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God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

"Zodwa and the Revelation Dress

In the heart of Soweto, one Sunday morning, chaos was brewing not in the church, but in the house of Brother Thabo.

He stood by the door, arms crossed, eyes wide like a goat seeing a lion.
Zodwa, his wife, came out of the bedroom wearing something that looked more like nightclub leftovers than church clothes. It was tight, short, and shiny like a tomato trying to wear a serviette.

Thabo shouted, Zodwa Are you going to church dressed like that

Zodwa didn’t even blink. She flipped her wig, adjusted her tiny yellow dress, and said, Our pastor said we must not hide anything from God. So, I’m going with everything exposed

Thabo nearly collapsed. "But this is not revelation, this is distraction.You want Pastor to forget John 3:16 and focus on your legs

Zodwa clapped back, Thabo, you wore the same church shirt for 3 years. Maybe if you also revealed your fashion sense, God would answer your prayer for a job

Even the neighbour’s chicken stopped to listen.

At church, Zodwa walked in like Beyoncé on Holy Spirit. Ushers dropped their offering baskets. The women gasped. One elder fainted. The pastor had to pause his sermon and say, Let's pray... again

Till today, the church renamed that Sunday as Exposition Sunday. And Thabo? He now escorts Zodwa to church holding a wrapper just in case.

Women of God Who are Single they are to Submit to God

'''He is our Husband Isaiah 54:5 "For thy Maker is thine husband"
Proverbs 16:3:''' 🙏🏿🙇🏿

"Commit your works to the LORD, and your plans will succeed"
James 4:7: "🙏🏿🙇🏿

"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"🙏🏿🙇🏿

To live a pure unselfish life, one must count nothing as one's own in the midst of abundance.

As the day comes to a close, take a moment to reflect on your journey. Celebrate your victories, learn from your challenges, and let go of any burdens. Tonight, rest in the peace of knowing you've done your best, and tomorrow brings new opportunities to grow and shine.

Every man hopes to have a good woman by his side, but many don’t realize that women with genuine hearts come with real, powerful emotions. They feel everything deeply, love with intensity, and give their whole heart to the people they care about. A good woman is loyal to the core, but her tender heart means she can also become frustrated, hurt, or emotional when something doesn’t feel right. This isn’t a sign of weakness. it’s simply because she cares so deeply. Sure, she might have her moody days, but one thing is certain: when a good woman loves you, it’s a rare, precious kind of love. It’s a love you won’t find anywhere else. Value it.

Let love meet logic. "I love you" is fantastic but you need food and a place to rest your head.

WHY YOUR SALARY IS NEVER ENOUGH?

“Expenses always rise to match income.”
That’s Parkinson’s Law.
And it’s silently sabotaging millions of good people every payday.

You used to survive on $300.
Then you got a raise to $500. Suddenly, your life demands $500… plus $50 in debt.

You didn’t upgrade your investments.
You upgraded your wardrobe, the car you drive, the neighborhood you stay, your DSTV bouquet and your taste.

So now…
You’re earning more, but feeling poorer.
You’ve got a better phone, but no emergency fund. You live in a better flat, but can’t survive two months without a salary.

That’s the trap.
The more money you earn, the more your lifestyle expands to swallow it.

Parkinson’s Law turns your salary from seed into smoke. The key word is 'salary'. Conditions surrounding the salary embed a very dangerous mindset.

- You MUST fight lifestyle inflation. Upon getting a raise, don't change anything in your life, rather save 100% of the extra for one year.

- it's ok, if suddenly you look like the poorest at your workplace, but begin to lend workmates money collecting interest (20% minimum). Look for people with problems and help them. Teach everyone depend on you for emergencies. You will be surprised that soon, your boss's name will also be in your books inspite of his/her big paycheck. He/she has suddenly become your servant.

- being among people who think a certain way can be your greatest blessing. Make sure the entire company raise finds its way to your pocket. Never feel bad doing this because you are actually helping them.

- then start a second side hustle quietly and begin making money. Ensure that your side hustle doesn't affect your work. In the meantime, you MUST master delayed gratification.

Do you see that every time your salary increases, you have two choices?
1. Look richer.
2. Become wealthier.

One is for likes.
The other is for legacy.

Don’t let Parkinson’s Law keep you broke with a bigger paycheck. Beat it by planting your salary, not spending your harvest before it grows.

Be wiser than your appetite.

#Your network creates your networth
#SalaryIsSeed

Today is my 38th birthday no husband no kid i break my cake by myself

I am not always strong. Sometimes, I still cry when I'm alone. I still fall apart in every corner of my room. I break whenever somebody hurts me, and nobody knows how hard it is for me. Everybody thought I was okay, but the truth is, I also need someone to hold me when everything goes wrong. I also need someone who will listen to me when I'm having a bad day. I don't want to feel alone; I need someone to keep me safe in his arms whenever I feel like everything is falling apart. You see, people might never see how sad I am, and they might never see how tired I am right now because I always choose to pick myself up every time my world is crashing down. But I swear, I've been through a lot of sufferíng that It don't even deserve, and I no longer want to pretend that I am fine.

I've had enough.

—Shiori X
Art by: hessah._.art (IG) | used with permission

Never give up in life believe ur dreams and it will come to pass.