• Good day my beloved brethren. I trust you are doing great , Praise God!

    TODAY'S WORD OF GOD:

    "Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Ephesians 6:11"

    Using the resources God has given you efficiently and effectively guarantees your success in life.
    The Kingdom of God operates in a certain mindset and consciousness that makes it enjoy continual victory and prosperity.
    One of them is the mindset of waging warfare against evil. Ever since Lucifer became Satan, there has been no peace on Earth because of his evil nature; he cannot do anything aside from being evil.
    He continually wages war against the saints and he is responsible for sin, failure, diseases, disappointments, poverty, and the like.

    Dearly beloved, as a child of God, you shouldn't be ignorant of this truth but rather arm yourself continually with truth, righteousness, the gospel of peace, faith, salvation, and the Word of God, then you will always win. Hallelujah!
    You are an overcomer in Jesus Christ name.
    SHALOM!
    Good day my beloved brethren. I trust you are doing great 👍, Praise God! TODAY'S WORD OF GOD: "Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Ephesians 6:11" Using the resources God has given you efficiently and effectively guarantees your success in life. The Kingdom of God operates in a certain mindset and consciousness that makes it enjoy continual victory and prosperity. One of them is the mindset of waging warfare against evil. Ever since Lucifer became Satan, there has been no peace on Earth because of his evil nature; he cannot do anything aside from being evil. He continually wages war against the saints and he is responsible for sin, failure, diseases, disappointments, poverty, and the like. Dearly beloved, as a child of God, you shouldn't be ignorant of this truth but rather arm yourself continually with truth, righteousness, the gospel of peace, faith, salvation, and the Word of God, then you will always win. Hallelujah! You are an overcomer in Jesus Christ name. SHALOM!
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  • Discovering your own Gift involves introspection, self-assessment, and a willingness to learn and adapt.

    Here are some strategies to help you get started:

    1. Set clear goals: Establish what you want to achieve in different areas of your life, such as career, relationships, or personal growth.

    2. Track your progress: Keep a journal, log your accomplishments, or use a habit-tracking app to monitor your progress.

    3. Reflect on your strengths and weaknesses: Identify areas where you excel and areas that need improvement.

    4. Seek feedback: Ask for constructive feedback from trusted friends, family, or colleagues.

    5. Practice self-awareness: Recognize your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and how they impact your productivity and quality of work.

    6. Develop a growth mindset: Be open to learning, experimenting, and taking calculated risks.

    7. Prioritize tasks: Focus on high-impact activities that align with your goals and values.

    8. Eliminate distractions: Minimize procrastination and optimize your workflow.

    9. Celebrate small wins: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small.

    10. Continuously learn and improve: Stay updated with industry trends, best practices, and new skills to enhance your quality and efficiency.

    By implementing these strategies, you'll be better equipped to discover your strengths, weaknesses, and areas for improvement, ultimately enhancing your overall quality and efficiency.

    What specific area of your life do you want to improve?
    Discovering your own Gift 🎁 involves introspection, self-assessment, and a willingness to learn and adapt. Here are some strategies to help you get started: 1. Set clear goals: Establish what you want to achieve in different areas of your life, such as career, relationships, or personal growth. 2. Track your progress: Keep a journal, log your accomplishments, or use a habit-tracking app to monitor your progress. 3. Reflect on your strengths and weaknesses: Identify areas where you excel and areas that need improvement. 4. Seek feedback: Ask for constructive feedback from trusted friends, family, or colleagues. 5. Practice self-awareness: Recognize your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and how they impact your productivity and quality of work. 6. Develop a growth mindset: Be open to learning, experimenting, and taking calculated risks. 7. Prioritize tasks: Focus on high-impact activities that align with your goals and values. 8. Eliminate distractions: Minimize procrastination and optimize your workflow. 9. Celebrate small wins: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. 10. Continuously learn and improve: Stay updated with industry trends, best practices, and new skills to enhance your quality and efficiency. By implementing these strategies, you'll be better equipped to discover your strengths, weaknesses, and areas for improvement, ultimately enhancing your overall quality and efficiency. What specific area of your life do you want to improve?
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  • *41 RULES TO STAY AHEAD OF THE Game*

    1. Privacy is your superpower. What others don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your life close to the chest—people thrive on drama.

    2. Loneliness is part of the journey. Embrace it; it’s an art form all its own.

    3. Remember, everything is temporary. Life is fleeting, so stay grounded and humble.

    4. Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind; it costs nothing.

    5. Your partner mirrors you. Choose wisely. Seek out her values just as diligently as her looks.

    6. Your mental health trumps everyone’s feelings.** Be a little selfish here; it’s vital.

    7. You don’t need more time; you need fewer distractions. Focus is your key to success.

    8. Guard your time fiercely. Not everyone deserves a piece of it.

    9. Surround yourself with those who truly value you.You shouldn't have to plead for respect and appreciation.

    10. Self-love is not selfish; it’s necessary.

    11. Treasure those who lighten your load. They are rare gems in this world.

    12. Choose your circle with care. The right people uplift you; the wrong ones can drag you down.

    13. Peace of mind is invaluable. Protect it at all costs.

    14. Stop chasing love; simply live your life. The right person will come along.

    15. Seek those who embody that “grow together” mindset. Lift each other higher.


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    16. No regrets—just lessons learned. Dust yourself off and push forward.

    17. Pursue someone proud to have you by their side.

    18. Never surrender. Everyone faces tough times; pick yourself up and keep going.

    19. If you feel drained, take a step back to recharge—don’t quit.

    20. Sometimes, you need to disappear to return stronger.

    21. Learn from the successes of others, but let their mistakes teach you wisdom.

    22. Want to be happy? Stop expecting anything from anyone; nobody owes you a thing.

    23. Everything will fall into place eventually. Keep that optimistic mindset alive.

    24. Keep grinding—your breakthrough is on the horizon.

    25. There’s nothing more attractive than mutual effort.

    26. Stop overthinking it in places where you’re not valued.

    27. If no one lends a hand, take the initiative yourself. Complaining won't help.

    28. Obsess over your growth. It’s the best investment you can make.

    29. A heart-to-heart should never end in conflict. Open dialogue is sacred.

    30. “I’ll do it tomorrow” is just procrastination in disguise.

    31. Aim not to stay the same—strive to be better.

    32. Sometimes, waiting is more powerful than forcing things to happen.

    33. Not everyone will understand your journey, and that’s perfectly fine.

    34. Heal so you don’t become a reflection of your past trauma.

    35. Keep your circle small and your friends insightful.

    36. If they’re only around temporarily, feel free to let them go permanently.

    37. People come and go; learn how to stand strong alone.

    38. If needed, take time to disappear and focus on yourself.

    39. Some will resent you for refusing to be controlled. That’s their problem.

    40. Concentrate on your improvement, not on proving yourself to others.

    41. Never, ever return to what once broke you.

    Keep pushing forward!
    *41 RULES TO STAY AHEAD OF THE Game* 1. Privacy is your superpower. What others don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your life close to the chest—people thrive on drama. 2. Loneliness is part of the journey. Embrace it; it’s an art form all its own. 3. Remember, everything is temporary. Life is fleeting, so stay grounded and humble. 4. Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind; it costs nothing. 5. Your partner mirrors you. Choose wisely. Seek out her values just as diligently as her looks. 6. Your mental health trumps everyone’s feelings.** Be a little selfish here; it’s vital. 7. You don’t need more time; you need fewer distractions. Focus is your key to success. 8. Guard your time fiercely. Not everyone deserves a piece of it. 9. Surround yourself with those who truly value you.You shouldn't have to plead for respect and appreciation. 10. Self-love is not selfish; it’s necessary. 11. Treasure those who lighten your load. They are rare gems in this world. 12. Choose your circle with care. The right people uplift you; the wrong ones can drag you down. 13. Peace of mind is invaluable. Protect it at all costs. 14. Stop chasing love; simply live your life. The right person will come along. 15. Seek those who embody that “grow together” mindset. Lift each other higher. https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vak8fCV9xVJbSFCiGN1K 16. No regrets—just lessons learned. Dust yourself off and push forward. 17. Pursue someone proud to have you by their side. 18. Never surrender. Everyone faces tough times; pick yourself up and keep going. 19. If you feel drained, take a step back to recharge—don’t quit. 20. Sometimes, you need to disappear to return stronger. 21. Learn from the successes of others, but let their mistakes teach you wisdom. 22. Want to be happy? Stop expecting anything from anyone; nobody owes you a thing. 23. Everything will fall into place eventually. Keep that optimistic mindset alive. 24. Keep grinding—your breakthrough is on the horizon. 25. There’s nothing more attractive than mutual effort. 26. Stop overthinking it in places where you’re not valued. 27. If no one lends a hand, take the initiative yourself. Complaining won't help. 28. Obsess over your growth. It’s the best investment you can make. 29. A heart-to-heart should never end in conflict. Open dialogue is sacred. 30. “I’ll do it tomorrow” is just procrastination in disguise. 31. Aim not to stay the same—strive to be better. 32. Sometimes, waiting is more powerful than forcing things to happen. 33. Not everyone will understand your journey, and that’s perfectly fine. 34. Heal so you don’t become a reflection of your past trauma. 35. Keep your circle small and your friends insightful. 36. If they’re only around temporarily, feel free to let them go permanently. 37. People come and go; learn how to stand strong alone. 38. If needed, take time to disappear and focus on yourself. 39. Some will resent you for refusing to be controlled. That’s their problem. 40. Concentrate on your improvement, not on proving yourself to others. 41. Never, ever return to what once broke you. Keep pushing forward!
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  • COMMON SENSE TO APPLY WHEN YOU VISIT OR STAY WITH A MARRIED COUPLE!


    Ladies, do not wear a singlet without bra and come out to greet them with your nipple pointing everywhere, especially when the man is not your biological brother.

    I don't mean you have bad intentions. I know you like being free of brassiere after a long day, but this is the sacrifice you will need to make as long as you are in that house, if a bra is too uncomfortable for home stay please buy a padded bra singlet that can be worn with a house top.. Show that home some respect as long as you are there.

    Men please, boxers with your weapon dangling left and right is not allowed when staying with a married couple, even if the wife is your sister, dress properly to cover your sensitive areas. Be sensitive when coming out topless, have the mindset that no matter how comfortable you wish to be, it is not your house.

    You don't know the issues that couple are dealing with privately. You don't know if one or both of them are struggling with lust or self control, not to mention insecurity and trust issues. Respect that home.

    Ladies, don't tie wrapper around your neck to quickly help in cleaning the house when obviously your whole body is open because you are not wearing anything inside the wrapper besides a pant. Dress covered when coming out of the room, again I did not say you mean anything evil, temptation is a respecter of no one, including yourself.

    Observe, observe, observe, there’s a spoon, plate and cup for the Oga or Madam of the house, observe and avoid using it.

    If there is a special chair that the man of that house sits on, or a special sitting position for the wife, respectfully avoid it, even if they told you to feel at home, please feel with wisdom.

    You have no right to go into the couple's bedroom uninvited. You have no right to go in there without their permission except it is an emergency. The bedroom is the most secret and sacred space in the house, respect it.

    You have no right to access the couples private things, no matter how close you are as a sibling or a cousin. No right to wear the couple's clothes, shoes, hair, etc, without their consent.

    Know this please, the rules of that house comes first before your own schedules. For example, if you know the woman in the house makes dinner by 4pm, even if your personal prayer time has been 4pm before you came visiting, that prayer hour will have to change for the period of time you are staying there, don’t enter your room praying when she is in the kitchen making food that you too will clearly eat, even the Holy Spirit will tell you to go fellowship in the kitchen first.

    Know the time for the family devotion, so you won’t be in your room watching a movie when devotion is going on in the living room, join the family in their devotion even if you attend a different denomination, don't act like a witch or wizard.

    Wash your plates after a meal, don't dump them in the sink and expect the couple to wash your plates, that is gross disrespect. Also, for the period you are there, be kind enough to wash the plates you meet in the sink when washing your own, don't just tidy yours and leave the rest there, especially if the couple have no help.

    Depending on your relationship with the couple, always ask the woman of the house if she observes any principle when it comes to her kitchen, it will help you avoid some malice. Take permission before dishing your food if she's big on that, 99% of wives don't joke with their kitchen.

    Do not be offended by these simple etiquette, it's standard practice anywhere, if you're not comfortable with a couple's rules then let your stay be shorter than the weekend.

    COMMON SENSE TO APPLY WHEN YOU VISIT OR STAY WITH A MARRIED COUPLE! ❎ Ladies, do not wear a singlet without bra and come out to greet them with your nipple pointing everywhere, especially when the man is not your biological brother. I don't mean you have bad intentions. I know you like being free of brassiere after a long day, but this is the sacrifice you will need to make as long as you are in that house, if a bra is too uncomfortable for home stay please buy a padded bra singlet that can be worn with a house top.. Show that home some respect as long as you are there. ❎ Men please, boxers with your weapon dangling left and right is not allowed when staying with a married couple, even if the wife is your sister, dress properly to cover your sensitive areas. Be sensitive when coming out topless, have the mindset that no matter how comfortable you wish to be, it is not your house. You don't know the issues that couple are dealing with privately. You don't know if one or both of them are struggling with lust or self control, not to mention insecurity and trust issues. Respect that home. ❎ Ladies, don't tie wrapper around your neck to quickly help in cleaning the house when obviously your whole body is open because you are not wearing anything inside the wrapper besides a pant. Dress covered when coming out of the room, again I did not say you mean anything evil, temptation is a respecter of no one, including yourself. ❎ Observe, observe, observe, there’s a spoon, plate and cup for the Oga or Madam of the house, observe and avoid using it. ❎ If there is a special chair that the man of that house sits on, or a special sitting position for the wife, respectfully avoid it, even if they told you to feel at home, please feel with wisdom. ❎ You have no right to go into the couple's bedroom uninvited. You have no right to go in there without their permission except it is an emergency. The bedroom is the most secret and sacred space in the house, respect it. ❎ You have no right to access the couples private things, no matter how close you are as a sibling or a cousin. No right to wear the couple's clothes, shoes, hair, etc, without their consent. ✅ Know this please, the rules of that house comes first before your own schedules. For example, if you know the woman in the house makes dinner by 4pm, even if your personal prayer time has been 4pm before you came visiting, that prayer hour will have to change for the period of time you are staying there, don’t enter your room praying when she is in the kitchen making food that you too will clearly eat, even the Holy Spirit will tell you to go fellowship in the kitchen first. ✅ Know the time for the family devotion, so you won’t be in your room watching a movie when devotion is going on in the living room, join the family in their devotion even if you attend a different denomination, don't act like a witch or wizard. ✅ Wash your plates after a meal, don't dump them in the sink and expect the couple to wash your plates, that is gross disrespect. Also, for the period you are there, be kind enough to wash the plates you meet in the sink when washing your own, don't just tidy yours and leave the rest there, especially if the couple have no help. ✅ Depending on your relationship with the couple, always ask the woman of the house if she observes any principle when it comes to her kitchen, it will help you avoid some malice. Take permission before dishing your food if she's big on that, 99% of wives don't joke with their kitchen. Do not be offended by these simple etiquette, it's standard practice anywhere, if you're not comfortable with a couple's rules then let your stay be shorter than the weekend.
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  • Life is good LG
    Try be good
    Have a good mindset and it shall be good unto you
    Life is good LG Try be good Have a good mindset and it shall be good unto you
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  • LISTEN UP, MEN...

    THE 13 THINGS THAT SECRETLY DESTROY A MAN’S DESTINY (And You Won’t See Village People Among Them)

    If you're between ages 18 to 34, this is the raw, undiluted thread you didn't know you needed.
    Forget "who is doing you"—you’re doing yourself.

    Let’s go:

    1. WOMEN, WOMEN, AND WOMEN AGAIN.

    Yes, I wrote it three times.
    Because most men ruin their future chasing a parade of lips, hips, and empty thrills.

    You spend your small earnings on women who don’t care about you.

    You sacrifice your time, energy, and focus to impress girls who see you as a joke.

    You think you’re “enjoying life”? You’re draining your power.

    There’s no trophy for sleeping with 100 girls, only invisible scars and wasted potential.
    Keep playing Casanova—you’ll end up as a broke legend in your own WhatsApp status.

    2. GAMBLING – THE CANCER OF DESTINY

    They say “you win some, you lose some.” But with gambling, you lose more than just money.

    You lose time.
    You lose peace.
    You lose your future.

    That “one more bet” might cost you everything.
    Sports betting, virtual games, casinos—it starts like fun, then you wake up in debt, depressed, and empty.

    3. THE DRUNK MAN’S DESTINY IS ALWAYS DELAYED

    Some men collect salary and go straight to the bar like it’s tradition.
    Bottle after bottle, you’re pouring your future down the drain.

    If you drink more than you save, Oga, you're not living—you’re leaking.

    A man who drinks more than he builds ends up with children who inherit shame instead of success.

    4. TIME WASTING IS A SLOW KILLER

    Want to know the difference between a king and a clown? Time Management.

    While you're scrolling TikTok and arguing football,
    another guy is learning a skill that’ll feed him for life.

    You don’t respect your time?
    Life won’t respect your existence.

    5. FRAUD (AKA YAHOO) – FAST MONEY, FAST MISERY

    You may not like this one, but truth doesn’t need your permission to sting.

    You flex today, buy Benz tomorrow—but deep down, you know your soul is empty.

    Proverbs says: “Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished.”

    You’ll work 10x harder to maintain stolen wealth than to build it legit.

    6. THE ADDICTIVE SLOW DEATH CALLED SMOKING & DRUGS

    From weed to crack to codeine—name it, I've seen it ruin men.

    Lost jobs

    Broken homes

    Mental breakdown

    Financial wreckage

    The worst part? The high never lasts. But the damage does.
    Stay away from anything that turns your brain to dust.

    7. LAZINESS – THE ENEMY WITHIN

    A man who loves sleep more than strategy will sleep through his destiny.

    You’re not broke because of the economy—you’re broke because you won’t work.
    You “hope things change,” but you won’t move.

    Get up. Hustle. Sweat. Build.
    No shortcut will save you from the discipline you keep avoiding.

    8. LACK OF SELF-CONTROL

    A man without discipline is like a gun with no safety—dangerous and self-destructive.

    You need routines. You need boundaries. You need rules.
    If you can’t master yourself, you’ll never master anything else.

    9. DISRESPECTING YOUR PARENTS

    You can’t curse the tree and expect the fruit to be sweet.

    Fighting your parents, insulting them, or abandoning them when they’re weak?
    It may not show immediately—but blessings will run far from you.
    Fix that attitude.

    10. ALWAYS DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR SURVIVAL

    You can’t build a great life on borrowed energy.
    Depending on people for basic needs kills your confidence and cripples your creativity.

    Your job is to become reliable, not to keep looking for who to rely on.
    You were not created to beg through life.

    11. BAD FRIENDS – SILENT DESTINY KILLERS

    You move with 5 jokers, don’t be shocked when your life becomes a circus.
    Your circle is either sharpening you or stabbing you.

    Audit your friends. Fire the dead weight.

    12. LIVING TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA

    You post like you’re balling, but your bank account is crying.
    You buy iPhone 15 to take mirror selfies, but you have no business or investment.

    Instagram likes won’t pay your rent, bro.

    13. EMOTIONAL WEAKNESS – A MAN’S UNSEEN TRAP

    You take every rejection personal.
    You crumble when things don’t go your way.
    You give up easily.

    That soft-hearted, zero-resilience mindset is destroying your climb.

    Life is tough. Be tougher.

    BOTTOM LINE:
    The devil isn't destroying your life. Your choices are.

    Start doing these:

    Say NO to distractions.

    Master your time.

    Work hard and work smart.

    Cut off energy-draining people.

    Build yourself like a man on a mission.

    Your destiny is not automatic.
    It’s built—brick by brick—with discipline, wisdom, and honesty .

    Stay focused

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    LISTEN UP, MEN... THE 13 THINGS THAT SECRETLY DESTROY A MAN’S DESTINY (And You Won’t See Village People Among Them) If you're between ages 18 to 34, this is the raw, undiluted thread you didn't know you needed. Forget "who is doing you"—you’re doing yourself. Let’s go: 1. WOMEN, WOMEN, AND WOMEN AGAIN. Yes, I wrote it three times. Because most men ruin their future chasing a parade of lips, hips, and empty thrills. You spend your small earnings on women who don’t care about you. You sacrifice your time, energy, and focus to impress girls who see you as a joke. You think you’re “enjoying life”? You’re draining your power. There’s no trophy for sleeping with 100 girls, only invisible scars and wasted potential. Keep playing Casanova—you’ll end up as a broke legend in your own WhatsApp status. 2. GAMBLING – THE CANCER OF DESTINY They say “you win some, you lose some.” But with gambling, you lose more than just money. You lose time. You lose peace. You lose your future. That “one more bet” might cost you everything. Sports betting, virtual games, casinos—it starts like fun, then you wake up in debt, depressed, and empty. 3. THE DRUNK MAN’S DESTINY IS ALWAYS DELAYED Some men collect salary and go straight to the bar like it’s tradition. Bottle after bottle, you’re pouring your future down the drain. If you drink more than you save, Oga, you're not living—you’re leaking. A man who drinks more than he builds ends up with children who inherit shame instead of success. 4. TIME WASTING IS A SLOW KILLER Want to know the difference between a king and a clown? Time Management. While you're scrolling TikTok and arguing football, another guy is learning a skill that’ll feed him for life. You don’t respect your time? Life won’t respect your existence. 5. FRAUD (AKA YAHOO) – FAST MONEY, FAST MISERY You may not like this one, but truth doesn’t need your permission to sting. You flex today, buy Benz tomorrow—but deep down, you know your soul is empty. Proverbs says: “Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished.” You’ll work 10x harder to maintain stolen wealth than to build it legit. 6. THE ADDICTIVE SLOW DEATH CALLED SMOKING & DRUGS From weed to crack to codeine—name it, I've seen it ruin men. Lost jobs Broken homes Mental breakdown Financial wreckage The worst part? The high never lasts. But the damage does. Stay away from anything that turns your brain to dust. 7. LAZINESS – THE ENEMY WITHIN A man who loves sleep more than strategy will sleep through his destiny. You’re not broke because of the economy—you’re broke because you won’t work. You “hope things change,” but you won’t move. Get up. Hustle. Sweat. Build. No shortcut will save you from the discipline you keep avoiding. 8. LACK OF SELF-CONTROL A man without discipline is like a gun with no safety—dangerous and self-destructive. You need routines. You need boundaries. You need rules. If you can’t master yourself, you’ll never master anything else. 9. DISRESPECTING YOUR PARENTS You can’t curse the tree and expect the fruit to be sweet. Fighting your parents, insulting them, or abandoning them when they’re weak? It may not show immediately—but blessings will run far from you. Fix that attitude. 10. ALWAYS DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR SURVIVAL You can’t build a great life on borrowed energy. Depending on people for basic needs kills your confidence and cripples your creativity. Your job is to become reliable, not to keep looking for who to rely on. You were not created to beg through life. 11. BAD FRIENDS – SILENT DESTINY KILLERS You move with 5 jokers, don’t be shocked when your life becomes a circus. Your circle is either sharpening you or stabbing you. Audit your friends. Fire the dead weight. 12. LIVING TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA You post like you’re balling, but your bank account is crying. You buy iPhone 15 to take mirror selfies, but you have no business or investment. Instagram likes won’t pay your rent, bro. 13. EMOTIONAL WEAKNESS – A MAN’S UNSEEN TRAP You take every rejection personal. You crumble when things don’t go your way. You give up easily. That soft-hearted, zero-resilience mindset is destroying your climb. Life is tough. Be tougher. BOTTOM LINE: The devil isn't destroying your life. Your choices are. Start doing these: Say NO to distractions. Master your time. Work hard and work smart. Cut off energy-draining people. Build yourself like a man on a mission. Your destiny is not automatic. It’s built—brick by brick—with discipline, wisdom, and honesty . Stay focused Follow us About That Street Follow us Kanoti Dancan
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  • 20k in not the problem

    The problem is your *MINDSET*

    Your mindset have a long way to go if you really want to make a lot of money in this internet. Sometimes you don’t necessarily need to look at the money you’re spending but look at the long term value.

    Don’t just spend money on things that will finish now. But spend money on things that will yield long term results.
    ‼️20k in not the problem ‼️ The problem is your *MINDSET* Your mindset have a long way to go if you really want to make a lot of money in this internet. Sometimes you don’t necessarily need to look at the money you’re spending but look at the long term value. Don’t just spend money on things that will finish now. But spend money on things that will yield long term results.
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  • LISTEN UP, MEN...

    THE 13 THINGS THAT SECRETLY DESTROY A MAN'S DESTINY (And You Won't See Village People Among Them).
    If you're between ages 18 to 34, this is the raw, undiluted thread you didn't know you needed.
    Forget "who is doing you" you're doing yourself.

    Let's go:

    1.WOMEN, WOMEN, AND WOMEN AGAIN.
    Yes, i wrote it three times.
    Because most men ruin their future chasing a parade of lips, hips and empty thrills.
    You spend your small earnings on women who don't care about you.
    You sacrifice your time, energy and focus to impress girls who see you as a joke.
    You think you're
    "enjoying life"?.
    You're draining your power.

    There's no trophy for sleeping with 100 girls, only invisible scars and wasted potential.
    Keep playing Casanova you'll end up as a broke legend in your own WhatsApp status.

    2.GAMBLING THE CANCER OF DESTINY.
    They say "you win some, you lose some.
    "But with gambling, you lose more than just money.
    You lose time.
    You lose peace.
    You lose your future.
    That "one more bet" might cost you everything.
    Sports betting, virtual games, casinos it starts like fun, then you wake up in debt, depressed and empty.

    3.THE DRUNK MAN'S DESTINY IS ALWAYS DELAYED.
    Some men collect salary and go straight to the bar like it's tradition.
    Bottle after bottle, you're pouring your future down the drain.
    If you drink more than you save.
    Oga, you're not living you're leaking.
    A man who drinks more than he builds ends up with children who inherit shame instead of success.

    4.TIME WASTING IS A SLOW KILLER.
    Want to know the difference between a king and a clown? Time Management.
    While you're scrolling TikTok and arguing football,
    another guy is learning a skill that'll feed him for life.
    You don't respect your time?.
    Life won't respect your existence.

    5.FRAUD (AKA YAHOO) FAST MONEY, FAST MISERY.
    You may not like this one, but truth doesn't need your permission to sting.
    You flex today, buy Benz tomorrow but deep down, you know your soul is empty.
    Proverbs says:
    Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished.
    You'll work 10x harder to maintain stolen wealth than to build it legit.

    6.THE ADDICTIVE SLOW DEATH CALLED SMOKING & DRUGS.
    From weed to crack to codeine name it, I've seen it ruin men.

    Lost jobs

    Broken homes

    Mental breakdown

    Financial wreckage

    The worst part?.
    The high never lasts.
    But the damage does.
    Stay away from anything that turns your brain to dust.

    7.LAZINESS THE ENEMY WITHIN.
    A man who loves sleep more than strategy will sleep through his destiny.
    You're not broke because of the economy you're broke because you won't work.
    You "hope things change," but you won't move.

    Get up.
    Hustle.
    Sweat.
    Build.
    No shortcut will save you from the discipline you keep avoiding.

    8.LACK OF SELF CONTROL.
    A man without discipline is like a gun with no safety dangerous and self destructive.
    You need routines. You need boundaries.
    You need rules.
    If you can't master yourself, you'll never master anything else.

    9.DISRESPECTING YOUR PARENTS.
    You can't curse the tree and expect the fruit to be sweet.
    Fighting your parents, insulting them or abandoning them when they're weak?
    It may not show immediately but blessings will run far from you.
    Fix that attitude.

    10.ALWAYS DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR SURVIVAL.
    You can't build a great life on borrowed energy.
    Depending on people for basic needs kills your confidence and cripples your creativity.
    Your job is to become reliable, not to keep looking for who to rely on.
    You were not created to beg through life.

    11.BAD FRIENDS SILENT DESTINY KILLERS.
    You move with 5 jokers, don't be shocked when your life becomes a circus.
    Your circle is either sharpening you or stabbing you.
    Audit your friends.
    Fire the dead weight.

    12.LIVING TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA.
    You post like you're balling, but your bank account is crying.
    You buy iPhone 15 to take mirror selfies, but you have no business or investment.
    Instagram likes won't pay your rent, bro.

    13.EMOTIONAL WEAKNESS A MAN'S UNSEEN TRAP.
    You take every rejection personal.
    You crumble when things don't go your way.
    You give up easily.
    That soft hearted, zero resilience mindset is destroying your climb.
    Life is tough.
    Be tougher.

    BOTTOM LINE:.
    The devil isn't destroying your life.
    Your choices are.

    START DOING THESE:.
    Say NO to distractions.
    Master your time.
    Work hard and work smart.
    Cut off energy draining people.
    Build yourself like a man on a mission.
    Your destiny is not automatic.
    It's built brick by brick with discipline, wisdom and honesty.

    Stay focused!!!
    LISTEN UP, MEN... THE 13 THINGS THAT SECRETLY DESTROY A MAN'S DESTINY (And You Won't See Village People Among Them). If you're between ages 18 to 34, this is the raw, undiluted thread you didn't know you needed. Forget "who is doing you" you're doing yourself. Let's go: 1.WOMEN, WOMEN, AND WOMEN AGAIN. Yes, i wrote it three times. Because most men ruin their future chasing a parade of lips, hips and empty thrills. You spend your small earnings on women who don't care about you. You sacrifice your time, energy and focus to impress girls who see you as a joke. You think you're "enjoying life"?. You're draining your power. There's no trophy for sleeping with 100 girls, only invisible scars and wasted potential. Keep playing Casanova you'll end up as a broke legend in your own WhatsApp status. 2.GAMBLING THE CANCER OF DESTINY. They say "you win some, you lose some. "But with gambling, you lose more than just money. You lose time. You lose peace. You lose your future. That "one more bet" might cost you everything. Sports betting, virtual games, casinos it starts like fun, then you wake up in debt, depressed and empty. 3.THE DRUNK MAN'S DESTINY IS ALWAYS DELAYED. Some men collect salary and go straight to the bar like it's tradition. Bottle after bottle, you're pouring your future down the drain. If you drink more than you save. Oga, you're not living you're leaking. A man who drinks more than he builds ends up with children who inherit shame instead of success. 4.TIME WASTING IS A SLOW KILLER. Want to know the difference between a king and a clown? Time Management. While you're scrolling TikTok and arguing football, another guy is learning a skill that'll feed him for life. You don't respect your time?. Life won't respect your existence. 5.FRAUD (AKA YAHOO) FAST MONEY, FAST MISERY. You may not like this one, but truth doesn't need your permission to sting. You flex today, buy Benz tomorrow but deep down, you know your soul is empty. Proverbs says: Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished. You'll work 10x harder to maintain stolen wealth than to build it legit. 6.THE ADDICTIVE SLOW DEATH CALLED SMOKING & DRUGS. From weed to crack to codeine name it, I've seen it ruin men. Lost jobs Broken homes Mental breakdown Financial wreckage The worst part?. The high never lasts. But the damage does. Stay away from anything that turns your brain to dust. 7.LAZINESS THE ENEMY WITHIN. A man who loves sleep more than strategy will sleep through his destiny. You're not broke because of the economy you're broke because you won't work. You "hope things change," but you won't move. Get up. Hustle. Sweat. Build. No shortcut will save you from the discipline you keep avoiding. 8.LACK OF SELF CONTROL. A man without discipline is like a gun with no safety dangerous and self destructive. You need routines. You need boundaries. You need rules. If you can't master yourself, you'll never master anything else. 9.DISRESPECTING YOUR PARENTS. You can't curse the tree and expect the fruit to be sweet. Fighting your parents, insulting them or abandoning them when they're weak? It may not show immediately but blessings will run far from you. Fix that attitude. 10.ALWAYS DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR SURVIVAL. You can't build a great life on borrowed energy. Depending on people for basic needs kills your confidence and cripples your creativity. Your job is to become reliable, not to keep looking for who to rely on. You were not created to beg through life. 11.BAD FRIENDS SILENT DESTINY KILLERS. You move with 5 jokers, don't be shocked when your life becomes a circus. Your circle is either sharpening you or stabbing you. Audit your friends. Fire the dead weight. 12.LIVING TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA. You post like you're balling, but your bank account is crying. You buy iPhone 15 to take mirror selfies, but you have no business or investment. Instagram likes won't pay your rent, bro. 13.EMOTIONAL WEAKNESS A MAN'S UNSEEN TRAP. You take every rejection personal. You crumble when things don't go your way. You give up easily. That soft hearted, zero resilience mindset is destroying your climb. Life is tough. Be tougher. BOTTOM LINE:. The devil isn't destroying your life. Your choices are. START DOING THESE:. Say NO to distractions. Master your time. Work hard and work smart. Cut off energy draining people. Build yourself like a man on a mission. Your destiny is not automatic. It's built brick by brick with discipline, wisdom and honesty. Stay focused!!!
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  • A word for you today

    "Believe you can and you're halfway there." - Theodore Roosevelt

    This quote emphasizes the importance of having a positive mindset and believing in oneself. When you have confidence in your abilities, you're more likely to take risks, push through challenges, and achieve your goals.

    Reflection
    Take a moment to reflect on areas where you might be doubting yourself. What steps can you take today to build your confidence and move closer to your goals?
    A word for you today 🔥 "Believe you can and you're halfway there." - Theodore Roosevelt This quote emphasizes the importance of having a positive mindset and believing in oneself. When you have confidence in your abilities, you're more likely to take risks, push through challenges, and achieve your goals. Reflection Take a moment to reflect on areas where you might be doubting yourself. What steps can you take today to build your confidence and move closer to your goals?
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  • 41 RULES TO STAY AHEAD OF THE GAME

    1. **Privacy is your superpower.** What others don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your life close to the chest—people thrive on drama.

    2. **Loneliness is part of the journey.** Embrace it; it’s an art form all its own.

    3. **Remember, everything is temporary.** Life is fleeting, so stay grounded and humble.

    4. **Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.** Be kind; it costs nothing.

    5. **Your partner mirrors you.** Choose wisely. Seek out her values just as diligently as her looks.

    6. **Your mental health trumps everyone’s feelings.** Be a little selfish here; it’s vital.

    7. **You don’t need more time; you need fewer distractions.** Focus is your key to success.

    8. **Guard your time fiercely.** Not everyone deserves a piece of it.

    9. **Surround yourself with those who truly value you.** You shouldn't have to plead for respect and appreciation.

    10. **Self-love is not selfish; it’s necessary.**

    11. **Treasure those who lighten your load.** They are rare gems in this world.

    12. **Choose your circle with care.** The right people uplift you; the wrong ones can drag you down.

    13. **Peace of mind is invaluable.** Protect it at all costs.

    14. **Stop chasing love; simply live your life.** The right person will come along.

    15. **Seek those who embody that “grow together” mindset.** Lift each other higher.

    16. **No regrets—just lessons learned.** Dust yourself off and push forward.

    17. **Pursue someone proud to have you by their side.**

    18. **Never surrender.** Everyone faces tough times; pick yourself up and keep going.

    19. **If you feel drained, take a step back to recharge—don’t quit.**

    20. **Sometimes, you need to disappear to return stronger.**

    21. **Learn from the successes of others, but let their mistakes teach you wisdom.**

    22. **Want to be happy?** Stop expecting anything from anyone; nobody owes you a thing.

    23. **Everything will fall into place eventually.** Keep that optimistic mindset alive.

    24. **Keep grinding—your breakthrough is on the horizon.**

    25. **There’s nothing more attractive than mutual effort.**

    26. **Stop overthinking it in places where you’re not valued.**

    27. **If no one lends a hand, take the initiative yourself. Complaining won't help.**

    28. **Obsess over your growth.** It’s the best investment you can make.

    29. **A heart-to-heart should never end in conflict.** Open dialogue is sacred.

    30. **“I’ll do it tomorrow” is just procrastination in disguise.**

    31. **Aim not to stay the same—strive to be better.**

    32. **Sometimes, waiting is more powerful than forcing things to happen.**

    33. **Not everyone will understand your journey, and that’s perfectly fine.**

    34. **Heal so you don’t become a reflection of your past trauma.**

    35. Keep your circle small and your friends insightful.**

    36. If they’re only around temporarily, feel free to let them go permanently.**

    37. People come and go; learn how to stand strong alone.**

    38. If needed, take time to disappear and focus on yourself.**

    39. Some will resent you for refusing to be controlled. That’s their problem.

    40. Concentrate on your improvement, not on proving yourself to others.

    41. Never, ever return to what once broke you.

    **Keep pushing forward!**
    41 RULES TO STAY AHEAD OF THE GAME 1. **Privacy is your superpower.** What others don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your life close to the chest—people thrive on drama. 2. **Loneliness is part of the journey.** Embrace it; it’s an art form all its own. 3. **Remember, everything is temporary.** Life is fleeting, so stay grounded and humble. 4. **Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.** Be kind; it costs nothing. 5. **Your partner mirrors you.** Choose wisely. Seek out her values just as diligently as her looks. 6. **Your mental health trumps everyone’s feelings.** Be a little selfish here; it’s vital. 7. **You don’t need more time; you need fewer distractions.** Focus is your key to success. 8. **Guard your time fiercely.** Not everyone deserves a piece of it. 9. **Surround yourself with those who truly value you.** You shouldn't have to plead for respect and appreciation. 10. **Self-love is not selfish; it’s necessary.** 11. **Treasure those who lighten your load.** They are rare gems in this world. 12. **Choose your circle with care.** The right people uplift you; the wrong ones can drag you down. 13. **Peace of mind is invaluable.** Protect it at all costs. 14. **Stop chasing love; simply live your life.** The right person will come along. 15. **Seek those who embody that “grow together” mindset.** Lift each other higher. 16. **No regrets—just lessons learned.** Dust yourself off and push forward. 17. **Pursue someone proud to have you by their side.** 18. **Never surrender.** Everyone faces tough times; pick yourself up and keep going. 19. **If you feel drained, take a step back to recharge—don’t quit.** 20. **Sometimes, you need to disappear to return stronger.** 21. **Learn from the successes of others, but let their mistakes teach you wisdom.** 22. **Want to be happy?** Stop expecting anything from anyone; nobody owes you a thing. 23. **Everything will fall into place eventually.** Keep that optimistic mindset alive. 24. **Keep grinding—your breakthrough is on the horizon.** 25. **There’s nothing more attractive than mutual effort.** 26. **Stop overthinking it in places where you’re not valued.** 27. **If no one lends a hand, take the initiative yourself. Complaining won't help.** 28. **Obsess over your growth.** It’s the best investment you can make. 29. **A heart-to-heart should never end in conflict.** Open dialogue is sacred. 30. **“I’ll do it tomorrow” is just procrastination in disguise.** 31. **Aim not to stay the same—strive to be better.** 32. **Sometimes, waiting is more powerful than forcing things to happen.** 33. **Not everyone will understand your journey, and that’s perfectly fine.** 34. **Heal so you don’t become a reflection of your past trauma.** 35. Keep your circle small and your friends insightful.** 36. If they’re only around temporarily, feel free to let them go permanently.** 37. People come and go; learn how to stand strong alone.** 38. If needed, take time to disappear and focus on yourself.** 39. Some will resent you for refusing to be controlled. That’s their problem. 40. Concentrate on your improvement, not on proving yourself to others. 41. Never, ever return to what once broke you. **Keep pushing forward!**
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  • 41 RULES TO STAY AHEAD OF THE GAME

    1. **Privacy is your superpower.** What others don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your life close to the chest—people thrive on drama.

    2. **Loneliness is part of the journey.** Embrace it; it’s an art form all its own.

    3. **Remember, everything is temporary.** Life is fleeting, so stay grounded and humble.

    4. **Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.** Be kind; it costs nothing.

    5. **Your partner mirrors you.** Choose wisely. Seek out her values just as diligently as her looks.

    6. **Your mental health trumps everyone’s feelings.** Be a little selfish here; it’s vital.

    7. **You don’t need more time; you need fewer distractions.** Focus is your key to success.

    8. **Guard your time fiercely.** Not everyone deserves a piece of it.

    9. **Surround yourself with those who truly value you.** You shouldn't have to plead for respect and appreciation.

    10. **Self-love is not selfish; it’s necessary.**

    11. **Treasure those who lighten your load.** They are rare gems in this world.

    12. **Choose your circle with care.** The right people uplift you; the wrong ones can drag you down.

    13. **Peace of mind is invaluable.** Protect it at all costs.

    14. **Stop chasing love; simply live your life.** The right person will come along.

    15. **Seek those who embody that “grow together” mindset.** Lift each other higher.

    16. **No regrets—just lessons learned.** Dust yourself off and push forward.

    17. **Pursue someone proud to have you by their side.**

    18. **Never surrender.** Everyone faces tough times; pick yourself up and keep going.

    19. **If you feel drained, take a step back to recharge—don’t quit.**

    20. **Sometimes, you need to disappear to return stronger.**

    21. **Learn from the successes of others, but let their mistakes teach you wisdom.**

    22. **Want to be happy?** Stop expecting anything from anyone; nobody owes you a thing.

    23. **Everything will fall into place eventually.** Keep that optimistic mindset alive.

    24. **Keep grinding—your breakthrough is on the horizon.**

    25. **There’s nothing more attractive than mutual effort.**

    26. **Stop overthinking it in places where you’re not valued.**

    27. **If no one lends a hand, take the initiative yourself. Complaining won't help.**

    28. **Obsess over your growth.** It’s the best investment you can make.

    29. **A heart-to-heart should never end in conflict.** Open dialogue is sacred.

    30. **“I’ll do it tomorrow” is just procrastination in disguise.**

    31. **Aim not to stay the same—strive to be better.**

    32. **Sometimes, waiting is more powerful than forcing things to happen.**

    33. **Not everyone will understand your journey, and that’s perfectly fine.**

    34. **Heal so you don’t become a reflection of your past trauma.**

    35. Keep your circle small and your friends insightful.**

    36. If they’re only around temporarily, feel free to let them go permanently.**

    37. People come and go; learn how to stand strong alone.**

    38. If needed, take time to disappear and focus on yourself.**

    39. Some will resent you for refusing to be controlled. That’s their problem.

    40. Concentrate on your improvement, not on proving yourself to others.

    41. Never, ever return to what once broke you.

    **Keep pushing forward!**
    41 RULES TO STAY AHEAD OF THE GAME 1. **Privacy is your superpower.** What others don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your life close to the chest—people thrive on drama. 2. **Loneliness is part of the journey.** Embrace it; it’s an art form all its own. 3. **Remember, everything is temporary.** Life is fleeting, so stay grounded and humble. 4. **Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.** Be kind; it costs nothing. 5. **Your partner mirrors you.** Choose wisely. Seek out her values just as diligently as her looks. 6. **Your mental health trumps everyone’s feelings.** Be a little selfish here; it’s vital. 7. **You don’t need more time; you need fewer distractions.** Focus is your key to success. 8. **Guard your time fiercely.** Not everyone deserves a piece of it. 9. **Surround yourself with those who truly value you.** You shouldn't have to plead for respect and appreciation. 10. **Self-love is not selfish; it’s necessary.** 11. **Treasure those who lighten your load.** They are rare gems in this world. 12. **Choose your circle with care.** The right people uplift you; the wrong ones can drag you down. 13. **Peace of mind is invaluable.** Protect it at all costs. 14. **Stop chasing love; simply live your life.** The right person will come along. 15. **Seek those who embody that “grow together” mindset.** Lift each other higher. 16. **No regrets—just lessons learned.** Dust yourself off and push forward. 17. **Pursue someone proud to have you by their side.** 18. **Never surrender.** Everyone faces tough times; pick yourself up and keep going. 19. **If you feel drained, take a step back to recharge—don’t quit.** 20. **Sometimes, you need to disappear to return stronger.** 21. **Learn from the successes of others, but let their mistakes teach you wisdom.** 22. **Want to be happy?** Stop expecting anything from anyone; nobody owes you a thing. 23. **Everything will fall into place eventually.** Keep that optimistic mindset alive. 24. **Keep grinding—your breakthrough is on the horizon.** 25. **There’s nothing more attractive than mutual effort.** 26. **Stop overthinking it in places where you’re not valued.** 27. **If no one lends a hand, take the initiative yourself. Complaining won't help.** 28. **Obsess over your growth.** It’s the best investment you can make. 29. **A heart-to-heart should never end in conflict.** Open dialogue is sacred. 30. **“I’ll do it tomorrow” is just procrastination in disguise.** 31. **Aim not to stay the same—strive to be better.** 32. **Sometimes, waiting is more powerful than forcing things to happen.** 33. **Not everyone will understand your journey, and that’s perfectly fine.** 34. **Heal so you don’t become a reflection of your past trauma.** 35. Keep your circle small and your friends insightful.** 36. If they’re only around temporarily, feel free to let them go permanently.** 37. People come and go; learn how to stand strong alone.** 38. If needed, take time to disappear and focus on yourself.** 39. Some will resent you for refusing to be controlled. That’s their problem. 40. Concentrate on your improvement, not on proving yourself to others. 41. Never, ever return to what once broke you. **Keep pushing forward!**
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  • Day 9 of the Salary Detox Challenge: Stop Being the Family ATM.

    When I started working, my salary was N25,000. That same period, my Mom came to me with a list of bills that was so long.

    She said two of my younger siblings just got admission same time and I must train them both.

    I looked at her with love, but I told her:
    “Mummy, I will train only one this year. Let me grow my capacity. I will take on the second next year. Let the second one learn a skill now."

    She wasn’t happy. But I stood my ground.
    Because if I didn’t bring structure to that moment, I would have drowned in expectations and poverty just to look like a good son when I can be a great son.

    I also gave my Mom a fixed monthly allowance. And I warned her that when her allowance finishes, don’t call me. If your own money finishes before my salary comes, sit down and think and don’t think of me.

    It sounds harsh, but let me tell you, It saved me and also saved my family, we would have still remained poor or average till today.

    Sometimes the people depending on you don’t need more money, what they need from you is more structure.

    You are not God, you are not an ATM and neither can you solve everybody’s money problems.

    Even the time I bought my Mom a car, she was excited but started bringing up more bills and more expenses that weren't relevant, just to show that her son is making money.

    I will wisper to her that “If this discipline brought us out of poverty, it will take us into wealth. Mom please, let us not break it now.”

    That’s the mindset I have carried till today. When you see me disciplined about my finances, it didn't start today.

    When you start earning salary, start to build your future with sense, and not spend with emotions. See ehh, you are not just spending your salary ooh, you are spending your destiny trying to carry people who will make you collapse.

    And let me shock you, many of them that keep running to you don’t plan, don’t save, don’t build. Deep down, they know, “If anything happens, I will call you.”

    My life changed the day I stopped being an ATM… and I became a Bank.

    Banks don’t give money because you cried emotions. They ask questions. They will demand structure. They give with a plan and get returns.

    Back then, I created what I call a Giving Budget. Every month, I set aside a fixed amount for support. When it finishes... that’s it.
    This is my structure. I will not wreck my future to fix someone else’s...

    So, for our Day 9 Challenge:
    Set your boundary. Create a giving budget and stick to it. When the next call comes? Say with love:
    “I am sorry, I have reached my limit. I have a project and I am building something bigger.

    You have to do this because when you build properly, you will bless people from overflow and not from survival.

    Please share and comment.

    #Oluwaisinvolved
    #SalaryDetox
    #Day9Challenge
    #StructureOverSympathy
    #GiveWithWisdom
    Day 9 of the Salary Detox Challenge: Stop Being the Family ATM. When I started working, my salary was N25,000. That same period, my Mom came to me with a list of bills that was so long. She said two of my younger siblings just got admission same time and I must train them both. I looked at her with love, but I told her: “Mummy, I will train only one this year. Let me grow my capacity. I will take on the second next year. Let the second one learn a skill now." She wasn’t happy. But I stood my ground. Because if I didn’t bring structure to that moment, I would have drowned in expectations and poverty just to look like a good son when I can be a great son. I also gave my Mom a fixed monthly allowance. And I warned her that when her allowance finishes, don’t call me. If your own money finishes before my salary comes, sit down and think and don’t think of me. It sounds harsh, but let me tell you, It saved me and also saved my family, we would have still remained poor or average till today. Sometimes the people depending on you don’t need more money, what they need from you is more structure. You are not God, you are not an ATM and neither can you solve everybody’s money problems. Even the time I bought my Mom a car, she was excited but started bringing up more bills and more expenses that weren't relevant, just to show that her son is making money. I will wisper to her that “If this discipline brought us out of poverty, it will take us into wealth. Mom please, let us not break it now.” That’s the mindset I have carried till today. When you see me disciplined about my finances, it didn't start today. When you start earning salary, start to build your future with sense, and not spend with emotions. See ehh, you are not just spending your salary ooh, you are spending your destiny trying to carry people who will make you collapse. And let me shock you, many of them that keep running to you don’t plan, don’t save, don’t build. Deep down, they know, “If anything happens, I will call you.” My life changed the day I stopped being an ATM… and I became a Bank. Banks don’t give money because you cried emotions. They ask questions. They will demand structure. They give with a plan and get returns. Back then, I created what I call a Giving Budget. Every month, I set aside a fixed amount for support. When it finishes... that’s it. This is my structure. I will not wreck my future to fix someone else’s... So, for our Day 9 Challenge: Set your boundary. Create a giving budget and stick to it. When the next call comes? Say with love: “I am sorry, I have reached my limit. I have a project and I am building something bigger. You have to do this because when you build properly, you will bless people from overflow and not from survival. Please share and comment. #Oluwaisinvolved #SalaryDetox #Day9Challenge #StructureOverSympathy #GiveWithWisdom
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