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  • I remember standing there... just outside the church.

    The music had started.

    People were already seated.

    And inside, my brother... was waiting to marry the woman I thought I’d spend my life with.

    My hands were shaking.

    But not from fear.

    From rage.

    See... I had nothing left to lose.

    They’d already taken everything.

    My home.

    My business.

    My future.

    And now... they were walking down the aisle to dance on the grave of what used to be my life.

    So I walked in.

    Straight down the center aisle.

    Past the gasps... the whispers... the stares.

    I looked my brother in the eye.

    Then I turned to her.

    She was dressed in white, like a queen about to ascend her throne.

    And I smiled.

    That kind of smile you give when the final piece of a long, brutal chess game finally clicks into place.

    “You forgot one thing,” I said, loud enough for everyone to hear.

    They froze.

    “You forgot... I always finish what I start.”

    And then... I handed him the small black envelope.

    “Enjoy the honeymoon,” I whispered.

    I turned around... and walked out.

    But the silence behind me?

    That said everything.

    Now... I know what you’re thinking.

    What the hell happened?

    Why would my own brother marry my fiancée?

    Why did I lose everything?

    And what the hell was in that envelope?

    Well... to understand all that...

    You have to go back.

    Back to where it all began.

    Before the betrayal.

    Before the fall.

    Before I learned what family really means.

    And trust me...

    It gets worse before it gets better.

    Way worse.

    It started like all tragedies do...

    With everything going right.

    I had just turned 30.

    My business was finally taking off.

    I ran a boutique renovation company—nothing fancy, but we had loyal clients, steady referrals, and a crew that felt like family.

    I was engaged to the kind of woman you plan your whole future around.

    Her name was Nadia.

    She was smart.

    Gorgeous.

    The kind of presence that could light up a room without even trying.

    We met at a charity event—funny enough, hosted by my younger brother, Marcus.

    He was the “golden boy” of the family.

    The one who never failed.

    The one who got the praise, even when he didn’t deserve it.

    But I didn’t mind back then.

    I thought we were different.

    I worked hard.

    He worked crowds.

    He was charm.

    I was grit.

    Nadia and I had been together for three years when I proposed.

    She said yes with tears in her eyes.

    Everything felt solid.

    Real.

    I was building a house for us—literally.

    It was supposed to be our dream home.

    Custom everything.

    Her design input was everywhere—from the tiles to the walk-in closet she made me stretch the budget for.

    And that? That was fine.

    Because I thought we were building a life.

    But here's the thing about building.

    You can’t always see the cracks right away.

    Sometimes... you don’t even know you’re living inside a structure that’s already collapsing... until the day the whole damn thing comes down on top of you.

    The first crack?

    It was small.

    Barely even noticeable.

    Marcus started showing up more often.

    At first, it made sense—he said he wanted to invest in real estate.

    Asked questions about the renovation business.

    Wanted to “learn.”

    I was flattered, honestly.

    He was the high-flyer—finance, PR, the whole deal.

    For him to take interest in my little company?

    It felt like respect.

    And Nadia?

    She encouraged it.

    She said it was good for us to have more family involved.

    Said Marcus had “great instincts.”

    Said he was “such a people person.”

    I didn’t think anything of it...

    Not yet.

    But looking back?

    That was the first move on a chessboard I didn’t even realize I was standing on.

    Because what came next...

    Was the slow, surgical dismantling of everything I loved.

    It started with a client.

    A simple kitchen remodel in the suburbs.

    The kind of job we’d done a dozen times before.

    Only this time... something felt off.

    The client—Mrs. Greene—called me directly.

    She was upset.

    Said my crew had walked off the job halfway through the week.

    Said she hadn’t seen anyone in days.

    Now, that didn’t make sense.

    We ran a tight schedule.

    My foreman, Luis, was meticulous.

    So I drove down to the site myself.

    And what I found?

    Nothing.

    No crew.

    No tools.

    No materials.

    It looked abandoned.

    So I called Luis.

    Straight to voicemail.

    I called the supplier.

    He told me the last two invoices—both for that site—had been canceled.

    Canceled.

    By someone named... Marcus.

    I felt the air punch out of my lungs.

    Why would Marcus be touching supplier accounts?.... Continue to story on the comment section
    I remember standing there... just outside the church. The music had started. People were already seated. And inside, my brother... was waiting to marry the woman I thought I’d spend my life with. My hands were shaking. But not from fear. From rage. See... I had nothing left to lose. They’d already taken everything. My home. My business. My future. And now... they were walking down the aisle to dance on the grave of what used to be my life. So I walked in. Straight down the center aisle. Past the gasps... the whispers... the stares. I looked my brother in the eye. Then I turned to her. She was dressed in white, like a queen about to ascend her throne. And I smiled. That kind of smile you give when the final piece of a long, brutal chess game finally clicks into place. “You forgot one thing,” I said, loud enough for everyone to hear. They froze. “You forgot... I always finish what I start.” And then... I handed him the small black envelope. “Enjoy the honeymoon,” I whispered. I turned around... and walked out. But the silence behind me? That said everything. Now... I know what you’re thinking. What the hell happened? Why would my own brother marry my fiancée? Why did I lose everything? And what the hell was in that envelope? Well... to understand all that... You have to go back. Back to where it all began. Before the betrayal. Before the fall. Before I learned what family really means. And trust me... It gets worse before it gets better. Way worse. It started like all tragedies do... With everything going right. I had just turned 30. My business was finally taking off. I ran a boutique renovation company—nothing fancy, but we had loyal clients, steady referrals, and a crew that felt like family. I was engaged to the kind of woman you plan your whole future around. Her name was Nadia. She was smart. Gorgeous. The kind of presence that could light up a room without even trying. We met at a charity event—funny enough, hosted by my younger brother, Marcus. He was the “golden boy” of the family. The one who never failed. The one who got the praise, even when he didn’t deserve it. But I didn’t mind back then. I thought we were different. I worked hard. He worked crowds. He was charm. I was grit. Nadia and I had been together for three years when I proposed. She said yes with tears in her eyes. Everything felt solid. Real. I was building a house for us—literally. It was supposed to be our dream home. Custom everything. Her design input was everywhere—from the tiles to the walk-in closet she made me stretch the budget for. And that? That was fine. Because I thought we were building a life. But here's the thing about building. You can’t always see the cracks right away. Sometimes... you don’t even know you’re living inside a structure that’s already collapsing... until the day the whole damn thing comes down on top of you. The first crack? It was small. Barely even noticeable. Marcus started showing up more often. At first, it made sense—he said he wanted to invest in real estate. Asked questions about the renovation business. Wanted to “learn.” I was flattered, honestly. He was the high-flyer—finance, PR, the whole deal. For him to take interest in my little company? It felt like respect. And Nadia? She encouraged it. She said it was good for us to have more family involved. Said Marcus had “great instincts.” Said he was “such a people person.” I didn’t think anything of it... Not yet. But looking back? That was the first move on a chessboard I didn’t even realize I was standing on. Because what came next... Was the slow, surgical dismantling of everything I loved. It started with a client. A simple kitchen remodel in the suburbs. The kind of job we’d done a dozen times before. Only this time... something felt off. The client—Mrs. Greene—called me directly. She was upset. Said my crew had walked off the job halfway through the week. Said she hadn’t seen anyone in days. Now, that didn’t make sense. We ran a tight schedule. My foreman, Luis, was meticulous. So I drove down to the site myself. And what I found? Nothing. No crew. No tools. No materials. It looked abandoned. So I called Luis. Straight to voicemail. I called the supplier. He told me the last two invoices—both for that site—had been canceled. Canceled. By someone named... Marcus. I felt the air punch out of my lungs. Why would Marcus be touching supplier accounts?.... Continue to story on the comment section
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  • On the occasion of my beloved wife, Titi's 75th birthday anniversary celebrations, I am proud to say that I couldn't have married a better wife. Titi and I got married against our parents' wishes in the most daring way, with no family members, with only two friends.

    Today, we have been married for more than 50 years. Titi has been a blessing beyond measure to me and our family. I don't know how we started calling ourselves Mummy and Daddy.

    I thank her for being patient with my shortcomings. Patience is a virtue you can never regret. I encourage spouses to continue to be patient with each other.

    I wish Titi many more years of bliss and blessings. -AA

    On the occasion of my beloved wife, Titi's 75th birthday anniversary celebrations, I am proud to say that I couldn't have married a better wife. Titi and I got married against our parents' wishes in the most daring way, with no family members, with only two friends. Today, we have been married for more than 50 years. Titi has been a blessing beyond measure to me and our family. I don't know how we started calling ourselves Mummy and Daddy. I thank her for being patient with my shortcomings. Patience is a virtue you can never regret. I encourage spouses to continue to be patient with each other. I wish Titi many more years of bliss and blessings. -AA
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  • They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth.

    If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day.

    People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one.

    - Nancy Isime
    They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth. If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day. People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one. - Nancy Isime
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  • They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth.

    If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day.

    People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one.

    - Nancy Isime
    They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth. If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day. People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one. - Nancy Isime
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  • They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth.

    If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day.

    People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one.

    - Nancy Isime
    They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth. If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day. People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one. - Nancy Isime
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  • They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth.

    If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day.

    People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one.

    - Nancy Isime
    They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth. If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day. People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one. - Nancy Isime
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  • They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth.

    If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day.

    People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one.

    - Nancy Isime
    They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth. If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day. People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one. - Nancy Isime
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  • They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth.

    If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day.

    People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one.

    - Nancy Isime
    They say Edo girls are hard to handle, it’s a very big lie. We are some of the most loving, loyal, and emotionally intelligent women you’ll ever meet. Yes, we’re bold and we don’t take nonsense. But that doesn’t mean we’re difficult. It just means we know our worth. If you ever win the heart of an Edo girl, you’ll know what true love and support feels like. She’ll go above and beyond to make sure you’re happy, cared for, and constantly encouraged. Whether it’s through her words, actions, or sacrifices, you’ll feel it every day. People often mistake confidence for pride, and strength for arrogance. But deep down, we are soft lovers with golden hearts. We love hard, we stay loyal, and we protect what’s ours. So next time you hear someone say “Edo girls are tough, smile and say, You’ve clearly never been loved by one. - Nancy Isime
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  • PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE

    THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START

    - Bishop David Oyedepo

    While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."

    He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."
    PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."
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  • PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE

    THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START

    - Bishop David Oyedepo

    While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."

    He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."
    PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."
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  • PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE

    THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START

    - Bishop David Oyedepo

    While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."

    He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."
    PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."
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