THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN Let’s settle this like men. 1️⃣ A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability. The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now. 2️⃣ If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan. While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product. 3️⃣ Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish. Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired. 4️⃣ A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner. If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate. 5️⃣ Love without financial independence is modern slavery. You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense. 6️⃣ Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight. You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies. 7️⃣ The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money. No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost. 8️⃣ Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women. You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement. 9️⃣ The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission. The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely. 🔟 Don’t confuse sex for value. Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference. FINAL WARNING Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons. Spend them like a king. A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress. If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life. Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire. Stop sponsoring liabilities. Start building legacies. ➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨😭🙏❤‍🩹

THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN Let’s settle this like men. 1️⃣ A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability. The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now. 2️⃣ If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan. While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product. 3️⃣ Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish. Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired. 4️⃣ A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner. If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate. 5️⃣ Love without financial independence is modern slavery. You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense. 6️⃣ Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight. You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies. 7️⃣ The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money. No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost. 8️⃣ Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women. You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement. 9️⃣ The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission. The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely. 🔟 Don’t confuse sex for value. Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference. FINAL WARNING Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons. Spend them like a king. A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress. If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life. Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire. Stop sponsoring liabilities. Start building legacies.

*A Cry for Our Children: A Wake-Up Call to Parents and a Return to Godly Parenting* With a heavy heart, I watched a video making rounds - the SS3 students, young minds who just concluded their WAEC exams, engaging in shameful and immoral displays in the name of celebration. What should have been a moment of reflection has been turned into a festival of indecency and mockery of values. This is not the generation our forefathers prayed for. We are raising a generation that seems to have lost its way—where vulgarity is called expression, and shame is dismissed as old-fashioned. These are not just "children having fun." These are warning signs of a decaying moral foundation. To every parent out there: do not assume your child knows better. Do not assume they are safe just because you provide, clothe, and send them to school. School can never ever do everything. The school can never be successful if a family foundation and culture are not already there. Cultivate moral principles at ages 1 and 12, then the school will build from there. Be close to your children. Talk to them. Know their friends. Know their struggles. Monitor their online habits. Most importantly—pray for them, and pray with them. The truth is painful: many parents are present in the home but absent in the lives of their children. We must return to the way of our grandparents—a way built on discipline, respect, fear of God, and community accountability. They didn’t need the internet to teach values. They taught it at dawn prayers, at family meals, with the rod of correction wrapped in deep love and concern. "Spare the rod and spoil the child." This is not just a saying—it’s a divine imperative as well as principle. A generation not corrected will surely correct itself in the street, behind bars, or on a viral video for the world to scorn. Dear parent, wake up. You are not just raising a child. You are shaping a future husband, a future wife, a future leader. Don’t leave that to chance. The enemy is not sleeping—why should you? We must return to God. We must return to prayer. We must return to values, a return to character moulding. It takes time, it needs time. It is cumbersome, it is not an easy job as many modern day parents think. It is painstaking. May God have mercy on this generation. May He open our eyes before it is too late. *Let this video not just make us shake our heads. Let it shake us back to responsibility.* Rev. Fr. Francis UNEGBU (PhD) Noble Mentor

"I will choose Cristiano Ronaldo over Messi anyday, anytime. He's a discipline hardworking best footballer of all time "__ Davido "I'm a fan of Arsenal. I like man utd ,I love Man City and Real Madrid. I choose Saka as my best Young Player ever. Cristiano Ronaldo is my Best footballer. Man is very Disciplined, strong,a leader,and he's courageous. To have that kind of success and being disciplined at thesame time is something I have always admire about him. I like Ronaldo and Messi,but personally I'm a Ronaldo Fan for Real. So Cristiano Ronaldo anytime, anywhere. ___ Davido

💁🏻‍♀️ Your Biggest Competitors: 😖 = Your Fear 🫣 = Your Distractions 😒 = Your Ego 😏 = Your Procrastination 😎 = Your Lack of Discipline 🤨 = Your Bad Habits

“RAISING A CHILD WITHOUT RULES IS RAISING A DISASTER” (Why freedom without boundaries is destroying today’s kids) Let’s stop lying to ourselves: Children don’t need too much freedom — they need firm direction. You think you're giving them "space to express themselves"? But what you're really doing is giving them a fast-lane ticket… To self-destruction. A child without boundaries will test everything. They’ll test time. They’ll test truth. They’ll test how far they can go — until something breaks. And when there are no rules, no “NOs,” no clear lines drawn… They don’t become confident. They become confused. You’re not helping their self-esteem. You’re raising someone who won’t respect law, leadership, or life. Parents, wake up: It’s not “modern parenting” to allow your 12-year-old do what they like. It’s not “freedom” to let your 15-year-old lock their door 24/7 and live like a tenant. It’s not “trust” to hand them a phone, laptop, and data without supervision. That’s not love. That’s neglect with WiFi. Look around you: Kids cursing their parents online. Teenagers dressing like strippers and calling it “fashion.” Boys addicted to porn and calling it “freedom of expression.” Girls posting half-naked pictures with captions like “God’s masterpiece.” Young boys who can’t say “yes sir” or “no ma” because they were “raised to speak their minds.” What’s the result? A generation that wants respect but knows nothing about discipline. Let’s be clear: Boundaries don’t destroy children — they build them. Rules don’t limit children — they shape them. Discipline is not wickedness — it’s protection. Correction is not abuse — it’s love in motion. A child who grows up without consequences becomes an adult who disrespects everything — including God, law, and you. Many of you are afraid to say “NO” because you want to be liked. But parenting is not about popularity. Your job is not to be their best friend. Your job is to raise a man, to mold a woman, to train a future leader. And yes, it will involve: Saying no. Checking phones. Cutting off bad friends. Seizing devices. Setting curfews. And making tough decisions that your child will not like — but will thank you for later. Don’t wait till damage is done: Don’t wait until the police call you. Don’t wait until you’re dragged to a hospital. Don’t wait until you’re kneeling in church, crying, “Where did I go wrong?” The time to guide is now. The time to lead is now. Final Word: Give your child structure, not just softness. Give them discipline, not just data. Give them correction, not just comfort. Because no matter how sweet your child is, freedom without rules will turn even an angel into a problem. Happy parenting to us all. Copied!!!!!!!

LEAVE YOUR FEMALE STUDENTS ALONE! This is not just a warn!ng—this is a cr¥. A cr¥ for the girl child. A cr¥ for our schools. A cr¥ for sanity. Dear young male teacher, You are gifted. You are admired. Your presence alone makes the girls sit up, eager to learn. You speak with passion, you dress smart, you explain well—and you may not know this—but many of those girls in your class are secretly cru$h!ng on you. But listen carefully: Their admiration is not permission. Their smiles are not an invitation. Their boldness is not maturity. They are still children. Tender. VulnerabI3. Still figuring out their emotions. What they feel is not love—it is confusion dressed in admiration. They trust you. They believe in you. And when you cross that sacred line… you k!II something in them. You kiIIher confidence. You kiII her future. You kiII her right to grow up whole and safe. Let me tell you what many don’t talk about. There are girls walking around today—empty, br0ken, hiding pa!n under their makeup—because a teacher who was supposed to protect them u$ed them. Some dropped out of school with swollen bellies. Some ended up in danger0u$ relationships they didn’t deserve. Some can no longer focus in class. Some lost their voice. Some have never healed. And what’s worse? Many of them still blame themselves. You were supposed to be her mentor. Her light. Her guide. Instead, you became her first heartbr£ak, her first betrayaal, her first $hame. Let me say this loud and clear: If a girl student ever gets bold enough to come close, it is because you have already given her the signal. Yes—you may not have touched her yet, but your boundary is already weak. And weak boundaries are a silent invitation to destruct!on. Don’t tell yourself “it’s love.” It’s not. Don’t say “she started it.” She didn’t. Don’t say “others have done it.” That’s no excuse. The truth is: many male teachers have ru!ned the destiny of the girl child in the name of love. And nobody talks about it enough. Be different. Don’t become another reason why a girl can’t look a male teacher in the eye without f£ar. Don’t become the face she remembers every time the word “trust” is mentioned. Don’t destr0y a child to satisfy your weakness. You are not just teaching a subject—you are shaping a soul. So protect her. Guard your role. Be disciplined. Be a real man. Be the teacher she’ll write about with pride—not pa!n. Let this be the end of this madn€$$. Let the classroom be a place of growth, not trau.ma. If this message touched your heart, share it like fire. We must shout it louder until every teacher hears it: Leave the girl child alone. Let her grow. Let her breathe. Let her be safe.

Building wealth is a process that involves smart saving, investing, and increasing income while minimizing debt. Key steps include creating a budget, avoiding debt, investing regularly, and diversifying your portfolio. Educating yourself about finance and seeking professional advice can also be beneficial.  1. Financial Planning:  Set SMART goals: Define specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound financial goals. Create a budget: Track your income and expenses to identify areas where you can save more. Identify your goals: Determine what you want to achieve with your wealth, whether it's retirement, a down payment, or a comfortable lifestyle. 2. Income and Savings:  Increase your income: Explore opportunities to increase your earnings, such as a raise, side hustle, or entrepreneurship. Reduce your expenses: Identify areas where you can cut back on spending, such as entertainment, dining out, or subscriptions. Maximize your savings: Set a savings goal and automate your savings by transferring money to a savings account regularly. Build an emergency fund: Have a safety net of funds to cover unexpected expenses without relying on debt. 3. Investing:  Invest regularly: Start small and consistently invest in a diversified portfolio of assets like stocks, bonds, and real estate. Diversify your portfolio: Avoid putting all your eggs in one basket by investing in different asset classes and geographies. Consider retirement plans: Maximize your contributions to retirement accounts like 401(k)s or IRAs. Understand taxes: Be aware of tax implications for your investments and seek professional advice if needed. 4. Debt Management:  Pay off high-interest debt: Prioritize paying off credit cards and other high-interest debt to save on interest payments. Avoid debt: Be mindful of your spending habits and avoid taking on unnecessary debt. 5. Other Important Considerations:  Educate yourself: Learn about personal finance, investing, and wealth management through books, articles, or online courses. Seek professional advice: Consult with a financial advisor to develop a personalized wealth-building plan. Insure your wealth: Consider insurance coverage for your assets and liabilities. Stay disciplined: Building wealth requires time, patience, and consistency. Stay focused on your goals and don't get discouraged by setbacks

**HOW TO LOVE AND HELP YOUR HUSBAND 👱‍♀💃** *"An excellent wife is the crown of her husband." - Proverbs 12:4* 1. **Respect Him Unconditionally.** Listen to him and ask for his opinion. Value his advice and follow his guidance. Men have a deep need for respect, so show it in your tone of voice during conversations and how you approach him, especially when you disagree. Ensure your children respect their dad in the same way. Prioritize him over the children and teach them to do the same. Let him know his thoughts matter and that you truly value his input. 2. **Accept Your Husband as Your Spiritual Leader.** Men are created to lead the family, which doesn’t imply that women are any less significant. It means God has equipped men with certain skills to effectively guide their families. As stated in Ephesians 5:22-23, “the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church.” Accepting your husband as your spiritual leader involves recognizing and supporting his role in guiding the family’s spiritual life. Allow him to lead in prayer, Bible study, and spiritual decisions while also contributing your own insights to enrich your family’s faith journey. If he’s struggling in this area, offer your support and encourage him to seek guidance from trusted sources or professional help if necessary. 3. **Listen More.** Engage and listen when he speaks. While you might want to make him smile, your willingness to listen can be even more impactful. 4. **Be the Best Version of Yourself.** Show love by striving to become the best person you can be. Your happiness will positively affect your husband’s well-being too. 5. **Contribute Financially.** Marriage is teamwork; be willing to share your financial resources to help pay the bills. Avoid being stingy with your money. 6. **Be Caring and Compassionate.** Support him when he has a bad day or celebrate with him on a good day. Show your love and care without waiting for him to get sick or need assistance. Simple gestures like a cup of coffee in bed or a cuddle can mean a lot. 7. **Support His Dreams.** Be flexible and willing to sacrifice for your husband’s goals. A supportive wife allows a man to push his limits and achieve success. Stand by him as a team, working together toward daily routines and long-term ambitions. 8. **Love Him Unconditionally.** Be there for him through good times and bad, demonstrating unwavering love. 9. **Give Small Gifts.** Make your husband feel special every day, not just on special occasions. 10. **Maintain His Wardrobe.** Wash and iron his clothes, including underwear. 11. **Celebrate His Achievements.** Recognize and celebrate his successes, no matter how small. 12. **Discipline Your Children Together.** Avoid saying, “I will report you to your daddy.” Work as a team in parenting. 13. **Spend Money Wisely.** Utilize any money he gives you judiciously, showing you value his contributions. 14. **Submit to Him** as your lord and king. 15. **Pray for Him Regularly.** Let him know you’re praying for his well-being, demonstrating care for his spiritual life. 16. **Comfort and Console Him.** Be there to provide strength and support whenever he needs it. 17. **Be Intimate.** Prioritize your physical relationship and do not neglect your s€xual intimacy. 18. **Keep a Clean Home.** Maintain a tidy and organized living space. 19. **Prepare Timely Meals.** Ensure he is fed and nourished regularly. 20. **Show Appreciation.** Praise him and express gratitude. Encouragement can motivate him to go the extra mile for you. 21. **Make Him Laugh.** Lighten the mood by making him laugh daily. **COUPLES WHO HELP EACH OTHER CAN NEVER BE HELPLESS** You will not fail in marriage, in Jesus' name. Please share this message with your loved ones. 🙏

Abia’s Alex Otti vs Delta’s Sheriff Oborevwori Same time in office. Different results. One is building a future. The other is wasting one. Delta receives more money than the entire Southeast combined yet has nothing to show for it. Let’s talk FACTS 👇🏾 REVENUE: WHO REALLY HAS THE MONEY? 🔹 Delta State Over ₦1.9 TRILLION received in 24 months (₦700bn FAAC + ₦400bn 13% Derivation + ₦300bn IGR + ₦500bn borrowings/debts) 🔹 Abia State Less than ₦300bn combined revenue in same period YET: Delta is gasping. Abia is growing. INFRASTRUCTURE: WHERE’S THE WORK? ✅ Abia (Otti): – Rebuilt Abia Secretariat for ₦900m (₦1.1bn saved) – Massive road projects across Umuahia, Aba, Ohafia – Overhauled streetlights, traffic control, & environment ❌ Delta (Sheriff): – Key roads like Effurun-Warri, Sapele axis, Jesse, Bomadi still death traps – No flagship project launched – Secretariat, schools, and hospitals in ruins HEALTHCARE: A STATE OF LIFE OR DEATH ✅ Abia: – Allocated 15% of budget to health (first in SE Nigeria) – Revived ABSUTH (Abia State University Teaching Hospital) – Renovated PHCs & digitized medical records ❌ Delta: – Central Hospital Warri is a glorified mortuary – Medical staff strike constantly – No major hospital completed in 24 months Yet Delta spends billions on “consultancy.” EDUCATION: INVESTING IN BRAINS OR BUILDINGS? ✅ Otti: – ₦29.5bn to fence public schools (for safety) – Restored accreditation to ABSUTH – Launched bursaries & ICT training for youths ❌ Sheriff: – DELSU underfunded – Schools lack desks, staff, basic infrastructure – Education budget still bloated with ghost expenditures IGR & FISCAL DISCIPLINE: WHO’S MANAGING BETTER? 🔹 Otti: – Raised Abia IGR to ₦15bn in 6 months – Working toward ₦5bn monthly target – Cost of governance cut by ending fraudulent contracts – Prioritized salaries, pensions, and contractors 🔹 Sheriff: – No known IGR strategy – Huge FAAC dependency – No clear debt servicing plan – Budget padded with vague “empowerment” votes TRANSPARENCY & ACCOUNTABILITY 🟢 Otti: – Publishing contracts (partially) – Subjected Abia’s past finances to forensic audit – Sacked ghost workers – Implementing due process in procurement 🔴 Sheriff: – EFCC still probing Okowa’s ₦1.3trn derivation fund – Sheriff silent on financial abuse – No audit report published since he took office – Key ministries operating in secrecy COURTS & RULE OF LAW ✅ Abia: – ICT-driven judiciary – 17 LGAs with modern courtrooms – Judges motivated, cases now digitized ❌ Delta: – Lawyers protest delay in justice – Courtrooms in shambles – Judges neglected, salaries delayed COST OF GOVERNANCE Yes, Otti spent ₦5bn in 3 months. But he’s showing work. Delta spends the same and we ask, for what? Govt House in Asaba is bloated with aides, contracts, PR tools and “influencers” eating millions monthly. Zero productivity. VISION Abia is building an economy around technology, health, agriculture, and infrastructure. Delta is still doing “empowerment” and handouts like it’s 2003. Abia’s Otti is planning for 2050. Delta’s Sheriff is repeating 1999. SO DELTANS, ASK YOURSELF THIS: What if a man like Alex Otti governed Delta State with the kind of resources we’ve wasted under PDAPC? – Delta would be West Africa’s industrial hub. – Our schools and hospitals would be world-class. – Warri, Ughelli, Asaba, and Sapele would be model cities. Instead? We’re stuck in reverse. CONCLUSION Abia is proof that bold leadership can work. If a state with less than ₦300bn in 2 years can show us working hospitals, digital courts, smart schools, and real savings. Then Delta has NO excuse. We don’t lack money. We lack vision. 2027 must not be about party. It must be about performance. Integrity. Audacity. Boldness. Character. Delta must rise from the ruins of deceit. We need a reformer, not a seat-warmer. We need an Alex Otti not more of the same. #DeltaDeservesBetter #OttiModel #SheriffNoDeliver

Sex is not the proof of love, discipline is. Respect is. Waiting is.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY THERE IS NO CHARACTER WITHOUT DISCIPLINE