She was drowning.
And nobody noticed…
Nobody, except her.

It was June 2022, at the World Championships in Budapest.
Anita Álvarez, an American artistic swimmer with Mexican roots, was performing a flawless routine.
But when her performance ended… she didn’t come up for air.

She had lost consciousness.
Her body floated for a few seconds, then began to sink.
Slowly. All the way to the bottom of the pool.

The audience didn’t notice. Neither did the judges.
Everyone was clapping.

But her coach, Andrea Fuentes, noticed.
She knew Anita—knew exactly how long it took her to surface.
She felt in her heart that something was wrong.

Without thinking twice, she dove in.
Fully dressed. Shoes and all.

She swam straight down, grabbed Anita by the waist,
and brought her back up.
She saved her life.

This story left me thinking…

Who knows you well enough to notice when you’re not okay, even if you’re still smiling?
Who would dive in for you without hesitation when you no longer have the strength to come up for air?

And more importantly…

Would you be that person for someone else?
Are you present enough in your loved ones’ lives to sense the moment they start to sink?
Or are you just another spectator, clapping, not realizing that inside, they’re fading?

In this life, we all need someone who doesn’t just see us—
but truly notices us.
Someone who knows when we’re about to give up,
and has the courage to jump in and save us.

HOW TO LOVE AND HELP YOUR HUSBAND 👱‍♀

An excellent wife is the crown of her husband." - Proverbs 12:4

1. **Respect Him Unconditionally.**

Listen to him and ask for his opinion. Value his advice and follow his guidance. Men have a deep need for respect, so show it in your tone of voice during conversations and how you approach him, especially when you disagree. Ensure your children respect their dad in the same way. Prioritize him over the children and teach them to do the same. Let him know his thoughts matter and that you truly value his input.

2. **Accept Your Husband as Your Spiritual Leader.**

Men are created to lead the family, which doesn’t imply that women are any less significant. It means God has equipped men with certain skills to effectively guide their families. As stated in Ephesians 5:22-23, “the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church.”

Accepting your husband as your spiritual leader involves recognizing and supporting his role in guiding the family’s spiritual life. Allow him to lead in prayer, Bible study, and spiritual decisions while also contributing your own insights to enrich your family’s faith journey. If he’s struggling in this area, offer your support and encourage him to seek guidance from trusted sources or professional help if necessary.

3. **Listen More.**

Engage and listen when he speaks. While you might want to make him smile, your willingness to listen can be even more impactful.

4. **Be the Best Version of Yourself.**

Show love by striving to become the best person you can be. Your happiness will positively affect your husband’s well-being too.

5. **Contribute Financially.**

Marriage is teamwork; be willing to share your financial resources to help pay the bills. Avoid being stingy with your money.

6. **Be Caring and Compassionate.**

Support him when he has a bad day or celebrate with him on a good day. Show your love and care without waiting for him to get sick or need assistance. Simple gestures like a cup of coffee in bed or a cuddle can mean a lot.

7. **Support His Dreams.**

Be flexible and willing to sacrifice for your husband’s goals. A supportive wife allows a man to push his limits and achieve success. Stand by him as a team, working together toward daily routines and long-term ambitions.

8. **Love Him Unconditionally.**

Be there for him through good times and bad, demonstrating unwavering love.

9. **Give Small Gifts.**

Make your husband feel special every day, not just on special occasions.

10. **Maintain His Wardrobe.**

Wash and iron his clothes, including underwear.

11. **Celebrate His Achievements.**

Recognize and celebrate his successes, no matter how small.

12. **Discipline Your Children Together.**

Avoid saying, “I will report you to your daddy.” Work as a team in parenting.

13. **Spend Money Wisely.**

Utilize any money he gives you judiciously, showing you value his contributions.

14. **Submit to Him** as your lord and king.

15. **Pray for Him Regularly.**

Let him know you’re praying for his well-being, demonstrating care for his spiritual life.

16. **Comfort and Console Him.**

Be there to provide strength and support whenever he needs it.

17. **Be Intimate.**

Prioritize your physical relationship and do not neglect your s€xual intimacy.

18. **Keep a Clean Home.**

Maintain a tidy and organized living space.

19. **Prepare Timely Meals.**

Ensure he is fed and nourished regularly.

20. **Show Appreciation.**

Praise him and express gratitude. Encouragement can motivate him to go the extra mile for you.

21. **Make Him Laugh.**

Lighten the mood by making him laugh daily.

**COUPLES WHO HELP EACH OTHER CAN NEVER BE HELPLESS**

You will not fail in marriage, in Jesus' name.

Please share this message with your loved ones.

Be courageous

I remember standing there... just outside the church.

The music had started.

People were already seated.

And inside, my brother... was waiting to marry the woman I thought I’d spend my life with.

My hands were shaking.

But not from fear.

From rage.

See... I had nothing left to lose.

They’d already taken everything.

My home.

My business.

My future.

And now... they were walking down the aisle to dance on the grave of what used to be my life.

So I walked in.

Straight down the center aisle.

Past the gasps... the whispers... the stares.

I looked my brother in the eye.

Then I turned to her.

She was dressed in white, like a queen about to ascend her throne.

And I smiled.

That kind of smile you give when the final piece of a long, brutal chess game finally clicks into place.

“You forgot one thing,” I said, loud enough for everyone to hear.

They froze.

“You forgot... I always finish what I start.”

And then... I handed him the small black envelope.

“Enjoy the honeymoon,” I whispered.

I turned around... and walked out.

But the silence behind me?

That said everything.

Now... I know what you’re thinking.

What the hell happened?

Why would my own brother marry my fiancée?

Why did I lose everything?

And what the hell was in that envelope?

Well... to understand all that...

You have to go back.

Back to where it all began.

Before the betrayal.

Before the fall.

Before I learned what family really means.

And trust me...

It gets worse before it gets better.

Way worse.

It started like all tragedies do...

With everything going right.

I had just turned 30.

My business was finally taking off.

I ran a boutique renovation company—nothing fancy, but we had loyal clients, steady referrals, and a crew that felt like family.

I was engaged to the kind of woman you plan your whole future around.

Her name was Nadia.

She was smart.

Gorgeous.

The kind of presence that could light up a room without even trying.

We met at a charity event—funny enough, hosted by my younger brother, Marcus.

He was the “golden boy” of the family.

The one who never failed.

The one who got the praise, even when he didn’t deserve it.

But I didn’t mind back then.

I thought we were different.

I worked hard.

He worked crowds.

He was charm.

I was grit.

Nadia and I had been together for three years when I proposed.

She said yes with tears in her eyes.

Everything felt solid.

Real.

I was building a house for us—literally.

It was supposed to be our dream home.

Custom everything.

Her design input was everywhere—from the tiles to the walk-in closet she made me stretch the budget for.

And that? That was fine.

Because I thought we were building a life.

But here's the thing about building.

You can’t always see the cracks right away.

Sometimes... you don’t even know you’re living inside a structure that’s already collapsing... until the day the whole damn thing comes down on top of you.

The first crack?

It was small.

Barely even noticeable.

Marcus started showing up more often.

At first, it made sense—he said he wanted to invest in real estate.

Asked questions about the renovation business.

Wanted to “learn.”

I was flattered, honestly.

He was the high-flyer—finance, PR, the whole deal.

For him to take interest in my little company?

It felt like respect.

And Nadia?

She encouraged it.

She said it was good for us to have more family involved.

Said Marcus had “great instincts.”

Said he was “such a people person.”

I didn’t think anything of it...

Not yet.

But looking back?

That was the first move on a chessboard I didn’t even realize I was standing on.

Because what came next...

Was the slow, surgical dismantling of everything I loved.

It started with a client.

A simple kitchen remodel in the suburbs.

The kind of job we’d done a dozen times before.

Only this time... something felt off.

The client—Mrs. Greene—called me directly.

She was upset.

Said my crew had walked off the job halfway through the week.

Said she hadn’t seen anyone in days.

Now, that didn’t make sense.

We ran a tight schedule.

My foreman, Luis, was meticulous.

So I drove down to the site myself.

And what I found?

Nothing.

No crew.

No tools.

No materials.

It looked abandoned.

So I called Luis.

Straight to voicemail.

I called the supplier.

He told me the last two invoices—both for that site—had been canceled.

Canceled.

By someone named... Marcus.

I felt the air punch out of my lungs.

Why would Marcus be touching supplier accounts?.... Continue to story on the comment section

On the occasion of my beloved wife, Titi's 75th birthday anniversary celebrations, I am proud to say that I couldn't have married a better wife. Titi and I got married against our parents' wishes in the most daring way, with no family members, with only two friends.

Today, we have been married for more than 50 years. Titi has been a blessing beyond measure to me and our family. I don't know how we started calling ourselves Mummy and Daddy.

I thank her for being patient with my shortcomings. Patience is a virtue you can never regret. I encourage spouses to continue to be patient with each other.

I wish Titi many more years of bliss and blessings. -AA

They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth.

If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day.

People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one.

- Nancy Isime

They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth.

If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day.

People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one.

- Nancy Isime

They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth.

If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day.

People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one.

- Nancy Isime

They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth.

If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day.

People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one.

- Nancy Isime