Dear Parents

One of the best gifts you can give to your children is a good home. Creating a positive environment involves supporting their physical, emotional, and psychological development. Nothing stresses a child more than a home where parents are in turmoil.

Provide your child with a safe haven.
Ensure the home is safe and free from hazards, addressing both physical safety (like childproofing) and emotional safety (offering a non-judgmental space for self-expression).

Parent together as a couple to model teamwork. Children learn by observing, so demonstrate values you want them to adopt, such as honesty, kindness, and responsibility.

LADIES, CHERISH THIS KIND OF MAN:

1. Cherish the man who loves his mum. He has been brought up well.

2. Cherish the man who loves you deeply.

3. Cherish the man who is funny. You will never be bored.

4. Cherish the man who treats strangers and the less privileged with dignity. He has a kind heart.

5. Cherish the man who listens. You will be understood.

6. Cherish the man whose idea of fun is constructive, not endless drinking and clubbing. He is mature.

7. Cherish the man who is a family man ready for the responsibility and clear about what he wants with you. Your time will not be wasted.

8. Cherish the man who respects his father no matter how his dad is. He has learned true manhood.

9. Cherish the man who doesn't insult his ex or your ex even if the breakup was messy. He is someone who enters into love for the right reasons.

10. Cherish the man who needs you. He will hold on to you.

11. Cherish the man who lets you love him, who lets you see the nakedness of his weaknesses and strengths. He trusts you.

12. Cherish the man who accepts correction and changes his ways if he offends you. He will make himself better to love you.

13. Cherish the man who prays for you. He knows you are a gift from God.

14. Cherish the man who treats other women with respect. He will show you even more respect.

15. Cherish the man who loves the children you and also is a father figure to those not his. That man will have an honorable legacy.

16. Cherish the man with a vision. He will challenge and build you, he knows where he is going.

17. Cherish the man who has a good set of friends. You can tell the character of a man by the friends he keeps.

18. Cherish the man who values intimacy above sex. He will be faithful to you.

19. Cherish the man who is interested in your dreams. He cares about your future.

20. Cherish the man who respects your decisions and doesn't rush you. He sees you as a life partner, not someone to dominate.

21. Cherish the man who corrects you when you are wrong and inspires and pushes you to do better. He sees your potential and will not rest until your potential is lived out. That man is a keeper.

22. Cherish the man who has been consistent in his focus. You can depend on him.

23. Cherish the man who works hard, is self-motivated, and is diligent even when he has little. That man is going places and one day he will make you proud

24. Cherish the man who is not intimidated by other men when they notice your beauty. He is a secure man

➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹

"You’re not responsible for anyone else’s healing, and you can’t walk their path for them. You can love them, but you can’t save them, no matter how much your heart aches for their pain."
(Tiny Buddha)
In the journey of life, each soul carries their own trials and triumphs, walking a path uniquely their own.
While you can extend love and support, you cannot carry the weight of another's healing process. Despite the ache in your heart for their struggles, genuine healing is a personal voyage that each must undertake independently.
Your role is one of empathy and companionship, offering comfort and understanding, yet you cannot be the sole source of their salvation.
Embrace the strength in simply being there, in lending an ear and a heart, recognizing that granting them the space to find their own inner light is often the most profound gift you can give.

LEAVE YOUR FEMALE STUDENTS ALONE!

This is not just a warn!ng—this is a cr¥. A cr¥ for the girl child. A cr¥ for our schools. A cr¥ for sanity.

Dear young male teacher,

You are gifted. You are admired. Your presence alone makes the girls sit up, eager to learn. You speak with passion, you dress smart, you explain well—and you may not know this—but many of those girls in your class are secretly cru$h!ng on you.

But listen carefully: Their admiration is not permission. Their smiles are not an invitation. Their boldness is not maturity.

They are still children. Tender. VulnerabI3. Still figuring out their emotions. What they feel is not love—it is confusion dressed in admiration. They trust you. They believe in you. And when you cross that sacred line… you k!II something in them.

You kiIIher confidence.
You kiII her future.
You kiII her right to grow up whole and safe.

Let me tell you what many don’t talk about.

There are girls walking around today—empty, br0ken, hiding pa!n under their makeup—because a teacher who was supposed to protect them u$ed them.

Some dropped out of school with swollen bellies.
Some ended up in danger0u$ relationships they didn’t deserve.
Some can no longer focus in class.
Some lost their voice.
Some have never healed.

And what’s worse? Many of them still blame themselves.

You were supposed to be her mentor. Her light. Her guide. Instead, you became her first heartbr£ak, her first betrayaal, her first $hame.

Let me say this loud and clear: If a girl student ever gets bold enough to come close, it is because you have already given her the signal.
Yes—you may not have touched her yet, but your boundary is already weak. And weak boundaries are a silent invitation to destruct!on.

Don’t tell yourself “it’s love.” It’s not.
Don’t say “she started it.” She didn’t.
Don’t say “others have done it.” That’s no excuse.

The truth is: many male teachers have ru!ned the destiny of the girl child in the name of love. And nobody talks about it enough.

Be different.

Don’t become another reason why a girl can’t look a male teacher in the eye without f£ar. Don’t become the face she remembers every time the word “trust” is mentioned. Don’t destr0y a child to satisfy your weakness.

You are not just teaching a subject—you are shaping a soul.

So protect her.
Guard your role.
Be disciplined.
Be a real man.
Be the teacher she’ll write about with pride—not pa!n.

Let this be the end of this madn€$$.
Let the classroom be a place of growth, not trau.ma.

If this message touched your heart, share it like fire.
We must shout it louder until every teacher hears it:

Leave the girl child alone. Let her grow. Let her breathe. Let her be safe.

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**HOW TO LOVE AND HELP YOUR HUSBAND 👱‍♀**

*"An excellent wife is the crown of her husband." - Proverbs 12:4*

1. **Respect Him Unconditionally.**

Listen to him and ask for his opinion. Value his advice and follow his guidance. Men have a deep need for respect, so show it in your tone of voice during conversations and how you approach him, especially when you disagree. Ensure your children respect their dad in the same way. Prioritize him over the children and teach them to do the same. Let him know his thoughts matter and that you truly value his input.

2. **Accept Your Husband as Your Spiritual Leader.**

Men are created to lead the family, which doesn’t imply that women are any less significant. It means God has equipped men with certain skills to effectively guide their families. As stated in Ephesians 5:22-23, “the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church.”

Accepting your husband as your spiritual leader involves recognizing and supporting his role in guiding the family’s spiritual life. Allow him to lead in prayer, Bible study, and spiritual decisions while also contributing your own insights to enrich your family’s faith journey. If he’s struggling in this area, offer your support and encourage him to seek guidance from trusted sources or professional help if necessary.

3. **Listen More.**

Engage and listen when he speaks. While you might want to make him smile, your willingness to listen can be even more impactful.

4. **Be the Best Version of Yourself.**

Show love by striving to become the best person you can be. Your happiness will positively affect your husband’s well-being too.

5. **Contribute Financially.**

Marriage is teamwork; be willing to share your financial resources to help pay the bills. Avoid being stingy with your money.

6. **Be Caring and Compassionate.**

Support him when he has a bad day or celebrate with him on a good day. Show your love and care without waiting for him to get sick or need assistance. Simple gestures like a cup of coffee in bed or a cuddle can mean a lot.

7. **Support His Dreams.**

Be flexible and willing to sacrifice for your husband’s goals. A supportive wife allows a man to push his limits and achieve success. Stand by him as a team, working together toward daily routines and long-term ambitions.

8. **Love Him Unconditionally.**

Be there for him through good times and bad, demonstrating unwavering love.

9. **Give Small Gifts.**

Make your husband feel special every day, not just on special occasions.

10. **Maintain His Wardrobe.**

Wash and iron his clothes, including underwear.

11. **Celebrate His Achievements.**

Recognize and celebrate his successes, no matter how small.

12. **Discipline Your Children Together.**

Avoid saying, “I will report you to your daddy.” Work as a team in parenting.

13. **Spend Money Wisely.**

Utilize any money he gives you judiciously, showing you value his contributions.

14. **Submit to Him** as your lord and king.

15. **Pray for Him Regularly.**

Let him know you’re praying for his well-being, demonstrating care for his spiritual life.

16. **Comfort and Console Him.**

Be there to provide strength and support whenever he needs it.

17. **Be Intimate.**

Prioritize your physical relationship and do not neglect your s€xual intimacy.

18. **Keep a Clean Home.**

Maintain a tidy and organized living space.

19. **Prepare Timely Meals.**

Ensure he is fed and nourished regularly.

20. **Show Appreciation.**

Praise him and express gratitude. Encouragement can motivate him to go the extra mile for you.

21. **Make Him Laugh.**

Lighten the mood by making him laugh daily.

**COUPLES WHO HELP EACH OTHER CAN NEVER BE HELPLESS**

You will not fail in marriage, in Jesus' name.

Please share this message with your loved ones.

I'm the image of the loving God, and He gave me a priceless gift the Holy ghost.

Peter Obi embodies a rare blend of wisdom, integrity, and experience. Every time he speaks, it’s not just a message it’s a masterclass in leadership and vision. His words are a gift to Nigerians and an inspiration to humanity.

*Road to remembrance* !!!

*As Nigeria is collapsing around us let us remember how we got here.*

*ROLL CALL OF THE PROMOTERS OF FAILURE IN NIGERIA*

Here are some of the prominent names that helped send BUHARI to Aso Rock:

1. Dr. Oby Ezekwesili
2. Fela Durotoye
3. Atiku Abubakar
4. Omoyele Sowore
5. Izala Muslim clerics and Christians clerics.
6. Chief Olusegun Obasanjo
7. Professor Charles Soludo
8. Pastor Tunde Bakare
9. Pastor Sunday Adelaja
10. Father Ejike Mbaka
11. Professor Pastor Yemi Osibanjo
12. Professor Tam David West
13. Professor Wole Soyinka
14. Rev. Chris Okotie
15. Professor Pat Utomi
16. Nasir El-Rufai
17. Dino Melaye
18. Lai Mohammed
19. Rochas Okorocha
20. Rotimi Amaechi
21. Adams Oshiomhole
22. Dr. Bukola Saraki
23. Aminu Tambuwal
24. Bola Ahmed Tinubu
25. Raji Fashola
26. Dr. Chris Ngige
27. Rabiu Kwankwaso
28. Ibikunle Amosun
29. Rauf Aregbesola
30. Kayode Fayemi
31. Sanusi Lamido
32. Deacon Femi Adesina
33. Pastor E.A Adeboye
34. Pastor Kumuyi
35. Dr. Ogbonnaya Onu
36. Kenny Ogungbe
37. Dato Adeneye
38. Magnus Abbey
39. Dakuku Peterside
40. 9ice
41. Kenny St. Ogungbe Brown
42. Tunde Disu
43. John Momoh
44. Maupe Ogun
45. Chamberlain Usoh
46. Suleiman Aleide
47. Monday Onyekachi Ubani
48. Iffy Ubani
49. Labourous Osuoma
50. Citizen Useni Jones (Radio continental 102.3FM).
51. Joe Igbokwe
52. Dele Momodu
53. Abike Dabiri
54. Professor Attahiru Muhammadu Jega
55. Muazu
56. Emeka Ojukwu Jnr.
57. Egenti E Raymond (Ogudo)
58. Victor Umeh
59. Wasiu Ayinde (Kwam 1)
60. TY Danjuma
61. Lauretta Onochie
62. Jide Kosoko
63. Jonah David Jang
64. MC Oluomo and his NURTW thugs
65. Solomon Dalung
66. Naja'atu Mohammed
67. Buba Galadima
68. Oba of lagos, Oba Akiolu
69. Shehu Sanni
70. Desmond Eliott
71. Femi Kuti
72. George Udom

These people and the entire RCCG actually believed that Buhari had what it takes to lead Nigeria into a first world.

These people went to school. Many are professors. Some claimed to have direct access to God.

Some are gifted with "prophesies."

They read history. They understood international relations. They understood how societies work or so we thought.

They were more than 20 years old in 1983 when Buhari shot himself to power.

They saw Buhari murder innocent Nigerians in 1983.

They saw Buhari destroy the economy in 1983.

They saw the role Buhari played in Abacha's government.

They read all the threats of violence by Buhari against the nation.

They saw Buhari harass Lam Adesina the Oyo State Governor due to Fulani herdsmen conflicts with locals in Oyo State.

They saw Buhari lead the sharia protest that claimed the lives of innocent Nigerians in 2001.

They saw Buhari and his minions open the gate of hell on innocent Nigerians when he lost the presidential election in 2011.

If Buhari was not speaking and defending his Fulani heritage he would be fighting to defend his religious heritage.

Never for once did he defend Nigeria or gave interview on how to rebuild the economy, education, power, health, etc.

They saw everything this man did. They knew him too well to miss the little details of his violent life.

But they were united in hatred.

Hatred for Goodluck Ebele Jonathan. One among the few Nigeria leaders that actually wanted Nigeria to work.

Hatred became a unifying force to push forward a false narrative.

They exploited his humility.

They exploited his kindness.

They exploited his humanity

They danced and made merry in Ojota. They ate, drank and danced away the destiny of a nation.

Saints Tinubu, Amaechi, Fashola, etc., led the chorus against ‘corrupt’ Goodluck Jonathan.

Tinubu a private jet owner and owner of Lagos, Amaechi a private jet owner and funder of Buhari campaign, Atiku a University owner paid with his civil service allowance etc wanted ‘corrupt’ Goodluck Jonathan out.

But the people did not see the moral paradox because you see - hate is a unifying factor.

They mobilised thugs to stone a sitting President.

They harassed his family wherever they went.

Because they are from the hated minority who must NOT be king.

For Kings must come from the Fulani lineage. Jonathan is Ijaw. Ijaws should not be Kings.

Jonathan must not loot also.

For looters must come from enablers of evil.

These are intellectuals.

Amongst whom are Pastors and Prophets.

Wisdom failed.

Prophesies failed.

WAEC issued a fake WAEC attestation to Buhari.

It is possible many Nigerian "intellectuals" are working with fake certificates.

A nation without conscience is a curse to its people.

We all are standing on the podium of history.

Humanity beckons.

Surely our children will read the roles we played in the salvation or annihilation of humanity.

Why not share for all Nigerians to read!!!

According to C.S. Lewis, "Pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our consciences, but shouts in our pains. It is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world."

Let me tell you something raw and true —if you’re willing to hear it. Your biggest problem isn’t the pain, the fear, or the struggle. It’s the belief that you shouldn’t have these things at all.

Depression, frustration, anxiety—they’re not your enemies. They’re the chisel in God’s hand, carving you into something stronger.

They’re part of the process. The process of becoming stronger. Of growing. Of becoming you.

You will fall. You will hurt. You will bleed. You’ll face days that feel like defeat. You will face setbacks and small wins and crushing disappointments. And that is good for it is exactly where growth happens.

Imagine if you got everything you wanted without the fight, without the pain, would it really be yours? It wouldn’t change you. It wouldn’t grow you.

A life without pain is a life without challenge.

A life without challenge is a life without growth.

A life without pain is a life without courage.

A life without struggle is a life without strength.

Your problems?

Your battles?

Your challenges?

They’re not here to break you. They’re here to shape you. To carve you into something tougher, wiser, more alive.

If you can see that life isn’t happening to you—it’s happening for you—everything changes. The suffering loses its power. The weight lifts. The dark corners light up.

Your wounds are where the light enters.

Your pain is your gift.

I spent years training myself to rise above the noise. Years of telling myself: "Nothing will stop me. Nothing will shake me. Nothing will shake my purpose. I refuse to let my feelings direct my destiny."

And you can do the same.

Right now, at this moment, you have a choice. You can stay where you are, or you can fight. And I won’t lie to you or sugarcoat it —it won’t be easy. It’ll be the hardest battle of your life. But you have that fight in you. I know it.

No matter how hopeless it looks, this isn’t the end.

No matter how dark it looks, this isn’t the end.

You hold the key to your mind. No one else.

So decide. Now. Because a stronger, brighter and better life is waiting. And it’s yours to claim.

Be encouraged with the words of Prophet Isaiah "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand" Isaiah 41:10.

Good morning and do have productive week.

© Godlove NJISONG