Abubakar Malami, former attorney-general of the federation (AGF) and minister of justice; Dino Melaye; Dele Momodu, publisher of Ovation magazine; Eyinnanya Abaribe; Gabriel Suswan; Ireti Kingibe; Elisha Abbo; Uche Secondus; Tunde Ogbeha; Victor Umeh; Laureata Onochie; Liyel Imoke; Bolaji Abdullahi, among others.
    In May 2018, a coalition movement initiated by former President Olusegun Obasanjo adopted the African Democratic Congress (ADC) as its political platform to challenge then-President Muhammadu Buhari in the 2019 elections. The Obasanjo-led movement — Coalition of Nigeria Movement (CNM) — unveiled ADC as an anti-Buhari political party during a press conference on May 10, 2018. The press conference was attended by Obasanjo, Olagunsoye Oyinlola, co-convener of the movement and a former governor of Osun state, and other political stakeholders. Obasanjo had proposed the CNM as a non-partisan platform that would “redeem” Nigeria from the “lice of poor performance” of the Buhari-led administration. He said the movement adopted ADC to bring about “desirable change in the Nigerian polity and governance”. The former president stated that ADC was not based on the “past and condemnable records of PDP” and the “disastrous performance of APC”. “Let me start by welcoming and commending the emergence of a renewed and reinvigorated African Democratic Congress, ADC, as a political party,” the former president had said. “Since the inception of the Coalition for Nigeria Movement (CNM), many of the sixty-eight registered political parties had contacted and consulted with the movement on coming together and working together. “The leadership of the movement, after detailed examination, wide consultation and bearing in mind the orientation, policies and direction of the movement, have agreed to adopt ADC as its platform to work with others for bringing about desirable change in the Nigerian polity and governance.” Also, Oyinlola said the decision to move into ADC was “an appreciation of the progressive essence of the party and its untainted existence on the terrain of our nation’s politics”. The former governor said Nigerians should expect more from the movement, describing the fusion as “the first in a multi-layered action plan to give back the country to its much-deprived people”. However, the fusion of the ADC and the Obasanjo-led movement lasted for just about three months. In August 2018, a faction of CNM pulled out of the ADC and announced itself as the New African Democratic Congress (N-ADC). Precious Elekima, protem national chairman of the group, made the announcement at a news conference in Abuja. Elekima said the group withdrew from ADC because it did not want to be a party in the Coalition of United Political Parties (CUPP). He noted that ADC leadership joined the alliance without consulting stakeholders. Elekima added that the ADC defied the clarion call by Obasanjo for the rejection of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) and All Progressives Congress (APC) by joining the alliance. In July 2018, the ADC joined 36 other opposition parties and the Reformed All Progressive Congress (R-APC) and PDP to form an alliance called CUPP. The parties signed a memorandum of understanding (MoU) to contest the 2019 elections under one platform. However, Buhari was re-elected in the 2019 elections. OPPOSITION COALITION ADOPTS ADC AHEAD OF 2027 ELECTIONS On Tuesday, the opposition politicians adopted ADC as the coalition platform ahead of the 2027 elections. Former Senate President David Mark and Rauf Aregbesola, ex-minister of interior, were appointed as the party’s interim national chairman and secretary, respectively. Bolaji Abdullahi, a former minister of sports, is the protem national publicity secretary of the ADC. On Wednesday, the coalition unveiled ADC in Abuja as the platform to seek elective positions and wrest power from the ruling APC in 2027. The party’s national executives, led by Ralph Nwosu, resigned for the Mark-led leadership to take over. Politicians at the event include former Vice-President Atiku Abubakar; Peter Obi, presidential candidate of the LP in 2023; Aminu Tambuwal, former governor of Sokoto; Rotimi Amaechi, former minister of transportation; Solomon Dalung, ex-minister of sports; and Odigie Oyegun, the former national chairman of the APC. Others are Abubakar Malami, former attorney-general of the federation (AGF) and minister of justice; Dino Melaye; Dele Momodu, publisher of Ovation magazine; Eyinnanya Abaribe; Gabriel Suswan; Ireti Kingibe; Elisha Abbo; Uche Secondus; Tunde Ogbeha; Victor Umeh; Laureata Onochie; Liyel Imoke; Bolaji Abdullahi, among others.
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  • DUNAMIS SEEDS OF DESTINY A DAILY DEVOTIONAL BY DR. PASTOR PAUL ENENCHE.

    DATE: THURSDAY, 3RD. JULY, 2025.

    TOPIC: IMPACT DESPITE SETBACK.

    SCRIPTURE: The king of Aram had great admiration for Naaman, the commander of his army, because through him the LORD had given Aram great victories. But though Naaman was a mighty warrior, he suffered from leprosy. 2 KINGS 5:1 (NLT).

    THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: To wait until you have no challenge at all before making impact is to live and die useless.

    Our anchor scripture makes it abundantly clear that it is possible to live an impactful life despite setbacks. It is possible to have outstanding results in life and command the attention of your generation despite setbacks in personal life.

    Challenges are parts of life to varying degrees. Everyone has one little challenge or the other, in one area or the other, and at one point or the other in life. At every point in time, you are either celebrating victory or confronting a challenge. And to celebrate victory means you just came out of a challenge. It means you just overcame an obstacle. The only person who is without a battle, a challenge, or a problem is the one in the graveyard. To wait until you have no challenge at all before making impact is to live and die useless.

    Ecclesiastes 11:4 says, Farmers who wait for perfect weather never plant. If they watch every cloud, they never harvest (NLT).

    If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done. If you are waiting until every condition around your life is perfect, you will never get anything done.

    Beloved, note that the excuse not to do something will always be available. Naaman had great qualifications, even though he was a leper. He proved that one could make impact despite setbacks.

    First, the Bible said that he was a captain of the host. That is, he was the chief of staff of the Syrian Army. In other words, Syrian army could not go into battle until Naaman had given the command.

    Second, the Bible said that he was a great man with his master.

    Third, he was an honorable man.

    Fourth, by him God gave Syrians deliverance.

    Fifth, he was a mighty man of valour; he was a first-class soldier. He was a military strategist. He was a war lord par excellence. All these qualifications and achievements came ahead of and overshadowed his identity as a leper. He did not allow leprosy to frustrate his destiny.

    Meanwhile, in Naaman’s day, there were people with two hands, two feet, strait nose, clean skin that could have been the Chief of Army Staff but none of them had the capacity, audacity, ferocity, brutality, strategy, and stamina of Naaman. So even though he was a leper, he commanded non-leprous people. He had more impact than non-lepers. He was a leper, but he affected his generation positively.

    Beloved, never permit any setback of your life to render you irrelevant. Never allow any condition to make you useless. Never allow any setback to set you at the back.

    And I don’t care what setback you may be dealing with in your life now, if you can make up your mind that no adversity shall stop your destiny, you will command the attention of your generation.

    Remember this: To wait until you have no challenge at all before making impact is to live and die useless.

    ASSIGNMENT(S):
    1. Stop looking at your ‘limitation’; start taking advantage of what you have and maximize every opportunity that comes your way.

    2. Refuse to exit this world without making a mark.

    PRAYER: Lord, thank You for Your investment in my life. I receive the grace to manifest every deposit of your grace in my life. No setback will stop me from making impact, and no adversity shall stop my destiny, Lord, in Jesus’ Name.

    FOR FURTHER UNDERSTANDING, GET THIS MESSAGE: IMPACT DESPITE SETBACK

    DAILY BIBLE READING: Proverb 16-18

    QUOTE: Never hold anyone responsible for your success or failure in life. If you want to reach your destiny, be responsible. Culled from the book, Road Marks to Destiny by Dr Paul Enenche.

    AMAZING FACT: Cuttlefish have three hearts and can change their skin color to blend into their environment.

    PROPHETIC DECLARATION/WORD: Receive the audacity to make impact despite any setback in Jesus Name.
    🍒🌽DUNAMIS SEEDS OF DESTINY A DAILY DEVOTIONAL BY DR. PASTOR PAUL ENENCHE. DATE: THURSDAY, 3RD. JULY, 2025. TOPIC: IMPACT DESPITE SETBACK. SCRIPTURE: The king of Aram had great admiration for Naaman, the commander of his army, because through him the LORD had given Aram great victories. But though Naaman was a mighty warrior, he suffered from leprosy. 2 KINGS 5:1 (NLT). THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: To wait until you have no challenge at all before making impact is to live and die useless. Our anchor scripture makes it abundantly clear that it is possible to live an impactful life despite setbacks. It is possible to have outstanding results in life and command the attention of your generation despite setbacks in personal life. Challenges are parts of life to varying degrees. Everyone has one little challenge or the other, in one area or the other, and at one point or the other in life. At every point in time, you are either celebrating victory or confronting a challenge. And to celebrate victory means you just came out of a challenge. It means you just overcame an obstacle. The only person who is without a battle, a challenge, or a problem is the one in the graveyard. To wait until you have no challenge at all before making impact is to live and die useless. Ecclesiastes 11:4 says, Farmers who wait for perfect weather never plant. If they watch every cloud, they never harvest (NLT). If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done. If you are waiting until every condition around your life is perfect, you will never get anything done. Beloved, note that the excuse not to do something will always be available. Naaman had great qualifications, even though he was a leper. He proved that one could make impact despite setbacks. First, the Bible said that he was a captain of the host. That is, he was the chief of staff of the Syrian Army. In other words, Syrian army could not go into battle until Naaman had given the command. Second, the Bible said that he was a great man with his master. Third, he was an honorable man. Fourth, by him God gave Syrians deliverance. Fifth, he was a mighty man of valour; he was a first-class soldier. He was a military strategist. He was a war lord par excellence. All these qualifications and achievements came ahead of and overshadowed his identity as a leper. He did not allow leprosy to frustrate his destiny. Meanwhile, in Naaman’s day, there were people with two hands, two feet, strait nose, clean skin that could have been the Chief of Army Staff but none of them had the capacity, audacity, ferocity, brutality, strategy, and stamina of Naaman. So even though he was a leper, he commanded non-leprous people. He had more impact than non-lepers. He was a leper, but he affected his generation positively. Beloved, never permit any setback of your life to render you irrelevant. Never allow any condition to make you useless. Never allow any setback to set you at the back. And I don’t care what setback you may be dealing with in your life now, if you can make up your mind that no adversity shall stop your destiny, you will command the attention of your generation. Remember this: To wait until you have no challenge at all before making impact is to live and die useless. ASSIGNMENT(S): 1. Stop looking at your ‘limitation’; start taking advantage of what you have and maximize every opportunity that comes your way. 2. Refuse to exit this world without making a mark. PRAYER: Lord, thank You for Your investment in my life. I receive the grace to manifest every deposit of your grace in my life. No setback will stop me from making impact, and no adversity shall stop my destiny, Lord, in Jesus’ Name. FOR FURTHER UNDERSTANDING, GET THIS MESSAGE: IMPACT DESPITE SETBACK DAILY BIBLE READING: Proverb 16-18 QUOTE: Never hold anyone responsible for your success or failure in life. If you want to reach your destiny, be responsible. Culled from the book, Road Marks to Destiny by Dr Paul Enenche. AMAZING FACT: Cuttlefish have three hearts and can change their skin color to blend into their environment. PROPHETIC DECLARATION/WORD: Receive the audacity to make impact despite any setback in Jesus Name.
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  • School na scam we went to school to get the key to success coming back politicians change the padlock
    School na scam we went to school to get the key to success coming back politicians change the padlock
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  • Good morning God's beloved. Thank God for another day. May your light break forth. May your sun shine brighter, blinding the enemy. May God push you into your rest. May nothing cancel your next level flight of glory. May nothing go wrong on the day of your coronation. May your crown not be given to another. May your promotion not be hijacked. May your life be full of blessings. I welcome you to your wealthy place. May the person that hates you and has been troubling you be the one to announce your change of level testimony. You and your family members are preserved from all evils. Today shall be your NONSTOP LAUGHTER THURSDAY.
    Good morning God's beloved. Thank God for another day. May your light break forth. May your sun shine brighter, blinding the enemy. May God push you into your rest. May nothing cancel your next level flight of glory. May nothing go wrong on the day of your coronation. May your crown not be given to another. May your promotion not be hijacked. May your life be full of blessings. I welcome you to your wealthy place. May the person that hates you and has been troubling you be the one to announce your change of level testimony. You and your family members are preserved from all evils. Today shall be your NONSTOP LAUGHTER THURSDAY.
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  • Today, I represented my boss, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, at the commissioning of the dualised and upgraded Ushafa to War College/Army Checkpoint roads and other ancillary roads in the Bwari Area Council of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT).

    In my remarks, I stated that the Tinubu administration is changing the story of infrastructure development in Nigeria through the execution of tangible projects across the country.

    This administration is poised to build a Nigeria where every community is connected, every business thrives, and every citizen enjoys a life of dignity and opportunity.

    The recent inauguration of infrastructure projects across the country by this administration is an expression of commitment to inclusive growth and sustainable development.

    We have transformed a path of frustration into a corridor of opportunity. These dualised and upgraded roads will not only ease traffic congestion, they will breathe new life into economic activities, improve access to education and healthcare, and uplift the overall quality of life for the good people of Ushafa, Bwari, and the neighbouring communities.
    Today, I represented my boss, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, at the commissioning of the dualised and upgraded Ushafa to War College/Army Checkpoint roads and other ancillary roads in the Bwari Area Council of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT). In my remarks, I stated that the Tinubu administration is changing the story of infrastructure development in Nigeria through the execution of tangible projects across the country. This administration is poised to build a Nigeria where every community is connected, every business thrives, and every citizen enjoys a life of dignity and opportunity. The recent inauguration of infrastructure projects across the country by this administration is an expression of commitment to inclusive growth and sustainable development. We have transformed a path of frustration into a corridor of opportunity. These dualised and upgraded roads will not only ease traffic congestion, they will breathe new life into economic activities, improve access to education and healthcare, and uplift the overall quality of life for the good people of Ushafa, Bwari, and the neighbouring communities.
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  • This is the list of Ponzi schemes that have made away with Nigerians’ money so far.

    MMM Nigeria – 2016
    Ultimate Cycler – 2016
    Get Help Worldwide (GHW) – 2016
    Twinkas – 2016
    Icharity Club – 2016
    Crowd Rising – 2016
    Claritta – 2016
    Help2Get – 2016
    Loopers Club – 2016
    Givers Forum – 2016
    NNN Nigeria – 2017
    MMM Cooperation – 2017
    GCCH (Global Crediting Cooperative Hub) – 2017
    Money Riot – 2017
    RevoMoney – 2017
    SwissGolden (Nigeria version) – 2017
    NNU (Nigeria News Update) – 2017
    Peer2Peer Donation – 2017
    Twinkas Reloaded – 2017
    Donation Hub – 2017
    MyBonus – 2017
    ZarFund – 2017
    Bitclub Advantage – 2018
    Million Money – 2018
    Helping Hands International – 2018
    DGSOUK – 2018
    Pennywise – 2018
    Loom – 2019
    Crowd1 – 2019
    Lion’s Share – 2020
    InksNation – 2020
    Baraza Multipurpose Cooperative – 2020
    Racksterli – 2020
    86FB (aka 86Z) – 2021
    Eagle Cooperative – 2021
    Royal Q (Nigerian scam version) – 2021
    FINAFRICA – 2021
    Ovaioza Farm Produce Storage – 2022
    QNet (Nigeria) – 2022
    Afriq Arbitrage System (AAS) – 2022
    MBA Forex – 2022
    Chinmark Group – 2022
    Inksledger – 2022
    Axim Exchange – 2022
    Compoundly – 2024
    CALA (Cala Finance) – 2023
    6Dollars Investment – 2023
    Sidra Investment (cloned scam version) – 2024
    WealthBuddy – 2024
    BitFinance Global – 2025
    CBEX-2025

    One naira of my money no enter any of them.
    This is the list of Ponzi schemes that have made away with Nigerians’ money so far. MMM Nigeria – 2016 Ultimate Cycler – 2016 Get Help Worldwide (GHW) – 2016 Twinkas – 2016 Icharity Club – 2016 Crowd Rising – 2016 Claritta – 2016 Help2Get – 2016 Loopers Club – 2016 Givers Forum – 2016 NNN Nigeria – 2017 MMM Cooperation – 2017 GCCH (Global Crediting Cooperative Hub) – 2017 Money Riot – 2017 RevoMoney – 2017 SwissGolden (Nigeria version) – 2017 NNU (Nigeria News Update) – 2017 Peer2Peer Donation – 2017 Twinkas Reloaded – 2017 Donation Hub – 2017 MyBonus – 2017 ZarFund – 2017 Bitclub Advantage – 2018 Million Money – 2018 Helping Hands International – 2018 DGSOUK – 2018 Pennywise – 2018 Loom – 2019 Crowd1 – 2019 Lion’s Share – 2020 InksNation – 2020 Baraza Multipurpose Cooperative – 2020 Racksterli – 2020 86FB (aka 86Z) – 2021 Eagle Cooperative – 2021 Royal Q (Nigerian scam version) – 2021 FINAFRICA – 2021 Ovaioza Farm Produce Storage – 2022 QNet (Nigeria) – 2022 Afriq Arbitrage System (AAS) – 2022 MBA Forex – 2022 Chinmark Group – 2022 Inksledger – 2022 Axim Exchange – 2022 Compoundly – 2024 CALA (Cala Finance) – 2023 6Dollars Investment – 2023 Sidra Investment (cloned scam version) – 2024 WealthBuddy – 2024 BitFinance Global – 2025 CBEX-2025 One naira of my money no enter any of them.
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  • OPEN LETTER TO NATASHA: PLEASE STOP SILENCING TUFACE — LET HIM BE HIMSELF

    From - Awuzie Frankline

    Dear Natasha,

    Let’s be honest, We all saw what happened. Tuface spoke in an interview and said something real: A man can love a woman and still be with other women. That’s not a lie, That’s his truth. That’s the kind of life he has lived for years. But then, after saying that, he came out and apologised. Why?

    To us, it didn’t look like the apology came from his heart. It looked like someone forced him. And from everything we’ve seen, that person might be you. Some people are even saying you refused to give him “Ikpu” unless he apologised. If that’s true, that’s not love, that’s emotional control.

    Natasha, Tuface is not your project. He’s not someone you should fix or change to become your idea of the “perfect man.” He has never hidden who he is. He is not perfect, but he has always been real with us. That’s what made him a legend.

    We didn’t judge him for having children with different women. We didn’t leave him for living a complicated life. Why? Because he never pretended. He was always open and honest. But now, after one interview where he told his truth, he suddenly says sorry like he did something wrong. That’s not growth, that’s pressure. It feels like he’s being controlled, and it’s changing him.

    Tuface doesn’t look happy these days. He looks tired, quiet, and unsure of himself. That’s not the Tuface we used to love ,the one full of life and music. And Natasha, it feels like you have something to do with that change.

    If you want a different kind of man, please go and find or build one. Don’t try to turn Tuface into someone he’s not. Marriage is not a hospital, and you are not his doctor. You don’t help someone by silencing their truth. You hurt them.

    Please let Tuface be himself. Let him speak his truth. Let him live freely. If you keep forcing him to change just to keep the peace, it could damage his mental health. We still love Tuface, but the version of him we see now? We don’t know him anymore.

    Sincerely,
    Awuzie Frankline
    Chief Odiegwu- Paapi Ndi Facebook

    #Odiegwu
    OPEN LETTER TO NATASHA: PLEASE STOP SILENCING TUFACE — LET HIM BE HIMSELF From - Awuzie Frankline Dear Natasha, Let’s be honest, We all saw what happened. Tuface spoke in an interview and said something real: A man can love a woman and still be with other women. That’s not a lie, That’s his truth. That’s the kind of life he has lived for years. But then, after saying that, he came out and apologised. Why? To us, it didn’t look like the apology came from his heart. It looked like someone forced him. And from everything we’ve seen, that person might be you. Some people are even saying you refused to give him “Ikpu” unless he apologised. If that’s true, that’s not love, that’s emotional control. Natasha, Tuface is not your project. He’s not someone you should fix or change to become your idea of the “perfect man.” He has never hidden who he is. He is not perfect, but he has always been real with us. That’s what made him a legend. We didn’t judge him for having children with different women. We didn’t leave him for living a complicated life. Why? Because he never pretended. He was always open and honest. But now, after one interview where he told his truth, he suddenly says sorry like he did something wrong. That’s not growth, that’s pressure. It feels like he’s being controlled, and it’s changing him. Tuface doesn’t look happy these days. He looks tired, quiet, and unsure of himself. That’s not the Tuface we used to love ,the one full of life and music. And Natasha, it feels like you have something to do with that change. If you want a different kind of man, please go and find or build one. Don’t try to turn Tuface into someone he’s not. Marriage is not a hospital, and you are not his doctor. You don’t help someone by silencing their truth. You hurt them. Please let Tuface be himself. Let him speak his truth. Let him live freely. If you keep forcing him to change just to keep the peace, it could damage his mental health. We still love Tuface, but the version of him we see now? We don’t know him anymore. Sincerely, Awuzie Frankline Chief Odiegwu- Paapi Ndi Facebook #Odiegwu
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    A longing for a change of story/status.
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  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE

    We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help..

    WATCH YOUR TONE
    When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace

    TIMING
    Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time

    WATCH YOUR EYES
    Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too

    DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK
    If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk

    DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN)
    Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue

    DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY
    Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask.

    DON'T CAUSE A SCENE
    A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends

    SOOTHE HIM
    If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion

    BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
    If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause.

    NO INSULTS
    Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team

    DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS
    Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples

    BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;)
    Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones

    DON'T BOY HIM
    Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him

    DON'T TALK AT HIM
    Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order

    TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE
    You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones

    TAKE HIM ON A DATE
    Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date

    DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY
    Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat

    DON'T PUSH HIM
    Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him

    BE FLEXIBLE
    Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience
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    Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

    Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

    Date nights are a must.
    Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

    Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

    Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones
    We all don’t perceive love the same way.

    Go to bed mad sometimes.
    Don’t force a resolution.
    Sleeping on it does help.

    When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

    It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones
    Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
    It’s normal.
    It will fade.
    This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

    Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

    It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

    It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
    It helps.
    It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

    Talk about money.
    Talk about your financial goals.
    Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

    Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

    Ask questions like

    “What do you need to see more of from me?”
    “How can we understand each other better?”

    And most importantly, be kind to each other.

    Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones

    Fight for each other.

    Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

    But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help.. WATCH YOUR TONE When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace TIMING Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time WATCH YOUR EYES Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN) Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask. DON'T CAUSE A SCENE A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends SOOTHE HIM If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause. NO INSULTS Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;) Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones DON'T BOY HIM Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him DON'T TALK AT HIM Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones TAKE HIM ON A DATE Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat DON'T PUSH HIM Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him BE FLEXIBLE Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience Read less. Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
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    *They don't quarrel over where to hang their clothes, park their cars, lock their gates.*

    *No one here is shouting at their neighbors for playing loud music. Nobody makes noise here.*

    *In this place there is no competition.*

    *Nobody is buying the latest suits and gowns.*

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    *Nobody here knows what is happening to the money in their bank accounts, the clothes in their hangers, their wives, husbands and children.*

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    *This is where the pride of man ends.*

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    *You look at people and treat them like trash.*

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    *Wether you like it or not one day, everyone will end here.*

    *BE HUMBLE AND REMEMBER YOUR SIX FEET, WHO IS FREE????*
    *Think and change for good, you bring nothing, you go with nothing*

    *God is Great!*
    *Everybody here is a good neighbor.* *They don't quarrel over where to hang their clothes, park their cars, lock their gates.* *No one here is shouting at their neighbors for playing loud music. Nobody makes noise here.* *In this place there is no competition.* *Nobody is buying the latest suits and gowns.* *The latest brand of car doesn't make sense here.* *Nobody here knows what is happening to the money in their bank accounts, the clothes in their hangers, their wives, husbands and children.* *This place is reserved for everyone including you and I that are reading this post.* *Everybody owns a piece of land here.* *This is where the pride of man ends.* *"Do you know who I am"? This is who you are; nothing but dust.* *You look at people and treat them like trash.* *You dress nicely and walk like your legs won't touch ground, it all ends here one day.* *Wether you like it or not one day, everyone will end here.* *BE HUMBLE AND REMEMBER YOUR SIX FEET, WHO IS FREE????* *Think and change for good, you bring nothing, you go with nothing* *God is Great!*
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