Before We Teach South Africans some lessons Let’s settle our core differences before then. Many South Africans said “Because ‘Doja Cat’ knows her worth, she didn’t change her citizenship from America 🇺🇸 to South Africa 🇿🇦 for that “they can proudly call her a South African. 🤷‍♂️ For me as a Nigerian, I still don’t have issues with this. I believe my fellow country people also accept this one of your usual excuses. But now may we also Remind you “this star footballers didn’t denounce or Change their citizenship to Nigeria 🇳🇬 despite there strong root, affection and connection to Nigeria” But each time we call them Nigerians you all still cry and cry over it, what’s the color of your madness. 🤷‍♂️ Anyway today is for peace ✌️ making. 🗣️ I and my Nigeria Family home and Abroad have accepted “Doja Cat” to be a South African with the condition that, you as a South African, From Today Accepts every Nigeria DECENT as Nigerians and stop all unnecessary jealousy towards them and also stop every derogatory statements each time I post them as Nigerians. ❌ ❗️Eberechi Eze of Crystal Palace ❗️David Alaba of Real Madrid ❗️Musiala of Bayern Munich ❗️Akanji of Manchester City ❗️Dorgu of Manchester u ❗️Akon from America ❗️Saka of Arsenal All this names and many unmentioned. No DNA required just Nigeria 🇳🇬 top talents. I believe this Peace ✌️ Accord is Acceptable by All

“You don’t forgive because they deserve it. You forgive because you deserve peace.”

“You don’t always need to prove a point. Mercy is letting some things go for your own peace.”

The understanding of God's providential care and control over the affairs of men evokes Joy and peace even when the vehicle of life seems to be on wrong Lane. Lord, because you are involved in the affairs of my life,I know that everything will be fine after all.

“Peace looks good on you. Keep choosing it.”

Peace joy is what we need to survive

What man need is peace

"The soul that loves God finds peace in storms and purpose in silence."

Seek God and u shall find peace 😄

Big sister advice I would give you, if I wasn't afraid of hurting your feelings but which I would share with you if you came for therapy 1. Growth & change both require loss. It's ok to grieve that loss too. You're constantly evolving & even the things we want come with consequences. 2. Overthinking is often decision making avoidance. There isn't a perfect choice. Choose & keep it moving. 3. You're keeping yourself stuck by repeating your limiting beliefs, waiting for the right time, & not being disciplined/ committed enough to enforce the changes you say you want to make. I'm holding your hand because change is hard. You've got this. 4. Cutting people off is often avoidance (obv not when safety is an issue). 5. Enforcing boundaries with yourself is essential work to meet your needs. 6. Be gentle with yourself. A bit of self compassion goes a long way, it's not fake or phony. It's ok to need support & have tough days too. You're not a machine, you're a human being. 7. Stop accepting blame for things that aren't your fault just to keep the peace. 8. Change in a relationship takes time & mutual effort. You can't do the work for two & keep Overextending. It's not sustainable. 9. Sleep & rest as much as you need (& your needs might change). 10. Don't down play your needs or desires- you matter too. Being low key or low maintenance is often a failure to self advocate because there were relational & emotional consequences for having needs & opinions. Raise your expectations here. 11. Feel your feelings. That's different from understanding your feelings. Feel them. Allow them. 12. Never make big decisions when you're experiencing a big emotion. 13. There is no prize for burning yourself out or achieving all the things. Overachieving is glorified in today's society - it has a cost too. 14. Stop settling for breadcrumbs. You deserve the whole cake not some a..hole who is unwilling to show up for you. What would you add? #stellaeyabi #kindness #wellness

“You don’t have to win the argument. Sometimes mercy is walking away with your peace intact.”

"Glory is not pride; it is the quiet radiance of a soul at peace with itself and its Maker."