*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️

S€X AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT Some men dream of success. Some men work for success. Some men destroy their success before it even starts. And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is S€X. A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind. A man who controls his desires will always be ahead. Success requires discipline. Sexual indulgence destroys discipline. If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future. BRUTAL THREAD: 1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID S€XUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline. Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women. Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls. Muhammad Ali refused s€x before fights—he knew discipline was power. But look at many men today: Wasting hours daily on p0rn and m@sturbation. Spending their last money just to impress women. Crying over a girl instead of building their future. No great man was ever a slave to lust. 2. S£X DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure. You are losing: Testosterone (your natural energy for success). Motivation (your hunger to win). Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused). That’s why after s£x, many men feel weak and lazy. Now imagine: Doing this every day. Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women. Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure. That’s why broke men chase s£x, and rich men chase success. 3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE Look at your daily habits. How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures? How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs? How much time do you spend watching p0rn and draining your strength? Now imagine using that time to: Learn a high-income skill. Work on your business or career. Go to the gym and improve your body. If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you. 4. HISTORY PROVES THAT S£XUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history? Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty. It was s£xual weakness. Samson lost his power because of Delilah. King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction. Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a s£x scandal. Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman. A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction. 5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day? You think she values a man who is always available and begging? No. A woman respects men who have: Purpose. Self-control. A bigger mission in life. When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you. 6. P0RN, M@STURBATION & CASUAL S£X ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure. P0rn kills your brain. M@sturbation destroys your energy. Casual s£x makes you indisciplined. That’s why so many men are: Unmotivated. Struggling financially. Depressed and directionless. If you want to be great, you must cut off s£xual distractions. 7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful. But you can’t even: Go a week without s£x or p0rn. Focus on work without being distracted by women. Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see. If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world? 8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL S£X, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY S€X S€x is a tool. The weak use it for pleasure. The strong use it for power. A successful man controls when and how he engages in s€x. A broke man lets s€x control him. That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure. 9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow. But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come. That’s why powerful men never lack women. And that’s why weak men are always chasing. 10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER There is nothing wrong with s£x. But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle. If you master self-control, you will always be ahead. The choice is yours. BOTTOM LINE: If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust. Because in the end… Men who control their desires, control their future. Men who chase pleasure, lose everything. @highlight @topfans

*27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice. No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..

*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️

12 SECRETS TO HAVING A STRONG RELATIONSHIP If you desire a loving and lasting relationship with your partner, you and your partner need to adopt the following habits below: 1. COMMITMENT: Commitment is very important if you desire to have a strong relationship with your partner. You have to decide to stick with your partner and make the relationship work irrespective of the flaws your partner might have. Couples who renew their commitments everyday, in words and deed, are on their way to having a strong relationship. 2. KEEP YOUR PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE When you put your relationship on social media, you invite the public to your relationship. Keep your private matters private. It’s a relationship between you and your partner and not between you, your partner and the public. You can share your fun dates with your partner or some nice photos together on your Facebook or Instagram app but make sure you draw the line where necessary. 3. KNOW WHEN TO LET THINGS SLIDE AND LEARN HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICTS Finding ways to reduce the frequency of conflict in your relationship by letting go of the little things will help you build a strong relationship with your partner. Arguments are normal in a relationship but you should make sure you never insult your partner during an argument. Always listen to what your partner has to say during an argument. 4. LEARN TO LISTEN Speaking less and listening more is important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. It’s important you always pay close attention to what your partner has to say. Ask your partner how his/her day went and listen to him/her talk about their day. 12 Secrets Of Having A Strong Relationship 12 Secrets Of Having A Strong Relationship 5. MAKE TIME TO DATE Spending quality time with your partner is important if you desire to build a strong relationship. Nothing substitutes for time together. No matter how busy you are, always create time to go out on dates with your partner. 6. BE TOTALLY TRANSPARENT Partners in strong relationships have no secrets. If you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner, you have to be completely transparent with your partner. You don’t need privacy in your relationship if you want a strong relationship. 7. TRY NEW THINGS TOGETHER Whether it be something as simple as watching a movie neither of you has seen, or something as extreme as skydiving, trying new things together as a couple is important if you want to have a strong relationship. Trying new things together keeps the excitement and passion going in your relationship. 8. COMPLIMENT YOUR PARTNER You shouldn’t save the compliments for big events alone, make complimenting your partner a regular occurrence. You make your partner feel special and noticed when you compliment him/her and this helps build a strong relationship 9. NEVER PUT EACH OTHER DOWN IN PUBLIC How you treat your partner in front of others matter if you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner. Never ever put each other down or say anything negative about your partner in public. Only say supportive and kind things to each other in public and save disagreements for when you both are alone. 10. NEVER GET TIRED OF SAYING “I LOVE YOU” These three little words “I love you” are important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. No matter how long or hard your day was, always end your day by telling your partner how much you love him/her. End your day with the words “I love you”. 11. LEARN HOW TO COMPROMISE You have to understand the value of compromise if you want to build a strong relationship. You may not always want to do what your partner wants but if it’s important to your partner, do it with a smile on your face. Lastly..... 12. Pray and Play Together: Couples that pray and play together stay together. Hand in hand each morning before you face the vicissitude of life, read a devotional and pray together. Take turns to pray for your marriage, your challenges &your children. If its your turn to pray, lift your spouse's burdens to The Lord and thank God for the wonderful spouse He gave you. Never miss an opportunity to celebrate life's milestones together. Celebrate anniversaries and birthdays. Make it simple and sweet. Play and laugh together. Be merry with the person you married and watch your love for each other grow from strength to strength. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus' name. Admin Marital Success Academy! Receive Jesus Christ today and go to church for spiritual fellowship

*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️

*27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice. No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..

In the book Outwitting the Devil, there is this profound statement that I came across: "It is a sin to remain in ignorance because that leads to poverty and loss of self-reliance." In 2025, while the world debates AI disruption, economic downturns, and talent wars, a quieter plague keeps spreading unchecked. Not the absence of data, but the absence of deliberate understanding. That distinction matters. Napoleon Hill’s Outwitting the Devil didn’t miss words: “It is a sin to remain in ignorance because that leads to poverty and loss of self-reliance.” And it’s true. The greatest mountain you’ll ever face is not your competition, your background, or your economy, it’s what you don’t know and refuse to learn. Every time you outsource your thinking, ignore emerging trends, or operate by outdated assumptions, you’re silently licensing poverty, not just in your wallet, but in your decisions, relationships, and influence. Invitation to Men ONLY: Gentlemen of Impact, Influence & Income (GII-Summit) June 10, 11 & 12, 2025 | 8PM GMT+1 Daily | Zoom & YouTube With Dr. Joybert Javnyuy 📌 Day 1: The Contagiousness of Habits that Destroys Kings 📌 Day 2: Governing One's Invisible Economy 📌 Day 3: The Ultimate Divine Law of Impact, Influence & Income for Every Man If you’re a man, your future is being summoned. If you’re a woman, challenge the men in your life to attend. Your sons, husbands, brothers need this. Join the WhatsApp group & meet other gentlemen: https://chat.whatsapp.com/HEH7vZ35YHO5nwnCJl66VY In the first quarter of 2025, over 62% of startup failures globally weren’t due to funding. They died from strategic ignorance, misreading market signals, misjudging buyer behavior, or misunderstanding internal capabilities. Not lack of opportunity. Lack of perception. Ignorance isn’t passive. It’s aggressive. It robs confidence, delays execution, and deceives you into thinking you’re safer than you are. The solution? Kill ignorance like it’s your sworn enemy, because it is. Read, study & practice obsessively. Ask uncomfortable questions. Audit what you “know.” Seek perspective like your success depends on it, because it does. Growth doesn’t begin with action. It begins with awareness. And those who scale in impact, income, and influence, are those who treat ignorance as a problem to be solved, not a personality trait to be excused. The truth? You don’t rise by chance. You rise by clarity, earned through the disciplined demolition of what you don’t yet understand. And that journey starts today. Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

Urgent Update for men PEFI MEN’S SUMMIT | Gentlemen of Impact, Influence & Income (GII-Summit) This is not another motivational event. This is a summit of serious men, those ready to confront what quietly ruin kings, take ownership of their invisible economies, and walk in laws that produce undeniable results. June 10, 11 & 12, 2025 | 8PM GMT+1 Daily | Zoom & YouTube With Dr. Joybert Javnyuy For 3 nights, Dr. Joybert Javnyuy, renowned global strategist, trainer of high-level professionals, leaders & executives in 4 continents will deliver transformational teachings that dismantle average thinking and awaken your dominion as a man of impact, influence, and income. 📌 Day 1: The Contagiousness of Habits that Destroys Kings 📌 Day 2: Governing One's Invisible Economy 📌 Day 3: The Ultimate Divine Law of Impact, Influence & Income for Every Man If you’re a man, your future is being summoned. If you’re a woman, challenge the men in your life to attend. Your sons, husbands, brothers, and fathers need this. Don’t miss it. Don’t delay. Great men aren’t born, they are built, sharpened, and aligned. This summit is where that happens. Join us live. Zoom & YouTube. Your next level is waiting. Join the WhatsApp group & meet other gentlemen: https://chat.whatsapp.com/HEH7vZ35YHO5nwnCJl66VY Share with someone

Building wealth is a process that involves smart saving, investing, and increasing income while minimizing debt. Key steps include creating a budget, avoiding debt, investing regularly, and diversifying your portfolio. Educating yourself about finance and seeking professional advice can also be beneficial.  1. Financial Planning:  Set SMART goals: Define specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound financial goals. Create a budget: Track your income and expenses to identify areas where you can save more. Identify your goals: Determine what you want to achieve with your wealth, whether it's retirement, a down payment, or a comfortable lifestyle. 2. Income and Savings:  Increase your income: Explore opportunities to increase your earnings, such as a raise, side hustle, or entrepreneurship. Reduce your expenses: Identify areas where you can cut back on spending, such as entertainment, dining out, or subscriptions. Maximize your savings: Set a savings goal and automate your savings by transferring money to a savings account regularly. Build an emergency fund: Have a safety net of funds to cover unexpected expenses without relying on debt. 3. Investing:  Invest regularly: Start small and consistently invest in a diversified portfolio of assets like stocks, bonds, and real estate. Diversify your portfolio: Avoid putting all your eggs in one basket by investing in different asset classes and geographies. Consider retirement plans: Maximize your contributions to retirement accounts like 401(k)s or IRAs. Understand taxes: Be aware of tax implications for your investments and seek professional advice if needed. 4. Debt Management:  Pay off high-interest debt: Prioritize paying off credit cards and other high-interest debt to save on interest payments. Avoid debt: Be mindful of your spending habits and avoid taking on unnecessary debt. 5. Other Important Considerations:  Educate yourself: Learn about personal finance, investing, and wealth management through books, articles, or online courses. Seek professional advice: Consult with a financial advisor to develop a personalized wealth-building plan. Insure your wealth: Consider insurance coverage for your assets and liabilities. Stay disciplined: Building wealth requires time, patience, and consistency. Stay focused on your goals and don't get discouraged by setbacks

Sperm is not the antidote to good skin and a glowing face.” They are deceiving you. Please don’t let social media lies ruin your values. There’s a rising trend where sexual immorality is being sugarcoated with fake “health tips.” They’ll say things like, “It clears pimples,” “It helps you glow,” Just to give sin a soft landing. Some even go as far as applying the sperm on their faces in the morning and night. Let’s be clear: Good skin comes from clean habits, not unclean acts. It comes from water, rest, hygiene, good food, peace of mind not from sexual compromise. Don’t let anyone use fake science to pull you into bondage. Your glow doesn’t come from between someone’s legs, it comes from God, from Confidence, from Purity, and Peace.

*REASONS WHY YOU'RE ALWAYS BROKE EVEN THOUGH YOU WORK HARD* (Hard work alone no be enough. You need sense, strategy, and discipline to win.) You wake up early every morning, hustle till your body complain, but at the end of the month, your bank balance still looks like an empty pocket thief struck. You ask yourself, “Why are rich like those guys?” I get news for you:your habits and mindset does not sabotage your grind. Village people are not your problem, your own lifestyle is. 1. YOU WORK HARD, BUT YOU DON’T WORK SMART You hustle physically, you run errands, you do odd jobs, but you never think about how to multiply that hustle. You run like rat with no cheese. Meanwhile, other guys are using their brains to invest small small, learn skills, start side hustles, build passive income. Working hard is good. But working smart is the key to escape a poverty trap. What to do: Learn skills that pay well. Invest in knowledge, not just sweat. 2. YOUR MONEY HAS NO PLAN, NO TRACKING When salary enter, you just spend anyhowly—no budget, no savings, no investment. This is why every month, you are broke before payday. What to do: Budget your money like a CEO. Know where every coin will go. 3. YOU CARRY TOO MANY PEOPLE ON YOUR BACK Your salary is not just for you — it’s for mama, uncle, cousin, friend, street people... you are playing Minister of Finance for everybody. But no one does the same for you. Reality: You can’t build wealth carrying 10 people. You must build yourself first. What to do: Help when you fit, but put your future first. 4. YOU’RE ADDICTED TO SPENDING, NOT INVESTING You spend on luxury, new gadgets, slay queen maintenance, designer labels… but when time to invest come, you suddenly “have no money again.” This lifestyle is a silent killer. You build others’ businesses, not yours. What to do: Switch your mindset from consume to invest. Use money to grow assets. 5. YOU LIVE PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK WITH NO EMERGENCY FUND Every little emergency crashes your finances—no backup, no plan B. So when things go wrong, you borrow, borrow, borrow until you fall into debt trap. What to do: Save at least 3 months salary as emergency fund. Build cushion. 6. YOU FAIL TO MULTIPLY YOUR INCOME SOURCES Relying on one salary? That’s like sitting on one leg and expecting to run marathon. True wealth comes from multiple income streams—business, investments, side hustles. What to do: Start small side hustles. Learn to create money streams outside salary. 7. YOU WAIT FOR MIRACLE WHILE DOING NOTHING You pray and wait for miracle money. But no action follows. Prayers without hustle andl procrastination with spiritual flavour. What to do: Pray with your legs and hands. Action is the partner of blessing. FINAL TRUTH: Hard work is important, but without planning, discipline, and smart decisions, you will remain broke. Village people are not then cause of your poverty; your habits and choices are. If you want to escape the poverty cycle: Hustle smart, not just hard. Budget and track your money. Cut unnecessary spending. Build emergency funds. Multiply your income sources. Stop carrying unnecessary financial burdens. Pair prayer with action. If this post hit you hard, don’t just scroll. Change your mindset, change your life.