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At a university, a professor asked his students: "If there are four birds on a tree and three of them decided to fly away, how many are left on the tree?"
Everyone answered, "One."
They were surprised when one student disagreed and said, "Four birds remain." This caught everyone's attention.
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The professor asked him: "How so?"
He replied: "You said they decided to fly, but you didn't say they actually flew. Making a decision doesn't mean taking action."
And indeed, that was the correct answer.
This story reflects the lives of some people — they have many slogans and catchy words, and they shine in gatherings and among friends, but in reality, their lives don’t reflect those words.
Many people talk, but only a few act..!
Making a (decision) is one thing...
Taking (action) is something else entirely.
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20 LIES WOMEN USE TO CONTROL MEN — AND WHY MOST MEN NEVER SEE THEM COMING
INTRO MESSAGE: Most men don’t get destroyed by one big betrayal.
They get chipped away little by little — by words disguised as care, guilt wrapped as love, and manipulation dressed up as “concern.”
You start doubting your instincts.
You stop enforcing your standards.
You let things slide.
And before you know it…
You’re a shell of who you used to be.
This isn’t about blaming women.
It’s about seeing the game for what it is and refusing to be a pawn.
Here’s the raw truth most men never hear:
BRUTAL THREAD:
1️⃣ “You’re overthinking it.”
A classic gaslight. It makes you doubt your gut so she can set the narrative.
2️⃣ “All my exes were toxic.”
If everyone she dated was a demon, she’s either lying, the problem, or both.
3️⃣ “I’ve never felt this way before.”
Translation: Let me hit you with intense love bombing so you won’t notice the games later.
4️⃣ “Why ruin this with labels?”
She wants the benefits of loyalty without the burden of accountability.
5️⃣ “You’re too good for me.”
Fake vulnerability that pressures you to work harder for her bare minimum.
6️⃣ “I need time to figure things out.”
Stalling tactic. She’s buying time while keeping you hooked.
7️⃣ “I don’t want to ruin our friendship.”
She wants boyfriend benefits without boyfriend responsibility.
8️⃣ “I didn’t mean it like that.”
A get-out-of-jail-free card to avoid owning her words or actions.
9️⃣ “You’re insecure.”
A way to shame you into silence when you question shady behavior.
“You should trust me.”
Trust is earned, not demanded. Red flag when there’s nothing to back it up.
1️⃣1️⃣ “I’ve never done this before.”
Faking innocence so you’ll excuse reckless behavior.
1️⃣2️⃣ “I just want communication.”
Many don’t want truth — they want ammo. Watch what you give them.
1️⃣3️⃣ “I was just busy.”
Once is life. Repeatedly is a pattern. Don’t ignore patterns.
1️⃣4️⃣ “I would never do that to you.”
If you didn’t accuse her, why’s she defending herself? Unprompted means something’s up.
1️⃣5️⃣ “My phone died.”
Phones die. Batteries recharge. Patterns don’t lie.
1️⃣6️⃣ “You’re so much better than my ex.”
Flattery disguised as manipulation. Now you’re competing with a ghost.
1️⃣7️⃣ “My last relationship really hurt me.”
Her pain isn’t your burden. You’re not her therapist.
1️⃣8️⃣ “I don’t care about money.”
Wait ‘til the expectations creep in. Watch actions, not cheap words.
1️⃣9️⃣ “I’m fine.”
Passive-aggressive silence to make you chase and fold first.
2️⃣0️⃣ “I’m not like other girls.”
Every manipulator swears she’s different. Real quality never needs to announce itself.
FINAL WARNING:
Every man has two choices: Wake up and take control of his mind, standards, and peace.
Or get quietly dismantled by subtle lies and fake sweetness disguised as love.
This isn’t about bitterness. It’s about wisdom.
A man who stands on his truth — unshaken, unmanipulated, and unapologetic — becomes untouchable in a world that profits off weak men.
Guard your mind. Respect your instincts. Enforce your standards.
Your peace is non-negotiable.
➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅20 LIES WOMEN USE TO CONTROL MEN — AND WHY MOST MEN NEVER SEE THEM COMING INTRO MESSAGE: Most men don’t get destroyed by one big betrayal. They get chipped away little by little — by words disguised as care, guilt wrapped as love, and manipulation dressed up as “concern.” You start doubting your instincts. You stop enforcing your standards. You let things slide. And before you know it… You’re a shell of who you used to be. This isn’t about blaming women. It’s about seeing the game for what it is and refusing to be a pawn. Here’s the raw truth most men never hear: BRUTAL THREAD: 1️⃣ “You’re overthinking it.” A classic gaslight. It makes you doubt your gut so she can set the narrative. 2️⃣ “All my exes were toxic.” If everyone she dated was a demon, she’s either lying, the problem, or both. 3️⃣ “I’ve never felt this way before.” Translation: Let me hit you with intense love bombing so you won’t notice the games later. 4️⃣ “Why ruin this with labels?” She wants the benefits of loyalty without the burden of accountability. 5️⃣ “You’re too good for me.” Fake vulnerability that pressures you to work harder for her bare minimum. 6️⃣ “I need time to figure things out.” Stalling tactic. She’s buying time while keeping you hooked. 7️⃣ “I don’t want to ruin our friendship.” She wants boyfriend benefits without boyfriend responsibility. 8️⃣ “I didn’t mean it like that.” A get-out-of-jail-free card to avoid owning her words or actions. 9️⃣ “You’re insecure.” A way to shame you into silence when you question shady behavior. 🔟 “You should trust me.” Trust is earned, not demanded. Red flag when there’s nothing to back it up. 1️⃣1️⃣ “I’ve never done this before.” Faking innocence so you’ll excuse reckless behavior. 1️⃣2️⃣ “I just want communication.” Many don’t want truth — they want ammo. Watch what you give them. 1️⃣3️⃣ “I was just busy.” Once is life. Repeatedly is a pattern. Don’t ignore patterns. 1️⃣4️⃣ “I would never do that to you.” If you didn’t accuse her, why’s she defending herself? Unprompted means something’s up. 1️⃣5️⃣ “My phone died.” Phones die. Batteries recharge. Patterns don’t lie. 1️⃣6️⃣ “You’re so much better than my ex.” Flattery disguised as manipulation. Now you’re competing with a ghost. 1️⃣7️⃣ “My last relationship really hurt me.” Her pain isn’t your burden. You’re not her therapist. 1️⃣8️⃣ “I don’t care about money.” Wait ‘til the expectations creep in. Watch actions, not cheap words. 1️⃣9️⃣ “I’m fine.” Passive-aggressive silence to make you chase and fold first. 2️⃣0️⃣ “I’m not like other girls.” Every manipulator swears she’s different. Real quality never needs to announce itself. FINAL WARNING: Every man has two choices: Wake up and take control of his mind, standards, and peace. Or get quietly dismantled by subtle lies and fake sweetness disguised as love. This isn’t about bitterness. It’s about wisdom. A man who stands on his truth — unshaken, unmanipulated, and unapologetic — becomes untouchable in a world that profits off weak men. Guard your mind. Respect your instincts. Enforce your standards. Your peace is non-negotiable. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅0 Comments 0 Shares 193 Views -
SOMETIMES THE PROBLEM IS YOUR MOUTH
We often talk too much, sharing more than we should. We expose our lives, our business, and even the intimate details of our marriages. But in doing so, we risk making ourselves vulnerable to harm. Remember, a person who knows nothing about you can never truly hurt you.
Not every success needs to be shared. Some victories are for you to enjoy in private, without the need for validation or praise from others.
Be mindful of how much you reveal. Not everyone who smiles at you is your friend. People can change, and the friend you trust today might become your adversary tomorrow.
Take Joseph’s story, for example. His dreams could have remained safe if he had kept his mouth shut. He wouldn't have been sold into slavery by his own brothers if he had practiced discretion.
A fish that keeps its mouth closed will never get caught. The same principle applies to our lives. Keep your thoughts, plans, and ambitions to yourself until the time is right.
Share your growth and success with wisdom. Not every coworker is a friend, and not everyone who congratulates you wishes you well. Be careful who you trust, and set healthy boundaries in all areas of your life.
Don't let a lack of wisdom cost you your job or your marriage. Protect your peace, and safeguard your relationships with discretion.
Remember, there’s power in silence, and sometimes saying less can lead to more.
Enjoy your weekend, and stay wise.
I wish you all love and peace.
https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vak8fCV9xVJbSFCiGN1KSOMETIMES THE PROBLEM IS YOUR MOUTH We often talk too much, sharing more than we should. We expose our lives, our business, and even the intimate details of our marriages. But in doing so, we risk making ourselves vulnerable to harm. Remember, a person who knows nothing about you can never truly hurt you. Not every success needs to be shared. Some victories are for you to enjoy in private, without the need for validation or praise from others. Be mindful of how much you reveal. Not everyone who smiles at you is your friend. People can change, and the friend you trust today might become your adversary tomorrow. Take Joseph’s story, for example. His dreams could have remained safe if he had kept his mouth shut. He wouldn't have been sold into slavery by his own brothers if he had practiced discretion. A fish that keeps its mouth closed will never get caught. The same principle applies to our lives. Keep your thoughts, plans, and ambitions to yourself until the time is right. Share your growth and success with wisdom. Not every coworker is a friend, and not everyone who congratulates you wishes you well. Be careful who you trust, and set healthy boundaries in all areas of your life. Don't let a lack of wisdom cost you your job or your marriage. Protect your peace, and safeguard your relationships with discretion. Remember, there’s power in silence, and sometimes saying less can lead to more. Enjoy your weekend, and stay wise. I wish you all love and peace. https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vak8fCV9xVJbSFCiGN1K0 Comments 0 Shares 185 Views -
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Loving a Hard-Working Man Isn’t Always Easy, But It’s Worth It
Being in a relationship with a hard-working man is not for every woman.
Some women today are drawn to men who don’t have clear goals,
Because they are always around, always free, and always available.
But just because someone has free time doesn't mean they have a plan.
A hard-working man may not always be available.
He might not be able to talk all day, go out every night, or text back right away.
But that doesn’t mean he loves you any less.
In fact, it means he’s out there trying to build a future for both of you.
There will be days where he comes home completely worn out.
He may barely have the energy to eat, shower, or even talk much.
And you might feel like he’s distant.
But what he’s really doing is showing his love through action, not just words.
This man is fighting silent battles every day.
He’s pushing through tired mornings and long nights,
Just so you can one day live a life of peace and comfort.
He isn’t trying to ignore you , he’s trying to provide for you.
He may not be dressed in fancy clothes,
His hands may be rough, and his shirt may have stains.
But his heart is gold.
And his love is deep, loyal, and steady.
So don’t take him for granted.
Don’t compare him to others who have time but no purpose.
Because when life gets hard, this is the kind of man you want by your side
One who works hard, stays loyal, and never stops trying for the people he loves.
Here’s to the men who show their love through effort, not just words.
The men who wake up early, stay out late, and keep going even when they’re tired.
The men who may not say “I love you” every minute,
But show it every single day with all they do.
Respect that kind of man.
Support him.
Appreciate him.
Because one day, you’ll realize
He was building the life you always dreamed of.
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