It’s been a hard few years—for a lot of people.⁠
You’ve carried so much.⁠
Worked through loss, grief, heartbreak…⁠
And still, you’ve stayed open.⁠
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That matters.⁠
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Because loving anything deeply means risking the pain of losing it.⁠

Grief is a double-edged sword.⁠
It cuts because you cared.⁠
It aches because it meant something.⁠
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That’s the gift.⁠
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You put your heart on the line knowing it might break.⁠
And sometimes, it does.⁠
But if you let those feelings move through you,⁠
if you trust the process…⁠
you’ll find your way to the other side of it.⁠
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You don’t have to fear heartbreak.⁠
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It might feel overwhelming at times—but that pain is proof you really lived.⁠
You gave it everything.⁠
You said yes to the experience.⁠
You loved fully, knowing it would change.⁠
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And that’s something to be proud of.⁠
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The time you spend with someone or something…⁠
That’s the real beauty of this whole thing.⁠
You grow.⁠
You learn.⁠
You expand.⁠
And even if it ends,⁠
you walk away a better version of yourself.⁠
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So when the grief rushes in,⁠
don’t run.⁠
Feel it.⁠
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It’s not here to destroy you.⁠
It’s here to remind you just how deeply you love.⁠
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Grief is a gift—its proof you lived with your heart open.

-The Better Man Project

Never dare to defy God!! I repeat, NEVER DARE TO DEFY GOD!!!
The most recent, Brazil defied God, by imitating the status of satan who drags Jesus Christ on the ground with stumps. Today, a disaster has befallen Brazil unlike any other in the 21st century;
The owner of the Titanic ️ said: "Even God can't sink this ship′′ and you know what happened? The ship ⛵ sank shortly after.
Marilyn Monroe said: "I don't need JESUS", 3 days later she was found dead.
A mother told her daughter: "God be with you".
Ironically, the daughter replied: "there is no room in the car except in the trunk". On their journey there was an
accident where all the people inside the car died but the trunk remained intact, the egg crates in the truck none were broken.
A dad told his son, "may God protect you", and the son said, "my friends will protect me more than God", while he was returning from work, a stray bullet killed him where the friends looked at him but could not protect him.
A boy went to a church and started urinating on the cross saying "there is no GOD", the next day he lost his arms and confessed the desecration.
A man received this message and deleted it saying what!! "God does not exist", the man suffered for 8 years before he died, another man received this message and shared it to as many people as possible, he was promoted in his job.
GOD opens doors that no one can close through this message. And if you don't need GOD, ignore this message and don't spread it...
The message is meant to go around the world.
The president of Argentina received it and ignored it, after 8 days his son died.
This message is sacred and miraculous.
Share it to 5 different WhatsApp groups. Don't ignore
!!! Don't break it.!!!
Is GOD first in your life? If so, leave what you are doing and share it now in 5 different WhatsApp groups.
COPYED.
I have asked God (through prayers) to bless you with the desires of your heart according to his will if you
end this message to others if necessary.

*The Joy of Bathing Together Every Night with your spouse*

Taking a bath with your spouse every night can truly transform your evenings and your relationship. It offers a unique opportunity to unwind and de-stress after a long day, letting the warm water melt away any tension you might be holding. This shared ritual creates a peaceful haven where you can talk openly and connect deeply without the usual distractions of daily life. Imagine discussing your day, sharing your thoughts, and simply being present with each other, fostering a profound sense of intimacy and closeness. It's more than just a wash; it's a dedicated moment for nurturing your bond, reinforcing that you're a team.
Beyond emotional connection, the physical act of bathing together can be incredibly therapeutic, helping both of you to relax muscles and soothe your minds. This leads to better sleep quality, as you'll both drift off feeling refreshed and content. Establishing this nightly routine adds a special, cherished element to your evenings, something you both look forward to. It's a subtle yet powerful way to inject consistent romance and tender moments into your busy lives, creating a routine that's uniquely yours. This shared experience fosters a sense of unity and shared well-being, making you feel more connected and understood. It’s about building a stronger, more loving partnership, one warm, shared bath at a time. So, why not embrace this simple yet profound way to enhance your connection and enjoy each other's company more fully? It’s a small change that can lead to big improvements in your relationship.

My mother confessed to me that the man who I thought was my uncle all my life was actually my brother, my elder brother.

Charles is my son, My first son; Your Brother!. My mother confessed to me.

How do you mean mom? What do you mean? How is that possible? I asked my mother. It's a long story Ayochidi, I will tell you all about it, but now I just have to get out of here and go confront Chief Okoye. My mother said to me.

How are you going to do that? I asked my mother. I will figure something out. She replied me. Mom, why you are figuring something out, I need to know how come Uncle Charles is my brother. Does he even know that you are his mother? I asked my mother. But instead I saw tears coming out of her eyes. He doesn't. My mother replied.

Why is everything about my family fvvcked up this bad. Why is everything difficult? I yelled at my mother.

Calm down. Ayochidi. Olivia said to me. The warden is monitoring my behavior.

Should I even believe that you are my mother? I asked my mother. Ayochidi the warden is looking at you. Calm down. Olivia said to me.

I'm your mother. Joyce said to me. I can't believe that. At this point I need a DNA test. I can't believe what ever word that comes out of your mouth. You have no difference with Angela or even Chief Okoye, All you guys do is lie upon lie. I don't even know who to believe anymore. I said.

Is everything alright here? The warden came and asked me. I nodded to yes. Everything is alright. Joyce said.

Everything is not alright. I'm out of here. I said as I left the prison.

Ayochidi I think you are overreacting, I mean your mother must have a reason for hiding the identity of Charles all this time. Olivia said to me.

She has no right, No one does. I won't blame you because you ain't in my shoes right now. I said to Olivia.

In your shoes? Really Ayochidi. Your shoes? I'm wearing the same exact shoes as you are, my life is in danger why because of I Love You. All because I care about you and here you are telling me about shoes? Shoes? Really? Shoes!. Olivia said and angrily went into the car.

At that point I realized I fvvcked up, But at the same time I was too angry apologize. I went into the car and Olivia didn't speak to me. She faced her side of the glass as I drove.

We drove back to Jide's house, Jide saw how angry Olivia is as she went upstairs to her room.

What happened? Jide asked me. Nothing just girls problem. Have you been able to track down Chief Okoye? I asked Jide. We are still working on that. Jide said.

It's seems like you are delaying, you are slowing down. You just have found and fished him out by now. I said to Jide. If it was that easy why don't you fish him out yourself Ayochidi? Guy don't shift your relationship problems to me. I don't know what is going on between you and your girl but I think you should go and apologize. Jide said to me.

At first I was reluctant. But Jide left me to go meet his boys. After few minutes of standing alone, I finally went upstairs to meet Olivia.

I saw she was sitted on the bed still angry as I came in.

"I'm sorry for what I said, I shouldn't have said what I said. I'm wrong. Forgive me babe. I said to Olivia. Ayochidi what you said is wrong. I have been through this struggle, this war with you from day one, And gaslighting me like that isn't fair. Olivia said.

I'm sorry my love. It won't happen again. I said as I went close and kissed Olivia. The kiss followed an intense romance. We ended up making out and sleeping off.

We were sleeping off when Jide came into the room tapping me to wake up. Ayochidi wake up. Jide said and immediately I sprung up.

Come to the living room. Jide said. And immediately I followed Jide to the living room and then Olivia came down after.

It was a TV news. Chief Okoye was found déad in an abandoned building and the culprit was found seriously injured.

When the image of the culprit appeared on the screen, I was shocked. My mother was the culprit. She was rushed to the hospital.

How did she escape from Prison?

Your shares is my biggest motivation to continue.

To Be Continued...

Title: Promise 30.

Above all love each other deeply because love covers over multitude of sins.

When I broke up with my ex, I did what any normal, self-preserving woman would do, I blocked him everywhere. WhatsApp, Instagram, Twitter, even LinkedIn (just in case professionalism wanted to misbehave).

But one day, as fate would have it, I stumbled on a video. The type that would have had both of us giggling in the DMs. I paused. Muscle memory kicked in. I ran to my block list like a woman possessed, searched his name (yes, I still remembered the spelling ), and unblocked him.

I didn’t say hi. I didn’t try to start a conversation. I just sent the video with the caption:
“Just thought this would make you happy.”

Then I blocked him again with pride.

Fast forward a few weeks, it happened again. Another video. Another wave of nostalgia. I thought to myself, “It won’t hurt.”
So, I repeated the ritual:
Unblocked him
Sent the video
Captioned it: “This cracked me up, thought of you ”
Getting ready to block him again

But this time… he replied.

He said:
“Please don’t block me yet. I have a video I’ve been waiting to send you too.”

Something in me smiled. I thought, “Aww, maybe he never really moved on.”
My heart did a small Zanku.

Then the video dropped.

I clicked it, excited.
And what did I see?

👰🏽🤵🏽‍♂️
A cinematic, slow-mo, drone-shot, teary-eyed, flower-petal wedding video.
HIS wedding.

To another woman.

The “just thought this would make you happy” queen in me froze.
The video ended with “To forever and beyond” and their lips locked like Wi-Fi and password.

Me: 🫠

I didn’t block him immediately.
I needed the network to understand that I was in a coma.

At that point, even my tears started buffering.

So yes, I’m the clown that unblocked a man twice…
Only for him to gift me a wedding video as a reply.

Ekene my God ga a judge gi 🥹🥹

Written by Queethen ebys

*HAVE YOU READ THIS 👇🏾*
*Good morning/ good day, food for thought...*
1. Burial rice tastes nice until it’s cooked in your compound.
2. ⁠When the axe came to the forest, the trees said the handle is one of us. Until they felt its cuts:. *BETRAYAL IS within.*
3. ⁠When a kid grows up, a pencil is replaced by a pen just to make the kid realize that now it is not easy to erase the mistake.
4. ⁠One day, the ground we walk on will be our roof.
5. ⁠If loyalty was real, water is not supposed to cook the fish.
6. ⁠People don’t abandon people they love. They abandon people they are using.
7. ⁠How I wish *RIP* means *Return If Possible.*
8. ⁠One *sad truth* about life is that *you may not even be part of the future you’re stressed about.*
9. ⁠*The day you lose your father is the day you will realize that you have lost the only man who wanted to see you better than him.*
10. ⁠The sheep lived all her life, fearing the wolf, *but it was the shepherd that finally ate it.*
11. ⁠When we were kids, we cried loudly to be noticed. But now we cry silently because we don’t want anyone to know.
12. ⁠My mom always said, "don’t talk while eating." I never knew she was talking about life.
13. ⁠Just because you have a good mom, doesn’t mean your dad has a good wife.
14. ⁠Is this the life we were kicking our mothers' stomachs for?
15. ⁠Just because you’re a good person, doesn’t mean the world owes you kindness.
16. ⁠When the blind man sees, he throws away the stick that has been helping him for years.
17. ⁠*Nowadays you need money to become a member of your own family.*
18. ⁠FAMILY is like a FOREST from a distance. They are all close until you get closer to see how SEPARATED trees are:
19. ⁠Just play along... *EVERYBODY KNOWS WHAT THEY ARE DOING.*
*HAPPY NEW WEEK*

“As an African leader, when you lie, it becomes a sign of fear. He who lives in Fear shouldn’t be called to lead, because a society led by fear brings no prosperity.

At first, when I started working for the good of Burkina Faso, they sold a propaganda of lies against me that I am working against my people for my own interests.

They wanted me to reply with a counter-propaganda to refuse or play in their own game of lie.

But no, Burkina Faso is on a recovery from over a lifetime of lacking nutrients and all energy is invested in making it grow.

My only response to the propaganda sold against me is to reply with good works and progress for the people of Burkina Faso and Africa.

God bless Africa!”

#ibroconect

When a woman replaces you with peace—not another man—you can be sure it’s truly over. That’s the part so many misses. They see her silence and think she’s just confused, that her distance is only temporary, that she’s simply being emotional and will come back when the storm passes. But what they don’t realize is this: when a woman starts craving peace more than your presence, you’ve already lost her.
She’s not searching for someone else to save her. She’s not rebounding—she’s recovering. She’s not hoping to make you jealous—she’s quietly, powerfully, making herself whole again. The most unstoppable version of a woman is the one who no longer needs to be heard, fixed, or fought for—because she’s finally found safety in her own space.
It’s not that she didn’t love you. In fact, she loved you so deeply that she forgot to love herself. She showed up, stood by you, and gave you grace you didn’t even realize you needed. But eventually, she grew tired—tired of begging for the bare minimum, tired of questioning her worth, tired of feeling like loving you meant losing pieces of herself.
So now, she’s exchanged chaos for clarity. Arguments for quiet mornings. Anxiety for deep, steady breaths. That constant feeling of walking on eggshells has been replaced with a sanctuary she’s built for her own peace. There are no loud exits, no dramatic goodbyes—just a gentle, resolute absence. Because when a woman truly heals, she doesn’t chase closure—she becomes it.
Another man could have been forgiven. She could have competed, cried, or pleaded. But when peace walks in and takes your place, understand that her soul has already moved on—and where she’s going, you’re simply not invited.
To every woman who has chosen herself, who has chosen peace over pain, and healing over chaos—your strength is a quiet revolution. Your journey is proof that sometimes the bravest thing you can do is walk away and build a life that feels like home inside your own heart.

It took me so long to learn how to unlove people who hurt me instead of giving me the love I deserve.
It took me so many sleepless nights to teach myself that some people don’t deserve me.
It took me many years to forgive myself for all the self-hatred, for doubting myself when I wanted to take a step further, for trying to fix others when my heart was shaky and my voice was gone.
I was so busy trying to understand others while ignoring how deep the pain was in my heart that I started becoming numb to how others treated me.
So, when you try to love me, I don’t want you to love me on days that I am happy and my eyes are brimming with hope, I don’t want to be loved when I am singing with love, when my voice is filled with life.
I want you to accept my saddest smiles, my emptiness, my cold stares and my sad songs. I need you to know that it took me so much to accept myself, it took me a lot to understand who I am, it took me days to own my dreams and stand for myself.
So, when you try to shake my beliefs, know that I am unshakable, know that I am not ready to be half loved, know that I am worthy of love even when you can’t give me the world.