• *REFERRALS ARE MONEY. REFERRING PEOPLE IS KEY TO YOUR SUCCESS!*

    Whatever industry you may find yourself, you can never run away or do away with referring people, if you want to be successful.

    *TO ME* it is called Networking
    *TO THE CHURCH* it is called Evangelism.
    *TO BANKERS* it is called Marketing.
    *TO THE MEDIA* it is called Advertisement.
    *TO POLITICIANS* it is called Campaigning.

    *No business or industry can survive without the referrals of people. People are what every businesses or industries depends on*

    Just as conductors and drivers depends on *Passengers*
    Schools depends on *Students*
    Churches depends on *Members*
    Banks depends on *Customers*
    Politicians depends on *Voters*
    Markets depends on *Traders*
    Hospitals depends on *Patients*
    Betting companies depends on *Stakers*

    All these businesses or industries mentioned above functioned by *People*

    *IS THERE ANY BUSINESS YOU CAN DO SUCCESSFULLY THAT DOES NOT REQUIRE PEOPLE?*
    *REFERRALS ARE MONEY. REFERRING PEOPLE IS KEY TO YOUR SUCCESS!* Whatever industry you may find yourself, you can never run away or do away with referring people, if you want to be successful. *TO ME* it is called Networking *TO THE CHURCH* it is called Evangelism. *TO BANKERS* it is called Marketing. *TO THE MEDIA* it is called Advertisement. *TO POLITICIANS* it is called Campaigning. *No business or industry can survive without the referrals of people. People are what every businesses or industries depends on* 👉 Just as conductors and drivers depends on *Passengers* 👉 Schools depends on *Students* 👉Churches depends on *Members* 👉Banks depends on *Customers* 👉 Politicians depends on *Voters* 👉Markets depends on *Traders* 👉Hospitals depends on *Patients* 👉 Betting companies depends on *Stakers* All these businesses or industries mentioned above functioned by *People* *IS THERE ANY BUSINESS YOU CAN DO SUCCESSFULLY THAT DOES NOT REQUIRE PEOPLE?*
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  • *N͟O͟T͟ A͟ C͟O͟I͟N͟C͟I͟D͟E͟N͟C͟E͟!*

    1. *ADULT* has 5 letters,
    so does *YOUTH*.

    2. *PERMANENT* has 9 letters,
    so does *TEMPORARY*.

    3. *GOOD* has 4 letters,
    so does *EVIL*.

    4. *BLACK* has 5 letters,
    so does *WHITE*.

    5. *CHURCH* has 6 letters,
    so does *MOSQUE*.

    6. *BIBLE* has 5 letters,
    so does *QUR'AN*.

    7. *LIFE* has 4 letters,
    so does *DEAD*.

    8. *HATE* has 4 letters,
    so does *LOVE*.

    9. *ENEMIES* has 7 letters,
    so does *FRIENDS*.

    10. *LYING* has 5 letters,
    so does *TRUTH*.

    11. *HURT* has 4 letters,
    so does *HEAL*.

    12. *NEGATIVE* has 8 letters,
    so does *POSITIVE*.

    13. *FAILURE* has 7 letters,
    so does *SUCCESS*.

    14. *BELOW* has 5 letters,
    so does *ABOVE*.

    15. *CRY* has 3 letters,
    so does *JOY*.

    16. *ANGER* has 5 letters,
    so does *HAPPY*.

    17. *RIGHT* has 5 letters,
    so does *WRONG*.

    18. *RICH* has 4 letters,
    so does *POOR*.

    19. *FAIL* has 4 letters,
    so does *PASS*.

    20. *KNOWLEDGE* has 9 letters,
    so does *IGNORANCE*.

    Are they all by *Coincidence?*

    This means *LIFE* is like a double edged sword but the choice we make determines our future.

    *“I LOVE THIS ANALOGY"*.

    - When *GOD* wanted to create *FISH*, He spoke to the *SEA*.

    - When *GOD* wanted to create *TREES*, He spoke to the *EARTH*.

    - But when *GOD* wanted to create *MAN*, He turned to *HIMSELF*.

    - So *GOD* said:
    *"Let Us make man in Our image and likeness"*.

    Note:
    - If you take a *fish* out of the *water*
    it will *die*;
    And when you remove a *tree* from the *ground*, it also *dies*.

    - Similarly, when *man* disconnects from *GOD*, he *dies*.

    *GOD* is our *natural environment*.
    We were created to *live in HIS presence*.

    We have to be connected to *Him* because only with *Him* does LIFE exist.

    - Let's stay *connected to GOD*.

    Remember that *water* without *fish* is still *water,* but *fish* without water is *nothing*.

    The *soil* *without* the *tree* is still *soil,* but the *tree* without soil is *nothing*.

    *God* *without* *man* is still *God,* but *man* *without GOD* is *nothing*.

    If this message reaches you and you share it with others, that is called:
    *EVANGELISM*.

    God Bless You! 🙏🏽
    *N͟O͟T͟ A͟ C͟O͟I͟N͟C͟I͟D͟E͟N͟C͟E͟!* 1. *ADULT* has 5 letters, so does *YOUTH*. 2. *PERMANENT* has 9 letters, so does *TEMPORARY*. 3. *GOOD* has 4 letters, so does *EVIL*. 4. *BLACK* has 5 letters, so does *WHITE*. 5. *CHURCH* has 6 letters, so does *MOSQUE*. 6. *BIBLE* has 5 letters, so does *QUR'AN*. 7. *LIFE* has 4 letters, so does *DEAD*. 8. *HATE* has 4 letters, so does *LOVE*. 9. *ENEMIES* has 7 letters, so does *FRIENDS*. 10. *LYING* has 5 letters, so does *TRUTH*. 11. *HURT* has 4 letters, so does *HEAL*. 12. *NEGATIVE* has 8 letters, so does *POSITIVE*. 13. *FAILURE* has 7 letters, so does *SUCCESS*. 14. *BELOW* has 5 letters, so does *ABOVE*. 15. *CRY* has 3 letters, so does *JOY*. 16. *ANGER* has 5 letters, so does *HAPPY*. 17. *RIGHT* has 5 letters, so does *WRONG*. 18. *RICH* has 4 letters, so does *POOR*. 19. *FAIL* has 4 letters, so does *PASS*. 20. *KNOWLEDGE* has 9 letters, so does *IGNORANCE*. Are they all by *Coincidence?* This means *LIFE* is like a double edged sword but the choice we make determines our future. *“I LOVE THIS ANALOGY"*. - When *GOD* wanted to create *FISH*, He spoke to the *SEA*. - When *GOD* wanted to create *TREES*, He spoke to the *EARTH*. - But when *GOD* wanted to create *MAN*, He turned to *HIMSELF*. - So *GOD* said: *"Let Us make man in Our image and likeness"*. Note: - If you take a *fish* out of the *water* it will *die*; And when you remove a *tree* from the *ground*, it also *dies*. - Similarly, when *man* disconnects from *GOD*, he *dies*. 🔆 *GOD* is our *natural environment*. We were created to *live in HIS presence*. 🔆 We have to be connected to *Him* because only with *Him* does LIFE exist. - Let's stay *connected to GOD*. 🔆 Remember that *water* without *fish* is still *water,* but *fish* without water is *nothing*. 🔆The *soil* *without* the *tree* is still *soil,* but the *tree* without soil is *nothing*. 🔆 *God* *without* *man* is still *God,* but *man* *without GOD* is *nothing*. 🔆 If this message reaches you and you share it with others, that is called: *EVANGELISM*. God Bless You! 🙏🏽
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  • CHURCH MEMBERSHIP ETHICS

    “Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.” – 1 Corinthians 12:27

    Being a faithful and committed church member reflects your love for Christ and maturity as a believer. Church membership is not a mere formality—it is a covenant responsibility before God. Below are essential principles that govern healthy, biblical church membership:

    1. BE A MEMBER OF ONLY ONE CHURCH

    “No one can serve two masters...” – Matthew 6:24
    Being planted in one local church is a mark of loyalty and order. Divided loyalty weakens your spiritual growth and creates confusion. Choose where God has led you, plant yourself there, and flourish. Dual membership is like a divided heart—it brings instability and robs both churches of your full commitment.

    2. RESPECT OTHER CHURCHES

    “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition...” – Philippians 2:3
    Never fish from another church’s pond. Evangelism is about reaching the unsaved, not draining other congregations. God honors soul-winning, not sheep-stealing. Instead of trying to attract members from smaller churches, invest your energy into outreach. Strengthen the Body by building, not by weakening others.

    3. HELP MAKE YOUR CHURCH BETTER

    “Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” – Matthew 6:21
    Every church has room to grow—including yours. Don't jump ship because of imperfections. Be part of the solution. Serve with joy, contribute your gifts, and work with leadership to make things better. God places you in a church not to observe, but to contribute.

    4. STOP LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT CHURCH

    “There is none righteous, no, not one.” – Romans 3:10
    A perfect church doesn’t exist—because people aren’t perfect. The goal isn’t perfection, but progress. Every church is a work in progress, just like you. Rather than chasing perfection, commit to growth and maturity where you are.

    5. MAKING SUGGESTIONS WITH THE RIGHT HEART

    “Let all things be done decently and in order.” – 1 Corinthians 14:40
    As a member, your voice matters. Offer your ideas with humility and a willingness to participate in their implementation. And if leadership doesn’t take them on board, respond with grace. Suggestions are not commands; they are offerings, not ultimatums.

    6. YOUR ACTIONS IMPACT THE BODY

    “If one member suffers, all the members suffer with it.” – 1 Corinthians 12:26
    The church is not a club—it’s a body. Every act of faithfulness or carelessness sends a ripple through the entire congregation. Your absence, presence, encouragement, or discouragement has an effect. Think beyond yourself. You are part of something much bigger.

    7. GIVE TO YOUR LOCAL CHURCH

    “Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse...” – Malachi 3:10
    Your financial giving should support the church that feeds and shepherds you. Supporting other ministries is good, but your first responsibility is your local church. Like eating at one restaurant and paying at another—misplaced giving weakens the house that serves you.

    8. LET YOUR PASTOR OFFICIATE YOUR LIFE EVENTS

    “Let the elders who rule well be counted worthy of double honor...” – 1 Timothy 5:17
    For weddings, dedications, or blessings, involve your own pastor. This shows honor, consistency, and accountability. Your pastor is spiritually responsible for you—so they should be present in your major life milestones.

    9. LEAVE A CHURCH HONORABLY, IF YOU MUST

    “First go and be reconciled to them...” – Matthew 5:24
    If God leads you to another church, do not disappear quietly. Speak to your leaders. Seek peace and receive their blessing. Don't gossip, criticize, or take others with you. Leaving in offense creates spiritual baggage. Leave as a peacemaker, not a troublemaker.

    10. DON’T LEAVE BECAUSE OF CORRECTION

    “If someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently.” – Galatians 6:1
    Rebuke is a sign of care. When your leaders confront your sin, receive it with humility. Running away only hardens your heart and delays growth. True discipleship requires correction. A loving church disciplines because it desires your restoration.

    11. IMPERFECT PASTORS STILL SERVE A PERFECT GOD

    “We have this treasure in jars of clay...” – 2 Corinthians 4:7
    Your pastor will make mistakes. Don’t expect flawless leadership. God uses flawed vessels to accomplish His perfect will. What matters most is their heart for God, not their human limitations. Extend the same grace you want to receive.

    12. DISCIPLESHIP IS NOT A BURDEN—IT’S A BLESSING

    “Go therefore and make disciples...” – Matthew 28:19
    Discipleship is the heartbeat of spiritual maturity. If you are offended by structure, correction, or accountability, ask yourself if you truly want to grow. Emotion is not a good compass—let God’s Word guide your decisions. Growth requires intentional effort and sometimes discomfort.

    LOVE, SERVE, AND BUILD

    “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship...” – Acts 2:42
    Your church is your spiritual family. Love it, serve it, and build it. Your faithfulness strengthens others. Your consistency honors God. Don’t be a visitor in your own house—be a pillar in the house of the Lord.

    Support your church. Celebrate your church. Be the church.

    God bless you!
    CHURCH MEMBERSHIP ETHICS ⛪ “Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.” – 1 Corinthians 12:27 Being a faithful and committed church member reflects your love for Christ and maturity as a believer. Church membership is not a mere formality—it is a covenant responsibility before God. Below are essential principles that govern healthy, biblical church membership: 1. BE A MEMBER OF ONLY ONE CHURCH “No one can serve two masters...” – Matthew 6:24 Being planted in one local church is a mark of loyalty and order. Divided loyalty weakens your spiritual growth and creates confusion. Choose where God has led you, plant yourself there, and flourish. Dual membership is like a divided heart—it brings instability and robs both churches of your full commitment. 2. RESPECT OTHER CHURCHES “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition...” – Philippians 2:3 Never fish from another church’s pond. Evangelism is about reaching the unsaved, not draining other congregations. God honors soul-winning, not sheep-stealing. Instead of trying to attract members from smaller churches, invest your energy into outreach. Strengthen the Body by building, not by weakening others. 3. HELP MAKE YOUR CHURCH BETTER “Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” – Matthew 6:21 Every church has room to grow—including yours. Don't jump ship because of imperfections. Be part of the solution. Serve with joy, contribute your gifts, and work with leadership to make things better. God places you in a church not to observe, but to contribute. 4. STOP LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT CHURCH “There is none righteous, no, not one.” – Romans 3:10 A perfect church doesn’t exist—because people aren’t perfect. The goal isn’t perfection, but progress. Every church is a work in progress, just like you. Rather than chasing perfection, commit to growth and maturity where you are. 5. MAKING SUGGESTIONS WITH THE RIGHT HEART “Let all things be done decently and in order.” – 1 Corinthians 14:40 As a member, your voice matters. Offer your ideas with humility and a willingness to participate in their implementation. And if leadership doesn’t take them on board, respond with grace. Suggestions are not commands; they are offerings, not ultimatums. 6. YOUR ACTIONS IMPACT THE BODY “If one member suffers, all the members suffer with it.” – 1 Corinthians 12:26 The church is not a club—it’s a body. Every act of faithfulness or carelessness sends a ripple through the entire congregation. Your absence, presence, encouragement, or discouragement has an effect. Think beyond yourself. You are part of something much bigger. 7. GIVE TO YOUR LOCAL CHURCH “Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse...” – Malachi 3:10 Your financial giving should support the church that feeds and shepherds you. Supporting other ministries is good, but your first responsibility is your local church. Like eating at one restaurant and paying at another—misplaced giving weakens the house that serves you. 8. LET YOUR PASTOR OFFICIATE YOUR LIFE EVENTS “Let the elders who rule well be counted worthy of double honor...” – 1 Timothy 5:17 For weddings, dedications, or blessings, involve your own pastor. This shows honor, consistency, and accountability. Your pastor is spiritually responsible for you—so they should be present in your major life milestones. 9. LEAVE A CHURCH HONORABLY, IF YOU MUST “First go and be reconciled to them...” – Matthew 5:24 If God leads you to another church, do not disappear quietly. Speak to your leaders. Seek peace and receive their blessing. Don't gossip, criticize, or take others with you. Leaving in offense creates spiritual baggage. Leave as a peacemaker, not a troublemaker. 10. DON’T LEAVE BECAUSE OF CORRECTION “If someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently.” – Galatians 6:1 Rebuke is a sign of care. When your leaders confront your sin, receive it with humility. Running away only hardens your heart and delays growth. True discipleship requires correction. A loving church disciplines because it desires your restoration. 11. IMPERFECT PASTORS STILL SERVE A PERFECT GOD “We have this treasure in jars of clay...” – 2 Corinthians 4:7 Your pastor will make mistakes. Don’t expect flawless leadership. God uses flawed vessels to accomplish His perfect will. What matters most is their heart for God, not their human limitations. Extend the same grace you want to receive. 12. DISCIPLESHIP IS NOT A BURDEN—IT’S A BLESSING “Go therefore and make disciples...” – Matthew 28:19 Discipleship is the heartbeat of spiritual maturity. If you are offended by structure, correction, or accountability, ask yourself if you truly want to grow. Emotion is not a good compass—let God’s Word guide your decisions. Growth requires intentional effort and sometimes discomfort. LOVE, SERVE, AND BUILD “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship...” – Acts 2:42 Your church is your spiritual family. Love it, serve it, and build it. Your faithfulness strengthens others. Your consistency honors God. Don’t be a visitor in your own house—be a pillar in the house of the Lord. Support your church. Celebrate your church. Be the church. God bless you!
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  • *N͟O͟T͟ A͟ C͟O͟I͟N͟C͟I͟D͟E͟N͟C͟E͟!*

    1. *ADULT* has 5 letters,
    so does *YOUTH*.

    2. *PERMANENT* has 9 letters,
    so does *TEMPORARY*.

    3. *GOOD* has 4 letters,
    so does *EVIL*.

    4. *BLACK* has 5 letters,
    so does *WHITE*.

    5. *CHURCH* has 6 letters,
    so does *MOSQUE*.

    6. *BIBLE* has 5 letters,
    so does *QUR'AN*.

    7. *LIFE* has 4 letters,
    so does *DEAD*.

    8. *HATE* has 4 letters,
    so does *LOVE*.

    9. *ENEMIES* has 7 letters,
    so does *FRIENDS*.

    10. *LYING* has 5 letters,
    so does *TRUTH*.

    11. *HURT* has 4 letters,
    so does *HEAL*.

    12. *NEGATIVE* has 8 letters,
    so does *POSITIVE*.

    13. *FAILURE* has 7 letters,
    so does *SUCCESS*.

    14. *BELOW* has 5 letters,
    so does *ABOVE*.

    15. *CRY* has 3 letters,
    so does *JOY*.

    16. *ANGER* has 5 letters,
    so does *HAPPY*.

    17. *RIGHT* has 5 letters,
    so does *WRONG*.

    18. *RICH* has 4 letters,
    so does *POOR*.

    19. *FAIL* has 4 letters,
    so does *PASS*.

    20. *KNOWLEDGE* has 9 letters,
    so does *IGNORANCE*.

    Are they all by *Coincidence?*

    This means *LIFE* is like a double edged sword but the choice we make determines our future.

    *“I LOVE THIS ANALOGY"*.

    - When *GOD* wanted to create *FISH*, He spoke to the *SEA*.

    - When *GOD* wanted to create *TREES*, He spoke to the *EARTH*.

    - But when *GOD* wanted to create *MAN*, He turned to *HIMSELF*.

    - So *GOD* said:
    *"Let Us make man in Our image and likeness"*.

    Note:
    - If you take a *fish* out of the *water*
    it will *die*;
    And when you remove a *tree* from the *ground*, it also *dies*.

    - Similarly, when *man* disconnects from *GOD*, he *dies*.

    *GOD* is our *natural environment*.
    We were created to *live in HIS presence*.

    We have to be connected to *Him* because only with *Him* does LIFE exist.

    - Let's stay *connected to GOD*.

    Remember that *water* without *fish* is still *water,* but *fish* without water is *nothing*.

    The *soil* *without* the *tree* is still *soil,* but the *tree* without soil is *nothing*.

    *God* *without* *man* is still *God,* but *man* *without GOD* is *nothing*.

    If this message reaches you and you share it with others, that is called:
    *EVANGELISM*.

    God Bless You! 🙏🏽
    *N͟O͟T͟ A͟ C͟O͟I͟N͟C͟I͟D͟E͟N͟C͟E͟!* 1. *ADULT* has 5 letters, so does *YOUTH*. 2. *PERMANENT* has 9 letters, so does *TEMPORARY*. 3. *GOOD* has 4 letters, so does *EVIL*. 4. *BLACK* has 5 letters, so does *WHITE*. 5. *CHURCH* has 6 letters, so does *MOSQUE*. 6. *BIBLE* has 5 letters, so does *QUR'AN*. 7. *LIFE* has 4 letters, so does *DEAD*. 8. *HATE* has 4 letters, so does *LOVE*. 9. *ENEMIES* has 7 letters, so does *FRIENDS*. 10. *LYING* has 5 letters, so does *TRUTH*. 11. *HURT* has 4 letters, so does *HEAL*. 12. *NEGATIVE* has 8 letters, so does *POSITIVE*. 13. *FAILURE* has 7 letters, so does *SUCCESS*. 14. *BELOW* has 5 letters, so does *ABOVE*. 15. *CRY* has 3 letters, so does *JOY*. 16. *ANGER* has 5 letters, so does *HAPPY*. 17. *RIGHT* has 5 letters, so does *WRONG*. 18. *RICH* has 4 letters, so does *POOR*. 19. *FAIL* has 4 letters, so does *PASS*. 20. *KNOWLEDGE* has 9 letters, so does *IGNORANCE*. Are they all by *Coincidence?* This means *LIFE* is like a double edged sword but the choice we make determines our future. *“I LOVE THIS ANALOGY"*. - When *GOD* wanted to create *FISH*, He spoke to the *SEA*. - When *GOD* wanted to create *TREES*, He spoke to the *EARTH*. - But when *GOD* wanted to create *MAN*, He turned to *HIMSELF*. - So *GOD* said: *"Let Us make man in Our image and likeness"*. Note: - If you take a *fish* out of the *water* it will *die*; And when you remove a *tree* from the *ground*, it also *dies*. - Similarly, when *man* disconnects from *GOD*, he *dies*. 🔆 *GOD* is our *natural environment*. We were created to *live in HIS presence*. 🔆 We have to be connected to *Him* because only with *Him* does LIFE exist. - Let's stay *connected to GOD*. 🔆 Remember that *water* without *fish* is still *water,* but *fish* without water is *nothing*. 🔆The *soil* *without* the *tree* is still *soil,* but the *tree* without soil is *nothing*. 🔆 *God* *without* *man* is still *God,* but *man* *without GOD* is *nothing*. 🔆 If this message reaches you and you share it with others, that is called: *EVANGELISM*. God Bless You! 🙏🏽
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  • I Met Him in Church… But I Didn't Know the Devil Also Wore Suits."

    I thought the safest place to meet a good man was the house of God.
    I thought wrong.

    When I met Samuel, I was 25 and deeply broken.

    I had just come out of a toxic relationship — the kind that leaves you doubting your own worth, your own beauty, your own intelligence.

    I needed healing.
    I needed God.

    So when Samuel found me crying quietly after service one evening, and offered me his handkerchief, I thought:

    > "Maybe this is how God gives second chances."

    He was everything a "church man" should be.

    Well-dressed.

    Well-spoken.

    Bible study leader.

    Quoting scriptures like breathing air.

    He never missed midweek service.
    He always led prayer sessions with fire.
    People respected him.
    Pastor adored him.

    And somehow... he adored me.

    He courted me “the godly way.”

    No kissing.
    No touching.
    No secret sleepovers.

    Just prayers, fasting, long conversations about our future.

    He would say:

    > "Let’s make heaven together, baby."

    I believed him.

    I introduced him to my family.

    He knelt down before my parents and said:

    > "I will honor her. I will cherish her. I will protect her in Christ."

    My father cried that day.

    My mother started sewing Aso-Ebi for a wedding that hadn’t even been proposed yet.

    Everyone said I was lucky.

    That I had found a rare gem.

    Three months to our introduction, things started changing.

    Little things.

    He started picking on my dressing.

    > "That skirt is too tight. Godly women are modest."

    He started controlling who I could talk to.

    > "Your best friend is too worldly. She’s a distraction."

    He started monitoring my social media.

    > "Why are men liking your posts? Delete it."

    I thought it was love.
    I thought it was protection.

    I didn’t know it was the first signs of a cage.

    Then came the financial requests.

    First, it was ₦20,000 to “sow a seed” into a new church project.

    Then ₦50,000 because his car broke down on the way to evangelism.

    Then ₦100,000 because his younger brother needed urgent school fees — "and as his future wife," he said, "our burdens are shared."

    I drained my savings without blinking.

    Because isn't that what Proverbs 31 women do?
    Support their men in times of need?

    Besides, he always said:

    > "God will bless you double."

    I was sowing into my future, I thought.

    I was watering the garden of marriage, I thought.

    One night, two weeks to our traditional wedding, I visited him unannounced.

    I just wanted to surprise him.

    Bring him some food.
    Maybe wash his clothes.
    Be a good fiancée.

    The door was locked.
    I knocked.

    He came out half-naked.

    Another woman was inside.
    Wearing my favorite Ankara wrapper.

    Cooking in his kitchen.

    She looked me dead in the eyes and said:

    > "Who are you?"

    I couldn’t speak.
    My tongue glued itself to my grief.

    Samuel pulled me outside roughly and whispered:

    > "Don't embarrass me. She's my real fiancée. You were just... spiritual support."

    Just.
    Spiritual.
    Support.

    Six months of prayers.
    Six months of fasting.
    Six months of giving.

    For what?

    For another woman to wear my wrapper?
    For another woman to sleep in the bed I helped pay rent for?

    He blocked me the next day.

    Changed churches.

    Moved on.

    I found out later he had three other women from three other churches he was "courting" at the same time.

    Different rings.
    Different promises.
    Same lies.

    I thought the pain would kill me.

    I thought my chest would split open from heartbreak.

    I questioned God:

    > "Was I not faithful enough?
    Was I not prayerful enough?
    Was I not good enough?"

    But the more I wept, the clearer it became:

    It wasn't about me.
    It was about him.

    Some men use the name of God as camouflage.
    They speak in tongues, but their hearts speak in manipulation.
    They sing worship songs, but their souls are tuned to destruction.

    Today, I am healing.

    Slowly.

    Learning that God is good, even when people are wicked.

    Learning that real love doesn't control, it cherishes.
    Real love doesn't use, it protects.
    Real love doesn’t need a stage and a microphone — it’s humble, it’s patient, it’s kind.

    Life Lesson:

    Don’t confuse spirituality with character.

    Don’t let your love for God blind you to red flags waving like banners.

    And never, ever surrender your mind just because someone carries a Bible louder than you.

    Love should feel like peace — not war.
    Not confusion.
    Not fear.

    Today, I still believe in love.
    I still believe in God.

    But now, I know better:

    > Even the devil can wear suits.
    Even the devil can preach sermons.

    Test spirits.
    Test hearts.
    Test character.

    Before you hand over your heart.

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    #HealingIsAMiracle #ChurchGirlDiaries #LoveAndLessons #RealLifeStories #GuardYourHeart
    I Met Him in Church… But I Didn't Know the Devil Also Wore Suits." I thought the safest place to meet a good man was the house of God. I thought wrong. When I met Samuel, I was 25 and deeply broken. I had just come out of a toxic relationship — the kind that leaves you doubting your own worth, your own beauty, your own intelligence. I needed healing. I needed God. So when Samuel found me crying quietly after service one evening, and offered me his handkerchief, I thought: > "Maybe this is how God gives second chances." He was everything a "church man" should be. Well-dressed. Well-spoken. Bible study leader. Quoting scriptures like breathing air. He never missed midweek service. He always led prayer sessions with fire. People respected him. Pastor adored him. And somehow... he adored me. He courted me “the godly way.” No kissing. No touching. No secret sleepovers. Just prayers, fasting, long conversations about our future. He would say: > "Let’s make heaven together, baby." I believed him. I introduced him to my family. He knelt down before my parents and said: > "I will honor her. I will cherish her. I will protect her in Christ." My father cried that day. My mother started sewing Aso-Ebi for a wedding that hadn’t even been proposed yet. Everyone said I was lucky. That I had found a rare gem. Three months to our introduction, things started changing. Little things. He started picking on my dressing. > "That skirt is too tight. Godly women are modest." He started controlling who I could talk to. > "Your best friend is too worldly. She’s a distraction." He started monitoring my social media. > "Why are men liking your posts? Delete it." I thought it was love. I thought it was protection. I didn’t know it was the first signs of a cage. Then came the financial requests. First, it was ₦20,000 to “sow a seed” into a new church project. Then ₦50,000 because his car broke down on the way to evangelism. Then ₦100,000 because his younger brother needed urgent school fees — "and as his future wife," he said, "our burdens are shared." I drained my savings without blinking. Because isn't that what Proverbs 31 women do? Support their men in times of need? Besides, he always said: > "God will bless you double." I was sowing into my future, I thought. I was watering the garden of marriage, I thought. One night, two weeks to our traditional wedding, I visited him unannounced. I just wanted to surprise him. Bring him some food. Maybe wash his clothes. Be a good fiancée. The door was locked. I knocked. He came out half-naked. Another woman was inside. Wearing my favorite Ankara wrapper. Cooking in his kitchen. She looked me dead in the eyes and said: > "Who are you?" I couldn’t speak. My tongue glued itself to my grief. Samuel pulled me outside roughly and whispered: > "Don't embarrass me. She's my real fiancée. You were just... spiritual support." Just. Spiritual. Support. Six months of prayers. Six months of fasting. Six months of giving. For what? For another woman to wear my wrapper? For another woman to sleep in the bed I helped pay rent for? He blocked me the next day. Changed churches. Moved on. I found out later he had three other women from three other churches he was "courting" at the same time. Different rings. Different promises. Same lies. I thought the pain would kill me. I thought my chest would split open from heartbreak. I questioned God: > "Was I not faithful enough? Was I not prayerful enough? Was I not good enough?" But the more I wept, the clearer it became: It wasn't about me. It was about him. Some men use the name of God as camouflage. They speak in tongues, but their hearts speak in manipulation. They sing worship songs, but their souls are tuned to destruction. Today, I am healing. Slowly. Learning that God is good, even when people are wicked. Learning that real love doesn't control, it cherishes. Real love doesn't use, it protects. Real love doesn’t need a stage and a microphone — it’s humble, it’s patient, it’s kind. Life Lesson: Don’t confuse spirituality with character. Don’t let your love for God blind you to red flags waving like banners. And never, ever surrender your mind just because someone carries a Bible louder than you. Love should feel like peace — not war. Not confusion. Not fear. Today, I still believe in love. I still believe in God. But now, I know better: > Even the devil can wear suits. Even the devil can preach sermons. Test spirits. Test hearts. Test character. Before you hand over your heart. --- #HealingIsAMiracle #ChurchGirlDiaries #LoveAndLessons #RealLifeStories #GuardYourHeart
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  • Welcome to the era of traditional evangelism
    Welcome to the era of traditional evangelism
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  • Attention!!!
    Great message from the servant of God
    *SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX, Yes SEX you heard me very well!!*
    Don't just play holiness and complain...read this- to-»»END
    *PASTOR W. F. KUMUYI MESSAGE TO THE CHURCHES*
    I slept around 10:20pm, not quite long after laying on the bed, I heard God calling Me Audibly So I Woke Up. When I Checked My Time, It Was 11:30P.M. Suddenly, I Felt The Urge To Pray So I Left The Bedroom To The sitting room & started Praying._
    _All Of A Sudden, My Eyes Opened And I Was In Another Realm. I Saw An Array Of Ladies Both Young And Old, Very Beautiful, Coming From The Sea Side. And I Asked God; Who Are These?_ And He Said, _*"These Are Marine Spirits That Have Been Commissioned By The Devil To Drag Many To The Kingdom Of Darkness. His Time Is Almost Up And He Has Vowed To Cause Many To Fall"*_. I Asked, Why Women? He Responded, _*"They Are Not Really Women But Are Evil Spirits That Have Taken A Feminine Form."*_
    _So I Asked; What Is Their Mission And He Said, See! All Of A Sudden I Saw, People Having Sex. What Amazed Me Was That Some Were Having Sex By The Wayside, Some In Bushes, Some On Beaches, Some In Offices And In Open Places. So, I Asked Why?_ And He Said _*"These Are Sent To Spread Lust And Cause Many To Fall Into The Sin Of Fornication."*_ He Said, *"Very Soon, Fornication Will Be Legalized."*
    *"The Spirits Are Meant To Befriend Many Young Ladies, Show Them Care And Eventually Initiate Them To Be Used By The Enemy."* _I Saw Many Young Ladies. Unsuspecting Ladies Being Initiated And As Soon As They Were Initiated, They Had An Insatiable Desire For Sex._
    _I Also Saw Sugar Mummies Luring Young Men With Money And Cars. Right After Sleeping With Them, They Are Gone._
    _I Saw New Dresses Being Introduced. Dresses That Expose All Parts Of The Body. In Fact, I Saw A Very Fair Lady That Was Almost Naked. About 3 Quarter Of Her Breast Was Exposed And The Dress She Wore Was Very Transparent That One Could Virtually See Her Nakedness. Then I Saw Many People Buying These Dresses; Skimpy Short Skirts And Transparent Leggings And Blouses That Expose The Cleavage. Bleaching Of The Skin Was On The Rise. I Saw Them Pouring Potions On The Eye To Lure Men With Their Eyes_.
    *"Tell The Church To Watch"*, He Said. *"They Will Try To Enter The Church, Target Pastors And Members, Especially From Choirs."* _I Saw Members Of The Church Being Possessed And Sleeping With Each Other_.
    _*Amazingly,*_ _I Saw Two Ladies In A Particular Choir That Were Lesbians. Then I Saw Men Of God Sleeping With Members. Some Slept With Members Before They Mounted Pulpits._
    _I Saw That Pastors Are Battling Within Because There Is Not Just A Crack But An Opening On The Wall. Satan Has Entered Their Lives. Some Were Caught In The Web Of Pornography And Masturbation._
    _In Fact, I Saw A Particular Pastor Watching Pornography And Masturbating In His Room. To Him The Room Was Locked And He Thought No One Was Seeing Him But I Saw That The Wall To His Room Facing The Public Was Broken And People Were Watching Him Without His Knowledge. And God Said To Me_ *"Whatever Is Being Done In Secret Is Already Open."*
    _I Also Saw Women Becoming Unsubmissive And Disrespectful To Their Husbands And This Act Frustrated Husbands To Fall Prey To These Spirits When They Left Home._
    _I Saw Many Being Manipulated Through Food And Clothes. And I Saw Many Chains As Well. And He Said To Me,_ *"These Are Chains Of Addiction That Has Kept Many People In Sexual Bondage."*
    _Some Women Were Showering Enchanted Gifts To Pastors And Were Gradually Changing Their Status._
    *"Tell My People To Stay Within The Boundaries Of My Word. Let Them Not Depart From Them. Tell Them To Watch And Pray. Let Them Be Focused On Me And This Will Help Them Avoid Every Distraction Of The Enemy."*
    BITTER TRUTH: -
    Believed It Or Not, Accept It Or Not.
    You Can Be In Deeper Life Bible Church And Your Life Can Still Be Shallow And Deep In Sin.*_
    _*You Can Attend The Redeemed Christian Church Of God And Yet Your Life Remains Unredeemed.*_
    _*You Can Be A Member Of Winner's Chapel And Still Be A Slave Of Sin, Fulfilling All It's Lusts Till You Die.*_
    _*You Can Be In Mountain Of Fire Ministries And Your Life Is Still In The Valley Of Lukewarmness And Spiritual Coldness.*_
    _*You Can Be Among The Salvation Army And Still Suffer Defeat; Not Knowing What It Means To Be Saved From Sin*_.
    _*You Can Be In Christ Embassy And Still Be Working Directly As Satan's Immoral Ambassador In His Evil Embassy.*_
    _*You Can Be In Dunamis And Yet You Remain Powerless Spiritually, Lacking Basic Grace!*_
    _*You Can Attend The Lord's Chosen Church And Yet Be Among The Rejected Many.*_
    _*You Can Speak In Tongues And Miss Heaven.*_
    _*You Can "Win Souls" And Miss Heaven.*_
    _*You Can See Vision And Miss Heaven*_.
    _*You Can Cast Out Devil And Miss Heaven.*_
    _*You Can Perform Miracles And Still Miss Heaven.*_
    _*You Can Read The Whole Bible And Miss Heaven.*_
    _*You Can Attend All Fellowship Activities And Camp meetings And Miss Heaven.*_
    _*You Can Have Anointing And Miss Heaven*_.
    _*You Can Have All Spiritual Gifts And Miss Heaven*_.
    _You Can Wield Power And Unction And Still Miss Heaven._
    _*But You CANNOT Live A HOLY LIFE AND MISS HEAVEN....*_
    _*HOLINESS IS THE REAL DEAL !*_
    _Thanks For Your Attention._
    _Forwarding This Post Is Evangelism_.
    _Please Take A Part In It And Forward To Contacts Or Groups.....mind u I'm not holy.
    May God help us not to miss heaven at the end of this life in Jesus name
    Attention!!! Great message from the servant of God *SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX, Yes SEX you heard me very well!!* Don't just play holiness and complain...read this- to-»»END *PASTOR W. F. KUMUYI MESSAGE TO THE CHURCHES* I slept around 10:20pm, not quite long after laying on the bed, I heard God calling Me Audibly So I Woke Up. When I Checked My Time, It Was 11:30P.M. Suddenly, I Felt The Urge To Pray So I Left The Bedroom To The sitting room & started Praying._ _All Of A Sudden, My Eyes Opened And I Was In Another Realm. I Saw An Array Of Ladies Both Young And Old, Very Beautiful, Coming From The Sea Side. And I Asked God; Who Are These?_ And He Said, _*"These Are Marine Spirits That Have Been Commissioned By The Devil To Drag Many To The Kingdom Of Darkness. His Time Is Almost Up And He Has Vowed To Cause Many To Fall"*_. I Asked, Why Women? He Responded, _*"They Are Not Really Women But Are Evil Spirits That Have Taken A Feminine Form."*_ _So I Asked; What Is Their Mission And He Said, See! All Of A Sudden I Saw, People Having Sex. What Amazed Me Was That Some Were Having Sex By The Wayside, Some In Bushes, Some On Beaches, Some In Offices And In Open Places. So, I Asked Why?_ And He Said _*"These Are Sent To Spread Lust And Cause Many To Fall Into The Sin Of Fornication."*_ He Said, *"Very Soon, Fornication Will Be Legalized."* *"The Spirits Are Meant To Befriend Many Young Ladies, Show Them Care And Eventually Initiate Them To Be Used By The Enemy."* _I Saw Many Young Ladies. Unsuspecting Ladies Being Initiated And As Soon As They Were Initiated, They Had An Insatiable Desire For Sex._ _I Also Saw Sugar Mummies Luring Young Men With Money And Cars. Right After Sleeping With Them, They Are Gone._ _I Saw New Dresses Being Introduced. Dresses That Expose All Parts Of The Body. In Fact, I Saw A Very Fair Lady That Was Almost Naked. About 3 Quarter Of Her Breast Was Exposed And The Dress She Wore Was Very Transparent That One Could Virtually See Her Nakedness. Then I Saw Many People Buying These Dresses; Skimpy Short Skirts And Transparent Leggings And Blouses That Expose The Cleavage. Bleaching Of The Skin Was On The Rise. I Saw Them Pouring Potions On The Eye To Lure Men With Their Eyes_. *"Tell The Church To Watch"*, He Said. *"They Will Try To Enter The Church, Target Pastors And Members, Especially From Choirs."* _I Saw Members Of The Church Being Possessed And Sleeping With Each Other_. _*Amazingly,*_ _I Saw Two Ladies In A Particular Choir That Were Lesbians. Then I Saw Men Of God Sleeping With Members. Some Slept With Members Before They Mounted Pulpits._ _I Saw That Pastors Are Battling Within Because There Is Not Just A Crack But An Opening On The Wall. Satan Has Entered Their Lives. Some Were Caught In The Web Of Pornography And Masturbation._ _In Fact, I Saw A Particular Pastor Watching Pornography And Masturbating In His Room. To Him The Room Was Locked And He Thought No One Was Seeing Him But I Saw That The Wall To His Room Facing The Public Was Broken And People Were Watching Him Without His Knowledge. And God Said To Me_ *"Whatever Is Being Done In Secret Is Already Open."* _I Also Saw Women Becoming Unsubmissive And Disrespectful To Their Husbands And This Act Frustrated Husbands To Fall Prey To These Spirits When They Left Home._ _I Saw Many Being Manipulated Through Food And Clothes. And I Saw Many Chains As Well. And He Said To Me,_ *"These Are Chains Of Addiction That Has Kept Many People In Sexual Bondage."* _Some Women Were Showering Enchanted Gifts To Pastors And Were Gradually Changing Their Status._ *"Tell My People To Stay Within The Boundaries Of My Word. Let Them Not Depart From Them. Tell Them To Watch And Pray. Let Them Be Focused On Me And This Will Help Them Avoid Every Distraction Of The Enemy."* BITTER TRUTH: - Believed It Or Not, Accept It Or Not. You Can Be In Deeper Life Bible Church And Your Life Can Still Be Shallow And Deep In Sin.*_ _*You Can Attend The Redeemed Christian Church Of God And Yet Your Life Remains Unredeemed.*_ _*You Can Be A Member Of Winner's Chapel And Still Be A Slave Of Sin, Fulfilling All It's Lusts Till You Die.*_ _*You Can Be In Mountain Of Fire Ministries And Your Life Is Still In The Valley Of Lukewarmness And Spiritual Coldness.*_ _*You Can Be Among The Salvation Army And Still Suffer Defeat; Not Knowing What It Means To Be Saved From Sin*_. _*You Can Be In Christ Embassy And Still Be Working Directly As Satan's Immoral Ambassador In His Evil Embassy.*_ _*You Can Be In Dunamis And Yet You Remain Powerless Spiritually, Lacking Basic Grace!*_ _*You Can Attend The Lord's Chosen Church And Yet Be Among The Rejected Many.*_ _*You Can Speak In Tongues And Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can "Win Souls" And Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can See Vision And Miss Heaven*_. _*You Can Cast Out Devil And Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can Perform Miracles And Still Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can Read The Whole Bible And Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can Attend All Fellowship Activities And Camp meetings And Miss Heaven.*_ _*You Can Have Anointing And Miss Heaven*_. _*You Can Have All Spiritual Gifts And Miss Heaven*_. _You Can Wield Power And Unction And Still Miss Heaven._ _*But You CANNOT Live A HOLY LIFE AND MISS HEAVEN....*_ _*HOLINESS IS THE REAL DEAL !*_ _Thanks For Your Attention._ _Forwarding This Post Is Evangelism_. _Please Take A Part In It And Forward To Contacts Or Groups.....mind u I'm not holy. May God help us not to miss heaven at the end of this life in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏🙏
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  • The coming of the Son of Man is a call to evangelism and outreach. Share the Gospel with others and spread the message of salvation. #TheComingOfTheSonOfMan #CallToEvangelism #Motivation
    The coming of the Son of Man is a call to evangelism and outreach. Share the Gospel with others and spread the message of salvation. #TheComingOfTheSonOfMan #CallToEvangelism #Motivation ‎
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  • The Urgency of Evangelism: Sharing the Gospel with Others

    If you miss heaven, you'll cry, and that cry will be a result of the regret that comes with not sharing the Gospel with others. As believers, we have a responsibility to share the Good News with those around us. Let's take the urgency of evangelism seriously and make every effort to share the Gospel with others. #Evangelism #Gospel #Heaven
    The Urgency of Evangelism: Sharing the Gospel with Others If you miss heaven, you'll cry, and that cry will be a result of the regret that comes with not sharing the Gospel with others. As believers, we have a responsibility to share the Good News with those around us. Let's take the urgency of evangelism seriously and make every effort to share the Gospel with others. #Evangelism #Gospel #Heaven
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  • CONGRATULATIONS TO THE LORD'S CHOSEN for the acquisition of Two Helicopters & 1 Private jet .

    Lord Chosen Church General Overseer Pastor Lazarus Muoka acquires Bombardier Challenger 604 Private Jet

    The church also acquired two helicopters, 5N-BDM and 5N-BDK, EC135s from Genesis Aviation.

    The new helicopters and the private jet were acquired for evangelism purposes and to convert more souls for God according to the Church Authorities

    CONGRATULATIONS 🎉 TO THE LORD'S CHOSEN for the acquisition of Two Helicopters & 1 Private jet . Lord Chosen Church General Overseer Pastor Lazarus Muoka acquires Bombardier Challenger 604 Private Jet The church also acquired two helicopters, 5N-BDM and 5N-BDK, EC135s from Genesis Aviation. The new helicopters and the private jet were acquired for evangelism purposes and to convert more souls for God according to the Church Authorities
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