• “Peace looks good on you. Keep choosing it.”

    “Peace looks good on you. Keep choosing it.”
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  • Peace joy is what we need to survive
    Peace joy is what we need to survive
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  • What man need is peace
    What man need is peace
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  • "The soul that loves God finds peace in storms and purpose in silence."
    "The soul that loves God finds peace in storms and purpose in silence."
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  • Seek God and u shall find peace
    Seek God and u shall find peace 😄
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  • Big sister advice I would give you, if I wasn't afraid of hurting your feelings but which I would share with you if you came for therapy

    1. Growth & change both require loss. It's ok to grieve that loss too. You're constantly evolving & even the things we want come with consequences.

    2. Overthinking is often decision making avoidance. There isn't a perfect choice. Choose & keep it moving.

    3. You're keeping yourself stuck by repeating your limiting beliefs, waiting for the right time, & not being disciplined/ committed enough to enforce the changes you say you want to make. I'm holding your hand because change is hard. You've got this.

    4. Cutting people off is often avoidance (obv not when safety is an issue).

    5. Enforcing boundaries with yourself is essential work to meet your needs.

    6. Be gentle with yourself. A bit of self compassion goes a long way, it's not fake or phony. It's ok to need support & have tough days too. You're not a machine, you're a human being.

    7. Stop accepting blame for things that aren't your fault just to keep the peace.

    8. Change in a relationship takes time & mutual effort. You can't do the work for two & keep Overextending. It's not sustainable.

    9. Sleep & rest as much as you need (& your needs might change).

    10. Don't down play your needs or desires- you matter too. Being low key or low maintenance is often a failure to self advocate because there were relational & emotional consequences for having needs & opinions. Raise your expectations here.

    11. Feel your feelings. That's different from understanding your feelings. Feel them. Allow them.

    12. Never make big decisions when you're experiencing a big emotion.

    13. There is no prize for burning yourself out or achieving all the things. Overachieving is glorified in today's society - it has a cost too.

    14. Stop settling for breadcrumbs. You deserve the whole cake not some a..hole who is unwilling to show up for you.

    What would you add?

    #stellaeyabi #kindness #wellness
    Big sister advice I would give you, if I wasn't afraid of hurting your feelings but which I would share with you if you came for therapy 1. Growth & change both require loss. It's ok to grieve that loss too. You're constantly evolving & even the things we want come with consequences. 2. Overthinking is often decision making avoidance. There isn't a perfect choice. Choose & keep it moving. 3. You're keeping yourself stuck by repeating your limiting beliefs, waiting for the right time, & not being disciplined/ committed enough to enforce the changes you say you want to make. I'm holding your hand because change is hard. You've got this. 4. Cutting people off is often avoidance (obv not when safety is an issue). 5. Enforcing boundaries with yourself is essential work to meet your needs. 6. Be gentle with yourself. A bit of self compassion goes a long way, it's not fake or phony. It's ok to need support & have tough days too. You're not a machine, you're a human being. 7. Stop accepting blame for things that aren't your fault just to keep the peace. 8. Change in a relationship takes time & mutual effort. You can't do the work for two & keep Overextending. It's not sustainable. 9. Sleep & rest as much as you need (& your needs might change). 10. Don't down play your needs or desires- you matter too. Being low key or low maintenance is often a failure to self advocate because there were relational & emotional consequences for having needs & opinions. Raise your expectations here. 11. Feel your feelings. That's different from understanding your feelings. Feel them. Allow them. 12. Never make big decisions when you're experiencing a big emotion. 13. There is no prize for burning yourself out or achieving all the things. Overachieving is glorified in today's society - it has a cost too. 14. Stop settling for breadcrumbs. You deserve the whole cake not some a..hole who is unwilling to show up for you. What would you add? #stellaeyabi #kindness #wellness
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  • “You don’t have to win the argument. Sometimes mercy is walking away with your peace intact.”
    “You don’t have to win the argument. Sometimes mercy is walking away with your peace intact.”
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  • "Glory is not pride; it is the quiet radiance of a soul at peace with itself and its Maker."
    "Glory is not pride; it is the quiet radiance of a soul at peace with itself and its Maker."
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  • "Glory is not pride; it is the quiet radiance of a soul at peace with itself and its Maker."
    "Glory is not pride; it is the quiet radiance of a soul at peace with itself and its Maker."
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  • “Animals are born who they are, accept it, and that is that. They live with greater peace than people do.”
    “Animals are born who they are, accept it, and that is that. They live with greater peace than people do.”
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  • ```Happy Sunday! May your day be filled with sunshine and smiles. Embrace the warmth within you.
    May your day be a tapestry of beautiful moments, woven with threads of happiness, laughter, and the simple joys that make life extraordinary. Wishing you a Sunday filled with peace and love. Have a fantastic Sunday!```
    ```Happy Sunday! May your day be filled with sunshine and smiles. Embrace the warmth within you. May your day be a tapestry of beautiful moments, woven with threads of happiness, laughter, and the simple joys that make life extraordinary. Wishing you a Sunday filled with peace and love. Have a fantastic Sunday!```
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  • If another MAN is able to get CLOSE to your WOMAN, he's not the PROBLEM, SHE is. The fact that another MAN feels so welcomed REFLECTS on your WOMAN'S BEHAVIOR behind your BACK because no MAN can DATE or get closed to your WOMAN if she didn't allow it.

    Brothers never COMPETE with another man over a WOMAN. If she makes another MAN feels like he stands a chance with her, let him have her. You don't want someone that EVERYONE can have.

    Listen, a GOOD WOMAN will place you ABOVE other MEN, she will RESPECT your FEELINGS and SET BOUNDARIES because she knows that CHËÅTING causes emotional trau-ma to any RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE.

    DEAR MEN, you are not a REHABILITATION CENTER for an unfaithful woman. You cannot keep a GROWN WOMAN because you love her, rather a GROWN WOMAN keeps herself because she løves and RESPECT you. Nothing keeps a vvoman who doesn't want to be kept. Stop fighting another man over an IRRESPONSIBLE woman, you will end up belittling yourself because of a WOMAN who doesn't value your EXISTENCE.

    Stop tolerating chéàting just to keep a WOMAN, the ENEMY of a man isn't another MAN rather the ENEMY of a man is the irresponsible woman who lacks discipline and respect for her man. Having a woman isn't an achievement or trophy until you have a woman who values you, respect you, appreciate you and who gives you PEACE OF MIND.

    Truth is if another MAN STEALS or SNATCH your WOMAN, there's no better revenge than letting hin keep her. REAL and GENUINE WOMEN can't be STOLEN or SNATCHED. God just saved you from a COMMUNITY WOMAN, A DEMOCRATIC VAGÌNÅ, A WOMAN OF THE PEOPLE, FOR THE PEOPLE, BY THE PEOPLE and WITH THE PEOPLE.

    To whom wisdom is given sense is expected

    #everyoneシ
    If another MAN is able to get CLOSE to your WOMAN, he's not the PROBLEM, SHE is. The fact that another MAN feels so welcomed REFLECTS on your WOMAN'S BEHAVIOR behind your BACK because no MAN can DATE or get closed to your WOMAN if she didn't allow it. Brothers never COMPETE with another man over a WOMAN. If she makes another MAN feels like he stands a chance with her, let him have her. You don't want someone that EVERYONE can have. Listen, a GOOD WOMAN will place you ABOVE other MEN, she will RESPECT your FEELINGS and SET BOUNDARIES because she knows that CHËÅTING causes emotional trau-ma to any RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE. DEAR MEN, you are not a REHABILITATION CENTER for an unfaithful woman. You cannot keep a GROWN WOMAN because you love her, rather a GROWN WOMAN keeps herself because she løves and RESPECT you. Nothing keeps a vvoman who doesn't want to be kept. Stop fighting another man over an IRRESPONSIBLE woman, you will end up belittling yourself because of a WOMAN who doesn't value your EXISTENCE. Stop tolerating chéàting just to keep a WOMAN, the ENEMY of a man isn't another MAN rather the ENEMY of a man is the irresponsible woman who lacks discipline and respect for her man. Having a woman isn't an achievement or trophy until you have a woman who values you, respect you, appreciate you and who gives you PEACE OF MIND. Truth is if another MAN STEALS or SNATCH your WOMAN, there's no better revenge than letting hin keep her. REAL and GENUINE WOMEN can't be STOLEN or SNATCHED. God just saved you from a COMMUNITY WOMAN, A DEMOCRATIC VAGÌNÅ, A WOMAN OF THE PEOPLE, FOR THE PEOPLE, BY THE PEOPLE and WITH THE PEOPLE. To whom wisdom is given sense is expected #everyoneシ゚
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