The older I get, the more I realize that clinginess in a relationship isn’t cute. It’s suffocating. Like, relax. We don’t have to be texting all day, every day. We don’t have to be together 24/7. A healthy relationship doesn’t mean losing yourself to another person. It means growing together while still having your own life. Go out with your friends. Find a hobby. Chase your goals. Do something that doesn’t involve me. The biggest mistake people make in relationships is thinking their partner is supposed to be their entire source of happiness. No, that’s your responsibility. Happiness is an inside job. No relationship can thrive when one or both partners are emotionally dependent on the other for their sense of fulfillment. I love affection. I love deep connections. But I also love my peace, my independence, and my own space to breathe and recharge. And I refuse to feel guilty for that. We should complement each other, not complete each other because we should already be whole.

"You’re going to realize it one day—that happiness was never about your job or your degree or being in a relationship. Happiness was never about following in the footsteps of all of those who came before you; it was never about being like the others. One day, you’re going to see it—that happiness was always about the discovery, the hope, the listening to your heart and following it wherever it chose to go. Happiness was always about being kinder to yourself; it was always about embracing the person you were becoming. One day, you will understand that happiness was always about learning how to live with yourself, that your happiness was never in the hands of others. It was always about you. It was always about you."
- Bianca Sparacino
- Artwork : toohaaarsh

🙋🏻‍♀️ *Do you have trust issues?*

= Sometimes, I'm cautious about who I trust, especially until I get to know them better.

= I believe in earning trust. I tend to be open, but I also observe actions closely before fully investing my trust.

= Not necessarily 'issues,' but I've learned to be discerning. I value honesty and consistency in others.

= I've had experiences that have made me more careful about trusting quickly, but I'm always open to building new connections.

= Honestly, sometimes I struggle with it. Past experiences have made me quite cautious, and it can be hard for me to let my guard down, even with good intentions.

🫴 = I tend to be skeptical at first. It takes a significant amount of time and consistent proof for me to fully trust someone, which can sometimes make it difficult to form new relationships quickly.

🫶 = Yes, I do. I often find myself questioning motives and worrying about being let down. It's something I'm actively working on, as it can hinder forming deeper connections.

🙋🏻‍♀️ *React with emoji & share whom you trust the most.*

Good day everyone in the house !!!

There is a new security threat out there. The first time I heard about it was a few months back when I travelled.

Yesterday, I saw a victim who confirmed to me that it is now in Lagos and probably all over Nigeria.

Summary is when your phone has issues and you want to take it for repairs, go with your own charging cable.

Most, if not all, phone repairers, now buy a cable known as NSA OMG cable (looks like ordinary cable but it is a mini computer that can extract all your data and also extract your screen unlock codes, apps lock codes, OTPs, phone numbers, bvn, to say a few.

You can look this cable up online. It is just like an ordinary charging cable.

I saw it yesterday after a repairer was arrested with it.

Please let us inform family, friends, and even our enemies.

Let's educate our senior citizens, our elders, who may not be tech savvy. The times are hard, may we not lose our hard earned money to these bad eggs in Society.
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Love is sweet

May your heart desires be granted...

Good day everyone in the house !!!

There is a new security threat out there. The first time I heard about it was a few months back when I travelled.

Yesterday, I saw a victim who confirmed to me that it is now in Lagos and probably all over Nigeria.

Summary is when your phone has issues and you want to take it for repairs, go with your own charging cable.

Most, if not all, phone repairers, now buy a cable known as NSA OMG cable (looks like ordinary cable but it is a mini computer that can extract all your data and also extract your screen unlock codes, apps lock codes, OTPs, phone numbers, bvn, to say a few.

You can look this cable up online. It is just like an ordinary charging cable.

I saw it yesterday after a repairer was arrested with it.

Please let us inform family, friends, and even our enemies.

Let's educate our senior citizens, our elders, who may not be tech savvy. The times are hard, may we not lose our hard earned money to these bad eggs in Society.
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Good day everyone in the house !!!

There is a new security threat out there. The first time I heard about it was a few months back when I travelled.

Yesterday, I saw a victim who confirmed to me that it is now in Lagos and probably all over Nigeria.

Summary is when your phone has issues and you want to take it for repairs, go with your own charging cable.

Most, if not all, phone repairers, now buy a cable known as NSA OMG cable (looks like ordinary cable but it is a mini computer that can extract all your data and also extract your screen unlock codes, apps lock codes, OTPs, phone numbers, bvn, to say a few.

You can look this cable up online. It is just like an ordinary charging cable.

I saw it yesterday after a repairer was arrested with it.

Please let us inform family, friends, and even our enemies.

Let's educate our senior citizens, our elders, who may not be tech savvy. The times are hard, may we not lose our hard earned money to these bad eggs in Society.
Shared as copied.

Kindness has a way of coming full cycle.
Show an unselfish kindness today and reap huge later.