Consistency is the key

Consistency is the key

0mirhobo to Reno Omokri : Baba Sola , for meeting with and endorsing a man you called a drug Lord, I make. bold to tell you that you are a disgrace to fatherhood . I am just imagining how your children view you over your inconsistency and lies .

An eagle was flying high—confident, self-assured, and in control. But out of nowhere, an arrow struck him in the chest and brought him down.

As he fell, he looked at the shaft of the arrow and noticed something unsettling—it was feathered with his own plumes. The hunter had used feathers from an eagle to kill an eagle.

And just before he hit the ground, the eagle said, “It is not the arrow that pains me, but the fact that it was winged with my own feathers.”

This simple fable carries a powerful truth: we are often hurt most deeply by the things or people closest to us—by those we trust, support, or invest in. Being attacked by a stranger can sting, but betrayal from someone you once believed in cuts differently.

The real pain isn’t just the wound—it’s knowing that your own contribution, time, or loyalty made that wound possible. You handed over the feathers.

This shows up all the time in real life. Steve Jobs was forced out of Apple—the very company he helped build. The same systems and people he developed eventually turned against him.

Julius Caesar was assassinated by men he considered allies—people he had elevated and trusted, including Brutus. His final words, “Et tu, Brute?” captured the devastation of betrayal by someone within his inner circle.

And in our own lives, we may not face political assassinations or corporate oustings, but the pattern is familiar: a friend you helped grow suddenly competes with you; a person you mentored turns on you; someone you protected uses your openness against you.

The message here is not to stop trusting, giving, or supporting others—but to become more discerning. Not everyone who praises you has your best interests at heart. Not every connection deserves deep access.

We often confuse loyalty with access and admiration with trust. But as Tupac once said, “Sometimes the person you’d take a bullet for is the one behind the gun.” And as the saying goes, “Be careful who you trust. Salt and sugar look the same.”

This fable is a quiet reminder that while generosity is noble, it must be paired with wisdom. Pay attention to the patterns, the energy, and the consistency of people. Be mindful of what you give and to whom.

Because sometimes, the most painful arrows are the ones feathered with your own wings.

Namaste
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How to Post on Social Media in a Way That Builds a Strong Personal Brand that Makes Money

You can post on social media for 10 years and still have no brand, no clients, and no income.

Do not confuse the difference between popularity (having many followers and likes) and a brand.

There are people who have many followers, but when they post something to sell, no one buys. That is popularity without a strong brand. There is a reason for that.

Posting alone is not strategy. Visibility without clarity won’t build a brand you can monetize.

Here’s how to post on social media in a way that builds a strong personal brand you can monetize, with systems, scale, and strategic clarity.

1. Stop posting for likes. Start posting for positioning.
You’re not here to entertain (except you are in the entertainment industry).
You’re here to signal & build authority, build trust, and attract aligned buyers.
When you post for positioning your posts will address issues like these:
- “Here’s the problem I solve.”
- “Here’s what I’ve helped others achieve.”
- “Here’s how to work with me.”
- "Here's how this and that works."
- “Here’s a mistake people often make — and what to do instead.”
This kind of content doesn’t just inform, it positions you as a trusted authority.
Don’t just show up. Show up with strategic purpose.

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2. Build a branded content ecosystem (1 →Model).
Pick 3–4 content lanes tied to your brand and monetizable identity:
Your skillset
Your results or client wins
Your thought process or framework
Personal stories that reveal values & mission
Career and industry stories that reveals impact
Rotate consistently. Let people remember and repeat who you are and what you solve. (read that again)

3. Write a bio that opens doors — not confusion.
When I look at somepeople's bio on social media, sometimes I am like....(let me not say it ahah)
Your bio should say:
- Who you help
- What you help them achieve
- How they can start working with you
Clarity > Cleverness
People don’t buy mystery. They buy solutions.

4. Create posts that are bridges — not broadcasts.
Every post should do one or more of these:
Educate
Solve a problem
Invite action
Build trust through proof or story
Make your offer visible
Don’t just talk. Lead people somewhere.

5. Use testimonials and results like marketing assets.
- Screenshot kind words
- Share before/after snapshots
- Tell client transformation stories
- Highlight how your method works
Social proof is not bragging. It’s trust fuel.

6. Use your pinned post like a 24/7 sales rep.
Pin a post that introduces:
- Who you are
- What you do
- Who it’s for
- How to get started (Add your contacts)
Let your first impression carry conversion weight.

7. Turn your best-performing posts into repeatable series.
If a post works, don’t post once and move on.
- Turn it into a mini-series
- Create a workshop around it
- Build a paid product from it
Scale your best work. Don’t let it die in the feed.

8. Repurpose across platforms with intentionality.
One message. Multiple formats:
- Facebook post - LinkedIn thread
- WhatsApp voice note - Instagram carousel
- Live session - YouTube short clip
Brand consistency breeds recognition.
Recognition builds trust.
Trust drives income.

9. Include calls to action that lead to real conversations or conversions.
- “Comment YES for the free guide.”
- “DM me ‘READY’ to work together.”
- “Click the link in my bio to book.”
If people can’t take the next step, you’re not building a brand, you’re just journaling and making social media noise.

10. Track what converts. Build systems around it. (systems thinking)
- What kind of post attracted clients?
- What language got people DMing?
- What structure made your offer clear?
Turn insights into content SOPs. Build a brand that works while you rest.

Which of these points challenged you? COMMENT “BRAND BUILDER”

Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |

🙋🏻‍♀️ *How would you rate your consistency level in general?*

= *Highly Consistent:* "My consistency is rock-solid. I almost always stick to my plans, routines, and goals, which helps me achieve what I set out to do."

= *Mostly Consistent:* "I'm generally very consistent, especially with important tasks and habits. There might be occasional slips, but I quickly get back on track."

= *Fairly Consistent:* "I try to be consistent, and often succeed, but I do have moments where I struggle to maintain routines. It's a work in progress."

= *Inconsistently Consistent:* "My consistency comes in waves. I can be really disciplined for a while, then lose momentum, making it hard to build lasting habits."

= *Rarely Consistent:* "Consistency is a real challenge for me. I often find it hard to stick with things, which can make reaching goals feel difficult."

🙋🏻‍♀️ *React with an appropriate emoji & share with a friend who needs to reflect on this.*

Success isn't always about greatness. It's about consistency. Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness will come.

I STRONGLY RECOMMEND THIS MILLET (KUNU) DRINK.

Let's make Kunu Drink (Millet)!

Bursting with vitamins, fiber, minerals, and proteins, this refreshing beverage is a must-try.

Plus, it's easy to make and perfect for selling in your neighborhood!

Just follow this simple recipe:

Ingredients:
- 3 cups Millet
- 1 medium-sized peeled sweet potato (optional)
- 2 medium-sized peeled ginger
- 1 tbsp chili peppers
- 1 tbsp. cloves
- Sugar (to taste, optional)
- Water

Instructions:
1. Soak the millet seed for about 24 _48hours, changing the water to prevent odor.
2. Wash the millet seed thoroughly and blend with ginger, chilli Peppers,cloves, and sweet potato until smooth.
3. Strain the mixture and let it settle for 7 hours or overnight
4. Discard the liquid, leaving only the thick sediment.
5. Divide the thick paste into two bowls and add hot boiled water to one part.
6. Mix both parts together and add water to achieve the desired consistency.
7. Strain the mixture again to remove any remaining chaff.
8. Sweeten with sugar if desired, refrigerate, and serve chilled.

Enjoy the authentic taste of Kunu Drink (Millet) – a delicious and nutritious treat for any time of day!

*9 SIGNS OF FAKE LOVE*


1. They're Always Ready to End the Relationship

If you find that they're quick to talk about ending the relationship whenever things get tough, it could be a sign that they're not fully committed. Every relationship goes through ups and downs, but someone who truly loves you will work through the challenges with you rather than throwing in the towel at the first sign of trouble. If they're always ready to walk away, it’s a clear sign that they might not care as much as they say.

2. They Avoids Deep Conversations About the Future

If your partner truly loves you, he/she will want to talk about your future together. Whether it’s planning trips, discussing long-term goals, or imagining a life together, these conversations are key to understanding if someone is genuinely invested in you. If they constantly avoid discussing the future or shut down when you bring up the topic, it could be a sign that they're not as committed as they lets on.

3. They Prioritize Themselves Over You

Love is about balance and compromise. If your partner consistently prioritizes their own needs and desires over yours, this could indicate that their feelings for you are not genuine. A partner who truly loves you will care about your well-being and will want to make sacrifices for the relationship. If they're always putting themselves first, they might just be using you for their own gain, and their professed love may not be as deep as they say.

4. They Refuse to Introduce You to Important People in Their Life

A partner who truly loves you will want to integrate you into their life and introduce you to their friends, family, and important people. If they're hesitant or refuse to make you a part of their inner circle, it’s a sign that they might be hiding something or not as serious about the relationship. Love is about sharing your life with someone, and if they're keeping you on the outskirts, it’s time to take a step back and reconsider their feelings

5. They're Not Interested in Your Needs or Desires

In a healthy relationship, both partners take the time to understand and meet each other’s needs. If they don't show interest in what you need emotionally, physically, or mentally, it’s a sign that their love might not be as sincere as it seems. A person who truly loves you will care about your happiness and will actively seek to make you feel valued. If they're indifferent or dismissive of your needs, it could indicate that they're not fully invested in the relationship.

6. They Lies About Small Things

Lying about small details can be a gateway to bigger lies. If they frequently lie about insignificant matters or things that don’t seem important, it may be a sign that they're not being truthful about their feelings for you. Someone who truly loves you will be honest with you about everything, even the small things. If they're constantly hiding the truth, then it’s likely that they're not being completely upfront about their love either.

7. They're Inconsistent in Their Affection

Love is about consistency. If they shower you with affection one day and then acts distant or cold the next, this could be a sign of emotional manipulation. A partner who truly loves you will consistently show affection, whether it’s through physical touch, words of affirmation, or acts of kindness. If they're hot and cold, it might indicate that they're not being honest with you about their feelings.

8. They Keeps Secrets or Hides Information

In any relationship, trust and transparency are key. If they're secretive about their personal life or is unwilling to share important information with you, this is a major red flag. When someone truly loves you, they will want to be open and honest with you. If they're keeping things from you, whether it’s about their past, their feelings, or actions, it’s a sign that their love may not be as genuine as they're letting on.

9. Their Actions Don’t Match Their Words

One of the clearest signs that someone is not being honest about their feelings is when their actions don’t align with their words. They might say “I love you,” but their behavior tells a completely different story. If they repeatedly neglect your needs, breaks promises, or isn’t there for you when you need them, then their words may just be empty declarations. Love is about more than just saying the right things—it’s about showing it through consistent actions.

Remember:False Live brings fake relationships and it does not last forever, But the Real and true LOVE brings Respect, trust, lasting commitment, peace of mind, life of the relationship and most of all it leads towards unconditional Love.. God bless us all.

🙋🏻‍♀️ *Do you have trust issues?*

= Sometimes, I'm cautious about who I trust, especially until I get to know them better.

= I believe in earning trust. I tend to be open, but I also observe actions closely before fully investing my trust.

= Not necessarily 'issues,' but I've learned to be discerning. I value honesty and consistency in others.

= I've had experiences that have made me more careful about trusting quickly, but I'm always open to building new connections.

= Honestly, sometimes I struggle with it. Past experiences have made me quite cautious, and it can be hard for me to let my guard down, even with good intentions.

🫴 = I tend to be skeptical at first. It takes a significant amount of time and consistent proof for me to fully trust someone, which can sometimes make it difficult to form new relationships quickly.

🫶 = Yes, I do. I often find myself questioning motives and worrying about being let down. It's something I'm actively working on, as it can hinder forming deeper connections.

🙋🏻‍♀️ *React with emoji & share whom you trust the most.*

When a Father Walks Away—Everyone Pays the Price
Let’s say it loud:
The greatest crisis a child can face isn’t poverty.
It’s not bullying.
It’s not the cost of college.
It’s a father who left.
Whether he left through cheating, cowardice, or being pushed out—
the result is the same:
A child with no compass.
A future with no blueprint.
A legacy with no foundation.
Let’s talk about it.
—
1. Fathers Who Cheat Don’t Just Betray Their Wives—They Break Their Children.
That affair you had.
It didn’t just destroy trust.
It disrupted an entire bloodline.
Because the day you became a father, you weren’t just a lover.
You became a leader.
And when the leader abandons the structure?
The whole kingdom collapses.
—
2. Women Who Weaponize the Law Are No Better
Let’s not pretend:
The law is on your side.
The courts favor you.
The world will call you brave—even if you’re petty.
But just because you can destroy a man legally doesn’t mean you should.
Pushing a father out because your emotions changed isn’t power.
It’s generational sabotage.
Children don’t care about your ego.
They care about consistency.
—
3. Science Confirms It—Kids Do Better With Fathers Present
You can’t rewrite this.
Studies show: – Boys raised without fathers are more likely to be violent.
– Girls raised without fathers are more likely to be exploited.
– And all children suffer emotionally when dad becomes a ghost.
Single motherhood may be normalized.
But it’s not ideal.
And if you’re offended?
Check the prison stats.
Check the dropout stats.
Check the depression stats.
Father absence is not just a wound.
It’s a curse.
—
4. Men: Stop Starting Families You’re Not Ready to Lead
You want to be a father?
Then stop acting like a frat boy with responsibilities.
– You don’t get to cheat because “she let herself go.”
– You don’t get to start over and pretend your first family doesn’t exist.
– You don’t get to “heal” by disappearing from your children’s lives.
Leadership isn’t convenience.
It’s covenant.
And a man who can’t keep his vows shouldn’t expect loyalty from his children later in life.
—
5. Women: Stop Removing the Father Just Because the Marriage Died
You fell out of love?
Cool.
But that doesn’t cancel his role.
You moved on?
Great.
But that doesn’t mean he disappears.
When you turn your child against their father, you’re not protecting them.
You’re punishing them.
And they’ll resent you for it when they grow up.
—
6. Children Aren’t Resilient—They’re Just Quiet
Don’t be fooled.
That smile is covering confusion.
That silence is hiding trauma.
That “I’m fine” is rehearsed.
They notice: – When your new partner gets more attention.
– When they stop being invited to things.
– When love starts feeling like a competition.
They’re not “adapting.”
They’re breaking quietly.
—
7. Masculinity Must Be Modeled—Not Just Taught
Boys don’t become men through lectures.
They become men by watching one.
And if you’re not around?
They’ll find masculinity in the streets, the screen, or the chaos.
And none of those places build men you’d be proud of.
—
Final Word: You Don’t Stop Being a Father Because You Failed as a Husband
Men:
You may have lost the marriage.
But don’t lose your mission.
Women:
You may be hurt.
But don’t hijack your child’s future to soothe your ego.
Because when a father walks away—
Or is pushed out—
Everyone pays.
The kids.
The legacy.
The soul of the next generation.
So whether you're the man who strayed,
Or the woman who shut the door…
Fix it.
Because children don’t care who was right.
They just want both parents to stay in the fight.