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KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

1. Laziness kills marriage.
2. Suspicion kills marriage.
3. Lack of Trust kills marriage.
4. Lack of Mutual Respect kills marriage.
5. Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice, and Anger kill marriage.
6. Unnecessary Arguments kill marriage.
7. Keeping Secrets from Your Spouse kills marriage.
8. Infidelity (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc.) kills marriage.
9. Poor Communication kills marriage.
10. Lies easily kill marriage; be sincere with your spouse in every aspect.
11. Prioritizing Parents/Family Over Your Spouse kills marriage.
12. Lack of or Unenjoyable Intimacy kills marriage.
13. Nagging kills marriage.
14. Too Much Talk and Careless Talk kill marriage.
15. Spending Little Time with Your Spouse kills marriage.
16. Being Too Independent-Minded kills marriage.
17. Love for Partying, Money, Impulse Buying, and Financial Indiscipline kills marriage.
18. Exposing Your Spouse's Inadequacies to Your Parents or Siblings kills marriage.
19. Neglecting Spiritual Practices and Not Praying Together kills not only marriage but also your life.
20. Spurning Correction and Reprimand kills marriage.
21. Always Wearing a Sad Face and Being Moody kills marriage.
22. Extreme Feminism Advocacy kills marriage.
23. Male Chauvinism kills marriage.
24. Uncontrolled Temper and Anger kill marriage.
25. Not Understanding Your Role and Responsibility in Marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.
26. Ignoring the Spiritual, Emotional, and Physical Needs of Your Spouse kills marriage.
27. Threatening the Security of a Spouse will have detrimental effects on the marriage.
28. Lack of Knowledge of and Obedience to the Word of God kills marriage.

Marriage na wisdom

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

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Some men dey complain they are not happy in their marriage but they are producing baby every year. No be juju b dt?

WHY MEN ARE CALLED "GROOM”, AND THE WOMAN “THE BRIDE” ON WEDDING DAY?

Why is the newly wedded man called GROOM and the woman called BRIDE? A friend of mine got tired of his WIFE just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him the right thing, so I went home. And that is what birth this message.

Many MEN have broken up with their WIVES because they end up not being the WIFE that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.

Nobody calls the woman WIFE on her wedding day but BRIDE, because it is the man that will GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. That is why the man is called ‘BRIDEGROOM or GROOM’ and the word grooming has to do with PATIENTLY NURTURING, TEACHING, TENDING and HELPING someone to become what he or she should be.

It is therefore believed that a MAN that takes a WOMAN to the ALTAR of MARRIAGE is matured enough to patiently GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. The man is not supposed to just expect the BRIDE to automatically become the WIFE, she must be groomed.

It is clear that many men have unnecessary expectations when they were getting married, they want some magic to happen to their wives, they want them to become what they have had in mind about who they want their wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.

Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes TIME and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want.

So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her TIME to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings People that are opposites of each other together in MARRIAGE so that they can HELP EACH OTHER in their place of weaknesses. If your WIFE is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don’t accept People before attempting to change them. Of course, your wives are not from your backgrounds, so it will take TIME for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, ACCEPT her, LOVE her, TEACH her and be PATIENT with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your WIFE but she is your BRIDE now, so GROOM her. Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be PATIENT with her. I don’t believe that your MARRIAGE can’t work, be PATIENT and allow GOD to HELP you.

May Almighty God continue to be with us, guide and protect us in all our affairs Amen!!! Wishing you the best Marital Life ever to all single Ladies,Bros and Married ones here.

You will have the marriage of your dreams. A marriage made in heaven.

Naeto C's Wife Nicole Chikwe Opens Up On Criticisms She Faced After Her Relationship Went Public

Nicole Chikwe, the wife of popular music star Naeto C has shared her experience after her marriage was made public

According to her, she faced backlashes and criticisms due to her marriage.

Speaking in a recent chat, she revealed that she and Naeto had met when she was 22 years.

At the time, she had just returned from England where she had finished her BSc.

However, when she met Naeto, everything changed, and she was willing to give up furthering her studies to begin marriage with him.

The word was that she wasn’t good enough for him, since she was just a regular kind of girl, and he was, at the time, a major super star.

She said in part:

“When our relationship went public, it was a whole thing. I received a lot of vitroil when it came out. And the rhetoric was that I was not good enough for everyone’s beloveth Naeto C, he could do so much better than her, she’s not beautiful, she’s so ugly. I was compared to all sorts of animals….”

Let your wife be better than you met her.
That is what shows that the head of the house is a good one.

A good husband helps his wife become a better version of herself.

When your wife improves and grows after marriage, it's a testament to your leadership and love.

Try to be a partner who uplifts, supports, and empowers your wife to become her best version, it’s an honour to you.
#Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾
#TheVoice

Davido announces white wedding date with Chioma


Famous Afrobeat singer, Davido, has officially announced his white wedding date with Chioma.


He made the announcement ten months after their traditional marriage.

DAILY POST reports that the couple traditionally tied the knot in a star-studded ceremony in June 2024, at Eko Hotels, Lagos.


However, the singer in his latest interview with Breakfast Club announced that their highly anticipated white wedding will be coming up in August, 2025.

“I’m doing my white wedding in Miami, in August this year.

“Our traditional marriage shut down Nigeria because our relationship was in the public eye, and a lot have happened, apart from losing our child,” he said.

ADVICE TO ALL MARRIED MEN...

1. If you value your health and you want to live long and have a happy home, let your wife always win an argument. Trust me, it's the shortcut I know to peace of mind! Where there is no wood (fuel), the fire goes out!

2. Stop trying to figure out your wife or understand why she does what she does. It's a waste of precious time. Remember that you (Adam) were put to sleep while she (Eve) was being produced? How can you try to understand an equipment that wasn't assembled in your presence?

3. Marriage is about ACCEPTANCE, not tolerance. Make your marriage relationship-driven, not performance-driven. She was NOT created in your image. Stop projecting YOU into her. Show her the need for change through leadership, not coercion.

4. While a man is rational, the woman is emotional. One (the man) processes via his head, the other processes things through her heart (emotions). One thinks things through, the other feels her way through things. Facts drive you. Intuition drives her. What she can't FEEL, she doesn't SEE!

5. When sex becomes a weapon, a duty or an entitlement, it loses its very essence,
LOVE-MAKING. It simply becomes another chore like dish-washing which nobody looks forward to doing! Play with her. Flirt with her. Serenade her. Hug. Cuddle. Hold hands. Surprise her. Blow gently into her ears while she is cooking or while you are watching a movie together. Be spontaneous. Being a king-kong overlord in "ze oza room" and puffing and panting like a worn-out locomotive while she wonders what just happened can only lead to frustration. Remember, it is never about the size of the weapon but the fury of the attack! (Decode that!)

6. Go out often. Make regular, unscheduled date nights. Take a bath together. Make room for movie nights together either at home or at the cinema.

7. Remember that ONLY THE TWO OF YOU started the journey together and when the children have jumped the nest, only the two of you will remain. So, keep the bond ALL THE WAY and never drop the ball

8. Impregnate her with VISION. Allow her to dream too. Every woman loves a man working towards a future in which she can feature. Remember, woman simply means "womb man". She always wants something to incubate and nourish. You give her a seed, she incubates it and turns it to a baby for you

9. She is your wife, a companion and confidant, not a washing machine, cook or slave. You can't wear her out with chores all day and expect to 'ride' a functional "bicycle" all night! Impossible! Partners help partners by giving a helping hand where needed, even without being told.

10. Love is not 50/50. It is 100%. God didn't say to love your wife when she is submissive. It simply says love her as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.

11. Be PRESENT. Don't be at home married to your computer, football game or your phone for that matter. Listen when she wants to talk. Even when you don't know what to contribute to the discourse, you will soon discover that all she wanted was for you to listen. Your opinion may not even count!

12. Pray together.j

It is possible!
For with God all things are possible (Luke 1:37)
Humanly speaking, there are circumstances and situations that look impossible.There are sicknesses and diseases that are medically incurable.There are mistakes that men may never be able to correct, but the word of God declares, "With God,all things are possible.Note the word,"ALL" not some things or certain things but all things,
That includes:
1) your terrible health complications, your terrible financial situations.
2) your marriage/family problems, the spiritual dryness in your soul.
3) the hard curses following your life and destiny etc. All things are possible to him that believes.
Unbelieve is the only power that closes the door of possibilities, leaving you in your defeats and disappointment.

The desire to peppêr or show off to your ex only works if they are still interested in you.

Before some individuals end or walk out of a relationship or marriage, they may have exhausted every love they feel for you.

They may have endured immense pain, emotional trauma, and chosen silence over drama.

They may have concealed their thoughts and kept their pains to themselves.

They may have experienced situations that have made them see the part of you they can’t forget.

So, it's not every ex who is interested in whatever you are doing.
Some just want their peace.

Some have unloved you and you are just a random person to them.

Not everyone who breaks up or gets divorced wants to get back together especially when they left because of abúse, be it physically, verbally or emotionally

#Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾
#TheVoice