Some of you are not dating to connect — you're dating to collect.
Collect sex. Collect attention. Collect ego points.

You’re not building anything.
You’re just two bored, broke people sexting and stress-testing each other’s boundaries.

You can’t hold a conversation.
You don’t ask real questions.
You don’t know what books they read, what fears they carry, or what they dream about.
But you’ve already been in bed—3 times.
That’s not dating. That’s bad customer service.

Whatever happened to good old connection?

Go out.
Sit down.
Ask them about their childhood, not just their body count.
Be interested. Be curious. Be present.

Because if you’re broke, horny, and spiritually confused…
Don’t drag someone’s daughter into your emotional chaos and call it a relationship.

Sex without depth is just noise.
You’re sleeping with people you don’t even like.
You don’t respect them. You don’t understand them. You just got used to their presence.

Maybe that’s why it feels empty every time.

And ladies — if all he ever wants to do is “chill at your place,”
He’s not courting you.
He’s squatting.

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I see you—the way you keep showing up even when it feels like nothing is moving, when the weight of everything you’ve been hoping and praying for feels heavier than usual.

I know the quiet battles you fight, the little wins you keep to yourself, the days when simply getting out of bed is an act of courage. You’re not just working hard; you’re holding on, staying soft in a world that often feels too loud and too fast. And that takes a kind of strength most people don’t see, but I do.

I want you to know that every small step matters. Every time you choose to keep going, even with tired eyes and a heart full of questions, you are building the life you dream of. It might not feel like it yet, but nothing you’re doing is wasted. I’m proud of you—not just for your progress, but for your persistence. For your faith, even when the answers don’t come. One day, it will all make sense. But for now, just know that who you are, and how you keep going, is already something to celebrate.....

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