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Poor Waitress Received Huge Tips from a Man, but Later Learned Why He Did It
On the outskirts of the city, in a quiet and peaceful area, there was a small establishment called “Ugolok” (“Corner”). This place didn’t aim to be popular among the trendy crowd but primarily attracted locals with its homely atmosphere. Aline had been working there for three years.
On the eve of a new workday, the girl methodically wiped down the tables, lost in anxious thoughts about the upcoming rent payments. Her financial situation had grown increasingly difficult since her mother’s passing. She had to pick up extra shifts, and her long-cherished dream of obtaining higher education was gradually slipping away.
“Alina, wake up! The guests will be here soon,” came the voice of Zina, the experienced older cook.
Aline snapped to attention and headed to the kitchen. Strict but fair, Zina always treated her warmly, feeding her during meals and sometimes even giving her pastries.
“I’m coming, Zina Petrovna!” Aline replied, adjusting her apron.
The day passed slowly: guests arrived and left the café while she continued with her duties—taking orders, engaging cordially with customers, and serving food. By the end of the day, her legs reminded her of the long hours of work.
When there wasn’t much time left before closing, the door creaked open, and a man in an impeccable suit entered. His expensive accessories, especially his watch, indicated considerable wealth. He chose a seat by the window, pulled out his phone, and began typing quickly.
Approaching with her notepad, Aline politely inquired about his order. The man looked up, and a flash of surprise appeared in his eyes, as if he recognized someone from the past.
“Bring a double espresso,” he said, continuing to scrutinize the girl intently.
This somewhat embarrassed her. She hurriedly noted the order while still feeling his intense gaze.
At the checkout, Aline noticed a large banknote tucked under the receipt—she had never received such generous tips before. When she tried to return the money, all she heard was a soft phrase: “Keep it, you deserve it.”
The following days passed in the same monotonous pattern: the man would come, order coffee, and leave generous tips. Zina Petrovna, noticing the continual gifts of fate, asked with concern, “What does that gentleman want from you?”
“I have no idea,” Aline shrugged. “He just comes in, drinks his coffee, and leaves the money.”
“Be careful, girl,” warned the cook. “Rich men don’t throw around such acts of charity.”
Indeed, the man made no attempts to initiate conversation or display any ill intentions. He simply came, observed, and left generous sums.
One evening, he left an amount equal to Aline’s monthly earnings. Unable to contain herself, she caught up with him in the parking lot.
“Wait!” she exclaimed, holding the money in her hands. “What does all this mean?”
The man turned, and in the glow of the streetlights, his face looked tired.
“My name is Pavel Andreevich,” he said after a pause. “Let’s meet tomorrow at the café ‘Melodiya’. There, I will explain everything.”
“Why?” Aline asked in surprise.
“I’ll explain tomorrow,” he replied as he opened his car. “After work. This is important for both of us.”
She spent the entire night sleeplessly, mulling over the possible reasons for such generosity. In the morning, she called a friend, recounting the strange man and the upcoming meeting.
“Are you out of your mind?” her friend exclaimed in fear. “What if he’s a dangerous person?”
“In such a suit?” Aline smiled.
“Even more reason!” her friend retorted. “Send me the address, text me his photo, and call every half hour!”
After work, Aline headed to “Melodiya”, where Pavel Andreevich was already waiting for her at a table in the corner.
“Hello,” she began, sitting down across from him. “Enough with the riddles. Explain yourself.”
Pavel Andreevich sighed, his hands noticeably trembling.
“I’ll start right away… Read the continuation in the commentsPoor Waitress Received Huge Tips from a Man, but Later Learned Why He Did It On the outskirts of the city, in a quiet and peaceful area, there was a small establishment called “Ugolok” (“Corner”). This place didn’t aim to be popular among the trendy crowd but primarily attracted locals with its homely atmosphere. Aline had been working there for three years. On the eve of a new workday, the girl methodically wiped down the tables, lost in anxious thoughts about the upcoming rent payments. Her financial situation had grown increasingly difficult since her mother’s passing. She had to pick up extra shifts, and her long-cherished dream of obtaining higher education was gradually slipping away. “Alina, wake up! The guests will be here soon,” came the voice of Zina, the experienced older cook. Aline snapped to attention and headed to the kitchen. Strict but fair, Zina always treated her warmly, feeding her during meals and sometimes even giving her pastries. “I’m coming, Zina Petrovna!” Aline replied, adjusting her apron. The day passed slowly: guests arrived and left the café while she continued with her duties—taking orders, engaging cordially with customers, and serving food. By the end of the day, her legs reminded her of the long hours of work. When there wasn’t much time left before closing, the door creaked open, and a man in an impeccable suit entered. His expensive accessories, especially his watch, indicated considerable wealth. He chose a seat by the window, pulled out his phone, and began typing quickly. Approaching with her notepad, Aline politely inquired about his order. The man looked up, and a flash of surprise appeared in his eyes, as if he recognized someone from the past. “Bring a double espresso,” he said, continuing to scrutinize the girl intently. This somewhat embarrassed her. She hurriedly noted the order while still feeling his intense gaze. At the checkout, Aline noticed a large banknote tucked under the receipt—she had never received such generous tips before. When she tried to return the money, all she heard was a soft phrase: “Keep it, you deserve it.” The following days passed in the same monotonous pattern: the man would come, order coffee, and leave generous tips. Zina Petrovna, noticing the continual gifts of fate, asked with concern, “What does that gentleman want from you?” “I have no idea,” Aline shrugged. “He just comes in, drinks his coffee, and leaves the money.” “Be careful, girl,” warned the cook. “Rich men don’t throw around such acts of charity.” Indeed, the man made no attempts to initiate conversation or display any ill intentions. He simply came, observed, and left generous sums. One evening, he left an amount equal to Aline’s monthly earnings. Unable to contain herself, she caught up with him in the parking lot. “Wait!” she exclaimed, holding the money in her hands. “What does all this mean?” The man turned, and in the glow of the streetlights, his face looked tired. “My name is Pavel Andreevich,” he said after a pause. “Let’s meet tomorrow at the café ‘Melodiya’. There, I will explain everything.” “Why?” Aline asked in surprise. “I’ll explain tomorrow,” he replied as he opened his car. “After work. This is important for both of us.” She spent the entire night sleeplessly, mulling over the possible reasons for such generosity. In the morning, she called a friend, recounting the strange man and the upcoming meeting. “Are you out of your mind?” her friend exclaimed in fear. “What if he’s a dangerous person?” “In such a suit?” Aline smiled. “Even more reason!” her friend retorted. “Send me the address, text me his photo, and call every half hour!” After work, Aline headed to “Melodiya”, where Pavel Andreevich was already waiting for her at a table in the corner. “Hello,” she began, sitting down across from him. “Enough with the riddles. Explain yourself.” Pavel Andreevich sighed, his hands noticeably trembling. “I’ll start right away…📖 Read the continuation in the comments ⬇️0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 100 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
VISION
INTRODUCTION
Vision is the revelation of God’s purpose and plan for a person, a people, a generation, or even an entire nation. It is not ambition. It is not wishful thinking. It is not mere goal-setting. Vision is divine direction birthed by divine encounter. According to Habakkuk 2:2-3 (NKJV): “Write the vision and make it plain on tablets, that he may run who reads it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time; But at the end it will speak, and it will not lie. Though it tarries, wait for it; Because it will surely come, it will not tarry.” This reveals a key truth: NO TRUE VISION SPEAKS AT THE BEGINNING; IT ONLY SPEAKS AT THE END.
WHAT IS VISION?
Vision is the spiritual insight into God’s intended outcome for a life. It is not self-initiated but God-initiated. It is the mental and spiritual picture of your future that propels you with energy, courage, and resilience. Vision is what gives life direction, focus, and purpose. Without it, people live by reaction instead of intention. Proverbs 29:18 (KJV) says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.”
True vision is born out of divine fellowship. It is not created in the boardroom but received in the secret place. Vision is not what you want to do for God, but what God wants to do through you. It is the blueprint of heaven deposited in your spirit, commanding your alignment and action.
KEY FACTS ABOUT VISION
1. TRUE VISION SPEAKS AT THE END, NOT AT THE BEGINNING
When vision first arrives, it often looks ordinary, confusing, or even unrealistic. It rarely comes with applause or clarity. In fact, it often invites criticism, mockery, and rejection. Just like Joseph’s dreams, vision is usually ridiculed before it is respected. In the beginning, it may appear dormant or unachievable. But in the end, it speaks loudly and clearly. Vision is validated by manifestation, not excitement.
2. VISION REQUIRES PROCESSING
Before vision speaks, it processes. The one who receives vision must be processed to match the weight of what God has revealed. Moses had the vision to deliver Israel, but spent 40 years in the wilderness being prepared. Paul encountered Jesus and then spent years in Arabia being equipped. God will never place a heavy vision on an unprocessed vessel. Between revelation and manifestation is preparation.
3. VISION THRIVES ON CHARACTER, NOT JUST CHARISMA
It is not enough to carry power gifts like prophecy, tongues, healing, or discernment. These are important but not sufficient for the fulfillment of vision. The gifts may attract attention, but it is the fruit of the Spirit that sustains destiny. According to Galatians 5:22-23, the fruits of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control are the attributes that preserve the vessel and stabilize the journey.
Many have received genuine visions from God but failed in character and collapsed in the process. Patience and long-suffering are especially critical because vision is a marathon, not a sprint. Without endurance, discouragement will abort destiny.
4. VISION REQUIRES TIME AND SEASONAL DISCERNMENT
Vision is time-sensitive. No matter how accurate a vision is, if you try to manifest it outside of divine timing, it will fail. The power of vision lies in alignment with God’s schedule. Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, “To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” Misjudging seasons leads to premature exposure and failure.
Vision must be walked out step by step, stage by stage. Just as a baby must crawl before walking, vision must mature before manifestation. Each season comes with its test. There is a season of silence, of rejection, of formation, and of visibility. You must discern them all.
5. VISION ATTRACTS ADVERSITY
Every true vision will face opposition. In fact, opposition is one of the strongest validations that your vision is divine. Satan will not fight what is not a threat. Nehemiah’s vision to rebuild the walls of Jerusalem was opposed from every side. Jesus' mission was challenged from infancy to the cross. If your vision is truly of God, expect resistance—but also expect divine backing.
Opposition is not a sign of failure but a test of commitment. Many faint in the day of adversity because their strength is small. Visionaries must be battle-tested, able to withstand storms, delays, betrayals, and discouragement.
6. VISION REQUIRES DISCIPLINE AND FOCUS
Distraction is one of the deadliest enemies of vision. Many start strong but lose focus. Like Peter walking on water, they allow the winds of life to shift their eyes from the Master to the mess. Vision demands saying no to many good things to stay with the God-thing.
It also requires the discipline of time, resources, and relationships. Not every opportunity is a divine instruction. You must guard your heart, your circle, and your energy. Vision flourishes in environments of purity and clarity.
7. VISION REQUIRES COURAGE AND RESILIENCE
Vision will often demand that you walk alone. The early stages of vision may require loneliness, rejection, and misunderstanding. Noah built an ark with no rain in sight. Abraham walked to an unknown land. These men were sustained by vision, not applause.
If you cannot endure the loneliness of vision, you will never enjoy the reward of vision. You must believe what God told you even when no one else sees it. Hebrews 10:36 says, “You have need of patience, that, after you have done the will of God, you might receive the promise.”
8. VISION SEEKS TRANSFORMATION, NOT JUST ATTRACTION
A true vision will not just aim to make you popular or successful; it will aim to make others better, to improve society, and to advance God’s kingdom. Vision is bigger than self. It is redemptive. It serves others. It adds value. If your vision doesn’t stretch beyond you, it is ambition, not vision.
STAGES OF A VISION
1. REVELATION – God reveals His purpose.
2. INSTRUCTION – Specific steps are given.
3. SEPARATION – You are separated from what limits you.
4. PREPARATION – You are trained and refined.
5. OPPOSITION – You are tested and resisted.
6. MANIFESTATION – Vision begins to produce fruit.
7. MULTIPLICATION – Vision spreads and multiplies in others.
QUALITIES OF A VISIONARY
Sensitive to divine instructions
Emotionally stable and spiritually rooted
Bold in the face of opposition
Willing to endure delays and rejections
Able to discern seasons and transitions
Passionate about impact, not applause
Willing to submit to process and authority
Consistent in faith, regardless of results
CONCLUSION
Vision is not a one-time encounter—it is a lifelong journey. It is God's plan being worked out through your life in stages. Vision is fragile in the beginning but becomes powerful at the end. The end speaks, not the beginning. It is not how it looks now, but how it will be when God is done.
Don’t abort your vision because of delay. Don’t discard it because of opposition. Don’t disobey because of pressure. What God has shown you will come to pass—if you stay faithful.
Ecclesiastes 7:8 (NIV) says, “The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride.” Vision is not about speed, but about staying in sync with God. Those who wait on the Lord will not be ashamed. The vision will speak—at the end.VISION INTRODUCTION Vision is the revelation of God’s purpose and plan for a person, a people, a generation, or even an entire nation. It is not ambition. It is not wishful thinking. It is not mere goal-setting. Vision is divine direction birthed by divine encounter. According to Habakkuk 2:2-3 (NKJV): “Write the vision and make it plain on tablets, that he may run who reads it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time; But at the end it will speak, and it will not lie. Though it tarries, wait for it; Because it will surely come, it will not tarry.” This reveals a key truth: NO TRUE VISION SPEAKS AT THE BEGINNING; IT ONLY SPEAKS AT THE END. WHAT IS VISION? Vision is the spiritual insight into God’s intended outcome for a life. It is not self-initiated but God-initiated. It is the mental and spiritual picture of your future that propels you with energy, courage, and resilience. Vision is what gives life direction, focus, and purpose. Without it, people live by reaction instead of intention. Proverbs 29:18 (KJV) says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” True vision is born out of divine fellowship. It is not created in the boardroom but received in the secret place. Vision is not what you want to do for God, but what God wants to do through you. It is the blueprint of heaven deposited in your spirit, commanding your alignment and action. KEY FACTS ABOUT VISION 1. TRUE VISION SPEAKS AT THE END, NOT AT THE BEGINNING When vision first arrives, it often looks ordinary, confusing, or even unrealistic. It rarely comes with applause or clarity. In fact, it often invites criticism, mockery, and rejection. Just like Joseph’s dreams, vision is usually ridiculed before it is respected. In the beginning, it may appear dormant or unachievable. But in the end, it speaks loudly and clearly. Vision is validated by manifestation, not excitement. 2. VISION REQUIRES PROCESSING Before vision speaks, it processes. The one who receives vision must be processed to match the weight of what God has revealed. Moses had the vision to deliver Israel, but spent 40 years in the wilderness being prepared. Paul encountered Jesus and then spent years in Arabia being equipped. God will never place a heavy vision on an unprocessed vessel. Between revelation and manifestation is preparation. 3. VISION THRIVES ON CHARACTER, NOT JUST CHARISMA It is not enough to carry power gifts like prophecy, tongues, healing, or discernment. These are important but not sufficient for the fulfillment of vision. The gifts may attract attention, but it is the fruit of the Spirit that sustains destiny. According to Galatians 5:22-23, the fruits of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control are the attributes that preserve the vessel and stabilize the journey. Many have received genuine visions from God but failed in character and collapsed in the process. Patience and long-suffering are especially critical because vision is a marathon, not a sprint. Without endurance, discouragement will abort destiny. 4. VISION REQUIRES TIME AND SEASONAL DISCERNMENT Vision is time-sensitive. No matter how accurate a vision is, if you try to manifest it outside of divine timing, it will fail. The power of vision lies in alignment with God’s schedule. Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, “To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” Misjudging seasons leads to premature exposure and failure. Vision must be walked out step by step, stage by stage. Just as a baby must crawl before walking, vision must mature before manifestation. Each season comes with its test. There is a season of silence, of rejection, of formation, and of visibility. You must discern them all. 5. VISION ATTRACTS ADVERSITY Every true vision will face opposition. In fact, opposition is one of the strongest validations that your vision is divine. Satan will not fight what is not a threat. Nehemiah’s vision to rebuild the walls of Jerusalem was opposed from every side. Jesus' mission was challenged from infancy to the cross. If your vision is truly of God, expect resistance—but also expect divine backing. Opposition is not a sign of failure but a test of commitment. Many faint in the day of adversity because their strength is small. Visionaries must be battle-tested, able to withstand storms, delays, betrayals, and discouragement. 6. VISION REQUIRES DISCIPLINE AND FOCUS Distraction is one of the deadliest enemies of vision. Many start strong but lose focus. Like Peter walking on water, they allow the winds of life to shift their eyes from the Master to the mess. Vision demands saying no to many good things to stay with the God-thing. It also requires the discipline of time, resources, and relationships. Not every opportunity is a divine instruction. You must guard your heart, your circle, and your energy. Vision flourishes in environments of purity and clarity. 7. VISION REQUIRES COURAGE AND RESILIENCE Vision will often demand that you walk alone. The early stages of vision may require loneliness, rejection, and misunderstanding. Noah built an ark with no rain in sight. Abraham walked to an unknown land. These men were sustained by vision, not applause. If you cannot endure the loneliness of vision, you will never enjoy the reward of vision. You must believe what God told you even when no one else sees it. Hebrews 10:36 says, “You have need of patience, that, after you have done the will of God, you might receive the promise.” 8. VISION SEEKS TRANSFORMATION, NOT JUST ATTRACTION A true vision will not just aim to make you popular or successful; it will aim to make others better, to improve society, and to advance God’s kingdom. Vision is bigger than self. It is redemptive. It serves others. It adds value. If your vision doesn’t stretch beyond you, it is ambition, not vision. STAGES OF A VISION 1. REVELATION – God reveals His purpose. 2. INSTRUCTION – Specific steps are given. 3. SEPARATION – You are separated from what limits you. 4. PREPARATION – You are trained and refined. 5. OPPOSITION – You are tested and resisted. 6. MANIFESTATION – Vision begins to produce fruit. 7. MULTIPLICATION – Vision spreads and multiplies in others. QUALITIES OF A VISIONARY Sensitive to divine instructions Emotionally stable and spiritually rooted Bold in the face of opposition Willing to endure delays and rejections Able to discern seasons and transitions Passionate about impact, not applause Willing to submit to process and authority Consistent in faith, regardless of results CONCLUSION Vision is not a one-time encounter—it is a lifelong journey. It is God's plan being worked out through your life in stages. Vision is fragile in the beginning but becomes powerful at the end. The end speaks, not the beginning. It is not how it looks now, but how it will be when God is done. Don’t abort your vision because of delay. Don’t discard it because of opposition. Don’t disobey because of pressure. What God has shown you will come to pass—if you stay faithful. Ecclesiastes 7:8 (NIV) says, “The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride.” Vision is not about speed, but about staying in sync with God. 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In this new week, I pray your business flourishes.
I pray customers pile up on your behalf to buy from you.
I pray you make so much money, much more than you’ve ever made.
This week is all about business expansion.
Your business will expand this week beyond your expectation.
Happy new weekIn this new week, I pray your business flourishes. I pray customers pile up on your behalf to buy from you. I pray you make so much money, much more than you’ve ever made. This week is all about business expansion. Your business will expand this week beyond your expectation. Happy new week
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“Don’t settle for someone who tolerates you. Wait for the one who celebrates you.” - Bimbo Odukoya
Whenever I remember this quote by the late Bimbo Odukoya, it fires me up.
Too many people are stuck in situationships, or what they consider relationships where they are merely tolerated. They walk on eggshells. They shrink themselves. They over-explain, over-apologise, and over-perform just to feel enough.
In a relationship, when you are being tolerated, it feels like you’re an inconvenience. Like your existence is being managed, not embraced. And that is not love. That’s endurance. That’s someone folding their arms, watching the clock, waiting for the version of you that’s easier for them to handle.
Now contrast that with being celebrated.
Celebration looks like someone who lights up when they see you.
Someone who leans in to understand you, not just put up with your complexities. Someone who thanks God for you, prays with you, laughs with you, and sees your presence as a gift, not a burden.
Real love doesn’t make you feel hard to love.
It doesn’t reduce you to your flaws or make you question your worth every two weeks.
And no, waiting for that kind of love is not asking for too much. It’s asking for what’s healthy. What’s God-ordained. What’s sustainable.
So, if you’re in a relationship where you feel like someone is just “managing” you, I challenge you to ask yourself this: Why am I settling for survival when I was created for a wholesome love experience? Kai.
And you see this type? It is not forced. If it is there, it’s there. If it is not there, it is not there.
The love that celebrates you exists. But sometimes, God can’t release that person because you’re still busy holding on to the one who only tolerates you.
Please, choose someone that celebrates you. Choose a love that makes you feel like you’re home, not a guest overstaying their welcome.
You are not too much. You are not a burden. You are a person to be loved loudly, fully, intentionally.
Wait for that. And while you wait, become that for yourself first.
“Don’t settle for someone who tolerates you. Wait for the one who celebrates you.” - Bimbo Odukoya Whenever I remember this quote by the late Bimbo Odukoya, it fires me up. Too many people are stuck in situationships, or what they consider relationships where they are merely tolerated. They walk on eggshells. They shrink themselves. They over-explain, over-apologise, and over-perform just to feel enough. In a relationship, when you are being tolerated, it feels like you’re an inconvenience. Like your existence is being managed, not embraced. And that is not love. That’s endurance. That’s someone folding their arms, watching the clock, waiting for the version of you that’s easier for them to handle. Now contrast that with being celebrated. Celebration looks like someone who lights up when they see you. Someone who leans in to understand you, not just put up with your complexities. Someone who thanks God for you, prays with you, laughs with you, and sees your presence as a gift, not a burden. Real love doesn’t make you feel hard to love. It doesn’t reduce you to your flaws or make you question your worth every two weeks. And no, waiting for that kind of love is not asking for too much. It’s asking for what’s healthy. What’s God-ordained. What’s sustainable. So, if you’re in a relationship where you feel like someone is just “managing” you, I challenge you to ask yourself this: Why am I settling for survival when I was created for a wholesome love experience? Kai. And you see this type? It is not forced. If it is there, it’s there. If it is not there, it is not there. The love that celebrates you exists. But sometimes, God can’t release that person because you’re still busy holding on to the one who only tolerates you. Please, choose someone that celebrates you. Choose a love that makes you feel like you’re home, not a guest overstaying their welcome. You are not too much. You are not a burden. You are a person to be loved loudly, fully, intentionally. Wait for that. And while you wait, become that for yourself first.
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TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT, WOMEN ARE NATURALLY GAMERS
Whether you know it or like it or believe it or not... weemen are natural Gamers, and they constantly play games on you (the man).
Sometimes they do it consciously with deep intent, and other times it just occurs to them and they do it innocently, and that's because Game is ingrained in their subconscious.
It is you the man who is naive and inexperienced that suffers it, and because of the many societal notions that have emasculated men and made them Simps for years... they fall into it and think they are in love, not knowing that the whoman in her mind is like...
"damn, so this man can be this ph00lish. Lol. See how I tricked him into believing the lie I told him. See how I tricked him into doing that thing he said he will never do again. Lol"
Ouh, you didn't know that a whoman has this conversation going on in her mind each time she manipulates you?
Weemen are more experienced in the dating game than men. I can bet my life savings on this. And because weemen are born with inherent value... that is why a young girl of 20 would keep getting male attention and favours.
From her teenage age when she started growing nyash and bress... men from different social class and economic status have approached and interacted with her, and she has since then developed a thick skin in the game.
Her experiences and interaction with men from all walks of life would make her Game rock-solid, and that is why sometimes you will see a girl who have rolled with big boys prefer to settle down with one broke, calm and gentle guy that she loves.
She didn't settle for money (of course he doesn't have money), but because she has tasted life and experienced different facets of it, and is now smart and wise.
But it is the innocent guy that I do pity, because this guy hasn't had as much experiences as the girl.
Because men are born with no value.... while an 18 year old girl's SMV is high and she has probably seen more cocks than a poultry farmer... the 27 year old boy was probably broke and struggling to build his own value. He couldn't enjoy a fraction of the luxury that she enjoyed in her prime.
And when she dates this guy... she uses her experience in the Game to deal with him, manipulate him and turn him into a Simp.
That is the reason why you MUST learn Game, because the girls and weemen you're going into relationships with... these people are NOT your mates.
If you go in with a blank skull and empty brain with no sense of Game... you are finished!
You might later come to my dm and ask me to hide your identity. Lol (this is true, but if you can spot the sarcasm in this line, I'd say you have a good sense of humor)TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT, WOMEN ARE NATURALLY GAMERS Whether you know it or like it or believe it or not... weemen are natural Gamers, and they constantly play games on you (the man). Sometimes they do it consciously with deep intent, and other times it just occurs to them and they do it innocently, and that's because Game is ingrained in their subconscious. It is you the man who is naive and inexperienced that suffers it, and because of the many societal notions that have emasculated men and made them Simps for years... they fall into it and think they are in love, not knowing that the whoman in her mind is like... "damn, so this man can be this ph00lish. Lol. See how I tricked him into believing the lie I told him. See how I tricked him into doing that thing he said he will never do again. Lol" Ouh, you didn't know that a whoman has this conversation going on in her mind each time she manipulates you? Weemen are more experienced in the dating game than men. I can bet my life savings on this. And because weemen are born with inherent value... that is why a young girl of 20 would keep getting male attention and favours. From her teenage age when she started growing nyash and bress... men from different social class and economic status have approached and interacted with her, and she has since then developed a thick skin in the game. Her experiences and interaction with men from all walks of life would make her Game rock-solid, and that is why sometimes you will see a girl who have rolled with big boys prefer to settle down with one broke, calm and gentle guy that she loves. She didn't settle for money (of course he doesn't have money), but because she has tasted life and experienced different facets of it, and is now smart and wise. But it is the innocent guy that I do pity, because this guy hasn't had as much experiences as the girl. Because men are born with no value.... while an 18 year old girl's SMV is high and she has probably seen more cocks than a poultry farmer... the 27 year old boy was probably broke and struggling to build his own value. He couldn't enjoy a fraction of the luxury that she enjoyed in her prime. And when she dates this guy... she uses her experience in the Game to deal with him, manipulate him and turn him into a Simp. That is the reason why you MUST learn Game, because the girls and weemen you're going into relationships with... these people are NOT your mates. If you go in with a blank skull and empty brain with no sense of Game... you are finished! You might later come to my dm and ask me to hide your identity. Lol (this is true, but if you can spot the sarcasm in this line, I'd say you have a good sense of humor)
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DON'T MARRY FOR LOVE, IT'S A SCAM, YOU WILL LOOSE
If You Marry for Love—You Are A Loser.
Marriage is not romance. It’s a strategic investment.
Let’s stop deceiving ourselves.
Love is not enough.
Romance won’t sustain you.
And marriage built on feelings will collapse under pressure.
Because marriage isn’t an emotional experiment.
It’s a power move.
1. Feelings Fade—Structure Stays
You’re happy today. Great.
But what happens when money gets tight?
What happens when you lose your job?
What happens when she wakes up and says, “I’m not in love anymore”?
If your marriage was built on butterflies, expect it to collapse once the wind changes.
Love is a spark. But marriage needs fuel.
Vision. Structure. Alignment. Sacrifice. Strategy.
2. If You’re 70 and You Marry 30—Your Household Is 50
Let’s talk logic.
You’re wise. She’s fresh.
But instead of raising your stock, she drops the average.
You’re thinking legacy—she’s thinking TikTok.
You’re building wealth—she’s building “influencer reels.”
(She’s not even ready to build it into a media business.)
You’ve seen war—she’s crying because you forgot to comment on her new selfie.
And now you’re stuck in a marriage that drags you backward.
Because you married vibes—not vision.
3. Marriage Is a Merger—Not a Movie
When two become one, it’s not about hugs and kisses.
It’s about merging empires. Consolidating influence.
Combining assets. Multiplying momentum.
Even the Bible said:
“One will chase a thousand, two will chase ten thousand.”
But what if the “two” is a liability?
What if she’s chasing dopamine instead of purpose?
What if she’s more obsessed with matching pajamas than matching values?
Now, you’re running with dead weight.
Fighting alone. Providing alone. Planning alone.
And she’s somewhere saying,
“I don’t like forcing things.”
4. Modern Girls Don’t Grind—They Ghost
Let’s be real.
Many modern women want:
• Love with no labor
• Comfort with no contribution
• Leadership with no loyalty
She wants a soft life—but won’t lift a finger.
She’s jobless, but has high taste.
She’s broke, but her demands come in six figures.
She says you’re stressing her mental health—because you asked about her career goals.
Try to build with her, and she’ll say,
“This isn’t flowing naturally. I need space.”
5.Her Submission Is a “Maybe”
Her obligations are “Optional”
Today’s woman wants:
• To reply when she feels like
• To submit if the vibe is right
• To bear children only when convenient
• To pause the relationship if she’s “not in the mood”
Any hint of hardship, she’s gone.
Any serious talk, she’s “emotionally unavailable.”
Any call for accountability, she’s “being controlled.”
And if you dare lead with firmness?
She’ll tell Twitter you’re a narcissist.
6. Dysfunction Is the New Normal
Many modern girls were raised in chaos.
Divorced parents. Absent fathers.
Traumatized mothers.
And instead of healing, they brought that chaos into dating.
So when you show up with purpose and structure?
She calls it “too much.”
She wants a soft man who’s strong.
A rich man who’s humble.
A loyal man who doesn’t ask questions.
She wants everything—but gives almost nothing.
So Here’s the Brutal Truth:
Marriage is a system.
If you don’t build it with strategy, it will collapse in drama.
Stop marrying for butterflies.
Start marrying for alignment.
For values. For vision.
Pick a partner who multiplies your purpose—not one who multiplies your pain.
Because at the end of the day…
It’s not who makes your heart skip.
It’s who helps you finish the race.
Marry wisely.
Remember—when it finally comes to a divorce, obligations are enforceable by law, but no one can compel her to keep loving you and riding your joystick that’s insisting she’s the best rider it has ever seen.
Speak with wisdom in the comments, I will like to have your opinions.
#marriage
#modernrelationships
#masculinityDON'T MARRY FOR LOVE, IT'S A SCAM, YOU WILL LOOSE If You Marry for Love—You Are A Loser. Marriage is not romance. It’s a strategic investment. Let’s stop deceiving ourselves. Love is not enough. Romance won’t sustain you. And marriage built on feelings will collapse under pressure. Because marriage isn’t an emotional experiment. It’s a power move. 1. Feelings Fade—Structure Stays You’re happy today. Great. But what happens when money gets tight? What happens when you lose your job? What happens when she wakes up and says, “I’m not in love anymore”? If your marriage was built on butterflies, expect it to collapse once the wind changes. Love is a spark. But marriage needs fuel. Vision. Structure. Alignment. Sacrifice. Strategy. 2. If You’re 70 and You Marry 30—Your Household Is 50 Let’s talk logic. You’re wise. She’s fresh. But instead of raising your stock, she drops the average. You’re thinking legacy—she’s thinking TikTok. You’re building wealth—she’s building “influencer reels.” (She’s not even ready to build it into a media business.) You’ve seen war—she’s crying because you forgot to comment on her new selfie. And now you’re stuck in a marriage that drags you backward. Because you married vibes—not vision. 3. Marriage Is a Merger—Not a Movie When two become one, it’s not about hugs and kisses. It’s about merging empires. Consolidating influence. Combining assets. Multiplying momentum. Even the Bible said: “One will chase a thousand, two will chase ten thousand.” But what if the “two” is a liability? What if she’s chasing dopamine instead of purpose? What if she’s more obsessed with matching pajamas than matching values? Now, you’re running with dead weight. Fighting alone. Providing alone. Planning alone. And she’s somewhere saying, “I don’t like forcing things.” 4. Modern Girls Don’t Grind—They Ghost Let’s be real. Many modern women want: • Love with no labor • Comfort with no contribution • Leadership with no loyalty She wants a soft life—but won’t lift a finger. She’s jobless, but has high taste. She’s broke, but her demands come in six figures. She says you’re stressing her mental health—because you asked about her career goals. Try to build with her, and she’ll say, “This isn’t flowing naturally. I need space.” 5.Her Submission Is a “Maybe” Her obligations are “Optional” Today’s woman wants: • To reply when she feels like • To submit if the vibe is right • To bear children only when convenient • To pause the relationship if she’s “not in the mood” Any hint of hardship, she’s gone. Any serious talk, she’s “emotionally unavailable.” Any call for accountability, she’s “being controlled.” And if you dare lead with firmness? She’ll tell Twitter you’re a narcissist. 6. Dysfunction Is the New Normal Many modern girls were raised in chaos. Divorced parents. Absent fathers. Traumatized mothers. And instead of healing, they brought that chaos into dating. So when you show up with purpose and structure? She calls it “too much.” She wants a soft man who’s strong. A rich man who’s humble. A loyal man who doesn’t ask questions. She wants everything—but gives almost nothing. So Here’s the Brutal Truth: Marriage is a system. If you don’t build it with strategy, it will collapse in drama. Stop marrying for butterflies. Start marrying for alignment. For values. For vision. Pick a partner who multiplies your purpose—not one who multiplies your pain. Because at the end of the day… It’s not who makes your heart skip. It’s who helps you finish the race. Marry wisely. Remember—when it finally comes to a divorce, obligations are enforceable by law, but no one can compel her to keep loving you and riding your joystick that’s insisting she’s the best rider it has ever seen. Speak with wisdom in the comments, I will like to have your opinions. #marriage #modernrelationships #masculinity
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1. If you want to own a house, you start by buying a land
2. If you want to own an empire, you start by growing your business
3. If you want to be fit, you start by eating healthy
4. If you want to be wise, you start by reading books
5. If you want to travel the world, you start by saving money
6. If you want to be happy, you start by being grateful
7. If you want to be wealthy, you start by managing your finances
8. If you want to be a good leader, you start by leading yourself first
9. If you want to be a good parent, you start by being a good role model
10. If you want to be successful, you start by taking small steps
11. If you want to be confident, you start by believing in yourself
12. If you want to learn a new skill, you start by practicing daily
13. If you want to be creative, you start by trying new things
14. If you want to be respected, you start by respecting others
15. If you want to build strong relationships, you start by being trustworthy
16. If you want to achieve your goals, you start by setting them clearly
17. If you want to be organized, you start by decluttering your space
18. If you want to be free, you start by letting go of your fears
19. If you want to make a change, you start by changing yourself first
20. If you want to run a marathon, you start by walking daily
21. If you want to start a business, you start by identifying a need
22. If you want to help others, you start by helping yourself first
23. If you want to learn a language, you start by practicing every day
24. If you want to be productive, you start by managing your time wisely
25. If you want to gain knowledge, you start by asking questions
26. If you want to be healthy, you start by exercising regularly
27. If you want to be at peace, you start by letting go of grudges
28. If you want to be strong, you start by enduring challenges with faith
29. If you want to be kind, you start by being kind to yourself first
30. If you want to make an impact, you start by being authentic
Success doesn't happen overnight, and achieving anything significant requires consistent effort. Whether it's owning a home, starting a business, or gaining respect, the journey begins with a single step. Don't get discouraged by the enormity of the goal ahead. Focus on taking that first step, then the next, and before you know it, you'll be well on your way to realizing your dreams. The key is to start, no matter how small, and stay persistent. Keep believing, and you'll see progress.1. If you want to own a house, you start by buying a land 2. If you want to own an empire, you start by growing your business 3. If you want to be fit, you start by eating healthy 4. If you want to be wise, you start by reading books 5. If you want to travel the world, you start by saving money 6. If you want to be happy, you start by being grateful 7. If you want to be wealthy, you start by managing your finances 8. If you want to be a good leader, you start by leading yourself first 9. If you want to be a good parent, you start by being a good role model 10. If you want to be successful, you start by taking small steps 11. If you want to be confident, you start by believing in yourself 12. If you want to learn a new skill, you start by practicing daily 13. If you want to be creative, you start by trying new things 14. If you want to be respected, you start by respecting others 15. If you want to build strong relationships, you start by being trustworthy 16. If you want to achieve your goals, you start by setting them clearly 17. If you want to be organized, you start by decluttering your space 18. If you want to be free, you start by letting go of your fears 19. If you want to make a change, you start by changing yourself first 20. If you want to run a marathon, you start by walking daily 21. If you want to start a business, you start by identifying a need 22. If you want to help others, you start by helping yourself first 23. If you want to learn a language, you start by practicing every day 24. If you want to be productive, you start by managing your time wisely 25. If you want to gain knowledge, you start by asking questions 26. If you want to be healthy, you start by exercising regularly 27. If you want to be at peace, you start by letting go of grudges 28. If you want to be strong, you start by enduring challenges with faith 29. If you want to be kind, you start by being kind to yourself first 30. If you want to make an impact, you start by being authentic Success doesn't happen overnight, and achieving anything significant requires consistent effort. Whether it's owning a home, starting a business, or gaining respect, the journey begins with a single step. Don't get discouraged by the enormity of the goal ahead. Focus on taking that first step, then the next, and before you know it, you'll be well on your way to realizing your dreams. The key is to start, no matter how small, and stay persistent. Keep believing, and you'll see progress.
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She is one of the best female broadcasting journalists in Benue State and Nigeria as far as I am concerned.
This is wishing you blissful celebration on the occasion of your birthday Tarkaa Shidoo .She is one of the best female broadcasting journalists in Benue State and Nigeria as far as I am concerned. This is wishing you blissful celebration on the occasion of your birthday Tarkaa Shidoo .
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ThisDay Newspaper is reporting that these four governors from the PDP are considering defecting to the APC to back President Bola Tinubu's bid for a second term, they are:
1. Governor Umo Eno of Akwa Ibom State.
2. Governor Sheriff Oborevwori of Delta State.
3. Governor Peter Mbah of Enugu State.
4. Governor of Rivers State, Siminalayi Fubara.
Hmmm...let's see how it goes...ThisDay Newspaper is reporting that these four governors from the PDP are considering defecting to the APC to back President Bola Tinubu's bid for a second term, they are: 1. Governor Umo Eno of Akwa Ibom State. 2. Governor Sheriff Oborevwori of Delta State. 3. Governor Peter Mbah of Enugu State. 4. Governor of Rivers State, Siminalayi Fubara. Hmmm...let's see how it goes...
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Love is a beautiful thing, that cohabit two to become one,my wonderful childhood friendship for life,I pray for you today yours will be among the best,the entire public you are highly honored to be there, Rice and stew de ooooh,we are going to be doing it party after party, congratulationsLove is a beautiful thing, that cohabit two to become one,my wonderful childhood friendship for life,I pray for you today yours will be among the best,the entire public you are highly honored to be there, Rice and stew de ooooh,we are going to be doing it party after party, congratulations 🌹🌹🌹0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 69 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση
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The prophecy of my greatest hero is being fulfilled today, and Gowon watches helplessly as his people are being slaughtered by his former friends and co-conspirators. I hope they rise to their feet and defend their land.
Be that as it may, Igboland and Ndi-Igbo shall be saved. In this regard, the need to find the murderous enemies before they find us cannot be overstated.
Agwo di na akirika. And you don't wait until it slithers into your bedroom.
As it concerns the dreadful plot of the Fulani against the natives of the West African geography called Nigeria today, the intelligence of Igbo intelligentsia then and now remains accurate. See lessThe prophecy of my greatest hero is being fulfilled today, and Gowon watches helplessly as his people are being slaughtered by his former friends and co-conspirators. I hope they rise to their feet and defend their land. Be that as it may, Igboland and Ndi-Igbo shall be saved. In this regard, the need to find the murderous enemies before they find us cannot be overstated. Agwo di na akirika. And you don't wait until it slithers into your bedroom. As it concerns the dreadful plot of the Fulani against the natives of the West African geography called Nigeria today, the intelligence of Igbo intelligentsia then and now remains accurate. See less
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They buried Chief Okeke at dawn, but by nightfall, his body was back on the veranda—eyes wide open, mouth full of sand, and flies buzzing around like he never left.
CHAPTER ONE
Nobody spoke. Nobody moved. The first person to see the body was Mazi Ude, the village night watchman. He screamed once—sharp and loud—then took off running barefoot through the red sand, shouting, “Abomination! Tufia! Chief Okeke has returned!”
People gathered, drawn by the noise. Old women clutched their wrappers tighter. Young boys climbed the guava trees for a better look. The elders arrived in silence, their faces heavy with meaning. They looked at the body, then at each other.
“This is not ordinary,” Elder Nwosu said, squatting beside the corpse. “The gods have rejected him.”
The corpse lay stiff, not smelling of decay, but of palm oil and dust. His eyes were open. His skin, cold. But the strangest thing? His fingers clutched at the earth, as though he had dragged himself out of the grave.
Chief Okeke wasn’t just any man in Umuama. He was the lion. The voice that roared during village meetings. The wallet that bought silence. The hand that fed both the church and the council. He rose from nothing. From the child of a poor farmer to a man whose house had twenty-two rooms and a compound wide enough to host a football tournament.
But in his rise, he spat on many things. Especially the old ways.
"These rituals are for fools," he would say. "We have churches now. Hospitals. Banks. What will kola nut do for me that money cannot?"
When his father died, he invited a bishop from Enugu, dressed in gold robes, who spoke in tongues. No kola. No egwú. No consultation. Just hymns, glass coffins, and photo banners.
The old men watched in silence. The dibia, Ezenwa, turned his back that day and said nothing.
When his mother passed, he hurried the burial again. Hired white caterers. Flown-in musicians. And when someone mentioned "Ikwa Ozu," he laughed. "My mother does not need dance in the grave.They buried Chief Okeke at dawn, but by nightfall, his body was back on the veranda—eyes wide open, mouth full of sand, and flies buzzing around like he never left. CHAPTER ONE Nobody spoke. Nobody moved. The first person to see the body was Mazi Ude, the village night watchman. He screamed once—sharp and loud—then took off running barefoot through the red sand, shouting, “Abomination! Tufia! Chief Okeke has returned!” People gathered, drawn by the noise. Old women clutched their wrappers tighter. Young boys climbed the guava trees for a better look. The elders arrived in silence, their faces heavy with meaning. They looked at the body, then at each other. “This is not ordinary,” Elder Nwosu said, squatting beside the corpse. “The gods have rejected him.” The corpse lay stiff, not smelling of decay, but of palm oil and dust. His eyes were open. His skin, cold. But the strangest thing? His fingers clutched at the earth, as though he had dragged himself out of the grave. Chief Okeke wasn’t just any man in Umuama. He was the lion. The voice that roared during village meetings. The wallet that bought silence. The hand that fed both the church and the council. He rose from nothing. From the child of a poor farmer to a man whose house had twenty-two rooms and a compound wide enough to host a football tournament. But in his rise, he spat on many things. Especially the old ways. "These rituals are for fools," he would say. "We have churches now. Hospitals. Banks. What will kola nut do for me that money cannot?" When his father died, he invited a bishop from Enugu, dressed in gold robes, who spoke in tongues. No kola. No egwú. No consultation. Just hymns, glass coffins, and photo banners. The old men watched in silence. The dibia, Ezenwa, turned his back that day and said nothing. When his mother passed, he hurried the burial again. Hired white caterers. Flown-in musicians. And when someone mentioned "Ikwa Ozu," he laughed. "My mother does not need dance in the grave.0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 179 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
THEY CALLED HIM A FAILURE. BUT GOD HAD OTHER PLANS
In 1991, he was fired from his job at a petrol station.
In 1995, he failed in business and was deep in debt.
In 1996, he lost his father.
In 1997, his girlfriend dumped him because he was broke.
In 1998, he applied for a police job, was rejected.
He tried to get into the military,they turned him down.
He applied to KFC with 24 others. 23 were accepted.
He was the only one rejected.
But today, that same man is one of the richest people in China.
His name? Jack Ma, Founder of Alibaba Group.
The man they said “no” to became a global inspiration.
Who told you it’s too late?
Who said you’re not qualified?
Who decided that your failure is final?
God writes the best stories with the worst beginnings.
So pick yourself up.
You’re not done. You’re just under construction.
And when God is done building you, even those who rejected you will recommend you.
Your story is not over.
Stay in the game.
Immanuela Nwaigwe FIMC, CMC
Women Development Coach/Management Consultant.
I teach women personal development and how to build 7 figure online brands with their knowledge, skills,experiences and expertise.zTHEY CALLED HIM A FAILURE. BUT GOD HAD OTHER PLANS In 1991, he was fired from his job at a petrol station. In 1995, he failed in business and was deep in debt. In 1996, he lost his father. In 1997, his girlfriend dumped him because he was broke. In 1998, he applied for a police job, was rejected. He tried to get into the military,they turned him down. He applied to KFC with 24 others. 23 were accepted. He was the only one rejected. But today, that same man is one of the richest people in China. His name? Jack Ma, Founder of Alibaba Group. The man they said “no” to became a global inspiration. Who told you it’s too late? Who said you’re not qualified? Who decided that your failure is final? God writes the best stories with the worst beginnings. So pick yourself up. You’re not done. You’re just under construction. And when God is done building you, even those who rejected you will recommend you. Your story is not over. Stay in the game. ©️ Immanuela Nwaigwe FIMC, CMC Women Development Coach/Management Consultant. I teach women personal development and how to build 7 figure online brands with their knowledge, skills,experiences and expertise.z0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 224 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση -
Manchester United are qualified to Europa League semi finals after a CRAZY game!
#manchesterunited #EuropaLeague🚨🤯 Manchester United are qualified to Europa League semi finals after a CRAZY game! #manchesterunited #EuropaLeague0 Σχόλια 0 Μοιράστηκε 120 Views 0 Προεπισκόπηση
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