I SEEK THE GIVER NOT THE GIFT

Look, it’s biology. Women are wired to be attracted to power, success, and wealth. There’s nothing wrong with that, it’s human nature. But understand this—when you start to rise, so will the number of women trying to get close to you. And not for the reasons you think. They see you as a man who can provide, a man who has access to resources, and for some, that’s all you aretar words, and all the charm in the world, but make no mistake, some of them don’t care about you as a person. They care about what you can give them, and when you stop giving, they’ll drain you dry. They’ll take your money, your peace, your energy, and when you’re left with nothing, they’ll move on to the next man. 2. Distraction is a Killer When women start coming at you left and right, it’s easy to get distracted. You’re feeling good about yourself, your ego is fed, and you think you’ve got the world at your feet. But here’s where you need to be careful—distraction is the ultimate killer of dreams. You didn’t work this hard, grind this much, or sacrifice all that time just to throw it away for short-term pleasure. Every time you chase after one of these women, you’re taking your eye off the ball. You’re losing focus, and in the business world, losing focus is a recipe for disaster. Your competition won’t wait while you’re busy entertaining women, and those women won’t care if you fall. They’ll simply move on to the next man who’s still on his game. 3. Scandals, Setups, and Manipulation Let’s not act like the world isn’t full of traps. Powerful men attract scandals, and many of those scandals start with women. Whether it’s false accusations, leaked personal information, or even blackmail, women who want to take you down know how to play the game. One mistake, one wrong move, and they’ll have you wrapped around their finger. You think it can’t happen to you? Look around—how many successful men have been brought down by women who pretended to care, only to turn around and destroy their reputation, career, and personal life? Don’t be naive. When you start attracting women, you start attracting potential threats to everything you’ve built. 4. The Cost of Attention Success comes with a cost, and attention from women can be one of the most expensive prices you pay. The more women surround you, the more you’ll be tempted to spend money, time, and energy just to maintain that attention. Whether it’s fancy dinners, gifts, or trips, you’ll find yourself pouring resources into women who will never repay you with loyalty or love. They’ll take, take, take, until you’ve got nothing left. And let’s not forget about the emotional cost. When you’re juggling multiple women, you’re not just playing with fire—you’re risking your mental peace. Drama, jealousy, manipulation, all of it comes into play when you let too many women into your life. Your focus should be on building your empire, not getting caught in emotional webs that slow you down. 5. The Ego Trap There’s no denying it—attention from women can feel good. It feeds your ego, makes you feel invincible. But here’s where the trap is: your ego can be your biggest enemy. The moment you start believing that you’re untouchable because of how many women are interested in you, you’ve already lost the game. An Alpha male knows his worth without needing external validation from women. He’s focused on his mission, and he doesn’t let female attention steer him off course. He knows that the more women like him, the more he needs to guard his space, his resources, and his mind. 6. Not All Women Are Bad, But Most Can Be Trouble Let’s be clear—not all women are out to get you. There are genuine, loyal women out there who will support and love you for who you are, not for what you can give them. But here’s the catch: those women are rare. And the more success you have, the harder it becomes to find them. The majority of women who flock to you once you’ve made it aren’t in it for the long haul. They’re there for the benefits, and the moment those benefits dry up, so does their interest in you. 7. Stay Focused, Stay Safe So what’s the solution, Men? Simple: stay focused and stay safe. Don’t let your success be the reason you get taken down by a woman who doesn’t care about you. Guard your heart, your finances, and your energy. Be smart about who you let into your life. Don’t give access to just anyone. You worked too hard to let distractions ruin everything. When women start liking you, your life is not about becoming the “ladies’ man.” It’s about staying on your purpose, keeping your eyes on your goals, and knowing that not all attention is good attention. You’re an Alpha—act like it. Aklahyel Goni

Even as a woman, don’t underestimate how money can transform you. When people say, beware of a poor man’s loyalty, it is not just about men, it also applies to women too. Some ladies are loyal and reserved because they have not touched money. You haven’t noticed how some women change once they start dating a financially secure man? The arrogance, pride and neglect towards those struggling financially? No wonder we are often asked never to say never. Some ladies criticize women buying hairs, phones, clothes, etc because they are yet to afford it or have someone to gift them. Money change people, and untill you have achieved financial stability, it is challenging to truly know yourself. I know this devout and godly lady, very reserved and Christlike. However, after meeting a wealthy and generous guy, she embarked on a journey to torment poor men, she started displaying attitudes I never thought possible, visiting places I never imagined she would visit, and dressing in a way I couldn’t have envisioned. This continued until their breakup, and reality set in. I hope your criticism of certain lifestyles or luxuries is not rooted in your inability to afford them. I hope the lifestyle you despise is not because it is above your budget? As you pray for prosperity , ask for the grace to manage it, so that, the blessing of prosperity won’t lead you to dòom. If money can overwhelm you, you’re not really a good person. Lekwa princess ijeoma

Attention!!! Great message from the servant of God *SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX, Yes SEX you heard me very well!!* Don't just play holiness and complain...read this- to-»»END *PASTOR W. F. KUMUYI MESSAGE TO THE CHURCHES* I slept around 10:20pm, not quite long after laying on the bed, I heard God calling Me Audibly So I Woke Up. When I Checked My Time, It Was 11:30P.M. Suddenly, I Felt The Urge To Pray So I Left The Bedroom To The sitting room & started Praying._ _All Of A Sudden, My Eyes Opened And I Was In Another Realm. I Saw An Array Of Ladies Both Young And Old, Very Beautiful, Coming From The Sea Side. And I Asked God; Who Are These?_ And He Said, _*"These Are Marine Spirits That Have Been Commissioned By The Devil To Drag Many To The Kingdom Of Darkness. His Time Is Almost Up And He Has Vowed To Cause Many To Fall"*_. I Asked, Why Women? He Responded, _*"They Are Not Really Women But Are Evil Spirits That Have Taken A Feminine Form."*_ _So I Asked; What Is Their Mission And He Said, See! All Of A Sudden I Saw, People Having Sex. What Amazed Me Was That Some Were Having Sex By The Wayside, Some In Bushes, Some On Beaches, Some In Offices And In Open Places. So, I Asked Why?_ And He Said _*"These Are Sent To Spread Lust And Cause Many To Fall Into The Sin Of Fornication."*_ He Said, *"Very Soon, Fornication Will Be Legalized."* *"The Spirits Are Meant To Befriend Many Young Ladies, Show Them Care And Eventually Initiate Them To Be Used By The Enemy."* _I Saw Many Young Ladies. Unsuspecting Ladies Being Initiated And As Soon As They Were Initiated, They Had An Insatiable Desire For Sex._ _I Also Saw Sugar Mummies Luring Young Men With Money And Cars. Right After Sleeping With Them, They Are Gone._ _I Saw New Dresses Being Introduced. Dresses That Expose All Parts Of The Body. In Fact, I Saw A Very Fair Lady That Was Almost Naked. About 3 Quarter Of Her Breast Was Exposed And The Dress She Wore Was Very Transparent That One Could Virtually See Her Nakedness. Then I Saw Many People Buying These Dresses; Skimpy Short Skirts And Transparent Leggings And Blouses That Expose The Cleavage. Bleaching Of The Skin Was On The Rise. I Saw Them Pouring Potions On The Eye To Lure Men With Their Eyes_. *"Tell The Church To Watch"*, He Said. *"They Will Try To Enter The Church, Target Pastors And Members, Especially From Choirs."* _I Saw Members Of The Church Being Possessed And Sleeping With Each Other_. _*Amazingly,*_ _I Saw Two Ladies In A Particular Choir That Were Lesbians. Then I Saw Men Of God Sleeping With Members. Some Slept With Members Before They Mounted Pulpits._ _I Saw That Pastors Are Battling Within Because There Is Not Just A Crack But An Opening On The Wall. Satan Has Entered Their Lives. Some Were Caught In The Web Of Pornography And Masturbation._ _In Fact, I Saw A Particular Pastor Watching Pornography And Masturbating In His Room. To Him The Room Was Locked And He Thought No One Was Seeing Him But I Saw That The Wall To His Room Facing The Public Was Broken And People Were Watching Him Without His Knowledge. And God Said To Me_ *"Whatever Is Being Done In Secret Is Already Open."* _I Also Saw Women Becoming Unsubmissive And Disrespectful To Their Husbands And This Act Frustrated Husbands To Fall Prey To These Spirits When They Left Home._ _I Saw Many Being Manipulated Through Food And Clothes. And I Saw Many Chains As Well. And He Said To Me,_ *"These Are Chains Of Addiction That Has Kept Many People In Sexual Bondage."* _Some Women Were Showering Enchanted Gifts To Pastors And Were Gradually Changing Their Status._ *"Tell My People To Stay Within The Boundaries Of My Word. Let Them Not Depart From Them. Tell Them To Watch And Pray. Let Them Be Focused On Me And This Will Help Them Avoid Every Distraction Of The Enemy."* BITTER TRUTH: - Believed It Or Not, Accept It Or Not. You Can Be In Deeper Life Bible Church And Your Life Can Still Be Shallow And Deep In Sin.*_ _*You Can Attend The Redeemed Christian Church Of God And Yet Your Life Remains Unredeemed.*_ _*You Can Be A Member Of Winner's Chapel And Still Be A Slave Of Sin, Fulfilling All It's Lusts Till You Die.*_ _*You Can Be In Mountain Of Fire Ministries And Your Life Is Still In The Valley Of Lukewarmness And Spiritual Coldness.*_ _*You Can Be Among The Salvation Army And Still Suffer Defeat; Not Knowing What It Means To Be Saved From Sin*_. _*You Can Be In Christ Embassy And Still Be Working Directly As Satan's Immoral Ambassador In His Evil Embassy.*_ _*You Can Be In Dunamis And Yet You Remain Powerless Spiritually, Lacking Basic Grace!*_ _*You Can Attend The Lord's Chosen Church And Yet Be Among The Rejected Many.*_ _*You Can Speak In Tongues And Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can "Win Souls" And Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can See Vision And Miss Heaven*_. _*You Can Cast Out Devil And Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can Perform Miracles And Still Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can Read The Whole Bible And Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can Attend All Fellowship Activities And Camp meetings And Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can Have Anointing And Miss Heaven*_. _*You Can Have All Spiritual Gifts And Miss Heaven*_. _You Can Wield Power And Unction And Still Miss Heaven._ _*But You CANNOT Live A HOLY LIFE AND MISS HEAVEN....*_ _*HOLINESS IS THE REAL DEAL !*_ _Thanks For Your Attention._ _Forwarding This Post Is Evangelism_. _Please Take A Part In It And Forward To Contacts Or Groups.....mind u I'm not holy. May God help us not to miss heaven at the end of this life in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏🙏

You were created for a reason. God didn’t place you on this earth by accident. There’s a purpose inside of you that only you can fulfill. But living with purpose requires intentionality—it means aligning your plans, actions, and heart with God’s will. Purpose is not just about achieving big goals; it’s about making a difference in the lives of others. It’s about using your gifts, talents, and experiences to glorify God and bring hope to the world around you. Stop waiting for the perfect moment to step into your calling. Start where you are, with what you have. Trust God to lead you, and He will equip you for every step of the journey. #LiveWithPurpose #GodsCalling #FaithfulLiving #PurposeDriven #InspirationForLife #TrustGodsPlan #HopeAndFaith #KingdomImpact

A surprise cake baked and incripted with love won't be a bad idea this season Surprise that Sweet soul in your life and let them know how much you care. Bake a heart ❤️ with GIFTIE TREAT. Location: Abuja. I got you covered 💯

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Be careful !!! Three Robbers entered a house. They said to the lady, we don't want to spoil the order of your house and we don't want to harm you, so we are sitting here on the sofa, bring whatever cash and jewelry you have here. The lady brought cash and jewellery. The leader of the robbers said, "Where is the diamond ring that your husband gave as a gift on your wedding anniversary?" She kept silent and brought the ring and gave it to them. Bring the watch that your sister sent from Dubai. She had tears in her eyes while handing over the gift given by her sister. Now we will drink instant coffee of "Nescafé" with your permission. After drinking coffee, the head of the Robbers said, "Now bring the leftover pineapple cake from yesterday." When all the goods had been taken by the Robbers, the woman hesitated and said, "You guys are very professional and ethical robbers. How did you know about the things inside our house?" The leader of the Robbers fixed the mask on his face and said, Madam, we are your "Facebook friends". We regularly read your posts. We also check your status. 🤔 Dedicated to all those who post everything on social media!

In a world that constantly pushes us to want more, do more, and achieve more, gratitude is the anchor that keeps us grounded. Gratitude shifts our perspective from what we don’t have to what we do have. It reminds us that every breath, every blessing, every moment is a gift from God. When we choose gratitude, we invite joy into our hearts. We align ourselves with God’s purpose and open the door for more blessings to flow into our lives. Gratitude doesn’t just change our perspective; it changes our life. Today, pause and thank God for the big and small things. The answered prayers and even the unanswered ones. Gratitude is the secret to a joyful, abundant life. #GratitudeAttitude #ThankGod #BlessedAndGrateful #FaithAndJoy #GodsGoodness #PositiveLiving #JoyfulHeart #FaithfulLiving

You are Gifted

What is your response to the question Ask? Good responses are rewarded with gifts.

I can't stop thanking God for this precious gifts He gave to me. It hasn't been an easy journey but God has been my strength. #Gratefulheart