FOOD FOR THOUGHTS: 1. YOUR THOUGHTS BECOME YOUR INTENTIONS. 2. YOUR INTENTIONS BECOME YOUR ACTIONS 3. YOUR ACTIONS BECOME YOUR CHARACTER 4. YOUR CHARACTER BECOMES YOUR DESTINY. 5. YOUR MINDSET SHAPES YOUR FUTURE. 6. YOUR BELIEF SHAPE YOUR BEHAVIOUR 7. YOUR WORDS REFLECT YOUR THOUGHTS 8. YOUR THOUGHTS CREATE YOUR REALITY. 9. YOUR ATTITUDES DETERMINES YOUR ATTITUDE 10. YOUR FOCUS DRIVES YOUR PROGRESS. 11. YOUR DECISIONS SHAPE YOUR LIFE 12. YOUR EFFORTS DETERMINES YOUR OUTCOME. 13. YOUR PERSPECTIVE INFLUENCES YOUR HAPPINESS. 14. YOUR PERSISTENCE SHAPES YOUR SUCCESS. 15. YOUR DISCIPLINE DEFINES YOUR GROWTH 16. YOUR CONSISTENCY BUILDS YOUR FOUNDATION. 17. YOUR DREAM LEADS TO YOUR GOALS. 18. YOUR COURAGE FUELS YOUR AMBITIONS. 19. YOUR ACTIONS LEAD TO RESULTS 20. YOUR ENERGY ATTRACT YOUR OPPORTUNITIES.

Without commitment, you'll never start, more importantly without consistency you'll never finish. Keep going.

12 COMMANDMENTS OF A HEALTHY MARRIAGE🔥 Marriage is a journey, not a sprint. These timeless principles, if practiced sincerely, can make your love life rich, fulfilling, and long-lasting. 1. 🌹Never Stop Communicating 🗣️ A relationship d!es the moment communication breaks down. Talk often. Talk openly. Talk honestly. Whether it’s laughter, serious talks, or simply checking in during the day—keep the conversation flowing. Silence builds walls. 💡Action Tip: Have daily "heart-to-heart" moments, even if it’s just 10 minutes before bed. 2. 🌹Pray Together 🙏 Couples that kneel together, stand stronger together. Prayer invites God into your relationship as a counselor, protector, and teacher. Submitting to God helps you submit in love to one another. 💡Action Tip: Create a shared prayer list and pray over it together weekly. 3. 🌹Don't W€aponize $ex ❌🍑 $ex is not a reward or a punishment—it's a covenant bond. Using it to manipulate your partner causes deep emotional wounds. Keep $ex sacred, frequent, and full of mutual affection. 💡Action Tip: Talk about your $exual needs openly without judgment. 4. 🌹No Secrets, No Lies 🚫🤐 Hiding things destr0ys trust. Lies may feel small today, but they erode intimacy tomorrow. Transparency builds safety. 💡Action Tip: Commit to “full disclosure” zones—times when you speak openly with no fear of judgment. 5. 🌹Grow Together, Not Apart 📈💑 Compatibility is not just about shared interests—it's about growing side-by-side spiritually, emotionally, financially, and professionally. Don’t let one partner evolve while the other stagnates. 💡Action Tip: Take a course, budget together, join a group, or set shared goals every quarter. 6. 🌹Make Decisions Together 🤝 Marriage is not a solo career. Major decisions must be mutual. When one person leads without the other, resentment builds. 💡Action Tip: Have a “couples board meeting” monthly to discuss finances, plans, and life decisions. 7. 🌹Keep Emotional Intimacy Reserved for Each Other 💞 Let no one be closer to you emotionally than your partner. Don’t let a friend, colleague, or even family member take your spouse’s emotional seat. 💡Action Tip: Share your deepest thoughts, fears, and joys with your spouse before anyone else. 8. 🌹Don’t Stop Being the Lover You Were at the Start 💐 Keep the charm, compliments, and sweet gestures alive. Familiarity should not breed laziness. Keep watering the plant of love. 💡Action Tip: Bring back “dating days”—even if it’s just a walk, movie night, or surprise text. 9. 🌹Don’t Sleep Angry 😠💤 Bittern€ss multiplies overnight. Don’t give anger a place to sleep in your bed. Resolve issues before you rest. 💡Action Tip: Use this phrase often: “I value us more than this fight. Let’s talk.” 10. 🌹Do Not Cheat, Flirt, or Entertain Infidelity 🚫💔 Even the strongest love will collapse under the weight of betrayal. Faithfulness is not just physical—it’s emotional, digital, and mental. 💡Action Tip: Avoid private, flirty conversations with the opposite $ex, and set clear boundaries. 11. 🌹Support Each Other’s Dreams and Purpose 🌱✨ Your partner is not just a spouse—they are a person with dreams, goals, and a divine calling. When one pursues purpose and the other doesn’t care, frustration sets in. Be their cheerleader, not their critic. 💡Action Tip: Ask, “How can I help you get closer to your dream this year?” and follow through. 12. 🌹Forgive Quickly and Completely 💔➡️❤️ Every relationship will experience hurt. The difference between a lasting marriage and a broken one is how quickly and sincerely you forgive. Holding grudges pois0ns your connection. 💡Action Tip: Practice saying, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.” And be quick to extend grace when your spouse says the same. Which of these do you think couples struggle with the most? Share your thoughts 👇 ❤️ FINAL THOUGHT: A thriving relationship takes intention, prayer, humility, and consistency. Love isn’t built in a day, but it can be broken in a moment. Guard it, nurture it, and grow in it together. Which of these commandments speaks to you most today? You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

🗣️Paul Merson is NOT impressed by #Arsenal signing Noni Madueke this summer: “I am flabbergasted by Arsenal signing of Noni Madueke. I’m shocked. If Arsenal went and bought any player from Chelsea, he’d have been the last one I thought they’d sign. “I just don’t see it. It’s a lot of money for a player who is not a prolific goalscorer. He’s the sort of player that has a good game here and a good game there, but that’ll be it. The consistency of performance isn’t there. “I hope he proves me wrong, but he’ll have the good games, just like he did for England last month. But then you won’t see him for a few weeks. “What I don’t get is that Madueke’s best position is playing on the right, cutting inside and getting shots away. Who does that for Arsenal? Bukayo Saka. And he’s not coming out of the Arsenal starting XI.” #michaeldareolatoye

🔥OBI AT A CROSSROADS: Is This the End of the Obidient Dream?🔥 Walaata Papers has been tracking the political missteps of Mr. Peter Obi, and things are becoming even more chaotic. The opposition coalition has now issued a stern warning to the former Labour Party presidential candidate, warning him not to abandon the African Democratic Congress (ADC) ahead of the 2027 elections. Why? Because leaving the coalition might not just be a simple move—it could mark the end of Obi’s political trajectory. 🚨 Let’s get real. Obi is reportedly uncomfortable with the direction of the coalition, especially now that it appears he may only be offered a Vice Presidential ticket—a position far beneath his ambition. Is this the real reason he’s thinking of walking out? But where does he go from here? Remember, Atiku is still a looming force in the PDP, and everyone knows he won’t let Obi win the primaries. So was the Labour Party exit premature? Is the ADC move already crumbling? 📉 His constant party-hopping—from APGA to PDP to Labour and now flirting with ADC—has begun to damage his credibility. Once seen as a principled reformer, many now fear he’s turning into just another self-serving politician. ADC insiders like Comrade Abayomi Bello are already sounding the alarm: “If Obi ditches this coalition just because he doesn’t get the presidential ticket, he risks total political isolation. Nigerians will stop seeing a visionary—they’ll see a man obsessed with power.” Even the youth who once believed in the Obidient wave are growing disillusioned. Where’s the consistency? Where’s the leadership? Where’s the plan? 🧠 Peter Obi needs to decide—is he building a nation or chasing a title? 👉 Our take? The earlier Obi makes up his mind on what he truly wants, the better for what’s left of the Obidient movement. Are you still Obidient? Or have you finally seen the signs? 💬 Drop your thoughts below! 🔥 Tag your friends, repost, and let’s break the silence! 🧩 Is Obi still the answer in 2027 or has he lost the plot? 👉 Follow @WalaataPapers for raw, unfiltered political truth. #ObidientOrNot #PeterObi #ADCPolitics #LabourPartyCrisis #WalaataPapers #2027Elections #NaijaPolitics #ObiVsAtiku #ObidientMovement #PoliticalChaos #YouthInPolitics

Marry a man who wants to be a husband.... not just a man who wants to have a wife. There’s a big difference. A man who wants a wife often loves the idea of marriage, the image, the comfort, the convenience. He wants the warm meals, the folded laundry, the steady emotional support. He wants a woman who holds it all together but doesn’t always consider the weight she carries. But a man who wants to be a husband? He moves differently. He doesn't just want commitment, he respects it. He doesn’t treat loyalty like a favour, it’s who he is, even when no one’s watching. He wants to build with you. Grow with you. Protect the peace you bring into his life. He communicates clearly. He listens with patience. He shows up, especially when it’s not easy. He doesn’t just want the title. He wants the work, the responsibility, the devotion. Because real husbands know that love is a verb. It’s in the small things, the effort, the apologies, the shared responsibilities. It’s in how he holds space for your emotions. How he covers you spiritually, mentally, and physically. How he doesn’t run when things get hard and doesn’t go silent when you need him to speak up. A man who wants to be a husband doesn’t chase convenience. He chooses consistency. So don’t settle for someone who just wants you around because of what you give. Wait for the man who values you enough to grow into who he needs to be, for himself, for you, and for your future together. Because when you marry someone who truly wants to be a husband, He won’t just love you. He will honor you. Every single day. ~Tanvir Sourov

Marry someone who genuinely loves God because the way they love Him will shape how they love you. It will show In their consistency, In their patience, and In how they honor you even when no one Is watching. 🖤❤️*

Just be honest with me or stay away from me. It's not that difficult. I'm not asking for the world—I’m asking for something simple, something that should be the foundation of every connection: honesty. If you can't be real with me, if your words are coated in lies or your presence is just a disguise for manipulation, then please don’t waste my time. I’ve dealt with enough mixed signals, half-truths, broken promises, and people who only show up when it's convenient for them. I’m not here to decode your silence or question your motives. If you can’t give me clarity, then give me space. If your loyalty is conditional, if your intentions shift with the wind, if your words and actions don’t match—then walk away. I’m not begging for effort from people who treat consistency like an option. My peace is more important than your confusion. I value genuine energy, straightforward communication, and people who know how to mean what they say. So don’t come into my life if you don’t plan on staying with honesty. Don’t pretend to care if you’re only here to benefit yourself. Either show up with truth and transparency—or don’t show up at all.

EXERCISE IS GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH Met this woman who is in her late 30’s at the gym. She told me her husband mandated her to never skip her gym sessions because she had severe back ache and knee pain sometime ago and all of those pain are gone just because of her consistency at the gym. She kept saying to me ,My dear “when you are above 30 don’t skip gym sessions oo” To her, I am probably in my late 20’s 🤣I wasn’t even ready to defend my age cos I am tired of doing that, so I kept nodding I have seen a lot of men and women say things like “Gym is where hook up girls come to” “Married men go there to mess around” “My wife will never go to the gym” Bla Bla Bla The truth is, if you go to the gym to mess around with strangers, that is who you are. The gym only amplified your personality. Keeping fit is not negotiable once you clock 30. And when you build that discipline, you will love yourself. #copied.

.Marry a man with a provider mindset. Not just someone with money. But someone who is responsible. Someone who leads with love, not pride. A provider doesn’t mean rich. It means reliable. It means he shows up before you ask. It means he pays attention to what you need without reminders. He doesn’t need a luxury car or a big house. He needs character. The kind of heart that makes you feel safe mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. A real man provides more than just money. He provides peace. He provides stability. He protects your heart and respects your mind. He listens. He stays consistent. He doesn’t leave you wondering where you stand. His actions speak even when he’s quiet. Emotional maturity is rare but it’s more valuable than anything money can buy. Because a man who is grounded emotionally will create a home within you. A place where you can be soft. Where you can breathe, feel heard, and feel seen. Love should not be a warzone. It should feel like rest. Like you are finally somewhere safe. You deserve a man who doesn’t just take care of the bills but takes care of your soul. A man who gives you time, not silence. Effort, not excuses. Consistency, not confusion. The right man will provide peace, presence, and protection. And that… is everything.

🌙 Post 3: Night Reflection “You kept showing up — even when no one clapped for you. That’s strength.” 📌 You didn’t wait for applause. You moved in silence. Respect your own effort. It’s louder than you think. 💬 Tonight, give yourself some credit. You earned it. #GadaNightVibes #SilentWins #SelfRespect #ConsistencyWins #GadaPost

Being in a relationship with a hardworking man requires emotional maturity and patience. He may not always be available or expressive, not because he doesn't care, but because he's focused on building a secure future. His long hours, exhaustion, and silence at times are signs of commitment, not distance. Unlike men without ambition, hardworking men prioritize progress over constant presence. Their love is shown through consistency, responsibility, and sacrifice not just words. They may not be polished, but their loyalty runs deep. Don’t take that effort for granted, supporting such a man means standing beside a vision, not just a person. 💙