• 13 Powerful things Every Child Needs to know before they can Say No

    1. If Your Child Can’t Say Vagina, They Can’t Report an Offense
    Using "peepee" or "down there" might feel safer — but predators thrive on silence and confusion.
    Teach the real words.

    2. If Your Child Thinks Obedience Means Silence, They’ll Obey Even Danger
    “Don’t talk back” can become “don’t speak up” — even when they’re being touched wrongly.
    Teach them: Respect is mutual. Safety comes first.

    3. If They Can’t Say “No” to You, They Won’t Say “No” to a Predator
    You punish them for saying no at home, but expect them to scream no outside?
    Build boldness, not just compliance.

    4. If They Think Secrets Are Part of Love, They’ll Keep the Worst Ones
    “Don’t tell Daddy or you’ll hurt him.” That’s how abuse stays buried.
    Say often: “No one should ask you to keep a secret about your body — even me.”

    5. If You’re Not Talking, Someone Else Is — And Likely Lying
    The world is loud. Cartoons, classmates, the internet — all telling your child something.
    If your voice is absent, deception will educate them.

    6. If You Don’t Teach Them What Safe Touch Is, They’ll Normalize Abuse
    Because the hug that made them uncomfortable was from a “trusted uncle,” so they said nothing.
    Teach: “How it feels matters. Not who did it.”

    7. If You Shame Their Curiosity, They’ll Seek Answers in Darkness
    When you gasp, slap, or say “dirty talk” — they learn that their body is shameful.
    Curiosity needs clarity, not condemnation.

    8. If You Don’t Create Safe Conversations, Google Will Become Their Counselor
    Your silence is building a search history.
    Be the voice they hear first, not the browser they hide.

    9. If You Never Model Boundaries, They Won’t Know How to Build Theirs
    Saying “yes” when you mean “no”? Accepting touch when you’re uncomfortable? They’re watching.
    Teach with your life, not just your lips.

    10. If They’ve Never Practiced Speaking Up, They’ll Freeze When It Matters Most
    Fear and shock paralyze. Practice gives power.
    Rehearse: “Stop that!” “I don’t like this!” “I’ll tell my parents!”

    11. If Their Digital World is Unsupervised, You're Raising Them Blindfolded
    The screen is a doorway. If you're not checking, someone else is knocking.
    Teach online safety like you teach stranger danger.

    12. If You Think Abuse Only Happens “Out There,” You’ll Miss What’s Happening Inside
    Most abuse is by someone the child knows — cousin, teacher, friend.
    Don't outsource your vigilance.

    13. If You’re Not Repeating the Lessons, You’re Leaving Them to Luck
    One talk won’t protect them. One moment isn’t enough.
    Teach early. Repeat often. Update as they grow.

    Let This Wake You Up
    Abuse doesn’t start with touch.
    It starts with silence, shame, and an unprepared child.

    Break the cycle.

    Build their skills.

    Be their first voice.


    #intentionalparenting
    ⚠️ 13 Powerful things Every Child Needs to know before they can Say No 1. If Your Child Can’t Say Vagina, They Can’t Report an Offense Using "peepee" or "down there" might feel safer — but predators thrive on silence and confusion. ➡️ Teach the real words. 2. If Your Child Thinks Obedience Means Silence, They’ll Obey Even Danger “Don’t talk back” can become “don’t speak up” — even when they’re being touched wrongly. ➡️ Teach them: Respect is mutual. Safety comes first. 3. If They Can’t Say “No” to You, They Won’t Say “No” to a Predator You punish them for saying no at home, but expect them to scream no outside? ➡️ Build boldness, not just compliance. 4. If They Think Secrets Are Part of Love, They’ll Keep the Worst Ones “Don’t tell Daddy or you’ll hurt him.” That’s how abuse stays buried. ➡️ Say often: “No one should ask you to keep a secret about your body — even me.” 5. If You’re Not Talking, Someone Else Is — And Likely Lying The world is loud. Cartoons, classmates, the internet — all telling your child something. ➡️ If your voice is absent, deception will educate them. 6. If You Don’t Teach Them What Safe Touch Is, They’ll Normalize Abuse Because the hug that made them uncomfortable was from a “trusted uncle,” so they said nothing. ➡️ Teach: “How it feels matters. Not who did it.” 7. If You Shame Their Curiosity, They’ll Seek Answers in Darkness When you gasp, slap, or say “dirty talk” — they learn that their body is shameful. ➡️ Curiosity needs clarity, not condemnation. 8. If You Don’t Create Safe Conversations, Google Will Become Their Counselor Your silence is building a search history. ➡️ Be the voice they hear first, not the browser they hide. 9. If You Never Model Boundaries, They Won’t Know How to Build Theirs Saying “yes” when you mean “no”? Accepting touch when you’re uncomfortable? They’re watching. ➡️ Teach with your life, not just your lips. 10. If They’ve Never Practiced Speaking Up, They’ll Freeze When It Matters Most Fear and shock paralyze. Practice gives power. ➡️ Rehearse: “Stop that!” “I don’t like this!” “I’ll tell my parents!” 11. If Their Digital World is Unsupervised, You're Raising Them Blindfolded The screen is a doorway. If you're not checking, someone else is knocking. ➡️ Teach online safety like you teach stranger danger. 12. If You Think Abuse Only Happens “Out There,” You’ll Miss What’s Happening Inside Most abuse is by someone the child knows — cousin, teacher, friend. ➡️ Don't outsource your vigilance. 13. If You’re Not Repeating the Lessons, You’re Leaving Them to Luck One talk won’t protect them. One moment isn’t enough. ➡️ Teach early. Repeat often. Update as they grow. Let This Wake You Up Abuse doesn’t start with touch. It starts with silence, shame, and an unprepared child. Break the cycle. Build their skills. Be their first voice. #intentionalparenting
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  • If You Earn 10k Day, You'll Die Without Becoming a Billionaire.

    Yes, I'm talking to you.
    And I'm not saying this to discourage you.
    I'm saying this to wake you up.

    Because the math doesn't lie.
    10k a day is 300k a month.
    That's 3.6M a year.

    And to become a billionaire?
    You need 1M.

    Do the math:
    1M ÷ 10k = 100k days.
    Do you know what that's?

    274 years.
    Yes, two hundred and seventy-four years. That's more than four lifetimes.

    And that's if you never spend a single franc.
    Which is obviously impossible.

    So ask yourself the right questions:

    Do you want a big house?
    A dream car?
    To provide a good life for your parents?
    To travel?
    Send your children to the best schools?

    Then 10k a day" will never be enough.
    Even with all the sweat in the world.

    Because the problem isn't your job.
    It's your role model.

    You can't get rich by working hard alone.

    You have to learn to make your money work for you.
    You have to invest.
    You have to multiply your sources of income.

    Your salary, your business, or your farming activity...
    It's just a starting point.
    Not an end goal.

    It's not the amount that matters,
    It's what you do with it.

    Wake up while you still can.

    Life expectancy in Cameroon is about 60 years.
    Not 274.
    You don't have enough time to waste your energy on a single income.

    You need to think strategically.
    You need to build assets.
    You need to learn to break free from the "earn-spend" trap.

    Even small, even slow,
    But with vision and intention.

    Here's what you need to start doing right now:

    Put a percentage of what you earn aside
    Learn to invest — in things you understand
    Create a second income (small business, resale, land, digital, agriculture, etc.)
    Read, educate yourself, open your mind to models that work
    Avoid unnecessary expenses that drain you without elevating you

    You don't have to become a billionaire.
    But you do have to break out of the system that impoverishes you.

    You're young.
    You're capable.
    But you have to think like a builder,
    Not like a survivor.

    The world doesn't reward the most tired.
    It rewards the most strategic.

    Well , it's up to you, eh... Bro

    Anyway. Good luck

    PEACE ✌🏿
    💸 If You Earn 10k Day, You'll Die Without Becoming a Billionaire. Yes, I'm talking to you. And I'm not saying this to discourage you. I'm saying this to wake you up. Because the math doesn't lie. 🧮 10k a day is 300k a month. That's 3.6M a year. And to become a billionaire? You need 1M. Do the math: 1M ÷ 10k = 100k days. Do you know what that's? ⏳ 274 years. Yes, two hundred and seventy-four years. That's more than four lifetimes. And that's if you never spend a single franc. Which is obviously impossible. 🎯 So ask yourself the right questions: Do you want a big house? A dream car? To provide a good life for your parents? To travel? Send your children to the best schools? Then 10k a day" will never be enough. Even with all the sweat in the world. Because the problem isn't your job. It's your role model. 🚀 You can't get rich by working hard alone. You have to learn to make your money work for you. You have to invest. You have to multiply your sources of income. Your salary, your business, or your farming activity... It's just a starting point. Not an end goal. It's not the amount that matters, It's what you do with it. 🧠 Wake up while you still can. Life expectancy in Cameroon is about 60 years. Not 274. You don't have enough time to waste your energy on a single income. You need to think strategically. You need to build assets. You need to learn to break free from the "earn-spend" trap. Even small, even slow, But with vision and intention. 💥 Here's what you need to start doing right now: ✅ Put a percentage of what you earn aside ✅ Learn to invest — in things you understand ✅ Create a second income (small business, resale, land, digital, agriculture, etc.) ✅ Read, educate yourself, open your mind to models that work ✅ Avoid unnecessary expenses that drain you without elevating you You don't have to become a billionaire. But you do have to break out of the system that impoverishes you. You're young. You're capable. But you have to think like a builder, Not like a survivor. 🌍 The world doesn't reward the most tired. It rewards the most strategic. Well 👋, it's up to you, eh... Bro Anyway. Good luck PEACE ✌🏿
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  • The digital camera is a great invention because it allows us to reminisce. Instantly
    The digital camera is a great invention because it allows us to reminisce. Instantly
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  • WW3 won’t be about freedom — it’ll be the excuse to reset everything.

    They’ll use the chaos to crash the economy, roll out digital currencies, enforce control, and push global governance.

    It’s not about winning wars — it’s about building a New Economic Order where everything is tracked, taxed, and controlled.

    War creates fear.

    Fear creates obedience.

    And from the ashes, they’ll offer “solutions” that lock us into a system we can’t escape.

    Don’t be fooled.

    The next war is the doorway to a digital prison.

    #Anonymous
    WW3 won’t be about freedom — it’ll be the excuse to reset everything. They’ll use the chaos to crash the economy, roll out digital currencies, enforce control, and push global governance. It’s not about winning wars — it’s about building a New Economic Order where everything is tracked, taxed, and controlled. War creates fear. Fear creates obedience. And from the ashes, they’ll offer “solutions” that lock us into a system we can’t escape. Don’t be fooled. The next war is the doorway to a digital prison. #Anonymous
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  • I was reading a book called Your Brain on P*rn by Gary Wilson a few weeks ago... and let me just say, I haven't looked at my phone the same since, am still reading ,
    The man explained things I wish I knew at 13. He said your brain reacts to p*rn the same way it reacts to cocaine.

    Like, your neurons are not even being humble about it. The brain literally goes, “Ooooh dopamine!” and rewires itself to chase that high like rent is due.

    It hit me deep when he said this generation isn’t just struggling with lust, we’re struggling with hijacked reward systems.

    That’s why you can’t focus, can’t connect, can’t sleep, can’t love, your brain is fried, not broken.
    And it’s not just science talking. I went into a rabbit hole after that.
    Do you know centuries ago, philosophers were already warning about this stuff?

    There’s a quote often attributed to ancient empires that said:
    “If you want to destroy a nation, flood it with n*dity and broken families.
    The rest will fall by itself.”
    Even the Indian spiritualists and monks, people who’ve meditated more hours than I’ve been alive, said this centuries ago.

    They warned that s*xual energy, if not respected, can ruin the strongest men and even empires.

    These guys would fast, meditate, avoid eye contact, and sit under trees for 30 years just to avoid what some of us casually open on lunch break
    They weren’t being dramatic. They were protecting their minds.

    Because the mind is the battlefield, and p*rn is an invisible weapon.
    Silent. Shameful. Easy to access. Hard to unsee.

    I was addicted for years. Not because I wanted to be, but because I was lonely. Empty. Bored. Angry.
    And it felt like the easiest escape.

    I didn’t need to talk to anyone. Just click, scroll, watch, hide. Until hiding became a lifestyle.
    But healing started when I realized:
    I wasn’t just watching p*rn.
    I was avoiding pain.

    I was feeding my lust and starving my soul.
    I was substituting quick pleasure for real purpose.
    And slowly, I was losing me.
    So I made some changes.
    I blocked sites.

    Deleted apps.
    Got accountability.
    Started journaling.
    Working out.
    Learning.
    Creating.
    Reading.

    And building a life that doesn’t need escapism.
    Listen p*rn is not just “bad for you.”
    It’s a system built to keep you distracted, addicted, emotionally numb, and spiritually weak.
    If you think it’s “just entertainment,” congrats. That’s exactly what the billion-dollar industry wants you to believe.
    You don’t have to be perfect. But you owe it to yourself to be free.
    This is your wake-up call.
    You are more than a slave to pixels.
    You are powerful.
    Gifted.
    Creative.
    Loved.
    And your mind was built to dream, not just scroll.

    F O L L O W Blessed Mike

    #YourBrainOnPorn
    #DigitalDetox
    #HealingIsRevolutionary #SelfControlIsSexy #NotEveryPrisonHasBars
    #highlightseveryone
    #BlessedNation
    I was reading a book called Your Brain on P*rn by Gary Wilson a few weeks ago... and let me just say, I haven't looked at my phone the same since, am still reading , The man explained things I wish I knew at 13. He said your brain reacts to p*rn the same way it reacts to cocaine. Like, your neurons are not even being humble about it. The brain literally goes, “Ooooh dopamine!” and rewires itself to chase that high like rent is due. It hit me deep when he said this generation isn’t just struggling with lust, we’re struggling with hijacked reward systems. That’s why you can’t focus, can’t connect, can’t sleep, can’t love, your brain is fried, not broken. And it’s not just science talking. I went into a rabbit hole after that. Do you know centuries ago, philosophers were already warning about this stuff? There’s a quote often attributed to ancient empires that said: “If you want to destroy a nation, flood it with n*dity and broken families. The rest will fall by itself.” Even the Indian spiritualists and monks, people who’ve meditated more hours than I’ve been alive, said this centuries ago. They warned that s*xual energy, if not respected, can ruin the strongest men and even empires. These guys would fast, meditate, avoid eye contact, and sit under trees for 30 years just to avoid what some of us casually open on lunch break They weren’t being dramatic. They were protecting their minds. Because the mind is the battlefield, and p*rn is an invisible weapon. Silent. Shameful. Easy to access. Hard to unsee. I was addicted for years. Not because I wanted to be, but because I was lonely. Empty. Bored. Angry. And it felt like the easiest escape. I didn’t need to talk to anyone. Just click, scroll, watch, hide. Until hiding became a lifestyle. But healing started when I realized: I wasn’t just watching p*rn. I was avoiding pain. I was feeding my lust and starving my soul. I was substituting quick pleasure for real purpose. And slowly, I was losing me. So I made some changes. I blocked sites. Deleted apps. Got accountability. Started journaling. Working out. Learning. Creating. Reading. And building a life that doesn’t need escapism. Listen p*rn is not just “bad for you.” It’s a system built to keep you distracted, addicted, emotionally numb, and spiritually weak. If you think it’s “just entertainment,” congrats. That’s exactly what the billion-dollar industry wants you to believe. You don’t have to be perfect. But you owe it to yourself to be free. This is your wake-up call. You are more than a slave to pixels. You are powerful. Gifted. Creative. Loved. And your mind was built to dream, not just scroll. F O L L O W Blessed Mike 🌿🌿☘️ #YourBrainOnPorn #DigitalDetox #HealingIsRevolutionary #SelfControlIsSexy #NotEveryPrisonHasBars #highlightseveryone #BlessedNation
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  • DID YOU KNOW?

    1. It is possible to die from a broken heart. It's called stress cardiomyopathy.

    2. The online Japanese who survived the Titanic lost his job because he was known as a coward in Japan for not dying with the other passengers.

    3. 44-year-old Canadian man, Rob Spence replaced his prosthetic eyeball with a miniaturized digital camera that records everything he sees.

    4. When a lioness is on heat, she mates up to 50 times a day with multiple partners over a period of 5 days.

    5. The world's biggest family in the world lives in India, a man with 39 wives and 94 children.

    DID YOU KNOW?🤔 1. It is possible to die from a broken heart. It's called stress cardiomyopathy. 2. The online Japanese who survived the Titanic lost his job because he was known as a coward in Japan for not dying with the other passengers. 3. 44-year-old Canadian man, Rob Spence replaced his prosthetic eyeball with a miniaturized digital camera that records everything he sees. 4. When a lioness is on heat, she mates up to 50 times a day with multiple partners over a period of 5 days. 5. The world's biggest family in the world lives in India, a man with 39 wives and 94 children.
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  • * UPDATE: Chair of China’s National Institution for Finance & Development Li Yang says STABLECOINS EXTEND US DOLLAR POWER.*

    June 21, ,2025
    https://x.com/Cointelegraph/status/1936469416763437355?t=xWB4dlRvgDQuohlhp_eBaQ&s=19

    https://www.cointime.ai/flash-news/chairman-of-the-national-financial-and-development-laboratory-15196

    *......stated that the United States IS PUSHING FOR STABLECOIN LEGISLATION to strengthen the status of the US dollar, promote modernization of payments, AND CREATE NEW DEMAND FOR US DEBT. Stablecoins are essentially an extension of the US dollar ON THE CHAIN.* Faced with this trend, China should firmly promote the internationalization of the renminbi, *and follow the trend of integration between STABLECOINS and traditional finance, promoting the complementary development of the renminbi STABLECOIN* and the central bank's digital currency.

    *Li Yang SUGGESTED FULLY utilizing the advantages of Hong Kong TO DEVELOP OFFSHORE renminbi STABLECOINS AND ESTABLISH A CONTROLLABLE INTERNATIONAL PAYMENT CHANNEL.
    *🇨🇳 UPDATE: Chair of China’s National Institution for Finance & Development Li Yang says STABLECOINS EXTEND US DOLLAR POWER.* June 21, ,2025 https://x.com/Cointelegraph/status/1936469416763437355?t=xWB4dlRvgDQuohlhp_eBaQ&s=19 https://www.cointime.ai/flash-news/chairman-of-the-national-financial-and-development-laboratory-15196 *......stated that the United States IS PUSHING FOR STABLECOIN LEGISLATION to strengthen the status of the US dollar, promote modernization of payments, AND CREATE NEW DEMAND FOR US DEBT. Stablecoins are essentially an extension of the US dollar ON THE CHAIN.* Faced with this trend, China should firmly promote the internationalization of the renminbi, *and follow the trend of integration between STABLECOINS and traditional finance, promoting the complementary development of the renminbi STABLECOIN* and the central bank's digital currency. *💥Li Yang SUGGESTED FULLY utilizing the advantages of Hong Kong TO DEVELOP OFFSHORE renminbi STABLECOINS AND ESTABLISH A CONTROLLABLE INTERNATIONAL PAYMENT CHANNEL.
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  • Do not carry secondary school mentality into university, it won’t help you, it will disgrace you.

    Secondary school and university are two different worlds. In secondary school, you're spoon-fed. You're reminded to do your assignments.

    You’re threatened with punishment just to study. You have teachers monitoring your every move. But once you enter university, especially a Nigerian university, it becomes survival of the fittest. Nobody will chase you. If you don’t adjust fast, you’ll be lost before you even realise it.

    Here are 10 habits you must drop before entering university if you truly want to survive and succeed:

    1. Waiting for someone to remind you to read: In secondary school, your teachers push you. But in university, no one will beg you to pick up your books. In fact, some lecturers won’t even take attendance. If you don’t take responsibility, you’ll wake up one day and see an “E” staring at you after exams.

    2. Studying only during exam period: That cramming style you used to pass WAEC and NECO will betray you in uni. If you don’t build the habit of consistent reading early, you’ll break down mentally when tests start flying unannounced.

    3. Underestimating the importance of planning: In secondary school, your day is structured. In university, you create your own timetable. If you don't learn how to plan your time, you’ll find yourself skipping lectures, missing deadlines, and rushing through everything last minute.

    4. Depending on others to survive academically: In secondary school, you can whisper during exams or ‘combine brain’ during group assignments. In university, it’s every man for himself. Even your “bestie” will leave you stranded when it’s time to hustle for grades.

    5. Avoiding responsibility: You can't keep living like a child. In university, maturity is key. From handling stress, to managing money, to resolving roommate wahala, you'll need to take responsibility without running to mummy or daddy for every small thing.

    6. Believing you must be told what to do: Nobody will tell you when to start looking for scholarships, apply for internships, or join productive clubs. If you’re waiting to be told, you'll miss out on opportunities that could shape your future.

    7. Copying your classmates blindly: In secondary school, if one person picks science, the whole class follows. In university, copying someone’s course choice or life path is a recipe for disaster. Know yourself and stay true to your journey.

    8. Sleeping on personal development: Back then, you might think “book” is everything. In university, “book” is just part of the equation. Soft skills, digital skills, networking, and exposure are what give students an edge. If you’re only chasing grades, you’re already behind.

    9. Wasting free time on nothing: In secondary school, your free time is limited. In uni, you’ll have stretches of free time, and that’s where most people mess up. Netflix, social media, and gist will swallow your time if you don’t set boundaries.

    10. Thinking you have to please everyone: You’re not going to university to be liked. You’re going to build your life. Stop trying to impress everyone. Focus on your growth, your goals, and your peace.

    University is not secondary school with freedom. It’s life on another level. Drop these habits now before they drop you later.

    If you're still in secondary school, read this twice. If you’re already in uni, did I lie?

    Joshua King
    Do not carry secondary school mentality into university, it won’t help you, it will disgrace you. Secondary school and university are two different worlds. In secondary school, you're spoon-fed. You're reminded to do your assignments. You’re threatened with punishment just to study. You have teachers monitoring your every move. But once you enter university, especially a Nigerian university, it becomes survival of the fittest. Nobody will chase you. If you don’t adjust fast, you’ll be lost before you even realise it. Here are 10 habits you must drop before entering university if you truly want to survive and succeed: 1. Waiting for someone to remind you to read: In secondary school, your teachers push you. But in university, no one will beg you to pick up your books. In fact, some lecturers won’t even take attendance. If you don’t take responsibility, you’ll wake up one day and see an “E” staring at you after exams. 2. Studying only during exam period: That cramming style you used to pass WAEC and NECO will betray you in uni. If you don’t build the habit of consistent reading early, you’ll break down mentally when tests start flying unannounced. 3. Underestimating the importance of planning: In secondary school, your day is structured. In university, you create your own timetable. If you don't learn how to plan your time, you’ll find yourself skipping lectures, missing deadlines, and rushing through everything last minute. 4. Depending on others to survive academically: In secondary school, you can whisper during exams or ‘combine brain’ during group assignments. In university, it’s every man for himself. Even your “bestie” will leave you stranded when it’s time to hustle for grades. 5. Avoiding responsibility: You can't keep living like a child. In university, maturity is key. From handling stress, to managing money, to resolving roommate wahala, you'll need to take responsibility without running to mummy or daddy for every small thing. 6. Believing you must be told what to do: Nobody will tell you when to start looking for scholarships, apply for internships, or join productive clubs. If you’re waiting to be told, you'll miss out on opportunities that could shape your future. 7. Copying your classmates blindly: In secondary school, if one person picks science, the whole class follows. In university, copying someone’s course choice or life path is a recipe for disaster. Know yourself and stay true to your journey. 8. Sleeping on personal development: Back then, you might think “book” is everything. In university, “book” is just part of the equation. Soft skills, digital skills, networking, and exposure are what give students an edge. If you’re only chasing grades, you’re already behind. 9. Wasting free time on nothing: In secondary school, your free time is limited. In uni, you’ll have stretches of free time, and that’s where most people mess up. Netflix, social media, and gist will swallow your time if you don’t set boundaries. 10. Thinking you have to please everyone: You’re not going to university to be liked. You’re going to build your life. Stop trying to impress everyone. Focus on your growth, your goals, and your peace. University is not secondary school with freedom. It’s life on another level. Drop these habits now before they drop you later. If you're still in secondary school, read this twice. If you’re already in uni, did I lie? Joshua King✍️
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  • O'tega "The Tiger" Ogra is currently the Senior Special Assistant to the Nigerian President on Digital Strategy, Engagement and Communications.
    O'tega "The Tiger" Ogra is currently the Senior Special Assistant to the Nigerian President on Digital Strategy, Engagement and Communications.
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