*"I want to remember your face so that when I meet you in heaven, I will be able to recognise you and thank you once again."*

When Nigerian billionaire Femi Otedola in a telephone interview, was asked by the radio presenter, "Sir what can you remember made you a happiest man in life?"

Femi said:
"I have gone through four stages of happiness in life and finally I understood the meaning of true happiness."

The first stage was to accumulate wealth and means. But at this stage I did not get the happiness I wanted.

Then came the second stage of collecting valuables and items. But I realised that the effect of this thing is also temporary and the lustre of valuable things does not last long.

Then came the third stage of getting big projects. That was when I was holding 95% of diesel supply in Nigeria and Africa. I was also the largest vessel owner in Africa and Asia. But even here I did not get the happiness I had imagined.

The fourth stage was the time a friend of mine asked me to buy wheelchair for some disabled children. Just about 200 kids.

At the friend's request, I immediately bought the wheelchairs.

But the friend insisted that I go with him and hand over the wheelchairs to the children. I got ready and went with him.

There I gave these wheel chairs to these children with my own hands. I saw the strange glow of happiness on the faces of these children. I saw them all sitting on the wheelchairs, moving around and having fun.

It was as if they had arrived at a picnic spot where they are sharing a jackpot winning.

I felt REAL joy inside me. When I decided to leave one of the kids grabbed my legs. I tried to free my legs gently but the child stared at my face and held my legs tightly.

I bent down and asked the child: Do you need something else?

The answer this child gave me not only made me happy but also changed my attitude to life completely. This child said:
"I want to remember your face so that when I meet you in heaven, I will be able to recognise you and thank you once again."

What would you be remembered for after you leave that office or place?

Will anyone desire to see your face again where it all matters?

*This is a must read piece. It got me thinking. I am sending it to all my friends. I pray it does same to everyone.*

Try to touch lives , God bless you.

*THE 10 ENEMIES OF LIFE*

*1. Fear: Prevents you from seizing opportunities.*
*2. Ignorance: Prevents you from making good decisions.*
*3. Anger: Prevents you from seeing clearly.*
*4. Envy: Prevents you from focusing on yourself.*
*5. Ego: Prevents you from learning from others.*
*6. Doubt: Prevents you from believing yourself and taking risk to follow your dreams.*
*7. Hate: Prevents you from becoming a better person.*
*8. Unforgiveness: Prevents you from living a free person.*
*9. Lying: Prevents people from trusting you.*
*10. Pride: Prevents you from seeing and learning from your mistakes.*

*Check your lifestyle for any of these enemies and deal with it before it deals with you.*

*Lessons for the whole world!*

Sultan Akbar asked Birbal, his grand vizier, to look for four biggest idiots in his kingdom and produce them in his court within a month.

After a month's extensive search operations, Birbal brought to the court only two people!

"But I asked for four", Akbar angrily asked.

"Give me a chance to present them one by one", Birbal pleaded and went on to present his idiots:

"Maharaj, this man, while travelling in a bullock cart, was keeping his luggage on his head so as not to hurt the bullocks. He is the first idiot. *(In corporate parlance , the ones who take all load on themselves and fail to delegate)*

Pointing to the second man Birbal continued, "And this man here is the second idiot. Some grass grew on the roof of his thatched house and he was trying to force his cow to climb up a ladder to graze on it." *( In corporate parlance, these are those who set unrealistic targets and force others to achieve them without realising their capabilities and competency)*

Birbal continued, "Maharaj, there were a lot of important jobs for me to do in the state, but I ignored them and wasted a precious month in search of idiots. According to me I am the third idiot." *( Idiots who rush obediently for wrong job assignments without any qualms)*

Birbal paused here for a moment.

"Who is the fourth idiots?", Akbar thundered.

"Beg your pardon, Sultan", Birbal continued, "You are the King and you are responsible for the well-being of the entire state and its people.

You need wise persons to help you oversee the affairs of the state. Instead of looking for wise people you engaged me to look for idiots. According to me you are the fourth idiot. *( Bad leaders who make poor strategies and want idiots to follow blindly)*

Funnybut very profound.

*Real lessons on strategic leadership.*

Breaking News:

A Magistrate Court in Enugu orders a lady to pay ₦150k For collecting ₦3k Transport Fare from her boyfriend and refused to visit him as promised.

She was arrested by the Nigerian police Enugu state. Enugu magistrate court ordered her to pay her boyfriend,Emeka Nwankwo the sum of ₦150k. Because emeka Nwankwo gave chinasa nwibeh, 3k for Transport money to visit him...
The girl ate the money and switched off her phone.

The boyfriend went to near by police station and reported the case..And she was arrested..

So, the court said she should pay ₦100k with an additional interest and another ₦50k* for emotional damages because the boyfriend was emotionally abused by absence of the girlfriend.Total is ₦150k

The boyfriend, Emeka Nwankwo brought evidence to the court of the mobile money transfer made to her and all the WhatsApp messages they shared.

The Judge in her ruling said this was done to serve as a deterrent to ladies who indulge in such a ****** act

1. Can you sacrifice for someone without expecting anything in return?… It's called selflessness
2. Can you be accountable at all times and be known for who you are?… It's called integrity
3. Can you be there for people even when you’re not in the best shape yourself?… It's called compassion
4. Can you keep doing the right thing even when no one is watching?… It's called character
5. Can you help those who can never repay you?… It's called kindness
6. Can you give your time without seeking recognition?… It's called humility
7. Can you stay true to your values in the face of pressure?… It's called conviction
8. Can you admit when you’re wrong and make amends?… It's called maturity
9. Can you lead others without letting power change you?… It's called servant leadership
10. Can you stay hopeful even when everything seems lost?… It's called faith
11. Can you give without expecting to receive back?… It's called generosity
12. Can you love even when you’re not loved in return?… It's called unconditional love
13. Can you wait without complaining?… It's called patience
14. Can you keep learning despite your achievements?… It's called teachability
15. Can you take correction without being defensive?… It's called openness

16. Can you forgive those who deeply hurt you?… It's called grace
17. Can you stand firm when your peers compromise?… It's called courage
18. Can you celebrate others even when you’re struggling?… It's called sincerity
19. Can you listen to understand and not just to reply?… It's called empathy
20. Can you start again after repeated failures?… It's called resilience
21. Can you be faithful to your partner even when no one is watching?… It's called loyalty
22. Can you stay content while waiting for your time?… It's called contentment
23. Can you be honest even when a lie is easier?… It's called truthfulness
24. Can you stay calm when insulted or provoked?… It's called self-control
25. Can you hold on to your dreams in the face of setbacks?… It's called determination
26. Can you lift others while still climbing?… It's called support
27. Can you work hard without needing praise?… It's called dedication
28. Can you pursue excellence even when it’s hard?… It's called discipline
29. Can you apologize when you are wrong?… It's called humanness
30. Can you walk away from wrong even when it’s popular?… It's called principle

In a world that often rewards showmanship and shortcuts, choosing values like selflessness, integrity, and compassion might seem old-fashioned. But these are the foundations that build lasting legacies. Whether or not anyone is watching, choose the path of strength and character. Do good, be consistent, and let your life speak loudly without needing to shout.

WHAT IS THE WAY TO IMPROVE LIFE?

1).Don’t compare yourself. Everyone has got their own story to tell and so do you.

2).Reading writing, and staying happy with yourself.

3).Establishing boundaries when you need to.

4).Staying positive about what life has got to offer you.

5).Trying out new things every month or so.

6).Keeping up with your health.

7).Not falling victim to bitterness, hate or other negative emotions.

8).Finding peace.
Learning to “just keep swimming” no matter the weather.

9).Accepting people for who and what they are. Accepting yourself.

10).Learning something new every day even if its teeny tiny.

11).“Be a friend to get a friend”

12).Keeping your home clean.

13).Whether your surround yourself with many people or none is up to you.

14).Do what makes you feel good about your life.

15).Don’t follow protocol but do stay disciplined.

16).Last but not least, stand up for yourself. Don’t let people’s opinions rule over your life.
Good morning!!
Cheers!!!

One can ask in prayer from GOD that one shall be able to assist others, because through assisting others one learns oneself.ln teaching others one learns oneself.ln saving others one saves oneself.one has to give before one can receive.One has to give of oneself, given of one's compassion,of one's mercy, until one is able to give of oneself.One is not able to receive from others.One cannot obtain mercy without first showing mercy,one cannot obtain understanding without first having, given understanding to the problem of others.!!!
Good morning and enjoyed your day

A Female Professor was invited for a lecture and the topic she chose to talk about was polygamy.

She talked on the benefits of polygamy, why women should embrace it and support their husbands towards achieving it.

As she kept emphasising on this topic, a lady from the audience raised her hand, stood up and introduced herself before speaking.

Lady: "Professor, I really appreciate this topic because am relieved of my fear, I never knew you are this simple and understanding. Your message has given me the opportunity to open up to you,"

She cleared her throat and continued....

"I have been married to your husband for the past four years, and between us, we have a set of twins "

To the greatest surprise of all in the hall, the Professor fainted and was rushed to the hospital.

After she was revived, she opened her eyes to see same lady standing by her bedside.

Lady: Professor I don't know who your husband is.
I just lied to you to see if you can handle what you preach to others. Next time, please speak on subjects that you are good at. Don’t stand up on a stage and throw your thoughts around just because you have the title professor in front of your name.

*LESSION*
Teach what you can practice!!!!!

*THE DISTILLED ESSENCE OF ALL THAT WE LEARN UPON EARTH IS THAT WHICH MAKES US WHAT WE ARE GOING TO BE IN THE NEXT LIFE*
*THE MORE GOOD YOU DO TO OTHERS,THE MORE YOU GAIN YOURSELF*

HAPPY CHILDREN DAY

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**Learn to endure hunger now.Learn fortitude now.Learn always to have a positive approach now, for during your life you will know hunger and suffering: They will be your constant companions.There are many Who harm you,many Who will attempt to drag you down to their level.Only by a positive mind-always positive -; will survive and surmount all these trails and tribulations which inexorably will be yours.
Now is the time to learn. ALWAYS in the time to practice what you learn now,so long as you have faith,so long as you are POSITIVE then you can endure the worst assault of the enemy.*!!!

*The first question which the priest and levite asked was; lf I stop to help this man what will happen to me? But the good Samaritan reversed the question ,lf I do not stop to help this man, what will happen to him?*

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