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The Monkey’s Regret

Tambo and Zubi had been friends for as long as either of them could remember. They were born in the same fig tree, played on the same vines, and grew up in the same stretch of the forest. Tambo was lively and restless, always eager to prove himself. Zubi was quieter, the kind of friend who listened more than he spoke, but when he spoke, it mattered.

One dry season, the elders of the forest announced a special event—a Fruit Gathering Day, where every animal was invited to bring the finest fruit they could find. It wasn’t a competition in name, but everyone knew it was. The best fruit would be praised, and whoever brought it would enjoy a bit of respect and admiration.

Tambo, never one to miss a chance to shine, threw himself into the task. But the drought had dried many of the usual fruit trees, and all he could find were half-ripe bananas and overripe guavas. Meanwhile, Zubi quietly climbed a remote tree by the stream and returned with a fruit neither of them had seen in weeks—a smooth, ripe plum, deep red and firm.

Tambo couldn’t stop looking at it.

The night before the gathering, he stayed awake turning the thought over in his head. “Zubi doesn’t even care for these things. He’s not interested in being praised. I could just take it for tomorrow… and return it after the gathering. It’s only one fruit.”

And so, he did.

Zubi was confused the next morning when he couldn’t find the plum. But he didn’t say much, just looked around for a while, then carried his bananas to the gathering.

Tambo presented the plum. Animals admired it. A few nodded their approval. The elders complimented him on the find. It wasn’t a grand victory, just quiet recognition. But Tambo couldn’t enjoy it.

When he looked at Zubi across the clearing, his friend’s face was calm—but distant. They walked home in silence.

Days passed. The easy laughter between them faded. Zubi still greeted him, still shared food, still offered help when needed—but something unspoken had settled between them, and Tambo felt it with every word that didn’t come.

He thought about returning the fruit, or confessing. But what would that change?

Months went by.

Then, during the next rainy season, the riverbanks overflowed. One morning, word came that Zubi had gone to help a stranded animal near the flooded stream and hadn’t returned.

Tambo ran without thinking. When he reached the edge of the swollen water, he saw Zubi holding onto a branch, stuck in thick mud, water rising fast. There were no crowds, no drama—just two friends in trouble.

Tambo found a long stick, waded into the edge of the water, and held it out. He slipped once but kept his grip. With effort and a quiet word of encouragement, he helped Zubi back to dry land.

No one cheered. There were no dramatic rescues or grand gestures. Just two monkeys sitting on wet ground, breathing hard, side by side again.

As they rested under a tree, Tambo finally said, “It was me. I took the plum that day. I thought it was just fruit, but I knew what it meant.”

Zubi looked at him for a long time before replying. “I knew,” he said simply. “But I also knew you’d come back.”

They didn’t talk about it again. But over time, the silence between them changed. Not quite like before, but honest, and steady.

Tambo never sought admiration again. What mattered most, he had nearly lost. And quietly, without words, he began to rebuild what truly mattered.

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Moral: Some mistakes aren’t fixed with words. They’re fixed with actions—and time.

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Niger Flood Tragedy: Over 100 dead, dozens missing, over 50 building destroyed

A devastating flood that struck Mokwa Local Government Area in Niger State has claimed the lives of over 100 people, with more than 100 others still missing as of Friday.

At least 44 of the victims were buried on Friday, following the earlier burial of 31 bodies recovered earlier in the week.

The disaster occurred on Wednesday night amid a torrential downpour that lasted several hours.

The resulting floodwaters overwhelmed the area, submerging homes and sweeping away everything in their path. Families have launched desperate searches for missing loved ones as rescue operations continue.

Deputy Governor of Niger State, Mr Yakubu Garba, confirmed the death toll during a visit to Mokwa on Friday, stating, “I have been briefed by officials from NEMA and NSEMA , who have been on ground since the incident occurred for search and rescue operations. I was told that over 100 people lost their lives and some have yet to be buried as search and rescue operations are still ongoing.”

Addressing survivors at an Internally Displaced Persons (IDP) camp, Garba urged patience, assuring that the government was organizing the distribution of relief materials. He confirmed that materials from NEMA had already been handed over to the council chairman for onward delivery to the victims.

Mrs Zubaida Umar, Director-General of NEMA, also confirmed that agency officials were coordinating search and rescue efforts on-site.

One survivor, Anas Usman, shared his harrowing experience with the News Agency of Nigeria: “We were preparing to go to the farm in the morning when our house was suddenly submerged by floods; we did not know where the flood came from. The flood submerged our house, causing the structure to collapse. We lost children, women and men, who are family members.”

The Director-General of NSEMA, Baba-Arah, provided further details about the scale of the destruction, noting that the flood—triggered by prolonged rainfall—swept away over 50 residential buildings and their occupants.

According to Baba-Arah, “NSEMA received a report of a deadly flood disaster that ravaged two communities, Tiffin Maza and Anguwan Hausawa, in Mokwa town, Mokwa LGA.

In response, the agency, in collaboration with Mokwa local government authorities, local divers, and brave volunteers, launched a search and rescue operation to save lives and recover the dead. So far, 21 corpses have been recovered, while 10 persons remain missing. Three survivors, a woman and her two children, are currently receiving treatment for injuries and shock at the Mokwa General Hospital.”

Reacting to the disaster, Jonathan Vatsa, Senior Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to Governor Mohammed Bago, said the flood had destroyed the only road connecting the North to the South-West and plunged the entire state into mourning.

He emphasized the need for urgent federal intervention, saying, “We cannot ascertain the exact number of people who died. In fact, we are still waiting for a full report from the area before issuing a formal statement. You see, this is an act of God, a natural disaster. It is beyond human control or imagination. In the last 30 to 40 years, residents of Mokwa have never witnessed anything like this.”

Vatsa added, “It is unfortunate that when things like this happen, lives are lost. The state government and His Excellency are condoling with the families of the deceased, the paramount ruler of Mokwa, and the entire community. His heart and sympathy are with them. Don’t forget, this is his zone.”

He also revealed that, “As I speak to you, the report reaching us is that the Ilorin road has been cut off. That shows the scale of devastation caused by the flood. The Federal Government must intervene. This is far beyond what the state can handle. In fact, the Tatabu Bridge, our only link between the North and the South-West, has collapsed. That road is the only access route to the South-West from this axis. So, the entire state is in mourning, not just the people of Mokwa.”

This disaster echoes previous incidents in recent years. In 2022, over 600 people were killed and more than 1.3 million displaced by flooding across Nigeria, and similar events occurred last year.

In response to the Mokwa tragedy, President Bola Tinubu has directed NEMA and security agencies to intensify rescue and relief operations.

A statement by the Minister of Information and National Orientation, Mohammed Idris, noted that the President had been fully briefed and was deeply concerned.

“The immediate priority of the Federal Government is to save lives and provide urgent relief to survivors. The National Emergency Management Agency, in collaboration with the Nigerian Armed Forces and the Niger State Government, is working around the clock to ensure that no effort is spared in assisting those affected,” Idris stated.

The Federal Government also praised first responders and local volunteers for their swift action and urged residents to cooperate with emergency personnel.

“We urge residents in the affected communities to cooperate fully with emergency personnel and comply with all evacuation instructions. Our thoughts and prayers are with the bereaved families and all those impacted by this tragedy. The Federal Government extends its deepest condolences to the victims’ families. In this time of sorrow, the nation stands united in grief and solidarity,” the minister concluded.

May June overflow with blessings, joy, and peace for you and your loved ones. May every tear be wiped away and replaced with smiles and laughter. Wishing you and your family a truly blessed month!

May June overflow with blessings, joy, and peace for you and your loved ones. May every tear be wiped away and replaced with smiles and laughter. Wishing you and your family a truly blessed month!

A woman NEVER LEAVES without already having another man lined up. If she dumps you, there was already a replacement waiting, and she was prepared for him.

Don't be fooled. When a woman leaves your side, it's not because she "wants to be alone." It's because she already has another door open—along with her heart and sometimes more...

Men believe that women end things first and then search for someone new, but the reality is quite the opposite:

1. First, they find, then they finish.

2. First, they secure, then they let go.

3. First, they plan, then they execute.

It hurts to accept, but if she left you, chances are someone else was already on her radar.

This is how the harsh reality works, gentlemen:

1️⃣ Emotional distancing – She stops arguing, stops demanding, stops caring. Mentally, she’s already out of the relationship.

2️⃣ Exploring options – She might not be with someone else yet, but she’s surveying the market. She won’t stay alone for long.

3️⃣ Closing the next deal – It could be an ex, a long-time friend, or a new admirer who knew exactly what to say at the right moment.

4️⃣ Walking away without looking back – No second chances, no "let’s try again." By the time you realize what's happening, she’s already with someone new, while you’re still trying to process it.

Here's the truth they don’t tell you:

If a woman leaves you, it’s because she already has someone else supporting her.
If she says she "needs time," she’s already investing her time elsewhere.
If she swears she’s alone after the breakup, she just doesn’t want you to know who she’s with.

The problem is, men think this is just "bad luck," but in reality, it’s ignorance. Women don’t play randomly—they play chess. And while you were confident that "everything was fine," she was already making her next move.

Don't be naive. If you notice her pulling away, be prepared.

Because the next thing you’ll hear is: "I need space."

If you think she’ll come back, wake up—she’s already re
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Discipline Over Procrastination: A Life- Changing Choice!

Hey friends,

Today, I want to share a powerful decision that has transformed my life: choosing discipline over procrastination.

Procrastination is like a comfortable trap, always tempting us with short-term escapes from our responsibilities. But I've learned that yielding to it only delays our dreams and aspirations.

On the other hand, discipline is our steadfast ally. It empowers us to take consistent action, even when motivation is low. It's the key to unlocking our full potential and achieving the life we envision.

Imagine starting each day with purpose, knowing that every step you take is another building block toward your dreams. It’s not always easy, but it's worth it!

Here’s what I've discovered:
Small Wins Matter: Every small task completed builds momentum. Celebrate those victories!

Consistent Action: Progress is about showing up every day, even when it's tough.
Clarity & Focus: Discipline helps prioritize what truly matters, allowing us to focus on our goals.

Long-term Success: Procrastination may offer a quick fix, but discipline builds lasting achievements.

Let’s make the decision to embrace discipline and shape our futures with intention and determination. The journey might be challenging, but the rewards are deeply fulfilling.

Who's with me on this path to greatness? Let's support each other and share our progress!

#DisciplineOverProcrastination #LifeChangingDecision #UnlockYourPotential

Signs She’s NOT Into You (Might Hurt Your Feelings)

1. She doesn’t text you back (or takes forever to reply).

Women are glued to their phones. If she’s into you, she’ll be excited to text back fast.

If she takes hours or days to reply, or leaves you on read, it’s a clear sign you’re low priority.

No woman "forgets" to text a man she desires. She’s just choosing not to.

2. She avoids being alone with you.

If she always wants to “meet you there” instead of getting picked up…

If she only hangs out in group settings…

If she never wants to come over to your place or invite you to hers…

She’s making sure there’s no chance of intimacy. That means she’s not attracted to you.

3. She doesn’t ask you personal questions.

A woman who’s into you will be curious about you. She’ll want to know about your life, your passions, your goals.

If she never asks anything beyond surface-level topics, you’re just background noise to her.

Indifference = disinterest.

4. She brings up her bad qualities.

When a woman likes you, she puts her best foot forward.

But when she isn’t interested, she’ll sabotage herself on purpose by saying things like:

“I’m really bad at relationships.”

“I’m kind of crazy.”

“I don’t think I’d be good for you.

5. She doesn’t engage in the conversation.

If a woman likes you, she’ll be dialed into the conversation, smiling, reacting, laughing.

If she’s giving short answers, not following up, or looking at her phone while you talk…

She’s mentally checked out. And when a woman’s mind isn’t on you, neither is her heart.

6. She is "always busy."

A woman will move mountains to see a man she wants.

If she keeps saying:

“I’m super busy right now.”

“Maybe next week.”

“I’ll let you know.”

She’s making excuses to avoid you.

Busy women still make time for the men they crave.

7. She doesn’t give you her full attention.

When a woman truly desires you, Her eyes are on you.

She laughs at your jokes. She wants to know everything about you.

If she seems distracted, looking around the room, or more focused on her phone…

She’s counting down the minutes until she can leave.

8. She flirts with other men in front of you.

This is the ultimate act of disrespect.

If she’s giggling, touching, or engaging other guys while you’re right there, she doesn’t see you as an option.

A woman who respects and desires you will NOT flaunt her interest in other men.

9. She never initiates touch or flirts back.

A woman’s body language exposes her true feelings.

If she’s into you:

She’ll find ways to touch you.

She’ll lean in when you talk.

She’ll giggle and playfully push you away.

10. You’re the only one putting in effort.

Who texts first? Who makes plans? Who keeps the conversation going?

If it’s always YOU and she’s just coasting along…

She’s not that into you. High-interest women don’t let the man do 100% of the work.

➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

*SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 01/06/2025*

Gateway Games: 20 Kano athletes die in road crash

Tinubu, governors mourn death of 21 Kano athletes, officials in auto crash

Tinubu commissions first section of Lagos-Calabar coastal highway

Moody’s upgrades Nigeria’s rating to B3, Stable

WAEC: Katsina Govt. seeks cancellation of English language paper

Ogun to open alternative as protest rocks tolling of Ijebu-Ode-Mojoda-Epe road

Super Eagles beat Jamaica on penalties to win Unity Cup

PSG thrash Inter 5-0 to win Champions League

EPL giants step up interest in Lookman

Leverkusen set €50m Boniface asking price

Ukraine war: Russia’s drone scheme for Nigerians sparks uproar

Hamas seeks changes to US-backed Gaza ceasefire deal

WHO urges ban on flavoured tobacco products

66 Nigerians obtain Antiguan citizenship for $6.6m


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*DID YOU KNOW?*

* Wimbledon is the oldest tennis tournament in the world, first held in 1877. It’s the only Grand Slam event played on grass courts, with the grass meticulously cut to 8mm. And players must wear predominantly white clothing, a tradition dating back to the Victorian era.

* You can’t hum if you hold your nose
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Be patient with me, Tinubu begs Nigerians

Niger flood disaster: Tinubu mobilises emergency response, death toll hits 150

Tinubu inaugurates ships to mark Navy’s 69th anniversary

National security is collective duty, says Akpabio

Don’t choose kneeling loyalists as successors, Akpabio warns govs

Reps seek seven-year jail for workplace bribery

EFCC slams Emefiele with fresh charges over 753 Abuja housing units

EFCC arrests 43 suspected internet fraudsters in Nasarawa

EFCC probes two men caught with fake $899,000 in Kano

Military steps up checks at Abuja barracks after explosion

Police mum over alleged suit against retired AIG, others

Nigeria to host 2025 international civil service conference – Walson-Jack

FG proposes establishment of exam malpractice tribunal

NAPTIP reschedules Speed Darlington’s summon to June 2

FRSC blames speeding for death of 21 Kano athletes

Customs to profile border fuel stations, auction 39,000 litres

FCT rural road interventions ‘ll boost food security – Wike

AFUED honours First Lady, monarch with doctorate

Plateau Varsity, bank partner to develop livestock feed

You can’t give students loans in a broken economy — ASUU President, Piwuna

SSANIP appeals to FG to implement 25/35% salary review

Why I will miss Tinubu’s mother Qur’anic recitation competition—Buhari

Davido gifts fan N5m for new hair

Tems had only N200 when we met – Manager

I’m making efforts with Mikel Obi to bring Osimhen to Chelsea – Peter Okoye

Heritage Bank closure halts $5.7m World Bank fund for Yobe

Dangote to import five million barrels of crude – Report

Tantita Security boss’ birthday celebrated with novelty football match in Bayelsa

I Told Tinubu I Won’t Vote For Him –Amaechi

We’re working to rescue Nigeria, say Atiku, El-Rufai

Stop heating up polity, Onitiri cautions Atiku, Obi, el-Rufai

Oyebanji to Ekiti APC: God has ratified our second term bid

Thousands of PDP members defect to APC in A’Ibom council

APC targets CUPP in anti-coalition move

Why I don’t take chieftaincy titles – Makinde

Kano approves N1m each for 22 bereaved athlete families

Eno flags off construction of quarters for judicial officers

Exam malpractices, cultism won’t be tolerated in Rivers varsities — Ibas

Okpebholo distributes 17 new SUVs to Edo council chairmen

Go and sin no more – Okpebholo spells out terms of amnesty for secret cult members

Sallah: Sokoto gov directs early payment of June salaries

Edo govt begins property owners profiling in new city development June 3

Imo govt declares land allocation documents fraudulent, warns land grabbers

Enugu Govt commends NIS, police for suspected ritualist’s arrest

120 golfers for Edo 2025 Golf fore Peace series

Anambra’s gov wife empowers 1,000 female traders with N50,000

Ekiti declares Ado-Ekiti ‘smoke-free city

Edo’s reintroduced monthly sanitation sees high compliance

Nasarawa directs residents to exit flood-prone areas

Kano bans offensive tricycle art

Police arrest six suspected drug peddlers in Anambra

Abuja pastor, three others nabbed over child trafficking

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*TODAY IN HISTORY*

* On this day in 1979, Rhodesia (Zimbabwe) ended 90 years of white rule. In 1980, the Republic of Zimbabwe achieved sovereignty from the United Kingdom.

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There is only one success – to be able to spend your life in your own way. – Christopher Morley

Good morning



*Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com, +234-8122200446*

MEN, Listen Carefully

1. Respect yourself first. The moment you lose self-respect, you become a pawn in someone else's game.

2. Your appearance is your first impression. Invest in yourself, hit the gym, dress well—not for them, but for you. Confidence follows discipline.

3. Master self-control. A man who can control his cravings for sex and food has already conquered most of his weaknesses. Discipline is the key to power.

4. Your friends have battles too. Stop expecting them to always come through. Everyone is fighting a war you don’t see.

5. If you put her on a pedestal, she will look down on you. A king doesn’t beg for loyalty; he earns it through strength and purpose.

6. Betrayal always comes from those closest to you. Be wise with trust. Your worst scars won’t come from strangers.

7. They will mock you, doubt you, and dismiss you—until you succeed. Keep building. Let success be your response.

8. Temporary sacrifices lead to permanent stability. Missing out on fun today is not a loss if it guarantees a better future.

9. Weak men seek pleasure, strong men seek purpose. Build, create, and contribute—don’t just consume.

10. A true man doesn't beg for love, attention, or respect. He commands it through his actions and presence.

11. Your time and energy are valuable. Don’t waste them on lazy, entitled people who bring nothing to the table.

12. A woman can sense a weak man from miles away. Once she detects neediness, you’ve lost her respect. Don’t chase—lead.

13. If she isn’t afraid to lose you, you are replaceable in her eyes. Become the kind of man she values, not the one she tolerates.

14. Life is ruthless. One wrong move and you can lose years of progress. Move with caution and wisdom.

15. Never negotiate desire. If you have to beg for love, respect, or attention—it’s already gone. Walk away with your dignity intact.

16. Your mental health is your responsibility. When you're down, accept reality, strategize, and rise stronger. No one is coming to save you.

17. Never lower your standards to accommodate mediocrity. Protect your peace and purpose at all costs.

18. Pain is the best teacher. Bad days make good days more valuable. Learn from every struggle.

19. In this world, respect is earned, not given. Be the kind of man people look up to, not the one they pity.

20. A man with a mission is unstoppable. Find your purpose, chase it relentlessly, and let nothing distract you.

*What to do when she starts ignoring you all of a sudden:*

1.) Don’t be in her DM or on call with her asking, “Why are you ignoring me?” Never ask her why she’s doing what she’s doing. Don’t give a damn.

2.) If you see her, act like nothing happened. Show her that you don’t care about her ignoring you. Leave it at “Hellos & HIs.” With or without her, your life goes on.

3.) Go completely no contact. Don’t view her stories or status. Don’t like or comment on her posts. She ceases to exist in your world.

4.) Don’t block her or delete her number. You shouldn’t block her because it’s probably a sh!t test to see what type of man you are. Women ignore men to see if they’ll show weakness or strength.

5.) Develop the mindset that she’s gone. Don’t sit there counting the days and nights for when she’ll come back to you. Your mentality should be: “I don’t care if you come back or not.”

6.) Don’t welcome her with open arms if she comes back. Let her earn her spot all over again. If y’all used to see each other twice a week, now y’all should see each other once a week. Make her understand that she got replaced when she was out and about playing mind games.

Men,
Stay Guided.
Stay Liberated
SAVE A MAN.
~ PROFESSOR ~

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An eagle was flying high—confident, self-assured, and in control. But out of nowhere, an arrow struck him in the chest and brought him down.

As he fell, he looked at the shaft of the arrow and noticed something unsettling—it was feathered with his own plumes. The hunter had used feathers from an eagle to kill an eagle.

And just before he hit the ground, the eagle said, “It is not the arrow that pains me, but the fact that it was winged with my own feathers.”

This simple fable carries a powerful truth: we are often hurt most deeply by the things or people closest to us—by those we trust, support, or invest in. Being attacked by a stranger can sting, but betrayal from someone you once believed in cuts differently.

The real pain isn’t just the wound—it’s knowing that your own contribution, time, or loyalty made that wound possible. You handed over the feathers.

This shows up all the time in real life. Steve Jobs was forced out of Apple—the very company he helped build. The same systems and people he developed eventually turned against him.

Julius Caesar was assassinated by men he considered allies—people he had elevated and trusted, including Brutus. His final words, “Et tu, Brute?” captured the devastation of betrayal by someone within his inner circle.

And in our own lives, we may not face political assassinations or corporate oustings, but the pattern is familiar: a friend you helped grow suddenly competes with you; a person you mentored turns on you; someone you protected uses your openness against you.

The message here is not to stop trusting, giving, or supporting others—but to become more discerning. Not everyone who praises you has your best interests at heart. Not every connection deserves deep access.

We often confuse loyalty with access and admiration with trust. But as Tupac once said, “Sometimes the person you’d take a bullet for is the one behind the gun.” And as the saying goes, “Be careful who you trust. Salt and sugar look the same.”

This fable is a quiet reminder that while generosity is noble, it must be paired with wisdom. Pay attention to the patterns, the energy, and the consistency of people. Be mindful of what you give and to whom.

Because sometimes, the most painful arrows are the ones feathered with your own wings.

Namaste
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